You have no chance of "getting with her"

Move on.

>>693240451
Short answer: No.

Judging from the profile pic, you are both nerds. Possibly fat. She loves the attention and will toy with you as much as she can. This is definitely a rejection though. Move on.

>>693240451

ive gotten almost the same exact text from a girl that i thought really liked me

fuck her, move on

Call her a cunt, and that you're not going to wait around for her.

>>693241032
just listen to this guy.

She is making it clear that there's no chance of anything romantic, but she doesn't want to cut ties because you can still be useful to her.

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>>693241032
Neither of us are fat, this is me

>>693241299
not bad, what does she look like?

bro theres no chance

>>693241290
THIS
just gonna string you along.
Respond with,
not gonna wait for you. Gonna see this other cutie.
Then cut it and never speak to her.

>>693241496
Not gonna give a pic of her, but she's skinny and like 5'5-5'6 and like 110. Cute face too.

>>693241583
Friends with her brother

>not sure
>idk
>who knows

Technically it means no unless all you're the best she's got on hand, what surely isn't the case.

You should move on and blame her later on for her indifference. Bitches believe they're always in control, and it hurts them bad knowing that it aint always the case. Plus they always crave what they failed to get

>>693241583
don't even bother saying that second part OP. Just stop talking to her unless you really want to be friends with a conniving cunt.

>>693241762
Some losses must be made.
Otherwise you will still be the sad cuck when you visit their house. Kek

>>693240451
>reduce contact to once every 3-4 days
She will ask why and say you were busy with freinds
>actually spend time with freinds and new people attempt to score a selfie with at least a 7/10 while drunk post on snapchat if you got
>ignore her for a bit wait till she messages you twice and talk maybe once every 2 days

Keep her coming to you don't talk to her first after that bitches love what they can't have also never apologize for anything ever and if it doesn't work it's a waste of fucking time and move on cause she will only use you for attention not to steal your precious seed

>>693240451
No, but she wants to keep you on the hook

>>693240451
well theres 3 choices:
1. you have no chance
2. she wont have you leave cause youre still of use
OR
3. based on the last few words, you might have a small chance if you play your cards right

>>693240451
She's saying no, but is glad that you told her and wants to remain friends. Unless you only started talking to her to get into her pants, I advise that you do stick around and be her friend.

>>693242076

this sounds gay as fuck and trying too hard

why dont you actually just make friends or go out with friends and find someone else

>>693242237
Don't get friend zoned OP. >>693241583
This is some solid advice

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Just sent her this

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>>693243627
U dun gufed op.
You explained yourself. .....
What a fucking cuck

>>693242537
It works you lazy cunt all you have to do is talk to her less go out more fuck he might even meet a new girl in the process

>>693243627
Not bad, but it's about as confusing as her message

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>>693240451
This is called 'Letting you down easy.'

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>>693243627
you overextended. cut her loose. do not pass go. do not collect $200.

>>693243627
This is actually awful. It reeks of jealousy that you can't justify yet and it's assuming too much. Sorry OP but you gotta calm down and just do your own stuff, respect what she says. Don't take it like every other guy does and just chill out. Go socialise and enjoy yourself, someone will gravitate towards that, her or someone else doesn't matter

Literally means no. Don't play for it OP; I've received almost the SAME exact text before. It is a dead end. Don't even try.

>>693243627

You smooth skin faggot, you're not supposed to give her some tryhard response like that.

I think your text is desperate and shows you're clingy as shit, imagine what SHE thinks.

I hope you take this as a learning experience. For fucks sake smile more and don't be such a tryhard.

>>693243627
m8 you are fucking up. That message is wayyy too long and you are just sounding beta at this point. Just should have said nevermind and stopped talking to her; she would have come running to you in that case out of fear of missing out.

Girls don't like to be chased.

>>693243627
You fucked up. Any response other than "okay" is too much effort and she wins.

