Role-Reversal and Gentle Femdom General
-Collared Cutie Edition
ITT:
>related hentai
>greentext
>monster girls
>general lewdness
>dojinshi recommendations
>anime/manga recommendations
>preferably recommendations that are on-topic
>cuteposting
>vocaroos
>friendly discussion
Previous Thread: >>6549538
>What is Role Reversal?
http://rolereversalreader.tumblr.com/post/108492906077/finished-the-faq-for-relationship-role-reversal
New Map:
https://www.zeemaps.com/map?group=1618907
Old Role Reversal Map:
https://www.zeemaps.com/map?group=1239585#
FetLife Group
https://fetlife.com/groups/121948
irc channel: irc.irchighway.net , #gfd
/rr/ and /gfd/ megapastebins:
http://pastebin.com/7NfGfusP
http://pastebin.com/evbfjazh
http://pastebin.com/iQetqpH
Rusefemanon VA work:
https://soundgasm.net/u/Rusfemanon/
Writefags and drawfags welcome!
Kitsune story:
http://pastebin.com/KbnXtAbp
My manager is my mistress (non lewd) by SifSub
http://pastebin.com/TJAvFqgf
http://www.dlsite.com/maniax/work/=/product_id/RJ165291.html
Topic: Collars and cuffs how do the subs and dommes feel about them?
What are preferred materials for collars and cuffs?
Post related images obviously.
>>6554334
Absolutely love em. I would love a concrete way of knowing that I'm hers. I've always wanted to be pulled around on a leash as well, something about her keeping me in line sets me off.
>>6554334
Never worn one. I keep wanting to buy one for myself though, even if it's just something for me to wear when I'm on my own.
>tfw no dom to tell you which collars she thinks are cute
Love the idea of having a small dom parading me around the house or just pulling me around by a lead.
Reminder that everyone is valuable and deserves to be happy, even if they haven't found someone yet.
>>6554339
Same here. It's solid tangible display of being owned.
So leather or steel collar?
>>6554343
We /positive/ now.
>>6554334
love 'em
soft brown leather with brass buckles.
>>6554343
Thanks, reading that made me feel better, though I don't believe it.
>>6554343
True.
>>6554346
Sounds comfy
>>6554334
They're alright. I personally don't care much for them, but I can see the bedroom value in it. Would be fun every once in a while.
>>6554334
I'd be into cuff play. I like the idea of being completely vulnerable to someone and having them not hurt me because of it.
I'm not particularly into collar stuff, but it wouldn't take any convincing to get me to do it.
>>6554334
I got a new set recently, purple and black leather set with a set of cuffs and two collars. One slim, feminine one, one big manly one with studs and stuff on.
Already had my girlfriend wearing the little one, I'd really like to find a big bara sub to wear the big one one day.
Tell me about your first /gfd/ and /rr/ crushes.
Was it an authoritative older lady, like a teacher or a boss? Or a teasing and playful girl closer to your age, like an older sibling's friend?
Was it a shy skinny artsy boy, or that awkward scene/goth boy? An extremely polite and soft-spoken coworker?
>>6554334
I want a tight, elastic collar that I can feel while breathing (but isn't so tight that it makes breathing difficult). Matching cuffs and a cock collar would be glorious. Don't know if anything like that exists.
>>6554346
Trying! I've been feeling uncharacteristically optimistic and I want to share that.
>>6554352
That's OK, you just keep feeling better and I'll keep believing for you.
>>6554343
No matter how much I see stuff like this and how much I want to believe it, I just don't.
>>6554365
Girl my age I met who joined the army. Never heard from her again. I hope she's okay.
>>6554368
>uncharacteristically optimistic
How I wish I could be like this. Haven't felt optimistic like that in months. Even if deep down I know it's gonna be okay eventually, I'm just not feeling it.
>>6554368
I'm normally a pretty pessimistic person but your posts are kind of charming. Maybe it's the cute pictures.
>That's OK, you just keep feeling better and I'll keep believing for you.
Don't believe in yourself, believe in the me that believes in you!
>>6554365
Never really had one to be honest. Closest thing I've had was my most recent "partner". She was pretty dominant at first, would tempt me, play games and tease me, make me beg and then suddenly decided she wanted to be a total sub. Kinda sucked, was really confused by it.
>>6554373
What kind of girls have you met in the army?
>>6554380
I'm not in the army. She joined the army.
>>6554368
>elastic
I haven't seen one of those buy I've seen rubber ones that can be very snug.
>>6554372
>>6554376
I wouldn't have believed it either. I went through some awful depression, triggered by feelings of abandonment. If you keep feeling bad, look for professional help. You aren't alone at all.
>>6554377
I definitely don't get off on making people feel better...
>Don't believe in yourself, believe in the me that believes in you!
Exactly what I was thinking!
>>6554382
Oh, misread that.
>>6554373
A girl in my law enforcement class in highschool joined the National Guard. I guess she would be the closest thing to a gfd crush I had. She wasn't really outwardly dominant, in fact we had mostly similar personalities.
>>6554365
the girl who was 5'10...in sixth grade.
ended up being 6'2 by the end of high school I think. she gave me a piggy back ride once at a party.
>>6554334
I love collars, especially when my dom has me on a leash.
>>6554384
Is 8 years long enough? I looked for professional help a while back but it didn't help at all.
Part 5.
I was wondering, even if the guy is on top, would it still be /gfd/ and/or /rr/ as long as he's being pegged?
>>6554376
It's all good anon. I used to be severely depressed. I learned to be incredibly selfish and generally only care about myself or people I'm close to. Other people become incredibly optimistic and cheery.
Different strokes, different folks.
>>6554384
You're cool man. I've been hitting the rum for the last two hours and you're making me feel pretty chill.
>>6554397
I would think so. Post the rest please?
The renewed list is here.
