>>689914012
You need fucking romance to get hard, not unusual for normal people.
Unusual for a hooker because most clients either work themselves up or are regulars.

If you can get hard to porn you've got nothing to worry about but do some pre-work to get yourself in the right state of mind.

No, being sucked with a condom on gives 0 pleasure, and for your first time ever someone you've never met might have made you nervous, if you try a second time you'll probably get hard

>>689914505
Thanks man. Just really pissed off. I didn't think I'd have any problem. Just didn't feel hot at all... I think I watch too much porn. Literally the biggest disappointment. This escort was genuinely hot though so not sure wtf went wrong

>>689914566
this.

>>689914566
Yeah I was nervous but not that much. Didn't feel all that much to be honest. She tried giving me a hand job but that didn't work either

>>689914012
If you are into all sorts of really kinky porn, it could be porn addiction. It can cause you to get ED, because your brain is so used to being assaulted with extremely lewd images every time you are ready to do business.

It's just a simple lack of erotic stimulus.

>>689914813
Sounds like she was very detached and a bit of a mood killer. For her sex is pretty mechanical by now so it really falls on you to get yourself in the mood

>>689915242
Agreed, cold turkey on the porn might be good for you, might be good for me too.

Here's what I came to realize after I went through the same.

1. Wearing a condom while getting sucked off
2. Wearing a condom. PERIOD
3. Jerking off 2-3 times a day desensitizes you. Stop wanking it for like a week and then try again.

>>689915242
this, had the same problem

>>689914012
No apeareance with hookers but:
>Fucking bitch wouldn't embracing though and she kept her top on
wtf?
Also you eat her out but yourself you have to wear a condom for a blowjob?

You ate out a prostitute? Gross.

OP here

Yes I'm into very kinky porn usually watch pretty degenerate porno. Also I'm thinking this bitch was half to blame she wouldn't do any foreplay, kept her top on, no kissing and she was Romanian (although spoke English).

Don't worry mate, it is absolutely normal. Your first + an unknown person without an emotionally bond = fatal combo. You aren't a machine, and you could be with the sexiest person in the world and still not have an erection. Real sex isn't absolutely like porn, a lot of men need to feel some emotions before getting their dick hard. At least, this always happened to me.

Btw, you are great for having had such a decision! I would never be able to call an escort or something like that, i would be too nervous and anxious

they are fucking dead. I don't know.. I just. Fuck. He texted me a little bit earlier about the threads, I tried to convince him not to but just FUCK. He thought the chick he was waifu with hated him. I wasn't here for it, but we were texting about it. Some asshole, according to this thread it was most likely Marc, went and framed him as a pervert and made it look like he was hitting on that drawfag or some shit. I know that doesn't seem like a big deal but fuck dude he's young and that feels like the end of the fucking world when a girl thinks that about you and he just got out of a relationship a while ago but fuck. I just.. fuck. I don't know what to do anymore. He told me he was going to end his life. No reply. No matter how much I text, it says he hasn't read it. Before that he just didn't sound like the same guy anymore, he was going off the deep end saying he was worthless and that women all think he's a creep and he's ugly and bullshit like that, he said 4chan was ruining him but it was irreversable which is bullshit. Just fuck. I'm just trying to cope here. I'm hoping so much that I'm going to wake up in the morning and he'll have replied to me, maybe he fell asleep first or something. Fuck I don't know if i can sleep I don't even know who to go to other than door hand hook car door

>>689915966
>>689915996

Yes she said she doesn't kiss due to STDs and she didn't want tits touched. I'm almost walked out but didn't which I now regret. And she was very clean but yeah I'm going home to use mouthwash.

>>689916288
Thanks mate.

>>689914012

I think it could be anxiety, drugs or that you are gay.

>>689916422
>I'm going home to use mouthwash.
I'm sure peppermint helps relieve AIDS.

I think you maybe gay, try a male hooker.

just nervous. get an average looking girl the first couple of times, should calm you somewhat

>>689914012
so basically are you still virgin?

>>689916422
She doesn't kiss due to stds but she'll let guys put their mouths on her pussy? Wtf kind of retard logic is that? And no tits? Dude, you picked a fucking terrible prostitute. You're the one with the money, you dictate what you want, and if she wants to get paid, she complies.

