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when is it ok to cheat /b/?
i want experiences
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Never.
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>>686140041
This
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Never dum dum, but if that pic is literally related, just do it faggot.
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>>686140041
This
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>>686139931
When you know 100% she'll never find out. If you care about her at all getting caught is a fucking terrible experience.
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>>686139931
Never, don't be a nigger. Don't make promises you can't keep. Have self control or don't get in committed relationships.
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>>686139931
Cheat at every opportunity.

You feel better about the relationship after its over when you cheated on that stupid whore.
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Never. Why do you want to cheat OP? If its just to get some ass be honest and leave her. Better off being single and getting some than being the faggot who holds on to a girl just cause he dosent want to be alone.
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>>686140658
This. You are a sad motherfucker OP
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>>686140041
>>686140130
>>686140215
The way I see it, either you fuck another girl or she fucks another guy, when I cheated my relationship actually worked
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>>686140344
Fucking kek this
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And if you wouldn't want her to cheat then fuck off and go fap or some shit. Or better yet, go make love to your girl, like, wtf.
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>>686139931
When yr playing words with friends against a stranger and you have an x or q
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>>686141135
>faggot that plays words with friends implying that he gets laid
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It's okay to cheat as long as the other person does not find out
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>>686139931
POST MORE OP!
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>686140041
/thread
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>>686139931
if you can live with yourself doing it and your partner won't find out.
Also if they've already cheated on you.
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It's not cheating unless you are married and even then we are like the only fucking species in the world that practices monogamy I mean what the the actual fuck. There are a gajillion women out there to stick your cock in so until you are legally bound to give one half your shit if she leaves you, who gives a shit if you get caught? Unless she has a lot of incriminating photos and texts of you but you don't of her. Then don't get caught. Bitches will try to ruin your life over the dumbest of shit. Saw an article today that a firefighter resigned after he sent a gal he was talking to a dick pic in uniform and she posted it on the fire departments facebook. Sje probably asked for the pic amd the guy will probably kill himself now. At the least will not find work in the field easily again.
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>>686141870
thats all i got at the moment
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>>686139931
U made my nigger detection device beep. Asking questions like that
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>>686142201
then get more, faggot
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If the side chick it's sexier than gf then yeah but be sure she won't find out
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>>686139931
dont cheat
>find a good bs reason to break up with your girl for a week
>fuck who you want
>get back together and apologize

worked 2/3 of the time everytime
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>>686142092
wrong
a lot of other mammals does this
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cheated on my GF three times when I was at uni. She found out about the 1st one and had major trust issues since and relationship hasn't been the same. Never worth it if you really care about your gf. Also tried the whole hall pass thing but every time i got anywhere close i felt guilty as fuck and couldn't do anything.
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Only when you are out of town.
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>>686139931
Don't. Ask about an open relationship?
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>>686140778
Maybe you are both just shitty people that deserve to cheat and be cheated on.
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>>686140294
If you care about her at all, you wouldn't cheat. Betrayal is a terrible thing to experience.
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When you don't get caught. Monogamy is a lie society tells itself.
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>>686139931
When she's got an ass like that
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>>686142782
So you only feel guilty when she knows about it?
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>>686139931
When you're young and not married. Fucking live while you're at it. Get married when you're ready and then don't cheat
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>>686142092
A lot of animals are monogamous fucktard. Educate yourself
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>>686142092
There are several species of animals that mate for life, lemmings and penguins being some examples. And not being monogamous is fine, but entering into a committed relationship then betraying the trust of your partner and breaking the commitment to them is still a shitty thing to do. If you want to be free t spread your seed, either get 38th someone that's also polyamorous, or just don't enter into a romantic relationship with someone.
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>>686140658
This

>>686142092
>we are like the only fucking species in the world that practices monogamy

We are also the only species in world capable of speech, I mean what the actual fuck. Why do we even wear pants? Lets just play with our own shit like the rest of the animals do.

