:(

Dont give a fuck about self bumping

i can tell you my sad story, i dont think it is that sad now, i look at those time and see myself as a total fggot.

>>694546747
I just broke up w my gf a few minutes ago after realizing she had cheated on me months ago Right when I was thinking about marrying her. I feel you /b/ro

>>694547177
She always said she loved me and then today just phoned me and said she "wasnt ready"

>>694547260
Fuck man im so sorry :(

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Gf is useless. Only goof for sex. Friends are more important.

>>694546747
Lucky fucker I'm married with kids I wish my wife would Fuck off

>>694547429
Dont listen to him

>>694546747
you do and it aint her faggot.
time erases all faggotry.
fucking shame, but there ya go.

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>>694547323
same happend with me, well here it goes.
>2015
>june, winter in my country
>cold af days
>hangingout with friends
>she was there
>she was nervous when she was around me for some reason
>it was late i was freezing so i decided to head back home
>she stopped me and said she needed to talk with me
>before this i was looking at her everyday, i was starting to like her
>well she told me she liked me and some stuff
>what.png
>on my way home there was a shit ton of stuff going through my head
>at my house now
>listen to tool because i didnt know what to do
>text her
>went smooth
>we both liked eachother

cont.

>>694547507
Do the rest of us anons a favor and please try to put up with her, maybe take her out and do something nice. For all you know you might be the next anon greentexting about his failed marriage and life, signing off with a goodnight /b/

Saw my friends go through this shit and i tell them not to worry about girls at your age too much but now i know how it feels :(

>>694547812
Yeah i was just kidding around you know how it is grass is greener on the other side and all that shit but at the end of the day if I didn't love my family I wouldn't be here

>>694548106
To be honest it was mostly her stopping me from doing it but now shes gone

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>>694546747
>when i was just starting to think i had something to live for

OP, you do not live for women. Women live for us. Pursue your passion with conviction and women will follow.

The best women are those who seek to support you in your life's mission. If you make them your life's mission, there is a good chance that they will turn away. I do not know why.

What I do know is that women want a man who is strong. What I mean by that is not necessarily strong in a physical sense, but strong in their direction, values, and integrity.

Be confident, OP. More will come.

Friends are more important

>>694548585
wrong

>>694548565
I know but its the fact that im doing shit in life aswell its not helping

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>>694548619
agreed

>>694548619
Well i can just go get high with my friends so there's that. she did bring good weed though

>>694548619
no, hes correct. family first, then real friends if you have any.

>>694548682
Wish i could own a gun

>>694548871
Love first. Love is the most important thing. Not restricted to romantic love.

>>694548871
Yeah they aren't the ones who walked away

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>>694547800
cont.

>we were hangingout for like june and july
>suddenly she stops texting back
>i got confused
>she ignores me for some reason
>still confused
>wondering what i did wrong
>august.
>too depressed to care about stuff anymore
>think about suicide
>my birthday is coming
>29 of august
>i told my friends that i wasnt shure about making a party
>they told me to cheer up
>i made a party anyways
>nothing loud
>just me and my bros playing games
>i felt so happy that day, that i forgot about her
>fast forward
>april, i have a GF now
>my bro has a party
>shure why not
>went with my best friend
>we were late because i live far from the party
>when i got there she was sitting on a couch alone and staring at me
>she scared the shit out of me with that fucking look in her eyes, like she was dead
>turn around and ignore her
>after getting drunk and high she comes up at me
>we need to talk
>notthisagain.jpeg
>she told me she was sorry for all the stuff she did to me in the pass
>bullshit
>she told me she didnt mean to all the damage she did to me
>in my mind i am thinking, tell her to fuck off
>but i was so drunk that i told her everything was ok
>she started crying
>my dumbass drunk brain tought it was a good idea to consolate her
>oh my god
>3/4 of the party spent with her
>everyone told me that i should be with her and stuff
>get worried about her because she said she liked me
>she asked me if i could dump my actual GF for her
>i didnt know what to do at that point so i just said goodbye when she was about to leave
>the next days we texted eachother again

cont.

>>694546747
Dude. It's gonna be okay. Occupy yourself with stuff to do and keep a lookout for opportunities. We're here if you wanna talk.

