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Oh FUCK /b/. My life is so fucked I can only laugh to hide my
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Oh FUCK /b/. My life is so fucked I can only laugh to hide my pain. I'm a 37 year old guy. At 21 I got my 19 year old girlfriend pregnant. Except I find out a month ago I didn't.

at the time I was in college. panic married her so that I wouldn't get destroyed by her gun nut father, who threatened me on many occasions that if I broke her heart, he'd have no problem burying me in his backyard.

So we had a cheap wedding and 6 months after the wedding, the baby was born. Being at the birth was a life-changing event for me. I swore I'd scrap every dream I had in order to work for my daughters sake.

16 years later, I'm having problems with my (now ex) wife. She was out all night, drunk, and I'm the one going to my daughter's recitals, games, parent conferences etc

One day we get into a huge argument and she leaves the house with my daughter. I find out she went to some Scottish guys place who I'd suspected she'd been fucking for a long time.

I'm long past caring about who she fucks at that point. What I wanted was to get my daughter out of that guys house. I call her and call her because I don't know where the dude lives. She doesn't answer but comes back on Sunday morning, bitching at me, saying she's taking our daughter across to another state until I get my shit together. (Even though I've paid for everything in the house and work like a dog.) I'm telling her to fuck off, and she starts going through our lockbox trying to get my daughters passport. And while going through our daughter's document folder, I see paternity test papers.
I ask her why she took a test and how long ago was it.

She GOES CRAZY trying to get it out of my hands but I manage to read it. Another mans name is shown to have a DNA match with my daughter and is listed as the father on the paper.

16 FUCKING YEARS

Now 2 months later, I'm in court fighting for custody, I know she isn't mine but I love her. I'm just pissed I lost all those years.
>mfw I'm so dead inside I can only smile.
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What are your plans?
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>>687270880
Try to get my daughter back. And then from then on, I don't know. If I can't get her, I'm seriously considering offing myself.
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>>687270962
OR speak out about it, and prevent other men going through what you went through.
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>>687270962
Well I don't really know what to say except I have the highest hopes for you, OP. Godspeed.
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NAW FUCK THAT MAN!

YOU FUCKING RAISED THAT GIRL!

YOU ARE HER FATHER NO MATTER WHAT!
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>>687271084
But what I could I tell them? Always test?

I trusted her so much back when I was 21 that there was no goddamn way she'd cheat. It gets blurry and you can't even think about doubting them when you catch those strong feelings. I was a dumbass though, so I probably shouldve looked at it more rationally
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>>687270684
Holy fuck op I wish the best for you. Keep strong and try to create little moments of joy. Life will get better. Karma is real
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>>687271251
Yeah. I nearly had a full meltdown that day. But I'll always feel like her father, regardless and she told me that she felt the same. Just hope the court doesn't fuck it up.

>>687271381
Thanks dude. Means a lot
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>>687270684
Can't you get some kind of reperations for those 16 years you've paid for your daughter in court? I get it that you love the kid, but still. Must be a lot of cash, opportunity to start anew.
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>>687271754
Yeah. Actually I've Looking into that with my lawyer at the moment. It'd be good to get that reparation aswell as her. Like you said, opportunity to start anew.
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>>687271918
hang in there bud, there'll be better days for sure
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Gather evidences of your ex wife insanity, court should give you back your daughter. Then, run away from this bitch with your daughter. A father isn't defined by DNA but taking care and feeding it's child.
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>>687272060
Thanks dude.
>>687272171
Working on that as we speak. I do think I have an excellent chance of the case going in my favor but you never really know. So I'm doing the best I can.
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>>687270684
What does the daughter think about it?
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>>687270684
Post pics of daughter so we can give good advice on how to deal with it.
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>>687272299
You are doing it good. Hold on, karma is real.
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>>687270684
Stay strong /b/ro, think of how much pain it would cause your daughter if you offed yourself. You gotta push through this shit and set a good example for your daughter.

Also, check em.
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>>687272397
She's expressed she'd rather stay with me. After all I've been the one mainly involved with her life.
However I can definitely tell the news tore her apart harder than the impending divorce did.
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Well, she isn't your real daughter anymore....