Animated films:
>Garden of Words
>Kiki's delivery service
Anime/Manga:
>Witch Craft Works
>Freezing
>Madan no Ou to Vanadis
>Morobito: Guardian of the Spirit
>Monster Musume no Iru Ichijou
>Soredemo Sekai wa Utsukushii (The world is still beautiful)
>Akame ga Kill*
>Infinite Stratos
>Accel World*
>The Pet Girl of Sakurasou*
>Danna ga Nani o Itteiru ka Wakaranai Ken
>Tasogare otome x Amnesia
>Tonari no Kaibutsu-kun
>Gekkan Shoujo Nozaki-kun
Manga/Light Novel:
>Kono Onee-san wa fiction desu
>Unbalance x Unbalance
>Oyomegatari
>Sensei Lock-on
>Arakawa under the bridge
>Natsuyuki Rendezvous
>Otomen
>Tramps like us
>Hokago play
>Game Over
*/gfd/ is not the main focus of the story. Don't read/watch it purely for the /gfd/, make sure you enjoy it first and consider the /gfd/ a bonus.
Doujins: http://pastebin.com/5w7qgrM6
Some guys in the previous thread said Arakawa and Mysterious Girlfriend X shouldn't be on the list. I'll leave them on for now and see if more people agree. If enough people oppose it, I'll remove it from the list.
>>6554396
yes.
also consider medication, if you haven't tried it already. don't be scared of the side affects, you and your doctor can work it out and change the medicine if they're impacting your quality of life.
>>6554396
10 years here. I just decided it's never going away and I'll just have to live with it.
Though it's starting to hurt. You know that weird pain in your chest, behind your heart that isn't gas or anything like that? I get that a lot, and no it's not because I'm unhealthy, I'm quite the opposite.
>>6554365
He was a frail alcoholic posh boy with very pale skin and skinny wrists. Once I got drunk and pinned him to the floor and made him repeat after me that I was his physical superior in every way before I'd let him get up.
Shame that didn't work out.
>>6554384
>professional help
Not like I have the money to fork over. Almost all the money from my job's going to my car payment, gas & food, my parents are already paying off my student loans, car insurance, health insurance, etc.
I can't wrap my mind around why anyone is expected to pay for something like counseling or therapy, much less for cancer treatment, hip replacements, heart transplants... I dunno, maybe I'm just a kooky communist.
>>6554365
Can't really tell. I had a "girlfriend" in elementary school but other than that I've never really been romantically active. However, for as long as I can remember I've found teachers and older women more attractive than women my age.
>>6554397
>I was wondering, even if the guy is on top, would it still be /gfd/ and/or /rr/ as long as he's being pegged?
If you ask me, it's all attitude. A woman can be on top and still be submissive. Another woman can be on her knees giving her man a blowjob and still be entirely in control.
>>6554399
>I learned to be incredibly selfish and generally only care about myself or people I'm close to.
This is depressing.
>>6554383
Hmm, I'll have to take a look. Anything warm and snug that stretches would do the trick.
>>6554396
That's way too long. :-/ I tried different things for a year before finally giving antidepressants a shot.
>>6554397
It's all in the intention. Also repositioning yourself with something up your butt is wonderfully intense.
>>6554399
Aww gee. Don't drink too much! Just enough to get cozy.
>>6554405
Ah, you sound heartbroken. It's a bad feeling but kind of addictive.
>>6554407
Sure your health insurance doesn't cover mental health? Also, your parents sound like they care about you, I'm sure they'd be willing to help you pay for treatment.
>>6554407
>health insurance
usually if your insurance is any good then it'll cover seeing a counselor, who can also refer you to a psychiatrist :)
>>6554419
>Ah, you sound heartbroken. It's a bad feeling but kind of addictive.
But I've never met anyone to be heartbroken over. It doesn't really feel good or addictive. For some reason its making my limbs ache as well. I don't know why I feel like this.
>>6554365
Ok, here's mine.
-Really cool tomboy I knew in high school, captain of the girl's fencing team at some point. Really artsy and outgoing. Probably when I realized how much I like tomboys.
-One time in gym class we had to play one of those annoying tag-like group games because the teachers didn't know what else to do with the students. When I got out a girl who was a year behind me started teasing me hard, calling me tag boy, telling me not to be shy and join her in some game, hung around me a lot and giggled whenever I spilled the spaghetti. She may have been bullying me but I never saw her snicker with her friends, and she was generally cool to me besides that.
>>6554406
That sounded qt.
>>6554404
>medication
No. I'd rather be sad and know what I'm dealing is real than take meds and run away from reality. Deficiencies are different, but artificially creating happy feelings in my head is something that's never going to happen.
>>6554405
I know the feeling you're talking about. I think it was after about four years that started happening and the suicidal thoughts came on really strong.
>>6554423
> I'd rather be sad and know what I'm dealing is real than take meds and run away from reality
Good. I'm glad. Meds ruined my life and made me miss out on a lot of things because I stopped caring about them. They don't make you any happier either, they just make you not kill yourself.
Yeah that feeling is new for me, only within the last year. I started off with the thoughts, then the meds took them away and I have them again, but with this shitty new feeling.
>>6554413
Yeah, I worded that poorly.
I'm not that selfish. Hell, I sent someone 30$ for pizza the other day and I'd only had about 20 words of conversation with him.
I don't know, I'm pretty fuckin' weird with how I treat people. Maybe sheltered is a better word that selfish?
>>6554419
I'm pretty cozy, wrapped up in a blanket, shit posting and watching crappy movies.
Unrelated - I miss being in education. I gave me chances to meet different people. Now I'm in work I just see the same people every day. How do you guys meet people?
>>6554423
>but artificially creating happy feelings in my head is something that's never going to happe
Yes but brain chemistry is a frail thing that can be easily adjusted. How is that fake?
>>6554419
They already help me so much in so many ways, I already feel at times like I'm being a burden on them. Whole family's been strapped for cash since the recession, how much more am I gonna ask for?
I really hope insurance can cover something. How much of it, I really don't know. Really worried I'd end up having to pay a bunch out of pocket anyway.
>>6554432
>Deficiencies are different,
If I'm missing something needed to make happy juice I'm willing to obtain that something. I'm not willing to take something that forces happy juice to be made.
>>6554407
>Not like I have the money to fork over.
