show her ur zozzle

>>690438145
zozzle?

>>690438202
your ding dong

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>>690438078
dump her. no, i am serious. bet you bought her dinner/gifts etc. spent time with her, listened to her problem or w/e bitch has to give to you for you taking her shit (probably sounds like a rant)

>>690438295
I'm also a girl

>>690438078
get off /b/, that would be a start summerfag

>>690438380
tits or gtfo

>>690438380
ah so your a lesbo eh.

Well theres not much I can tell you, either get a strap on or dump her.

>>690438358
I did indeed buy her gifts and spend time with her, you think i should dump her for not letting me finger her? ps. nice pic

>>690438380
tits with timestamp or gtfo

If i have learned anything over the years it's find a girl that really wants the same thing that you want. Its the key to fulfillment.

>>690438546
>>690438470
Not a slut/whore srry bro

how long have you been together? did she tell you from the start she wasnt interested in sex?

>>690438679
you can be one anyday, why not today ? :)

is there a big age difference?

>>690438742
Almost 3 months, not in the beginning but some time later she did. Altho shes not a virgin

>>690438920
2 years

>>690438532
yes

>>690438890
Prefer getting something back than giving for free

have you asked her why she doesn't want to have sex? Maybe its only a temporary thing to see if you two are compatible mentally before moving on to sexually

>>690439067
then what u want girl

>>690439067
so why don't you setup a live cam with paypal, i'll pay ;)

also if you are under 18 and she is over she may be waiting for you to become legal age so she doesnt get into any legal trouble.

>>690439222
Tried sexting, she rejected. Tried asking her about sex stuff, she rejected and changed the subject. She never explained, she always just changes the subject

>>690438679
Not asking you to be, just marry me forever. not slutty that way

>>690438078
>My gf doesn't want to have sex/get fingered

So you're like 12?

b&

>>690439393
Im the older one

>>690439525
I'm 18, u were close tho, kappa

>>690439237
>>690439248
Well considering i'm gay, i dont want dick

>>690438078
You're 13, aren't you?

Then you have to be upfront with her. tell her it is important for you ton know why and where she stands on sex because while you dotnt expect sex right this second you will eventually want to move onto that and if it isnt something she will ever be interrested in then you need to rethink continuing your relationship with her.

>>690439678
>I'm 18, u were close tho, kappa

>>690439587
>I'm 18

That's what all the underage fags say

It's like when underages try to buy alcohol or get into a club, they always say "I'm 21" because that's the age you have to be and they're too retarded to think to say that they're older than that

but my guess would be she has probably been molested or forced to have sex before and has shut herself off from it.

>>690439913
So how do u want me to prove it faggot?

RAPE!

>>690439983
I've actually asked her that, she told me she never was raped or any of those thing. But u never know indeed

>>690439712
I'll try, gotta wait till she gives a response

Dont just dump her with no reason though. make sure she knows why you have to move on if thats what you decide to do. She may hate you for the reason but it is ess mentally damaging for her to know why rther then to wonder what happened.

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>>690439422
maybe she is cheating, or wants someone else, bitches change their minds like no tomorrow

>>690440025
That was my second option, any tips m8?

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She is unattracted to you and using you for emotional validation and to get money and stuff out of you. Also she is probably cheating on you.

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>>690440251
if she left him, she would not give a shit about his well being, i beleive

>>690438532
how old are you OP? If you're both adults, your sex life is reason enough to dump her.

>>690440016
You can't prove something that isn't true, queerbait.

you said she doesnt want to be fingered but does she finger and play with you? not being a perv just trying to see where she may be coming from.

>>690438078
>gf
>won't get fingered
>supposedly 18
what are you guys fucking mormons?

There's a mushroom in Hawaii that supposedly induces females into orgasm. I only know of one actual research paper on it. So, it's probably complete bullshit. The paper is also 14 years old. The mushroom is the netted stink horns.

