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/b/ros does anyone have any experience of dating a girl with a low sex drive when you have an incredibly high one? Did you break up due to it? How did you cope? Here are a pair of tits to help
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Unless you have an open relationship, it won't work, caus eventually you'll either get sick of it and leave her, off yourself, or just cheat a fuck ton.
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Yes and I have no clue what to do. I don't wanna cheat but I'm constantly looking for other girls to fuck.
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>>687803041
Is this speaking from personal experience bro?
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she's fucking tyrone
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>>687803163
Is this something you are insecure about bro?
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>>687803163
kek
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>>687802833
Break it off.. it won't work trust me on this man

I know you care about her.. i know she cares about you

But this isn't going to get better, it's only going to get worse once the resentment sets in

I could type for hours on this one but it all boils down to the fact that it just isn't going to work
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When we got together she tried to say he had a high sex drive but totally didn't and going on the pill didn't help. She broke up with me because I kinda stopped reaching out to her and drifted away.
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Its the other way around for me, but my gf putting on so much weight is revolting to me
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Yes and i broke up with her. Funny enough now i cant find any sex. I guess she had the last laugh on that one.
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>>687803389
Did you love her or where you infatuated with her bro?
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>>687802833
I married a woman with an incredibly low sex drive and mine is probably higher than average. We have sex once a month. Maybe once every few months when times are slow. When she was pregnant we weren't intimate for almost 4 months. I just beat my dick like it stole my truck. There is more to life than sex. Yes it sucks not getting laid. And yes it makes me feel like she isn't into me but we get along better than anyone I have ever been with before. Happily married 6 years, been together for 11.
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>>687803103
>>687802833
First make them aware of your relationship priorities. They want certain things out of a relationship just as much as you do. See if there can be some compromise to get sex more. If that doesn't work, and you feel the urge to cheat or end it, go for broke and ask about an open relationship. This shouldn't be a part of the first response, because it can just end things on the spot. And if that's a no go, be honest and tell her you are breaking up because she doesn't meet your needs and the two of you are incompatible.
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After a while your sex drive will get the better of you. Currently dating a girl with low sex drive and she takes an hour to cum... Sex becomes a job and you start resenting it.
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We talked it through in an honest conversation and now I just fuck other girls on the side with her blessing. Always use protection when I'm not with her though.

Just be a fucking adult about it.
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>>687803552
Do you feel like she isn't attracted to you? Sorry if that is a bit personal I am just curious
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>>687803552
whoa she must hate you ... and you are a masochist
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>>687802833
just tell her you're horny, and offer to masturbate on her as a way of compromising. that's what i do with my gf. seems to work great. i figure by the time she's 30 she'll be a true cumslut.
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>>687803618
Right here OP. this guy here it.
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>>687803618
Don't you feel like when you say "My priorities are I need a lot of sex" Even though it is totally reasonable to you you feel like she feels as if you are using her?
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>>687803830
Thanks for your thoughts bro
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>>687802833


Listen here you faggot. There is no such thing as low sex drive. There is a beta male and an alpha male. Evidently , you are the former and she is not attracted to you. You also probably dont know how to sex. Next her and move on. Or fix your fucking trainrwreck relationship.
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>>687803792
Why do you figure when she is 30 she will be more horny than she is now?
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>>687803152
Yes, but it's cause I'm Bi. Harder to argue when they literally don't have the equipment they are after. The most interesting thing though? Her adventurousness and sex drive went up and now she does girls now. She also like multi partner-sex, and BDSM. She was literally just holding back a wall of sexuality because of conservative upbringing. So I guess another piece of advice is find their kink, as hard as that can be sometimes.
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>>687803524
Love man.. i"ve been through this

If you really want to make it work no matter what then you have to accept that you won't be having that much sex in the relationship... and you'll just have to jerk off more

but don't be one of those guys that tells his girl he loves her and then cheats on the side.. iv had 'friends' that did that but in reality nobody likes those guys.. they're the biggest tools on the planet
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>>687804087
How did you get her kink out of her bro?
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>>687803996
Not OP, but learn to read you fuckwad. Also, lurk moar.
>marblecakealsothegame
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>>687804002

Not him, but am over 30. Every girl I know got more horny after 30. So far early 30's has been by far the most sex I've ever had.
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>>687803695
>>687803717
No she is attracted to me. Like I said she just doesn't have a high sex drive. She loves it when we do it, just doesn't want to do it that often.

