I've only been married for a bit, so I have no idea how real shit gets.
but dude
if you are not getting the respect you deserve then fucking nut up and get it or what.
what happened?

stop worrying about how she looks faggot. if it bothers you that much, get rich and buy her liposuction you basic poor faggot.

>>686212401
Have you even attempted to work out the issues you have with her? Bad sex always takes two people.

just start asking to talk about your sex life.
dont be a pussy when she asks what you want.
if you cant say it, find some tasteful porn and show her

meantime, i love chubby wives. post more pictures

>>686212401
Post pic of tits first

>>686212401
Murder-suicide

>>686212401
Look at a skinny girl on the internet see her obvious superiority. Feel the hate and resentment to the afore mentioned sea mammal flow through you.

>>686213786
Bullshit, anyone who says that is definitely the one who is bad at sex.

>>686212401
i'd nut in her hair

How do people "fuck the way (you) shake hands"?

>>686214236
Fisting in the mouth and up the butt

She's not that obese. Bet she was a knockout thin. If I had someone like that offering the pussy anytime I wanted it I'd need a damn good reason to not only get rid of it but lose half my paycheck for the next umteen years for it.

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>>686214236
It means as often as one shakes hands.

>>686212401

>consistently only lasts 2 minutes in bed
>wonders why they have a dead bedroom and are currently getting a divorce

POST HER NUDES AND SET YOURSELF FREE

Encourage her to get in shape by buying heavier food.

No, really. Just dump her and get out now. SHe will only get older.

>>686214489
So all the time? I shake hands with people all the fucking time. What's wring with that?

Also, need to see tits

You need to cut all the bridges between you and here so you can recover and rebuild your life.

Yes that include your child. Kill it.

>>686214489
Like with her husband or with other guys?

Whenever you think about her, poke yourself with some sort of needle. Not hard enough to bleed, but enough to make it hurt.

>>686214713
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HzNXmBY62ww

make a bet with her...1 month, who loses more weight gets to fuck the other person in the ass...dont lose

>>686214697
>>686214730
I'm not sure either man. Maybe it's bad because she's now unattractive? OP can answer

>>686214489
I was thinking it meant sex was as stimulating as shaking hands, not that she's a slut.

>>686214918
Guaranteed results for her to lose weight. Get your ass lubed up right now

>>686214972
Lol, thought you were OP. Idk, I'd guess with your spouse then which is never

>>686212401
Complete the divorce and move on. There's plenty more fat cunts in the sea.

Lawyer here... Divorces are expensive - financially and psychologically - and all the more so when kids are involved. If you were in love with, and are still in love with her (and, yeah, she could drop 20 lbs, but that's barely anything these days..), and the *only* thing is physical and lame-sex-technique, I'd recommend trying to work it out.
Both my wife and I got a little overweight in our early 30s - we started running and doing races together (she's a triathlete, I'm a swimmer... wre both thinner, but not rail-thin) but we both supported one another in getting fit, and out sex life improved correspondingly. And there's a bit of a a sneak-factor there... you can pull off " since you started running, your ass looks irresistible..." if she also thinks her ass looks fine...
Anyhow... I see a lot of avoidable shit in my job. Unless you seriously just cant stand her... see if she'll go out running with you. It could be worse.

>>686214211
If one of you is good at sex, then the sex will be good. Sorry you're bad.

>>686214416
>pussy anytime I wanted

Do you know what marriage is?

go all Bill Cosby on her the give her a enema, she will drop 20 pounds

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Look at all these fucking idiots posting advice when most of them probably aren't even old enough to buy beer, let alone have a wife and family.

OP, I'm probably in a similar situation to you. early 30s, wife and kid. No, the sex isn't great. But we're working on it, because we're talking about it. It was hard to do, at first. but if you genuinely love her and want to maintain a stable home for your kid, just try it. >>686215405 gave good advice too.

And for christ's sake don't get caught porking the secretary, no matter the outcome you will ALWAYS be the bad guy.

>>686215475
The first year is that way, at least in my experience. We fucked everywhere

>>686215764
let us know how year two works out. especially once you've got kids.

Was in the similar boat, but just found out my wife has a thyroid problem which was causing some of the same problems you described. It's easy to test for, might be worth looking into.

>>686215405
Oh man, spent 21K on divorce....in MD. We had 2 kids, was fucking terrible, after 11 months, almost done we decide to sleep together, thus resetting entire clock. Decide maybe we should work it out. Get back together. Buy big house, everyone is happy except the fact I blew 21K for a divorce lawyer for 11.months of battling.

>>686215839
On year 5 and its not like that anymore since we have 3 kids but we still have sec at least once a week

>>686215712
Your life sounds so shit, it made me feel depressed.