>>690440259
>>690440313
She better not be cheating, because if she is/was then ill make that bitch regret it with some good old fashion rape :D No but on a serious note she never wanted to have sex not even with her ex (but they did had it tho) so she may be lying idk

or her ex forced her and she feels deep regret for doing it.

>>690440618
Nope, not into it at all. She didnt even try anything. I did but she rejected it

>>690440708
>>690440616
If you dont give me options on how to prove it i cant prove it faggot. Because a selfie wont be the option because i look like a 12 y/o anyway

she didnt want to have sex with her ex but she did. sounds like she might have been raped but doesnt understand that what happened to her is in fact rape. She is young at 16 and probably confused over what actually happened.

>>690440917
That could also be an option, girls are complicated creatures

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>>690440794
sex, affection, attention approval w/e they are all rewards for being a "good man", unless you mistreated her you check most of the boxes of a good man, so youve earned your dues. that bitch cheating? dump her. that bitch letting girl-friends/family pressure her into leaving you/convincing her you are not right? leave her. there is give and take in any relationship, and sounds like she is all take no give atm

Are you all fucking retarded

OP
She isn't comfortable being a lesbian
however she wants the emotional support, and friendship.

She isn't sexually attracted to you.
simple as that. she isn't gay.

So.
what I would do?
threaten her with leaving. "if you don't want to have a full relationship then we're breaking up"

if she doesn't want it.
then fucking break up immediately and don't look back.

any questions?

>>690440794
Kiss her neck, massage her thighs or nibble on her earlobes try fucking everything, girls can get horny from just about anything same as guys can.

>>690441233
dont forget we have no investment/attachment to this, if you follow any advice here and you regret it, remember you are the one asking anonymous trolls for relationship advice.

I would tell her I think you have a lot to figure out when it comes to your sexuallity and why I am happy to be your friend and hang out, I cant be in a relationship with someone who doesnt want the same things i want. If tat ever changes then I would be happy to try again if we are both single, but until then we have to remain friends only.

>>690438078
Either fuck her or move on Jesus Christ anon

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>>690441233
same fucker here, didnt read all the posts, swap "good man" with "good partner" or w/e i dont care that much

>>690441399
"full relationship" means different things to different people. It means nothing if the person who says it doesnt explain exactly what they mean.

Take these fags advice and leave her.

Either you'll get pissed at no sexy time and either do something that'll get you locked up.

Or

You let her cuck your wallet and time til her new Chad comes.

>>690441827
no shit, the point is to confront her

>>690441233
Ofc i treat my girl right, And sometimes i feel like she does lack of wanting to give me attention but then again im also a girl and girls are retards anyway that bitch about shit that aint there

>>690441399
>She isn't comfortable being a lesbian
Doubt that would be the case if everyone already knows shes a lesbian
>>690441466
>girls can get horny from just about anything same as guys can
True, ill try such things. the only thing i actually really tried that's sexual is touching her boobs. She rejected that tho

>>690438078
Ruphies

I am aware the point is to confront her. That is the advice I have already given. But when you confront someone you have to be clear or te person will be confused as to what it is you really want.

>>690441399
You are the fucking retarded one.

OP, she doesn't like sex. Dump her, or don't and be miserable till you can't take it anymore and dump her.

>>690442082
Just talk to her about it? say your ready to get sexual and maybe she'll talk to you why she feels uncomfortable

>>690441597
Well considering shes pretty damn hot, has a good personality, ain't a slut (like most girls where i live) and also wants me, Is hard to get so i wont let her go that easily

>>690438078
Bite her in the neck or in the ears. usually works

>>690442082
>doubt that would be the case

im not here to argue with you
im here to tell you.

that's exactly what it is
this isn't some fucking complicated issue.

don't be an idiot in denial.
Let me ask you
Has she ever had a sexual relationship with a girl?

She has already said she doesnt want sex, so touching her after she has told you this will lead her to conclude that you dont care about her emotionally and will stop your relationship from ever progressing, that is if you still want to see where it goes.

http://www.girlsaskguys.com/sexual-behavior/q2026214-which-one-of-these-girls-would-you-rather-have-sex-with

vote

>>690438078
Try masterbating right, but make sure she ends up seeing you do it, hope that she stays and watches.... and try and catch her out and she should be horny by then. Good luck

>>690438524
>ah so your a lesbo eh.
OP is a faggot

>>690438078
there's obviously an issue here, so talk to her and work it out.