For what it's worth I have been with close to a dozen women before her. Many of them were absolute nymphos. I prefer my wife, even if there isn't as much sex. Women who are sex crazed tend to be unstable one way or another.

We have a great relationship, we communicate well. Before you say "hurr durr she's with you for your money" she makes probably 45k a year more than me. And I know for a fact that she doesn't cheat.
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>>687804107
Thanks for replying bro, I feel that 100% I couldn't cheat on her she means too much to mean. She does everything for me and I do everything for her however it has something that has been on my mind lately.

How long into the relationship did you find yourself being resentful?
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>>687804187

Read what? That the guy does not know how to maintain a proper relationship without becoming an emasuclated beta faggot?
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>>687803850
Sex is a very intimate thing. Guys have aa lot of difficulty expressing intimacy in other ways, but when someone is your partner, then you want to feel that closeness with them. That of course is shattered by an open relationship, unless you have a polyamorous set up where you are in an actual relationship with more than one person.
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>>687804196

They are not becoming hornier you fag. They just want to lock down someone and get a baby , cause the bio-clock is ticking. Fucking idiots.
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>>687804248
Thanks for you input bro I really appreciate it. It's good to know that it can work. I suppose some times you have to make sacrifices for the things you love
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>>687804460

Learn to think about yourself first you god damn nigger. Sacrifice sex , oh god you guys are worthless.
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>>687803389
as sad as it is: this anon is right.

The earlier you realize that the better. I dragged myself through a 6 year relationship of sexual frustration and it has cost me plenty. I did not want to leave her "just because of sex", that felt like a total dick move, and I have loved that girl with all of my heart. It was horrible to break up with her, but I should have done that way sooner.

It will not get better, she most likely cannot do anything about it and it is not her fault, just as much as your higher sex drive is not your fault.

Sorry anon.
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>>687804335
Guy wanted to bone more, not other way around. Your shit was flipped.
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>>687804425

Sometimes it's that, sometimes it's just that people get more open and care a lot less with age. I've had a pretty steady girlfriend for the past 10 years but we started having a shitload of ffm threesomes once her friends started to want to experiment.
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>>687803996
this kid has absolutley no clue
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I have the opposite problem. My gf wants to have sex multiple times a day and always wants to be together. I am a programmer and I need time for my self. What to do?
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When a girl really likes you and you are doing things right, keeping her on the high attraction side of the spectrum, she will keep spreading her legs whenever the fuck you want because you are in control of the situation.
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Just fap on the side, man. Can't throw away a perfectly good human cuz her juices are out of whack. Offer to lick her clit while she relaxed. Could lead to sex every time.
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Yea. In the beginning she would put out even when she didn't want to then down the line she stopped doing tthat. After like 4 months of no sex I took it personally. Like I get you have a low sex drive but is it really that horrible for you to just lie there for 10 mins.every now and then? Like fuck bitch I got needs. I dont like driving your ass all over the place and fixing the house and helping your dad chop down trees but I still do it.

Anyway I ended up fucking around she found out and dumped me.

I took it hard because I loved her and she was hot as fuck but looking back it's for the best she didn't really contribute in any way and wouldn't let me fuck her on top of it. She really just became a big chore.
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>>687804678

I told him to man up and move on. This is already shit.

Want it to work out , OP? Set that ultimatum. Sex or I leave you.