Fuck her. That'll make her mom REALLY mad.
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Ignore any shitposts in this thread. She's your daughter, mate, any genetic data is just details. Keep on being a great dad.
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>>687270684
If she knew all this time, has proof she knew...can't you sue her in some way ? she basically stole money off you for years paying for a kid that isn't yours.
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>>687272495
Thanks bud.
>>687272496
Yeah... The thing that would hold me back is the pain I'd cause her. But I dropped all my shit for her, so I don't know how I'd deal with it seemingly being for nothing, if the case doesn't work out.
>>687272854
Yeah man, I'm trying. Thanks.
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>>687272952
Don't worry. I promise you it wont EVER be for nothing.
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>>687272930
Definitely, like I said in another post, my lawyer and I are working on trying to get reparations for the years I committed to this.
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>>687272724
Topkek
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What happened to your ex's dad?
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>>687272551

Stay strong OP. You're not a faggot today. Don't let the courts take her
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>>687273037

If someone who was lied to about being the dad still has to pay for child support, what makes you think you'll get any money out of her in this situation.

You got fucked by the psycho. Deal with it. If you take her to court for anything, money, custody, you'll just get fucked again.
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>>687272952
Yeah but if the case doesn't work out you got what.... 2 years before she makes her own decisions about how much she wants you in her life?

Her mom can't keep her away from you forever.
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>>687273083
Still alive. Haven't spoke to him in years. She ditched him after he had a stroke.
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>>687273037
Oh missed it, hopefully you will get cash and can prove she's enough of a nut to get the kid. I've dealt with my share of nut job gf's, know the feels to some extent.
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>>687273179
Why would someone have to pay child support if they aren't the dad, what are you actually saying ?
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>>687272481
roll
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>>687273179
The money is secondary. Daughter first. And yeah man I'm dealing with it.
>>687273227
Sure. That's a good way to look at it, anon. My minds is all over the place so all kinds of thoughts are cropping up.
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>>687270684
kanye was right
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>>687270684
Anaon, I have a message for you:
You're still a free man. Cast away your crutches. You can stand and walk on your own feet. You're free to do whatever you want.

That's all you need to understand.
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>>687273528
forgot pic
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>>687270684
Cuck. Should've tested, idiot cuck
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>>687272495
>sweet sweet karma
Redditfag
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>>687273179
Kid is over the age of 16, the court will take into account where she wants to be.
Child support is owed to the person with custody so if OP did raise another dudes kid if he has custody he'll be the one getting the money.
His name is on the birth certificate and has been around for sixteen years. He has a claim to custody and if the bitch is as crazy as he claims and he has documented evidence of said insanity he has a good chance of winning.
>tl;dr OP is a faggot troll
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>>687270684
dad and dna aren't the same thing. 16 fucking years of delight making a god damn man out of yourself. reach down, grab your balls. you're a fucking champ. buck up, drink up, keep riding life.
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>>687273638
Hindsight is 20/20.
>>687273687
This is pretty much how we are managing the case. As for your tl;dr, it 100% isn't a troll. I'm was an only child with dead parents, so I have nowhere to vent. Just came here
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>>687270684
What does she (you daughter) think about this? Does she like you? Does she like her?
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>>687273638
as for you, no need with that fucking language. poor cunt couldn't help it. women are fucking retarded. are you saying never trust a manipulative jizz rag? I don't because I'm gay, but straight men are just as entitled to trust.
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>>687273785
Thank you man.
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>>687273605
tHIS. Phoenix. Crawl through a mile of shit and come out smelling clean on the other side. Lotus blooms at night.
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>>687270684
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>>687273324

Look it up. It's happened before.

