No, but we went to applebees once.

>>690477433
depends if they are friends or horny little nerds who try to undermine the relationship.
If they are causing problems in our relationship on purpose, they probably shouldn't be invited to dinner

>>690477433
Yea.
i trust her.

>OHEMEFFGEEYOUTRUSTYOURSIGNIFICANTOTHER.JPEG?!?!?!?

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>>690477433

Yeah. Duh. Only jealous and insecure boyfriends would give a fuck about their girlfriend having male friends slash speak with men.

It's all about context. Is she flirting with other guys? Then that could be a problem.

Is she ditching you/being shady while hanging out with other guys? That could be a problem.

If she loves you and you are secure, alpha, and take care of her, other guys suddenly cease to be attractive.

Anyway. Everyone has agency over themselves. No matter what you do, literally, you can't tell a girl how to feel or what she shouldn't or shouldn't do. She will just do it.

>You can 100% ensure she will find other men attractive if you are insecure, jealous, and have issues with her casually enjoying platonic friendships with other men.

I mean if she cheats then I'm thinning out the weeds right? If she is able to have male friends and she still stays faithful then I know she's a good gf.
This may be arrogant, I don't know.

unless if they were gay then no. There is literally no reason why a straight guy would want to be just friends with a girl.

>>690478217
shes a fucking camwhore you feminazi cunts

>>690477893
reddit

>>690478287

Also correct - the only context is a work relationship where sexuality or attraction is otherwise deeply inappropriate.

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>>690478217
>casually enjoying platonic friendships with other men.
>You can 100% ensure she will find other men

You're so wrong lol, that's how you put two and two together. Males and females CAN'T have 'casual platonic friendships', it has never worked. My girlfriend and I both know that and accept that, she doesn't want me hanging out and talking to girls and in return I ask the same from her, she tells me everything, I do the same.

Say what you will, this has worked out for her and I for years, probably cause we hadn't slept with 50 people and were each other's first.

But hey, if letting guys regularly ram your girlfriend works out for you and you're happy because she doesn't tell you about it, then I'm happy for you anon!

You guys are insecure fucktards. If you think your girl is just going to jump on the next dick she sees, then you're either ugly or an asshole. Fix one or both of these problems before you start complaining.

As long as their my friends as well wouldn't let her hang with someone I don't know well enough.

>>690479519
you're right. i am ugly but that's something I can't fix...so the other option would be to dump her ass as soon as I see her talking to guys.

>>690478509
But it still happens.

>>690479905
So she gets laid and you end up alone. Pro strats there buddy

A faithful woman interacts with zero men outside of normal daily/business interactions. A faithful woman does not have male friends or associates.

I won't argue with you. You'll understand when you are older.

No.

All guys want to fuck girls, all of em. Even gay guys try to fuck women, /b for example.

>>690480206
oh well. i still get to keep my dignity in tact. I mean, I'm not going to keep an eye on her and follow her around. I'm too lazy to be THAT guy. She's a grown woman, she can do as she wants, but there's no fucking way if she told me about having guy friends i'd be okay with it.

>>690480645
Hahaha, right?

>inb4 "b.--but it's a feminine p..--penis!"

>>690480826
Nah, if you had dignity then you'd be able to keep her.

>>690479519
A good girl might only have a moment of weakness 1 out of every thousand opportunities. Would you rather that thousanth time come up never or every few months?

>>690477893
Cuck

yeah sure

two outcomes:
>she cheats on you (1)
>she doesn't cheat on you (2)

in the event of #1, she's no good for you and break up. there are better girls out there.

in the event of #2, nice job, you have a good girl.

>>690481727
this guy gets it

>>690481727

Dude see this >>690481508

There is no such thing as a good girl all the time. I bet you guys are in your late teens early 20s

Yeah

Are there really people that doesn't have platonic friendships with members of the opposite sex?

>>690480319
>>690480645
>>690480826

what kind of upbringing did ya'll have?

>>690479905
>i am ugly but that's something I can't fix
lol wut

>>690482921
one where i brought myself up, grounded in reality, making my own conclusions from things i observed happening a million times.

faithful women don't have male friends. there is no reason for a woman to have a male friend.

>>690482026
of course there are other factors to consider like how serious/long the relationship is. but i have been in a relationship where i never thought of cheating for a second (we broke up for other reasons). i think for the most part, my formula is correct.

>>690477433
yes, how else will she get them home for us to fuck?

>>690477433
Never! Unless the guy sucks me off first

Protip - You let your bitch hang out with guy "friends" all the time eventually she will end up being FUCKED. Let's be honest, unless these guys are gay, no matter what, these guys will want to get that that pussy....i know for a fact if i had a chance i would fuck my friends significant others..