Sucks living in the US. I started going to a therapist and it's free. The only problem is that the sessions can be a bit short and apparently it's going to be once every two weeks.
>>6554436
But what if that's the only way? Sometimes there are no natural ways to stimulate the body to make needed chemicals.
>>6554443
Not him but it's not perfect. There's no way to get the exact amount needed at the exact time, and the unintended results are often worse than just dealing with it, at least in my experience.
>>6554443
If there are no natural ways to make me happy then I'll be unhappy. I'm not going to live a lie.
>>6554423
Do what makes you feel comfortable. I was worried that medication would change my personality but that hasn't been the case at all.
>>6554429
Really sorry to hear that. Mind if I ask what medication it was?
>>6554434
Definitely find out what your coverage is. Sometimes your provider has a website that can tell you your benefits and help you find in-network doctors.
>>6554436
Some people like ice cream but can't handle dairy without medication. You just have to decide what is more important.
>>6554440
Yes it does. I feel like the longer I live here and the more I learn about this place the more it drives me fucking crazy.
>>6554403
I suggest FLCL
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ceTgUezZIc0
>>6554460
>what medication it was
Tried Fluoxetine then Sertraline. Low dose, high dose, it didn't change anything.
>>6554460
I feel like comparing an allergy to dairy to me not wanting to live in a fake world is a poor comparison.
>>6554455
But anon, most people are already living a lie anyway, we've been doing so since the dawn of western "civilization". Come along and join the rest of us as we lead ourselves to our own extinction!
>>6554403
While i havent looked up on any of those, i'm wondering if there are any that are not supernatural and have a realistic plot? So far all of them seem to be.
>>6554471
This maybe a little left field, but do you have cheaply made fillings? Some fillings contain trace amounts of mercury that in some people can cause nigh incurable depression.
>>6554484
I have perfect teeth.
>>6554485
Didn't intend for that to sound arrogant, sorry.
>>6554484
Why the fuck is there a big guy holding a scroll in the back of that image?
>>6554487
It's okay anon. I still love you all.
>>6554488
Wizard statue
>>6554471
>fluoxetine then sertraline
these are shit drugs to be fair
try effexor or escitalopram/lexapro
>>6554481
I haven't watched/read all of them, but from the ones I've read/watched I can confirm that the following are non-magical/supernatural in nature:
>Garden of Words
>Kono Oneesan wa fiction desu
>Unbalance x Unbalance
>Oyomegatari
>Sensei Lock-on
>Game Over
>>6554484
>tfw fillings in a bunch of my teeth
You got me scared now, anon. I don't think they were cheaply made but still, you got me freaked out now.
>>6554492
Effexor is mainly for anxiety, which I don't have. Lexapro is also an SSRI. I really don't want to go down this road again.
>>6554491
Pretty sure it's Satan encouraging those innocent girls to be lesbians.
>>6554473
I understand. I personally don't feel like I'm living in a fake world, I just feel less pain/anxiety/depression/fear (which is all "inner world" stuff, if that makes sense). You could try meditation or exercise, really helps some people. Anyway I'll stop, I don't want to hassle you.
>>6554492
Paroxetine reporting in. Had a brief period where my dick didn't work right, kinda sucked but now it's fine.
>>6554499
I do both excersize and meditation.
>>6554499
I've been exercising for almost 3 months now practically every other day, and yet it doesn't seem to help with the awful mental state I've been in for the past month. I guess I could try meditating as well.
>>6554499
>brief period where my dick didn't work right
ED? What exactly was the problem? Just curious.
>>6554511
Not him but I had a similar problem. Complete ED, no feelings of attractiveness towards anything either.
>>6554497
Effexor is not mainly for anxiety, it makes anxiety worse. Lexapro is an SSRI but it may surprise you that it's a different drug with different side effects which is why it's marketed under a different name.
If you don't like it, you don't have to take it. But you do owe it to yourself to try.
>>6554514
>tfw no slobbish Misato onee-san to cook for and clean up after
>>6554363
>one big manly one with studs and stuff on
jeez, that sounds great. ESPECIALLY on a qt bara sub.
>>6554401
Sure.
>>6554546
>>6554548
>>6554546
These are amazing BTW. Exactly the sort of relationship I'd like to be in, although I'd have to pretend to be hesitant about pegging.
>>6554549
>>6554551
>5'4
>dom
Dream material right here.
>>6554334
I like that stuff. Bondage things in general. No better way to lose control.
>>6554365
My stepsister had a friend who took a liking to me. She would make me sit in her lap and would playfully slap my butt whenever she got the chance. We got along pretty well too. Then my stepsister caught us making out one time and things got weird. Were still friends tho. Just not more than that.
>>6554550
>I'd have to pretend to be hesitant about pegging.
Ditto.
>>6554551
And this is the one that comes before the page I posted on >>6554397
>>6554550
Thank you! It started as a study of a relationship with good communication and in the way it actually helped me realise a few things to improve my own relationship, haha
>>6554558
>It started as a study of a relationship with good communication
I was just about to ask you to keep including panels/strips with sex talk. It's like the hottest part.
>>6554550
>>6554557
I'm quite lucky that the domme I've been playing with has already said that they'd like to peg me at some point. Just working on stuff with each other and getting to a point where we can make it happen logistically.
>tfw a guy compares you to Ronda Rousey
d-did I make it gfd
is this how I find a qt bara sub to mother the shit out of
>>6554563
that's pretty freaking cool, Ronda Rousey is badass. good luck!
>>6554563
Shit, you're gonna make some guy happy as fuck.
>>6554365
Oh gosh I think I just figured myself out. I have an older cousin who I pretty much had a crush on (I was only six years old). She would talk to me like an equal but she'd also tease me about my height by resting her arm on my head. Sometimes we'd walk to the corner store and she'd buy me ice cream. I really want to recapture that feeling.
>>6554365
He and I were the two "gifted" kids in our tiny rural school. We spent a lot of time in "independent study", aka the teacher made us go to the copy room and read the encyclopedia and other reference books. We talked a lot about stuff. We even made our own version of D&D. He understood be being teased for being a tomboy because he got teased for being a "sissy" (he really wasn't that girly, he just didn't like sports).