Dude finds out that after a fuckload of years of raising a child he thought was his, he finds out that it wasn't his. He tries to stop paying child support, and a judge ruled that the dad (notdad) still had to pay.
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>>687273890
See >>687272551
As for how she felt about her mother. They have a turbulent relationship. Mostly because her mother is dropping in and out of her life, constantly. When we were together, she'd go out and not come back till the midweek. Then when my daughter sulked she'd put on an act to get her to trust her again, or buy her something. I know she loves my daughter or atleast I hope so, but there's been multiple times where she acted like she didn't give a shit.
Needless to say, I have a stronger bond with her because of it.
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>>687274249
Bond with my daughter that is.
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>>687274238
Never happened. OP is a troll or he's severely mentally handicapped.
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Oh... sorry about all that Op, idk if you're a religious man but the ebsy I can do is pray for you
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Don't get married until you're at least 28, anything else is too young
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You should try to get it on with your "daughter".
Gotta fuck her now bro. Assert dominance.
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>>687273877
This is the ninth "just found out my kid isn't mine after 16 years" I've seen this week.
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>>687271251
this. dont let anyone take that from you bro. the girl is yours.
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>>687274553
This OP.
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Nudes of ex?
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>>687274238
Sounds like one case where the judge was a retard, I'd deliberately bankrupt myself if this happened.
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>>687274376
>>687274599
For fucks sake guys, seriously? What would I gain from this? Honestly man, I don't give a shit if you saw something similar 100 times, THIS specific one isn't bullshit. I'm having the worst time of my life, and just felt like Venting. I haven't said a goddamn thing that was troll-like in nature. Fucking assholes man.
>>687274427
Appreciate the thought man. I'm in the middle on the belief spectrum to be honest.
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>>687274824
Our marriage was so garbage the last time she sent me nudes were when flip phones were a the main type of cellphone.
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>>687274892
Post timestamp with court documents and maybe I'll believe you.
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>>687270684
>>687270962

>offing myself

Dude, you must bring punishment and justice to the world, if you're gonna do some extreme shit then torture and kill your shitty wife and then kill all the people she's fucked after you've gotten the info out of her.
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>>687275087
Post court documents? Of an ongoing case? Are you serious? I don't need to prove anything to you. I came here to vent, not beg one asshole to believe me, when I already know it's true. You can forget it.
>>687274723
Thanks man. I don't know who the biological is. Ex never opened up about it, refused to say more. So yeah, I 100% consider her mine.
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>>687270684
Faith in humanity -1
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>>687273687

Tell that to my buddy who is the girls biological father, has a nice house, and good money. His ex is a psycho with no job, and bounces from house to house staying with other people.

He can't get custody.

The courts ALWAYS side with the mom. This girl isn't even his, he'll never get custody.
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>>687275036
That sux. Don't worry. Just get your head together and focus on you for the time being. Your daughter will never forget the love and support you have shown her. You're still relatively young to start fresh. The best revenge is doing well. Your daughter will see that and will be drawn to your positivity. GL
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>>687275610
Then you're retarded. How did you not realize for 16 years the kid wasn't even yours? You don't even have nudes of your own wife, kill yourself beta.
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Post pix of the mom's tits. That's the way to get back at her.
Waiting?!?!?
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STAY STRONG OP I WISH YOU THE BEST, AND IF EVERYTHING FAILS BEFORE OFFING YOURSELF PLEASE FUCKING KILL THAT BITCH
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Normally I would just say kill yourself but imma actually be nice today. That's super shitty man and I feel for ya and wish you luck in getting your daughter. Fuck that stupid worthless cunt.
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Just kill yourself OP
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Murder suicide bro. It's one of the best options for you now.
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>>687270684
Stay cucked normie scum
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OP, that girl you raised is your daughter. You sound like you've been a solid rock in her life and your (ex) wife has been a flaky cunt. I'm praying for you man, because you deserve custody.

If you need any help with court fees or you want a larger support base, why not try an MRA forum? Sounds retarded I know, but those guys would have your back and on top of that they could hook you up with a great lawyer and financial support.
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>>687275838
Thanks man appreciate the image and the words. Definitely want to do well after the dust has settled.
>>687276087
>You don't even have nudes if your own wife
Yeah, she stopped being attractive to me 6 years after my daughter was born and she started going off the wall. Beta? I stopped giving a shit about constantly chasing tail because I made clear cut priorities, like raising another human being to be a productive and good natured person, and not like you. I did at the very least, my biological purpose. What did you do?
>>687276335
Thank you dude.
>>687276541
>>687276310
I don't know what happens when I decide but I'm not sure I want my daughters memory of me being: killing her mother and other people before himself.
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Usually I (and most of /b/ ) would call you a hapless cuck for raising someone else's daughter. Bit this is different, OP. She's your little girl. You fight for her with all your strength. Godspeed.
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.>>687276720
>What did you do?

