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>>688627800
I look at this image, and I think of nobody.

It has been so long since I've had a close relationship with a woman that I barely even think about that sort of thing anymore.

>>688628169
Top kek

>>688628169
Good for you anon. Pining over women is one of the most pathetic things a """""man""""" can do. I hope this is because you have better things to do and not because you're fat and ugly.

>>688628169
HAHAHAHAH WHAT A LOSER. LOOK AT HIM AND LAUGH.

>>688628440
Is this like the male version of feminism? Am I being punked right now?

>>688627800
fuck off

The pornstar I am taking to Fogo De Chao for dinner this weekend.

>>688628565
newfag

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my waifu

>>688628733
You're just upset no one loves you. I love that all the echofags first response to being called out is to say "newfag". It's become so overused it no longer has any meaning, partly because only newfags say the word newfag.

>>688628440
Nah, I'm perfectly socially competent and I've been told I'm very good looking, (inb4 only by ur mum) it's just I have a pretty busy life and most chicks don't usually interest me. I've always known when I wanted someone, I just haven't met anyone like that in over two years.

>>688628565
Top kek, 10:1 odds say my life is better than yours

>>688629009
Actually make a pretty good point.

>>688629040
that's not how statistics work
also strawman fallacy
enjoy your secret sauces, aspie with delusions of grandeur

>>688629040
>Top kek, 10:1 odds say my life is better than yours
>uses "I have a busy life" for an excuse to why no one loves him
Evidently you were wrong.

>>688629217
Also this too.

My sometimes lovely wife who is at work all night while I generally raise our kid and do house work.

>>688628169
This

>>688629394
Depends what you value in life man. I have a great family and great friends, I don't need to be in a relationship for the sole purpose of sex.

>>688629217
>delusions of grandeur
I guess not having /r9k/ levels of self loathing counts as delusions of grandeur now.

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She's always on my mind...a girl who wants me, but I simply can't have...
It fucking hurts.

>>688630024
Ad Hominems now. You may be pretty, but know that you are DEFINITELY stupid.

Would you like fries with that?

>>688628169
Same

It's not the woman I'm engaged to. She has a boyfriend...we still talk everyday.

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Agent Scully

>>688627800
I don't know who she is anymore. I try Tinder in hopes of finding someone, and I don't get many matches. I don't see how some people get 300+ matches, and yet I have less than 50. I'm in limbo, wondering if that girl will ever come and when.

>>688627800
I feel that, women generally bore me. Nothing interesting to say. Never want to have fun.
>go out clubbing
>friend bring gf
>spends his whole night pretending he's having fun
>leaves at 1am cause his gf is bored
>texts me at 2am asking what I'm doing
>having too much fun to notice
>apparently she fell asleep on him
Felt bad for my homie, nigga is a prime faglord when it comes to girls.

>>688628671
I said pining over women is bad, not that women are bad.

Yim..not a model but ms. Universe to me..and the love of my life with whom I broke up with because of something in her past I couldn't get over..was all in my head..but I lost the fight after 2 years of struggle..

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My girlfriend left me today and tonight she told me she's pregnant with my baby and is going to abort it.

>>688625256
> ahh my eyes

>>688630720

Why is she so hot?

>>688627800
i had an on and off thing going with a middle school girlfriend for five years. it's been two years since we truly split but now i've become so disenchanted with relationships that i'd rather be alone but since she's the only girlfriend i've had i can't help but think about her and how i screwed it up

>>688631385
Send that baby to Heaven

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>>688631385
Harsh.

>>688631385
you dodged a bullet

>>688631385

Sounds like a ploy. Get proof.

>>688631735

Unfortunately it's true. We have a mutual friend that confirmed it to me. She took the pregnancy test at her place.

>>688631385
>not using a condom
you deserved it.

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>>688629009
They are shallow, boring, transparent... and they simply don't care.

They want to be surrounded by like-minded people who will affirm their identity and values, and when they don't have this they will scrounge for it. Attitude--how one reacts to what they encounter in the world, is a very important factor in some peoples lives, and they can be very incorrigible and stalwart about their beliefs, casting off anyone who is a possible contender of disagreement within their tightly-wound, often extremely vocal group atmosphere.