Our siblings played sports together so we'd be left alone to explore the forest while they were at the ball field. Lots of childhood wrestling and I would always win.
Had no classes together in middle school and fell apart a lot. Reconnected a bit in high school. But at that point I'd "fallen in with the wrong crowd" and had to keep up a badass imagery so people didn't kick the shit out of me for dating girls. Everyone, including him, probably assumed I was a lesbian.
We met on a major fluke about four years ago. I was in the city to write my LSAT and he went to the university it was being written in and was doing a summer internship. I had no makeup on, in sweats (which I almost never am), hair was a total mess. And he was in a suit. I could have died.
I really couldn't stay to talk, I was running late. But he had a bag of oatmeal cookies he'd made himself for his lunch and he gave them to me to eat during the break for good luck and walked me to the building so I wasn't late trying to find it.
I actually sent him a card through his mom (who my mom still sees sometimes) thanking him. I aced the LSAT, got into my first choice school. But after he graduated he moved to another country to work for some big engineering company. I know he makes a lot of money now and I'm still scrapping by while I do my articling.
This has made me miss him so much.
>>6554563
knowing that there's a gfd girl who actually gets compared to rousey makes me so happy
but at the same time i'm not bara at all sigh i just want to get thrown around
>>6554574
Similar experience with some friends of my older sister. I understand the feeling of liking someone older who takes you seriously.
>>6554580
That was a wonderful little story, thanks for sharing. I'm sure he appreciated the card.
>>6554580
I was also in gifted ed. I think I had crushes on nearly all the girls in the program, especially the really serious ones.
>>6554603
That was one thing I always resented in school, people using "serious" as an insult.
Also my face kind of just looks stern. I'm a pale brunette too so I'm like a boss character all the time. I'm not mean, I swear.
>>6554563
You made it. I'm still super dyel but working on it with Stronglifts. I just wanna be an Amazon but will always be 5'6"...
>>6554365
Had a girlfriend towards the end of highschool who was ~2 years older than me and we referred to each other as little brother/big sister etc. Shit like that.
Was also crazy, in the bedroom and the rest of her life. Constantly talked about wanting to peg me, would often cuff me to the bed and edge me with two fingers in my ass. Among other things.
Was a fun time but the aftermath was NOT worth it at all.
Everyone always told me I looked really angry in highschool. To the point where my law enforcement teacher pulled me off after class a couple of times to talk to me about it. I just with people would have tried to connect with me more.
>>6554626
Lady knights are better anyway...
>>6554626
As someone over 6 foot, being sub to someone that's not only shorter than me but potentially stronger than me sounds amazing. I wouldn't worry about being 5'6.
>>6554626
Ah, the dreaded "bitch face." I personally see it as a challenge to make a girl smile. I don't want one of those sluts who will smile for just anything.
Has for height etc; just find that guy that makes you feel like an amazon. I'd gladly have a five-foot girl lord over me.
She walks over to me, throws me on the bed, takes her clothes off and pushes her pussy in my face.
>"Forces" me to lick it
>I start licking her
>Im flicking my tongue on her clit, she is moans in passion
>I go around the lips, back on the clit, back around same way, back on the clit, then full circle and repeat
>She tells me im a good boy
>I go around and flick, then push my tongue in her pussy and flick it back immediately
>She cums vocally
She moves down
>Starts passionately kissing me
>Licks my nipples
>Teases me down my stomach
She leads me down the bed on my knees
>Starts rubbing her feet on my dick
>Lovingly talks me through it
>I cum over my belly
>She laughes, clearky statisfied and turned on
A man can dream.
>>6554626
>>6554647
Feeling those "serious" expression feels. Everyone always told me how sad looked even when nothing particularly bothered me. Got lots of "why so serious/sad, anon?" questions back then. Might be why I smile a lot about silly things nowadays.
>>6553887
Thank you for posting that. What you went through as a child was completely wrong and nobody should have to suffer through that. That kind of withholding of empathy is nothing but harmful, especially from the people who are supposed to be there for you in life.
In a really weird way I can relate to what you said about parents screwing with you emotionally. When my parents were happy with me they'd swear up and down that I could be a better painter than Michelangelo without any practice, and when they were mad I was an annoying disabled immature weirdo who was going to be messed up for the rest of his life. Eventually I had to take everything they said with a pile of salt.
What you describe as a good relationship is exactly what I'd like, but what I've been told my entire life is unrealistic and impossible. I will admit part of it is me being lazy and not wanting to mess up, but another part of it is a feeling that anyone I date could do better than me. Why would I want to fight to keep a girl with me and my issues when she could be happier with someone else? That isn't even getting into GFD with mountains of subs for dommes to pick from. Either I'm up front about who I am and get passed over, or I lie and have more of that for however long the relationship lasts.
That isn't getting into what a huge deal breaker it is to have an almost exclusively insane family. Not insane in an emo they won't let me drive the Mercadies way, but insane in a "grandpa owned a nazi uniform, uncle basically murdered his dad, the holocaust is a lie and other grandpa is vocally worried about the government sponsored Mexican invasion of Napa" way. I can't completely separate myself from them, because they claim my life will fall apart without them helping me with it. Given how much they lie, I don't know if that's true.
Pushing through all of that to find an intelligent and attractive girl who likes me better than anyone else doesn't seem like it would be worth the effort.
Aww, all you poor serious girls. Where I live everyone is always wearing a fake smile, I can't stand it.
>no stone-faced girlfriend that I can read like a book and play like an instrument
>>6554674
>a feeling that anyone I date could do better than me
I struggle with this, too. But I'm realizing that I assume too much about what others want from a relationship. Poking around FetLife made that pretty clear. I'm sure there's a girl out there for you. Maybe with an equally crazy family and a need to share some gentle, unpoisoned love.