Didn't raise another man's child.... In all seriousness if you're not a troll I applaud what you did you're still a massive beta
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>>687276702
Thanks alot for the suggestions bud. If I need it, I'll have a look.
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>>687276720
Don't kill anyone OP. Your daughter has had one good parent for the entirety of her life and if you kill her mother and get jailed, she'll lose that. Youve done good so far. Fuck genetics. It's all about who's been in your life. You did good OP. I wish you the best.
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>>687270684
Look Op, this is probably bait, but fight for your daughter. You raised her, and if the dad wanted her he would've fought for custody already, man.
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>>687276974
Nah I don't intend to take anyone out. If I were ever driven to the point where I wanted to kill myself, I'd only put myself on the line. But as I said before I think that going forward with the court case, I have good chances of it working out fine.
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>>687270684
Real man material here. I read a thread a few days ago about a guy finding our his daughter wasn't his and then went on about how he hates her because she wasn't his like it was her fault or something. Made me sick to my stomach.

Don't off yourself, man. You're one of the good ones. Set an example for the world and for your daughter.
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>>687270962
No point in offing yourself now. Already made it this far, might as well see what tomorrow brings.
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>>687270684
This is your mid life crisis, i can't help. don't why you would be on 4chan when you only have 2 months with your daughter.
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>>687277329
Thank you dude.
>>687277432
Thank you man, you have no idea how uplifting this stuff is. The responses are honestly a big help since I have no one to turn to out here.
>>687277590
Yeah, I'm starting to see it that way.
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>>687277792
2 months with my daughter? No dude, It's been 2 months since I found out. Right now my daughter comes to my house after school from Wednesday to Friday, stays Saturday and goes to her mother on Sunday to Wednesday. The case will end with a definitive person being the one with full custody
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Bait thread. Prove any of this is true.
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>>687275467
It said he cares for his daughter, killing his bitch wife and then offing himself would cause a lot of suffering for her
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>>687278198
She's not his daughter she's some other dudes daughter.
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only solution is to fuck your underage "daughter" and get her knocked up with your REAL daughter and then tell the ex wife..
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>>687278168
Believe what you want. The point of this thread isn't to prove anything to you. I know everything Im saying is fact and I'm content with that.
>>687278284
Even so, I consider her my daughter and she considers me her father. I wouldn't want to put her in that amount of emotional pain.
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You're not the real father so you won't win custody.
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>>687270684
OP keep fighting for her. DNA doesn't mean anything, you raised that little girl. A DNA result won't make her love you any less. You got something to fight for, don't you dare fucking give up
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>>687278888
Thanks man, very inspirational. Love the quads too.
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>>687278686
So does "your" daughter even look like you? Or have you accepted the cuck lifestyle long ago?
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>>687273037
How do you expect to get custody if the court sees you're trying to get reparations for taking care of her?
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Faggot got cuckolded.
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>>687270684
I would be in prison for murdering the bitch right now.

That's fucked, anon. Best of luck.
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Was the Maury show cancelled?
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>>687279276
The reparations side of things will be handled in a separate case I have not filed yet.
>>687279269
Coincidentally we share an eye and hair color that are different to her mother. She took after her mother quite a bit from a features standpoint so I didn't have doubts. I don't care about if she's biologically mine anymore I've already come to terms with the fact she isn't. But she's still my daughter not only to me but to her.
>>687279559
Yeah almost had a meltdown, but somehow kept myself from doing anything beyond yelling at her to get out. Never been more devastated in my life, I thought I'd have lost it.
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>>687279269
Probably accepted it like he accepts letting that bitch walk all over him. He sounds pretty pathetic.
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>>687279357
OP still got to raise a child, something you'll never experience considering you won't get any sex.
>inb4 "But I don't want kids"
If you don't want em you shoulder some of the blame for the white population decline.
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>>687279992
Nudes of said daughter?
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>>687280193
Just stop. Raising another man's child is the pinaccle of betaness
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Hold out bro. Hold out.
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>>687270684
You don't need those people in your life, man. Just go solo for a while.
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>>687280057
Alright dude, I never let her walk over me. We reached a point in our BS marriage where our lives were separate. We were only still "married" because we didn't want to screw our daughter with the emotional BS of a divorce when she was a little kid. So in the house I bought and eventually kicked her out of, I let her live how she wanted and sometimes we'd make up, and yeah it was stupid to do so. But no one walked over anyone, and I never gave a shit that she was with some scot prick. She had a screw loose at that point in time and I didn't care about chasing tail. I cared about raising someone.
>>687280295
No.
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>>687271374
hey op,

