>>688277502
ur moms been wanting a rimjob all week

I need to lose like another 30 pounds tbh..

I need to make some friends but I'm too scared to try and talk to anybody

>>688277713
Get back in the gym you lazy fuck

>>688277502

You caught me OP, I should go to bed.

Goodnight Everybody, you too Tommy.

I need to get off the couch and drink some more beer.

>>688277748
Quit being a fuck head and get out there. You're a cool dude

Getting my license so I can go get my car. Gonna do it tomorrow, for sure

>>688277713
this, i've been meaning to get back in shape
and also i should be studying but i'm not right now

too much

>>688277942
Don't just fucking say it. You better do it, or else you have to walk everywhere like a fucking peasant

Currently?

Sleep

Finishing the clone wars series on Netflix.

Going back to school and starting my life most of my friends are way ahead of me

>>688278159
Watch it now. The later seasons are trash, but it's worth the watch

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I have to cut my toenails, but it's 2c here, it's cold as fuck, I really don't want to do it.
I also have to drop a giant turd, but it's so cold, I don't want to go to the wc.

divorce

Going to get professional help about my depression and anxiety.

It hasn't been serious enough for me to cause harm to myself or to others, but goddamn it, I feel like the way that I'm living is void.

It stinks to have to lie to people that I see every day.
>Hey how are you?
>FANTASTIC!

>>688278267
Online school is just a click away. It's never too late.

>>688278316
Yeah.. the terrorist group on onderon has gone on for to many episodes

>>688278352
If it's not meant to be, don't suffer through it any longer. You don't need to please anyone but yourself!

>>688278406
I wanna go for renewable energy I don't think they offer it online but I'll give a look see

>>688278368
All it takes is for you to reach out. Help is there. Also, stay away from /b. It's a toxic environment

applying for jobs

>>688278512
cheers, mate

>>688278563
Great! Get yourself back out there anon! All of us don't take the same path, you only feel left behind because you aren't making moves to get ahead

>>688277502
Finishing my last class for my degree, and getting healthy again.

>>688278680
Online applications are easy enough! You could be doing it right now friend. Before you know it, you could land that job you've been wanting

>>688277502
Sleeping

Several things and I'm not sure why I can't finish or start anything. I have the skills, just no drive I guess.

Pentesting
3d modelling
Music Production

>>688278953
Once you start practicing a healthy lifestyle again, it won't be difficult. Just routine. As for your last class, good luck! You've made it this far, you can do it!

>>688279047
Get off 4chan buddy!

>>688278872
Thanks /b/ruv made me smile for the first time in awhile

>>688278658
I only come here once in a blue moon, this place is shit. An old habit I guess.

What help is there though?
>A shrink whose best interest is to keep me as their patient.
>Addictive drugs that don't always have a predictable outcome that completely change the way you think
I'd rather struggle and fight my out of this faggotry. Even if it seems like I am losing at the moment.

>>688277502
a lot of things

>>688279064
Just imagine how accomplished you would feel if you just follow through! A career in any of those fields is right around the corner! Don't let your potential go to waste!

>>688279171
Thanks for the positive feedback. You're a good human being.

>>688279276
Family, friends. Or there are other alternatives! Try support groups! There is always someone out there willing to help, because your mental health is just as important as the next persons. You can work through it anon, you just need to let someone know you need help!

Get out of bed. I have classes, but I'm just exhausted and feeling awful.

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Should I Get a regular job? Should I go back to school? Should I leave the US and go back to my hometown... should I just Kill myself?

>>688279064

shit anon you probably just have poor time management. try spending a week on each limiting yourself only to that field. perhaps get a short freelance job to create a sense "drive" under a schedule/time limit. like other anon said...those skills can be pretty lucrative if you give time for each...dont overload.

>>688279850
Take your time friend! Your personal health should always come first! Just make sure to meet your deadline!

>>688279461
Anytime man, I know this place usually just puts people down. I hope you have a good day

>>688280015
I guess you're right. I'll call in and do the work at home later.

Telling my best friend that's a girl that lost contact with me this last year at college that I love her, also driving exam

>>688279249
Anytime! Good luck!