>>6554674
>another part of it is a feeling that anyone I date could do better than me
I definitely get this. The guy I have a crush on right now is just so much smarter than me. He works harder. He's achieved more. He has his issues (anxiety, probably borderline autism) but he's so bubbly and friendly. But every girl he dates turns out to be an asshole.
And yet I can't see us together because he'd eventually realize what a fuckup I am and dump me.
I just hate feeling inferior constantly. Thanks for sharing, Anon. I definitely know what it's like to have a fucked up family. I constantly think that no matter who I bring home, a girl or an rr boy, they'd leave me after they saw my family.
>>6554677
I've discovered at least the stone face is good for practicing law. Having a very serious default expression helps when a judge is grilling you. I can be completely at a loss for words and still look like I know what I'm doing.
>>6554403
I got a real awkward /ss/ boner during the Alessi arc of JoJo, on the topic of anime
>>6554785
>>6554708
>>6554674
Do it. Taking the risk and getting disappointed is better than being stuck with that god awful thought of "what if?" lingering in the back of your head.
Yes, I've been turned down quite a bit but I still feel it's worth it.
>>6554785
>But every girl he dates turns out to be an asshole.
Well in that case at least you wouldn't be a low point. Go and save him from his terrible taste in women already.
>>6554785
>And yet I can't see us together because he'd eventually realize what a fuckup I am and dump me.
If he has anxiety issues I doubt he'd be ready to judge people as beneath him like that. I'd think he'd be more worried about measuring up, himself.
>>6554708
I wouldn't have believed you if not for the person who posted under you. There definitely are people who have awful families and want a good relationship. The trouble for me will be getting physically away from my family once I can afford to.
>>6554785
Thanks for being so empathetic.
I don't know if this will make you feel better, but I'm a friendly, bubbly guy with a 4.0 GPA, have done things I've proud of, and have anxiety and a communication disorder like I said. I wouldn't care at all if a girl I was dating had a screwed up family, because having a screwed up family doesn't make you screwed up. Don't sell yourself short either. If you're a practicing lawyer and holding your own in the courtroom even when you're at a loss, you are a smart person.
I can't speak for the guy, but you are not a fuckup and having a bad family doesn't make you one. When you do bring someone home, they could be the kind of person who snuggles you when you're feeling sad and talks about how they completely understand. Even if they don't know firsthand what it's like to have a screwed up family, they can know that you're fantastic and aren't defined by your relatives.
>>6554800
I don't have an it to do! There aren't any girls in my life I could realistically ask out, and I'm living with my parents at 20.
>decide to make an fl account to see if there are any munches in my area
>there is
>see who's going
>they're ALL fat
>fucking all of them
>except for one who has wax on her tits
This is the life I've made for myself. If I cut out my testes will I still want to be in a relationship with someone?
>>6554825
So? There's hotels and other ways to go about this. Who knows maybe the one to catch your attention will have an apt or house!
>>6554828
Honestly FL isn't a very nice place. I wouldn't judge a munch without going at least once.
On that note has anyone checked meetup.com to see if it has GFD or maybe just bdsm groups?
>>6554821
Thanks for the shoulder, Anon. It's kind of anti-rr in that he's also a lawyer (well, we're both articling to become lawyers) and we're just on totally different paths. He's specializing in corporate and I spend a lot of time talking to drunks. Mind you, my boss loves to trot me out to clients because I went to a good university and I'm usually the only person in the office dressed nicely enough to meet clients.
And, of course, we now live a couple thousand miles apart. But we made plans for a Christmas meetup when I'm home and I already found him a perfect gift.
gfd story about the two of us:
>No idea how the topic at the house party turned to strength but it did
>Crush: "Bet you can't lift me."
>He's like 6'1" but skinny as hell, maybe 160lb
>been working construction with my dad since I was like twelve
>immediately get him into bridal carry and hold him easily
>everyone thinks it's hilarious
>I carry him around for like twenty minutes while he holds my whiskey glass and feeds me liquor when I ask for it
Woke up the next morning hungover and dying of embarrassment. We never talked about it again.
>>6554853
That's why my family is a problem. If I tried to move out without them wanting me to, they'd blackmail me into staying "because they want me to have a good life." I wouldn't put identity theft or forced institutionalization past them. I'm going to play along until my life is separate from theirs.
>>6554862
see image
>>6554865
I'd say tell them off. Seriously if they can't take a hint call them all fucking morons and walk out on them when you can support yourself.
Worse case get a court order against them to leave you the hell alone.
We need to make a RR/GFD dating app. Call it "Pegboard".
>>6554862
>that fucking story
Not big into stronk girls but damn.
>>6554862
See? You went to a good university, dress better than everyone else in your office, and your boss is using you to impress clients. You're definitely smart and accomplished.
That story is adorable and you're really brave to GFD him at a party like that. At least you know he isn't opposed to it, since he let you carry him around and fed you whiskey when you asked. I still can't speak for him, but from what you said it sounds like you're in good position with him aside from the distance. If you got him a gift you know he's going to love, it's going to improve.
>>6554871
My plan is to walk out when I can support myself, but I can't now. They're paying for college and I'm only in my second semester.
>tfw just took one of the best nudes of my entire life
>realized I had no qt to send it to for the first time in over a year
sigh
>>6554891
Are you trying to make me ask for your nudes? Because it's working.
>>6554896
yes/no/i don't know i'm so confused but also horny
this general will destroy me if i post nudes again though
>>6554906
>>6554907
you alright there friend
>>6554910
No.
>>6554906
Well I'd like to help you become more/less confused, even if you have to send them to me personally to ogle.
>>6554913
what's the deal
>>6554917
I'm fucking insane and I know it.
>>6554915
fuck it i'm in the mood i guess
do you have a throwaway email or
>>6554925
Oh hell yes. Full disclosure I'm a guy who like both girls and cute guys.
>>6554929
o then no
>>6554923
Thanks.
>>6554933
Why no? Out of curiosity.
>>6554853
How do I find out about munches outside of fl?
>>6554944
I do not want to send my nudes to men
>>6554952
*sigh* that's not helpful. :/
>>6554963
Think of how prevelant social media is these days. It won't be hard to find something with a bit of google-fu.