It's not a matter of intelligence, or even temperament that makes a person this way, I'm even going to go as far to say it's not reliant on childhood circumstance either. It's just the way some people prefer things, and because of the nature of their social preferences they have been forced to make an effort (even the tiniest bit) where they can repel those who don't like what they're doing. I'm not even saying there's something wrong with it

They are the phlegmatic; the common person. Where you have the leaders who will set up a part, you have the people rallying things who will do things like jumping off of a balcony into pools, you have the person making sure everyones drink is full--the phlegmatic temperament hears of the part on facebook, shows up, and expects to have fun. This is the majority and of course it is strange for someone to trash on a group of people with common interest

An over-saturation of this slice of the pie in a community has often been the downfall to youth who may have been something great in their lives as adults. It has often been written as the bane of great thinkers, artists, writers, etc.

But this is a thread where they're upset over a woman. They come here for concession with minds of a similar makeup to discuss something that is typically very important for any person who's primary hobby is socialization, and you should have expected they'd try to force you to submit your voice.

>>688628169
Same here dude

>>688631385
Had 3 terminations in my life because they didn't want it.
Still get depressed at the lose of 3 of potential children >.>

>>688632300
Do you want children at some point though?

Various.
After awhile women start to become more indistinguishable from the next, and like people as a whole the intricacies of their lives hold increasingly little relevance to me.
They feel more like an intangible concept instead of physical creatures, and I've basically lost interest as a result.

>>688627800
A girl who rejected me five years ago. We were still friends for a while but last year I finally realized all she does is lie. She's done more harm than good to me and us not talking is probably for the best. But still after five years I can't get her off my mind and move on.

Help /b/

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Here she is

>>688632300
Yeah, this is the second time this has happened to me. She claimed she didn't need birth control because she couldn't get pregnant. That should have been a red flag, but I liked getting my dick wet too much.

>>688632065
>mutual friend

Get more proof. Likely ploy to get you to chase after her and commit.

Women like to think they are sneaky, and have no shame,

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>>688627800
I'm thinking about how happy she makes me, my GF is pretty cool

I used to try to date out of my league, but I realized most girls out of my league are assholes or uninteresting, so I accepted a nerd-beta relationship and I've been loving it ever since

Tawney. Ten years later and now she's mine. I'm going to marry this woman.

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This girl

>>688632686
negatives outweigh the positives. just keep that in mind, regardless of how much you think "she saved you" or whatever. do your own thing, try and find someone else.

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>>688627800
4 years, still love her but she has a proper looking dude with a job and all that crap now, it hurts when i see her relationship status on facebook. If i wasnt such a fucking autistic shit i could've gotten her.

>>688632693

too late

the void

>>688633193
is that where theres no one you can think of?

>>688627800

She was mildly schizophrenic : (

>>688632500
Yes and no.

My "logical" side and depressive self loathing side says "no you hate kids, can't provide for them, and don't deserve them."

But I still find my self depressed knowing I had that many chances for a my own child and happy/feeling of completion looking after my sisters kids and my friends kids.

Also since it failed to post I found out today my "her" that OP is referring to is pregnant and is keeping it.

>>688633310
ye
i'm happy with myself

>>688628727
can I come? I promise not to eat all the polenta.

No i don't. I'll definitely eat all the polenta.

Mia

>>688633437
run nigga RUN NIGGA

Lauren, cheated on me but still talks to me and acts like it's isn't that serious. It hurts man
>Tfw

>>688633471
same. i tried dating. it's not for me

>>688632721
This why I rug up all the time now.
Can't see my self dealing with that again...
Especially since I was forced to pay for them.

Feeling forced to pay to kill your offspring produces a pretty dark mindset and thoughts as a result.

>>688633605
make her pay! MAKE THAT BITCH TO FUCKING REGRET HER ACTIONS

>>688633437
well congratulations. a younger friend of mine (im 24 and he's 21) just had a baby recently. he's not gone to college or anything and can't hang out so much anymore, but his family doesn't believe in abortions, so

ive had a few babies aborted (female) and i never feel bad. it's like how some guys apparently feel guilt after masturbation. it doesn't happen to everyone

>>688631385
What a cunt.
Women have too many rights, and that's the fucking truth.