I haven't done laundry in months, like too many months and I worry people notice.

Also my bathtub/shower is clogged.

Also I need a haircut badly.

I should also clean my room.

>I live alone and i have no motivation to take care of myself or my surroundings.

>>688279944
You need to find balance between your relationships with friends and family first. Only you know the correct path. It's just following that path that is the difficult part. Don't kill yourself, you are worth the world to someone.

>>688280917
>I worry people notice.
People definitely notice, you gross fuck.

>>688279794
no family, no friends.

also you sound like a faggot.

>>688281137
it is hard to care much what they think when they constantly act like shitty people all the time

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>>688280959
Oh my god That actually helped a lot and made me tear up a little. Thanks anon you're truly a nice person.

You all need to develop a "fuck it" attitude. Not in a sense thats makes you give up, but to just DO IT. Motivation/optimism isn't a choice, it's a belief.

>>688281243
Hurr durr let try to push away someone trying to help my whiny "depressed" ass by calling them a faggot

>>688281680
You need to learn to take pride in yourself. Don't do it for others, find a reason to love yourself and that shit will sort itself out. What is it that's preventing you from liking who you are?

>>688282045
this is exactly what a faggot would say.

faggot.

>>688282260
there is a lot, i judge myself too harshly
>I fucking hate myself

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>>688282403
The fuck is wrong with you

>>688282568

Does it for attention, let them do their thing.

My Dark Souls themed Final Fantasy 1 romhack. I was gonna do it again afterwards, using the chrono trigger engine

>>688282441
Couple things then, find something to take pride in, hobby/work/relationships/fitness/etc.

If you can't do that, you probably need therapy :) But that's okay, nothing to be ashamed about. Do you have decent insurance?

Proposing to my gf. Maybe that can wait though.

>>688283083

Don't do it, marriage is severely overrated. What's wrong with just living with each other?

>>688282847
Yeah, i saw someone for a while and it kind of helped. I actually have some things that i know i like doing that others have told me i am good at but i am afraid of sharing them with others because i don't have a lot of confidence so i don't want them to criticize my work when it feels personal.
I don't know who you are anon, but you must be a good person because i feel like you genuinely care, people feel so fake

>>688283083
That isn't something to rush, think it over, be clear on what your expectations are for each other. Don't expect her to change, if there is something that you have a problem with, address it before you take the next step. Be open and honest above all. I didn't do all of that, or to the extent that I should have. I'm the guy who's procrastinating his divorce.

>>688283083
Do you plan to have kids with her? If so, then put a ring on it

>>688283334
There's always someone that cares, somewhere, even if they might be a complete stranger. The world has a lot of great people in it.

Have you ever looked for meetups of people that share your interests? It can be rough and you might have some rocky experiences, but it can be worth it. If you can't find people in your area, find a subreddit or something. As you know, /b/ can be kind of hit or miss :)

Also, if you're really struggling to find motivation and support and you can't afford a therapist, you can also look into support groups. They have groups for everything under the sun.

>>688284364
thanks anon, thanks for listening, i actually hate talking to people about this kind of stuff because i feel like i am whining or weighing them down with my problems. So this actually means a lot to me

OP here, thank you to the anon who took over the good advice role while I drove home.

>>688277502
Getting a job back.

>>688284982
How did you lose it in the first place? I.E. fired, let go, quit?

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>>688277502
I'm supposed to be doing college. Right now, this is taking priority. I don't have a problem with gaming - I pretty much got it figured out.

http://www.rrpicturearchives.net/showPicture.aspx?id=3196061

>>688284780
You bet, man. I absolutely understand how important it is to have someone who's listening. And it can be a delicate balance in sharing sometimes with those you're close to. I understand that feeling of not weighing people down. One of the big things to learn, as a general life tip, is how to set and maintain boundaries as well as respecting those that others place. If you are getting the feeling that you're stepping across someone's boundaries in sharing what's going on, ask them. Relationships develop and become closer through honest communication. Find those that are able to listen, again, if it's just a random person online. But a support group or a good therapist are incredibly helpful. You can do this anon. Everyone is capable, everyone.