What is the point of you
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>>686143620
we had only just started dating when i cheated on her, like less than 2 weeks so there wasn't that huge attachment. WHen she found out it was much later and she basically said go fuck whoever you want idc. I had been feeling guilty about it anyway.
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>>686142540
So you break a girls heart just to fuck another chick? That's even worse.
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>>686139931
People only cheat when they r trying to get attention or are angry at their partner op true love has no secrets and no fluff or boundaries that people put up and if u really love ur girl and want to keep her ull be faithful to her op
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>>686139931
When you are shopping around before leaving your current partner
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It's never "ok". That doesn't mean you shouldn't do it.
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>>686139931
when you don't like your girlfriend to begin with
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Everyone talking about monogamy being a lie doesn't realize that the cheating isn't about you fucking other people (for the most part) it's about you betraying the trust of the person you entered into a committed relationship with. If you want to fuck around and sip with a bunch of people, do it. No one cares. But if you're doing it secretly, if you're betraying your partner simply because you feel like it, you're just proving that you don't truly care about your partner, and you're just using them. There's never a reason to cheat, just be a fucking man and leave if you don't want to stay faithful. All cheaters are beta's, and I have no respect for them.
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>>686139931
Little beta ducks she will cheat on you eventually
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>>686140294
>When you know 100% she'll never find out.
>>686143274
>If you care about her at all,

Never mind her, what about you?
Your relationship with YOU is the most important thing in your life.
It's based on trust and respect.
You'll lose both if you cheat.
If she leaves you, that's bad, but you can never get away from YOU.
Do the right thing FOR YOUR OWN SAKE, faggots.
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>>686144588
Sounds like you got cheated on, anon. You have my pity.
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I cheated on my boyfriend loads of times. I love him more than i have ever loved anybody. Lust and love are two different things. Unfortunately my boyfriend wasn't lucky in the cock department. He's still the one i want to cuddle with. Haven't done it in a while as well since the pregnancy scare. If you do it right, with someone you have no emotional attachment too, its just like masterbating.
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>>686144742
You're right, of course, but I was responding to the other anon with his own phrasing.
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>>686144583
Bitch ass nigga I fake relate to get pussy listen I'm the type of that that you would catch your gf fucking lmaoooo
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>>686139931

First off: don't. Do everything you can to avoid that becoming an ok thing in your brain. Talk shit out, tell her how you feel, etc. And if you're not married, then always ALWAYS end it before you cheat.

I'm married with kids. Marital sex for me is scheduled, no shit. If i'm lucky, I get it twice a month. Have talked about it at length - her libido is virtually non-existent, esp when compared to mine. Tried to get her more interested, experiment, sexy lingerie, roleplay, everything. Nothing works/has worked. I'm not fat or ugly, neither is she. She just doesn't want sex anymore - at least not with me; always possible she's dipping another wick, but life+schedule makes that very very unlikely.

So now I occasionally get secret service from AMP girls. Straightforward, no drama, and takes care of clearing the pipes (jerking it to pr0n can really really mess your sex drive up over time). It can be a bit expensive, but what options do I really have - since, at least for now, we clearly have a massive libido mismatch of comedic proportions.

Is cheating ok? No. Will it happen in the Real World? Unfortunately, yeah.
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My wife probably hasn't cheated on me (yet), but she's clearly shopping around for a boyfriend.
She swears she won't have sex with anybody unless I leave her.
I'm pretty sure this counts as cheating (more or less).
Thoughts?
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>>686139931

Cheat all the time, all the every. Why does it matter if you're cheating. Just make sure you're the one doing the cheating, because if it ever turns around on you, you'll be made in to less than you are, and no one should ever suffer like that.
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>>686145168
>I was responding to the other anon with his own phrasing.
I wasn't really responding to you in particular, just using your post as a means of framing my own opinion.
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>>686145073
You're still not realizing that the sex isn't the worst part of the cheating. It's the betrayal. If he knows and is fine with it, ok, good for you two I'm glad you"r for it figured out. But if he doesn't know about it, I guarantee it won't be pretty when he finds out. And if he does, I hope he leaves you. Sounds like you deserve it.
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>>686140041
This. Whore
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>>686142540
Ive seen this happen. Dont do it its fucked up
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>>686145217
Eh, I don't enter into relationships anymore. Man, woman, doesn't matter, none of you are worth it. But just know that you're scum, and you'll get yours. ED, aids or herpes, getting curbstombed in an ally because you messed with the wrong guy's bitch, however it happens, just know that it will happen, and you'll have earned every bit of it.
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>>686145263
>Swears she wont have sex with anybody unless I leave her.
>Pretty sure this counts as cheating