>>690438078
Offer her a massage

Put on some sappy lovestory movie for her to watch

Light scented candles

T-minus 15 minutes

>>690442366
No she has not, and neither have i but that does not mean i ain't gay either lol

Alcohol

Pathetic cancer itt

Put some Horny Goat Weed (aka. Epimedium) in her food. It's a beneficial herb you can buy at GNC, The Vitamin Shoppe, etc.

>>690442553
Offered her 2 times, she denied it. Dunno why

>>690438078

Watch the Bill Murray film Stripes. Seriously, the spatula trick works a treat

when she gets home spread ur ass cheecks and pussy show her
then you can dingelidong bazobberidoo

>>690438380
you could show her your pp

>>690438078
Be more attractive, she's probably getting her fill by other guys on the side.

>>690442618
That's exactly what I thought.


>>690442270
whose the retard now, jackass.

its as simple as I said here.
>>690441399

Congrats.
you figured it out.
Thread over.

god you people over complicate the simplest shit, I swear

>>690442941
>Be more attractive
Im already surprised she choose me so "attractive" ain't in my vocabulary

>>690442082
Well, femanon, my advice is to invite her over and be in your underwear and be as sexy as possible when it comes to doing anything. You gotta pick something up? Bend over and pop that ass out. Basically, make her see you as something she needs to fuck, but, don't bring up sex while you're doing it, and if she asks, just say something that you're just more comfortable in your underwear instead of sweats or some other bs like that. If she still doesn't even make a move, then I don't know what will work, you may just have to dump her ass.

>>690443153
I'd choose you too anon
pls love me

>>690439712
i messaged her, didnt wanna talk about it rn

>>690443542
I luv u daddy

>>690443372
I'm pretty sure waiting for your girlfriend in your underwear is not going to work the way you intend to. If anything it should be the other way around.

Best advice i can give OP is create situations where she has to stay the night with you in your bed and take advantage of it.

>>690443004
How on earth can someone not get horny and dont want to have sex. I dont get that shit

Maybe she's pretending to be gay to get attention from you, but doesn't want to be physical because she's not really?

Getting lesbian advice from dudes....not going to work

>>690443923
this. most guys are going to be like "dump her" or "send her a dick pic! lol"

>>690443719
Ive slept with her in the same bed multiple times. I only got to cuddle her
>>690443785
That could also be an option. if she is then i dont got much faith for girls left

>>690443923
Tru, but hey i was bored and was like lets see what /b/ will say

>>690443923
dudes face the same problem when the girl is refusing sex tho

>>690443727
Because, theyre torn
societal pressures, and/or natural urges

Shes a young girl who is Telling herself shes a lesbian, but doesn't understand exactly what that entails.
She loves the idea of being loved by someone she has a lot in common with, a real girlfriend. she thinks guys suck.

But she isn't turned on by girls, that much.
Young girls do this all the time for attention.
nothing new.

OP if you're truly lesbian.
LIKE I SAID BEFORE.
threaten her, IMMEDIATELY,
HOPE she eventually starts to enjoy real lesbianism,.
and if you don't get what you want. LEAVE

this is what you females lack, you need to man up and have balls , and Alpha out.
ironically which is what turns girls on.


any questions anyone?

>>690444228
some girls are more alpha than guys tbh

This relationship isn't going to work in the long run, so start thinking about that.
She doesn't seem to care about your needs
She doesn't communicate regarding problems
Seems to keep brushing the issues off

That's not.how healthy relationships work

C L I T
L
I
T

Rub it, no penetration. She starts getting into it, stop and make her beg. Side finger over gash, slide one in, she is resdy.

>>690438078
Fuckin break up with her you fuckin summer favorite retard rapist. You don't deserve her go die.