>>688633599
I'm not with that one.
Sadly.
I think.
I think I'm depressed because she was the only one I found that I wanted to do the whole have a kid and spend my life with her thing...
And she is doing with someone else >.>

>>688633885
I'm planning on moving to Texas and start over, it'll be nice man

oh c'mon man
you know how many females on the planet earth are
i know that it's easier said than done but you just have to get over it
life is cruel, and you should be cruel too

>>688634476
related to >>688634178

>>688633916
Not really.
She's with someone else.

I was in the same boat as your friend.
My 1st one when I was 17.

Ultimately happy I didn't "ruin" my life as some people say, but still my animal instincts makes me depressed not having a child and procreating.

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>>688627800
she's what summer means to me

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>>688634242
So you've been at the computer for 20 years?

>same

>>688634550
i use a pen and tattoo a little line onto the side of my abdomen for every baby i abort.

>>688634705
not here to judge you, but.. why?

>>688634541
I'm in a happy relationship now with a great woman.
2 and half years... of the 5 years since I parted ways with the other.
Been over her for about a year.

Just still got hung up on her finding out she is having a kid today through me back through it all.

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Yeah i had a chick that I was pretty obsessed with, she was my best friend too. First girl (person) I ever cared about more than myself. She constantly goes back and forth and wants me then dumps me. Idk what do guys im really drowning here. I want to let her go but she is my best friend. pic related its us...

>>688634705
I have a scar for each one so far.....

I've never had I girl I fell in love with, so, she's nobody.

Well. (Highschool story) A while back.
>Talks to 2 year old crush for first time in a long time
>She tells me she used to like me in 9th grade
>Oh shit I liked you too in 9th grade
>11th grade and she barely tells me this.
>Start talking to her
>Three days in compliments her on a picture she posted
>She says haha thanks
>I say you're welcome beautiful
>Says "What are doing?"
>Gets sad so he makes it seem like he was joking on everything
>Asks me if I am still friends with "Mike"
>I answer yes
>Sends a screenshot of her and him sexting
>Wow.....
>Cries a little
>I can't make greentext stories I am sorry guys.

Every dude ITT who is going all macho "but dur fuck women" are the biggest retards on this planet.

You know what you look like? A faggot who thinks all women are the exact same. One broke your heart so many years ago so you think that it's "macho" to act like you don't give a fuck.

The fuckers with the same mentality that if a man cheats on a woman that she's a whore but urges other men to sleep with their wife's sister.

Inb4 "sjw", we know that's your go-to defense mechanism when anyone calls you out on your shit cause you're sad, lonely retards.

It has nothing you do with your relationship status, it has to do with your mentality. You're mentally alone and exhausting and just a spitting picture of someone trying far too hard

If anyone >actually< loved you, but they won't, cause autist, you wouldn't be sitting around putting down dudes in relationships and saying fuck women.

Kys immediately.

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Amy Bouzaglo

>>688634959
she's friendzoning you, I'm sorry bro.
been there, done that, it sucked.

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>>688634916
no no feel free to judge it's often very natural.

it's because of this image

>>688635248
How does not giving a fuck about getting a gf make me a "macho"? It's rather giving up on it, don't you think so?

>>688635416

Makes it look like a fetish for you. Psychopath.

>>688635135
>I say you're welcome beautiful

you're beta cringelord

Beta male here, recently got out of an emotionally abusive relationship with this girl I'm still madly in love with

>>688635248
You're not wrong.

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>>688627800
The images of all the girls I've crushed on since I was 7, flirted with since I was 13, or dated after I was sixteen flashed through my mind. Once they were all gone, I realized that not one of them managed to elicit any reaction from me other than faint annoyance, and none of them lingered for more than an instant.

Nice try, faggot. Once my parents and grandparents are dead, I'll be the only person I love in this world until/unless I reproduce one day. Which isn't likely because marriage seems like a horrible fucking idea these days.

I met her yesterday over webcam and I can't stop thinking about her. I should have screen shotted. She was everything I am looking for. We exchanged emails and now she hasn't written back. I'm a fucking dumb ass.

>>688635671
Not giving a fuck about getting into a relationship, and calling someone a faggot who does care, are two different things.

>>688627800
She's in Japan. We broke up 5 years ago. We still talk, but we do not talk about the past.

>>688635699
I fucked up, I know. I actually didn't want to say that my beta ass friend tried "helping" me out at the time. Fucked up thing some time after her sending the Mike screenshot I asked if she liked Mike and she said "no haha its just because he is hot".
>God damn it.