Go to a doctor and find out why I'm always in pain.

>>688277502
Getting a haircut. Almost went Sunday, but Saturday night my gf said, "ooh, you're hair is so short." If I got it cut the next day who knows what kinda fallout there would've been. I set my eyes on Tuesday instead, but now I have to work the entire day so that's not happening. I really want a haircut tho. Dammnit. Maybe Wednesday. No, wait. Wednesday is no good either. Saturday? Shit, I don't even know anymore.

>>688284843
Cheers, from the pending divorce anon :)

Music production

All I do sounds like shit and no motivation

>>688285627
That doesn't sound like much of a problem! It's good to see that you're pursuing a passion instead of just idling in your spare time!

>>688277502
Cleaning my house. No trash service, no money, no way to transport it. Live in the boonies, so muh trash is just gathering over the course of months. Feel like a fucking hoarder when I bag it up and throw it out on the porch.
Few months ago I had a few extra bucks, so I paid a guy to haul it all off for me, but it builds up.

>>688286170
Bury it anon! It's not the most eco friendly advice, but it will do the trick! That or burn it. But I definitely recommend rather first course of action

>>688286170
Have a car? Can you trade it for a shitty pickup? You can also rent trucks from home depot for a not too exorbitant fee though gas might be a bitch.

Killing myself

>>688286502
Good! Find therapy or a support group, get a dog that you have to care for, volunteer some place, anything to give you perspective or get you out of your own mind.

>>688286113
Are you sure that music production is what you really want to pursue? Maybe it's time to explore other options. If you love it enough, you won't need motivation to work on it!

>>688285762
I feel like your hair may be an underlying issue

>>688286943
My hair is sexy af to be honest. It's starting to look sloppy around the edges is all.

>>688286342
>>688286343
Thanks, anons, but I'm good.
I'll have a trash service in about a week or two, and I'll be able to get rid of it comparatively cheaper. I'm just putting off cleaning it all at once because it got pretty bad since I last had it taken away.
Venting felt pretty good though.

>>688286162
Its actually not, considering I'm making money off it. Not much, but hey. I got a real job, and this to relax to at home.

>>688277502
everything, lol.

>>688287416
God dammit anon, just do it.

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I am putting off going to sleep.

If i wake my wife up she will nag me about how late it is. When i wake up she will nag me about how late i slept.

After i wake up she will nag me about something untill its time to go to work.

I work 12 hour days because i hate being at work slightly less then i hate being home.

But when i get home at midnight (work 2nd shift) the house is quiet. so i try to enjoy it while i can.

pic related... only there is a kid involved so im stuck.

>>688287812
That's a rough one, anon. Ever discussed going to counseling? Is your wife aware of how you feel? Chances are if you feel this way, your wife might feel something similar.

>>688287812
Personally, I'd work the day shift so I could raise my kid.

>>688277748
Same.

I need to start practicing drawing porn so I can make a living off of something I'm decent at.

>>688288136
>>688288136
Then start online, find friends, then go to meetups. Go to hobby groups, join a club, they exist for adults. Find a place you like to drink, embed yourself for a little bit to become a regular then reach out to others who seem chill.

>>688277502
At 11:00pm, I was going to watch a movie.
Somehow, I lost track of time on 4chan, and it's almost 12:00pm

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>>688277502
Life.

calling my mom and telling her i went on another alcoholic binge and i need more money for rent. fuck you dont judge me

>>688288338
Get on it, bro, There's always room for more porn. Find a niche and make some nice cash. Get your deviant account up and running, engage with those that show interest and build a following.

>>688288454
My town has a population of about 800, there's not much to do here haha.

>>688277502

Need to work on my presentaion for my job. Its like 10mins and kinda need to do it for my promotion. Due wednesday.

>>688288632
no judgment anon, don't let her enable you, get some odd jobs off craiglist and pay for your own stuff, you'll develop better self respect

>>688288911
i usually can but im about 100 months bucks this short because going to the bars shes always my last resort, i just hate asking her

>>688288734
hah, well, balls

still, get those online friendships rolling, find a subreddit, if you're into vidya then play with randos and find regulars to play with

>>688289155
bummer, ever budget your booze? if your normal job doesn't cover the amount you want to drink then get those oddjobs, cheers mate

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>>688288059

Its because i cant do anything right annon.