Urm...
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>>686145073

It's not like masturbating you stupid cunt, sex isn't about size, if you love him, the sex can get better, tell him what turns you on, what position you like the most, how you want him inside you, stop this fucking cock shaming bullshit you slut, i hope you get aids you fucking whore. Fuck. I probably baited in to that a whole lot harder than i should have.
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>>686145399
Ah ok, cool. No misunderstandings, no problems. Happy posting, anon.
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>>686142092
Careful not to cut yourself on the edge faglord. Your facts are wrong and your points are fucking stupid. If you don't want to be monogamous then fine, don't get in a relationship and cheat. No one is stopping you. But don't wreck someone emotionally and destroy their trust just cause your a horny 16 year pubescent trap who only thinks with their dick and can't process higher thinking.
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>>686145073
>just like masturbating


This dumb fucking whore.


You don't risk pregnancy by fucking yourself.

I hope you get AIDS and die.
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>>686139931
to cheat? never
to sleep with other women? that is the biologically correct thing to do.

Don't let a sheer veneer of civilization stand in the way of getting your genetic material to survive
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>>686145834
>>686145399

This seems too amicable: You are both fags, fuck you.
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>>686145761
>Urm...
"Urm" what?

Clearly you're so in love with your opinion you think it doesn't need to be expressed.
You are completely wrong.
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turquoise stripped pantsus

some anime lvl sht panties man..
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>>686144583
>the person you entered into a committed relationship with

Because that's the only kind of relationship, right?
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when you can hit this sooo hard, alllll night.
She sucks like a goddess!
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>>686139931
well once she's broken the monogomy contract its no longer cheating.

so she cheats first and then what ur doing is just pologomy, shes already lost
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>>686145073
Karma...
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Honestly, I've been on every possible side of that conflict. I've cheated on others, I've been cheated on, I've been the guy the girl cheated with. My parents cheated on each other. Most of the relationships of my friends have had elements of cheating. On an ideal level, in an ideal world, I realize that it's wrong. But in reality...I'm just numb to it at this point. I expect everyone to do it sooner or later, and I'm rarely disappointed.
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>>686145959

The two statements were contradictory, sorry I thought that was obvious.
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>>686145944
Implying everyone on /b/ needs to have a short fuse? No point creating needless drama when you can go find it in another thread.
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>>686146106
I was just applying 4chan balance back into the conversation. On a similar note, shut the fuck up cunt.
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>>686145073
bait you idiots
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>>686143950
Speaking is learned. You can't unlearn to find and want to fuck other attractive people. There are 7 billion people and you honestly believe you're going to find your doppelganger among the couple hundred thousand people within a few miles to hours drive of you? That's like saying I'm going to buy a lottery ticket and if I don't win I'll let someone tell me what to do the rest of my life or give half my shit I've worked for away.
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Don't cheat. Speaking from experience, here.

Shitty time, wife and I didn't get along, young child, stress, weight gain. I started to make more money, didn't make her happy. Met a gal at work that was fun. You know where the story goes from here.

Everything is better now. Everything is in the open, wife and I have never been happier. Weird, considering I cheated on her.

Don't be a pussy. If you're happy in a relationship, generally you don't cheat, so speak up about your unhappiness and work it out for better or worse on the relationship.
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Dont do it op, unless youre going tp break up and you dont really care about the chick anymore... But even then, its a shity thing to do.
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>>686146004
moar
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>>686139931
Well my story is like this
>Announce my love to a girl
>love occurs
>i cheat her in a drunken frenzy
>never tell
>she cheats me and tells
>i say that i don't really care if she still loves me
>she cheats again
>i ask if she still loves me and she says yes
>this gives me no rage or anything like that
>i go to serve in the army
>we have never met again after i started my service.
>i have no bad feeling or care at all
Point is what is the idea in getting angry for someone cheating? we are humans and we act like animals and i know that really well. Getting angry for sex is really pointless in my opinion.
Just think about it.
We are humans and we act like humans... so we can think like humans instead of killing people because of jealousy.
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>>686146276
Honestly surprised i caught so many considering how baked i am kek.
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>>686141355
Really fucker? I play word and get bitches OFF that game. Need pic? Stand by fuck face nigger living in moms basement that cant pull ass off a damn game! Stand by!
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>>686145988
No, it's not. But that's why I specified. If you enter into a relationship, then healthily you should be discussing the parameters and whatnot of said relationship, so you know what is and isn't ok, and in most commited, monogamous relationships, sleeping with or doing sexual things with a different person without the others consent is a betrayal. Of you don't want to be confined to one person, do not enter into a monogamous relationship with them. Or talk it out with them, you could find something that could work. Communication is key, though.
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>>686145226
hey anon, just posting to tell you you are not alone.

