Relationship advice
I have known a girl for a bit over a year, we fucked on a beach when we were both travelling and she confessed it was the greatest moment of her life. We spent two weeks together. We tried long distance for a bit but we were literally on opposite sides of the planet. We kept in contact and would talk or skype around once a week. She travels a lot, she came to my country for a wedding and we had an amazing few days and fucked, it was amazing. She went home again and wanted to come live with me.
She came to my country but this time my grandmother was sick. I saw her for a day and I told her I wanted to be just friends. She met a guy while she was here. She stayed for a couple of months. Before she left she told me she missed me and kept texting me to meet up. We did and we fucked.
Then she told me she had feeling for a guy she met when she was here, we still spent a week together and explored the city and had a lot of fun as friends.
Now she's home again and planning a trip which coincidentally overlaps with one country I have been planning to visit for a while now.
What should I do?
go and meet up with her you fuckwit
/thread
>>695215864
even though she claims I'm "friendzoned"?
>>695215612
DIe in a fire normalfag
>>695215864
This.
>>695216020
If you like her as a friend, where is the problem.
Also there are still chances you'll fuck again.
>>695217639
>Also there are still chances you'll fuck again.
But don't try to provoke it.
If she wants to, do it, if not, not.
>>695215612
not related to thread but
I nominee those as the most perfect tits in the history of mankind
>>695216995
/thread
>>695215612
She's low quality and not that faithful. Fuck only if that's what you're into, but I say go spend your time, energy, and resources on better things like yourself, work, and find someone else if you're looking to settle down with someone.
if you love this bitch, put everything on the table. show your feelings and tell her you love her. if she loves you back, good luck. if she doesn't, she's not the one.
>>695217840
how are these?
>>695218033
Should I send this, tear it to pieces /b/
femanon,
I'm going to be totally blunt and honest.
I know you felt something special here in the past, and that's in the past and you've moved on.
Life got in the way for me when you were in [my country], and I put your happiness ahead of my own.I thought you would be happier in [the city she wanted to spend time in] than with me when I was going through a lot of shit. I wanted the best for you.
I wouldn't even attempt this if I didn't know for sure I would be the best at it; that I could make you happier than anyone else.
We never got a chance to do this right.
Life is absolutely what you make of it.
Life got in the way of us spending some real time together in [my country]. If you want to take control
of life and fuck the hand we were dealt then let me know.
For now I'm going to get on with my life and see where we both are at in the future.
Moving on and with a clean slate.
I'm heading to Vietnam with my friend in a few months, we're going to buy some motorbikes and ride across the country. I don't know when yet or for how long. Then I'm thinking I'll see my friend who works at the embassay in Myanmar for a while, then to India [she'll be in India]. Then I have no idea where.
If this coincides with your trip, and if you're interested in meeting up somewhere overseas, seeing if there is something still there. If not I'll let it go.
I wouldn't even be saying this if I didn't know you were worth fighting for.
>>695218314
also tits
>>695215864
>/thread
ok you dumb summerfagging nigger, you don't /thread your own post. please for the love of god, lurk more. and if that is to much for you, i suggest having kys on your t-do list
>>695218281
meeh compared to OP's pic related
I mean.... just look at those things
>>695218314
Tldr
>>695218926
OP bumping with more
>>695215612
You need to find this guy she likes and suck his dick immediately. You should make her jealous then an hero. That will really fuck with her mind.
>>695218314
sounds pretty good OP. but idunno if you should be letting her know your future plans. unless you really want her knowing. up to you
>>695219173
those are yummy too
got more of the same girl? >>695215612
>>695215864
this
>>695218926
those?
>>695218497
is there more of her pussy somewhere
>>695219503
fake boobs
>gross
Wife her
just fuck her when she comes and find another girl close to where you live.
no use creating unnecessary drama with her or the guy she likes or whatever.
fuck her, get a girl closer to where you live.
/thread
>>695219589
Op here, I've just got what I've got
>>695219315
you think it would be bad her knowing my future plans? I was kinda ghosting her when she was here and now she's kinda ghosting me. However nothing is going to get resolved if we ghost each other.
>>695219819
>>695215864
samefag
>>695219819
I can get a girl closer no problem, but she is the girl I want and I like to travel.
>>695219950
kk
meet up,
fuck,
forget the past move on
>>695218314
femanon+bike trip
lot of laught
>>695219609
>>695219173
found those too in my folder
>>695215612
Meet with her.
Dude, you are over complicating the situation. You've had casual sex multiple times, and in today's world you can keep in contact. Even if you aren't bf / gf, you can still have fun and enjoy your time together. From the sounds of it, she's willing to be adventurous and most likely has casual sex with other dudes.
If I were you, I'd just go with the flow, you never know where it will lead to in the future. Just be good company.
>>695220074
well son, your life's gonna be heading straight to fucktown if she's who you want.
trust me, forget about her, think of her as someone you know, and can fuck, but that's it really.
>>695219911
>nothing is going to get resolved if we ghost each other
do you want something to get resolved? sounds like that's what she's already done. ok OP tell me this: what are you trying to get out of this relationship?
>>695220088
please read >>695218591
nice gets btw anons
>>695218314
Desperate letters never work, dude. Just stop talking to this dumb bitch and fuck someone else. By the way, she didn't know it at the time, but she was lying when she said your first fuck was the best moment of her life.
>>695220353
she was coming here to live with me, and life got in the way and I had to tell her no.
I want something like that.
>>695220405
Well that's what I'm asking, is this a desperate letter?
>>695220405
>>695220278
i agree with these anons. fuck that whore OP
>>695220405
ps, nah it was fucking amazing and it was the best moment
>>695216020
If you've been fucking your not friendzoned. She most likely made up or exaggerated the relationship with the other guy to keep you hooked.
