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>>693759067
What kind of help exectly do you seek?

please...

>>693759976
I dont care. Anything to make me feel like im not a completely worthless piece of trash

>>693760040
Have you tried to offer her help in finding herself?

>>693759067
you had only her in your life, now she left you, kill yourself and leave this crual world, looser

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I got u op

have you tried drinking?

get her back pussy

>>693760206
I told her I support her and ill be there for her. She seemed happy about that. But then she deleted her facebook and started a new one then started a new instagram. New life new her. I just want to be a part of it.

>>693759067
"Finding herself" is girl code for "fucking someone else".

Get over her and move on. The sooner the better. Trust me.

Dude it happened to me and I followed my dads advice and now we are back together even stronger than before, do you want to hear the advice? It's hard but if you do it, it will work my friend.

I tried calling her to say goodbye. She said she wasnt ready to talk to me. The last fucking thing we talked about was her eating crackers at 1 am. I counted down over the phone 54321 and hung up. that was the last fucking time we talked as a couple

>>693760573
i do. please

Yeah my gf of a year and a half did the same thing to me 2 months ago op. She said the same thing but then started seeing another guy.

>>693760523
this OP, don't be that Cuck that won't move on.

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>>693759067
I was with a girl for 6 years just give it time man your young you will get over it and move on to better girls

>>693760573
Do tell, anon

>>693760651
Dude, don't be the one to talk to her, let her wonder what you are doing, make it seem as though, you don't care. Girls want what they don't have. Give it some time, put things with you having fun with your friends on snapchat or Instagram. If y'all been together that long, there is a strong connection between you two, even if she dumped you. If you don't talk to her, she WILL start talking to you. Y'all can fix whatever the problem is and come back even stronger. The right thing to do is leave her alone and enjoy your life without her, or at least try to. This will drive her crazy and send her running back to you.

>>693760573
Wanna hear this

>>693760921
thank you

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>>693759067
Fuck off op get your shit together

>>693759067
Text her every hour asking if she found herself yet? I don't know how dumb she is that she lost herself in the first place with smart phones these days. Usually, if I'm lost I just look on google maps, have you asked her to try that?

>>693760967
No problem bud just give it time. Ps that girl I "loved" is fat married and unhappy now :D so who knows in 5 years maybe she'll be an unhappy cow

>>693761254
That is the worst advice possible, trust me man the best thing you can do is not talk to her it's how girls are man she will crawl back to you

>>693761376
I dont want her to crawl. I want us to just walk to each other. Fall into each others arms. I dont want her to hurt.

>>693760949
This happened to me, I did this, and it worked

Stop thinking about her OP and make your life better

Show it through social media sometimes and she will send you the "I miss you" text

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>>693759067
Op is spaghetti pockets cuck?

>>693761501
But she deleted me on everything

>>693761376
Look you neckbeard autistic faggot, I've fucked over 1000 women so I think I know just a little bit more about girls than some edgelord newfag like you.

>>693759067
find herself a bigger dick

>>693761489
I understand, but look if she's the one who cut off the relationship, you need to act like you're okay with it, like it or not she will realize she has made a mistake and come back to you, dude my girlfriend even started talking to her ex after she said she needed time, a few weeks later we got back together and I snapchatted that guy a bunch of pictures of us making out. Follow my dads advice like I did that man knows his shit when it comes to girls he seriously never steered me wrong, my relationship is even stronger now

>>693761625
Yeah this anon isn't lying at all

How old are you both?

Just save yourself the heartache and move on. Don't think about her, don't dwell on the past, don't ask yourself what went wrong, don't reach out to her. Odds are she is or will be fucking someone else soon. Its how they all are don't take it personally

>>693760398
Yep, she wanted some new dick

Forgive my bluntness but you know it's true. Every time I've hear a woman say that is the reason behind it.

>>693759067
She doesn't respect you anymore and wants to go fuck somebody else. Have some self respect and don't crawl back to her.

Yes, it sucks and will hurt for a time. Life sucks and can hurt, but you get over it and are better because of it.

>>693761613
It tough man but just wait. She will add you on everything and wonder what you are doing, don't be the one to contact her, wait and she will contact you.

>>693761799
thank you anon...

>>693761613
Don't worry, just don't block her and she will come looking anonymously

I'm serious, don't stress about it OP this is what Women do. They like change randomly until they realize that being alone is shitty

I swear on my dead grandmas grave she will be back

In the meantime get shit done to show you are growing up (get a car, job, hangout with other girls and post that shit on insta or snap)

>>693761625

dude, 4 bucks for six hours with 12 8 year old thai girls doesn't count as 12 women.

>>693761858
tbh im a pretty decent size... that cant be it. im not bragging. I just know thats not it

>>693760949
I'm curious. How is your relationship with your former wayward girlfriend?

>>693761981
I have a job that I got for her to buy her things. Im saving up for a car.

>>693762064
Maybe she wanted one in black.

>>693761779
Kek

>>693762200
were from the south. Shes not into that shit.