>>690483093
the reasons for having male friends are the same as having female friends just fyi

>>690483705
well that's because you're a piece of shit

>>690479231
None of this post is true

>>690483895
and yet the reaosns why a male pretends to be friends with a female are not the same reaosns why a female mistakenly thinks the guy is actually her friend.

friends with a girl = beta and trying to fuck her. period. no other version. NO EXCEPTIONS.

>>690479905

People who say that are idiots. Have acne problems? Go on a cure. Have ugly hair? Cut ur hair at an expensive salon.
Bad clothing style? Get better clothes.
Ugly body? Work out.

If your face is ugly af but you still have nice clothes, nice hair and a ripped body you can still be good looking to a lot of people. That simple.

>>690477433
All of my girlfriend 's male friends are gay or beta friendzoned cucks. Whenever she tells me how they confessed their love after her telling them how we spend the night I feel happy although I can't help but feel sorry afterwards since I used to be like them.

>>690483705
well that's because you're an asshole

>>690479231
sad but true man.. and let's just say for a minute that this woman is as honest as mother theresa...the bf still has to deal with "friends" hitting on her, disrespecting the honor of her and the bf.

>>690477433
Do I let...? What? This is the reason you're a kissless virgin, no woman who's worth a damn in terms of mental health is going to ask you for permision...

>>690484174
you don't get out much do you? although your caps leads me to suspect you are just a troll

>>690484456
Beta fag detected. I hope you enjoy licking your gf's guy friends loads off her pussy. lol

>>690484456
>i'm 18 and i know all about life and people! my girlfriend will never cheat on me, we have a pure love that older people can't understand!

Yes i'm trolling because I used all caps for a few words. Remarkable deductive ability.

>>690484684
by your logic I'm also pretty fucking alpha since I'm obviously having sex with all my other female friends, why else would we hang out?

No such thing as a straight male friend.

Only a male who hasn't figured out how to get into her panties yet

/thread

>>690484945
>have multiple female friends

so you literally aren't even mature enough to admit to yourself that it's just about trying to fuck them one day and there's no friendship whatsoever

it must be hard to be not only young but young and confused. i understood myself when i was young , better than this at least

>>690477433
wait, what? What is this, the 1950s??

>>690484818
>>690485251
It must be frustrating to be this misogynist and naive in today's society

>>690479231
You girl sounds like a land whale, it's a fucking proportion thing, obviously platonic anything is off the table, there's a difference in between actual male friends, who will be cool with you and you won't get vibes from, and fucking friendzoned losers or horndog creeps. It's very different to tell a girl I don't like this friend of yours because he tries to stare me down or fucking takes liberties you wouldn't allow me with your female friends or he fucking texts romantic poetry to you than it is to say this guy is chill, has a girlfirend and has been nothing but fucking cool with me but I am that much of an insecure jerk I don't want you anywhere near anything with a penis. Fucking grow up, it's fucking cool to have your own space and life and she should too. Plus it fucking rocks when you can go out and get fucking wasted with your friends and then come home to find she's just as drunk and horny.

>>690485800
And may I add, it fucking doubles the chance one of you scores good blow.

>>690485719
It must be comforting to live in a bubble of imagination and fantasy.

>>690485800
Wall of text Vegimite faggot

She had gay guy friends when we started dating, and they had also been friends for a long time so I didn't care

>>690486496
Yea but he is gay..he has no intention of fucking her or finds her attractive.Now, if she just had a lot of straight friends and they went and hung out, drank,etc you think the thoughts of fucking her won't cross his mind? Let's not say all women are innocent and faithful, you hear it all the time were cheating happens in these scenarios.

Yeah, I trust her

>>690477433
Only beta friends. And I'm not even kidding. My girlfriend started to make friends with this frat boy in here English class. Left a shit ton of hickey on her neck that night when she slept over and fucked. So I #1, made it clear she had a boyfriend/boytoy who was man handling her. This immediately throws another guy off his game if you know she just got fucked HARD. Next I had her post a picture of us that I looked really good and fairly big in on her Instagram, for "cuteness" purposes. I know he as to have followed her on Instagram, he sees her under some 6'4" blonde guys arm, and he's only 6', immediate intimidation. He stopped being friendly to her within the week.
The rest of her friends are cucks, fat dudes, or literal faggots. I honestly manage her male friendships without her knowing.
She feels like I'm not controlling at all and therefore constantly wants to please me and never rebels while I have complete confidence, even 5 states away for a few months, that NOTHING is going to happen.
I also called her ex boyfriend and told him I would kill him if he ever came near her again. He had really emotionally scared her and was playing games with her heart while we started talking. Ended that shit REAL quick. Also convinced her that he cheated on her, which there's a good chance he did, and she was crying about how he is suck a cock. Plus she also said his dick is tiny and that she didn't know what good sex was until we fucked. Which I believe with the way she screamed the first time.

