>>686776408
At least you have money, a home and career prospects.

I'm 28, alone and working a job that I'm beginning to hate.

"Great life", a job you don't enjoy, no friends or female companions, sounds to me like you just have money, nothing more.

I have a shit life, no degree, a shit job that barely allows me to scrape by. I have no friends or girlfriend. I'm 30. Go fuck yourself.

>>686776562
Work doesn't bother me that much. I don't like it. But I like other things. I like my house. My dog. My family. The other things I own. I'm in good physical health.

Just mentally im a mess and it makes connecting with people hard

If you have multiple degrees, you're doing something wrong if you still have a shit job.

>>686776408
I was in your same shoes a few years ago. Except had some friends, just none that lived in the state I live. I made it my number one mission for the time I was 29 to learn how to socialize better and how get girls. I'm 32 now and have had a couple serious relationships, and have a good network of friends around me. The kind that would go out of their way to help me. We have to be thankful that all that other bullshit like jobs, cars and houses are taken care of, now can focus entirely on social interactions. Keep your head and keep moving forward

>>686776919
Sometimes you just get fucked when it comes to jobs, especially if you don't have any contacts within the industry. All I heard growing up was "get into the trades", and when I tried I couldn't get my foot in the door. All the company owners hire their sons and nephews, so unless you're a family friend you're going to have to either kiss a lot of ass or just get lucky.

Lets us play some Csgo friend.

>>686777157
how you did?

>>686776408
Nowadays its much harder and more reasonable to get what you have than the other

>>686777176
I don't know what your degrees or aspirations are, but there are lots of job openings - contrary to popular belief - in every field. I'm not disagreeing with you in terms of the nepotism involved in careers, I'm just saying that you will be able to utilize your degrees and experience to facilitate a brighter future for yourself.

>>686776408

Exactly the same situation here, man. I'm 25 tho. When will the girls start knocking on my door? :(

>>686776408
>a great life

Chuckled

>>686776408
Meanwhile in my life:

>awesome gf of 7 years
>solid social life
>just finished degree
>$40k in debt with no job prospects
>turning 25
>depressed, anxious and introverted

I have no idea what to do with myself

30
own construction company
have multiple work vehicles
dog
quads
numerous different things money can buy
wake up alone everyday
go to work
come home to nothing everyday
feels bad
but dont want a gold digger so just tell womens i work in construction
and get ew face

My 0.02 is simple. Go after what makes you happy whatever that may be. Life will fall in line if you can figure out what makes you happy. Cut negatively from your life.

Don't put the pussy on a pedestal. Chances are they are just as lonely and have equally shitty lives. Go up and talk to them. Start online dating profiles. It's just a numbers game from there.

go get help with your anxiety

21
Should have finished uni this year but ill be here for 2 more years
Still living with parents
Shit part-time that pays the useless shit that i buy
No sex in 2 years
Have friends but most of them just do drugs and shit
Everyone knows me as a dealer in uni
Don't know where my life is going

>>686776408
>I have a great life.
>I'm depressed anxious and introverted.
You don't seem to know what you have. Man up and quit complaining.

>>686776408
im 24, own 5 acres of land on which im building my house currently all paid cash, miltary vet so gi bill pays me to go to school. i to have no girlfriend

>>686776408
This will fix you up
http://www.strawpoll.me/10342664

16 the world is my oyster

>>686780782
I fucking hate oysters.

>>686780782
you best be haveing a job young blood

>>686780592
Your damaged goods, what woman worth anything would be with some fucked up failure from the military?

>>686780864
Well I hate you

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>>686776863
I moved into a new city this summer for an internship. I get free very nice housing and make 17.50 per hour. I work about 45 hours per week. I have no friends down here and I don't connect well with others at work. It's a manufacturing job so there's a shit ton of equipment and it's a lot more than I've ever dealt with. It's really giving a window into what my life might end up looking like and I'm a bit concerned.

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>>686781149
Eat me teen boy

>>686781307
Grow up and get a life get off your computer/phone

>>686780404
If you don't want to be known as just a drug dealer, then don't surround yourself with people who do drugs 24/7. You're at uni, so branch out and meet new people

>>686780404
You sound just like me except i somehow have a gf

>>686781307
Grown ass man

>>686776863
but he is right tho,, then your life is great.. more like

mmmeeeh it could be worse... well yeaaa,, but its not awesome either.. you just kinda exist out there and thats it, if you die thats it, gg, no re

I mean its not even you are not important or anything, but your life is kinda like it could be just summed up into 1 single week than its just repeat over again

IF you would have more money, then "it pays the bills" i would say,, oh mm, not bad dude, cool.. but unless you are a lame faggot who never worked a single day, i would say thats a lil above average , with no friends and all...

of course you can enjoy it, but then again,, you just said it sucks being alone soo yee, there it is

>>686776408
If you hate your life now, what makes you think having a girlfriend will change anything? You have more than what most people would kill for. The reason you have no friends or girlfriend is probably because you're a shitty person. Maybe you should start working on that first. Maybe I'm just lucky because those things came easy to me even though I am incredibly introverted yet was able to make great friends.

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>>686780404
Stop selling drugs and hanging out with your drugee friends. It's a huge university so you can pretty much do a fresh start at the drop of a hat. Just say the guy who supplied you got busted and now you're out of the game. You can do it, you just have to be willing to commit to it.

>>686782245
lawd muh benis

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>>686776408
That's my current goal. To 'get good' at life and be successful so I can't show it in the face of the girl who broke me down and left me alone and lonely. My anger toward her is great motivation.

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>>686781636
Agreed. He's self sufficient. Needing a girlfriend makes you pathetic. If a nice girl comes along then that's good, but don't latch onto the first thing with a vagina. All you need is to make some friends and you'll be set. I'd suggest joining a couple clubs or something in your area where there's people with similar interests.

