I suffer every day and try to find distractions.

Come to peace with ig

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I'll be your friend :)

being 28 i do not give a single fuck tbh
if it comes it comes no point worrying.

>>693277380

instagram?

>>693277364
This
Vidya and blaze it helps a lot

>>693277268
Just enjoy it. It's not like you're missing out on anything, in fact you're free from social responsibilities and if that's not a good thing I don't know what is.

>>693277268
Man up. I prefer being a loner. You can't trust faggots, you can only trust yourself.

>>693277512
Good point tbh just play video games and jack off because life sucks

>>693277512

this is a lie, youre missing out.

Having friends to go out with, wether its something to eat, smoke a blunt with, have a drink with, or just chill with and talk about random things.

I have no friends and i want all of the above, i am semi-decent looking but a virgin, because i have no friends to go out with, no friends to go to partys with.

I go work, gym and home everyday, nothing else.

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>>693277556

>>693277424
Thanks friend
>>693277466
It

>>693277588

So I should just continue living as usual?

>>693277512
>Download borderlands 2 again
>wonder why I stopped playing
>get in old save
>have to kill this boss
>no friends to coop with
>can't kill it myself
Right in the feels

>>693277667
I just died laughing at this

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>>693277665

I want all of that too

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>>693277884
I would be friends with all of you

Being 26 with a kid is easier to say I could care less to not really have friends because I enjoy my own life and love being alone. Yeah people say it's sad and my girl says I should make an effort more having friends and is a great thing to have rhem but I could give a shit less. I use to have loads of them and had a great times with them all but faded away from them and now I enjoy it. Work,hang with the woman and kid and then enjoy my own silence with stuff I enjoy.

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> had one friend
> got clingy and annoying
> have no friend

>>693277665
I prefer temporary contacts over friends. I just start conversations with random groups of people and join them for the night, it's basically like getting laid, you see if they eat you and if not you drop it and go somewhere else. You can have really intimate talks with strangers because they don't need to fear the social stigma they'd face talking to people they care about or that could spread the word, same for you. Met with this amazing redhead two times before never calling again and we just got drunk and hung out with her friends. I don't really see the reason to have friends.

>>693278113
This man has the right idea.

>>693278113

how do you meet these random women?

>>693277665
You claim to be at least decent looking and also go to gym and have a job but yet you are a virgin.
Getting laid occasionally should be even without friends easy.
You are probably just an autistic fat fuck which went to the gym once and now blames the lack of friends for his never-ending virginity

>>693278228

They're all in your area and want to fuck you, have you not seen them?

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I have experience on this.
I'm slightly autistic (meaning I had difficulties talking to people, had poor social skills, etc.). By the age of 13 I changed schools and since then started learning communication skills via observation and practice, I also did retarded stuff like reading books on psychology or smalltalk. A couple years later I was already able to act as a 'normal' person, made friends. Conclusions made: friendships are overrated, 'hanging out' is retarded and tiresome. At the moment I've got absolutely no friends (except for my significant other), never felt better and more confident.

So think about it: what do you expect from other people? Often solitude is better.
If you desperately want friends, do the following:
1. Take care of yourself. The way you look, the clothes you wear - doesn't have to be posh, just clean, decent, pleasant (note: any body odours are repelling - floss, use deo, shower).
2. Watch and learn. I observed all sorts of things - how to approach a group of people, how to introduce yourself, how and when to hug or touch somebody, what facial expressions are appropriate, how to tell jokes and when to say goodbye. Then try to repeat that. Note: at first you will fail miserably.
3. Be interesting. Do something, read something - so that you may have something to talk about. If you have trouble with this, think of conversation topics beforehand, skills will come with time.
4. Read. BS about smalltalk, books on psychology - read, learn, make conclusions.

Don't do creepy shit like talking to strangers - the sense of failure and the feeling of being seen as a creep will only make you feel worse.

>>693278228
I'm not necessarily targeting women. Last group I met after a movie at a local cinema. One guy of her group was a smoker and I asked him for a lighter and started talking with him. She and a few others joined in and we went partying and drinking. Pretty mundane story, because that's pretty much the way you meet new people, or is that weird?

>>693278228
Join a fucking yoga class or join a guitar class or just talk to your fucking neighbours

>>693278249

Hm

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>>693278496

> no friends?
> just make friends ffs

gtfo

>>693278486

If I could talk to people with that ease, I'd have friends.

>>693278019

yes, please

>>693278639
get out of your house you sad sac of shit. self pity is addictive. make some fucking effort to see improvement.