Just manage your women /b/ros. Its super easy, just takes a little thinking.

a few questions for single fags with female friends itt;
are your female friends attractive?
would you have sex with any of them if they wanted your dick?
if not, why?

'let her have guy friends'

ofc I let her have guy friends, I dont like it but what can I do. She has like 10 guy friends and 5 girl friends

>>690487985
have you told her that you don't like it?

>>690487899
this, and I try to be cool about it but the problem is shes slept with pretty much all of her guy friends in the past at one time or another. theyre not ex's, just friends that she slept with and it does my head in sometimes.

>>690488176

yes.
she told me something like ''so what I would never do anything with them, even if they would come onto me''

>>690488228
I hope your first name starts with a D and hers starts with an L. Because you are the epitome of my friend.

>>690485800
>>690486123
Haha you determined the weight of my girlfriend just by reading what I wrote huh? Did you also determine yourself being a huge faggot? You said "fucking" eight times in that whole text, are you trying to sound 'cool' or something?

Hey man, if it works for you then great, enjoy your girlfriend and your "double chances of scoring good blow"

>>690486369
Apparently I got it right on landwhale

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>>690487985
How does it feel to know that she's getting dicked by 10 other guys and telling at least 5 people about it

>>690488771
fuck you she would never do that

>>690488388
heh if the guy is attractive, big bulge in pants, few drinks and she is tipsy and horny...and there was no way you would find out...yea let's jsut say her pussy would be wrecked hard behind your back and you might never know it.

>>690488847
>said every guy that was cheated on ever

>>690488905
She is a horny drunk, but no she would never cheat on me

>>690487912
Guys literally this. Its small amount of manipulation and confidence is key. Fuck her so hard she's sore. I don't care if you have to take a Viagra and cum right at the beginning in a condom then do a quick switch but make her unable to walk. You need to put your woman in line or she will find a man who will. Fake your confidence if you have too.

>>690488388
what did you say when she said that?
do you have female friends?

>>690489319

I dont have female friends. I told her ''But I dont like the fact that they're coming onto you, even if I knew you wouldnt do anything''
She goes out like every weekend and I dont really like going out much

>>690487912
You're as much of a creep as the openly controlling guys. I get it once in a while OPENLY marking your territory in some common sense scenarios, but this being devious... She probably does fucking know what you're doing, that she lets you get away with it doesn't mean she likes it... Or that she's not letting you think you're in control so she can do whatever she wants behind your back... That's the risk you run when you introduce this shit in a relationship.

>>690488559
nope
>>690488733
idk I dont think its disgusting its just weird when were out with her friends. sometimes I wish Id never asked

>>690488626
i will, enjoy your fucking lard ass landwhale.

>>690489088
Bro. Real story here.. my gf's friend hangs out with us time to time. She is married, and her husband and i are good friends and they are in love and have a kid. There was this one incident where me, my gf, and her were getting wasted , my girl was out and she was still up and began flirting with me and talking dirty and even suggested i sleep with them instead of the next room...it took every fiber in my being to resist and change the topic, if i had wanted to i coudl have fucked her there and then right next to my passed out gf.

it honestly just depends on the context. Most people wouldnt cheat on their partner's if it weren't for the curse of opportunity. Maybe your gf is feeling a bit down and underloved because youve been busy for a few weeks, then all of a sudden shes out drinking with her 'platonic' guy friends and shes tipsy and hes showing interest which is giving her a huge self confidence boost, next thing you know they're fucking at his place. She wasn't planning on cheating, but she put herself in the position where something could happen and you let her go there. Whenever ive cheated on partners or been cheated on this is generally the situation.
> if your gf hangs out with guys the best way to stop it is to have big drunk party nights with other girls, lots of photos getting close dancing shots etc, she'll get jealous then make you stop so you can do the same, make it seem like her idea. Way easier than telling a bitch she cant hang out with guys and having her go all "you dont own me"

Well her only guy friends are my best friends. And all those guys are in a relationship or pursuing a relationship with her friends

>>690477433
No because there's no such thing. No man has befriended any woman for the sake of just being friends.

>>690489718
you should have. it wasn't going to ruin your relationship. Cheating is all about not doing it often and being fucking discreet.

>>690478249
>lmao
>good gf

Most women cheat. Most men cheat. If all there friends are the opposite sex or at least the majority, chances are, there banging.

>>690489520
i get a strong sense that she has higher social status than you do. that never works out in the long run. get your shit together or find another girl.

>>690477433
Yes because I'm not insecure.

