I need help. I'm too retarded to make a choice by myself

>>689885808
Ok well i'm sure that image is a kid so

>>689885808

Welp unless you're a prize or rich as fuck, beggars can't be choosers.

>>689885970
that's not the point

>>689886096
I don't get your advice there

>>689885808
Take me report and bury it deep in your ass

>>689886255
why would you report this ?

>>689886217

Unless you're good looking, or rich, you should stick with what you got because if not you won't be able to get a girl like your picture.

>>689885808
Physical attraction is important. If you don't get with someone where you both find each other attractive you will come to regret it.

>>689885808
russian bitch, I fucked ones

>>689886332
I'm an average guy i think. Lots of people says I'm good looking but I'm not self confident enough to trust them. I have money doe
( don't want to post pictures 'cause my friends know /b/ )

>>689886412
how ?

>>689886576

>I have money doe
>doe

Seriously anon, stick with what you have, if you're afraid to post a picture then no doubt you're bellow average

>>689886346
so I should prefer a dumb but beautiful women over a perfect but not cute one ?

>>689886729

No but if she's ugly you'll probably stray from the path and go for a one night stand. If you're worried about her weight get her to exercise, encourage her and do it with her. Offer to do something in return.

>>689886681
I said why I don't want to post a picture of myself already.

>>689886925

Anyone can say that, the likely hood of your friends seeing you is essentially zero, you're just ugly and don't want to show it

>>689886877
She finds herself too fat ( like every girl ) but she gets upset when I tell her do move a little bit.
And when she tells herserlf to do some sports it never last longer than a week...

Is it really possible to get a perfect body ?

>>689885808
Every generation usually looks better than their parents. Cosmetics, nutrition, sun block ... I experienced the same thing with my GF in college. The Mon was a troll, but, realistically my GF took much better care of herself. Then she tried, sliped , and fell on a dick and I wasn't worried about her or her Mom any more.

>>689887050
Nice bait but I'll not fall for it, I've nothing to prove.. I'm looking for advice with my gf .
Maybe I'll do a unerelated thread later with my face to see what u think about it.

>>689887103

Do it with her then and stick to it, it's up to her to lose the weight. She needs to lose it for her, even if it's through you it's for her.

You can get the perfect body but it takes weeks to months of hard work and determination and encouragement and even then she's probably not going to look like your chicks picture, that shit only happens if they weren't fat beforehand.

>>689887248

There is no advice, you either like her for her and somewhat her looks or her looks and somewhat herself. If it's the former do this >>689887259 if it's the latter you better end it now and stop wasting each others times.

>>689887241
kek'd

yeah one of my ex cheated on me, wasn't fun. Don't want to give all my energy to a woman and then realise 15 years later that she doesn't give a shit about you anymore.. I don't want to waste my time.

>>689885808
Post a pic ofer her so we can tell you if your concerns are justified.

>>689887259
>>689887340

Thank you, I don't have tons of free time but I'll try that.. I hope it will work 'cause I love her so much.. and she really deserves to be the cutest

>>689887435
my friends know her too, I'm gonna look after a pic without her face

>>689885808
Easy:
do sports, skip eating fatty foods!

>>689887583

How young are you to not already know this?

>>689887689
22, I needed someone to tell it to me

>>689887781

First relationship past a week?

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>>689885808

I guess the thing you need to ask yourself is, "Have I had the life experiences alone with which I'm satisfied settling down and having a life? And, if not, is this woman going to be conducive to participating in the life experiences I want to have before I settle down, and is she going to be okay with waiting to settle down?"

You gotta figure out the specifics of the answer to that question: what life experiences have you had that you think are special, what do you want to do before you settle down, and how do you think she will be about you looking to achieve those? Will she go with you? Will she be interested in you doing them in the first place?

When you think about being with only one person for the rest of your life, these are the types of questions you need to start asking yourself.