>>688635699
-Calls female beautiful to establish sexual interest
-"beta cringelord"

Kek

>>688635683
im not trying to make it out to look that way. i just know i could never take care of a child.

Keely. It's gotten to the point where sexual thoughts don't even happen. I just want to touch her, hold her. I haven't talked to her in years though. Plus I'm a fatty. Thinking about her just makes me spiral into overeating and hating myself. I've tried contacting her, but she won't reply with even a "fuck off". Too nervous to even ask her out, because I know she'll say no. The sad thing is we used to be friends, but it's like I don't even know her anymore. Mutual friends have told me she's turned into a bitch, but I don't even care. I've thought about suicide, but thinking about dying a virgin sucks, plus I couldn't do that to my family. Have no way of even meeting other girls at the moment. I'll be going to college in a few months, and she'll probably move away, which throws me into an anxiety attack. I dont know what to even do anymore.

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She's not gonna stop hurting me. I can't stop going back for more though. Wtf do you do?

>>688630120
That's the worst situation. </3

>>688636059

Then stop creating them.

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This little sweetie.

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>>688636164
it gets better man, I swear to whatever is out there. Stay strong /b/rother, I believe in you.

>>688636120
I should hate her but I really fuckin can't. I just don't feel the same for other girls.

>>688627800
her
>>688636018

pretty neat tits

>>688636296
i do. but birth control doesn't work all of the time

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>>688630720
She got the 'tude too.

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>>688631385
Dude...

>>688636454

You clearly do not "do". Go get sterilized if you're so inept at birth control methods.

> Image of an old love I should have gone to gen she asked if I would.
> Met online, Met is real, loved her form day 1. She loved me too.
> Found out she lied for over 4 years, she was married had kids, bout 10 years older than she said.
> Mad as fuck I was, heart broken. Lost contact.
> 2-3 years later still missed her like a dope. Sent a random Email to an old account of hers.
> She responded, now divorced. Only a 15yr old at home still. Start talking.
> Flew out to spend a week with her, was like old times. Lost of fun and nor real hard feelings.
> Asked me to come back and stay with her.
> I made excuses and didn't. Don't know why.
> Only woman that ever made me happy, I'll go to my grave regretting what could have been.

>>688636584
Besides straight up sterilize all forms of BC has a chance of failing.

>>688636584
it doesn't work all of the time. but i do take it every day

>>688636773

So straight up sterilize.

>>688627800
my older sister

I don't have a her, haven't in years and at this point I'm begging to fear there will never be another her again

Oh go please help me
I'm so lonely

>>688636934

So you have issues with oral contraception.

Consider other methods, since apparently all this is doing is racking up frequent flayer miles at Planned Parenthood.

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>>688636966
like i said i cant afford it and dont really care to, it's higher risk than a vasectomy

>>688637197
no

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>Be me
>Was married to literal 10/10 in every way
>Get pregnant and baby is born
>20/10 perfect kid
>Be self and fuck up marriage/life
>Kicked out last year
>Divorced couple months ago
>Only see my boy once a week
>See her every time
>Only good part of the week
>She's not sure if she can be with me again
>Miss everything about them every second of every day

>>688627800
Lindsey. Wish I would have asked her out when I had the chance to before she moved far away :(

>>688636966
Cost and commitment to sterilization is an issue though.
It's not a very light decision to make.

>>688637400

Sorry man. You'll be okay. Everything will be okay. Just hold on.

I was with a chick in a horrible relationship for 2 years I couldn't let her go because I couldn't help think about this chick that I've lived with is going to be fucking other dudes so I stayed for a few more months and I couldn't take it any more and left she's on tinder now according to some friends and contracted some std's I will always love her and I don't think it will fade away but the more time goes on the less I think about her every day when you think you will never forget you will and that feeling you have when ever you guys are together will only be a memory in the back of your head :/ keep on marching don't look back and if she's not the one for you keep searching for the one that compliments you

does anybody else have the thing where she's in there and stuff?

>>688637638

Straight up said she could never take care of a child. I'm not sure it would cost any more than the tax subsidized abortions she's going to keep incurring over the years. It's not like she'll pay for either.