>>693241032
This made me LOL for some reason

>>693243627
don't let girls string you along, as much as you like them

she might not even realize she's stringing you along, most of us aren't saying she's a bitch or anything

but shes definitely stringing you along

quit goofin, go find someone else - sounds shitty but its true man

>>693243627
we need her reaction OP, please

>>693245271
This

>>693245271
Ya op we need to see if we can salvage your fuckup

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>>693245271
I also want this please

even she even responded

OP we need to know

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>>693243627
>bitch ass op comes to /b for advice
>gets friend zoned from "qt" he likes
>lot advice is given to overcome his beta tendencies
>betapowerisstronginthisone.jpeg
>chooses to explain to "qt" why he feels rejected
>mfw, nigger made us waste time on his ass

Op, jump off a bridge. It will strengthen the genemy pool

You played yourself OP. Shouldn't have even replied. Time to move on.

>>693240451
>>693244244

fucking ask her out though mate. just telling her you like her is beta as fuck.

"Will you go on a date with me?" is a shitload easier to answer and more concrete than "btw I like you"

either do that or deliver >>693243627

Why do you need to write such long paragraphs like with me its " I like you, wanna hang out sometime" then its " yes" or "no" if no I don't go and whine like a bitch on 4chan on a paragraph in woman language that means no.

>>693240451
Just reply with "Ok" and never respond to her again. Unless she escalates. The last thing girls want is a guy who obsesses over them. She has to start the next conversation.

>>693245757
Yup. Not really salvageable now because she knows you are a door mat. Nothing you say will fix it, your only hope is to carry on with your life, she might decide she wants to ride your D later and you can make a decision then, but you'll probably never hear from her.

It's too late now but you should've kept it simple. "Thanks bug I'm not interested in being on the hook" or similar

>>693246321
*but

>Women can't honestly be uncertain about entering a relationship because life is often confusing and circumstantial
>Nope, she's just being a manipulative bitch feeding you clever non-answers to string your feeble little heart along
This type of black and white thinking is pretty characteristic of a generation that grew up calling each other faggot, Anon.

>>693241299
Shave, you fucking neanderthal, and never attempt to grow facial hair.

>>693243627
Wow dude you blew it. Here's a good starting tip, bud: your texts should never be longer than hers.
You came off as such a beta faggot holy shit. Made my night man thank you.

>>693243627
now you just sound like a pussy
become an hero op. its the only way of coming out of this like a man

>>693246466
Cuck spotted. Yes = yes, unsure or whatever the fuck else means no.

>>693246772
>I would know this because as an alpha I give them the D and keep my bitches on leashes.
You had to lower your standards to get laid, didn't you?

>>693247069
I was a dumbass like you and OP when I was 14.

>>693247436
>grrrr all women are just fucktoys. Grow up!
Retarded.

>>693247577
No matter how you look at it op fucked up, he's going to grow up to be a cuck

It pains me to see this thread cause I was in the same boat, and was a beta loser, and did what op did too.
If they say anything that's not a complete yes, move on.
If it's a maybe, they'll be attracted to you being self reliant.
If it's a no, then move on and have fun on your own. Too late now though.

>>693247436
I bet you still are

>>693247577
I don't see anyone other than you saying that. You can respect women but at the same time not put up with them disrespecting you. If you want to go through life as a bitch who women don't respect then that's your choice.

Got this exact type of text then ended up dating her. Today we've been together for 8 months. If you feel a connection don't give up m8

>>693247756
Eh, sort of. I think you're really overestimating the frailty of human interaction and the amount of pessimistic thought you angry virgins put into how to respond is fucking absurd.
All of you are just dying to screech omgomgomgwhatabetacuckcringe that it completely obscures your vision.

OP is probably gone fellas

>>693248087
Shut up, buttslut.

Op got that message went from no thanks to fuck no

>>693240451
She is up for it, will put you to the test and see if you are a possible partner.
>inb4 op getting cucked

>>693248012
There was nothing in her text that implied she was just going to sting OP along like a heartless sow.
That was what I saw a lot on here.
The fact you jump to that conclusion so eagerly as the mere thought of being disrespected shows me how abnormally fragile your self-esteem is.