>I put her stuff in the dryer when i get home because she forgot too
>fold it when its done and set it in basket

Now if someone did that for me i would thank them.

but no.

>OMG annon thats not how you fold shirts!
>OMG annon how the heck are the towels gonna fit if you fold them like this

So the next time it happend i put it in the dryer and set it to dry... got bitched at. Dident touch it at all... got bitched at. put it in the dryer then took it out and up but did not fold... got bitched at.

Credit card bill high? holy crap annon you need to sell some of you toys (warhammer crap) and need to stop buying so much.... Nigga i aint bought a fucking model in over a year.

She will go to garage sales and buy stuff and stick it in the garage then bitch at me about how i cant even keep my garage clean.

nag nag nag nag nag. then. "Im sorry annon i get on you too much about stuff" maybe a few times a week but no changes. however if i call her on her bullshit "I SAID I WAS SORRY!!!!" and then the tears start.

Bitch wasent like this before we got married. was good for a year or 2 then she went nuts.

Doing something about my shit social life.
Doing my coursework for the summer term.
Start exercising again.

>>688289954
Know that feeling, I'm going through that right now with my wife but we're planning on a divorce, she was a former heroin addict who had cleaned herself up but has been tripping up with pills for the past year and a half, she had a shitty upbringing but i'm ending it, she's in rehab right now and we're separating when she gets out

honestly, you have to push past the tears and get thing sorted out one way or another, get into counseling so you can have the discussions mediated if you can't have them together

the hard part is your kid but realize that it might be better to have two healthy, happy parents that are separated then an unhealthy relationship together, it might be better to have one healthy, happy parent as well

I know these aren't solutions or real answers, but you're not alone in this, keep your chin up, anon, you can do it

Making a game

>>688277502
I have an examen tomorrow (tecnically today) morning, and I don't know shit.

>>688290095
take a phys ed class, it will take care of 1 and 3, it could also help with 2, when you're eating/living well it tends to have a nice rippling effect in the other areas of your life, also, don't beat yourself up over your perceived failings

guilt/shame are about as damaging as it gets, this is coming from a former mormon who left because I realized how much the shame/guilt culture of the my religions was affecting mej

but yeah, if you take a phys ed class, you'll work out, feel better about yourself and give you a chance to make some friends

This girl just confessed that she's been into me for a minute but long story short I need to work on bettering myself mentally and physically cause this chicks outta my fuckin league bros

>>688291017
couple options
1. cram
2. just go to sleep

>>688291649
is that just insecurity? or are there real mental issues that could cause hurt?

>>688291017
I drew dank memes on the last exam I had to take because I spent my class time drawing and didn't learn shit because of it, I don't regret it but don't be like me anon.

I should be building my fiancé's weddig gift and the centerpiece that's going by the cake. Both will take six to eight weeks minimum and we get married Oct 1st.

Also I'm supposed to be finding her a wedding band but I still have other jewelry from past relationships to sell for the monies to buy it sooo...

I basically sit around like a useless shit all day making excuses.

>>688290759
have your concept? layout your strategy in accomplishing, break down achievable/focused goals and get to it

>>688291951
Just insecurity. Like i havent dated anyone in awhile.. few years. Last chick i fucked was like a few months ago. Idk man i just dont wanna beta the fuck out of this awesome opportunity

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>>688278351
just finished doing my task, in case anyone cares.

>>688291649
Same.