>>694548954
its not hard man i got 5, as long as i can resist the urge to put them in my mouth I'm good

>>694549141
Would love an m14

>>694546747
Dude, you are putting too much into your relationship. You have to feel like you want to live for yourself before you can be in a place where you can successfully be in a successful relationship.

>>694549408
You can never put too much into a relationship

>>694549077
She always told me she loves me and we had this weird shit going on for literally a year and now we were finally going out she says she's not ready and kept apologising. And i always thought she was more ready than me

>>694549318
Shit son. U lest ye be canadian the best you can get is an M1A. Pretty similar but people always praise the m14 for some reason or another. Look on gunbroker for any peeps seeling an m1a near you

>>694549408
No it's that i don't wanna sound edgy but i always thought that i was a bit different from the others and shit. i felt people are always laughing behind my back and shit and her saying she loves me made me think i wasn't socially retarded

>>694549072
Cont pls

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>>694548659
Bro focus on what you're doing. The first week is always shit. I just recently broke up with my gf who I have known for 5 years, we were together for ~2 years. It gets better.

You guys clearly had some differences. If you feel you made mistakes, learn from them, and strive to become a better man. If you feel that she was the cause of the problems, learn from them, and strive to find a better woman.

Do not devalue yourself based on the opinion of one person, especially a woman. They are complex creatures, similar to many men, but in different ways.

Focus on your goals, and you will find the piece that fits.

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>>694549318
i got nothing that out there man a couple semi auto 22's 2 single shot 16 and 20 gauge shotguns a lever action marlin 336 in .35 rem and a savage 1907 pistol in .32 acp and a pile of parts guns.

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>>694549677
I'll have no luck im a brit fag ;(

>>694549677
fuck gunbroker, armslist is the way to go

>>694548659
Op if you set your mind on your goals, you can achieve it. :D

>>694549933
Thanks man :')

>>694550115
Damn straight. Believe in your fucking self.

Anyone in the mood for a chat? Kik is MrJarretE

>>694550012
now thats quality feels, I'm so sorry man. maybe now that you guys dumped the eu things will change

The worst part is i went to sleep and woke up thinking it was all a dream :(

>>694550311
Yeah hopefully we get some of those fucking delicious froot loops

>>694550359
Ha... I know that feeling all too well anon. Sometimes.. we just gotta wake up.

>>694550441
Wish i never did I felt physically sick

>>694548965
well, then we need categories. romantic love is the first to get dropped by some when shit gets tough. i would know.

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>>694549072
cont.

>her birthday was close
>i was exited about it for some reason
>spent the whole party with her
>i stayed at her place
>slept together
>next morning
>she seems to forgot about last night
>ignore it
>gave her a gift i had
>went back home
>after that day we didnt text eachother
>my friend has another party coming up
>she ignores me and finds an older guy
>like 2 year older than me
>didnt care about it i was with my best friend at that moment
>went for some weed
>smoke it at with my best friend and another bro
>back at the party
>high af
>dude that was with her told me why didnt invite him
>"you were too busy, buddy"
>friends laugh
>fast forward
>there was a party this week end
>monday
>she came up to me and told me that she felt uncomfortable when she was near me
>bitch
>she asked if we could have a healthy friends relationship or some bullshit like that

cont.

>>694550109
I just realized that even though I always look up shit on Armslist, gunbroker is just talked about so much on /k i mixed the two uph

>>694551057
I think knowing that yyou'reloved can save your life

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>>694548565
This, OP. Women like a man who is independent and has goals and aspirations of his own. It's a primitive instinct; a man who is driven will be more likely to provide for her offspring.

Set goals in your life and find hobbies that make you happy. Pursue those goals and hobbies whole-heartedly and don't look back. Women will follow. There's a nugget of actual wisdom in "first you get the money, then you get the power, then you get the women".

>>694551057
I personally think that is the most important kind of love though. That is the love you share with someone who has the potential to spend the rest of their life with you and start a family. They could be your future. There is also familial and brotherly love.

>>694551210
Kek I'm OP not you. Shut the fuck up newfag

>>694551127
cont pls

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>>694551127
cont.

