>>686120537
I spank my gf all the time, go for it

I don't think you should ever hit a child. Two points:
- It is weaker than you (c'mon its a child... physically and intellectually)
- you don't win anything in general

>>686120955
>I don't think you should ever hit a child. Two points:
>- It is weaker than you (c'mon its a child... physically and intellectually)
>- you don't win anything in general
You win a kid who's a productive member of society instead of a bratty piece of shit

>>686121144
This. In the rare moments that your kid needs fucking smacked, you better fucking smack em.

>>686121144
Yes, but the catch is on not overdoing it. In my experience, giving them their age in spanks in a good amount.

>>686120537
spankings are necessary.
if you have to do it often
its not working

>>686120537
spank the little shits. the ones that don't get spanked grow up to be spoiled, entitled little shits.

>>686120537
Spank your daughter. But make sure you get pics while you're doing it, then post them here.

>>686120537
Since you're on b, you're probably way too stupid to manipulate or later reason with a child, so beating them is likely your only option.

But on the off chance, it's really this simple: if a kid is too young to reason with then they won't understand why they being hit, if they are old enough to reason with that's a superior option because the idea is to get them to self-discipline, not merely fake it around you.

Also they might teach you things while you debate.

Why did I even bother trying.

>>686120537
Im in the same sitch....i want to be able to give him a swat , she acts like its fucking child abuse.

>>686120537
smack the fuck out of your kids so they don't grow into shit heads, but don't smack them too much, because they'll still turn into shit heads. you need to find a balance.

>>686122264
This exactly
Depends how old the little shit is

Mostly fine for younger boys not so much girls. You have to get more creative with girls. Instead of spanking her try making her hold cans of any perishable food out with her hands. Like she's on a cross. My dad it it to us and we hardly fucked up after that. There's not violence in it so they can't hate you for it. She would be holding them straight out for at least 5 minutes. Try it yourself before you do on her.

>>686122063
http://www.parenting.com/news-break/50-years-research-shows-spanking-does-more-harm-good?socsrc=Parenting_TWITTER_20160428000000

There are other more effective ways to punish your kids. I know for me spanking just made me disrespect my parents more, but idk.

>>686120537
Use spanking for quick shit, like if she runs in front of truck. But for other shit, like shitting on the carpet, you take away something she likes.

>>686120537
pretend its your sister if daughter or brother if son. would you hit them in a likewise situation or scenario because of what they did?

ITT spoiled little shits that had parents too pussified to actually raise them right

>>686120537
Anyone can be an asshole and beat the fuck out of a small child. I'm more interested in using these opportunities to help my kids learn. I use reason, humor, and sometimes time-out or I take away something they want for a little while.

My parents were clueless assholes. I've resolved not to raise my children the way they did. So far it's going well. Failure to spank my kids has not made them act any worse than their peers. When they get older they won't suffer for it either. They'll learn that they are ultimately going to have to make their own choices as to what kind of person they want to be, that their dad always will love them, but the rest of the world will treat them like shit. That's about all you can do for a kid as a parent.

But at least don't be a fucking asshole who beats his kids and pretend you're "teaching them something." Because you are not.

>>686120537
Spanking is for woman. As a man if you can't shake your child with a stare then you're a failure.

>>686121144
DUBS DON'T LIE

>>686120537
>asks for help
>doesn't read the fucking science on it instead
nypa fucker

>>686120766
We were talking about children, anon.

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>>686123993
So was I.

>>686124111
MMM TRIPS

>>686120537
Spankingsvare OK but should be kadt resort. I leatnef a trick from my uncle. Works in most cases so saving spankings is easier.

>Put the kid in the corner. Start with 10-20 mins.
> Add time when they look back, complain, or talk if they aren't supposed to.
> no standing on tiptoe.
> its long boring and tireing

If you need to spank though don't overdo it and don't use something that will bruise. Avoid belts and shit like that. Hands work usually.

>>686124111
Kek

change the little fuckers diet its probably malnourished

hate begets hate
violence begets violence

eye for an eye
tooth for a tooth

u want allies or enemies?

>>686120537
Tell your kids what a spanking is, describe in detail how it is a tradition of many families and nobody is ever hurt or injured from getting spanked. Next time your kids do something bad, tell them what a spanking is.