>>689887865
2 years and a half

>>689885808
you girl will always look like her mom when she gets older every fucking time

>>689887978

2 and a half years and this is only becoming a problem now?

>>689887941
I already did.
When I'm not with her I feel like I want to be alone for the rest of my life.
but when I'm with her I feel like I've achieved my life.

I'm weird..
I hate myself a bit, I'm never happy with what I have...

>>689888050
her mom's dead so no way to know how she would have looked like..

>>689888094
I was already asking myself these kind of stuffs. but it took me 2 years to post it on here.

>>689885808

I've been in your situation OP. One thing I've learnt is that girls always always end up like their mother. and that ass is always going to get fatter. if this girl has wit intelligence and charm I will overlook being overweight to a degree...but ugliness is too much. you'll have to be seen out with this person, you'll see the mystified looks in peoples eyes when you tell them youre with her. people will talk and wonder why.
if its bothering you now OP its going to get worse

>>689888435

So it finally got to the point where you're considering dumping her?

>>689888456
I'm scared now

pic of her incoming

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>>689887435
my gf guys

>>689888456

this, op listen

>>689888869

I would fuck her.

We need a face. How ugly is she really?

>>689888869

Meh she's fine, get her to start doing squats and situps and start watching what she eats

>>689888869
what do you think ?
Actualy her body is still alright
but she walks like a duck ( not straight) and can't stand straight ..

>>689888955
>>689888969
We will start making sport next week then.
She already only eats healthy shitis, she nearly eats nothing.. only fruits and vegetables..

Can't show her face even if I want to. sorry

>>689888869
Dump the fatty, not even kidding

>>689889147

Don't just do 'sports' do simple shit at home, you don't need to make a huge event out of getting some simple daily exercise

>>689889239
that's what I was meaning , thanks for worrying

>>689888869
I had a gf similar to this, didnt find her attractive after a year, so I dumped her (nicely)

>>689889353
>>689889353
yeah but maybe she wasn't that perfect and didn't make you as happy as am I . It's not an easy choise. I know that I'll never be able to find someone better..
this shit is tearing my hearth apart

>>689889515
Yeah there was obviously other things than just looks that made me end it, she was actually an amazing looking girl, just not my type

>>689889311

honestly OP you gotta think the long term. To be honest if you had doubts 6mths in and still have doubts 2 yrs later it doesn't bode well.
Ultimately, from a deterministic sense, we chose partners with attributes we consider genetically transferable. You're almost hard wired as a male to find such mates with good genetic prospects.
Everything youre saying is telling me you don't find her so.
Dump her and find someone the complete package for you. You may make concessions but a fat chick with a face like a bucket full of smashed crabs is going to be a big regret later on....

>>689889708
been there, did that too.. but this is really something different.
I can't describe it.

or maybe i'm just a pussy

>>689889749
why is it so hard ? She doesn't deserve that

Even if you had a 10/10 you'd still want to fuck other girls after some time. You will never be fully happy with her. You're not THAT long together and you already have cravings for other women. Put yourself in her shoes: she doesn't find you attractive and wants to fuck some hot dudes all the time. Doesn't feel nice, huh... Do her a favour and leave her.

if she gains weight once and she doesnt loose it all again with a time span of a few months there is a 99% chance that she will never be skinny again and probably just gain more weight.

If it is bothering you a lot now then dump her. i had a GF who started to get fat so i told her to loose weight. she didnt so i dumped her.

girls are supposed to be skinny IMHO. it is not only the superior physical look. That they are skinny also shows that they are capable of being disciplined enough not to stuff their face with disgusting food and take responsibility for how they look and their life. Fat girls are fucking disgusting

tl;dr: dump her

>>689890174
Grass is always greener on the other side right?

>>689890174
And IF i was wrong ?
if i dump her and then never find a girl as awesome as her ?
What will I be supposed to do ?