>>6554967
Already looked.
Out damned name field
>>6554334
I wouldn't mind wearing a collar if I love the person I'm with. Would send a strong enough message that I'm hers and that she wants me.
Then again, I seem to get turned on just from the idea of someone wanting me so I dunno.
>>6554976
This is yaoi
>>6554988
FUG I think you're right. Baleeted.
I'm drunk and feeling sad. anyone want to talk?
>>6554994
I love talking, Fire away.
>>6554994
I'll talk too, at least between floors in Binding of Isaac. Unfortunately I'm scraping the bottom of my picture barrel.
>>6554994
Writing Final paper but I can lend a ear.
>>6554994
Eh I'm around.
>>6554999
BoI is fun, I just wish I had the time to earn my own way to Real Platinum God. I wanted the items though...
>>6555002
I think it's more reasonable to get RPG in the expansion. Had an insane Lost run earlier with Glass Cannon, Polyphemus, Whore of Babylon, and Death's Touch. I was taking out multiple rounds in Greed mode with one shot.
>>6554994
If you meant talking someplace else, you can message me, but just about everyone here is willing to talk either way.
>>6554996
I went to my grandparent's 50th anniversary party stag and got real sad when the romantic slow dance music came on so i started hitting the free liquor a bit hard. Feels like no one wants a hairy bara man around here.
>>6554994
Do you want to sit on my lap anon while I rub your back and tell you tales of soviet-Capital shift in the 80's-90's along with the horrors it brought?
>>6555006
>hairy bara man
I mean, they're more popular than you're probably thinking. Much more.
Also, pardon the ignorance, but what is
>stag
>>6555004
I mean, I just like sitting down and playing a game every now and then. I don't have the time, especially with the various girls, dommes, etc I'm involved with at this point, to grind for shit. So I grabbed a save just before Afterbirth came out.
>>6555007
that would be nice. there was a cute girl in one of my classes that was studying the rise and fall of the soviet union. I tried asking her out without success.
>>6555002
>>6555004
>tfw have BoI on Vita
>been trying to get all Lost achievements before Afterbirth is ported over
>finally cleared boss rush hard
>die to isaac in the most stupid way possible
Well, at least the difficult part is done.
>>6555011
>I don't have the time, especially with the various girls, dommes, etc I'm involved with at this point, to grind for shit.
are you trying to make me sad (jk)
>>6555010
stag means to go without a date.
>>6555017
It sounds...well kinda like how it is.
I have a switch who's been topping me, but they have four partners and damn near no free time.
There's a girl I'm going out with Monday who I've been flirting with a while via text.
There's someone i've been doing an online thing with.
There's another person who's interested in subbing for me.
It's complicated and I'm having to use a Google calendar just to keep my weeks straight. Multiple people for lewd/kinky things sounds great, but it's a lot of juggling. Esp for me, an introvert.
>>6555021
>Esp. for me, an introvert
How did you even end up in your current situation anyway?
What the fuck am I doing wrong
>>6555018
Oh. I've never heard that before.
But I dunno man, the sappy music always gets me. Especially in a situation like that, where there's probably couples everywhere. Were there lots of people there?
>>6555021
Juggling sucks, but it has it's perks.
Some days I'm glad it's not legal for me to drink yet. Because I'd end up a fat slob.
Other days I really don't care. Like today.
>>6555024
>>6555026
The online girl is someone who I befriended on IRC ages ago. We got to doing some lewd roleplay and both of us really enjoyed it, to the point where we decided we wanna pursue more.
The girl who wants to sub for me irl I met on IRC as well, then we hung out at a few local kink events. They know I have a decent amount of strength and knowledge enough of where & how to hit a person, so there's that.
The next was also (hurr durr) IRC. Went to a party at their house and talked with them a lot. Lots of flirting led to hanging out a lot. And now we're trying to schedule play and hanging out in-between their four partners.
The last I met at a munch at random, chatted for a while, and they gave me their number without my prompting. We've been chatting and flirting a lot online, and maybe there will be more if she's ok with poly stuff.
What I"ve done is just talked to them a lot, flirted, worked on building friendships, then getting to a point of exploring more. The one with four partners, we're not in a dating thing, but hell, that's just because they have FOUR PARTNERS. They barely have time for that, haha.
Just become friends with people you like and be honest about what kinda relationship you want? Idk, I've stumbled into literally everything.
>>6555012
I was only a teen, but I can tell you stewed meat and macaroni every night was one hell of a treat!
>>6554563
>/gfd/ girls getting your hopes up
Why does it hurt?
>>6555034
I don't even understand how to get into situations in which there are like-minded people around me like that. I don't even know where to go or what to do. I don't even have any real hobbies anymore besides coming on the internet like this and doing what I'm doing right now.
Or how to ask someone to hang out later. Or carry conversations without all the small talk. Or get contact info. Without being wretchedly awkward and nervous.
FUCK
>>6555051
It was six or seven months doing stuff in my local kink scene before any of this happened. And...come to think of it, everyone has given me their data. Not really the reverse. I can ramble on which helps me, but I'm totally awkward as hell.
The person who's helped me build up the most confidence though, is the domme I've been playing wtih...who has almost a kink for awkward people. So yeah....
>>6555028
over 100, but they were all relatives. when everyone started slow dancing it made me feel really sad. there was a mariachi band that was playing the most romantic stuff and i had no one to share it with. Ive never danced before but at that moment i felt extremely alone.
Here's some reading material for tonight, /gfd/.
http://www.whatiscodependency.com/10-tips-to-spot-emotionally-unavailable-emotional-unavailability/
>>6555012
You couldn't ask her because you ran out of time? I can tell you being on the fall part of it wasn't exactly fun or "Free" as some made it out to be. A time of having too much of one useless thing and having too little of something really useful. I'm no Vatnik, but I can say now is the best time despite useless sanctions.
>>6555055
Man I would feel so fucking weird going to one of those kink events, or munches, or whatever you call them, especially by myself. What are they even like, most of the time? I'm sure it depends on the occasion.
