You will get caught. Always.

>>687086601
out of sight, out of mind

>>687086601
it is not ok to cheat. it is a verbal contract.

unfortunately, in much of the west society, including companies, think its ok to do something bad if you are sure you won't get caught.

that said, i have cheated.

>hypocrite

>>687086671
bullshit I've cheated twice. Once with a prostitute for sex, and the other one was an actual romantic affair. Never got caught.
>i still love my gf too

>>687086671
A friend of mine is cheating on his wife.
He says, as long as she doesent know, she wont get hurt and then it is ok.
Never caught

I had a girlfriend who cheated on me and I in return cheated on her for a good while with a co-worker. Was amazing. no regrets. just wish my girlfriend woulda been more open and not a lying cunt. totally chill fucking people while she fuckin people. but lying is so basic.

>>687086601
Been cheated on, am monk now. It seems kind of like a way to kick someone while they're down. Not only are you not good enough but not even worthy of being dismissed properly.

>>687086671
serial cheater here. always cheating with a few girls.

It's possible to do it safely, it just takes a lot of work. there is always a small chance of being found out but you can make that chance so fucking crazy small that you could do it for centuries without a problem.

>>687086832
>>687086923
But doesent it feel bad, or is it cuz u r getting tired of having sex with your gf/bf?

>>687086923
do you have any complex and feel like you need to prove yourself? I am simply asking for out of curiosity

>>687086781
are you a girl or a guy? Why do people have this mentality?

>>687087077
Thats sad. but true.

>>687087101
Surprisingly didn't feel bad though I would have if she had found out and got really hurt. That's the risk you're taking.

>>687087133
Oh yes absolutely. There is only one real reason people cheat and that's a lack of self-worth. I suffer from that big time and if a girl wants to fuck me that's a huge ego boost to an otherwise depressed lonely guy.
>welcome to 4chan

don't know if this counts as cheating, but i sure felt like it at the time.

i caught my gf web whoring for money. i thought she would be the last person in the world to do that kind of thing. she is shy and beta as fuck, plus has a government job.

on the one hand it was kind of a turn on, on the other i felt betrayed. dumped her even though she quit.

>>687087233
Makes me wish I grew up with less traditional/Christian values. At least had a more "open relationship" view on love so I wouldn't've been burnt so easily. Like setting me up for the fall, you know?

>>687087101
for me it only felt bad after sex. before sex, i couldn't think of anything bad. after sex, i couldn't think of anything good.

>>687086601
cheating is stupid. Just dump them.

Sleeping with someone in a relationship is okay though.

>>687087801
isnt it cheating on your partner if you are sleeping with someone else.
Why would it be more ok? Anyway it would hurt the partner right

>>687087376
Thank you for a honest answer.

anyone else get bored of fucking the same girl over and over (no matter how hot) ? i cant fucking help it and it makes it hard to be in a relationship and not want to cheat

>>687088015
y u no ask for a threesome then?

>>687087087
give us some protips

>>687086601
I don't care if she fucks around so long as she plays safe and comes home afterwards. I'm not monogamous so there's no reason I should expect her to be.

I was a notorious cheater until I once became the cheated. Funny thing is she was the only girl I was ever loyal to. That said humans are not monogamous by nature. Even the "happiest" people are prone to stray once in awhile. But if it's too consistent then you at least owe it to the person you're cheating on to end the relationship whether or not the truth is ever unveiled to them.

>>687086930
I didn't necessarily mean "get caught" and in walked in on. But she WILL find out.

>>687088223
my gf would neeever accept a 3some but im tired of fucking her. like eating a jar of nutella is amazing but being forced to eat a jar of nutella every day every month every year makes u sick can anyone relate to this

>>687086923
You might still get caught

>>687086601
I am married to a sexy hot wife.
Nevertheless, I find it quite nice to visit a hooker in a nice environment and call her names and fuck her. Its not expensive and nice.

So what. I am still a loving husband and father.

>>687087994
What I should have said is sleeping with someone else who is in a relationship. As in while you are single

>>687086932
Having an open relationship is one thing and cheating is something else.

>>687086601
I would cheat on my gf but not on my wife

>>687087217
I'm a dude and too young to act like a grown man
when you're not married and don't have kids you should enjoy life to the fullest
if you don't you'll regret it

>>687088400
not really cause I'm not getting much sex anymore...that is the other extreme that can happen. but fuck it, more jerking of to porn then

Cheating is not indicative of how much you love the person you're with. TBH sometimes straying here and there can save marriages so long as the person cheating manages to keep it a secret.

>>687088438
Agreed. She;s gonna find out sooner or later. No one takes secrets to the grave.

>>687088509
Wow you always hear this kind of b/s today.
>take drugs or you'll regret it
>fuck loads of people or you'll regret it

Actually you're way more likely to regret doing those things, I don't see why living life to 'the fullest' always involves bein degenerate. Noone ever says:
'live your life to the fullest' don't drink too much alcohol
'live your life to the fullest' save for a comfortable future

Am I missing something? Not edgy enough?

Does this count as cheating?