>>693248250
This is a more adequate response. Thanks anon.

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>>693241290
It's either this

Or she has another guy she's talking to and you're plan B. Move on.

>>693248345
Don't look at me like that, homo erectus.

>>693241299
Just tell her "cool. Thanks for being straight with me." Then move on. Don't torment yourself by waiting around in the hopes that she'll suddenly decide she wants you.

>>693241612
Confirmed herpes whore

Move on OP

>>693248593
Also good.

>>693248067
There's a difference receiving the maybe and being like op, he didn't need to blow her off but he should have at least kept it simple instead of whatever his garbage message was

You're all retards.
OP has given the perfect response, though it should have been shorter.
Watch as she gets intrigued and date him soon, though maybe after being with that other guy for a couple of weeks.
Hot sex and relationship awaits OP.
Good job.

Source: Pajeet. I wrote Kamasutra.

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>>693248593
I agree with this anon

>>693243627
You ga e her what she wants. Drama. Honestly just not saying anything would've been leagues better in the long run.

MYSTERY. CHICKS DIG MYSTERY.

>>693240451
You are her safe option. She is hoping to get the romantic attention of someone else. If that fails, she will "give you a shot."

>>693248935
this

don't get cucked OP

currently being led on by some chick with a boyfriend myself, its shitty and gay don't let it happen to you

LEARN FROM MY MISTAKES OP PLEASE

>>693248800
Also, don't get fucking dramatic now. Be normal. No more long texts, but keep being normal and to the point until you feel like she's showing attraction.
Also, check 'em.

Ok faggots op has left calm your virgin pussies

>>693240451
"honestly who knows" = "never gonna happen"
chick at high school did this to me for 5 years, don't waste your time bro move on

>>693249237
czech'd

>>693248701
I guess. That's why I hate texting and this cinema-saturated society. There's too much over thinking and blatant dishonesty, like both sides of a potential relationship have to conspire with their friends because they're so afraid of the truth, or that you have to be some nonchalant, uncaring douchebag in order to be dominant.
It's all ridiculous and I fucking hate everyone for it.

>>693244454
Do what this guy says, OP

>>693249326

cuck loser

>>693249102
>currently

Bad anon! Stop that right now. Both you and OP. Don't fall for her shit. Even if by some chance she does come around and get with you, she'll probably chest behind your back and dump your ass when someone who she seems better comes along.

I suffered the same shit years ago. YOU learn from MY mistakes.

>>693241299
Hey Graydon

>>693249673
Why won't you let him fuck the bitch and deliver us nudes?

>>693240451
Its friendzoning message

>>693240451
seriously just drop her, it is the method. She will come to you, or she won't but most women are like cats, you can't convince them to do something you have to bait them and create an environment where they will do what you want of their own accord.

>>693249673
I'm sorry, she's just so hot.

She always cuddles with me and shit when he's not around, but I always end up sleeping alone while she fucks him. It's pretty shitty, but I literally don't know any other girls.

I've had plenty of gf's but I'm in a long, long dry spell. I can't help myself right now.

Help me anon pls

>>693240451
Honestly who knows means stop talking to the bitch entirely and find a new chick you faggot.

Thank me later.

>>693249897
You mark my words anon, if it does happen, you get nudes

>>693249994
Tell her you can't do it anymore/make her choose

>>693248800
>>693249897
I'm having some nice numbers today. Though it's a crappy day.

>>693250249
All her friends are my friends, etc that kind of bullshit.

I can't risk losing all my friends over a hoe, but damn

>>693249994
That's fucking maddening holy fuck she probably enjoys how much it's tormenting you too because she feels like a queen in control of a subordinate.
Hahahahahaha.
She'll never respect you.

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>>693240451
it means no. move on. if you don't you're cucking yourself

>>693247069
If a girl says yes to a date, then it's a fucking yes. If she says no, not sure, or maybe, then you DONT go on a fucking date. That's a no then, isn't it?