>looked at her
>"ok"
>left because i had to take a bus
>at party
>she was always near me for some reason
>well at this point i had a crush on other girl
>i was talking to a girl about my crush
>she comes out of nowhere
>crying
>i was speechless
>girl i was talking to told me to do something
>are you ok?
>what is the problem?
>she ran away and the girl there called me an asshole
>what the fuck dude
>she was leaving with the girl that called me an asshole
>she said goodbye to me with a kiss on my cheek
>the kiss was like if they slap you with frozen meat on the face
>"bye"
>she started cying again
>confused about it
>text her about what happend
>pretty mad at this pooint and tied of her bullshit
>she told me that everything was confusing and stuff
>told me that she wanted to fix thing
>fuckyoubitch,bmp
>told her to stay the fuck away from me and never talk to me again
>she is currently blocked on every social media

well that's it.

>>694551292
>what is reading comprehension

I was talking TO op, not claiming to BE op dumbass

>>694551394
You could've fixed it in my opinion or at least go out with her to fuck her sorry about her though

>>694551394
I feel for you my dude. Just experiencing that post-action, "I did something thag fucked up" kinda sadness seems so appealing instead of just long thinking deep sadness

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>>694551394
well now that i read the sutff i wrote i am out of practice about my english, sorry bro's

pd: Cheer up op, there is plenty of fish in the sea
pd2: my dad told me to never be in love with a girl too much, that soon as they could they would backstab me

>talking with coworker yesterday
>I dont like him very much, typical big headed Chad with a stunning gf
>but he is the only one around my age
>I have also a very nice girl coworker she likes me but I am too afraid to call her out
>coworker asks me about pokemon go
>"hey anon I heard about this and I know you play video games what is this bullshit about"
>I don't even play pokemon go but I explain it to him in every single detail
>fast forward to the end of the work
>coworkers are going out to the local pub
>my crush girl coworkers asks me "anon you are going with us too right?"
>I want to say something, my heartrate is skyhigh
>when typical chad responds
>"haha no he has to go to catch some pokemons"
>everyone is laughing including my crush
>they leave
>I am sitting there destroyed 30 more minutes then I went home to cry

>>694547429
:(

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>>694551626
i don't think so, i am tired of the stuff she does, like one day she is in love with me, next day she ignores me, she indeed tried to fix thing but she fucked up like always
>>694551657
thanks man, i am trying to build my life again and leave my depression again, but the fact that i see her everyday depresses me so bad :(

>>694551759
Wow man what a fucking cunt sorry :(

>>694551902
I know how it feels man this is the second time I've gone through this and even though this one is worse, I know things will get better and you'll look back at this girl eventually and laugh

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>>694551759
holy shit dude, you have to think that all the chad's at the age of +40 fall into a deep depression because the friends they had are no longer there, i guess most of them deserve it for being such assoles.

dumping mobile papes :^)

>>694551759
Should have just laughed along with them and said "yeah of course I'm coming"

>>694552275
I am a 26 year old kissless virgin who was always bullied at school. Honestly I was so embrassed in that momment I wanted to kill myself.

>>694552470
I know the feels I go red when someone justs asks me a question and it makes me not want to communicate :(

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>>694552470
Ah in that case sorry bro. Some people can just be nasty. Try not to let it bother you, everybody has probably already forgotten about it anyway. The next time something like that happens try not to get flustered and just roll with it.

Remember, if you feel bad, everybody you hate wins.

>>694552470
sorry man you should just tell him to fuck off in future

I like oreos

I deleted her off some shit as well and I'm fighting myself not to add her back fuck :(

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>>694553408
well if you feel the need to tell her something or fix thing up you should do it, you dont then dont do it, the conversation will be uncomfortable
>>694553353
same.

>>694553353
nice

>>694553601
Tried man she just keeps saying "I'm sorry i just can't do it" and then she's going away for a month soon as well i think it's today even

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>>694553809
seems that you are stuck with her, tell me what is the real problem is, like do you really have a need for her? do you really wish her that much after she did so much shit to you?

think about these questions and realize that you dont need her anymore

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Today was my birthday and no one, that I was hoping would, wished me happy birthday. Forever Alone I guess

>>694554268
happy birthday

>>694554268
happy birthday dude! you are not that alone ;)

>>694554239
Sounds cringey af but i feel lost without her

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>>694554859
i see man, then you need to hang out with friends, or try to meet with new people, try to forget about her because thinking like that is only doing bad for you

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>>694546747
Oh no, buhuuu, your girlfriend broke up with you

Some of us has worse problems, like addiction, and crippling mental disorders.