>Be me.
>Best friend with this girl I've known since elementary.
>Also friend with a guy name John.
>All three of us are close and grew up together as friends.
>Practically inseparable.
>Ended up going to the same University together.
>Despite being together never thought of my best friend romantically.
>Always felt like she was a sister to me.
>Chill together at my apartment one night.
>John is drinking a little to much and ends up persuading my best friend to take off her clothes.
>She does it.
> One thing led to another and we're all naked.
>Ended up having a threesome.
>Me and John double teaming her while she just takes it.
>Finish and all pass out.
>Wake up to realize what just happened.
>Weird as fuck but we laugh it off.
>Even though we're friends, all three of us agree to form a mutual friend with benefits type of pack.
>See nothing wrong with this idea.
>All of us are single and have sexual needs.
>Continue our friendship normally with the occasional sleeping together every now and then.
>Winter comes.
>John has to leave and go work in another city for the semester.
>I assume the threesome is over and that the sex was going to stop.
>Best friend calls me and asks me to come over to hang out with her.
>Go over expecting to watch a movie or something.
>She's naked and wants to have sex.
>Wondering why since John is gone.
>She says why not? We can just continue with the both of us.
>I can't argue with that.
>Continue the FWB thing with her.
>With John gone, I start to hang out with her a lot more.
>Not just sex but also doing regular stuff.
>Start to develop feelings for her.
>Tell her how I feel and she's okay with it.
>She tells me she use to had a crush on me.
>Take her on multiple dates.
>We're a couple now.
>John is back. We haven't told him yet that we are dating.
>He messages us asking when we can hang together.
>He's been looking forward to our usual threesome.

I feel like I cheated behind my friends back...

>>687088241
the main thing is maintain complete separation. Don't fuck her best friend or her sister or somebody who knows both of you, that's guaranteed to fail (I've tried). Fuck a girl you've met through some completely different method who doesn't know you already.

If they're also in a relationship, tell her you have a partner. she cant take the moral high ground.

If she's single, it depends on the girl. The main thing is keep as much detail from teh side girls as possible. They should not be able to turn up at your house, or your favourite restaurant where they know you'll be, or call up your family members. Women can be fucking nuts sometimes.

Maintain separate profiles for things. Separate phone for side girls, separate kik/snapchat/whatever accounts, maybe even separate facebook. no contamination between the gf phone and the side-girl phone. If you can stash the phone somewhere outside of home do, if you take it home keep it off and hidden somewhere safe.

Anything you particularly want to know? It's probably been about 14 years since I started.

>>687088658
agree with that...living life to the fullest seems to mean fucking your shit up today

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>>687086671
i second this. i tried twice. was caught twice.

story 1:
>had gf
>met girl at bar. let her suck my dick w/o a condom
>had sex with gf
>gf says she caught HPV from me. she didnt have hpv prior

story 2:
>used to fuck gf twice a week
>began sleeping with another girl
>out of the blue gf says "are you cheating on me? you stopped asking for sex"
>OhShitSheKnows.jpg no baby of course not!
>i go to sleep one night
>wake up to find out she went through my phone and read texts
>GameOver

>>687088658
too conservative for me
it's 2016, norms have changed

>>687086601
it depends and yes.

serial cheating is obviously wrong, but mistakes happen, and forgiveness is a part of loving someone. especially if they cheat on you during a time of extended separation.

>>687088658
I think it has to do with a reaction to moral nihilism or subjectivism/relativism. People go YOLO. Other people forge their own integrity through other ideologies. It's a crazy world, son. Don't let it get to you.

>>687088631
But if you indeed love your gf, then you wouldnt do such thing that could hurt her, such as cheating.
So y cheating a good thing?

>>687089127
see something else
experience something different

>>687088680
that's hard, but why can't you just have the threesome again? what's the big deal? Or do you feel like it should just be the two of you and your male friend shouldn't rejoin? If you edged your friend out of that relationship, that makes you a shitty friend, and a stupid one, because the relationship with that girl will always be tainted by the other guy's absence. Just fuck her together and be done with it.

If he's mad about it, offer to suck his dick or let him fuck you or something.

>>687088680
Well then you all agreed to an open realationship.. or not? if you all were single and messing around.

That he leaves is his problem, but how would you know she wouldnt fuck him behind your back now tho

>>687088876
You didnt exactly make it hard for those girls to figure it out

>>687089127
I loved my girlfriend and another girl at the same time. It was torture because I felt like I was hurting my gf but also making the other girl happy so I tried to keep them both happy while things were that way.

>>687088015
Most people do. If you're not a shitty partner, you'll work through it. If you are a shitty partner, you shouldn't be in a relationship.

>>687086601
I am a loving husband and father.
Both sometimes I visit some nice brothel here in Germany, its cheap (30$), and I still love my family. So what?

>>687089030
Senario. you cheat on your gf, then you are saying that she has to forgive you, cuz thats a part of loving?
Then it should be a part of loving your gf to not cheat right?

>>687088809
thanks bro
pretty much what i figured, keep shit separate and don't be an idiot

>>687089127
Some people become legitimately unhappy feeling locked to to intimacy with the same person for the rest of their lives. They might care for the person greatly but need that extra sexual excitement. I personally believe that people rarely cheat out of spite or to hurt the one they love, but rather do it for personal gratification. Hell I'd even say that women are guilty of this more so than men these days.

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>>687089648
you Germans really have it good

>>687089736
basically yeah, that covers most things.

Things are going to go bad with the side girl one day, you have to just make sure none of it can come back to you.

Does cyber sexing random strangers on an aniime chat website count as cheating?

>>687090106
kind of.
you are seeking something u know but isnt as bad i would say... but still is it ok? as long as you can keep it secret?

Life lesson: If they cheat with you they'll cheat on you. Never seen a relationship that started that way and didn't implode from either one being unfaithful or arguments from general mistrust.

>>687090216
See its like reading an erotic fiction novel could be classed as cheating, you are having an erotic connection with someone else...but if we establish

porn =/= cheating
erotic novel =/= cheating
cyber sex?
phone sex = cheating
webcam sex = cheaitng
rl sex = cheating

>>687089648
That is probably the most accepted way of cheating. Because the whores are usually so far below you that you only go to them if you just want to have sex and nothing else its also a lot easier for the woman to deal with it since the risk of him leaving her for a whore is basically nonexistant.