Its not about being black and white, it's about the fucking outcome. When you make shit 'gray' is when you pull shit like OP did and make yourself look like an emotional pussy. Fuck that alpha and beta shit, this is just logic. Basic observation.

>>693250470
it's so sad, but I know you're right anon.

Trying not to be cuck but once you get locked in God help you

>>693249410
i kinda agree with you mate but not really

>>693250371
What's wrong with cuddling? Just stop yourself from getting feelings.
Tell yourself everyday that she's a whore.
SHE'S A WHORE.
SHE'S A WHORE.
SHE'S ONLY WORTH HER HOLE.
And keep cuddling until you get the chance.
Just don't go to jail.

Oh, and thank you for the promise on nudes.

>>693249994
I know it's good when it's good and your dick is balls deep in her but what you're going to remember once it's all over is that you pined after her even though you knew that she was using you. And that's what you will have to live with. If you're going to keep fucking her, don't let yourself be fooled into thinking you're special. If you were, that pussy wouldn't have any other cock in it. Enjoy the sex, even the cuddling and company but keep hold of reality and don't let her hold you back from moving on when it's time to move on.

>>693249357
...dont know how this works, do you?

>>693240451
Start talking to other girls. Don't act interested. Maybe she'll be ready or willing at some point, but best not to think about that now. Sorry OP

>>693250620
Not always, but it seems that everyone jumps to the most pessimistic conclusion they can think of while holding absolutely no knowledge of what the person is going through at the time. Even if you don't go out, she could very well have mixed feelings about the whole thing that require time to sort out. The fact people aren't patient and instantly get mad or depressed if they don't get the answer they want is fucking pathetic. That's the black and white thinking that I'm talking about, and it's just being jaded.

>>693241032
this. she's stringing you along bc you're her backup op. this whole "we could be together but I'm not sure, we'll just see where life takes us" is bullshit. break her off. she's playing you

>>693251114
nice trips

>>693243627
Awww, shit. Why'd you go and do that man?

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>>693240451
b8 to always have you on lengthy enough leash for emotional support, until she gets a real boyfriend and will still use your for emotional support.

>>693251040
This is what I have been doing. She wants to go somewhere without the bf with me soon, hopefully I can deliver on that promise for you anon.

>>693251048
I agree, and will do so. Anon's are being surprisingly chill/helpful tonight, thanks fellas.

>>693251114
checked his other post, follow the links, cmon now

>>693251236
no

Dear OP, where are thou ?

Just post the message where she cucks you even more

>>693241290
this

>>693245057
also this

>>693245982
agree. he should have said cool or OK and closed browser.

>>693248525
more like this

>>693248593
this.

>>693249326
same. I dawned over some girl who said I might have a chance. ignored her, moved on, and she blew my phone up for a while but I just genuinely didn't care.

>>693251406
>She wants to go somewhere without the bf with me soon, hopefully I can deliver on that promise for you anon.

ABANDON YOUR HOPE, FAGGOT

LEAVE EVERYTHING BEHIND YOU

DO I HAVE TO WRITE IN CAPS LOCK TO MAKE YOU UNDERSTAND HOW MUCH A FAGGOT YOU ARE ?

You litteraly are her pet. You will NEVER get her and you'll just suffer months, maybe years.

>>693249945
good example

also confused as to why the dude talking shit to me keeps getting his post deleted

the guy saying "nigga youre a pussy youve never been laid" etc

why is he getting deleted?

>>693251759
I mean I'm not emotionally invested, I'm not that dumb

Just want that poon, although you'll never believe me

>>693243627
Now you fucked it up! No chance! Might as well rape her cat and post the video here cuz it can't reduce your chances

received a similar message and am now together with the girl who sent the message.
the only person who can answer your question is you becuase you are the only one who knows her

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>>693251818
Because I did a conjugation error, nigger. I deleted my message myself.

But that's true, you never get laid because you're a fucking beta.

>>693240451
She doesn't want you, but wants to keep you as a friend.