almost another sucker here. was 17 when my GF got pregnant. we were on and off high school sweet hearts for 3 years. we were together for 18 months before she got pregnant. I loved here and thought she could do no wrong and that I was the luckiest guy in the world. my parents wanted a test because... its the rest of your life. I was getting as ready as one can be at 18 to have a kid. though it turned out not to be mine. I had a plan on a career and a path to get there. I through all that out the window when it came back that it wasn't mine. the baby being a month old I got my parental rights terminated and name off the birth certificate. it took me 6 years to be in another relationship, have been through the justice system and am just now getting my life back together. though you cant go back and change any of it . maybe its what was best for you at the time. maybe you discovered your potential because of that. either way OP keep chugging you still are her father and she is still your daughter, you raised her you forged the ideas that she will carry for the rest of here life. it will be ok OP
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>>687270684
>married a girl cause father owns gun
And then what? He was just gonna murder you and you believed him?
You have no balls sir
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>>687280295
This
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>>687280640
So so, I was a stupid kid. I was intimidated by the man when i was 21, but what prompted the whole marriage was the baby. 16 years later and well, people change I guess.
>>687280636
Damn man. I wish I had my parents around at the time to advise me to do the same, I was too swept up in thinking she couldn't do a thing wrong. Thanks for the support.
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Dude you sound really pathetic crying on 4chan like a little bitch.
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>>687270684
Doesn't matter who's the biological parent, you raised her, you are her father. If you made it this far, you are strong, hell you are a fucking cavalier, just keep on going.
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>>687281362
No wonder the faggot got cuckolded.
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>>687281362
>>687281446
The posters count only went up by one. Samefagging? Or just 2-3 of the same guys being dicks?
>>687281363
Thanks dude. Moving.
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Probably just several people dicks, stay strong OP
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>>687281632
is the daughter aware that you are not her biological father?
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>>687270684
Don't usually post on /b/, but solidarity with you brother, you did the right thing and I'm hoping you win custody (Y)
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>>687271607
The thing about American justice is, if you guys got a divorce, or she simply named you on the birth certificate, you are legally responsible to pay aid, despite it being bullshit. Since you are not the father, you have to pay child support, but no judge will give you custody, only make you pay.
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>>687281818
Yes. However (I think as I said in an earlier post, I'll elaborate a little morr) she expressed that none of it mattered to her and that I am still her father to her. She also told me a similar thing to some other posters here, that if the biological really cared about her, then he would've came for her a long time ago, and she's glad he didn't. That solidified my want to go for custody.
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>>687282209
Yeah that's the big web right now. I call my wife my ex, but we are separated and in the process of a divorce she intends to file very soon. (I would've filed anyway), so, we aren't legally divorced yet, but we live like that is the case.
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>>687282481
It's utter bullshit, and I'm sorry for you OP. You should know, there are crazy fucks like me, who want nothing more than to kill people like her. I would've probably raped them both, I know it's fucked. But what I would have done. Then murder. I know you are a nice guy, but there are people like me who are not. Too bad you aren't would be nice to get rid of one more cunt.
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>>687270684
It's OK. Even if your cunt wife runs off. The girl will always be your daughter. Kids are perceptive, and she's old enough to see whatever bullshit your ex wife tells her. Keep tabs of her online, and when the girl moves out on her own, get in contact with her, even if you haven't for the previous 2+ years.

This is just the worst case scenario.
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>>687282240
Are you in contact with the real father? Does he applaud you for furthing his success in the gene pool while you do all the work and pay for everything?
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>>687282848
Not OP but rape them "both"? His ex and?
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You are her father. Keep being her father.