>>689890174

This. If its guilt that you feel this way thats keeping you together, believe me that'll change fast to resentment when shes scaring kids with her face.

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>>689885808

>>689890239
I watch her. She eats nearly nothing, i really don't know how it's fucking possible to not loose weight with what she eats. Only healthy stuff. She cares about it too

>>689890322

You seem young OP believe me there plenty of girls on the horizon. They come out of nowhere. You seem comfortable with women around unlike 99% of 4chin. Theres no need to settle out of fear

>>689890336
Her face is not ugly at all.
Sh'es not attractive either.
Her face is just "normal" i would say

>>689885808
advanced bait

>>689885808
anyone got more images of this girl? or know her name she looks familiar

>>689890532
You got to increase her energy output above her energy input... not hard to do, just get her to do more walking or simple sports

>>689890657
I'm afraid to loose the "perfect one for me".. that's the deal

Mostly because I can't take the first step to go talk to girls. I'm a pussy. i'll have to wait for another girl to fall in love with me.
That's how I always worked. But it's not good, because I'm not the one choosing

>>689885970
so what?

>>689890805
I will try everything to keep her

>>689885808
I bet you look like a mongoloid and still think you can fuck petite, hot little things.

>>689890760
Only one I have, sorry

>>689891083
I'm only 22. I'm sure I could if I had the balls

>>689890322
Decide which is more important to you then: looks or character. And live forever with the desire to fuck other chicks.
If you were my boyfriend (female here), I'd be thankful if you leave me. In love relationship there must be attraction. If you continue with this none of us will be happy.
If you don't want to let her go so much work out with her, encourage her and see how you will feel when/if she loses weight.

>>689890760
I've seen lots of pics of her before, but never saved any

I remember she has huge scars from self-harm as well

>>689891253
>i could totally fuck hot chicks I'm just too shy
That's what every little bitch says. You're ugly and you'll never fuck anything above a 6

>>689891010

99% of people are worried about this, you have to make a decision about whether or not you want to spend a long period of time with this person. Not your whole life, but a decent chunk if you want to try and make this work.

If you're going 'I'm still young, I wanna see what's out there' then dump her and go bang a bunch of chicks, see how you do.

>but I don't wanna lose her if she's the one

You've got to make that choice, cause if you don't eventually you'll end up fucking up the relationship down the track and then you'll lose her no matter what.

>>689886729
Anon there is no answer we can give you that you'll like. If we say "you should stick with it" but she's ugly. If we say "dump her" so I should like dumb hot girls? And if we say you can't have it all you'll ask why. What's the point?

>>689891434
thanks mate

>>689891422
k dude

>>689885808
You dream of fucking little Ukrainian girls OP? Me too, ever since I found out what LS-Island was.

>>689887663
But the face is what everyone sees all day.

>>689891497
I don't know , I'm lost

>>689891416
are the scars easy to notice if you see them in person?

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>>689885808

Good going OP. you got me with your ruse. I sat here and wiped the cheeto crumbs from my fingers just to write a meaningful, heartfelt reply based on my own experiences, painful experiences that I relived as I typed.
I thought you'd care OP. I know I don't know you, and I never will, but for a moment the world felt smaller, and I felt like I knew you, that there was a kindred spirit out there, one I had never met or seen but felt and touched through simple words.
But it was all a lie. a sick, twisted parody. You've used me OP, for cruel reasons I can't contemplate, and I can feel your malevolent laughter behind each reply.
I will always wonder why you did it, why you acted so callously. I hope one day you find it in yourself to heal, and just know theres me, somewhere, sometime, hoping you have.

>>689891679
I know but I can't

>>689891663
LS-island ???

>>689891806
what the fuck dude ?
I'm being totaly honest here.
Maybe I don't always use the right words 'cause english is not my native language but I'm really trying to make things working together for me

>>689885808

OK, start getting into fitness and encourage her to get involved with you as a couples thing. And then if/when you have kids, rely on your (no doubt perfect...) genes and make sure they get proper nutrition all through their growing years.

