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how many ---real-- friends do you have, /b/? I only have 2.
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how many ---real-- friends do you have, /b/?

I only have 2. Thats it.

the circle dwindles and I dont even bother... Im 26, getting older and I dont go drinking, partying any more....talking to people is exhausting and most of the conversation is shallow and meaningless. Am I alone in feeling this?
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>>688552795

0,5 and I only went drinking about 5 times. Ha! I'm a shittier person than you! What do I win?
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>>688553146
drinking is overrated and you'll feel like shit the day after. Dont start smoking either, its not worth it

theres nothing to win here.

is this what adult life is about?
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>>688552795
I have three friends I consider real, but hey they're good friends
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>>688552795
Literally no friends. No one ever talks to me. I just want to be liked and have someone to talk to
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>>688554583
anyone from school or work?

>>688554416
i think eventually everyone ends up with single digits. People drift away. get married, different hobbies, no time to meet up...
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>>688554583
then put the effort into finding some with similar interests. noone want to make the journey to make no friends these days
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0

havent left my house in 5 years and im 19
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>>688555291
how is that possible

homeschooled?
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>>688555481
nah, left school at 14.
i just dont give a fuck about anything, i just dont kill myself cause i dont wanna feel pain.
ill probably end up doing it in the next few years though
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>>688554940
No, sit at the back of class. During lunch break no one ever speaks to me and I always sit by myself
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>>688555915
You sound edgy...
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>>688556327
oh dude trust me im so edgy...

nice fucking logic
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>>688552795
dont count my friends , but what do you call real friends?
i dont really understand what real friends mean but i have friends for sure. For exemple , in february , i lose my appartment , and some friends of mine invite me in their appartment, they dont abandon me . Now ,since last tuesday , i have a new appartment but i'm glad they help me.

i didnt know what to do if i have litteraly no friends , mostly because i know how it's important to me to have friends , to have someone who really care about me .
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>>688552795
5 close friends. More that are friends
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>>688555915
why did you leave? what happened?
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>>688556837
i dont see the pont in studying, its boring and i have no interest in money
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I mean I don't really have any friends, but for different reasons. 2 months after high school, I moved 1100 miles away from home for work and my job doesn't really allow me to have any kind of fun. All my real friends became internet friends because I haven't been home in almost a year give or take
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I have zero friends. I'm a 17 year old girl, what am I doing wrong? I want people to like me
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>>688557064

this made me curious. what are your truly interests in?
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>>688557098
Start sleeping around
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>>688557098
I think it maybe that you aren't doing anything. If you want people to like you or you'd like friends, then you need to make an effort. Find a group of folks you think you'd bond with and introduce yourself. You need to try here. People aren't going to like you out of the blue, you've got to work to achieve that.
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>>688557441
i dont have any interests, i simply dont find joy in anything,
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26 as well. I'd define a friend as someone who I could call up and crash on their floor or couch if shit went down. In that case, maybe 5-7? Most of the people I talk to are just bar buddies, band mates, work people, etc. Got a couple cool people though.
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I feel too awkward. Sure people are nice to me but I think it's because they think I'm retarded or something. Guys don't show interest in me, I don't get invited to parties
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>>688557860
get some exercise, get a pet, do some yard work maybe. You're too young be like like this.
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>>688558355
exercise? why? why do i need to have a nice body?

i do have a dog for the past 10 years, i love him but it doesnt change anything

yard work? for what? for it to look good for the neighbours?
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>>688558355
Yeah, pets can do wonders for self esteem. Especially big, dumb dogs. If you treat them well, you are basically the coolest shit ever to them. And they can make you feel better when depressed or angry.
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27 here and haven't had a "friend" since I was 12, round the time my friends moved on to other schools , moved on to other states and we lost contact. Never really made "good" friends afterwards. It's always a friend during school or work or whatever "group" I used to be in. I have 0 friends and I don't maintain an online social life. Even my wife has been withdrawing from me in the last two years we probably fucked like 4 times. I'm not sure what is wrong with me. But lately I've been working so much I barely have time to catch my breath. Pretty depressed this month and I don't trust anyone anymore...
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>>688557860
i really dont understand how someone can become like this.I dont say you're retard of something like this , but i can't understand.

do you think it's an education problem or maybe the people you have meet in your life who make you unhappy?
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>>688558859
This guy knows what he's talking about.
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>>688552795
Literally zero friends. I'm 24, already finished my uni, have no job/interests no prespectives, don't even know how to socialize properly, prolly gonna kill myself soon or later
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>>688558760
You're a lost cause, start amputating your limbs and use the meat to feed your dog

>>688558329
Make friends with this guy >>688558760, I've heard he's about to start doing some fucked up shit with his limbs otherwise
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>>688558760
its not for the nice body anon, although thats a plus. Its about getting outside, moving around and getting some sun. If you're inside all the time you'll cocoon up too much and get depressed easily. Even a walk in good weather helps.
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>>688559076
i know u dont understand, no one actually understands it 100%.
i just dont have interest in life, what am i supose to tell others that dont understand my view in life?
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>>688552795
Probably 1 real friend.