>>688637817
im not gonna keep getting pregnant. ive chosen to pay for my own abortions

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>>688637679
Thanks, man. Tryin' my best to hold on, here.

>>688627800
Olivia bingham
Never stopped loving her

>>688637910

You have already stated:

- the birth control method you have chosen does not work for you as often as you'd hoped.
- you do not care that you've had the abortions, and you like to keep a 'tally' on your abdomen.
- you will not alter your birth control method

I don't believe you know how to not get pregnant. And I sincerely do not believe that you pay for your own abortions.

At this point the best thing I can see happening for you is that eventually you'll have had so many that you will have too much scar tissue built up in there, and be unable to carry a child to full term.

>>688637400
try to focus on getting your life back up, anon. you can get through this

>>688638317
ok

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>A girl I knew in class was a total attention whore.

>Never arrived to class on time and always made sure to make a huge fuss about it.

>Didn't talk to her all that much, but I had a few conversations with her.

>Her wrists had cuts and burns all over them. She wore t-shirts so she never hid them.

>I asked her why she would hurt herself like that.

>She said "No one loves me and my life is painful" etc., etc.

>"No one loves you? What about your parents or your boyfriend?"

>Answer she gave me was something like "They actually don't love me," or some shit like that.

>Made a point to not interact with her too much after that, because she's too much of an attention whore.

>End of the school year, she came up to me and asked if I wanted to go somewhere with her that Sunday.

>I'm not good with these situations, so I couldn't say no, even though I didn't like her.

>Sunday came, and we went to one of those tower car parks.

>Just as we got to the top, she told me that she wanted me to be here as a witness for her suicide.

>"Oh shit," I thought. She was going to jump and was forcing me to watch!

>Had I known that she was going to do this, I wouldn't have gone with her.

>"Not watching unless you do a flip." I said that to try and shock her into realizing this was stupid.

>Complete shock was written all over her face. She thought I'd try and stop her.
>"E-eh? You're not going to stop me?"

>"No, go on ahead. If you really wanted to live, you'd stop yourself."

>After a while, she got off the ledge. She walked up to me afterwards and tried to hug me with tears in her eyes, but I told her I loved someone else.

She asked me who, and I told her to read the first letter of every line.

Molly. I haven't been happy since her and it was years ago and via Internet.

>>688637817
The amount of people that say "I couldn't look after a kid" then have a kid and end up doing it fine makes me question the legitimacy of that.
Even I say couldn't do it now that I don't have a kid but know that if I ever had one responsibility and instincts would kick in.

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Honestly, no one. Maybe one, but she doesn't even live in the US. She's awesome, she's nerdy, into anime and vidya and totally into incest. Not into me.

>>688638470

She'd have to stop aborting to ever find that out, wouldn't she? It does not appear likely.

>>688635829
Man, even just sitting here thinking about taking to her again brings emotions I haven't felt in an extremely long time. I know I probably shouldn't let it hit me this hard but I speak with several women on a daily basis and just haven't connected like that in a while.

>>688638420
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XgUB3lF9IQA

>>688638317
Mother of one, after I lost three. (lost, didn't kill)

Absolutely true. Anything over 3 preformed distillation and cutterages, you'll have a harder and harder time getting pregnant. Even my to-term pregnancy was extremely high risk the entire 40 weeks.

Miscarriages are very common after even one abortion, let alone several.

Gg, girl, you probably won't be able to have a baby. And if you do, it'll be a micro preemie.

Celeste. I had never felt so in love in my life. I was 17 and I was about to serve 2 months in juvy for assualt with a deadly weapon. She said she'd wait for me. I wrote to her very often but I only got a few replys from her. Evenutally they gave me 10 minute phone calls so I could call her. Eventually get broken up with over a 10 minute call while in juvy. Tried to kill myself a couple days after I got out. Couldnthandleit.jpg. ended up spending a week in the hospital and then two more weeks in juvy again because in my few days of freedom I breached my probation by fucking up a traffic pole while drunk as fuck. Doing better now.

That was 2 years ago and my life isnt so crazy anymore, but I do think of her all the time. I still love her.

Oh and I forgot to mention it. She was cheating on me while I was in juvy. And eventually broke up with me after like a month of her seeing this other guy. Ya she couldnt even wait 2 months for me.