There is success either way tho. A lady I knew who was 93 years old told me her dad never spanked her, but he also never fucked around. You could tell he meant business when he spoke.

put gloves in his hands and go 10 rounds that way its sports and not child abuse

>>686124111
topkek

>>686124111
Trips and top kek

>>686122264
This person has never parented. Ignore this

>>686122616
If you know how to determine a good study/article, you will realise this one is dubious at best. It doesnt say whatsoever the test done, the sample size, control groups etc. It just makes a claim. And is clearly biased and uses inane buzz words all over the place.
>citation needed

if he acts like a cunt take food off his plate at the dinner table

>>686120537
do it to teach your child things she needs to absolutely know. like if shes sticking a fork in a socket.
dont do it because she wet the bed or made a mess.

>>686125817
isnt me
>>686122616
honestly it would take A LOT for me to feel the need to spank my child
i do think its necessary
but only if theyre defiant

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beat the fuck out of everything. Smash windows break plates slam doors leave a mess scream at everything pace around slamming your head into walls piss and shit on the floor bleed everywhere. you know, the usual stuff.

I was spanked by my dad when I was a child and it kept me away from doing anything bad, but I did spend most of my early life hating him and mentally associating him with something bad.
So, it might teach your child a lesson, but risks your bond with them. In my experience, at least.

>>686120537
Spanking really doesn't deture children from acting out. It deturs them from getting caught. Talking too your children and their actions both when good and bad things are done nurtures a more healthy descion making process.

But more importantly why are you looking for parenting advice on /b/

I was never hit as a child but I was very frightened of my father because he would yell and was very scary so I think you only need to hit if you can't punish them with your voice

Science shows it just isn't effective. Lots of studies available on the subject. AS some anecdotal evidence, I got spanked all the time as a kid and it never deterred me when I really wanted to do something. I my parents would have been arrested is they beat me as hard as it would have took to deter me from doing certain things. The probably should have been anyways (a punch is different than spanking though) It's way more effective to just ground their ass, and take shit away. No internet for a week? Fuck me I may as well be dead.

>>686126516
make him rip a bong hit instead

that ll show the little bugger

>>686120537
Would only beat my child if he does something ridicolously stupid that could either get him killed or land him in jail.
Thats 2 cases where they need to understand that they absolutely can´t fucking do that shit and using that tool too often makes it less efficient.

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>>686120537
at best its unnecesarry, at worst it undermines your authority as a parent. you cant beat good character traits into your kids, unless you want a spineless little bitch for a child. effective parenting requires an understanding of power dynamics, the unique qualities of the relevant sex, and control over your own emotions. much of parenting is all about having the right leadership skills and applying them properly.

>>686121144
> i only know how to teach by fear and aversion

>>686124111
huehuehue

>>686126262
escalation
tit for tat
need to understand what they want.. and what you want... and where those wants intersect, emerge

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>>686120537
ive never been hit in my life but i can see that different people respond to different things

some people simply won't learn unless they get smacked into reality. sad but true.

i say you should start out with not hitting (stuff like grounding, reducing allowance, no food). then (after several weeks) move on to grabbing and shaking firmly if behaviour hasn't improved.

if the behaviour still hasn't improved, what choice is there left? obviously nothing else is getting through to this kid.

i mean seriously, some anti-spanking/smacking people don't seem to understand that some people do not respond to certain types of punishment. these are the people that tend to fuck up their children the most

>>686120537
It´s very, very bad. It´s extremely damn fucking bad. Educate yourself OP and educate yourself NOW. Once you start doing it the fact that you will deep down know that it is wrong, will prevent you from ever seeing the truth. Your only opportunity is now, stay clear of the dark path that leads to countless problems in the future. Never punish your kid for anything, never use force and always, always. FUCKING ALWAYS reward good behavior.

>>686127202
>some people simply won't learn unless they get smacked into reality. sad but true.
should check if they werent smacked out of reality firsthand

I was spanked a lot as a child, I turned outo just fine. It does good.

My mother had a wooden paddle hanging from the wall in the kitchen. When she got it she explained what it was for and to fully understand each of us got a whack with it. It hurt like hell.

She never used it on us. All she had to do is point to it, not even say a word and we got the message.

>>686127400
as you can see im saying that physical chastisement is to be used as a last resort (though before medication or any other super special methods)

>>686127573
it holds them back years, massive percentages

its a very archaic mindset to try and beat something back into shape after its been beaten out

better off trying to fold samurai steel

>>686120537
The scientific evidence is overwhelming that spanking and other forms of corporal punishment have a net negative effect on a child's development and mental health.

