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Why do I feel like this, /b/? It hurts so fucking much. When
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Why do I feel like this, /b/? It hurts so fucking much.

When I was 21 I went on a holiday and hooked up with a beautiful girl who was 16 and spent pretty much my whole holidays with her (legal here in Aus and her parents were cool ad with us, her mother even said to use condoms if we did anything lol) She was my first kiss and everything else.. she's literally flawless and we made out and hanged out the whole time. She promised she would never forget me and wants to meet up again someday.

We still talked and snapchatted everyday after the holidays but I knew I couldn't keep it up with the long distance so I slowly stopped.. Anyway not long ago I see her on social media and she has a 20 year old boyfriend now and they do everything together.. She loves him and thinks he's the best..

I want to know why do I feel so shit and upset, /b/? She was just a fucking hookup and yet when I know she's out there making out and getting banged by her recent boyfriend it kills me inside.. And the fact she's young but I love her so much...

Why do I feel like this /b/..
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Dude, move on.
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Don't be a beta fag. Get some more puss puss and you'll feel better.
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>>690070155
But I can't when I see her having all this love shit with a BF I miss her so much and I love her. I miss her stroking my arms (gym fag here) and kissing my neck I love her

The one girl I love who loved me back has a BF and it hurts me
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>>690069915
Because you're a beta
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>>690070229
You'll find another GF. Stop being a Beta cuck and forget her. Ye i know it's hard but still she doesn't gives a fuck about you anymore and you shouldn't care about her either
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>>690070229
It's very unhealthy to cling to people in a relationship, so the best advice is to move on. It may feel right now that you can never find anyone else, but trust me, you can.
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>>690070477
She loved me and promised we'd be together again
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>>690069915
I've only kissed 3 girls in my life, and I've realized I'm a permavirgin. Stop being a bitch and jackoff. You forget about it more everyday that goes by.
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>>690069915

Simple, because you're a loser and you dwell on the past. She's moved on, obviously. So should you. There's over 6 billion people on this planet, why stay hung up on one bitch?
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ya never forget your first.
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>>690069915
She was your first now you're emotionally attached. She just wanted a good time and now that you're gone she's not going to drop everything and wait for you. Imagine if the rolls were reversed and girls were constantly hitting on you, would you ignore them?
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>>690070793
Dude, she's 16, she doesn't even know what color dress she wants to wear that day; let alone who she "loves". Get over it you whiny pathetic cunt, you're a god-damn adult supposedly, so act like one.
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>>690071307
>>690071309

This.

All of you fuckers that have posted anything else different are autistic
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>>690071309
I just miss her and every time she posts and her BF comments and says lovey dovey shit it hurts and kills me..

Also I know she really liked me and I love her too
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>>690071469
She's 17 now man.. She's super mature and I love her
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>>690069915
im 20 and i am kissless virgin. i want to kill myself..
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>>690071632
Just move on bro you are looking at things with rose tinted glasses, she's probably not as great as your making her out to be. When I was 18 the same thing happened to me but now that bitch is 30 and is a lesbian who works as a waitress. Find another girl and you'll get over it.
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>>690069915
WPH?
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>>690071690
She acts super mature. She's a kid, which is the same as a retarded adult.
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>>690071690

Oh wow, 17, so mature... right.
Keep on being moronic, anon, it's okay.
The only person who's getting hurt by this is (you).
I couldn't careless how bad you fuck up your miserable life, wasting away groveling over some bitch that's moved on.

Drink bleach and get it over with, bitch.
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>>690071815
y u such a bitch tho?
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>>690071690
are you kidding?
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>>690071980
Aww look the edgy little kid is posting on the internetz again xD
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>>690072155
I'm not that guy, but you're a special kind of stupid.
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It's just that she's so beautiful and when we kissed and cuddled it's like everything disappeared and all I wanted was her bro's

I still love her so much and it breaks my heart seeing her and her BF even though I was the one who slowly stopped talking to her should I talk to her again..?
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>>690072263
>>690071980
Sure thing samefag edgy cuck

It's nice to know you've acted tough on the Internet today
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>>690071941
This. People change dude. What they like, want and need. Take it from someone who didn't move on from his first love, don't do do that you must meet other girls dude otherwise you'll turn into a depressed beta NEET and be so bitter at the world that you'll shun the world for 10 long years and wallow in your own sorrow.
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>>690069915
>When I was 21
>She was my first kiss

Oh fuck... I died a little when I read this.
What a Goddamned loser.
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>>690072367
Meh I've seen worst.