>>687090346
like. My gf is ok with me watching porn. cuz i dont really interact with another female sexually. Over porn you dont develop real felings either for another person so that wouldnt be as bad as example sexting and such

If your girlfriend has a male best friend that isn't obviously gay, then you are being cheated on or will be at some point. Seriously never let your guard down with that one.

>>687090346
cyber sex is more involving than phone sex so...
cyber sex = cheating

>>687090248
I never go in to relationships for the long term so that eventuality doesn't really concern me. I'd be more bothered if she didn't use protection than I would be by the fact she'd fucked someone else.

>>687090495
>my gf is okay with me watching porn
was there ever a question about that? You´d have to be a giant controlfreak to not be okay with it.

>it is ok as long as he/she doesnt know about it
lol what

dude you know its not ok, kek why did you even ask

You should communicate about whatever it is that's making you want to stray well before you actually do and if you absolutely can't help it, you should break up with them first no matter how hard it seems.

I don't judge people who do cheat though.

>>687089660
No, it should be in you to forgive her if she cheats on you one or two times.

>>687090593
it was to the statement that is porn is cheating, as well as sexting and so on.
Then you should be considering that porn is not feeling based, like you dont interract with a real person like you would if real life or over phone with a real person.

>>687090524
You really think that some potential guy behind an anime picture saying he *sucks ur dick* is more involving than masturbating down the phone with a person, moaning and talking to each other?

Cheating is a dick move. Rationalise it all you want, but by nature it's not just the physical side that is the problem. To cheat is to break someone's trust in you; it's not cheating if they're cool with it, and that's a dick move.

Does that mean that cheating is unforgivable? No. Just like anything else, you can't remove context and IMO cheating is just a sign that the relationship has issues that are not being addressed. The cheating might be the (shitty) outcome of that, but the real problem is whatever made you look outside the relationship for intimacy.

>>687090631
you should, the only behavior you SHOULD judge people for it bad character.

Lieing, cheating, stealing, narrow minded ness, prejudice, ya da ya da

>>687090771
Maybe it's just me who have cyber sex only with girls I know

>>687090605
Alot of my friends and friends fathers is like talking about this as it is ok to do as long as she doesent know about it, like it is a normal thing, and im like, is it really? never cheated before, im just curious

>>687090788
I disagree that the relationship is always to blame. My gf is very loving and gave me plenty of sex but I still cheated on her. The reason? I lost my virginity to her and have pathological issues that it is not her responsibility to account for. She's not a psychiatrist.

>>687090788
distance is a legitimate reason to cheat in my opinion

if you cheat on someone you're in a relationship, it seems likely they will cheat on you at some point

>>687090691
Why would i forgive her and keep loving her.
If she would cheat on me, then thats not of love she have done that, if she loved me for real then she would never do that.. right?

Been cheated on, depressed lonely faggot for years now. Don't be like me, anon.

>>687091071
Once a cheater- Always a cheater.

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>>687091071
True story. Know that feel

>>687090948
eh. distance is a legitimate reason to be adults and discuss open relationships if you cant handle the distance, but it's not a great reason to do it behind somebody's back.

I cheat, but I can't justify what I do. it's a bad thing.

>>687090947
Then the issue was yours; you weren't ready for a committed relationship. Rather than talking that through with her, you cheated. I'm not judging; like I said context is everything and I dunno your situation other than what you've said, but I'd say that counts as problems in the relationship.

>>687090948
Then the problem is distance. The solution is talking it through and changing the 'terms' of the relationship rather than cheating.

>>687091186
Figured.

>>687091189
Yeah, I tried Tinder, but I don't get many matches. None even want to meet up. Other than that, I don't leave my room.

>>687091219
I saw cheating as a solution to the relationship, not a problem. Once I cheated a couple of times I am then capable of carrying on on equal terms. Not every time is telling someone the whole truth the right thing to do. That would have involved filling her with guilt and confusion, possibly losing the great relationship I have now.

>>687091186
Not true at all. Cheating is all about the context; anyone could cheat in the right circumstance, and they might never cheat again if the circumstances are different.

>>687090992
whatever you say. I'm of the opinion that neither love nor sexual attraction (especially not attraction) are exclusive dynamics, and it's ridiculous for many people to keep fucking the same person for the rest of their life.

>>687091299
Mate, Tinder sucks..
After being cheated a couple of times I started to develop friendships and gain befefits from it ;)

>>687091363
But this situation is not yet resolved. If she doesn't know, then it's going to be detrimental to the relationship. Keeping illicit secrets like that is going to cause both of you more upset than being honest; you're only human and you'd be surprised how understanding people can be. Maybe give her the benefit of the doubt in future.

>>687086601
My way of seeing cheating is, if I didn't cheat on that guys girl, he would have done it to me if he had the opportunity.

>>687091477

That sounds like a sweet deal.

But I just work a job, and come home to cry on the internet. Every day, since 2013 anon. I don't leave my room.

>>687091203
it's not easy to reach a consensus on open relationships
there are some things you need to keep to yourself because your partner is not as open minded as you are

>>687088015
true, thats because girls nowadays are boring as fuck, same shit, different looks

>>687091071
>>687091189
>>687091299
You guys, are you still tryiing or did you lose hope and give up? Considering humanity's great achievements I find it hard to believe you can't find someone if every day you get up and pursue it like a job.

-hit the dating websites every day (wisely)
-go to a club or community group, ask women out no matter how many rejections
-go to the gym, ask women out no matter how many rejections, also work out so you're fit
-post ads on craigslist
-speak politely but bluntly (i am looking for a relationship)
-lower your standards

I can't see how you can fail besides doubting yourself, or not being respectful to the women while being honest about what you want.