>>686781843
well it does have at least some to do with luck since you mention it...

it can be your parents got a lot of friends, they come over, and among their kids, there is just happen to be one you click with etc etc... stuff like that

these stuff matters, like if you grow up in some shit place, with no friends around, no body ever comes over blabla

its not always easy, but still, OP COULD be a shitty person, but i would not bet on it that thats the main problem

>>686776408
>I have a great life.
>I have no friends or girlfriend.
>I'm depressed
>It sucks

Sounds like you DON'T have a great life, idiot

>>686776408
>two cars
I'm sure this adds value to your life. I own 2 stepladders, 2 vacuum cleaners and 4 tooth brushes

>>686776408
I am 28. Have an ok job, a pretty girlfriend, lots of student loan debt and credit card debt just by trying to get by. Not sure if I will ever own a house, and I drive a year 2003 camry.

You win some, you lose some

>>686779414
>40k in debts
How the fuck is this possible?

36, 13 years single, not interested in having another friend or girlfriend stab me in the back
introverted and depressed (c)
own nothing but a computer and furniture I guess
rent very nice appartement of family at ridiculously cheap price
no job, no money, but parents loaded
chronically ill and drawing benefits for I guess another six months, no idea about income after that, guess parents will have to chip in
ticking timebomb that eats all the shit family throws at me cause I need to cash in that inheritance in a few years
might explode and go on a killing spree anyway
feels bad man

>>686783695
4 years of college tuition costs a lot. If my parents didn't pay for it I would be $100k in debt. My friend in med school will be $300k in debt but he'll be making bank.

Any skills or non-nippon interests?

Im in the same boat.

>blue collar
Construction pays well but
>spend 4 hours in traffic everyday
>need to get up at 3am everyday
>broke as fuck for a long time cause paying for siblings college
>own 2 cars but each one is leaking a different fluid
>just got laidoff on Friday

Im gonna start exercising again so the DOMS fill the void

The house is a big anchor. Why tie yourself down at that age?

>>686783943
At least you have an awesome girlfriend, if you work hard and make money you'll be happy as fuck

>>686784655
>paying for siblings college
theyll pay you back though right?

>>686783695
Standard Canadian undergrad tuition. I'm actually on the lower end. Engineering degrees rank in about 60k

>>686776408
>20 yo
>just finished my first year in uni, getting master in compsci
>swedish state gives me wellfare money just for studying
>live home with mom and dad
>no student loans taken yet, won't need them as long as I live at home
>dad got me a summer job at the IT department at the bank he works at
>have one friend
>havent had sex since I was sixteen, lost all confidence since then
>practically growing a new virginity
I spend my free time playing video games, they still seem to keep the loneliness somewhat at bay
Atleast I still have plenty of years of youth left

Tom us that you

>>686782870
I should have worded it better. I'm in a great situation in the sense of having a job that pays good enough,owning a home, physical health.


Most people would be happy. But I'm such a mental mess I can't appreciate and get the most out of it. I just want to sleep

>>686784763
True but not knowing what you wanna work + not having any marketable skills sucks so much dick.

>>686784882
They better.
Theyre a recent graduated Econ major with less than 3k in debt.

Soon as i start working again im gonna save up for my own house.

im 22
i wanted to start a path on IT security and hacking but due to a drug problem i got rejected from uni
really considering offing myself, i cant help but to feel like a waste of space, i dont wanna be a n33t another year :(

>>686776408
sounds to me like you're already appreciating what you have, so what the fuck are you doing here?

>>686785728
>tfw i want to get into IT security and pen testing and self teaching myself from scratch at 24.

could be worse anon

>>686776408
You should vote here
http://www.strawpoll.me/10343493

>>686776408
Hey cheer up Op you are doing better than me , Iam 27 studying to get my degree and yeah my pa still pays for everything

>>686776408
Where you from anon?.

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You're all doing better than me. I fucked my life up before it even started. 18 and have no real friends. never had a girlfriend. No money. Never had a job. Addicted to multiple vices. Failed school. Ugly as fuck (I really should have taken those free teeth braces the NHS offered me) because i'm too lazy to take care of myself. Fat (obese).

Shit sucks. I want to fix it but it's like climbing out of a hole that's as deep as mount everest is tall, and that's just to get to the level that other normal people are on.

Once I get to 'normal' level I will then have all the problems normal people have, like making money, finding a decent place to live, somehow getting a proper education and getting a decent job, making good friends, finding a girlfriend etc.

It's just fucking depressing

>>686781198
That's literally every job if you're paying attention. Good luck, and remember that your manager is just as worried about losing his job as you are of yours.

>>686787492
Nigga you're 18 time is on your side. Literally just do one productive thing a day minimum.

>>686786416
is it too hard to get there by self teaching? Im gonna try that this year

Sometimes it's the scenery. Most of us spend to much time in one location. If you hate your life change it. Fuck hit the road see were it takes you. You might stop as a gas station and meet he love of your life. Life is to short to complain.

>>686787492
pics plz

>>686790079
Nah, I already hate looking at myself in the mirror. I'd rather not have another few hundred people laughing at my expense over the internet. Maybe i'd get made into a meme, ugly-ass brian or something

>>686787492
Cheer up, amigo. I'm Brazilian, use braces for 5 years and my top teeth are pretty aligned but the bottom ones stay at like 80% aligned permanently, it's vexing.
Also no friends at uni and only ever go out when my mom asks me to accompany her somewhere. kissless virgin. slightly apathetic to people, need to fake being ultra friendly to interact with people.etc.
>blog updated, I'm off

Talk to a therapist

>>686776408
try the classic "elise move" (greetings btw), and you will have lots of friends