All my other friends either aren't actual friends, or always busy with their own lives to give a shit
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>>688555145
Trying this since years, as long as I don't meet a /g/ user I doubt that I ever find someone who shares my interests.
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>>688552795
I have "buddies" and people that have had my back, but I haven't kept in touch with most of them.

I moved across country and haven't made an effort to make new friends and haven't really hung out with anybody in almost half a year.

I drink daily, but not to blackout. Just to make whatever I'm doing at the moment less sad.

You're not alone, but I know that won't make you feel better...
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>>688557064
You say that until it's you putting bread on the table and paying for everything. No-one want's to struggle with a shit job with shit wages.
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>>688555915
How do you pay your bills you fuck?
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None. I met a girl in highschool and we were together for 6 years and she was my best and only friend. I hung out with her friends when she hung out with them but never made any of them my friends. Now were done and I have no one and I'm no longer in school to meet people.
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>>688559249
Don't do it anon, at least do something worth while that will give you perspective. Join the Royal marines and see how fucked up modern day pirates are
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>>688559046
i dont really understand why some people work so hard when they dont have time to make thing they really want to. it's so sad, it's like they forgot to live.

sorry , dont want to blame you, i wish you the best for your future.
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>>688559733
i rather have a shit job than be sitting on an office looking at papers and dealing with same minded people all day
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Zero.
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>>688559766
i live with my parents, they dont make me leave cause they know i will kill myself soon
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>>688560031
This. Work is just a means to an end
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>>688559381
: s dont really know. a least maybe you think dying make much more pain than being alive, isnt it?
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>>688557860
Exactly like me, what the fuck
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>>688560103
there are other types of well paying jobs that don't involve cubicles. Pick up a trade job. Go to votech an become an electrician or a welder. Go become a forest ranger. There are jobs out there that are interesting, spontaneous, and [spoiler]fun[/spoiler]
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>>688560595
if i had access to something that can kill me with no pain i would do it with no exitation
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>>688560910
no thanks

the only thing i can imagine me doing is something related to animals, but not worth sudying for so many years
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I have no friends at all. I'm 24 I don't really give a shit about anyone. I like being by myself. The only social interaction I have is with my co workers when I'm working.
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>>688552795
0 and that's how I like it. Lots of "work friends" but they're really just people who I treat like friends and then don't exist to me when I clock out.
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>>688560877
i know this.it's pretty famous in France.
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>>688554940
Well I mean I do drugs with two of my real friends and the other one I've known for a while
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>>688560937
i heard a story about a girl who wanna die. She use some medecine and they say she dont suffer by taking it. Maybe it could be what your looking for.

dont remenber what she take : s
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>>688562355
i know what i need i just dont know how to find it
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>>688562355
This serves little to no relevance
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>>688562633
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>>688552795
its prolly cause your an ass and dont put any effort into life. Having an attitude like that deserves 2 friends.
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>>688562633
Lel xD
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>>688562633
Ridiculous
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>>688562633
this is actually genious to bump threads
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>>688552795
I have 3 close friends and only speak to one regularly.
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>>688562879
my effort in life is towards my career. I rarely have time and energy left to unkeep and grow my circle. Its just not my priority atm.
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what do you define friend as?

there have been people i've known and we've benefited from having a relationship with each other in terms of gains (usually monetary) but if there was no tangible gain to be had i don't really like to deal with people.

and we don't do things together other than the aforementioned activities that result in the gains.

is that a friend by your definition?

if not i guess 0 but i just like to do my own shit anyway.
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>>688562633
Not gonna take my chances with the dubs of truth
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That's life dude. I'm 30 now and I still party here and there but it's really kinda boring unless it's a group of old friends that didn't fuck up and have kids. All my friends with kids are miserable and want divorces or have had them. Don't really ha g around them anymore. Don't wanna watch frozen 100 times or cartoons. They can't go out and do stuff. I got like 5 really good buds. Nick, Corey, BB, Justin, and Chad. Don't see Nick as much, he got married and is now fucking up by having a kid soon. BB has kids but is a straight thug so he still does shit. The rest of my friends are people I know that I see out or come to the studio or shit like that. I don't really call em up much but every now and then we'll hang out
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>>688558760
You need to change your outlook, you are trying to rationalize everything to have a use.
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