>>690444228
Could be, altho she never enjoyed sex with a guy either. Ud say shes lying?

>>690444050
If you get to cuddle with her just do less obvious stuff like make circles on her leg or just touch your lips again her stomach or arm, could also do slight massage. Continue for a long time without touching anything obvious like her boobs or between legs. Used to work for me when I was just hanging with my gf, I was just doing it without thinking but always ended up in sex even if I didn't feel like it

>>690444621
lol damn u mad bro?
>>690444591
Shell def 100% reject that if i tried

SHE'S ASEXUAL FUCKIN RESPECT IT

>>690440313
/thread


But no really: this.

>>690444733
Seems logical, Ive touched her stomach with my lips tho
>>690444796
If she is, then she should tell me instead of teasing me. I cant respect something if the person wont even tell me

>>690438679
>implying the rules only apply to sluts

Tits or gtfo manlet

>>690444624
You need to consider multiple things.

1. Sex isn't that great for girls at first, when theyre virgins.. its a fucking nightmare
2. she may feel Used by guys and think she hates guys.
3. MOST GUYS Suck at sex, or have tiny dicks.

and btw.
Every idiot in this room saying "Be sexier" and "try kissing her neck"
You're missing the problem.
She doesn't WANT to enjoy it.

OP you're going to have to force her.
as in threaten her to leave if you dont get what you want. and hope it grows on her.
One thing you women fall for (unfortunate) is rejection.

how long have you guys been together? have you kissed? I knew a girl who was adamant to do nothing but kiss for about a month or two, but I put up with it. One day she took my hands and put them on her breasts while we were making out. Within about 4 months total I had her naked and fingering her. tl;dr if she's actually attracted to you it will happen. if she's not, its probably not going to last anyway.

>>690445038
Because sluts/whores only do that shit to get attention. And besides i said earlier i look like a 12 y/o so does my body so using google would bring more things up than what i got to offer lol

>>690444979
No i think you should respect her wishes. No means no stop complaining bitch

>>690438078
What about some surprise sex?

>>690445131
almost 3 months, we have kissed a lot

Women love surprise sex especially after a little wine cooler with some roofies

>>690441075
post your fucking drivers license or valid ID and use MS paint to cover up things other than your birthday, include a pic of yourself for proof.

But we all know you're underaged anyways because literally no one over the age of 18 would actually be in a situation as infantile as this and talk about it in such a cucktarted fashion.

Mods just ban this faggot, 4chan doesn't need this shit, fuck, it's worse than loli threads made by closet pedos

>>690445234
A girl saying no towards someone they dont know and towards someone theyre in a relationship with is different

>>690445430
I'm thinking she's either confused about being gay or had a negative experience with sex

Wow you people are dumb kids.
its all right here.

>>690441399
>>690442366
>>690443004
>>690444228
>>690445086

>>690438078
>My gf doesn't want to have sex

Ditch her and move on to her female friend(s), sister(s), mother, aunts(s)...

>>690445702
Ain't give me a sec

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>>690445702
if god said no lolis then why are made of delicious cake

>>690438078
R u serious? Come on there are plenty of ways to get her horny without being rapey. Kiss her ears, her neck, (seriously THE NECK) lick her behind the front teeth. Play with her tits, let her straddle youand grab her ass, fucking complement her (no bitch, I mean like "god your fucking tits are great") dry hump. Moan and grunt and do sexy sounds. If that doesn't work push her against the bed and look her right in the fucking eyes with the burning idea that you want her and you know she want you. If that doesn't work, well... I dunno.

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>>690445210
That may be, but you're breaking the rules.

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>>690445702
Happy m8?

>>690446607
are you from the netherlands?

>>690446842
Yes

>>690446902
cool, I've never been there

can we see what you look like op?

>>690446990
Meh country sucks, especially the retarded langauge

>>690447125
fair enough

>>690446902
Zou toch graag willen weten hoe je er uit ziet.

>>690447082
with timestamp?