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>>686215475
"I was MARRIED for TWO FUCKING YEARS! OH! OOOOHHHHHHHHHH!"

>>686216028
>had
Had 2 kids? are they dead now?

>>68621240

So what you're saying is that she fucks everyone at church.

>>686216272
Well, dead to me at least. Couple of faggots.

Post nudes of her already OP you fucking faggot

>>686216272
LMAO....nope, costing me 15K a year in private school tuition. Maybe I could pay back the 21K a little quicker if they were.

>>686216133
Maybe if sex was the only thing that mattered, but it isn't to me. It's important, but so is having a family and a home I care about. So I'm working on the parts that aren't great, while appreciating the parts that already are.

>>686214236
You ever shook a motherfuckers hand, and you went in for a firm manly handshake, just to have the faggot give you a limp hand.

So you expected a solid shake, and they gave you a limp-dick little homo shake.

That's what he means. She fucks like a limp whale.

>>686216575
Post nudes of your wife then you faggotot

>>686216149
I miss that crazy motherfucker.

>>686216028
I'm curious
>we decide to sleep together
was it a mutual business decision made at the kitchen table? or a spontaneous hookup that just happened

>>686216743
God me too. There is some comedian out there who has an impression down perfectly and does a fantastic bit as Sam calling from hell.

>>686212401

Served you right for walking around drunk all the time.

>>686216785
They made a mutual business decision, finalized with limp hand shake.

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>>686216718
you can suck my dick, literally any time.

>>686217134
"I extend to you a hearty handclasp."

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>>686217134
Got all kinky with daps

>>686216785
Went to a school function at our kids school. Fundraiser, on the weekend. Everyone getting hammered, silent auctions, gambling. Mother watching our kids at the house I stayed in. Expecting me home at midnight. I asked my very soon to be ex if she needed a ride home. Long story short, show up at my house at 6:00AM the next morning reaking of sex and shame. Mom had fronted the 20K, knew she just pissed it away because I slept with almost ex......good time ensues. Basically took 20K and literally threw it in a shredder in my mother's face. Like I said in the MD, if you are not completely separated for 1 yr, it all starts over

>>686217423
is that what they'd consider getting blacked?

WHAT THE FUCK /B/

I cannot believe that you are counseling him to stay with her. Yes I know we are older than we used to be but that doesn't mean we should settle. What happened to all of you. Fuck.

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>>686217599
get the fuck out of here and don't come back with a healthy dose of reality and life experience. we're not your little fratboy circlejerk anymore.

>>686217599
Jury's out till I see tits.

>>686217485
Great story.
I feel bad for your mother but hopefully she can at least see it's what got you guys back into a family unit again.
I'm guessing the sex was pretty good, too.

>>686212401
Have sex with her one last time but record it and post it online.

Tits

>>686218388
OP here, this time it was one of those Freemason handshakes, all white and saggy.

>>686212401
Pay some niggers to go round and rape her.

>>686218723
Like he needs to pay them. Or ask.

>>686218951
Have you seen his wife? He's gonna have to pay.

>>686219069
Not for the fresh-off-the-boat Nigerian motherfuckers. They love white whales. Holy grails.

>>686212401
>>686214037
>>686213883
>>686214610
>>686214697
>>686216473
>>686218008
>>686218663
OP, you still here?
We still want nudes.

>>686218388
Sex was awesome. Mom got over it and super stoked for the family. I pay her a couple hundred bucks a month as payback that she is putting towards college fund.

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>>686219358
Thanks for sharing. Gives me hope.
Don't forget to hug your kids.

bad sex is better than none...divorce means paying a shitton of money for not having sex

>>686219319
Yes! Love me some chubby wife titties!

>>686217919
You miss the point. We can talk to your friends and our functioning human being acquaintances a million and one places. /b/ is the place you come for the crap advice. The impulsive solution. The dark inner thoughts. You only ask the question here if you already know the answer you want to hear. You forget the very point of /b/ old man.

>>686220255
WTF bad sex is way worse than no sex. Bad sex makes me feel dirty and disgusted with myself for giving into those animal urges with someone below me.

>>686212401

Show her this thread.

That should do the trick.

>>686221159
Kek, yep. All problems solved

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>>686212401
Wait, youre divorcing her because she gained weight?

Ummm you might want to have a long sit down with yourself and reevaluate you position. Seems like an extreme action for sil9mething so minor. Also she could lose weight if yoi helped her work at it possibly?, maybe not... i dontnknow her.

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>>686220824
you're a fucking moron.
any community is a composite of it's members. just because you get your sadistic jollies being an anonymous wingnut doesn't mean we all do.

piss off and find an animal torture thread or something.

>>686221159

Exactly

>>686215475
>she fucks the way people shake hands
Do you know what reading is?