But you know what will happen? It wont work , cause the bitch will test his ultimatum. And he wont cut her off , cause he is afraid of being lonely. Weak faggot.
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>>687804631
Thanks bro six years is a long time, did she tick all the other boxes for you?
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>>687804879

"Can you fix the house?"
"Nah, I'm not in the mood"
"Seriously?"
"Yeah I have a headache"

Just keep up with that shit whenever she asks for anything until she learns her lesson.
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>>687802833
It may sound superficial, and yes, there is more to life than sex, but if you're not sexually compatible with your girl your odds of being happy in the long run plummet dramatically.

I guess it all comes down to how much you're willing give up versus how open she is to you taking care of it otherwise, whether that be jerking off or having a fuck toy on the side
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>>687804180
The answer isn't a quick fix, but time and closeness. Overall, you have to have a good basis for your relationship first.For me it seemed when I came out that I was Bi (we were married for a few years before I was ready to deal with it) She felt like I had really divulged something of unparalleled depth to her and she trusted me more. So honesty is important, sincerity is important, trust is important. Talking about her desires, finding the things that turn her on, just experiencing things with her will all help. Hew deepest fantasy is to fuck a werewolf lol, but she already said some lame furry suit is out of the question. She knows it's just an abstract unattainable one.
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>>687804879

>After like 4 months of no sex I took it personally


God...
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>>687804738
Be alpha as fuck and threaten her to save that pussy for you cuz you wanna cum in it. Tell her you fuck when you want to. She has to be a good girl and listen to daddy. Bitches love that shit lol. They're crazy like that.
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>>687804754
How do you keep her on the high attraction of the spectrum bro?
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>>687804631
This happened to me sorta.

The first year I took her virginity and she couldn't get enough of my dick.

The next 5 were torturous for my testicles. Not only did she never want sex but she would also flip out if I looked at porn.

Funny thing is, after so many years of her shit I ended up turning to drugs to deal with my frustrations so the bitch cheated on me.

Current GF is 100X better than her and after 3 years still sucks dick like she hasn't eaten in a week.

It's not worth it op. Move on to someone who will meet your needs.
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I'm in sorta the same situation op

My gf's parents tought her and her sisters that masterbaition was bad and all that horse shit when they were young and then her first two relationships were somewhat abusive and she was pretty much just kept around for sex so she learned to hate it. It took me awhile to get her comfortable with sex and get her to relax and enjoy it, sadly she still has a pretty low sex drive we've been together two years and she's initiated sex about ten times.

The solution I've found is having her compensate me with blowjobs when she wants something, like money for shoes or getting her nails done or going out to eat or just random little things that she wants you to do but you don't want or enjoy doing
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>>687805097

You are such a retard. You dont even know how to keep girs on their toes , yet you tell us that "she is very attracted to me , its just that we dont have sex". Bitch she aint attracted to you.
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>>687804912
Thanks for your input bro
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>>687803552
I respect you.
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>>687803996
You were born yesterday.
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When my girlfriend moved in with me we had sex every day. When I married her 6 months later we were still having sex every day. A year after we were married we still had sex every day. Then it stopped. We started going a month between fucks. So I raised a little hell over it. Now I get it once a week most of the time. Sometimes two weeks. Been married for 5 years.
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>>687803103
>I don't wanna cheat
>I'm constantly looking for other girls to fuck
dat cognitive dissonance
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>>687802833
If you're compatible except for amount of sex, just cheat. If there are other issues break up
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>>687805296

Go back to your momma's place to read Freud , candy ass.
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>>687803495
Damn, I feel you bro
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Okay boys so what is the end result? Accept the good with the bad?
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>>687805011
Yea but I didn't want to stoop to that petty shit. I remember one period in time I she was cuddling up to me. I started kissing her and went for a move after probably 3 or 4 weeks of not even trying or talking about sex because I knew it'd just end in rejection, I made a move. Dumb bitch actually said "omg all you ever think about is sex".