Insecure faggot
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>>690072268
If you loved her so much then why is she cuddling with another guy right now. You sound like a women.
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>>690072349

Guess again, nimrod.
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>>690072268
Jesus no.

You may feel that way, and she might have in the past. You can't let yourself get dragged down by your feelings for a person that doesn't reciprocate them.

Jackoff a few times and do what you enjoy. It makes the pain go away. Slowly.
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>>690069915
>Why do I feel like this, /b/? It hurts so fucking much.

Because you want it to hurt you edgy little girl. A normal person moves on and doesn't have a feels folder dedicated to crying about things.
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>>690072268
Do things dude, go to gym, go out with friends, put yourself on Dating apps. Keep pushing forward bro. Trust me you'll move on and be better for it. If its meant to be between you two it'll work its own way out. Maybe you'll meet her in the future when you're both in different circumstances and shit
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>>690072439
That takes a special type of retardation.

How's that feel?
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>>690072349
So you're saying op should wallow in his shit stew of sadness?

>>690072551

And I'm not this guy, I'm the other one.
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>>690069915
We share almost the same story op after 4 years (she was 16 too at that time) i still can't move on i remember my ex everyday and see her in medias so happy and maybe pregnant hurts me deep
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>>690073600
Then stop fucking paying attention to her. Love is like a drug habit. You have to stop any contact with it to ensure it doesn't destroy you.
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She's getting another dick in her XD
Deep strokes back and forth in her sugarwalls

Just imagine that deep passionate love they are making, him becoming a potential father to her offspring. You will be out of the picture forever.

Only thing to do is an hero or assert your dominance OP
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>>690069915
I'm gonna assume because you hadn't felt that way before. kinda like with the last person I talked to. everyday we'd talk and he would me "his" (I'm yours, your mine) then suddenly silence. til I see him with another guy(later found out was his ex) lol it hurt for a while but after a few months I got over it.
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>>690074102
Lol. Try harder faggot
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>>690072844
Idk I'm not an insecure faggot
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>>690074009
I don't know man feels like if i stop paying attention to her and hold myself back i will accumulate all those feelings inside of me and at some point i will turn crazy and insane about her feels like it would only make it worse
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Op is a faggot
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>>690071690
is this bait?
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>>690074528
Then get in contact with her and tell her how you feel. If you're too beta to even do this then stop asking for advice.
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>>690074420
R u a faggot?
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>>690074621
I have she rejected me and told me to move on that's the saddest part i think
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>>690075187

Then heed her advice you dumb shit.
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>>690075187
Well you left that part out time to realize humans are lie and do things in the moment. Again your overexaggerating things who knows she could have be the biggest bitch on the planet and you just dodged a bullet.
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>>690074433

Pussy beta faggot let some mudskin steal your gf lol may as well bow down to the superior black dick
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Gotta love a tool that falls in love with their first piece of ass. She probably wasn't even that attractive, cool, or fun to be with.
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>>690075447
Why the fucking hell are you so fuckig rude you piece of shit if you're this vulgar then piss of the thread and go fucking hang yorswlf you piece of shit motherfucking bitch ass cunt fucker

>>690075571
not same dude but I still think about the girl to this day.. People were right we never forget our firsts.. Fuck
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>>690075617
Hmm... Still not trying hard enough fedoralord
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>>690075766
I did pretty easily. The first two girls I thought I loved turned into ugly trailer trash a few years later. You are stuck in your head thinking out a fantasy. I guarantee if you actually got back together with that girl it would get boring in a few weeks
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What the fuck are you doing OP? Are you really that much of a beta? Move on. Stop fucking crying over a bitch that is like 5 years younger than you. At that age girls don't even know what they want. She would have probably left you anyway after she finds out that you're a total beta cuck.

I get so much pussy and i've came
To terms that love is not real. It's easy to move on. You're acting like this is your first ever crush. There's so much better, willing pussy out that for you to fuck.