"Hey would you like to go for coffee"
Once at the coffee
"I really like you and would like to see you again" (say this even if not true)
Eventually one of them is going to be flattered by you.

>>687091395
that's so true

>>687088634
Sometimes you have to. If you tell that person can be fucked up because now they will have trust issues with other people in the future. I for one will take it to my grave.

>>687091610
Try it. Talk to some cofags in work, go on a beer, wine, movie, get to know each other -> fuck

>>687091569
not so much what i think but in a similar vein.

i'm fucking this dudes girlfriend right now, and the way i see it is that if she wasn't fucking me she'd be fucking somebody else, so it might as well be me because I know where my dick has been. its like i'm looking out for him. a guardian angel with my dick in his girlfriend.

>>687086671
thats bs. i knocked up a chick i was cheating on my wife with. now she has my baby, but no one knows shit. we all still hang out.

>>687091694
I didn't give up, I try to meet up with my close friends and make a relationship

A fling here and there can be helpful for people that need reassurance that they're not only sexually attractive to the person their with, not that it's the most 'moral' way to handle things. However I think developing deeper feelings for the person you're cheating with while still stringing along your current spouse/mate is much worse than a simple sexual encounter.

>>687091610
Well it's just clinical depression that's killing you by the sounds of it. There aren't any women in your room, so don't spend any time there. Follow >>687091694 and be fully pragmatic and never run out of energy or cry to yourself, you are suffering from depression and your logic is skewed.

-a positive person is hungry so they go to eat
-a depressed person is hungry but they convince themselves they can't be bothered going out and sit there hungry and torment themselves about what a loser they are.

You have to ask yourself what kind of life you want and what are the things stopping you from getting it.

>meet MILF
>wants to date me
>asks if i've ever cheated
>no
>she doesn't want any cheaters
>ex-husband cheated, so divorce
>date for a couple of months
>she's a little crazy, but a decent lay
>never stays the night, because of her kids
>valentine's day
>want to surprise her with flowers
>go to her apartment building
>not sure which condo is hers
>someone walking out
>ask her if she knows which one is MILF's
>gives me the number
>ring the intercom
>man answers
>delivery for MILF
>buzzes me in
>knock on the door
>flower delivery for MILF, is she home?
>man says he can take them, he's her husband
>i say i thought she was divorced
>he says, not that it is any of your business, but no
>asks me who the flowers are from
>i think quickly, pull out a receipt and give him some made up woman's name
>get a text an hour or so later
>"so, you met my husband. thanks for not giving me away. please don't come by anymore. we'll have to be a bit more careful from now on"

>>687091800
checked.

she would do it anyways because she's bored of her man, i dont give two fucks if a girl cheats
she's married, or together with a guy

she will do it if she gets bored, same with us guys

>>687091830
That sounds like narrowing your options immensely. Go and ask out girls you're not even attracted to and tell them how pretty they are. You WILL succeed.

>b-but I don't want to succeed with those

Stop being idealistic faggot. Once you've improved your neckbeard syndrome, then you can start going after the ones you really like.

>>687091694

Room anon here, I gave up a long time ago. I just don't see a point in doing anything anymore. I know this is the era of body positivism with self-cheerleading and all that shit, but I can't even pretend to like what I see in the mirror. If there is a God, I hope heaven is what its hyped to be. If not, you won't remember me anyway.

>>687091752

Lol it didn't end well.

>>687091968
Pretty positive I'm not depressed anon. I can talk to all of you and I don't have to worry about anything. No one can cheat on me when I'm alone in a room. No one can use me when I'm unavailable.

>>687092093
You're not happy with your life, and the sadness is clouding your judgement so you think there's nothing that can make you happy. I KNOW, I was in that cloud for maybe 7-8 years.

Objectivity is the key. Get your emotions out of the way by treating yourself as a character in a game, or that you own shares in yourself. Now if you were in charge of your own life what would you tell that guy to improve it? Have very critical board meetings with yourself. "anon, you are not fulfilling the requirements of thee board". It sounds stupid but this works.

>>687092083
Wow, thanks a lot, will try
I'm going to other town for a couple days tommorow so maybe I will succeed

>>687091993
first of all, dont every buy flowers for a woman, ever. you fucking faggot

now thats been said, she's living her secondary life through you, her secret side, enjoy the ride homeboi

>>687086601
>done it before, 5 years ago
>still regret it

Is it ok to murder somebody if nobody finds out.
No.
There are only 2 reasons someone could cheat.
1. Their relationship is not goint well.
2. They're a piece of shit.
In the first case everything can be solved if they just fucking talk to their partner. Try to solve their problems.
In the secound case, well, they're a piece of shit and should kill themselfs.

>>687092332

Dodging failure by not even trying. I get socially anxious sometimes and I'm not the best with women, but I hit often enough just because I tell myself to at least go out and try. Don't know how you can live like that.

>>687086601
Betrayal is betrayal, regardless of the scale and excuse.

It is not OK.

>>687092332
I appreciate your input, anon. Maybe someday I will take the advice. I take norcos sometimes, and they make me feel alright. I'm trying not to develop an addiction, as I only have 14 now. I'' take 1-2 every couple days. It's nice to take a break sometimes, don't you think?

>>687092563
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>>687092707

I cheat on them whenever a better piece of ass comes along. I don't care if they cheat on me.

>>687092825
ill more or less always pursue sex with somebody else if i know i won't get caught.

the difference is, i make it sure that the girl knows that if she ends up cheating on me that i wont be upset.

i want her to come to me and talk to me about it as soon as it happens so we can work it out. i really value communication.

and as soon as she tells me that i break the fuck up with her cheating ass because you can't trust a cheater.