I raged out
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>>687805767

No. Fuck good. Fuck bad. Get the better.
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>>687803618
/thread
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>>687803621
Does this really work?
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>>687805938
How long into the relationship was this?
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>>687805767
That's kinda for eeryone to decide themselves. I wouldn't settle for that shit. My wifes birthcontroll fuicked her drive fore several months and I almost fucked her best friend. (who was living with us at the time, and was a teasing whore who wanted the D hard, but I digress) WOuld have regretted it for the rest of my life but if you truly got a high drive, YOU WILL GO INSANE!
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>>687805938

You're right that it's petty, but sometimes it's worth it just to teach some fucking self awareness. Women (everyone really, both sexes are just as bad) can be so self-centered.
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>>687805767
Married for 30+ years here (yes, really)
My sex drive has always been higher, but sex is not the most important thing. We discussed. She still wanted (and wants) to fuck - just not as often. So I fap, she gives me hand-jobs; I get by.

Sex is important but not the be-all and end-all (and if it is your relationship is doomed - it's just lust). Upsides outweigh downsides, at least for me.
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>>687803996
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>>687802833
If you're not both on the same page it can be really mentally taxing for you, being the one who always wants to do it while she doesn't. Rejection like that is frustrating and can lead to cheating, so better get it done with before you contradict your own moral code (if it exists)
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>>687806240

True that, if she's not into sex then she's not into sex, nothing you can do about that and pretty harsh to be annoyed with her for it.

If she won't help you out with her hands/mouth/tits, then she doesn't think you're worth 15 minutes of her time and effort, leave her.
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>>687806240

Been maried 13 years. Extremely attractive and with a good career. Wifey also has good career. She is not really a hot bitch , but whatever. 8/10 on a great day.

She knows I can get better and she knows that I am the shit. She is attracted to me and to what I do. I get sex everytime I want to. If she ever turns me down , I go out and do my thing. I hit the gym. Go somewhere and ignore her multiple texts. And when I come home , you know what happens? I get sex.

Your wife enjoys sex. Just does not find you as great as in the first days to sex you often. She has sex with you because she wants it , not because you are some good looking person that she would love to bang. She also knows that you wont leave. Obviously you two had the "libido talk". You dont negotiate desire , faggot. Acta non verba. Learn to game.
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>>687802833

i'm in the same situation, i have no solution except masturbating furiously

but feeling rejected gets me, so i get what you feel and i wish you the best :)
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I'm with a woman with lower sex drive than me for 5 years now. She want's it maybe once every two weeks, I'd like it at least twice weekly, so it's not that big a difference, since she changed medication anyway. Before that she'd want sex maybe once a month or less, that was frustrating, and would have been a deal breaker if it hadn't gotten better. We are almost a complete fit otherwise, only difference is really that I like working out and she doesn't.
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>>687806240
Married 40+ years here (yes, really)
Also have a much higher sex drive than my wife. The issue is that it can lease to frustration and resentment knowing your wife is mentally and physically able to meet your sexual needs but refuses to do so.

We've had "the talk" several times and at this point I've given up. I know she won't change but neither am I. I found someone else to meet my sexual needs and now we get along a lot better since the issue of sex (or no sex) is off the table.
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>>687805327
It's like not wanting to be fat but thinking about eating all kinds of tasty shit because you're on a super strict diet.

Thinking about it and doing it are two different things bro
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I'm >>687806905
>>687806240
One thing that kept us together a long time when her sex drive was low was that she'd still like to watch me masturbating / look pretty for me. We were living in a single-roomer back then as well so there wasn't really any where to go anyway.
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>>687802833

ITT: All relationships will have one person with a higher sex drive than the other.

>mfw all couples should statistically break up at some point because of this.
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>>687806688
I assume you're addressing this to me
>>687806605
and not offering OP advice.

If so, then my response to you is just go fuck yourself and your bragging on an anonymous internet image board. I was offering advice to OP and I don't give a pair of foetid dingo's kidneys for your opinion of your looks, your wealth and your gaming, sonny.