>>693278751
That's the beauty with strangers, it doesn't matter what they think of you and there's no reason to be ashamed of yourself or your perceived awkward behavior in front of strangers.

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>>693278249

me (1 month old pic), im ok looking
i work on my own, i can talk and all that shit, but i cant approach a girl and ask for her number for the fear of being turned down etc

so no, im not autistic or a fat fuck, and i go gym regularly.

>>693278308
yeah but do you just approach them and start talking to them?, and still where, you just walk down the street and start talking to someone? or at a bar?

>>693278486
this seems pretty simple, could try it i guess, usually i ask for a lighter, give it back and walk off.

>>693278496
hmm i guess i could try some classes to make some friends.

neighbours are eastern european cant get along with them, they have their own clique, want english speaking.

>>693278639
you get it, its easier said than done.

>>693277268
Due to social anxiety I spent all of middle school and most of highschool totally alone. I coped by developing a strong hatred towards anyone and everyone, parents including to convince myself Im better off alone. Am 23 now and am in group therapy to try to fix myself.

>>693278486
>C-can I borrow your lighter?
>Thanks, the movie was fun heh?
>*silence*
>*tries to light a cigarette ASAP, doesn't even notice it didn't lit up, gives the lighter back*
>B-b-bye...

>>693278480
Forgot to add: learn to care less about what others think of you. If you will constantly have fear of interrupting someone, of being unfunny or boring, that will happen. Think about people as the trash they are - and regard only a selected handful otherwise.
This is hard to achieve at first, but it should be your goal. Otherwise you will always stay shy and agarophobic - if you conquer that, in the worst case scenario you will have weirdo friends.

>>693278019
Happy to see the blini kot is spreading rapidly.

>>693279112
Obviously you have no problems with socialisation. For someone who's been shy all his life talking to strangers is a bad advice. Baby steps, Anon. I know this because I've been through it.

>>693279319
im a 8-9/10 in looks (told by about 6 of my ex gfs) and my voice is pretty normal, mabye on the deep side
being over 28, its hard as fuck to make a real connection to someone that isnt a total hipster/feminist/weak minded idiot without their own personality. Its even harder without facebook, as if i do make a good connection with a girl or guy from university, they immediatly see no Facebook as strange and cut me off.

I just gave up. If it comes it comes.

>>693279841
>Y-you too

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>>693279909
>voice
Don't remind me of my high-pitched, nasal voice with a gay ass accent. I don't even know how that happened to me.

>>693279909

holy shit, the last line hit hard, because i am on those dating sites, match with a girl and we get along and she will ask okay give me your facebook, and i always have the same response

i have an account, but i dont have anything on there, no friends or anything, i dont use it at all, they find it weird and conversation usually just slowly drops off.

Even though I rarely have a life i still don't want to use Facebook.

>>693279776
sounds just like me. Dont go down my route. Well i atleast had a legit reason to hate everyone as my entire group of friends fucked me over.

Going back to highschool however it was a trip. I was "The hottest guy in highschool" and i hid in the toilets MANY times due to social anxiety.

>>693278089

Are you me?

Lots of drugs my current doc atm is crystal, go through an oz every month and of course fapping, lots and lots of fapping as well as some hobbies I like to make e juice and wires some of which I sell to a few ppl at work who never text me or talk to me unless they want something fucking assholes

>>693279900
You are a massive cuck, thats all. Rejected by everyone. Stop making excuses.

>>693278089
its cool man, same here. Dont let any women without a shred of self awareness tell you otherwise.

>>693280541
hows the crystal on your erection quality? still get it up?

>>693277268
I socialize with the hacker known as Fourchan

>>693280630
Truth is, I was kind of an asshole - one summer I stopped answering calls/messages/emails from the people who were my 'friends'. In the previous post I mentioned I have a significant other.
Now I have absolutely no wish to meet with someone / talk to somebody.
I realised I feel better on my own, doing the things I like, working, reading than 'hanging out' with some dipshits. And I haven't met any people whom I'd really like to be friends with - with nice character, similar interests, adequate intellect.

>>693281140

Cognitive dissonance will do that to you. You have no friends. Surely it's be because you don't want to hang around with some dipshits.

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>>693277512
Amen

>>693281140
Man, I can't second this enough. We should totally not hang out some time.

>>693280968
Yeah man it's always up guess I'm just a horny fuck and the meth makes me hornier the only thing is if I od then I can't cum until I come down some but other than that it's guce just wish I had a girl to bang. Managed to fuck one in my heroin days but it was pure luck and she was such a whore I barley did anything and the bitch was down my pants suckin me off. Decent looking too but seriously fucked in the head.