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>>687092812

Lol, I just bought some from a friend. I'm very cautious about drugs but this will be the only batch I buy. Pills aren't easy to come by in my area.

>>687086671

This.
Cheated on my ex twice and I got caught both times afterwards.
One of the girls I've cheated with is my gf now for 3 years so I guess it was worth it.

>>687086601
if girl is most likely going to be only be a short term, yes, infact i encourage it, you will eb regretful if you dint...however..
Not worth if this girl means alot to you... i did it, and its a shit feeling, more guilt than anything. especially since she loves you like its the 1st night you spent together after 3 years... and she tries to make you happy but you push her away...and all those annoyences become the thing you miss most about her.

If you can't be faithful, don't get into a relationship. I wish more people fucking understood that.

Stop doing drugs fags - it won't help - only worsen the situation.
Only acceptable drugs are love and grass... more grass than love
I feel like a hippiefag now

>>687092707
A really good friend said something kind of like this when he started. It's been a few years and hes not dead atleast but he went full dope fiend. I know this is 4chan and were all edgy faggots who dont care about others but you should stop before its too late

>>687086601

Just keep it simple.

Go to club, fake name, you don't use any social media, stay for a bang and leave, never exchange numbers or personal info of any kind.

>>687093305
Open relationships or fuckbuddies are the way to go.

>>687093084
yeah man nobody wakes up and says "i guess today is the day i become an addict". its just a thing that happens to you over time. i'd cut off my hand if i could go back and prevent myself ever starting.

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>tfw i am dating a submissive girl so i can talk her into a ggb threesome

>>687093188
a woman i know who is a little bit older, rich, and desperate for a rich husband found herself a rich doctor. unfortunately, he was married. that didn't stop her.

he divorced his wife and married this other woman. just last weekend, she found out he's had several long term girlfriends since the time he was married to the other woman.

I mean, as long as its only your gf then its ok. These can always be replaced.
But if its your wife then you shouldnt.

>>687093590
still its hurting another person and might fuck up their trust. so you think thats ok as long as you arent married.. to get married is just like saying, i like you and i want to keep you in my life everyday till you die. But its just on paper.

>>687093590
i agree with this statement, have a (You)

>>687088680
I've read this before

Define cheating. If my wife refuses to do anal and I find partners willing to, is it cheating? I told my wife before we were married what my sexual needs/expectations were. She reassured me. She has not met those assurances, so I've suggested an open marriage twice. She hasn't said yes or no but in last convo I also said I'm not going the rest of my life without anal (among other things). She still hasn't delivered. I've fucked another girl. I don't consider it cheating

>>687093084
Dated a girl for years that started with weakish painkillers, then graduated to oxycontin, spent all her money and turned to heroin, thus becoming the most untrustworthy person I've ever known. I'm not trying to be the fun police here but I've seen that shit ruin people's lives and it all starts where you are now. Be careful.

>>687093427

I know, I don't want to be an addict, but drinking in my room became a little too depressing for me..

>>687086601
>Is it ok as long as he/she doesent know,
Obviously not but that's not really the point.

The best reason why cheating is a bad idea is because it will fuck your relationship.

It's not so much what it will do to the other person as what it will do to your feelings for the other person.

If you can lie to them and get away with it, you're just not going to feel respect for them because you can manipulate and control them successfully. It won't be a relationship between equals. Humans NEVER respond well to having power over people and being able to lie to people and get away with it is power over them.

Of course if your partner is a moron and you're a sociopath just looking for a fucktoy that makes you sandwiches then maybe you don't care.

>inb4 12yos aren't your equal anyway

>>687093770
not that guy but think about it, if you put romanticism aside, when you are young, you are just looking for a match of your life, and so until you dont commit to one girl, you can meet more, same thing for girls, but humans didnt evolve from our nature enough to do this without feeling wrong, but it is actually the most logical way

No bullshit me and my gf talked about this. How if you wanna remain relevant in your own relationship together you need to be open to spice shit up. Problem is one person is gonna be more into it then the other 99.99% of the time. If you can get that .01% your lucky as shit. She suggested a FFM Threeway. Seeing how thay pans out. I'll keep you faggots informed.

I'm a pathological liar with severe discociative personality disorder.

I have cheated on every single girlfriend ive ever had, been caught once, but not really, just saw i called a girl pretty in a text.


I love every single one of my girlfriends completely, i just divorce the physical mainly because i have massively varied needs. i am basically a degenerate with sex, i feel the need to fuck constantly ain any way that turns me on.


I hate myself.

>>687086601
Requires a lot of mental compartmentalization to keep the affair separate from the primary relationship

When I was a teenager, I went through that awkward obsessed/paranoid phase with a gf I had. Swore she was cheating, followed her around to verify it, even cheated on her just to "beat the bitch to the punch so I have ammo for an argument". Turns out she wasn't cheating. Got caught because the other girl actually wanted to have sex and went to another HS (very common where I came from, every town has their own HS and refuses to consolidate because of football). Can't consider what I did cheating in my college years and my formal 20s. Never kept a steady relationship. Now I'm 31 and married.

>>687094097
if you cant stay with a girl and accept that its wrong to fuck others then why dont you just stay single and fuck whoever you want

>>687086601
I did, at the beginning of our story, because of several reasons.
>was In love with her and would kick other hoes off
>she starts freaking out because she's not used to be loved, I interpret this as a fishy alert
>fuck a 4/10 fatty to cheer me up
still love her. then we had a violent argument, like she wont talk at all about things. Never answers anything when I ask her if she cheats on me. She even tells me she wouldnt mind if I'd fuck other girls.
> micro-break up
> back to my town, fucked an asian single mom to cheer my alpha feelings up

things are getting a little more serious now. I'm thinking everyday about those two hoes and sometimes it feels like shit.
She will never find out tho.
I'm still addicted to cyber porn with femanon strangers. But I quit this since I got no more cum for her when she gets back from work.
I still love her tho, and did not fuck any girl since the asian bitch.