Good luck.
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>>687283200
the one who is not his daughter.
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>>687283470
She's not related to you so it's not incest it's cool bro.
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>>687283158
Yeah if it all goes wrong I guess I could stick it out for 2 years. It'll be tough but, I've made it this far, right...
>>687283175
Don't know him, don't know where he is, don't care. The money I used on my daughter was worth it.
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>>687283567
Not your daughter
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>>687283567
Damn OP well just took the meanest insults I could come up with, good luck with your life if you're happy that's all that really matters
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To all the fags trying to troll OP. People adopt kids all the time. And they do become their sons and daughters. Bunch of schoolkids who don't know how life changing raising someone can be.
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>>687283968
Lifechanging doesn't change courts retard. Kill yourself.
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>>687270684
Whats your fatherinlaw opinion on this case. Maybe hell be on your side.
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Could be worse OP, at least you weren't cuckolded by a nigger.
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>>687270684
I hope the best for you OP. Hang in there
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>>687272724
This.... Fucking This

Never change, /b
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>>687270684
You still there OP? first of all you are very brave I wish you the best of luck also I want to ask how did you tell your daughter about the news?
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>>687278888
Quads check
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>>687285619
I haven't seen him in years. Don't know if he's even aware since she cut him off long ago.
>>687286715
Yeah, I am, sorry was doing something else. Unfortunately she overheard it when the ex went psycho as I discovered the papers.
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>>687277432
>Real man material here

>gets cheated on by ex
>spends 16 years supporting cheating whore and her daughter
>now plans to continue babysitting child of whoever cuckolded him
after 16 years you're finally free, OP. Don't double down on your mistake just because you can't deal with the fact that you got suckered into paying for a child that isn't yours.

Real men don't let themselves get treated like trash.
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>>687286667
Kill yourself
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Pics of daughter? To better assess the situation
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>>687270684
Dude, gradually transform that paternal love into a romantic love for the jb that you now know is not your blood.
Everyone wins except your ex.
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>>687287612
No. I never saw raising her as a burden. It may be hard for people who aren't fathers to understand,
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How do people this stupid exist?

You deserve everything.

Sage
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>>687288142
You say that like your own existence isn't pathetic.
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>>687287958
>I never saw raising her as a burden
well yeah, because you thought she was your child.

you lost 16 years to your bitch ex and her daughter. You should be out there looking for a new girlfriend, not wasting what little remains of your youth throwing good money after bad. Don't miss out on the last chance you have to have a real family just because you can't accept that you were screwed over and need to cut your losses.
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>>687270684
?
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>>687288526
on the other hand, since she's not your daughter it's now okay for you to fuck her. At least then she'd have a little of your DNA in her.

You lost 16 years of your life thanks to her. Really, it's the least she could do at this point.
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Well good luck OP. If you don't get custody you have to wait until shes 18 I guess... Then you can live happily ever after.
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>>687270684
>I see paternity test papers.
this sounds suspicious. Why would she keep incriminating evidence?
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I hope you lose the custody battle, you don't sound like you deserve her.
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Is this a super cuck thread?
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16 years a cuck
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>>687288526
I see your point. But I don't see it that way.
>>687289894
I can see how it would seem that way. I don't know either. At that point in our relationship she was rearing to go, since I'd told her countless times to fuck off. So I don't know what she intended to do with said papers.
>>687289974
No.
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>>687289210
>At least then she'd have a little of your DNA in her.
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>>687290253
HA!
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>>687271374

>But what I could I tell them? Always test?

Why not?

It was made a law in Tennessee, look it up.

I mean fuck, half of women ADMIT they would lie about being pregnant by a man who is not their husband or BF. Those are just the ones honest enough to admit it, so the real figure is probably much higher.

Imagine if hospitals fucked up and 1 out of 10 babies were switched at birth. People would flip their shit for duping mothers into caring and paying for babies that were not their own.

But if a woman deliberately and secretly cuckolds a man, the State makes him pay out child support for the bastard.
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>>687272724

THIS

Your cunt wife thought she could rob you of your bloodline and hundreds of thousands of dollars?

Fuck no. Impregnate your """"daughter""". You're only 37, your sperm is still healthy. Her eggs are at peak quality. Fertilize them.

It's the least you can do for yourself, and the least your """"daughter"""" can do to repay you for paying for her all these years.
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Try your fucking best to get the kid bro, but there's a huge chance they'll side with the mother and force you to give up a lot of your money for a kid that isn't even yours

Women are fucking parasites and will lie through their teeth to get their way without thinking about it but I'm sure you've realised that
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>>687270684
This infuriates me
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>>687290253
kek
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>>687290466
>I see your point. But I don't see it that way.
well, good luck to you
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>>687274376

"An Iowa man is being forced to pay child support on a 1-year-old baby that isn’t his because he never divorced his wife, although they’ve been separated for 16 years."

http://www.inquisitr.com/2931014/iowa-man-forced-to-pay-child-support-after-estranged-wife-has-baby-with-another-man/


"Carnell Alexander says he got a shock during a traffic stop in Detroit in the early 1990s. The officer told him he is a deadbeat dad, and that he was under arrest."