Yeah she said I was nervous at the start. I just never thought this would be a problem for me. It was porn addiction, nervous, and this robotic emotionless escort that meant game over for my erection

>>689914012
It's easy to be unable to get hard if you are nervous. Has nothing to do with being impotent. It's nerves.

>be me
>be in college
>see girl on campus who was a sophomore when I was a senior in high school
>always had a huge crush on her
>she actually recognizes me and is happy to see me
>get her number
>end up going on some dates
>get he back to my apartment
>so fucking excited I'm finally going to get to fuck her, had a crush on her for years
>can't get hard
>can't get hard the 2nd time we try to fuck a few days later too
>she asks if I have erectile dysfunction (possibly the most embarrassing moment of my life)
>finally on 3rd try I get hard and fuck her like a champion
>we end up dating for about 1.5 years and I never have a problem getting hard again

Don't get inside your own head. You have to be relaxed. Relaxing is not something you can make yourself do. You just have to be naturally comfortable with the situation.

>>689917526
>>689917495

yes I should have left but I already organised my day around it and made the trip to her place so I just thought may as well stay

And yes I'm still a virgin but I licked her pussy for 20mins which is better than nothing.

>>689917526
She knew she was dealing with an inexperienced beta so why do shit she doesn't want to do? She gets paid the same regardless so why work harder?

>>689914012
1.) don't ever eat another girl out who you are not seeing in a relationship. That's so stupid, she doesn't deserve it, and you open yourself to whatever std's she may have.

2.) Don't feel so bad. Sex from a hooker is almost never as good as sex from a girl who actually wants to fuck you. Sometimes a really good hooker might want to do that and can get into and treat you like a valued customer. But most hookers suck because they look down on themselves for what they're doing and you as a result.

3.) if she didn't take her top off, she's a terrible hooker. This kind of goes back to #2 but sex with hookers is weird and unnatural to begin with, and if they suck then it's totally not worth it.

>>689918764
She seemed clean but in hindsight it was a bit stupid. Is there anything I can do to reduce chance of STD or no? It was 1h ago

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>>689914813
> not sure wtf went wrong
You. Paid. Money. For. Sex.

Don't do that again. You're lucky all you got was a limp biscuit.

She could have had a pimp with a gun in the bathroom. Or a badge. Leave the fucking whores to the pervs.

>>689917495
Better: he's even still kissless

>>689914012
>very nervous
There is a psychologist (called idk Foster) who wrote about the behavior of men and women.
He says that men cant get hard when they have fear (nervous = fear) and girls cant get sexually aroused when they are angry. Couse of that your reaction is not surprising.

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>>689917043
this is the advice you need

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>>689919260
I have a master's degree in microbiology. There is nothing you can do now. Maybe go use some mouthwash to make yourself feel better, but if there was an infectious bacteria/virus the damage is already done.

"Being clean" has absolutely nothing to do with it. The STD (if she has one) is secreted in her bodily fluids. She could be fresh out of the shower and smell like high end perfume and still infect you.

This is one of my favorite porn stars, Sandra Shine. See the red irritated looking stuff on her cervix, that is HPV.

Not every STD shows signs through nasty surface warts and nasty goop.

Lol I'm not gay. Won't be seeing a Romanian woman again though even if they're hot

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>>689914012
Let this sink in, im a furr fag and I still dont need to pay someone to have sex with me.

>>689919260
Ehh probably not just try to remember that for the next time.

Also, if you really can't get any girls normally which you should try to do, keep going with hookers until you get used to it. It's really unrewarding though so trust me you'll have way better sex with a normal chick. Idk your situation though so do you anon

>>689919410
Always aska hooker if you can take pictures. No undercover cop agrees to be photographed. Because you might not want sex and only want pictures. That is perfectly legal. And then there are nudes of her acting like a whore floating around.

Only accept whores who will let you take pictures.