>>6555074
Munches are just like any other group meeting, food, drinks, ect.
>>6555074
>>>
Munches are just people hanging around eating, talking, relaxing. Parties are often similar, but with play going on.
I've gone to a lot alone. The one I met the girl I'm seeing Monday, I went with someone else, but we weren't like, attached at the hip the whole time.
The party I refer to where I first hung out with the domme who has many partners was a casual kinda thing, just a house party, not really a play party.
>>6555071
>Your date may hint or even admit that he or she isn’t good at relationship or doesn’t believe in or isn’t ready for marriage. Listen to these negative facts and believe them. Ignore vulnerability, bragging, and compliments.
Jesus fuck
>>6555080
Fuck it, I'm going to check out one of these munches. Worst case scenario I never see any of those people again.
You guys ever have the one friend that just likes to casually dom you or for some reason in my case take the mother role without much consent?
>>6555089
No
>>6555088
Good man! I wholeheartedly recommend them!
>>6555088
Yeah I may have to do the same thing. I'm sure FL has plenty of shit.
>>6555071
Seems to be b8 to me m8
>>6555084
I was more talking about the 10 things after that. But that one works too.
>>6554334
I want BDSM fags to go
>>6555101
But femdom falls under the BDSM spectrum, gentle or not.
>>6555101
GFD is a bdsm subset, ya dingus
>>6555102
Gfd != femdom
Read the FAQ.
>>6555072
it was a year ago. she was cute but she was not all that into me. much like the russian population on communism
>>6555092
Then I shall not share! but in synopsis close friend of mine has taken to the mothering role after watching me go through four failed relations, tried to get her to stop but now it's elevated to struggle snuggle and questionable status of my strength.
>>6555104
Which one? There's only an faq for /rr/.
>>6555100
Oh wow, I didn't even get to that part.
This is some crazy shit.
>Are you angry at the opposite sex? Do you like jokes at their expense?
>>6555105
Eh, that's debatable I mean a good chunk of us wanted something similar to the Soviet state still as a way of not giving up entirely on the system but that was ignored promptly especially with the constitutional crisis. I'm sorry to hear that, but I'm sure there are others no?
>>6555109
At least you guys think it's ridiculous. I was really worried I was a complete piece of shit for a bit there.
I mean, I am. But MORE of a piece of shit than before.
>>6555112
I mean there are bits and pieces in there that make some sense, but shit like those ten "red flags" is absolutely ridiculous. It's basically telling people to look for perfection and anything less is a red flag.
>>6555110
there was another girl in the writers club that i met right after but i fucked up because i was still feeling like shit from being rejected by the first girl
>>6555129
forgot an image. getting rejected three times in semester struck a huge blow to my confidence. I just gave up on finding someone who would like me. only within the past couple of months have i been feeling up to building a relationship.
>have a friend who gives me JOI weekly
>every time she tells me to shoot right into my mouth, or, worse, lick it up
>tried it once
>super slimy and the saltiest thing on earth
>spit it out the first time despite her saying to swallow
>haven't been able to do it despite her telling me weekly
>just tell her I do it
Do you eventually get used to it or something?
I don't wanna change my diet just because I wanna eat my cum
>>6555172
Wow, hands to you man I couldn't do it even if my friend collects it in her palm and tries to get it in my mouth. You don't have to change your diet though.
>tfw no gfd gf to sing sweet songs to
I just want to serenade a strong lady
heres my image, forgive the blogpost
It's been ages since I've come here, it's usually such a lovely place. I haven't read the thread but I hope I don't see any shitposts on the way down.
>>6554365
She was a girl I met on my middle school's academic team when I was in the seventh grade. She was in the grade ahead of me. I always looked up to her--she was smart, pretty, and cared for me like a big sister.
I fell for her during the state championship for our academic competitions. I was the captain, and she'd always be so supportive of me between rounds, and we'd go off on our own and talk as well. When we were walking back to the bus after the whole thing, she put her arm around me, and that's when it happened.
She would often tease me, and call me her husband, since in a play we were in, we got married.
In high school, she became the highest rank in the schools' JROTC; she looked so good in uniform.
In high school, though we were still friends, we didn't talk as much, but there were times where I felt close to her. I was always too beta then to make any moves, though I had all the chances in the world.
We're at different colleges now, and it's probably been a year since I had any contact with her. I've mostly moved on but I think about her sometimes.
>>6554365
She had to be the only woman I've met and gotten to go out with that honestly just, for the lack of words, "drained" me. Like her presences just sucked the energy out of me for some reason like I was big 6'3" but she towered over me, lorded over me with her height and weight. Her chubby and yet, fit body kept me intoxicated specifically when she wanted me to roll over like some pet nd take her loving, fighting back was pointless my arms would turn to noodles as soon as she got ahold of my wrist...God I miss that broad.
>>6555249
>tfw no operator gf who will indefinitely detain you for plotting terrorist attacks on her heart
>>6555249
>>6555306
As far as I know, these three are the only ones in the set.
>>6555172
Start by licking up the precum mid-session. It'll help you ease in to the taste and texture. Also I'd just ask her to help talk you through it instead of lying. Then it's more personal.
>>6554590
>>6554626
I'm not as big as her or anything, I just look a lot like her in the face and I lift so when I posted a progress pic in a workout group, someone said I look like her. Still, it made me super happy.
>>6555050
What do you even mean?
>get job few months ago
>now new car
>feels like i'm getting shit in order and being real adult
>still no one to come home to and cuddle with and get pats from and cook for and worship
why even both ;-;
>>6555094
Why is this position so amazing for paralyzing guys?
>>6554551
>5'4
>1.4m
Not quite sonny
>>6555368
I think he's supposed to be teasing her.
>>6555172
Eat more citrus, it tastes bad because your diet's bad.
>>6555371
With what? Bad metric conversions?
>>6555336
You can't become a proper husbando without practice. Try cooking and cleaning for yourself first. [spoiler]That's what I'm doing[/spoiler]
>>6554540
>normally he doesn't let anyone touch him
Alright, I hnnng'd.