So, dont cheat on your partner if you really love her and you know she can destroy you afterwards. If you dont care, do your business but keep her away from your dick moves.
She doesnt need to suffer or feelin betrayed just because you wanted to feel better about yourself telling her. NEVER TELL.

also if you wanna cheat, do it in another town or at least with complete strangers. use a fake name and lay low. dont be jealous.

>>687094673
because one of them might be more suitable than other, but not quiet enough for wife material, again, i am putting romanticism aside here, all what i am saying is just a theory how human relationships can evolve

I think the problem with these "cheating" threads is there are people who are sleeping with other people bc their g/f or spouses aren't sexually fulfilling. Then there are ppl cheating for the sake of variety. The variety ppl are asshats. People who are not getting their needs met but are in otherwise satisfying relationships should cheat if they can be respectful and discrete

>>687094673
>"Accept that it's wrong to fuck others"

Is it really though? What if I have the informed consent of my significant other?

>>687086601
Cheating is one of the worst things you can do to a person. I'm pretty sure that if I ever cheated on my gf I would seriously hurt myself because I couldn't bear hating myself even more than I do now.

That being said, I have never cheated.

>>687095108
Implying this isnt an open realationship

>>687087488
Good. If they're whores, don't look back

Never cheated. I'm a good person.

>>687086601
I cheated once with my former GF, abroad tho, so I guess it was ok. She never found out, it´s my ex now tho. Depends on the situation, we were a bout to break up anyway, so I took the opportunity to bang someone else just before, and with success. Would not do it if the relationship was safe and sound, tho.

cheating is for niggers and spics.

Why have the relation ship with the person you are cheating on in the first place?
> Scared to hurt them?
> Scared to get hurt?

>>687096040
Probably a power thing, ye

>>687086601
I've cheated and been cheated on. It's always sort of lame tbh. Some people get off on lying but not everyone.

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cheated on every story I got. I guess I dont deserve love, or advantages of a relationship.
The truth is if your gf really loves you, she will try hard to get over it, because in her head you're the alpha doing random alpha stuff. But she will never really get over it.

Choices here:
>she uses it against you till death or end of relationship
>she gets her own revenge and fucks another guy. but she will make this in the purpose of hurting you, so be careful. expect shitty times
>she's turned on and wants more sex than she ever asked for
>she gets mad at you and engages fight. dont hurt her, you will regret this.

I dont cheat anymore since my gf is doing her gf job very well. But admitting to myself how evil I was doing this was a really shitty time. Would never kill myself tho, so what do ?
pic related

>>687096158
You live you learn anon, I guess. Also, you high pepe right now?

>>687096259
I totally do

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>>687086601
>meet grill online
>18 blonde and sexy sassy vuluptuos pussy cat lips to grind my c0ck till death on
>sold.jpg
>i love you, you are mine, i hand chosen you, i am the chosen one
>you are the chosen one of the chosen one
>great honour
>lives in america
>doesnt matter will leave life and start anew for mew
>2 weeks pass
>anon i kissed a boy at a party he had abeard
>heartbroken.youstupid cunt why?!
dont want to continue, got all feely. fuck you.
sage

>>687096768
kids cant be monogamous.

Cheated on my wife with a married woman. Married woman caught feelings and started to spill the beans so I confessed. Been a nightmare ever since (about 5 years past confession). Would not recommend it even if you think you'll get away with it.

>>687086671
Fake. Always cheated. All my friends cheat. Nobody has ever been caught.


If you don't live together it s easy

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>>687087376
>welcome to 4chan
>that shit got me

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>>687092563
/thread

>>687086601
I believe that cheating is wrong for any reason. I would also like to mention you should never have bad blood with whoever the 3rd party is in the event of cheating so long as they aint being a complete tool about it. Think of it this way, if somebody is capable of cheating they ain't a compatible mate and better to find out this sooner then later. Moral of the story is try to sleep with the mates of everybody you know and tell them directly after the deed is done! If it happens and they get pissed remind them it coulda been somebody with AIDS or some shit who wouldn't have fessed up and that he/she isn't the one and that you wanted to protect them

>>687096768
Maybe you should also grow a beard

I've cheated several times, and been cheated on. One time I fucked an ex and a current within hours of each other.

Never cared when I got cheated on, because I don't get jealous and all I ever really wanted was an open relationship anyway. Finally got one with my current, when I cheated, confessed, and she suggested it. Best "mistake" I ever made.

No it's not ok because it's endangering the most important thing in life, the family unit

Unless you're in an open relationship (and then it's not really cheating anyway) anyone who cheats is scum.

When you are in a relationship that is understood to be serious or are engaged/married it's a very simple concept; you have one partner.

If you can't handle the fact that you will have one sexual partner now then you aren't mature enough to be in a relationship to begin with. Instead of betraying whoever you're dating/married to and fucking everything up just maintain an open relationship with someone who's into that or do one night stands.

Once you get past adolescence your mind is supposed to have matured enough so it can out-think your crotch. If you are in a situation where you cannot be honest with your wife/husband you have failed as an adult.