>>690447082
*what your tits look liek

>>690447216
Just talk english, as i mentioned above dutch sucks more dick than hookers

>>690446607
Listen faggot, you WILL fuck your girlfriend. Your first mistake was going straight into fingering to get her horny. That's dumb as shit. The whole body is an erogenous zone. I'm talking about the neck, the tits, behind the ears, around her belly, her ass, her back. You use all your tools and mix it up. Your second mistake is coming here to ask advice.to kissless virgins. You try to make her feels.safe and sexy and make it about you two. The moment you stop making her feel good and safe she is gonna want to stop. You listening cucklord

>>690447250
preferably

>>690446459
They aren't.

The bar of what you can masturbate to has just gone down so low because of your inability to experience actual sex. The same thing is true with creepshots. The second you're actually getting pussy you'll realize just how boner shriveling your "delicious cake" is. Too bad you'll never find out.
>>690446607
Congratz. Break up with your girlfriend if she isn't willing to discuss sex unless you are both mutually emotionally that infantile. In that case please remove yourself and her from the gene pool, or at least stay out of it for good

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>>690447506
Hope u can read that shit because its mirrored. And yes ik i dont look 18 lol

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>>690447787
"The inability to appreciate cake does not make it less delicious" - Jesus

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>>690448306
Cant wait for a feminist to come on this website

>>690448083
very cute. and yea its a pretty good chance she's straight if you guys haven't done anything physical in 3 months.

>>690448465
Can't stand attention whores who are gay for attention... Already happened to me once

>>690438078
>I need /b/'s help. My gf doesn't want to have sex/get fingered. Does /b/ know a non rape way to get her horny enough?
Man I remember how rough it was when I was in 5th grade (Teacher wouldn't go out with me no matter how much I hit on her).
GL bro.

>>690448083
Just ask her straight into her face wtf is wrong

>>690448649
I did. She did not want to talk about it

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>>690448278
You are degenerate please do not reproduce

>>690448837
100% Straight or cheating

>>690448869
kek

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>>690448869
"A loli is fine too, every once in awhile" - George Washington

>>690448976
Hard to find out if shes cheating or straight tho

>>690448837
Maybe put honey or nutella on your vagina to get her going... Works always with the kids...

>>690448837
Just tell her straight in the face you don't wanna continue being together unless she wants to talk about it

>>690439587
>>690439533
>18
>Older one
How old is she?

>>690449616
1 year younger

>>690448083
>tits
>gtfo
Choose one

>>690438078
beat the shit out of her mate, put her in the fucking ground.

>too lazy to read the thread; non peen prospective:
The thing if she has had sex before, shes probably not gay.
Ive thought about dating girls before because theyre cute and boobs and nice and id just like to cuddle. but i cant be down with vaginas, i think theyre pretty gross and really ugly. i wouldnt play with if she was a 12/10 kawaii asian girl with b cups and wore pigtails and glasses regularly.
like i could kiss girls and touch other parts of them but i dont like the idea of other girls touching me either...
Its probably a self conscious thing like she thinks that youll judge her or it (assuming you havent seen her completely naked),
If you buy her stuff or do alot for her she could jsut be using you.

as for making her horny, i woudl start slow. kiss her, massage her, kiss her neck, stomach, shoulders ect. maybe rub her thighs to test waters or massage near her boobs. maybe shell let you touch them eventually....

>>690440742
>netted stink horns
hawaiifag here, ive never heard of this existing here because im 1000% everyone would be all over this if so

>>690450620
I havent seen her completely naked, the most i saw of her body (besides the obvious things) is her stomach. So if you would come across a girl that likes u, u would date her but not have sex with her?

>>690438078
If she has given you no real reason, nor confided in you about her sexual problem she is either not in to you, a tease, a prude or all of the above.
Dont waste time like I did...dump her, move on, it is not worth it.

>>690451287
>like I did
Story?

>>690446607
je bent klein

>>690438078
Give her some molly and put some sort of heavy bass music. If there are other dudes or chicks around she will probably fuck them too

>>690451568
That was years ago

>>690451562
I second this motion