Same situation here, though I do not bang escorts, I developed an addiciton to competitive sports to compensate the lack of sex, still sucks.

Worst thing is turning down the opportunities for affairs.

But rest assured, it is virtually impossible for my wife to cheat on me schedule-wise, she would have to go to ridiculous lenghts to hide that.

She does not even masturbate any more. 0 sexdrive, frustrating as hell, have thought about leaving here because of it several times, but the kids....
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only cucks dont cheat
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>>686146229
Hey you don't tell me to shut the fuck up, I tell YOU to shut the fuck up!
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>>686146094
>The two statements were contradictory, sorry I thought that was obvious.
Google "emotional affair".
Cheating is about betrayal, not just rubbing pee-pees together.
If it were obvious, I wouldn't be asking for opinions.
You'll understand once you're old enough to have a girlfriend.
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>>686146679
>cuck
but in all reality, just because you dont think people should be upset when they are betrayed doesnt mean no one should be.
If it didnt upset you that she betrayed your trust, you never cared about the relationship
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>>686145988
Blocked name. Not fucking up my pussy!
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>>686147095
Only beta's cheat.
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How can anyone have desire to cheat when every single day you can find a new way to please your partner, and you get to spend LITERAL years getting better at it? Treat someone right long enough to discover them.
My husband and I had very uncomfortable sex for the first time when I was 17. Because of his immense patience and understanding, I have learned to be a lover who pleases my husband well. He has taken the time to teach me to be okay with letting him please me. That part was not easy. Now that we have been married for a few years and continue to learn from one another and feed off of each other's idea's, I can honestly say sex is amazing! Because I have a man who knew what he wanted and was able to teach me, and because I am alway's willing to learn more from someone who has been such a phenomenal teacher, and a magnificent lover. Now he says I make the best blow job ever and can be bent over and mercilessly ravaged. If that is his desire. I can also ride him like lightning, or make him cum with barely a touch. You kids need to learn how to improve on something instead of just assuming that it just has to be the way it was the first time, forever. Be willing to teach and be taught! Cheating won't be needed.
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>>686146094
They're obviously NOT contradictory.
Inconsistent at best...and they aren't.
RIP abused lotr meme
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>>686147353
this
if you cheat you want someone but you are too afraid to leave your partner in fear of being alone.
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>>686139931
Being cheated on hurts like hell. I would never want to do that to another person, whether they ever found out or not.

You're on /b/ questioning the ethics of it though, so you're probably emotionally retarded.
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>>686139931
I actually cheated on my Ex for about threeish days.
i had met someone else and was trying to figure out how to break up with her.
she was one of those very needy and clingy girls of whom i was the only thing that made her happy.
But i wasn't, least i didn't realize it till i met my current GF
if you guys get caught up in this as well lemme tell you; don't treat her the same but push away. it makes things worse
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>>686147142
>emotional affair

What are you, a woman? Do you honestly believe you can get your girlfriend to go through her life without ever forming an emotional attachment to another man? Sure, there's obviously something wrong in your relationship, but what she's doing isn't actually cheating.
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>>686142661
All of these animal cheat on each other. Check your research faggot.
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>>686147336
whoa there partner,
your phone is going to die.
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>>686146994
Yeah, there's tons of us :( And yeah, the kids. Lots of sad all around. But we don't get to bitch about it, or get any support for it because for whatever reasons, modern society doesn't think these situations are Real Problems. "Oh, he's a guy, he can yank it to all that dirty internet porn and be fine." kthxeatshit

/r/deadbedrooms was created for the situations that are *really* beyond hope, but they shoot me down because "you still have sex sometimes". Wtf.

Escorts and AMP girls aren't even that appealing - it's just you get to a point where you crave human contact. It's sad :(
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No gods, no masters.
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>>686147752
>trying to figure out how to break up with her
i.e too much of a pussy to go through with it
its not hard. trying to break up is pretty much like trying to kill yourself. You only fail to do it if you dont really want to
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Third paragraph. The only non cheating animal is a tapeworm.
http://www.m.webmd.com/a-to-z-guides/features/why-we-cheat-infidelity
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When sex becomes a resource you need to continuously bargain for.
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It's always ok to cheat. Men aren't mean to be with only one woman.
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>>686147475
How does he know it's best ever unless he's cheating? Sounds like you should leave him
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>>686139931
Hah, listen up kid, you do whatever you want.