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Ive fucked a few girls.
Its human nature to want to fuck lots of people.
You get moody and depressed when you dont give in but when you do.
Well for me I always remember why I like my wife the best.
Im a man Ive fucked lots of slutz.
I wouldnt care if she fucked other men or has.
I love her id have a fucking orgy with her I wouldnt care.
Love and sex are seperate things and when ppl mix that shit up they get all soppy moapy and fucking bitchy.
Heres a pic of the wife.
Havnt cheated in a few months where 8 years together.
So long as I dont know what shes doing.
And she doesnt know.
We dont care.

>>687100393
I salute you, anon.

>cuddled and kissed a friend. Eventually fingered her, but no sex.
>never even took my clothes off because I felt so bad about the whole thing.
>gf doesn't know.
>feel like shit now and am scared gf will find out at some point.
What do?

>High school
>No big deal
>Girl 1, met her in algebra, a year younger than me
>Girl 2, My ex brought us together (stranger things happen).
>7:25 am I hug and essentially make out with Girl 1 in the center of the school
>Go to class
>Not 5 minutes later I have other students complaining to a teacher about excessive PDA with Girl 2
>This goes on for a week
>Nothing happens, no one says anything
I got lucky I guess

>>687087530
Please just kill yourself you cuck

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>>687100751
Just remember if you really fucking love your woman.
Start to think about shit in the long run.
Stop treating shit like property and have fucking fun. Its why most relationships fucking die in no time.

>>687100966
you first faggot

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>>687100048
Man you know nothing about marriage at all.
I feel sorry for you.

>>687086601
Cheating is overrated, swinging is underrated.

If you want to fuck other people, get in an open relationship and do it with permission.

If you want to fuck other people but don't want your partner to, you a shit.

>>687100799
Screencap post
If she finds out show her screencap
Maybe she thinks u were regretting it and didn't know how to tell her or if u should tell her bc u were scared she would dump u

>>687101845
>If you want to fuck other people but don't want your partner to, you a shit.
beta detected
>drank the feminist agenda coolaid

u lost nigg

>>687088809
Best tip to keep prying wife off my arse

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>>687088809
Good advise here.
Yeah make sure you can cut ties in an instant and disappear.
Woman can be fucking nuts.

>>687102165
Well excuse me if I want my gf to have fun too. I really just don't give a shit. It simply doesn't bother me at all that my gf is fucking other people--I understand the desire to experiment and sample other people just for the variety. I've been with her long enough to trust her to maintain an exclusive emotional connection with me regardless of who she fucks, and the other way around.

It might help that I have a raging orgy fetish. Fuck it man, the more people in the bed the better.

>>687102876
>Well excuse me
you sound like a 6 coloured rainbow faggot

>>687088400
Same situation, gf is 8/10 wants sex daily multiple times and to blow me constantly, basically have to force myself now and think of other women during sex.

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>>687103133
Its time you fucked other woman buddy.
It will save your relationship.
You will appreciate your gf more afterwards and the fire will be back.
Trust me im 8 years at it.

>>687088680
This is literally a plot to an adam sandler movie.

Nice try tho

>>687088015
yup

>>687089633
yeah and you're full of shit

>>687086923
>twice
not a big sample pool you sack of piss

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>>687086601
It's betrayal. Without monogamy the relationship is just friendship, that's why if you have the pretense for that relationship to be special, you accept the mutual responsibility of monogamy. If one side of the terms of the contract is broken, the whole contract is broken.

>>687088400
holy shit the other person has a fuckin conscious just like you. relationships are more than just sex

>>687086601
Girls don't care if you cheat as long as they think you are their best option

>>687092812
That was me. But i only shot up once and stuck to pills. Still was a fucked up year.

I'm a nurse now lol

>>687089275
>>687089746
not all all justified. cut it off if you don't have a connection. cheating only reinforces your pond scum qualities

>>687103734
true. can a girl confirm this pls

>>687094054
If you're drinking alone in your room you probably already need some help.

>>687086932
You didn't cheat. If she created a precedent in time, the agreement was broken back then. whether you knew it or not.

>>687103270
How do you do it, what is your plan if you get caught? Honestly I love her and everything but I feel like I need a three some or something.

>>687100799
Slowly stop being friends with the other girl.

Most likely you're fucked.

"Why don't you have a girlfriend, Anon?"

The thread

>>687086601
If you're going to cheat just dump your current squeeze. No woman is worth the trouble of cheating on.

>>687088876
y'all still together?

>>687103784
Megan?

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>>687103946
Plan if I get caught.
What if I told you she knows I do it.
She doesnt know where or with who.
And she gets off to it.
Because like a good dog I always come home.
The first time I cheated on her I was completly honest with her about it. I told her I didnt feel bad all I wanted to do was plough her.
I do it because it reignites things.
She knows im getting bored and thats why I do it. Shes had a few romps for sure with a few fellas no where near my number but everytime I know I want to fuck her extra hard.
Shes my best pal we do everything together.
We play games love the same movies tv and food. And im gona grow old and die with her.
If you fantasise about other woman if you think about ploughing them. Then your not thinking about your wife your gf and your not being honest. Do your partner a favor and fuck someone else. You go oh that was good but the wifes the best and you helped me remember it.
Think in the long run and dont fucking think of yourself. These whiney warped religious fruits with there vows of torture. Your not fucking honest people you lie to yourself all the time.

>>687090507
As a non beta "best friend"/former fling fir 2 girls I can attest to this. The minute the bf and them have a fight I get the "wanna hang out/drink" text. Each time same story and ended up in crazy drunken sex, they talk to thier bfs the next day about whatever fight they had and Carry on. It's funny to me that the boyfriends actions alllllways justify the cheating in thier minds.