>>686127265
This is where faggots come from.

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>>686127265
>Never punish your kid for anything

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>>686127680
boy - bongs & boxing

girl https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_l9qhlHFXuM

Spanking doesn't do anything.

When I found my wife, she had a kid already with her. This kid is an utter fucking dipshit. She has trouble forming coherent sentences and is constantly fucking up simple tasks. She's 10.

I've also had a kid with her and it's not 3. This little shit is smart. She knows how to use counter-reasoning, knows how to get away with doing things she's not supposed to and is getting pretty good at lying. Kid will make a great criminal one day, makes me proud.

However, no matter what punishment I've thrown at the dipshit she unfortunately already had with her, nothing works or gets through to her. We've tried...

>Spanking
>Physical labor
>PT (Physical training)
>Timeouts
>1-2 hour long sessions where we talk through and try to fix her fucked up logic
>Etc

Literally nothing has worked. I think she's just a fucking idiot.

Don't assault your children, I was under the impression that that was common sense? People who were spanked, beaten and physically abused as kids always turn out shittier. Don't do it.

>>686127832
they learn from their environment, punish yourself

>>686127716
this

>>686127902
No, no, no...

Stupid people turn out shittier. Smart kids figure out what they're doing wrong to get punished and stop doing it.

Don't blame people being punished as to why they turn out to be dumb fucks.

>>686127978
> kid plays in the street
Don't worry environment will punish him
> car drives by and bumps junior all the way into the neighbours garden
See, I told you!

>>686127898
Is she retarded for real or just stupid?

>>686127841
it's a nice cartoon but i don't see the relevance?

ITT a shit load of anons that shouldn't have kids ever

ITT: What's wrong with America.

No wonder everything has to be politically correct, everyone's so god damn soft, everyone's turning into a trap or wanking to them.

America has gone so soft...

Fucking millennials are going to start birthing children any minute now and be raising them. What a scary thought.

>>686128127
Just stupid. We considered that she had a mental development disability and bought a bunch of bullshit psychology books. We've had her tested and somehow, it turns out she's just an idiot.

>>686127978
>they learn from their environment, punish yourself
society doesn't work like that anymore

>>686128117
you have autism but nice try retard

>>686126993
This, emotionally unintelligent faggots who have no clue about parenting tactics

Sometimes what starts as a simple spanking feels too good to stop. Next thing you know, it's a beating. Then a savage one. The screaming is so loud but a few more blows should silence it. Mmm.

>>686120537
Depends, spanking your kids for nothing is stupid but spoiled brats have to be spanked and bullied into submission.

>>686120537
are you from America / the 1800's ?

I Spank my girlfriend will doing it. Now if you try spanking your kid you will picture landwhales fucking and hitting each other.

>>686128046
Depends on what they are taught.
If all you get from your parents is not to do something, because you'll get punished for it, you'll like not end up a smart person, since you're being taught not to question things.
If they tell you why and try to explain the situation to you, the child will have more opportunity to learn and thus statistically will be smarter.

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>>686128139
>relevence
>girls

dunno same like the other shit teach them the artform, physical exercise/training, manual labor, get to help with jobs and tasks, always something new to teach

>>686122293
It is child abuse.

>>686128334
> not providing a source for your claims

>>686128218
theres more then 1 society

>>686127683
I wasn't held back at all, I am socially and mentally fine. I plan on spanking my kids when I decide to have kids. America has gone to soft to spanking, to politically correct.

>>686127832
If you think spanking and not punishing your child are the only two options that exist, then you probably aren't fit to raise children.

>>686128534
live in a better neighbourhood

legalise pot same class as alcohol and tobacco

If my kids act like spoiled shits i will spank them.
Otherwise i will go the route my parents did and let them figure things out for themselves, after a couple of cuts and bruises you find out what works and what doesnt.

>>686120537
Neglect is more effective than physical abuse.

If the child gets into a fight or something, just take it home, don't bother talking to it, and don't make food for it for a day or two. They shut up and real quick. This is generally what makes those quiet-polite-smart children.

Physical abuse generally leads to the shy kids with creepy, weird behavioral issues, like sucking their thumb in 8th grade and flinching when someone suddenly speaks up.

>>686128561
i have brain damage from all the repeat trauma - micro concussions from "parenting"

whats the matter faggot? cant live without your head chopped off?? ohh well you weak lolzzlkpz

>>686128676
How does that prove I have autim?