>Pic related
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>>690075961
I guaranteed I'd probably marry her lol
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>>690074528
I've had 3 girls in my life that I've felt the same way that you feel for this girl. 2 of them are completely out of my life unless I actively seeked them out since I live in a different state now. The third is a part of what I consider my adopted/second family and I spend way more time with them then my actual family so I see her and her boyfriend all the time.

The way I deal with it (since she never betrayed me or anything like that, she just doesn't feel the same way) is to anytime I wish that I could be with her, is to wish that she'll be happy as I would hope to make her.
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>>690076120
Because you're delusional and not thinking realistically.
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>>690076271
Nope. I love her and I know it wouldn't change
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>>690076521
OK enjoy your life of depression and misery you retarded faggot. Last time I try giving you betas advice
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>>690076521
Doesn't matter, she doesn't feel that way about you.
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>>690076648
I just miss the way she cuddled and kissed my neck man she made me feel like what an actual man should fee like. I love her
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>>690076757
If only half the worlds population was capable of giving you the same feelings.... Oh wait they can you're just a retarded autist
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>>690076929
Why are you so fucking rude ur just a cunt piece of shit asshole
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>>690076174
This actually seems to help i feel less depressed and sad if i wish her to be as happy as i couldn't make her but it also makes me feel like a betacuck i guess there's just not a clean way out of love you have to sacrifice something in order to set yourself free
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>>690077060
>Why are you so fucking rude

Why are you such a retarded faggot? Stop wasting your life being miserable over a bitch
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>>690077345
Why should we listen to you if you're being a fucking cunt asshole bitch? >>690077076 is actually actually decent advice not like u just being a fucking cunt
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Similar thing happened here, only we are slightly closer ages (3 years about). Me and this girl had been on and off friends w benefits till she hooked up at a new years party.
Didnt feel anything, didnt really hear from her or try to talk to her for 5 months. I felt ok.

One day he ended it and i was her shoulder to cry on.
It started hurting everytime she told me how incredible her recent 10/10 ex BF is.
He would lead her on and make fun of her after they had broken up. She still loved him a great deal however. I sit in silence trying to be a good friend, trying to reassure her, comfort her, listening to her praise him still. Its killing me, and it pains me the thought i might just be jealous. I think i love her.
I want whats best for her, her to be happy, which seems as though it might only be with him and its eating me away. I think i love her.

Thoughts?
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>>690077567
I'm giving you primo advice stop being such a sensitive baby and try listening to it. The world is full of women the fact you felt love for a single one is simply a coincidence.
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>>690077567
We're basically saying the same thing, I just told you how I deal with it.

To the point of it, stop being a bitch. You can't make someone that doesn't love you, love you. Either make an effort to get her back (I wouldnt) or move on. Dwelling long does nothing but eat at you.
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>>690078300
For too long*
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>>690077652
From a person with basically no relationship experience, don't be a rebound.
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>>690078958
So you don't like having sex with girls? What's wrong with being a rebound?
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>>690077652

>Being this beta
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>>690079083
I meant in terms of someone you want to spend the rest of your life with, not a cheap lay.
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>>690078300
Ur being a fucking cunt that's what fuck off
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>>690077652
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>>690077652
>One day he ended it and i was her shoulder to cry on.
>I sit in silence trying to be a good friend, trying to reassure her, comfort her, listening to her praise him still.
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>>690079423
I'm the other dude that told you to wish her a happy life. I'm telling how how to not feel like shit 24/7 like I have in the past.

It boils down to not being a bitch and accepting you don't get everything you want in life.

If you think you need it, fight for it. If you know you've lost it accept it and don't swim in a cesspool of self pity.