Yet these threads are always about teen angst

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>be bi
>gender attractions fluctuate pretty bad
>sometimes week(s) long periods where im just not interested in my current bf/gf at all
>don't cheat but going from hot to cold usually arouses suspicion and puts stress on the relationship
>try to suck it up and put effort in anyway but it always ultimately destroys the relationship
im going to die alone aren't i?

>>694555180
Go make a thread then faggot

>>694555180
>>694546747
u are mentally retarded fagit kys shithead.

>>694555180
yeah dude you are totally right, but if you want to talk about those kind of problems make a new thread

>>694555260
Or maybe you should deal with your own first world problems and grow up

>>694554268
Happy birthday! :)
You not alone~

>>694555321
>fagit
Go to bed

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ok bois i am going to sleep now, its 5 am in my country

cheer up faggots

Why do we even have /r9k/ anymore

>>694555374
Read the title.
dont like it go

>>694555458
Nighty night

>>694555411
u are shit, kys

>>694550441
Ha.. ha ha ha anons... well.. I was in here a bit ago. This was me.^^^ I was happy at that time.. life decided I needed a lesson... so here I am back 20 minutes later.. feeling pretty dead. Here's why.
>meet girl
>cancer girl
>girls pretty cool
>talking for a good amount of time
>I figure things out
>I see her post on app
>wish he would wake up for fun but he has work in morning
>fuck my life
>says "he" is just a guy in a pet play chat
>she lied to me at first
>oh I have no idea! What?!??
I fucking hate when people lie /b/... especially when they have no chance of getting out of it. Im so broken. I cant cry. I havent cried for the longest damn time. Im sitting in my bathroom in the dark. Dead inside. Im so hurt. I thought I found a friend but.. I dont know.

>>694555411
to your mothers bed fuckface.

>>694555607
Bed time now, timmy

>>694555700
My god this thread has been raided by 11 year olds

>>694555569
One does not simply dont like it go

>>694555407
Happy birthday ;)

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My gf just stopped talking to me entirely. As of today, it's been exactly one week since I've spoken to her and she doesn't seem to care. I don't know how to feel /b/.

I don't think I CAN feel anymore. Should I wait for her to inevitably dump me, or is that cuck behavior?

>>694556150
Ask her whats wrong

>>694556150
fucking this, Im going through with exactly this,

i wanna just break up with the bitch for being so distant but she's like all i got.
she wont talk to me anymore. its not even worth worrying about anymore.

>>694556150
Just man up, and fucking dump her, before she officially dumps you

If that's how she is, you're better off without her

Of course, you should dump her face to face. I think it would be an important experience for you

I am seeing a girl at the moment and I don't know if we are in a relationship. It started off as a hook up but now she holds my hand in public, snapchats me everyday, and is really cuddly with me. I don't know if I am being an austist but is this normal hookup behaviour or does she want us to date?

>>694556606
She wants to date

You're just autistic

>>694556606
is she hot?

>>694556606

yeah you got autism. shes wanting to be you bf.

>>694556700
I am just afraid to talk to her about it since I am worried if I try and put a label on us it might scare her off...not sure what to do

>>694546747
bro i am currently suffering a breakup
gf broke up cause she doesn't know what she wants
and at first, i was so broken up inside i needed to talk to her all day, i was literally dying inside cause i did so much for her and she didn't appreciate it
but you don't have to step on yourself for some bitch
she literally put me in friendzone after years of relationship
you and me, we need to get our shit together man and keep living for ourselves

>>694556924
I have gone through a lot of girls recently but she is the only girl I have taken a real liking to in a long while- it honestly makes me really happy when we spend time together

>>694556990
Yeah but was only one of the few things that makes me happy its an empty feeling now like i don't know what to do anymore

>>694557257
You find the next thing nigga. And when that stops working, you find the next thing. And so on and so on.