>>686124111
I'm cringing
>fedora pepe
>>trips
>>>ugh my head is imploding

>>686128561
Okay, you were spanked and you turned out fine. That's a sample size of one person. Not enough to come to any meaningful conclusion.

>>686120537
I'd spank my girls bum red and have a sniff of that that swole pussy while doing it

>>686128909
Muh ma always beat me wid a baseball bat and I'm the best persin in the world, smart too.

Billy, get back in here you little shit, you're gettin' the spike dildo again!

>>686128699
Yeah, i have some fucked up tics from getting my ass kicked in school when i was a kid.
I dont suck my thumb like a retard but i dont like people touching me and shit.

>>686120537
I was raised being spanked by my parents and caned at school and I have raised my 2 sons NOT spanking them.
Hitting kids teaches them that violence is a solution
It teaches them that you can use violence to get what you want from people that are smaller/ weaker than you
A parent tends to spank a child 'in anger', not when they are in control and this is not right.
My not-spanked boys are now 18 and 15.
The older one is going to study medicine at Uni and the 15 year old is a promising sportsman
Almost everyone that meets them from when they were small to this day has commented to me and my wife how well behaved and polite they are
We have had punishments but no hitting and long conversations and discussions about 'right and wrong' and 'consequences' etc with them since they were small and now they are exceptionally well equipped communicators.

spanking is definitely necessary, my eldest kid got spanked when she was a kid, never did her any harm, now she is A1 student and perfect child, my 2 little ones i have to spank occasionally

>>686120537
Depends. Respond to prove you want a real answer and I will give you one.

>>686128969
Who gives a shit? Fags like you will never have kids.

>>686128771
No, there is a difference between spanking and abuse, maybe if you weren't so stupid you could tell the difference.

>>686129369
>micro concussions

And gender dysphoria...right??

>>686129035
Yep. The worst case for neglect is you get some clingy piece of shit, or depression. Just stop neglecting them once their behavior is fixed (Or when they start highschool) and let them work the problems out themselves over a few years. Then they'll get good behavior without the problems of clinginess and all that BS, at the cost of nothing but awkward highschool memories. (Kids never hate their parents after they're adults, so they won't hate their childhood or anything).

>>686129473
What?

>>686129533
When people hear medical terms they don't know about, they think it's made up. Online, at least.

>>686125817

http://psycnet.apa.org/?&fa=main.doiLanding&doi=10.1037/fam0000191

160,000 is a fairly reasonable sample size. the website links the citation, requiring a single following of a hyperlink.

"Thirteen of 17 mean effect sizes were significantly different from zero and all indicated a link between spanking and increased risk for detrimental child outcomes. "

Abstract:
Whether spanking is helpful or harmful to children continues to be the source of considerable debate among both researchers and the public. This article addresses 2 persistent issues, namely whether effect sizes for spanking are distinct from those for physical abuse, and whether effect sizes for spanking are robust to study design differences. Meta-analyses focused specifically on spanking were conducted on a total of 111 unique effect sizes representing 160,927 children. Thirteen of 17 mean effect sizes were significantly different from zero and all indicated a link between spanking and increased risk for detrimental child outcomes. Effect sizes did not substantially differ between spanking and physical abuse or by study design characteristics. (PsycINFO Database Record (c) 2016 APA, all rights reserved)

>>686129631
If you are referring to
>>686129473
I'm well aware of those conditions.

>>686120537
Put the fear in them 1 or 2 spankings then threats should be enough.

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>>686121144
Fucking this.

Anyone who hits a kid is psychologically and developmentally fucked. Punish them as much as you need but hitting a child does nothing but fuck them up and scar them for life. You get stuck with a person like >>686121144 who is probably just violent and listens to country music and thinks violence is the answer to everything.

>>686120537
Don't do it bro!
Now a days if you spank a kid everyone calls it corporal punishment then your fuckin kid tells his teacher and somehow it turns into "daddy hits me all the time" and it's like "have fun in jail". Shit escalates fast and children are vengeance seeking.

>>686129152
Think about that you fucking retard. Your "little ones" you hit them. That is fucked dude. Anyone adult who needs to resort to hitting a kid is a failure as a parent. Your kid should respect you as a parent. Not as someone who will hit them. Fuckin weak ass pussy.