>>693762067
I'm not sure what wayward means but we broke up for a while and I followed my dads advice, found out she was talking to her ex, still followed the advice I have given this poor anon which my dad gave to me and sure enough, she came back texting me how much she missed me, regretted this, so on so forth. Now, we get along better than we did before the break up, hang out more and are overall more loving and relaxed with each other. It can happen with this guy and his girlfriend too if he doesn't blow her phone up and be the one to establish contact, in due time she will do the same. 3 and a half years is well over long enough for this to be true, the connection is there.

>>693762297
If the internet has taught me anything, she's probably banging a black dude.

Sorry fam.

>>693762064
Did you read my post? I didn't say she wanted bigger dick. I said she wanted NEW dick. Novelty is great, it comes with mystery and all that. Some of the married fags in here can tell you. You might have a pretty wife giving you the pussy all day and still cheat on her. Why? To get some strange.

>this does not apply to all
>there are those with a monogamous bent

>>693762187
Don't do shit in ur life for her, do it for you

Get that car, go to the gym, hangout with friends until your contact list is empty.

Hanging out with friends after a break-up is a necessity.

No matter what, don't contact her, let her do that

>>693762374
OP here. thank you so much for being supportive

>>693762187
You got a job just to buy her things? Her leaving is the best thing that could have happened to you.

You were her slave and she still left you. Move on man.

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>>693759067
Honestly, OP, it very well could be due to this. >>693761858
I'm assuming you two are pretty young? If that is the case, sex could honestly be the reason. However, don't view this as a bad thing. Get yourself out there, date some people, and figure out what you like and don't like in a partner. I know it is easier said than done, but I know you'll be able to do it. This also a time to get connected with yourself and really see who you are.

Stay strong, you'll make it. Here's some porn for you to fap to.

>>693762441
Thanks

>>693762374
Wayward means she strayed, cheated on you, cucked you, whichever you prefer. I asked how the relationship is now cause tbh she sounds like a bitch.

Same thing happened to me except I didn't take her back. She had already shown me a side of her I would always be resentful towards.

Post her nudes faggot.

>>693762567
for the first time in my life sex is the last thing i want

>>693762511
The only reason I'm being supportive and not acting like these inexperienced fucks talking about black dick and trying to troll you is because this recently happened to me and I know how bad it feels, hang out with your friends man. I was tempted to tell you the only advice I have to is respond to this post or your mother will die in her sleep tonight. But I'm not that much of a douche. >>693762511

>>693762691
OP here. How recently did you break up and how long did it take for you to get back together

>>693762656
To my knowledge, she was talking to her ex to apologize to him for the things she had done to him. Seems pretty sincere, although I have my doubts and suspicions. I see what you're saying about the side of her that I resent, but I did my fair share of being a bad boyfriend myself. We have both changed and are happier together because of it. Sometimes being forgiving can work wonders in your life. She had a lot to forgive me for as well.

>>693762682
That may very well be the case for a couple days. You'll get right back on track soon. Distract yourself. Go chill with some bros, start a new hobby, binge on some video games, start watching a new TV series. I don't give a shit what you do. Just don't focus on being hurt. You are going to grow as a person due to this experience.

assuming this isn't bait, sorry /b/ro, that is a punch in the nuts. There isn't anything that I can say that is going to make you feel any better right now but just know that many anons have been where you are now and they do get through it eventually. Take it one day at a time, don't do anything foolish.

>>693763032
Its not bait. Still feels like a terrible nightmare. Thank you.

>>693762816
She dumped me on May 24, two days before I graduated high school. We got back together on June 22nd, and bare in mind during this month apart, I barely followed my dads advice until the end. I blew up her phone and always tried to talk to her, which just made getting back together happen slower and slower, pushing her away by doing that. Then I realized okay my time is running out, and I stopped. Sure enough, she started talking to me and trying to get back with me. Things have a way of working out if you practice patience.

>>693759067
grow the fuck up, life is all about inevitable change its like trying to battle against waves at sea resisting this change. Think of it like this, now you have the opportunity to be free to do the things you want, spend more time with your boys, fuck around abit, invest time in yourself like working out , educate yourself on some things, read books.

also you both look 12

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OP here. Thank you for all of your kind words. Some jokes. Everything. It all helped. You've shown me that I just need to let things roll and grow from it. Thank you. I mean this. Thank you.

>>693759067
Consider yourself lucky.
She's gonna be a blimp within 5 years.

>>693762567
damn I ducking love redheads

>>693763292
its a picture from forever ago. First year in high school? first semester cause i have my marching band tan. Now im almost in college.

>>693763179
This is terrible advice.

What is so special about this woman that you would sacrifice your balls?

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>>693763333
my quads make me happy too

>>693763365
Agreed...

>>693763333
Good news. Keep your resolve.

>>693763525
I don't understand. Sacrifice my balls? In telling him to leave her alone so she can be the one to talk to him and come back to him. Girls want what they can't have. If you dispute this, I trust you've never felt a human vagina before. Fuck off neckbeard let the men talk.

>>693763525
My thoughts>>693762656 exactly but to each his own.

>>693759067
Relationships are temporary. Go into them understanding that.