>>688638803
Dilation, not distillation. Tf

>>688636615
... bout 10 years older.
lied to you for 4 years
2-3 years later still missed her at 15?


so you were 11 and she was 21 when this all started ??? right.

>>688634959
I'm going to be brutally honest with you. It's going to hurt, so I'm sorry in advance.

She's keeping you on the bench in case nobody better comes along. She dates you then dumps you to keep your feelings for her alive and relevant. When some 10/10 Chad comes along, she'll date him, but keep talking to you in case he breaks up with her. When he does, she'll return to you and the cycle will resume.

This is some highschool-level girly shit. Gets better in college. Then everybody just fucks without emotion. Go for the drama majors. They're always slutty as shit.

>>688638761
You never know.
Humans desires and perspectives are fickle and subject to change. She might hit a point in life where she may want a kid. No will know till that point in life.

For a solid 4 years I thought death would be the easiest thing in life and tried multiple times. 4 times waking in hospital beds.
Now days I want to see where life takes me.
Female sterilization is just like suicide: permanent solutions.

Her name is Emily Sutton, she snapped the neck of a baby possum

Rachel

>>688638420
this got me good. i feel for you. When she was on edge to bad she didnt tap out when you made her stfu. I feel like she just needed an attitude adjustment you know? Too bad you arent with her now. she can't c u :(

>>688638420
Unfunny faggot

>>688639450

I think you're going a bit hard in the paint to defend someone who clearly doesn't value life as much as you apparently do these days.

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>>688628169
anime has made me feel the same way.
I've been way more interested in the lives and personalities of fictional drawn characters than any woman I have ever encountered
Is that depressing?
Really idgaf because drawings don't end up hurting you in the long run

>>688640132
I'm not defending her honestly.

Just having a discussion with you about people's choices, change of mind and that the most "logical" decision with one perspective might not be always be the correct one. Well using what's in this thread and my life experience as examples.

Maybe should have stated that possibly. Always do this and makes people think I have a personal stake in shit like this when in reality I'm just bored and wanted to have a discussion.

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>>688638352
Thanks, anon. Every day is a struggle. If I didn't have my weekly visits and therapy I'd have splattered my brains on the wall months ago.

She is the girl that is going to be the maid of honor in my wedding.. had a thing with her before i went to college, we split ways, never got over her. Best thing is, she isnt over me. #winning #westillfuck

>>688640729

Given the very particular subject matter, don't you think each abortion represents a permanent solution as well?

>>688633605
Quit being a fucking beta. You can do it.

>>688627800
Shannon Mae Werner

>>688633605
And you don't slut shame her?

>>688641179
It's permanent status is relevant to which ever perspective you look from.

Pro lifers/ the babies: permanent on the basis of a life is ended

Mine: Not permanent on the basis she could change her mind later in life but can continue her life as she sees fit.

Hers: permanent as of her current mind state on the basis she gets to continue the life she wants.

I've inherited a look on life where nothing is permanent. It's only relevant to the current time and is always subject to change.

>>688639378
Dumbass, she only has one kid living with her still, who is 15.

The original poster isn't fucking 15. Learn to read.

>>688627800
shes just a girl, probably the one, who gave me all the signs and i completely ignored because im retarded and autistic

>>688628169
>tfw kissless virgin

the "her" i though about was jennifer lawrence

>>688642232
huh where

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It was real /b/. A girl that had the most perfect personality with beauty and brains. Everything I wanted. We hung out at least 4 times a week and couldn't wait till the next time we saw each other. Now, all I get is "I'm just too busy anon". Doesn't even try and make it up to me. Just leaves me high and dry.Haven't seen her in 2 months. All we do is text. She has an 11 o'clock curfew and she's 21. Shoot me.....

Dianne....

*sigh

>>688627800
A girl that probably have made me happy af; but with me being the jackass, I decided that being apart is for each others benefit.

>>688627800
She's a really hot single mother who found me attractive.

The fact that she's a single mother should completely deter me but it doesn't fully. In time, I'll be able to not notice her in any way, shape, or form.

>>688641953

Of course, people change their minds all the time.

I simply cannot feel bad for someone who refuses to be accountable for their own poor choices, or who feels great about "fixing" her own mistakes by obliterating the people she's lured closest to her (the unborn, granted, but what about the potential fathers?)