>>686126993
>>686127265
>>686127716
>>686127898
>>686128364
Spanking isn't the one-all-be-all but it's a tool in the toolbelt. A combination of positive reinforcement (rewarding good behavior) and sparingly using negative reinforcement (spanking) for the serious no-no's will get results and also creates a kid that understands there's always consequences (good or bad) for their behavior.
>tl;dr reward and spank so you don't end up with a faggot ass millennial type kid

>>686130524
Thank you! Finally someone who gets it.

>>686130212
I am totally a pacifist when it comes to war or fighting, yet I think that my mom and dad who gave me a few slaps now and then didn't turn out bad for me.
I know how it feels when someone stronger than you rages out and hits you, that's why I never wanted to hit someone or hurt physically cause it sux.
You shouldn't hit your children when they do bad at school or something stupid, but hit them when they come home and you find out they slapped someone or did something they don't want to feel by theirself,understand my point?

I know a few people who spank their kids, when I ask why, they usually say something like "my folks spanked me and I turned out fine!"

So yeah, people who spank their kids literally don't know any better.

>>686130696
I do understand your point but it still doesn't really make sense. You can't teach a kid that violence and physical harm is wrong by resorting to violence and physical harm.

>>686130613
Yeah, after having 3 kids it's as much about training yourself as it it's about training the kids. Having lots of my own dogs growing up helped

>>686130471
We will see who's kid turns out to not be a piece of shit. People learn through fear, kids and pets are no different.

ITT: " Hurr spankings are bad because I was spanked for being a little shit as a kid and didn't learn my lesson since I was so edgy and rebellious."

" My parents spanked me because they didn't like me not because I was a spoiled fuckwad, it's bad."

Holy shit, don't listen to these retards they aren't even adults let alone parents. Yes, spankings are good and necessary. Kids don't understand why they shouldn't do things, they have no concept of good and bad. A spanking gives them immediate feedback that what they did was bad because it hurt and they won't do it again because it hurts them. When they grow up and become adults they'll realize that their parents were raising them to not be a little piece of shit. Looks like some of the anons here never grew up though.

Also spanking does not kind of damage to the child. Your butt is the most tender slab of fatnon your body. Spanking doesn't even break the skin.

This generation is full of puss iesabel and now I see why.

>>686128453
Do you even grammar?

ITT: " Hurr spankings are bad because I was spanked for being a little shit as a kid and didn't learn my lesson since I was so edgy and rebellious."

" My parents spanked me because they didn't like me not because I was a spoiled fuckwad, it's bad."

Holy shit, don't listen to these retards they aren't even adults let alone parents. Yes, spankings are good and necessary. Kids don't understand why they shouldn't do things, they have no concept of good and bad. A spanking gives them immediate feedback that what they did was bad because it hurt and they won't do it again because it hurts them. When they grow up and become adults they'll realize that their parents were raising them to not be a little piece of shit. Looks like some of the anons here never grew up though.

Also spanking does not kind of damage to the child. Your butt is the most tender slab of fatnon your body. Spanking doesn't even break the skin.

This generation is full of pussies and now I see why. I see where this cancer is coming from. You faggots need to go back to tumblr.

>>686131072
I dunno man. Regardless of my parents reasons for spanking me as a child, all it really did was make me distrustful and resentful of anyone with authority.

>>686128508
Fuck you

you should be able to intimidate your child without hitting it

Violence is the last refuge of the incompetent. Also, while it may seem critical to guide behaviour at early age, it is far more important to create trust, and to position yourself to be sought for guidance when she turns 11, and starts deciding whether to fuck niggers.

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>>686120537
Don't spank em while you're angry, make them sit awhile before they get their discipline in order to ensure they know what they did wrong.

After the first two or three spankings most kids will just learn the "look" and stop acting up.

I've got two kids of my own and they are both good kids now.

>>686131307

Clearly someone failed to do so with you

>>686120537
spank your kid but don't beat the absolute shit out of them. There's a difference between abuse and punishing a kid for fucking up.

>>686131236

I got spanked when I did shit I wasn't supposed to do, I learned what I was allowed to do and not allowed to do. I do not mistrust authority nor do I look at my parents like I can't trust them.

>>686131353
>violence is the last refuge of the incompetent
Nigga that's my favorite quote.

>>686124111
this post is holy

>>686120537
I was hit as a child and grew up resenting my father. Assaulted him 3 times and still want to kill him. Hes not so tough when its the other way round

People who don't hit their ponies are the worst...