You kinda look like an old pal of mine. John Vaden was his name. Now I'm sad, too. We can be sad together.

>>693763707
I thought that but i thought it would end when one of us fucking died at 95 or something. not now. not right before fucking college starts.

>>693763731
Im not John. But im glad we can relate to each other.

>>693759067
OP, it was inevitable. You look browner than she does - she's just realised that she can do better, that's all. Nothing you could have done.

>>693763468
I dont mean to be abusive I am being honest about the change thing, you will never predict when it comes the best you can do is adapt to it as best you can. resistance to change is what causes the trama, think of life as all a privalige, you are lucky for every day that you have something, and when it goes away just be happy you had that experience, because a new one will happen again for you.

>>693764697
Ill remember that.

Dont take her back if you find out she fuck another guy. Even if she only gave a blowjob.

>>693764810
the hurt feeling, the feeling of not having harmony, the struggle, the disrepair of things. Man, would I give to feel that again. R.I.P Charlotte

>>693765609
If your loved one actually died and this wasnt bait, then im sorry. It would be so much unbelievably worse if thats what happened to her.

>>693765825
10/10 not bait. She died of a complication of mastocytosis and a terrible allergic reaction. Just remember that having had that experience for you is more important than bending over backwards to keep something from collapsing. Sometimes the best thing is to give in. Not give up, but give in and understand that some things are meant to be and some are not. I'm not a religious man, but I believe the universe works in ways to which we will never truly understand. In my case, something bad happened to a good person and there doesn't have to be a reason why. It just happened. But I'm blessed to have had my time with her. Good luck OP

>>693766390
And good luck to you anon

>>693762656
Are you me?

She broke up a 4y relationship, started cybering an ex friend of mine within a week and was fucking him within a month. Then we started fucking again, I have the strongest feelings for her but they collide also strongly with the resentment I have towards her.
She did ask me back, and I said I wouldn't. Only time will tell if it was the right decision.

OP, I know it's neat and easy to get back together and get all the nice things you had going on back, but that is just turning a blind eye to your problems. Be wary of using psych games to get back together despite everything. You'll only break up again, and will be MUCH worse.

>>693759067
Do experiences that you've never done before. Try drugs, try riding a motorcycle. Go to a hangout you've never been to before. Do impulsive stuff and it will be a nice distraction until the feelings blow over and are at least somewhat alleviated. Or see a psychiatrist and workout and better yourself. Up to you. The world is your oyster.

>>693767106
but she was my pearl

>>693759067
Let me translate for you, OP.

"I need to find myself" is whore speech for "I want to sample other cocks."

My suggestion? Let her go. Whores gonna whore.

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>>693759067
>gf needs to find herself
>get her a gps
>???
>profit

>>693759067
Finding herself is a bunch of crap. Take some time off, go out with friends, drink and meet new people. Act like you don't care and when she tries to crawl back to you, don't! Move on and find someone who is better for you.

>>693759067
On to the next one. Fuck that bitch.

Look for corey wayne on youtube and read his book. He's the real deal.

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>>693760921
>>693759067
Never been with a girl longer than 2 months.

Feelings are gay

Why the fuck has /b/ not called out these race mixing piece of shit defilers out yet?

>>693767208
No, she's not. She's a cheating birch who treats you like kleenex. Grow some balls. Don't text her, call her or talk to her. Go have fun and make sure it's not just for show. TRULY move on. And when she comes sniffing around again ignore her. You do not want a girl like her. Your feelings are based on the history you have with the person, the moments you enjoyed, not the person herself. Christ you kids

>>693760523
Yep, and most likely not just one other. be thankful she had the decency to break up with you first. Time to move on

>>693759067
Kill yourself.

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>>693762187
>I have a job that I got for her to buy things

Sounds like you were the definite beta in this relationship

Sorry op but it's true; if your woman wants shit she should get her own job, otherwise she's genuinely leeching off you

But here's a doggo

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>>693759067
Cow and Chingen

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>>693759067

This seems to be the right thing for you.

>>693771451
This guy gets it

>>693761254
Maybe she has an iPhone and checked the apple map. If that's the case, she is lost for good.

>>693759067
omg hot asf

>>693761838
Why would anon lie on the internet?

>>693774438
What the fuck waa that. What the fuck what the fuck what the fuck.
I hope their parents are not ok with that.

This threas is empty....

>>693759067
dump her nudes then you fucking faggot

>>693763333

checked

Been there bud, don't beat yourself up over it man its really a pointless battle. 2 years ago my girl left me for the same reason only to crawl back after causing a shit ton of pain, broke up with her shortly after because of how stupid it was for her to think she could just come back to my life later. Move on man, I know it doesn't seem like it now but in the long run you'll be a lot happier as a single man. And no matter what she says to you tell her to fuck off, it's for your own good

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>>693759067
Find myself generally means, I need try some fresh cock. Her pussy will no doubt be getting filled with hot cum pretty soon.

>>693778027
And the only reason she came back was because I made it seem like I gave absolutely no shits about her or anything that has to do with her

>>693760398
don't tell me that this is another long distance relationship