"The problem? Carnell didn’t have any kids."

"He’d been made dad by default after an ex listed him as father when applying for welfare benefits. According to documents filed with the court, a process server claimed to have given Carnell Alexander, in person, a notice of hearing at a house he once lived at. It is something that wasn’t possible. Carnell wasn’t at that house on the date he was allegedly served. He was incarcerated for a crime he committed as a young man."

http://www.wxyz.com/news/judge-says-man-must-pay-30k-in-child-support-for-kid-who-is-not-his

In some countries in Europe, men can not even get a paternity test without the consent of the mother of the child. The Governments there aid and abet in concealing cuckoldry.
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1) Give away "daughter"
2) Wait 2 years
3) Fuck "daughter" and let out those 18 years of repressed sexual desires
4) ??????
5) PROFIT!
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You want to keep raising another man's child? Literal cuck.
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>>687271374
Hey OP.. When the time comes for tje court case, here's what you do.

You raised the girl, right? Her mother was a drunk bitch that didn't pull her weight for her, and instead it was you, yeah? If you were at the games and were present everywhere the girl was, you already have a lot of witnesses or people that can testify for you. Someone else saying that the mother was never around is proof. There must also be people who have seen her drunk; if people repeatedly say that she was never around and was an alcoholic, the case for custody should go in your favor.

Fight, man. You are down in the dumps, but that doesn't mean you can't fight and raise hell. You've got this, bro.
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>>687292644
Thanks for the encouragement.
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>>687270684
Keep going and stay strong anon.
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>>687270962
Don't off yourself, OP. Spread this shit like wildfire, ruin your ex wife's name, rally support for yourself and get your daughter back.
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>>687270962
Now is ur chance to bail and take on your next 16 years. I'm sorry you're an idiot and she's a bitch... Good luck m8
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>>687292644
>the case for custody should go in your favor.
you can't seriously be this delusional

OP, if you want custody be prepared to spend every penny you have on lawyers. And court appointed 'experts' to evaluate your wife's fitness as a mother. The more money you give to the court's cronies, the more favourable the judge will be to your case. Otherwise the court will just default to handing the mother custody.

Yes, the family court system is that corrupt.
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>>687274238
It happened once, and they guy went to court again over it with a different judge and got out of it. First judge was a fucking moron.
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You're a fucking idiot for getting cuckolded by that bitch and you're an idiot for even marrying her in the first place. You brought all of this on yourself sorry but it's the truth.
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>>687270684
make sure you talk to your daughter about it, too many parents, don't bother to let their children give their input and at 16 years old she can make the decision on her own. Just Make sure she knows that you will be there for her if she needs it
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OP is definitely not a faggot today. You're a great Dad and human being. Have been through similar. The girl will learn the truth one day if she doesn't already. She would have seen what's been going on. So hang tough, man. Fight the good fight, maintain the high ground, but don't stop living your life. Make plans beyond the court bullshit, even if they're just dreams that you have to put on hold for now. You're still so young, mate. Plenty of time to live for you and do what you want to do. You daughter will always be a part of your life and she will love you for what you have done for her. Good luck, /b/ro. .
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i dont think ill ever get married seems like theres just too much to lose
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In the grand scheme of things, OP, you're still quite young. She may have taken 16 years from you, but there will be many many more. Get custody, win the battle, then win the war.
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>>687295229

Like getting married was ever a risk for you.
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>>687270684
At this point, just maintain contact with your daughter (which she is, btw - biology is a very small part of parenthood. You're her fucking dad, and you always will be dude), because in a very short time she'll be able to make her own decisions about things, and as you sound like a smart guy, she'll hopefully turn after you and not her whore mum.