>>693277665
Contrary to popular belief, you can do all these things alone. You can go eating, you can smoke a blunt, you can go drinking, you can find strangers at a bar and talk to them. You don't need anyone to enjoy life.

>>693281932

I hear that about drinking and smoking.

> You don't need drinking to have fun
> You don't need pot to have a good time

I guess you also don't *need* friends to feel ok but fuck, it would make it better.

>>693277458
hhaaha exactly! I am apathetic to my friends. Christ I am a groomsman at a wedding (I'm 30). When you get older you don't give a shit. Bono deendoe

>>693281140
Let me guess, dumped and rejected - that is your story, right? Your significant other is either imaginary or into garbage.

>>693281475
The whole concept of 'hanging out' is weird. I always got bored and frustrated. All my childhood I communicated only with grownups (homeschooled 4 years because of poor health; Eastern Europe so it was none of Murrican libertarian shit), so average people of my age just seem bland in comparison. Having no friends can also be a conscious choice, friendo.

>>693281782
Nah, I'll pass, but good to hear someone has similar feelings.

>>693282226
he's right you know

>>693277364
>>693277488
lmaooooooooo my african descent friends

>>693282337
Butthurt much? Not everybody need the attention others in order to feel good.

>>693282569
*attention of

>>693277268
OP im 19 and basicly havent left my house in 5 years.
quit school at 14, lost the few friends i had. got in a real heavy depression, lost all my will to live.
at this point i dont care about anything, all i do i play videogames, eat and sleep.
my parents dont kick me out cause they know i would kill myself

>>693282400

Let's be real, boy. "Having no friends" is a conscious choice like "being single" is. You "chose" to have no friends because you have no friends, like people say they "chose" to be single when they aren't in a relationship. It's not a "conscious choice"; it's just acceptance.

>>693282441

How?

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I think a lot of us on this website have this problem

I've tried many different outlets to try to avoid coming to this shithole and socialize on the internet, but my mind is just too fucked to paste anywhere else.

I used to have buddies, homies, dunnies, friends, niggas, but I burned every bridge I ever crossed and I'm starting to accept nowadays that that's just how I behave.

Sure, I hate this fucking place, I want to be able to talk somewhere outside of this website, but I know there really isn't

>>693282746
Nicolas?

>>693277268
Embrace it. Shave your head and get laid.

>>693282850
no

>>693277268
After getting abandoned by them for no reason, I've become a misanthrope.

Fuck people in general.

>>693282990
word nigga

>>693282959
Sorry the description seems like it was written by my ex best friend

>>693280212
Sounds like shit man. I was the socially awkward nerd kid in highschool. Ill tell ya man, social anxiety is a fucking bitch.

>>693282569
Right in the feels, right?
Next loser please!

>>693283051
how is he now?

ALL YOU NEED TO DO IS PUT A BANANA IN UR EAR

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>>693277268

KYS? oh for fucks sakes another one, everywhere is being infested with these kid cell phone abbreviations.

You have no friends because your too lazy to even type properly, what hope do you have with anything that requires any effort???

>>693283167
I dont know but I lost the contact with him. I miss him

>>693283266
Fuck off nigger
I don't give a fuck about people of other colors
Get the fuck out you ate my brother
How about you go and fuck a hyena?
When it's dark outside I can't even see ya

>>693283355
if he is in the same situation as me, please go talk to him

>>693277268
Browse 4chan never leave room

>>693282757
>>693283108
Just read my first post. TL;dr - was slightly autistic, learned to be social, had friends, didn't enjoy it, cut all connection.
If it helps, I am female - admit it, anyone with tits is able to have at least a few desperate friends.
I am not trying to prove anything to you - the reason I posted here was that I wanted to share my experience and also suggest the idea that having no friends is not always a bad thing.

>>693280515
>>>693278089 (You)
>Are you me?
Yes my double it is us

>>693283611
1
And I just said you are a delusional rejected cuck who tries to cope with psychological damage. You being a cum dumpster only proves my point. 100% dumped, then found some loser. I know your kind.

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>>693284262
>I know your kind
Lost it. Have a nice day, cuck.
>pic related

>>693283266

k

>>693277268
Stop being a faggot. That's pretty much it.

Play an MMO, OP. If you can't be popular in real life, become popular on the Internet.

>>693285132

How I do I become popular on the Internet? I can't meme.

I don't want to become "popular" in that sense either. I'd just like a friend.