I happen to feel better about a world where she's no longer able to do that. Just as I'd feel the same way if pedophiles were castrated. I'm good with it.

>>688642897
That's perfectly acceptable to have that has your moral code.
However it's not for everyone.
For example I can see where you are coming from but I personally find it a little extreme to be able to agree 100%.
Also we don't know if the pot-father was OK with it.
As I said elsewhere in this thread I've had to abort 3 times.
Paid for myself too.
Me being 17 and her 21 we agreed we were both children still and hadn't lived our lives 1st.

Still hit me hard when I thought about the fact I could have had little mes running around though.

>>688642646


>> Found out she lied for over 4 years, she was married had kids, bout 10 years older than she said.

>> She responded, now divorced. Only a 15yr old at home still. Start talking.


Literally right there. Her other kids moved out.

>>688643925
???

>>688643639

I work in a jail. I see a lot of people who don't care about anything but themselves.

I miscarried, just months ago.

My view may be extreme, and it's not for everyone. But I've spent too long watching imbeciles take everything for granted and dodging responsibility to be taken in by their solicitations for empathy. I don't have it anymore.

I knew her in elementary school. I was fairly obvious about me liking her, we had a group of friends that liked to say who they liked and tease each other about it, so it wasn't too cringe worthy. But still, most kids that age will be. Except for her, she was just a bit quiet sometimes. Well anyway, I liked her, but some other guy also liked her and she liked him more than she liked me. It wasn't even any sort of relationship beyond being best friends (because its elementary school and this isn't a pedophile's dream), but seeing them together still hurt me.

Well anyways, after 6th grade we both went to different schools, in fact our whole group of friends pretty much disbanded. we didn't see each other regularly for a while, but our parents were friends so occasionally we would see each other while our parents hung out. Then something interesting happened: Our parents moved in together, and we found ourselves in the same house for half of those years (months? I don't remember how long it lasted). We both have divorced parents, so we only spent around half of our time in this house.

It was hard to tell if she liked me, but I'm pretty sure she didn't even think of me as someone that she liked in 'that' sort of way. I was just a fun friend to hang out with. I don't remember much about the time I spent living with her, but I do remember they kept a cat in the house. He was a feisty little black and white floof, a funny kitten looking thing. Eventually her family (well one part of it, because divorce) moved out and it went back to irregular visits from parents meet ups.

Skip to 9th grade. I was an okay looking kid, not really incredibly attractive but not at all ugly. Her family had moved onto the same street as my dads side of the family lived on (they had lived with my mom's side of the family). I saw her a little bit more often from then on, but still not regularly. For some reason during this time I think I didn't feel like I liked her as much as I used to.

Sarah G.

Was my best friend for years (7 years to be exact), turned extremely romantic for the last 3 or 4. But I also had a g/f turned fiance during the entire thing. The girl I was with... I needed for stability at the time. But... Sarah... she was who I really wanted.

She eventually got tired of being the other women I guess. Strung me along as she kept her options open I guess. Found another guy and dropped me literally as I was planning making a transition/logistics to be with her.

She never talked to me after she found him. They are still together. It's been 4 years since I lost her.

I think about her every night. I miss her.

I'm still with the girl I cheated on for all those years while I was up late with Sarah. I almost resent her for not finding out about Sarah while it was going on so that it would have forced me to be with her... the one I really wanted.

I miss Sarah. I wish I had my shit together earlier in my life so that I didn't ruin the love of my life.

The girl I'm with/had been with has a great job, smart, beautiful.... but she's just not Sarah... who is mousy, so cute, and a giant nerd.

IDK. Fuck you /b/ for making me confront what a shit person I am for so many different reasons.

> found a girl online
> finally got her to talk to me
> end up "dating", even though we're in a different country
> introduced her to my best friend at the time
> started treating her like shit
> called her names
> fucked around with other girls
> best friend warned me, "stop treating her so bad, anon"
> didn't listen, she was always there, why leave now?
> "breaks up" with me in a fight
> 100th time
> yeahokaysurebabe.jpg
> best friend tells me she's cheating on me
> confront her
> "we broke up"
> thought she was just mad, hadn't spoken in a couple weeks
> few more weeks goes by
> gets with best friend
> moved in with him
> best friend hated me for a while because of me and her
> they get engaged
> she gets pregnant
> post her nudes all over facebook

> She tries being friends with me
> I can't stop treating her like shit.