I've cheated on every single one of my girlfriends, know why? I find a better bitch to fuck. When they find out i hold my hands up and move on along to the next cum slut.

If you're under 25 and not doing this, you're basically a cuck. Hell, even under 30. These are your prime years, tight bodies, dirty energetic sex. Don't get so fucking attached, unless you're an emotional lonely beta boy.
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>>686140041
What if she cheated first? I'd totally try to fuck her friends as payback, and her friends are gross.
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>>686146701
it wasn't the worst bait and this is /b after all ;)
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>>686148028
actually i wanted to, and did, she was a very delicate flower who RELIED ON ME. i was later told this was an abusive relationship. i wanted her to know it wasn't anything she did or didn't do.
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>>686148360

You're missing the point of a relationship then. If you just wanna get your dick wet, then fuck whoever you can. But a relationship is a lot more then just sex. You're a stupid twat if you stay in a relationship just for sex.
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>>686148200
>These feels
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>>686140658
>>686140338
>>686140174
>>686140041
>>686142092
Every faggot who says never is a fat lonely virgin who would never cheat on their gf because
A) they'll never find someone else to cheat with
B) just getting a girly will make them loyal like a dog
>pic similar to rant
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>>686140344
These dubs don't lie
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>>686148648
so she was a delicate flower and you cheated on her?
did you perhaps ever think,
>hmmmmm maybe cheating on her is just as bad as breaking up with her if not worse.
if you actually cared about her, you wouldve waited until after you broke up with her
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>>686148322

Hahaha While I was very new to the concept of pleasure, he was not. He has been with many woman before me. This is okay too. Look who got the benefit of him knowing which end was up? Well I suppose both of us.
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>>686147475
Shut the fuck up and show your cow tits
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>>686148789
Im going through this right now. I have to fuckin negotiate with my girlfriend to have sex. When she does "agree", its always her stalling until I eventually say "fuck it" and give up. And when she does get horny "very rarely", she tries to have sex at like 5 in the morning, but by then im exhausted and in deep sleep. Im tired if this shit.
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>>686147227
i did care but what is the point of getting angry over nothing?
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>>686149050
ok, maybe some clarification is needed here, my fault for leaving it out.
what i consider cheating doesn't mean necessarily sex. if that's just it then no i didn't cheat on her at all. but cheating in this context was planning on being in a relationship with someone literally the exact second i had broken it off with her.
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>>686147863
>Do you honestly believe you can get your girlfriend to go through her life without ever forming an emotional attachment to another man?
That's hardly the same thing as "shopping around for a boyfriend".
It's bad enough when a woman seeks out a "friend zone" guy.
But this is a whole 'nother level.
We're not talking about a general "emotional attachment".
That could apply to her relationship with her son.
Instead, she's looking for the next "dick inside me" guy while our relationship is still ongoing.
retard
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>>686140130
/thread
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>>686148932
>strawman, the post
cheating is a matter of betrayal.
Would you mind if your gf cheated on you
if no, you are a cuck
if yes, you are a hypocrite
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>>686149278
of course she found out and now hates all men but whatever
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>>686149186
>angry over nothing
welp i guess you think she was nothing ehh
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>>686147475
>That was amazing honey! You even licked the balls this time!
>Well i had an amazing teacher ;^)
>So what did you do today while i was at work?
>Oh you know, cleaned the living room, did some organizing, made the kids beds, and oh yeah, i went on to 4chan
>Isn't that the hacker?
>Lol honey no, it's just where i go to get my daily dose of dank memes :^)
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>>686149488
owned by undeniable truth
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Yo, currently have a girl cheating on her bf with me. Just do it.
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When she's not the one but you're waiting for the right one to come along but what you got is hella chill but she's not cool with an open relationship
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NEVER !
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>>686149726
what if you were that bf tho
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There's no universal answer, and there's no consistent answer. Your values and priorities will change over time. Don't be tied down to one position or another.

I've cheated. Other relationships, I haven't. It all depends. But if you're asking the question, you know the answer. Don't look to others to rationalize what you want to do or not want to do. In the end, only one person has to live with your conscience.
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