Feels thread, if anyone is willing.
>>695279577
just told my mother that I dont love my father. now im worried its gonna hinder things in the future.
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>engaged to be married
>I don't want to invite my mom because she's married to this abusive guy
>the guy hates me with all of his guts because I didn't fall for his bullshit
>everyone else is enamored of him
>I love his daughter, she's like a little sister to me and I want her to be my flower girl
>don't know what to do because I'll regret it if my own mother isn't there, despite her choices
>will regret it if my sister isn't there because I love her and she's the only good thing from my past with them
>feelsbadman
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my advice, invite them all. then also invite a few bros to be 'security'. if he looks like hes going to ruin the wedding, kick him out, and you get not only the joy of having your mom and sister there, but the awesome feeling of knowing you kicked him out of ur wedding.
as long as he doesnt interrupt the actual ceremony thoguh, doe sit really matter? Like think about it, he can just be a face in the crowd.
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This. Anon you are a genius
>have a dog
>was married to an abusive asshole who kicked around the dog
>finally worked up the courage to divorce
>struggle with depression
>finally get a little bit better and sing again
>dog had had behavioral issues with anyone but me because of this
>started singing the first time in forever
>he came over to me and laid at my feet and listened to me calmly for hours
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are you the original guy or just a random anon who agrees?
>>695281011
I worry because the slightest of things will send him into a boiling rage, like say if something were to happen to spill and when he gets mad he throws shit and slams things around like a man child and I worry this would happen.
>>695282063
I'm the original, that was just an anon who agrees.
>>695281840
thats a sweet story
>>695282227
ah thats what i figured, as fun as it sounds in power fantasy, anyone in the situation might find it too complex or uncomfortable. id jump at the chacne with my own father but yeah.
>>695282166
have you considered letting it happen? imagine if you will you invite them, you're at the rehearsal dinner, he throws a fit cuz a dirnk spills, then three bros escort him out and the dinner goes on.
i have a small scar on my chin, but im otherwise one very sexy bastard. its almost as if the scar isn't whats important.
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Nah im just a random Anon.
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I don't know. I have to think about my mom. I don't want his abuse with her to go from emotional to physical, like it had done with me and if he got mad enough at being removed...
>>695283018
this sounds like a non wedding issue and more a life one. take the wedding out of the picture, and what do you want to do?
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thumbnail looks like a weird bra on a fat girl
>>695283431
I want her to leave him but she won't. I want to be able to do something but I don't know what to do.
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maybe you gotta be stern. how badly do you want this? enough to let mom move in with you?
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F44DBpIyAh0
>>695283922
Of course, that's not a question. But she didn't believe anything was wrong with him, even after he suckerpunched me when I was 14.
>>695284241
thats rough. ur moms almost the bad guy here.
but it does seem a bit to me like you WANT to be conflicted here.
if you dont like him, dont let him go, and know that its the best you can do to open your moms eyes to how bad he is. and if you DO let him there, just know hes going to not say much when you assign him the farthest fucking table and knows theres no talking during hte ceremony. and anything he does bad just makes people understand how bad he is. you get to be the center of attention no matter what
Please don't let this thread die; it's all I have tonight and I really need to cry
>>695284604
You're right, anon. Thanks. I'll think about it more, but I'll probably invite him.
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good luck man. just have security bros to be safe.
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The world breaks everyone and afterward many are strong at the broken places. But those that will not break it kills. It kills the very good and the very gentle and the very brave impartially. If you are none of these you can be sure it will kill you too but there will be no special hurry.
>>695284684
sorry i missed ya man. dont worry, im going til my i run out of images.
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>Wherever we go we do harm, forgiving
ourselves as wheels do cement for wearing
each other out. We set this house
on fire, forgetting that we live within.
>I dont hate the world I just havent found a reason to love it yet.
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>>695286443
isnt looking for a reason reason enough?
also
>needing only one reason
there are many.