No, I'm not mad. just having difficulty articulating the full depth of my contempt for someone who thinks "gaming" a relationship is a good idea. I even suspect you of attempted trollmanship from your semen-spattered chair in mommy's basement.
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Just stick it out if ya really like her. She will catch up. My wife used to be like that. She turned 27 and all hell has broken loose. Turned into a straight freak and I love it. Went from 2 or 3 times a week to daily sometimes twice a day. Shits sweet
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Another thing to consider is perspective. Your wife/gf may feel that your sex life is great... once a week, what's wrong with that?

From her perspective, she'd like to have sex once per month so she's having sex 4x as much as she'd like. You'd like sex 5x per week so you're down 80%.

One last thing... ask your wife/gf when the last time you had sex was if it has been a while. I can almost guarantee that she will think it was a lot more recent than it actually was.
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>>687807045
Rare to meet someone allegedly older than I am on /b/
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>>687804631
6 years. sounds exactly like how my situation was, except i ended up forcing her to make the move to end things (convenient living situation for me). she was with another guy within months of breaking up with me....who was like 12 years older than her....and now with another dude, and ive been alone for these past 2 years. I miss my best friend, and it hurts me to think she could be happy without me, as i haven't managed the same without her. feelsbadman
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>>687807323

Listen here , faggot. Gaming as in keep KEEPING your bitch on your toes. Do you know how to do that? You probably don't. You have not been doing that for more than 20 years as I predict.
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>>687807523
Thanks. I'm 63.
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>>687805129
This could be true.>>687804879 was my post and there were a lot of signs of sexual abuse in her past but she denied it happened. But I'm almost certain she was abused as a child.
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>>687807675
>Gaming as in keep KEEPING your bitch on your toes
Now I know you're 12, at least mentally. Run along and play - I'm done with you.
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I got with a girl who's sex drive was fucking shit. She and her ex stopped having sex after about a week of being together, and they were together for almost 4 years. When I got talking to her initially, we talked about how she never really enjoyed sex that much, and she didn't really get turned on.

After about 2 weeks of dating, I decided to make my move. I touched all the right places, used my tongue where it was needed, stroked the obscure parts of her body that people always forget, and before I knew it she was sweating and extremely turned on. That night she fucked me like a jackhammer and had no clue what she was doing, trying to find new ways to sit on the dick, and she was flailing all over.

After we'd finished, she admitted she had no fucking clue what she was doing, but she felt primal and just couldn't control any of those urges.

Her stupid ass ex was a simple "here's my dick are you horny now? let me spit on it here there you go we're fucking oh im done night baby" kind of guy.

Foreplay is VERY important. I turned a depression suffering nurse/lifeguard lass into a nymph in the space of one evening.

Just try new things. If she doesn't like sex with you, try something new.

I've been married 4 years now and the sex hasn't stopped since day one. Multiple times a day, with more on holidays.
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Bro am dealing with this currently.

Gf of a year kept me around with more sex in the beginning then faded to HARDLY ever wanting it (after a couple months in... Just BAM no sex drive).

She recently got off the pill for medical reasons/to see if that helped our lacking sexual life/ to look into tying new ones. If your girl is on the pill... Get her off it for a few weeks. Use condoms for a month or whatever!

She'll say no at first, but once she's off she'll want to do it. Those pills suppress something in them, I swear. Government conspiracy
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>>687806133
4 years
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Yeah, I was with a girl who'd sext me fucking constantly, NEVER send nudes, but talk it up all the time. Talk about wanting to fuck all day long but when I got to her house she just wasn't in the mood or whatever. She always said she was an extremely sexual person and horny like all the time, but in reality this was not true. We fucked, not as often as I would've liked. Drove me nuts. Couldn't do it. I have a retardedly huge sexdrive to the point where it gets annoying.
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>>687807822

If you have a son , get him to go into some judo or wrestling. Or even boxing if he'd like. Evidently , you won't teach him shit about being a man.
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I wouldn't bother to date a girl with a low sex drive, although it's never actually come up in my relationships.
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Did it for a year. Hated it after the first month. I was so frustrated sexually and it started affecting the rest of my life. I was so repressed that I started wanting to fuck anything. Every second was consumed with thoughts of sex but I didn't act on them because I didn't want to cheat on my gf. Get out while you can, /b/ro.
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>>687807275
There's a difference between a person was ting it twice a week and a person wanting it every other week vs someone never wanting it at all.
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>>687808145
To be honest, if you get with a girl and she likes fucking, just keep it that way. She may very well have had a low sex drive prior to you, and you were exactly what she needed.