I'm not trying to be a dick, I'm just giving you my point of view.
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>>690075766
Why am I so rude? Because you're quite frankly, an imbecile. It's hard to resist berating someone as pathetic as you.
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TFW when being alpha, and you meet a typical lonely 9gag girl who gives you hope and then makes you a beta without even realizing it because she is 17 year old cunt who is stupid asf
Fuck that toxic bitch
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>>690080433
Pretty much this. Girls will make you fall in love with them when they aren't even trying it's not the girls fault it's OP's fault for being such an idiot. She probably just wanted some sex on vacation if OP was straight forward about it and told her how he felt then maybe she wouldn't have another man's penis in her mouth.
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>>690080433
Seems like 15-18 girls can really fuck you up your life they act so needy when you get them and that awakes your male instincts makes you feel you have to protect her and shit like that and you completely forget shes a teenager that will leave you as soon as another giy gives her attention and by the time that happens you've got to much into her and that fucks your life up
And this thing hardly happens with older girls than 20
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>>690081182
Guys are the same way, who the fuck wants to get married and stay with the same girl when you're 20. Betas that's who
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>>690081182
Man, my story is somewhat similar to OP's, i mean she would come to me and cry about shit, and i used every situation to come closer to her, and one day when she felt down i invited her out (to say my feelings to her) but she changed her mind and we never met
I felt that i was gonna an hero when i found out she actually when out with another man, basicly cucking me to the max
After some hard time i went over it, found myself a summer job fixing cars and when i think back, man i tell you its fucked up and just want to forget it
But i will remember some points to make sure this shit wont happen to me again...
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>>690082036
I don't know I'm a virgin and even I'm smart enough to not turn into a girls teddy bear. When she was coming to you that was your chance to fuck her and plant the seed but you didn't and that's why she's fucking somebody else.
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>>690082486
The thing is she had a boyfrend before i met her, and when i met her she was always on the verge of breaking up with him, ofc i insisted always (if i suported her relationship well fuck thats omega then..) you know always saying how shes gonna leave him for good this time, but always changing her mind on the last fucking second..
shes fucked up 9gag lonely beta girl who doesnt really know what she wants
I knew exactly what i wanted, and was so fucking close, but no she go with him, and always convinced herself that everything will be allright (not me) because of her mentality of some shit i dont know
cut contact with her and left her to her, moved on
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>>690083495
her to him*
Overall pretty stupid situation
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>>690083495
You forgot the most important part which is putting your dick inside her. She was literallly coming to you to be fucked I don't how you didn't realize that and take advantage of it
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>>690083783
Around 90% of the talks were over the phone, sms, i wanted to fuck her ofc but i want to see you fuck somebody through the phone
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>>690084343
By telling her your not gay and you don't like talking to girls over the phone. If she wants to talk tell her to come over and suck your dick first. Unless you enjoy talking to girls about all their relationship problems in that case you got what you deserved.
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>>690069915
i am in a similar situation right now. slept with a beautiful girl, the first one since i broke up with my ex.
she wasn't the first girl i was interested in after my breakup but i really felt like we connected.
after having awesome sex and going to sleep she became really distant.
she broke up with her bf of 6 years a few weeks earlier and said she needed time alone.

now here is the similarity between us OP:

you're dealing with rejection. your ego can't cope with the fact that she didn't feel like you'd make her as happy as her bf does now.
you feel restless and every time you think about her, you lose your appetite.
you can't sleep well and play all the situations through in your head, trying to find the moment where you could've said or done something differently.
it won't give you salvation. you can't rewind time and go back to when things were easy.
it will hurt for a time. but you can influence the amount of time you feel pain.

erase her. burn the bridges. move every thought of you together out of your head.
your mind will overcome the jealousy and the loneliness, it is bound to.

walk away stronger, knowing that a beautiful girl was interested in you. you will find another one, even though you don't feel like starting to look for a girl again.

you will.
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>>690084852
None of that, always wanted to meet but she has strict parents and that shit, didnt really see her boyfriend (richguy that i knew for around 4 years, classmate) that much attm, and was a 17 year old child
Quite a fuckery i got myself into, and got out before overreacting and hero myself for this stupid situation
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>>690085249
She had no problem meeting and fucking her bf she was just using you as her teddy bear and you fell for it. If you have interest and want to fuck a girl then TELL HER instead of being the nice passive guy who tries getting in her pants when she isn't looking.
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>>690085566
Yeah
I learn man
On top of that she was emo, cutting herself and an hero wishes blablabla
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>she has a bf

News flash: she never loved you, or moving on would've been difficult for her too.

What I'm getting at is, you got cucked.
Which isn't all that surprising because you're the OP.

>still falling for the vaginal Jew and not improving yourself in that time you spend chasing a wet hole
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>>690069915

Just grow up dude. Only 12 year olds feel the way you feel right now. What wrong with you
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