>>688292105
sounds like you know what needs to happen, so do it anon, just do it

>>688292235
nice work anon, nice fucking work

>>688277502
Studying for my drivers license, getting back a girl who broke up with me months ago, getting a job, and figuring out what to do with my life

>>688292272
Whats your story dude

>>688292211
that's understandable, but you can't let that get in the way of something potentially great

there's a ted talk on power stances for boosting confidence before important stuff, shit is legit, look it up

the thing is, there's a lot of truth in faking it till you make it

unless you have real mental problems that can fuck you or others up, don't let your fears rule you

you're capable, everyone is capable

if you feel physical/body insecurity, start with a few pushups, also watch something inspiring, I turned on american ninja warrior and just did pushups/situps/curls/etc through it

>>688292832
how old are you anon? just curious

>>688293531
I'm 18. I dropped outta school near the end of junior year cause of a couple...incidents. I have a GED though

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>>688292832
>getting back a girl who broke up with me months ago
smells like cuck

also, thank you everyone for sharing! everyone is worth hearing out

>>688291449
I've thought about signing up for one, but I've always been kind of reluctant since I'm insecure as all hell. I did manage to get my weight under control last year, but now I'm just flabby.

As for the social thing, I usually can't get past introductions. I dropped out of hs when I was 14 and became a mega recluse up until last october when I went for my ged and so I'm not too used to holding conversations for long. I'm 19 now btw

>>688293097
Girl told me she would like to date me but I feel like I'm not good enough for anyone and that I'd just be a burden.

>>688294095
V
>>688293306

I'm a fucking loser I truely have nothing I'm less than a zero I have nothing I'm unemployed almost everyone has a hate for me I'm nothing I'm going to get the fuck out of bed change my life help build the people who helped me when I was nothing own the mansion, own the car have the gorgeous trophy wife I want this but my mental issues kick me in the balls, I need some motivation

>>688293756
nice work on grabbing your GED anon
if you have interests, figure out what you need to explore them professionally
if you're going for a degree, start off with a semester at a community college, it will either be cheap or covered through pell grants, depending on your income or if your parents can count you as a dependent, use that as a jumping off point for exploring future careers, also you get access to all of the student life resources like counseling, cheaper healthcare, etc.
also consider an apprenticeship/tradeschool, cream rises to the top and if you do good work you'll be recognized/build your network/advance, if you do good work (be honest with yourself) and you're not getting those things, you're working at the wrong place, you need to respect your job but you also need to be respected

knowing what you're doing with your life is often a rare luxury, life is really just about hustling legitimately

is the girl really worth it? be honest about why you broke up, it probably happened for a good reason

>>688277502
practicing for the album release show

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>>688294688
Thanks anon. Here's random tits.

>>688277502
suicide.

>>688293905
respect anon, nice work on getting your weight under control, who cares about the flab, slap some cocoa butter on that skin tho, helps with skin elasticity

social stuff does sound like a bit of a hangup, pro tip for social situations, ask the other person questions, then listen, everyone likes to feel important, you can be the person that does that

you're still super young and have plenty of time to sort things out, just try to get outside of your head, practice mindfulness meditation, it can help

if you have 10 bucks, order 10% Happier on amazon, an ABC journalist looked into taking care of his anxiety through meditation after he had a panic attack on a national broadcast

remember, you're not the only one who deals with this shit, you can do it, anon

>>688294546
do it anon, you only need to prove yourself to yourself, no one else matters in this regard

you know what you need to do and it generally begins with getting out of bed in the morning, find a reason to do that, it can be whatever, this last saturday I was lazy but decided if I get out of bed i'll have a good fap, did it and it jumpstarted my day :) reward yourself in a healthy way, it can be as simple as speaking positively to yourself, it really does work

so often, dealing with mental issues is about getting outside of yourself so you can see who you really are and affect change, if you are having a hard time doing that yourself, get help, there's no shame in that

>>688295107
thanks for the tits, cheers mate

>>688295462
good, keep procrastinating! if you get desparate, remember there is a national suicide hotline, you can also chat, just google national suicide hotline

if you're on meds, make sure you're taking them according to your script, if you feels your meds are off, trust yourself and speak to your psychiatrist

above all, go to regular therapy sessions and build your network, everyone has strong and weak relationships, there's a good this american life about a girl with schizophrenia who had a hard time maintaining strong relationships because of her mental issues so built a massive network of weak relationships (people who recognized her and would say hi) and it gave her a sense of worth and community

don't give up, anon, you can do this!

>>688294898
don't let your procrastination get in the way of realizing your dreams, even if it's just to get laid because you rocked your show, gl mate