She's cheating

>>689027176
Talk with her about it.

>>689027352
Already have, many times.

>>689027176
yeah wtf jsut talk to her you pathetic faggot.

If she gives you some bullshit excuse you can leave her.

You are not tied to this girl, just fucking leave man, it sounds like she does not love you.

>>689027176
Leave her and find someone better for you

Idiot

>>689027479
and the fuck did she say? how can you be in a relationship without touching her?

>>689027176
yeah you're being a bitch. you submitted to her so now she lost interest and is probably fucking someone else. kick her out if you're the one paying for the place or move out if you're not and continue with your life. or stay cucked, whatever you want.

>>689027176
>Girlfriend
>Doesnt let me touch her
You need permission? Grab her by the neck, force her down on the bed and shove your dick up her ass...

>>689027479
you didn't. talk to her again

>>689027176
>killing yourself over a significant other
Be your own person. Either confront the problem in the relationship or drop the relationship. No idea why you'd stick around for a year of no sex/no intimacy at all.

>>689027176

Start looking for a place and threaten to dump her from lack of sex.

Or cuck her and cheat you faggot

>>689027693
That she's just never in the mood.

I think I'm afraid I'm too autistic to get another girl.

>>689028038
Try and rebuild the spark maybe?

>>689028038
so you will settle for someone does not like you?

Pathetic, she will use you into she does not need you anymore. Dont be such a retard, you will grow up eventually. Theres someone out there for everyone.

>>689028038
That's pathetic, man.

>>689028038
yeah she's getting her dick somewhere else boy. kick her out.

>>689028331
I know

>>689028038
You aren't too autistic, just don't settle for less than you deserve

Confront her.
What has been her previous excuses?

>>689028436
Grow up into your own individual. You're placing your entire life into someones hands who doesn't seem to give a single shit about you.

>>689027176
abandon relationship as soon as possible
I repeat
as soon as possible

>>689028436
see >>689027761

>>689027176
>>689027319
This, she's getting her rocks off somewhere.
If it's not with you, it's definitely with someone else.

>Haven't fucked her in a year.
Seriously that's one of the biggest red flags you could look for.
Dump her before it gets any worse.

>>689028476
Literally "I just don't want to"

I think a lot of it stems from her high stress job but when ever I bring that up she acts like I'm attacking her.

today you learn that women are all sociopathic garbage. she is getting her rocks off from anyone but you, probably your best friend(s). don't say another word, leave her, if she lives with you, throw her shit out and change the lock. she deserves to die, but don't go that far.

Start having to "work late" alot. Go to a friends house and kick it all of a sudden you work weekends to. She'll begin to think youre cheating she'll ask your best friend whos house you'll be at. He'll cover for you and tell her youre working late. She'll think he's lying and assume you're cheating then she'll give it up or freak out. 1 you get laid 2 you tell her the truth "i've been hangin at anons house no reason to be here portraying a relationship where i cant even touch you blah blah blah." sex resumes you 2 live happily ever after or you get rid of her and use your sad little story to get pity fucks. Or theres bill cosbys and rape.

>>689028742
You need to sit down, face each other, and talk about what's happening.
If she won't have a civilized discussion you should dump her.

>>689028742
that doesn't make sense, sex is a great way to relieve stress

>>689029130
Oddest worst part it was my birthday last month. No present, no sex.

>>689028038
That's the dumbest fucking reasoning. Sure, you're an autist but you landed that girl, did you not? She's not special, man. You can find another.

>>689029430
It's a bit of a long story but I got really lucky with the circumstances.

>>689029341
Same for me
Happy birthday anon

>>689029631
No such thing as luck, nigger. Quit making excuses.

>>689027176
After a year it's too far gone. You can try to learn some game and throw a few more fucks in her before you leave, but you've demonstrated beyond a doubt that you are a weakling. You are no longer a boyfriend, you are a roommate.

>>689028038
It's your job as a man to put her in the mood.

I like to tell my girlfriend to wear a skirt and no panties once in a while. Then I'll walk up behind her, bite her neck, and stick a finger up her ass.

Basically, women want to be "taken" consensually by a strong, dominant man. If you're always gentle and supplicating, her subconscious tells her that you're a weak pussy with no other options, and she doesn't have to do anything to please you.