I love her, hate her, want to fuck her, and want to hurt her all at once.

>>688644274
pt 2

One day she was over at my dad's house and wants to go on a walk with me. I assumed that she just wanted to have fun hanging out and talking about whatever (maybe she did and that's what we ended up doing either way) but now I think she may have wanted to go and be alone with me because she liked me. Something inside me screams that I'm wrong about that, probably my low-ish self confidence. But anyways, we just ended up walking and laying down on the trail in the forest and staring up at the trees. If I was looking at it now I would think it was cute. But I would also remember how I did nothing to express my interest in her, nothing to show any sort of attraction, except make eye contact which was just part of talking. I still wish I could have been honest with her when I had the courage to face rejection again. It's not like it's too late now, I just need tosee her sometime because I don't even have any sort of way to get through to her without asking my parents and that would be a bit creepy. So all I do now is reflect and wait.

Girl who broke my heart. Was with her for like a year, but too long. I fought for her for a few months after I cheated on me with the ex she wasn't over, but I realise I was being a desperate fool and that it was best to give her cheating bitch ass up. Better off without her, even though it's lonely asf.

>>688644274
>>688644921
I regret sharing this

>>688644972

What's holding you back, fear or a hook in your pants?

>>688644265
My condolences.

Your views are completely understandable being moulded by your life experiences and your view of the world that has manifested from your experiences.
They are only extreme compared to others perspectives brought around by their experiences.
I understand it and can't fault them for it. How ever I don't agree with it.

I find plenty with mentality on the outside in everyday life. I am one that's realised and am struggling to rectify it so I can treat my SO properly.

>>688645519

Best of luck to that end, anon. Take care.

>>688627800
Rakel
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>>688644385
Confronting yourself isn't necessarily a bad thing.

Natalie.
Love her like crazy, seeing her in 2 days time after I fly back from NY

Her name is Samantha, and it's been about eight years since I've last interacted with her.
It's pretty sad it took this long for me to get over it, but I don't think I ever really did, because get over it has always been a euphemism for stop talking about it and just repress that shit.
It's still tender to think about.
I hate women.
They're the only people that can make contact with me on a fundamental level that I can't whisk away.

>>688645699
You too anon

>>688644798
Brutal

>>688627800
Hillary clinton

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> high school sweet hearts she came to my football games. I'd cheer her on and check out assess for days at her volleyball games. Mostly hers
> never a dull moment. We were either laughing, having a dope conversation or we were fucking like the world was going to end the next day
> then a new girl comes to high school.
> kick it off just like that
>teen
>horomones
>feelings
> I go for the new girl because yolo
>break a heart move on to the next
>ex has an uncontrollably strong hold on me. Cant explain the feels
>lowkey get in contact via tumblr ask, "hey come over. I wanna talk about some things"
>The day comes, we talk small talk, beat around the bush
>I can still remember her lips say the sweet words
>"I know why you invited me over anon. Let's get the elephant out of the room. You want to fuck me and I want to fuck you too"
>lowkey fuck for weeks
>lowkey have the most mindboggling sex for weeks
>undeleted texts
>gf finds out...
>me n gf been together for half year at this point
> almost break up
>I really love my gf. Altercations with my ex were strictly physical.. and maybe some emotional.. alot
>a man can love more than one soul
>Bought a condo recently. Balls deep in a committed relationship and love every moment of it.
>4 years now with gf. Trust has grown back. Never want to cheat again
>still think of my ex everyday
>lowkey creep her media pages I.e-FB, IG, Twitter. See shes doing ok
>shes living a new life in Tofino and loving it.
>everytime we run into each other and lock eyes, time slows down. But I understand that road in life is forever gone.
> can't help wonder what life would be like if I didn't leave you
>do you still think of me?
> I'm the only one you said I love you too.
> The great perhaps kills me every night

TL;DR
Love a bitch. Leave her for another bitch that I cheat on with the first one. Gain trust back after cheating, about to live happily ever after. But still miss first bitch every fucking day. It breaks my heart.

Thanks /b/ <3

>>688645250
Just not wanting to risk my feelings I guess

aka me being a stupid whiny bitch who can't even talk to a girl who they love

also I feel like I'm not good enough