Sauce?
So petplay eh? You guys know theres already a thread for that, right?
>stumble across a hot friend on fetlife
>he's interested in femdom
IT
BEGINS
![tumblr_nsvfjlZi3O1tty0zlo1_500[1].jpg](https://i.imgur.com/s6TRTf3.jpg "tumblr_nsvfjlZi3O1tty0zlo1_500[1].jpg")
>>6555597
good luck
>>6555373
Yep, he's teasing her. I originally wrote 1.50 but changed it to 1.40 to make it more obvious. Though I guess he doesn't know what's the formulae to convert feet to cms either, but he is able to tell she's somewhere close to 1.60.
Who /beingusedfortheirbody/ here? I have a friend who I have been in love with forever and we've hooked up a few times, but she's always said no to a relationship because 'it might ruin things'. But whenever she has relationship troubles we end up hanging out at my place and she get's really aggressive with me.
Just last night she was "on a break" and we watched some netflix to help her feel better and then she just hopped on top of me and rubbed herself against my crotch. She ended up finishing on her own and then cleaned up and left with nary a word. I feel like this is how girls who are booty calls feel desu.
Any tips for breaking out of the cycle?
>>6555647
Have you tried asking her to stop?
Do you not want anything physical with her?
>>6555647
http://www.whatiscodependency.com/10-tips-to-spot-emotionally-unavailable-emotional-unavailability/
Kill her.
>>6555650
She started out last night by saying "I'm having bad thoughts" all flirty and I said "Well let's just watch another episode of Trailer Park Boys instead!" because I honestly am feeling tired of falling in that cycle.
But literally in the middle of the episode she just got on top and I couldn't stop myself... I feel so not in control when she's like that.
>>6555647
>Just last night she was "on a break" and we watched some netflix to help her feel better and then she just hopped on top of me and rubbed herself against my crotch. She ended up finishing on her own and then cleaned up and left with nary a word.
sue her for rape
>>6554365
She was a year younger than I was, surprisingly, quite a bit shorter, me being about 5'10" her being maybe 5'2-3". She was just that girl that seemed like she had her shit together and she was planning on going into the marines. I had honestly felt like we had a connection until a christmas party at the end of 2011 where her feelings about me changed on a dime.
It was like something out of a bad movie, instantaneously she went from sitting in my lap to wouldn't even look at me for the rest of the night. Still was never told why, but I heard that she now identifies as male so that's the reason I tell myself.
Anyways, shit took a turn for the worse and it took me until mid 2014 to stop feeling sorry for myself. I've tried to get my life on track since. and might have found another girl who seems like she might be RR. I hope.
>>6554384
could you/someone post the other ones
Also
>avoid meat
U avin' a giggle?
>>6554384
also
>recommending no weight lifting
>doing deadlifts with a dumbbell
>picture of deadlift is actually Romanian dead lifts
>thinking bodyweight leg extensions do anything
>increased estrogen and decreased test results in lower bodyfat
>thinking no fap does fuck all
>being so weak that you need C25K
10/10 triggered
>>6555622
The question now is how aggressively can I pounce on him without being a creep.
Bearing in mind that my girlfriend is also intrigued by this and we're finna tag team him.
I sorta think we might terrify him.
O well. WWRD (what would Rachnee do)
>>6555964
>getting tag teamed by two girls
why the fuck do i go in these threads all they do is make me sad
>>6555969
Why don't you just have a nice wank instead of getting sad about it?
Alternatively, move to the UK and be a muscular masochist with a nice smile. We'll bite. Probably. See how the homomancy is waxing that day.
>>6555990
i can't get off without someone else honestly
but
>muscular masochist with a nice smile
actually fits me fairly well and i'm probably headed there in august actually??
>>6555006
I know that feeling.. tfw 6'2 and look like Bigfoot. Feels bad,especially when most gfd porn has these hairless cute boys,meanwhile I look like king kong
>>6555653
Hmm sounds like you're her "safe place" I.E. an emotionally supportive and there to help her relieve sexual frustrations, but instead of this being a good thing you're getting boned because she's not giving you the serious relationship option because she's afraid it'll fall apart and she'll have one less reliable person in her life.
>>6555964
>WWRD (what would Rachnee do)
Gag him before he can say "No, means no"?
>>6555996
Oh cool, whereabouts?
>>6556014
Hmm, probably, but I'm not sure I can rope as fast as she can silk. I'll work on that!
>>6556020
I'm trying to climb a buncha mountains in the UK and also go to glasgow and london but I'm not 100% sure yet!
>>6556059
You should read the /fit/ sticky
![tumblr_ne75h2CsAh1sihuk3o1_500[1].jpg](https://i.imgur.com/kbV7dxk.jpg "tumblr_ne75h2CsAh1sihuk3o1_500[1].jpg")
>>6556059
Just do starting strength
>>6556014
Sounds more like he's her "emotional tampon"
>>6556059
I always find it funny when people say cardio is worthless.
Having a strong heart is important. Do cardio if nothing else. You're not looking to get big for cuteboy aesthetics.
Light resistance training and cardio is the best for just about anyone unless they're looking to be some sixpack fag.
>>6556059
If you want something gfd based, do deadlifts until you get too muscly+some bodyweight stuff for your abdominals obliques etc (google plank/pushup progressions) and then keep up with the bodyweight stuff and do weighted hip thrusts for cute buns. Correct for muscle imbalances as needed, but by the time you get to the point where you might want to stop with the deadlifts you'll be fairly comfortable doing it on your own.
Focus on lifting more each time you work out, try not to go much higher than 8 reps and no lower than 4. If you find yourself stalling on a lift or a movement, try doing an exercise that isolates one of the weaker muscles used in the earlier lift/movement for a while and coming back to it.
>>6556090
You don't magically get big overnight, but if you do the main lifts you'll get better posture.
>looking to be some sixpack fag
...this is far from incompatible with cuteboy aesthetics
>>6556090
oh also strength training builds your heart almost as much as cardio does, with the advantage of not having that really horrible scratchy short of breath feeling that running gives me.