>>689920186
No that's why I saw a hooker. There's nothing wrong with me I'm decent looking, have a 7" cock but have no friends and don't work with any women so hookers are my only option currently

>>689919892
Kek, that would be a real killer:
OP, the STD virgin

>>689920293
Lol she wasn't a cop... She was just a bitch and even though she was clean I'm now worried I have an STD from oral sex

>>689914012
wasted 1st time on weird hooker instead of kinky milf with full service, noice

>>689914012
you where probably nervous or stressed from the situation OP. that's why

>>689920546
LOL fuck even I have to laugh at that even though I'm crying inside

>>689920186
Just flirt with 5/10 uglies at the bar. Maybe take a couple home. It's good practice flirting with ugly chicks because it teaches youhow to be confident.

With an ugly chick you don't care what happens when you talk to her, that makes you seem confident. What most betas don't understand is that you need to talk to 10/10 chicks like they are 5/10. Come across like you don't give a fuck and just want to have fun.

When you come across like some little creeper who wants to confess their love for their waifu and already worships them it weirds girls out. You don't fucking even know her yet, you don't love her, you are just a beta, and it shows.

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>>689914012
Happened to me when I fucked my first time. Found some slut girl during highschool, spent the whole time playing with her tits and didn't get hard, eventually she just stuck in her mouth and that basically just did it.
Eating a chick out won't make you hard either, like yeah vagina is pretty good, but when it's been in underwear all day and that person is also a runner, can taste a lot like sweat and it's pretty gross

>>689916931
topkek

>>689920550
Well good luck getting hard next time since now you will be even more freaked out...

Way to give yourself a complex.

Good luck in life anon. Try to take it easy, not get nervous, and just relax and be natural. Try to meet a nice chick. And right before you kiss her for the first time stop and tell her that you went down on a hooker once and might have mouth herpes. She will appreciate your honesty.

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>>689914012


Hey OP if serious I likely know what's wrong.

You fap too much and are desensitized because of porn.
I can't cum on a normal day unless sitting in a chair.

The only way I can cum standing up is if I go several days without fapping/porn.

Can you cum when masturbating in other positions? if not sure test yourself to see.

>>689914012
jacking off all the time tricks your brain into thinking you are succeeding at life. this is how you end up a 24 virgin, stop.

also stop because it desensitizes you. if you must jack off do it only after you have worked out, as a reward. and do it standing up so you have more practice keeping your dick hard.

now with all this working out you are doing so you can jack off, you will look better and more woman will like you

its likely you will still lose your errection with a woman. happened to me the first time as well (and still does ocassionally) just explain it to your partner and dont give up. Worse case senario, fall asleep next to her after failing and then fuck her with your morning wood. The more you do it, the more confident you will become.

>>689921038
Lol. I'm definitely taking 100mg propranolol next time and some cialis/viagra.

I also licked her feet which will probably make me sick but not an STD

>>689920654
If it makes you fell better OP, I'm 24 and also still virgin.
Also the probability that 1. she had STD and 2. you get infected is really small.
And this hooker really seems to be an unsymphatic bitch.

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>>689921295
You went down on a hooker and licked her feet?

Was this a hooker or a domme? Did she lock up your dick in a chastity device?

>>689921239
I feel like this is solid reasoning for why I rarely get shit done. Anyone got solid sources between jacking off and lack of productivity?

its because you wank multiple times a day and watch porn, I learnt the hard way years ago thats the worst thing for your sex life. plus a hooker condom blowjob is not exactly arousing use online dating and find a fat sluz to suck your cock properly and facefuck that bitch to tears.

>>689914813
I'm not sure it's all' about porn..

>>689921525
>And this hooker really seems to be an unsympathetic bitch

She was probably just creeped out. You don't become a 24 yo kissless virgin without being cringy.

OP needs to just get used to flirting with girls and let a relationship happen naturally. The uglier the girl the better because he will be more confident. He needs to not feel intimidated by the situation.

>>689914505
Yep, this.

Staying a lil soft for the first time even with a GF can be common, due to nerves etc.

But I've had many girlfriends and lots of sex, very confident, 8" cock etc, yet the two times I've seen a hooker (once in Amsterdam, schoolgirl dressed, once in London, Japanese girl, body massage), I just wasn't able to get hard properly at all.

Something about condom usage, plus them being pretty much disinterested, as it's their day job. I get off and get super hard when I'm with a girl who's actually wanting to enjoy it with ME, where both are turning eachother on.

Just doesn't work that way with disinterested prossies, plus I know I can get sex with normal girls so probably makes me disinterested too.