That's the kind of shit that gives us God complex.
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>>687808254
Yeah I have dated girls of various ages and backgrounds and we always fucked, or at least did some oral/manual stimulation whenever we were together, either morning or night, unless one of us was too sick, exhausted, or drunk.

If you or your girl does not want to have sex, you are probably incompatible or one of you is just bad in bed.
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>>687808605
This is exactly how you should be in any relationship. If you're just staying together because you like eachother's company, you're not good for eachother.

You've gotta find someone you connect with. Someone you can reproduce with. Gotta keep the human race going on!
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>>687808070
He's right though man. I know what you're saying but eventually the girl will want to marry and have kids and then she will no longer be on her toes. She's got you now. And if you don't eventually cave she will move on. Which is fine if you're ok with that but many people would like to settle with a girl and also get sex once in a while.

What's the longest relationship you've been in? I'm going to guess 2 years or less. And be honest now, /b/ is serious bsns.
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>>687807884
Don't need to think far to realise hormonal treatments mess with hormonal behaviour. Like, no shit sherlock.
Try to get a diaphragm if neither of you likes condoms.
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>>687804315
its not so much time as it is moments... sometimes at least for me what happened, and this was the worst, you'll be making out and cuddling and get right up to the point where you think you're going to get lucky.. and then she just shuts it down and you're left thinking 'what the fuck am i doing wrong' you'll resent yourself as much as you start resenting her.. like another anon said before its not her fault and its not yours

Maybe you'll start bargaining for sex.. e.g. (if I clean the house would you be more likely to have sex with me later)

At some point enough of those moments of rejection from the woman who says she loves you build up and it becomes a cyclical whirlpool of resentment and self hatred
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>>687809183
I'm excitedly waiting for vasalgel. Reversible injection into the penis, keeps you from getting anyone pregnant for a decade, don't have to rely on the girl.

IUDs are good now though.
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>>687802833
Yes, I have had plenty of experience. Thank god my current girlfriend is a freak, but before it was unnecessarily frustrating and detrimental for the both of us. My first girlfriend was a hardcore conservative, no sex before marriage type who was practically brainwashed by those "Christian camps" to not have sex and that it was against God and evil before marriage, etc. She wouldn't do anything past making out and it made me feel as if I was the bad guy for even trying to go further. No bueno. After about 5 months of being a fucking idiot and staying together in hope of finding her kink, she broke it off because she thought I was "heading down a path of sin." Mind you, we were 16 at the time. Later on I realized it wasn't me and that I shouldn't be ashamed of what I want and expect from a relationship. Now, I'm much more straightforward with what I want and I make sure that we're on the same page. Three years later, she's still a virgin and is deeper into the bullshit that religion spews. Her friend that she got purity rings with and went to the christian camps with told me she got really pissed when she found out said friend lost her virginity.
>I'm Catholic but just not as diehard
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>>687802833
I been through it brother. Gtfo while you still can. I am now happily getting laid often
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>>687809276
same man.. can't wait for vasal.. my gf can stop using birth control and fucking up her hormones
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>>687802833
My most recent ex, wasn't so much of a mismatched sex drive, but more of the fact that she was out of shape.

I don't even mean overweight or anything, but skinny; the shut in type that barely eats and barely takes care of their body. It got pretty irritating how quickly she'd be spent.

Take note guys; make sure that woman you're looking at has a sex drive that matches, AND the fitness to keep up with you.