>>689029007
This is the pussy fag strategy. This is the same thing as pussy begging, and puts her entirely in control. Any woman who lives in your space and enjoys the benefits of your company should understand that she's obliged to be a willing cocksleeve. You also have a responsibility to be a strong leader in the household.

>>689028928
This is a good, but risky approach. However you have nothing to lose, so not much is at risk. Except for the Bill Cosby approach, nigga don't go to jail for some aging 6/10 are you kidding me?

Take what you want you fucking pussy.

>>689029631
Make your own luck, faggot. You're just staying with her because it's easy and you're irrationally afraid of being single.

You're already sexless, why not be sexless and have your own place? Bitches are a diamond dozen.

>>689029834
Ok I'll try. Thanks anon and anons.

>>689030347
stop ignoring this. >>689027761

>>689030032
Well it's because we have a place together and I'm in school I'm poor as fuck and don't really have a safety net and I need a place to stay.

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>>689029341

OK dude this woman has ceased to give a FUCK about you.
She's only living with you because it's easy. She has someone else to help provide for you. That's it. That's as far as the relationship goes. Been there. Done that.
Do you want to be a stepping stone for her?
The moment she feels more independent she's going to leave you.
Case closed. She's over it. She's over you. You're done. It's been done. Get that through your thick fucking skull and quit with the cognitive dissonance. IT'S FUCKING OGRE.
Start looking for a new place or a room to rent and take your shit before she does and sells it or something.

There are a fucking bajillion women out there anon... You'll find someone else.
Don't be someone else's crutch.

>>689030032
Not that I'm staying for free, i just can't afford an apartment alone

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3QmIX1Ye3Bo

>>689030638
>She has someone else to provide for you
I meant *her

Lmfao
Shes getting dicked down by a hotter guy

>>689030528
figure it out bitch. Couch surf if you have to. Sublet an apt with strangers on CL. And don't get so fucking involved with someone when you don't even have a career or some financial independence.

You need to take control of your life and be a fucking man. I know people (women and men) who have stayed in this situation, and literally wound up sleeping on the couch while their "partner" fucked someone else in the next room for weeks. Would you rather that, or move in with someone who might be slightly weird?

I want to punch your worthless father in his stupid fucking face.

>>689030963
Raised single mother

>>689031281
well, that explains a lot...

>>689027176
is she asian?

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If you arent happy, leave.

You count, too

Or stay where you are and enjoy your shitty sex life

>>689031281
Bail. it only gets worse, believe me. Ive seen what you are going through several times.

>>689031281
My point stands.

therationalmale.com

Start reading. Cruise craigslist for sublets and rooms for rent. You're a man, you don't need a nice apartment with soft pillows and matching drapes.

You need a roof, a place to shit and shower, and an outlet to plug in a hotplate and charge your computer and phone.

Have a plan down. You don't need to tell this cunt a thing until the day you move out. Contact your current landlord and see what your options are for getting off the lease. Be prepared to pay rent at the old place for a while, and to help your ex find a roommate if she can't afford the place on her own.

>>689031707
No
Does that matter?

test

>>689031875
no not really ive just heard asian girls tend to be like that

>>689027176
how about dumping the bitche's ass? it's not like you get anything out of that shit anymore

>>689027176
>been in relationship with girl for years

Sorry bro, it's typical for a women to not want sex from a man she's been with for a long time. That's why getting married is stupid. If you want sex, stay single.

Fucking move on gad dam
Ending your relationship or ending your life which makes more sense

Getting out of a stale situation or cutting off any possibility you might have to do/experience/create/achieve anything, -anything- ever again. For fuck sake ending a relationship is not the end of theeach world. Killing yourself, for you, literally is.

People break up all
The
Time

You can move on, get over it, do it all over again and again until you find someone that excites you and finds you exciting. And if you never do, damn at least you tried, and lived a little along the way.

>>689027176
Just leave her OP. I was on the same point, then her Ex told me he fucked her all the time. The feeling I get was horrible. Move along with out her

Unless she's naturally very promiscuous she's not cheating. Just typical female sex drive falling off once you get in a commited relationship. The longest con known to man. You need to learn to press the issue and if things don't change get out.

>>689027176
>Is something going on?
This...

>>689032265
This. Even sad and pathetic single life fapping is better than being with someone who is obligated to fuck you but won't.