My gut feeling is that kid'll be out of her mum's life as quick as possible once she's old enough to make her choice, and you will continue to have a parental relationship with her.
I genuinely hope things work out this way for you fella, today (and I don't say this often) OP was not a faggot.
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>>687292604
spoken like a true 12 year old. Go fuck yourself, m8
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>>687270684
Idk if anyone asked this but, as far as you know, has your daughter had any contact with her biological father?
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>>687298302
Not as far as I know.
>>687297409
>>687294809
>>687294264
Thanks
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>>687270962
Being such a cuck you might as well off your self faggot fuck
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>>687297409
>biology is a very small part of parenthood
Actually, unless you want to tumblrfy the word "parent", biology is the only part of it. Just look at the niggers; they have fathers that they don't know... but they still have fathers.
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>>687271374
Dude kill the ex and burn the test. Live the rest of your life peacefully
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>>687299110
"parenting" and "parent" are not purely biological terms, they also describe the act of raising the child as well, which you can't do if you're not there. Argue semantics, though, eh?

Tumblrfy that, you fucking cocksucker.
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>>687299110
Fine, replace "father" with "father figure".

Black people have fathers, but very rarely have father figures. It's the lack of a father figure that fucks people up.

Also, if you take your argument to the next step, you're really being stupid regarding adopted children. Is every adopted kid "tumblrified" because they call their adoptive parents mom and dad?
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>>687299208
Honestly not the worst idea, but he probably wouldn't have the skills to get away with it.

Also, the lack of a mom, even a shitty mom, could potentially fuck up his daughter. If he gets caught, it would definitely fuck her up. She'd be on the pole a month after daddy was in prison.
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Did you ever consider the papers were not the truth OP? Get another test to be sure.
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>>687299492
lol ok
Nigger and niggerdom are not purely biological terms, they also refer to the act of nigging.
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>>687300247
this. OP's ex might have been planning to use faked papers in a custody suit.
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>>687270684
god luck with your daugther i am sure you both will live a happy life together ;)
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>>687299110
Parent
verb

1.
be or act as a mother or father to (someone).

I guess you should apologize to that anon, fuckhole?
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>>687299677
Just because it feels better to call a legal guardian mom or dad doesn't make it so.
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>>687300330
Welp... you sure showed me. Flawless logic, anon.

jk, you should get back to sucking cocks, it's your mom's day off remember?
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>>687299492
>Sex and gender are not biological terms but mental states that have nothing to do with chromosomes or genitalia.
See how ridiculous you are?
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OP here.
I have to leave now, thanks for the support on the thread and the advice and even the hate. I'll keep pushing forward.
Goodbye.
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>>687300422
The dictionary is a tool of patriarchy.
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>>687270684
Fuuuuuuck OP. That's brutal dude....
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>>687300696
That's not the same as what he was saying.

You're on the spectrum bro. Black and white thinking and being overly literal.
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>>687300696
>projecting

They are nothing like the issue we were discussing though, were they?

I know you can't wait to get you cock sliced off so you can get railed by niggers down at the docks, but try to stay on topic, m8.
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>>687272724
topkek
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>>687301034
>replying seriously to that post
You are on the spectrum and you're new.
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Just go out, kill few jews.. You will feel better and you will make this world a better place..
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>>687301057
see
>>687301908
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>>687301908
"I was only pretending to be retarded, jokes on you guys!"
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>>687300779
You're a fucking tool.
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You should be proud that you're a good dad having raised a responsible daughter that YOU'VE given a chance at success. You really need to get custody so you can continue the trend of goodness in her life instead of this scumbag bitch.

You also need to have a good long talk in person with your inlaws about this.
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>>687270684
If you haven't already, talk to your lawyer about possibly having your daughter's opinion take a large/larger roll in the case.

Also, even though that bitch deserves it, I'd recommend not attempting to completely alienate your daughter from her mother (and if your daughter cares for it, her biological father). If there's any lingering doubt in your daughter about choosing you, it's that she wouldn't be able to see her mother again.

Even if the worst case scenario somehow happens, don't even consider offing yourself. Your daughter would be heartbroken, and end up even much worse off. Keep living for her sake, you'd still be a major part of her life, especially as she gets older.
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Not read whole thread so don't know if this has been posed.
Find out if the sperm donor knew he's the real father. Sue that fucker, you want financial recompense... spend it as you wish, putting your daughter through college, getting a qt Brazil ladyboys, whatever .

Ignore the lolcuck posts mate. All made by social inadequates who stutter and fart near women and remain virgins well into adulthood
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