Mine would be sore for days afterwards, which, although hot in theory, sucks because she'd need a week to recover.
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>>687809259
That is so interesting bro I find myself in the same situation where you are left not knowing how to feel after continuously turned down. Start questing yourself. I Think we have sex some times just because she knows how much.

>fucks with me
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>>687809570
I was in a somewhat similar situation. I had a chubby ex with giant breasts and a high sex drive, submissive and down for almost anything, but she just wouldn't go on top. She'd get tired after a minute. It was always a point of contention between us.
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>>687802833
Yes.
Break up, find a better fuck
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>>687809276
I'm looking forward to RISUG (general name vor vasalgel stuff).
My gfs copper IUD makes her menstruation extreme, and sometimes you just want to go balls deep you know...
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Sex on the side is pretty much the solution I use.
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>>687809511
>>687809276
where exactly can i sign up for a vasagel injection? do you think it's reliable? how much is it?
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>>687810104
Yeah my ex had an IUD and the string would lightly scratch the tip of my penis for the first few weeks, but after awhile it got softened and was no longer an issue.
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>>687810271
Vasalgel is not yet available, but I think they're doing clinical tests. Just Google their website.

I'm subscribed to their emails but I don't read them that often.
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>>687802833
I get off to approaching and getting close to cheating but then bailing last minute. Its not so much a high sex drive as a high demand for sexual validation, having the consent is almost the same as doing it for me.
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>>687803552

Same here. Been with my wife for 12 years. She never initiates and has almost no kinks. She's the standard 'missionary position for the sole purpose of procreation' type.
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>>687809712
Yeah dude its the fucking worst.. its a weird self destructive cycle that i honestly don't know what the solution is when you're t in it.. other than to just see it for what it is and get out of it

I mean they always say communication is the key.. but i don't see a way no matter how much you communicate that you can solve the issue.. unless one of you is willing to compromise on more/less sex

or last resort you guys talk about an open relationship for the one with the high libido.. but honestly its sounds gay but that shit isn't for me. i like being monogamous for some reason being with that person.. fucking other people just doesn't sound appealing at all, it sound more stressful than anything
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>>687810712
Why would you marry someone in a relationship like that?
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>>687802833
It's called being married.

I go through phases where every other week I desperately want to cheat to unleash my swollen nutsac. But divorce would probably end up with me paying her to fuck other guys.
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>>687807756
Wow, how did you start going to /b/?
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>>687803389
This.

Not only the resentment, but as the relationship goes on she'll avoid sex more and more and start getting angry at you just for wanting to have it.

Gtfo before it's too late.
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>/b/ros does anyone have any experience of dating a girl with a low sex drive when you have an incredibly high one?
OP, you cuck. "low sex drive". Her sex drive is fine, it's just not for you.
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>>687810271
What this anon said >>687810539

It probably won't come to market for another few years.. prob right around the time I'm trying to have kids knowing my fucking luck

there is RISUG which is almost the same thing and might hit the market sooner.. but i don't trust anything that comes out of those third world countries (india)
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>>687802833
I am in that kind of relationship, we have sex like once a month, but I get handjobs and occasionally blowjob which is nice, also I just masturbate
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>>687802833

OP, read this:

http://assets.csom.umn.edu/assets/71503.pdf

Don't tl;dr it. Seriously start reading it today.
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>>687802833

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vgeoWlqM4i8
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>>687811322
RISUG is coming to the US? India produces tons of doctors, I trust their shit, but I was under the impression it was only available for married guys who live in India, or I'd have already gone there to get it.
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>>687803389
This guy's right. Most definitely. Sex is important in a well functioning relationship, and personally, it fucked up my rational thinking when I'd get rejected time after time. The frustration would make me sour and butthurt.
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>>687811361
Why are you doing this to yourself? I have more sex than that and I'm a single, socially awkward computer nerd.
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>>687803475
>insert wedding pic + caption "now I can get fat"
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>>687803389

This x 1000%.

Get out before it's too late.
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>>687811510
thought i read an article about them trying to bring it to the US at some point but i could be wrong.. i probably am
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