OP here.
Thanks everyone. Really thank each and ever one of you.

I'm going to have to stick around for a few more months but I'm going to try and get a new place this December.
She gets no chance now. As far as I'm concerned it's over.

>>689027176
shes very likely fucking someone else. sorry /b/ro, but this shit happens. sometimes youre in a relationship for a long time and it sort of just peters out. instead of killing yourself, leave the bitch and deal with it like everyone else you little pussy.

Tell us more about you two and your relationship. We might been missing something.

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>>689030963
>>689031845

Follow this anon's advice, and fast. Else you will suffer.
It demands a great deal of courage to end a relationship, but trust me this one is already over.

>>689027176
Get out of there, if there's a lease then wait till it's over but try to have almost no contact with her until it's over, then gtfo of there. Even if u have to move in with your parents. She's trying to either trap you or cuck you, both a shit

>>689032686
I mean what do you want to know?

>>689032265
>it's typical for a women to not want sex from a man she's been with for a long time.
yeah, but a year? this relationship is done. shes very likely fucking someone else, and even if shes not, salvaging it doesnt seem possible. nobody just doesnt fuck for a year in a healthy relationship, even a marriage.

>>689032780

How you two met? What you or her work? I dunno, anything that seems relevant.

>>689029785
Luck is the physical manifestation of coincidence

>>689029341
This is the absolute worst thing you've said. It should end now

>>689032630
Good anon.
Very good.
A little slow for my taste, but going in correct direction.
Good luck faggot.

>>689032848
Only four times the year before and six times the year before. I don't recall before that but the sex used to be pleanty
Is it weird that I know that?

>>689028742
Shes defensive, unloving, sexually apathetic, selfish and, from what i can gather, probably manipulative.

Stop engaging her and move out as soon as possible. This is a toxic relationship that will only end in suffering, suffering much worse than just being a little lonely for a while.

>>689033002
I have some friends coming back from co-ops then. I'm going to suggest we room together.

>>689032848
My mother told me that if a married couple has sex less than 2 times a week, they are either getting it from someone else or one of them is not sexually satisfied. My father told me Once you go a few months without sex, its time to breakup or go to councelling before divorce. Period.

>>689032908
>I was having sex with her best friend i think it of pity.
> (I didn't beg, I have dignity, she asked)
>I met the current girl while we were let's say together but never a relationship.
>We played Scrabble
>Afterwards I asked for current girls number.
>Started dating

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>>689033610
correct.

>>689033056
wow yeah, you are in a dead relationship my friend.

>>689032630
fucking finally an OP who actually listens to good advice and isnt only here to get the answers he wants to hear. good job OP.

>>689033056
That's absolutely pathetic.

>>689033161
Get out faster retard. Living with your ex for months will kill your soul. You have more options than you think.

If you have to beg favors from a friend to sleep on his couch, do it--if you are grateful and cooperative, it will actually strengthen your friendship. Abandon your unnecessary possessions and write off any money wasted on the old lease as a small price for an important life lesson.

>>689027176
dump her you tard. how have you not done this yet?

>>689034122
I really don't have other options. I'm skirting by on $500 a month

>>689027319
>>689027504
>>689027637
>>689027693
>>689027761
>>689028294
>>689028476
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>>689028871
These.
And any others like these.

>>689034407
Dude, confront her right now and post results. I don't care if it's a text or what. I love hearing about cunts being owned.

Pls anon, I need it now.

>>689034407
>borrow money from mom
>couch surf til you can afford a new place/your old lease runs out
If you don't have friends, start making them. Like today. If you start asking around, you'll find a friend of a friend who needs a roomie. You won't have the comfort of your own apartment but living with a bunch of dumbass roommates isn't all that bad.

If your gf isn't a complete bitch, she'll accept the situation and start looking for a subletter, which lets you off the hook and frees up that money, so you can afford to rent one room in a big house with ten other people.

If you break up with her and live together for months, she WILL shamelessly fuck other guys in your bed. I dunno about you, but I couldn't handle that without putting myself in jail.

Stop making excuses.

>>689032630

Nice decision, seems that today OP is not a faggot.

>>689034407
If you really can't leave sooner, be careful - she may still need you and she will not want you to leave. So be sneaky.

>>689035186
Bump

>>689035186
About what and do what? I've been listening to the thread but That sounds like a terrible idea.