>>693251818
He's not getting deleted. Retard is posting again and again by mistake, thinking it didn't go through. And deleting himself.

>>693252040
oh

whatever helps you sleep man, the file name made me kek

Assuming OP left. Would like to see her reply.

>>693241762
Start having sex with her brother

>>693252262
this

>>693252262
Kek

That'll learn 'er!

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>>693251894
>I mean I'm not emotionally invested, I'm not that dumb

You are. Aren't you asking for help and hope right now on /b/ ? Aren't you sending her endless messages ? Aren't you feeding any hope ?

You are extremely emotionally invested and dependent of her and that's why you don't listen to anons who tell you to stop talking to her

Ok. who wanna share pics of chicks they like?

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>>693241290
This may be it OP. Either way, it's most certainly rejected and you really should move on before you get yourself into a big mess.

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>>693240451
It means she's unsure of what she wants. Basically, sounds like you're a great guy, she knows she should like you, but she doesn't for some reason. My advice is to move on with your life. Don't cut her out of it, but don't count on her to be what you want. Had it happen to me a time or two. Best case scenario, you guys get together and it's great. Worst case scenario, if you follow my advice, you remain friends.

>>693252429
If there's no one, share your mother.

>>693252390
asking for advice, caught me red handed

stopped messaging her days ago because she needs to stop being a slut

hope was abandoned long ago my friend

>>693243627
That was the most unnecessary shit I have ever read.
>I also don't wanna tell you there's never a chance because honestly who knows.
This was an invitation, a clear invitation that said: get me drunk and fuck me right in the pussy!
You could have been planing your next approach, but now with that emotional, creepy text of yours, you officially blew it son.
Move the fuck on, and also learn from this, so it won't happen again. You fucking faggot

>>693243627
This reminds me of a song...
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Abrn8aVQ76Q

>>693241299
shave, besides the beard you look like a solid 7,5

>>693243627
god damnit op why did you ask for advice if you didn't follow any of it?

>>693251894
lets be honest. not even you believe that.

>>693251255
But at what point do 'mixed feelings' turn into something worse? If she sincerely can't tell you if she likes you or not, then, personally, I'm not going to change myself or try harder to make her like me. What you see is what you get. Some of the worst shit you can do to get a girl is act like someone else, or in this case, ask fucking /b what to do.

You're right, though. Patience is something not wasted on this topic. But being strung along and toyed with is something most people have dealt with, if they've tried to date someone. That shit sucks and no one wants to be option 2.

And yeah, it is jaded. Of course, it does suck being rejected or getting an answer you don't expect. The worst part is asking. The answer is the easiest. Shit just doesn't always have to be so complicated. I feel like in most mediums, that everything is simpler than it seems. Don't over complicate shit.

>>693252620
If she's a slut, why do you love her ? She's toxic to you.

>>693252833
check'd

I believe it, after watching her go back to her cancer bf over and over its clear she's toxic

>>693252886
the assumptions are astounding

I'm not beta enough to love someone whos trying to cuck me out

It's a polite way of saying No.

>>693252040
You should delete this one too, faggot. Your grammar is fucking garbage.

>>693252983
okay well if you DO believe it just go read that response u sent her. youll understand someday. denying it gets you nothing but pain in the end.

>>693253053
She's cucking you right now

>>693249860
What the fuck... who names their kid Graydon?

>>693253178
>>693253053
In fact you're what Internet science calls a beta-orbiter

>>693253158
oh shit, I'm not OP

two different things going on in this thread

>>693253178
you know what, you're fucking right. fuck her. this shit needs to end

>>693253242
kek'd

>>693253185
Some people I know named their child Sativa. It's a terrible world we live in, anon..

You're not ugly OP. Just become alpha and you could get pussy on Tinder

>>693247436
>and now at age 15 I have surely got the world figured out

>>693243627
cringe. should have just shut the fuck up.

>>693253440
On that note, I'm gonna eat a can of Rogaine.