>>690489896
meh I have legit hot friends. Some yes I'd fuck, some I have and it's been cool no one else knows years later, some are like fucking sisters to me and the bond really works that way.

>>690490314
yeah that's definitely true, but we're in uni now. finished in a few years, then it will all change

>>690485251
You can have female friends but prob there is sexual tension. Just like having same sex gay friends. There can still be sexual tension that everyone ignores and remains friends

>>690477734
Big-time cuckold

>>690477433
What about gay female friends?

Yeah mine was some male friends that play the nice card but are lowkey desperate cunts trying to get in. She does exactly what I tell her to do when it comes to dealing with them but I don't like coming off as controlling and I want her to know what to do without me telling her.

>what do

>>690482921
You're not very good looking are you anon?

>b me
> hang out with bros gfs on occasion
>mfw they always be leering sexually at me, mfw my buddies get pissed and don't bring em around me
> be at work, all married female Co workers always wanna talk about sex and be smiling that sex flirt smile at me.
>be at the checkout and random checkers with wedding rings always trying to get invited to whatever party I'm buying booze for, looking like she about to suck some dick

These girls ain't loyal

>>690490073
Believe me it ran through my mind so much and if i'm glad i used my head not the other one..i did not want to risk a 6 year relationship..but damn let me tell you i still think about it time to time and fantasize about it.

>>690477433
i have a qt asian gf but she's completely psychotic
and yes, she can do what she wants because she's raised conservative catholic and basically dindu nuffins wrong

>>690490580
Also to add to this, she is learning and she isn't making the same mistakes but I feel like this is stuff she should know without me telling her

>>690477433
Well, this isn't a third world Muslim self-cucking nation, so yeah.

Now, if this was Iran or Saudi Arabia, where the guys cuck themselves, then beat their wives, and blame women for getting raped, I would prohibit her from that shit, cause that shit would get her killed.

>>690483093
besides just to be friends.Like how any other platonic relationship. But sure, we'll pretend your faggot ass has friends let alone a girlfriend. I'll humor you for a moment.

>>690490697
The thing is not all men or women would act the same or use the same restraint.If that was the case, marriages would never end and couples cheating would be unheard of. It's good to be open and honest in a relationship to keep these things off bay. But even then, thats not enough and some people will just give in to tempation no matter what.

Girl here. Reading all those misoginous comments im like... U guys are crazy. I have male friends and i dont want sex with them and if they want sex with me i wont give it to them if im in a relationship.
U CANT ban your girlfriend to have male friends thats illegal. If u are ugly or insecure isnt your girlfriends problem so grow up or go to saudi arabia.
To the guy who said a "faithful girl dont have male friends" fuck your faith and suck your bible, dont fuck around with your medieval shit.

>>690483093
One of my close friends is female. She has a bf she's in love with and as cute as she is I respect that and have never made any moves towards her or really had a desire to. We've chilled plenty of times just the two of us and we always just smoke and talk about shit or watch tv and then she goes home. What's so hard to grasp about all this and why do u think it can't exist

>>690489522
Lol well were 5 months strong and she's already talking to her parents about marriage. Her family loves me. I honestly treat her great. But I don't fuck around with other guys. She doesn't need to have this big masculine friends. She has one of those and he's my roommate who's had a gf for over a year that we've double dated with, my fucking bro.

Women have a natural want to be dominated, and they only need to be dominated by one man to feel fulfilled. She has good male and female friends but I know every single one of them and I am absolutely positive she would do nothing with any of them. And that's because that's the way I've made it. I see too many girls cheat on their boyfriends at frat parties and I'm making sure that's never going to happen.
You sound like you're a beta man. I've fucked 15 girls, and had 4 long relationships with gorgeous women. I can post pictures from almost all of them. I'm not trying to brag, I'm just saying I've done my time and figured out how shit works.

>>690490073
You're a pathetic excuse for a person. Eat shit an die.

>>690491285
Can you repeat what you said? All I heard was a bunch of cuntlips flapping.

>>690491319
my man! Same here. Glad you left a comment. This shit is ridiculous.

>>690487985
This, I never like it but honestly there's nothing I can do, she doesn't really have a guy friend she hangs out with anyways she really prefers to be alone or with me, she would never cross that line or she knows I'd be gone in a second flat

>>690491285
Show us your tits or get the fuck off the Internet cum dumpster

>>690477433
Yeah, I'm not retarded.

>>690484003
Haha dudes not a peice of shit or an asshole. I have plenty of friends that want to fuck their friends gf and tbh some do and some dont, its just the mantaility they have

Only when my dick is dryly in her azz ^^

>>690493129
My first three way was with my buddies wife and my chick.

Shit was sweet.

Came buckets.

He later died in a car wreck so he never found out.

See sometimes it all works out in the end.