Puppy died. Gf of 18 months broke up with me, we never had sex, she already fuked her new bf. Bestest friend had to stop talking to me bc of her bf. Flunked out of my degree, so my future is now unclear. My pet doggo that have for several years now (So many dont know exactly how many) died this morning. Feels.

>>694557444
Yeah it will take time though

>>694546747
trust no one.
love no one
depend on no one

only then can you truey be free

>>694546775
cripple here, can confirm

>>694557519
Jesus fuck man im so sorry

>>694557580
edgy

>>694557599
2016 confirmed for my worst fucking year e v e r.

>>694557519
I love you anon. All of you. Im sorry.

>>694557623
no. think about it.

all you people bitch and moan. why is this? it is because at some point you cared for or loved somebody.

if you never care for anybody, how can anything harm you?

>>694557734
Yeah every year seems to get worse and worse

>>694557599
>>694557734
>>694557519
Oh and some additional info bc its 5:23AM I can't sleep and why the fuck not. Ex-gf called me two nights ago, panicking bc she missed her period. That's how I know she fucked him. Because she called me and told me he stuck his dick in her without a condom. And then she comes to me for help. My life is great.

>>694557519
i dont believe you. youre full of shit anon. go cry about your bullshit somewhere else pussy.

>>694557851
If 2017 turns out to be worse than this I might have to an-hero

>>694557951
Well at least the bitch has to deal with pregnancy?

Found out a guy I looked up to and admired died of cancer today aged 34. Was only diagonsed 2 months ago.

Life can be cruel.

>>694558032
Most celebrities will probably die next year as well

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>>694558032
But if you an hiro you can't be with your waifus anymore.

>tfw chinese cartoon girls are the only thing keeping you alive

>>694558020
Why is that so hard to believe? My puppy was sick, she died after 5 months of being born. I didn't take my education seriously, my performance was too poor for my first year and now the university requires that I withdraw. That's just their regulation. My gf left me. 18 months. I loved her. Still have the picture strip of us stuck on my mirror. I stayed the night in summer school studying for an exam I had earlier today. (Still goofed up the exam even though I han't slept for two days). When I arrive home after the exam, my dog (His name is Scotch, he's a yellow mutt that followed my brother and I home when I was about 10), he was dead.


Also goddamn these storefronts are annoying.

>>694557257
exactly me too bro
my grandma, my father and his brother died in a row from cancer and i wasn't as sad as now
but you know, the problem is you are attached to memories same as me
we've been through so many beautiful times together its so hard to let go
i didn't know how to deal with all of this
i literally wanted to marry that girl, i was going to propose to her next year
but women play some different game we don't really understand, if you don't give them much, they will cling on to it like a motherfucker, but when you give them everything, you spoil them and make them run away for some reason
i know that is all you can think about, but we broke up like a month ago, and things do get better
you need to implement no contact rule

>>694558090
It was just a scare, she didn't actually get pregnant. While I was stdying this morning she told me the test came back negative. Tfw no justice at all

>>694558418
Im sorry man an yeah fuck the store fronts

>>694557819
if you never care for anybody, how can you ever be happy?
everyone is seeking happyness, not freedom.

>>694558539
Thats sucks man :(

>>694558536
Yeah at least someone else can relate thank you :)

>>694558719
I'm glad she's not pregnant though. I don't want her life ruined. She doesn't deserve that

>>694551759
Nah you could've played off of what that dude said man you have to react quick to situations like that, you can say anything. Just be like 'I mean you're the one worried about pokemon' fuckin whatever just don't accept shit from people like that!
You let him push you around.
That's why that happened.

>>694559317
He probably knows, and just can't make himself do anything. I've been there.

>>694546747
I started developing free and open source software for the rest of the FOSS community. Just little stuff to help restore iOS devices on GNU/Linux. Makes the time go by faster and I'm not as lonely.

>>694552679
Jesus Christ man get a prescription for xanax.

>>694559482
Well fuck

Even though right now it seems like you could never get over this, never stop hurting, and some consider becoming an hero.

It doesnt last forever, the pain fades and you no longer hurt. Sometimes relationships just dont work anymore, it doesnt matter whos to blame, if anyone is to blame, or why it happened. Its life, boys.