>>695220684
but what have I got to loose?
>>695220605
Yes, because you contradict yourself in it.
>For now I'm going to get on with my life and see where we both are at in the future.
>Then I'm thinking I'll see my friend who works at the embassay in Myanmar for a while, then to India [she'll be in India].
Oh wow how convenient that you're going to the same place she'll be. Nope, you're not going out of your way at all.
Do yourself a favor and fuck someone else. She already is.
>>695220353
*tips fedora*
Thanks m'lady ;-)
>>695220906
I'm aware I contradict myself, I do it intentionally, to ease into the conversation then to talk about what I actually want the conversation to be about.
>>695220901
for fucks sake OP. staying with this bitch ain't gonna make things better. she's already controlling you with her vagoo. i could tell that a relation wit her is NOT gonna last at all. you should just find a chick in your country that's local.
>>695221163
You're not being some master manipulator here. She knows exactly what you're doing and it comes off as cringe, not romantic.
>>695221163
Left isn't a real ginger check the carpet
>>695221500
yea, we know
>>695221431
So what should I be writing?
>>695221786
nothing, dumbass. cut all communication with her
>>695215612
TL;DR:
1. fuck a girl from the opposite side of the planet
2. friendzone her
3. fuck her again
4. she confesses love for some random Chad
5. brag on 4chan about going to fuck her for the third time
>>695221933
>>695222246
you forgot the last one
6. OP is a faggot
>>695216020
Nigger, you have no idea what the friend zone is.
>>695221875
but I want something to happen
>>695222731
yeah I have no idea what it is. So? What is it? This? Not this?
>>695221786
Agreed with >>695221875
Just go on your motorcycle trip and live your life. If she wanted you to be a part of her life, she'd make an effort to see you. Therefore, she doesn't need to know (and definitely doesn't care about) your future plans.
Ghosting each other is a resolution, too. It just may not be the one you want, but it is a resolution. It's no big deal, man. These kinds of things fizzle all the time.
>>695223101
I'm going to live my life anyway. But I want to see her again.
>>695220952
>>695223101
>>695223367
and she did make an effort to see me, she flew around the world to see me. I just had to shut her down at the time.
>>695223367
You're actually not entitled to seeing her again. And "honest and blunt" navel gazing cringe letters will especially make sure that never happens.
>>695222823
Get over it
>>695223506
Oh, in that case, since you've rejected her once already, I'm sure she's ready to get burned by you again with open arms. Let us know how that ends up working out.
Are you sure you like this chick, OP? You don't make her sound very intelligent.
>>695223657
OK, so I'll cut that line out.
>>695223997
She is intelligent, there was a point where we were both in love with each other as she put it "emotionally, mentally physically"
>>695224262
>OK, so I'll cut that line out.
That's not the only line that's cringe, dude. The whole letter is. Highly recommend you do not send anything.
>She is intelligent, there was a point where we were both in love with each other as she put it "emotionally, mentally physically"
Great, but you've already demonstrated you weren't by rejecting her, remember? You don't get a second chance at this by guilting her into it with a dumb letter. This isn't that hard to realize once you get over yourself.
>>695224694
>Great, but you've already demonstrated you weren't by rejecting her, remember? You don't get a second chance at this by guilting her into it with a dumb letter. This isn't that hard to realize once you get over yourself.
so it's impossible to fix?
Just be with her you dumbfuck, she's trying to get a reaction out of you and make you jealous. Either go with her ask her straight up if she wants to pursue a relationship. If she has "feelings" for a guy she met for only a few weeks then she's lying. If not you just dodged a bullet, if not then just say I don't want to play this long distance/ I want you but I like this guy, but then I like you too bullshit. Just read the summary for Vampire Diaries because this is almost the same plot. Either just be friends and go fuck some other bitch to make her jealous/move on. Or try to form a relationship with her.
>>695225052
>Or try to form a relationship with her.
so how do I do that if I can't send her a message, since we live nowhere near each other.
>>695215612
Okay she doesn't have fucking feelings for this guy and yet still feels for you and fuck you. Don't date a girl that will sleep around while in a relationship. Seems like her and that guy are dating and she's cheating on him with you. Don't date a cheater because sooner or later she'll do it again.
>>695225028
It's already fixed! You two are ghosting each other. Maintain that until she reaches back out, if she ever does. Then you can try rekindling the relationship. If she doesn't, then oh well. At least you didn't send some cringe letter.
Seriously, just think about the scenario that would happen if you sent that garbage:
>sends letter
>no response
>reaches out via text in another fit of desperation "hi, f-f-femanon. did you g-get my letter?"
When does the cycle end, dude?
>>695225501
no he ended things with her but she still likes him.
>>695225702
so how do I write a non cringe letter where I tell her I'm travelling at the same time she is. How do I organise to meet up with her when we live so far away?
>>695223367
Then say "I'm sorry I shut you down, I didn't know where life would take me since you are as free spirited as me" or some crap like that. Honestly I think you just want closure not rekindle something you shut down. Just tell her that you missed her too and that you love her and always will, then tell her I'll be traveling the world to live my life, just like what you did. You can ask if she wants to come or if she tries to stop you then she cares and etc... also has she shown proof of the other guy OP?
>>695225443
Then either both of you move in together, if none of you are willing to compromise and just be lazy shits then don't bother.
>>695225719
Then why the hell is she coming back to you then? What made her end things with the other guy? These questions are the things you need to question. Also she's going not tell you everything and tell you half truths so pretend with me here that most of what she told you is bullshit.
>>695226329
But ultimately we need to talk about it, so how do I talk about it without sending a "cringe" letter?
>>695226534
He ended things with her.