>>689889515
If you're happy why are you posting about it here OP?

>>689892157
'cause when I see pretty girls outside I feel jelly

>>689890532
look dude, if she eats super healthy and not a lot she is going to get skinny over time. It is that fucking simple.

I guess she just doesnt show you her real eating habits.

EVERYONE can loose weight if they eat less than they burn + a little fitness( which is actually not necessary)

dump her

>>689890532

Take her to a dietician, could be that certain things are causing her to not lose the weight or she's eating too little for her to actually lose weight (your body will force it to stay on if it's worried about lack of nutrients)

>>689888219
that's not really helpful to you, though.

Take some time alone to really figure out the specifics of this; figure out the actual life experiences you want to have. Bring them up casually around her for a few months, gauge her interests.

Like, if it helps you, actually make a bucket list. If you want to get a Ph.D. or w/e, literally have that on your bucket list.

Go through your hopes, dreams, and desires and specifically pick the types of things you want to do. Do you want to spend time in the mountains? Does she like hiking? Do you want to travel? What kind of travel would you do; would you stay in hostels, take the expensive guided tours, cruises, plane....

Really hash it out, and then talk to your girl about the things you think are important about your nearer future, because you want to spend the next few years embracing life and having special life experiences. That's like primary goals we're talking, here; you need to be aligning on these.

>>689892590
Like I said, she's perfect. We have the same dreams, envy, taste for adventures.. EVERYTHING is perfect with her .. that's why it's that hard for me.

>>689891740
Its okay OP. We all get confused. Honestly, don't tell her any of this. I'm telling you from experience. If she really eats the way you say and cares but can't get the weight off... Every time you bring up her weight, you will crush a little piece of her. Talking about a girls weight when she wants to be that skinny is no good. You should dump her and save her that.

>>689892864

Then seriously anon get her to lose the weight, if she ticks all the boxes besides 'isn't as thin as she could possibly be' stay with her.

>>689892878
I'm too much of a pussy to dump her.
I'm too scared of hurting her.

>>689892864
Then shut up and deal with it. If she's really perfect and just plain faced what's the problem?

>>689893140
I was too lazy to do sports with her, but I will now

It's easier to find a skinny girl than making a girl skinny...

>>689891963
>as all a lie. a sick, twisted parody. You've used me OP, for cruel reasons I can't contemplate, and I can fee
10/10

>>689889147
She is not going to lose the weight starving herself with basic smoothies and fruits, etc. Her body senses the starvation attempt and will lower her metabolism further. Chubs for life.

>>68989307
Anon do you like hamster wheels? That's what this is...
She's perfect but I wanna fuck 15 year olds

But I'm too pussy to break up with her...

But she's ugly...

MODSMODSMODS

>>689893314
I'll still try to.
If it hasn't changed in 2017 than I'll seriously consideer dumping her. But I hope I'll not have to

>>689893446
Damn I missed it

>>689891963
>>689893309
samefag

>>689886576
>I have money

Either pay me for actual advice or kill yourself slowly.


>I'm a guidance counselor.

thanks for helping me out guys.
I'll do everything possible to make her skinnier.
If nothing changes in 2017 I'll dump her I think. ( and hop I'll not regret it )

>>689885808
>type of girl I want to fuck
children?

>>689885808
>I want it to be the last one.
>I also have the envi to fuck every girl I pass by.
You 12?

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>>689886332
he could get a girl like that in the picture 12 year old girls think older guys are cool because they can smoke and drink and drive. shit he could fuck little girls for ever because little girls are even dumber than full grown woman. OP just keep calling them your princess!

>>689894188

Right...

>>689893860
You're an idiot

>>689885808
Start hitting the gym, and eating healthier. Then bitch about her. When me and my gf, now my fiance, we're dating she put on college weight. Get yourself active and she will be too.