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>>693243627
why r u explainin thangs to bitches
r u dum

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>>693253747
kek

>>693251255
this is why you are autistic

>>693240451
She wants to see if she can string you along.

I'd text her back with a simple- ok.
Nothing else.

>>693253747
The merchant spies a kekkle

>>693241299
You look like you don't wipe.

>>693240451
she finds you disgusting, but cares enough about your feewings to not tell you directly.

You will never fuck her. Move on.

>>693249945
Corey Wayne, huh?

>>693241299
How long did it take you to draw that moustache?

>>693243627

I fucking hate you op you dumb motherfucker

>>693253747
Top kek

>>693255333
czech'd

Guys it's times like these where drastic measures are used for simple problems. Kill her op

>>693241299
I've just posted it on fagmania so better expect many new friends

>>693253440
What a great start in life. I 'd love to see the face of the recruiters when he ´ll start looking for a job

>>693252883
You don't change yourself for a girl. You find someone who appreciates the real you. Only betas bend over backwards for a girl.

>>693240451
There is someone balls deep in her right now.

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>Taking advice from /b/

>>693256606
Leavin the nuts hang out. Just thrusting back and forth with his 8inch nice big haaad fat cock

well, not OP but other guy being cucked here

thanks for the advice everyone, gonna tell her to choose and not get cucked anymore asap

to OP - dont get cucked man, let's both man up and stop this shit

I'm drunk.

>>693241832
this.

I was totally in love with my best friend, god she was beautiful, but she never wanted anything with me, I told her i loved her, I made things for her that no one used to do, but I got tired eventualy, and moved on. later I got a girlfriend and guess what?

SHE STARTED TO WANT ME. I dumped my gf and we fooled around a bit untill she said "oh it was a mistake, I thought it was something above friendship but it wasnt, i'm sorry"

fcking bitch. Do not give her any advantage. she doesnt want you? fine, move on, you can still be friends, but try to get another girl.. but beware, dont let her do what my ex best friend did to me. that is not what a friend does anyway, playing with your feelings.

>>693257350

Wow what a fucking cunt sorry anon

>>693240451
it means youre not getting any
sorry about your luck, op

>>693254705
>this
Also underrated

>>693257350
>SHE STARTED TO WANT ME. I dumped my gf and we fooled around a bit untill she said "oh it was a mistake, I thought it was something above friendship but it wasnt, i'm sorry"

Not trying to kick someone when they're down, but you should have known better than that anon

>>693240451
She's willing to let you win her over, aka make her happy for a temporary while. Then when the moment comes you can genuinely mak her your girlfriend.

She texted that while dating Chad.
How do I know?
If she didn't like you, she would insult you immediately and made sure you knew it.
If she did like you, she would be excited and made sure you knew it.
If she was dating Chad, she had enough time to write you this piss poor response full of excuses as to why she can't date you and doesn't want to seem like a cunt because you're "friends".
If she was fucking Chad, it would been "lol ur funny XD" or something similar.
If she was Chad's gf then she would say "You know I'm with Chad, can't we just be friends?"

Sorry pal, burn the bridge before it's too late.

Op you're an idiot if you think playing all your cards was a wise move

>>693257814
ye, love makes people blind.
I have the best gf now, so I dont care anymore. but when I look back.. god these stupid attention whores broke me so much that I can't feel love the way I used to. I mean, jump off bridges for her if necessary, being passionate about everything she does/says and be romantic, i'm not that anymore because these bitches sucked everything they wanted from me .

really sucks to want to give that to my current gf who really deserves it and for some reason I can't. and she feels that too and sometimes gets sad, but she understands me, at least.

>>693243627
Oh idiot. You should have dropped your expectations to zero, and figure out whats going on with her. Instead you deliver more drama to her face as a bitch that needs validation and attention.

>>693258237

nah not down, this was years ago. but you know what they say: "when you are closer to something, the tougher it is to see it"
at that time, I couldn't see, only later I realized. I'm not friends with her anymore, because friends dont do that to you anyway.

just keep her as a backup, OP. go fuck some other girls in the mean time.