>>687086601
>be early 30s
>wife mid 30s
>have an amazing 1 yr old son
>start to figure that my wife lies a lot. She doesn't cheat but she always wants things her way.
>I usually give in but recently I call BS
>my new "attitude" is causing a strain
>we don't have sex anymore
>my birthday, we're both drunk. She still refuses sex. I leave the room and go to the spare room.
>she worries after 30 mins, she comes and gets me, we have sex
I'm not going through this bullshit every time I want my dick tugged
>find a woman off the internet
>going to meet her next week

>>687104632
Yeah your relationship sounds like mine, would you recommend threesomes?

>>687104759
Worst part is, this sounds like one of the better endings of a marriage. How do I cut off dick?

>>687103839
why would that be true...
Yould you eat a chockolate cake if you knew it were full of shit? no, then you wouldnt eat fucking cake for a while lol.

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>>687104914
No I wouldnt a big issue is if you put more energy into the wrong woman your wife will get really fucking upset. Trust me ive done it before. If your going to make sure you destroy your wife and have fun with the other one.

>>687086832
I respect your honesty

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>>687105065
And make sure shes wasted woman all have a bit of lezbo in them. All of them.

walked in on my gf of 6 months straddling and making out with my roommate/best friend once.

wasnt a good feeling.

>>687104008
>implying
Everyone on 4chan is nerds with no life

>>687104124
Yea, if you want some other pussy, then the least you can tell the current pussy you dont want more.. instead of pounding everyone and end up making ther pussy cry

>>687092563
/thread

>>687104941
first time I tried I got caught, that was just text messaging tho. The bitch was not down for sex.
>then I had a kinky relationship with a 22 year old student.
Fingered her and got a few bj's
>then nearly fucked a preschool student's mum
We were getting on really well until I found out my wife was pregnant (I'd fucked my wife maybe once in a year)
It was heartbreaking telling the side lady that I was ending it.
I wonder if that'll happen next time lol

All these beta faggots pissed dudes cheat, yet get stuck friendzoned as fuck

I cheat constantly. Is it wrong in societies eyes? Sure, but fuck society. Society wants donald trump and hillary clinton as presidents. I do anything that makes me happy. While my significant other makes me happy, i always love the idea of a new forbidden conquest.

>>687105159
Ok I'm gonna try to do a three some and go from there, thanks, /b/ro

>>687086601
I cheated on my boyfriend with whom I had been with for 2 years at that moment. There was no way he could've found out, we were in completely different cities and there was no witness. But I didn't cheat out of revenge or anything, it was purely lust and we were drunk and I had no intentions on hurting my boyfriend. Since we were in a monogamous relationship, I decided to tell him myself anyway because I actually do love him. He was damn hurt, took him a while, but he forgave me anyway.
But I believe having a sexual attraction towards somebody who is not your partner is very natural and it does not mean that you love your partner any less.

>>687088260

This p much.

If both people are in a commited relationship, it should only be an after thought. The only time it would be okay, is if you are coming close to breaking up or your SO has done it to you. Honestly, if you want to cheat, why the fuck are you with her?

>>687105845
>I do anything that makes me happy.
>im lead entirely by muh emotions

Congrats on being an actual beta with a female brain. Single mother upbringing by any chance?

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>>687106055

Only single mothers in my life are the ones i fuck.

>>687104997
Your analogy makes no sense

>>687106055
>be human
>not leading life by your emotions

Nigga wut? Do you know how shit works?

>>687106228
Dennisauras kekkle

>>687106379
People are different. Hard to grasp on /b/.

>>687091993
so you didn't see a single picture of the hubs in there lol, that was the first thing I noticed one time, but I already fucked her at my place and I was like wait a minute...I told her to just come to my place only. The fact we already did it a couple of times meant it doesn't matter now i need to nut

>>687086601
Girls cheat on you too, so why wouldn't you?

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tfw when you lost your virginity fucking someones wife...I was that desperate and 18 years old my first year of college. My side is that if you get married young well...DONT EVER DO THAT SHIT. FYI she hit on me, I didn't even have class wit her

>>687086601
I suppose its fine if you could be arsed it'll end in tears it always does but if you gave a shit you'd pick one over the other so let your autism flow and do what you like

>>687088876
Noob.. Always have an second phone.. Even if you dont cheat

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Chronic cheater here.

Typing this in the subway on my way to the gf to have dinner with the juices of a half ausie half jamaican chick stil on my dick.

Cheated every relationship.

Gues its the iranian genes in me.

Have stuck my dick in my gf multiple times with juices of another stil on it.

Sometimes she tells me it smells weird.

sometimes got caught.

AMA

>>687088876
>cheating on gf
>not erasing lover's messages

retard/10

>>687091694
> lower your standards

Never do that, this guy just wants to have a dumb fucnhole wihtout seeing consequences from aids etc.

>>687093387
If you only want sex

>>687086601
cheating is wrong

>>687105966
Slag

>>687102876
Cuck/10

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I live a really boring life. Married over 10 years, 2 kids, work for a bank.

Seducing and fucking other women is like an adventure sport. Adrenalin, danger, mystique. And in the end you get to bust your nut in some strange.

Winning!

>>687086601
ITT : its okay to have extreme feelings but dont libe them out e. G.. Mass murddr or cheating

>>687088876
>>met girl at bar. let her suck my dick w/o a condom
>> suck my dick w/o a condom


What?

Is that a thing?

If you're not ready to commit and be honest, don't even fucking bother getting into a relationship
also this >>687086601

>>687109966
lol. nice dubs tho

>>687110016
shit, this >>687086671

>>687109966
If you dont want to get an std, yes.

>>687086601
i cheat on my left hand with my right hand sometimes but she doesn't seem to mind

>>687110568
maybe you should tell righty you still love her as much as leftie

>>687110568
>not having a threesome