>>686128639
when the fuck was that implied nigga

>>686128553
heh heh, nope, you're just crazy...

>>686131193
>Kids don't understand why they shouldn't do things, they have no concept of good and bad.
Not sure if b8 or a fucking idiot / someone that's religious. Its people like you that are why those sand niggers in ISIS think its fine to decapitate, you ever think they were talked to as children and reasoned with?
>Why is the world so fucking stupid

>>686131236
>Regardless of my parents reasons for spanking me as a child, all it really did was make me distrustful and resentful of anyone with authority
>>686131072
>"didn't learn my lesson since I was so edgy and rebellious."

Good fucking lord, you can't make this shit up. Right on the money.

>>686131496

>>686122535
They can hate you. They dont need a reason.

My nanny used to spank me, and I turned out fine and not a spoiled brat.
On the other hand I'm a raging hard drug addict whose life is spinning into ultimate self destruction, so.......

>>686120537
Never spank a child when you are angry, that way you don't abuse the kid by either hitting them too hard or too much. Other than that like a light tap, just enough so they can feel it is enough, increasing slightly with repeated offenses but never becoming a full smack.

>>686126993

>I don't know how to teach at all

>>686128553
most societies are not a village of below 100 people anymore, people don't give two shits about teaching other people's kids anything these days because if they interact with them they are a pedophile and will be castrated

If you say "America has gone soft" I'm gonna assume you're retarded.

>>686129711
faggots. too bad, could have been a sexy video.

>>686129711

It's just not the same without the screams

>>686131586
Another kid that thinks spanking = killing and beating a child to death.

No, YOU are what's wrong with this world. Go back to tumblr you are cancer.

>>686131496
What I learned when my parents hit me is that people in power hurt you when you displease them. I trust my parents today as much as anyone. But the lessons they taught me with violence haven't faded, nor has the memory of how it felt to be struck by my father. It's easy to strike a child. It's also cowardly, because they are incapable of hitting back. Violence did not inspire me to be better behaved, it just taught me the price of being Caught.

Spanking is a decent way to teach your kid that authority is not on his side and will, at the slightest provocation, fuck his life over without warning. That's a great lesson to teach if he's going to be living in most places and isn't sitting on an 8-figure trust fund, but obv it requires that you be willing to alienate yourself somewhat as a parent.

Bottom line: Kids should know that the overclass fucks people up all the goddamn time. How you teach that is your choice.

>>686128508
Haha you're an idiot.

>>686120537
Hitting your kid teaches them to hit.

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>>686131743
of course, the real phrase is "americans have gone soft"

Unnecessary.

Being spanked growing up and spanking others always gave me boners. I tired avoid spanking
Anyone have that issue.

>>686131600
>edgy and rebellious
7 year olds aren't really "edgy" anon. Or traditionally rebellious.

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>have 12 yr old daughter
>raised her with corporall punishment since she was 5
>if she did something wrong I'd pull her ears, but when shed really fuck up I'd drag her to her room and tear her bottoms off and deliver some fierce ass whoopings, used to work like a charm and keep her in line for weeks
>recently though the last 3 yrs I've been having to discipline her like crazy but no matter if I use the belt or hand a d spank her till her ass is red as the sun she will still cause troubles
>mfw she punched her brother in the back of the head and then waited in her room with her pants off for me
>mfw I'm not sure I'd if spankings work for girls
>mfw I suck at parenting

>>686120537
As long as you don't get a boner from it, just spank the little shit

>>686131825
>No, YOU are what's wrong with this world. Go back to tumblr you are cancer.
Nigger im a sadist, but hey maybe you'll get lucky with a child like me i sincerely hope you do. Maybe if the world had more monsters there would be less people like you in it trying to argue that cause it worked on me and I don't know any different or better its a 1 size fits all solution.

>>686131615
that's because you're a privileged fuck who gets whatever you want...only rich fuckers have nannies raise their own kids for them.

>>686131973
>on /b/
>not erect when hitting a child
gb2reddit

>>686120537
Choose a different punishment. Sometimes spanking can lead to intense resentment like half the ppl responding to this thread. You want your daughter to be an angsty 4chan newfag? Just make her stand in the corner with her hands on her head for a period of time. It doesn't hurt them and teaches them to be fuckin patient and quiet. British au par used that on me. A lot more effective. It's like a slow death. She would leave me there for hours though.... I don't suggest that

>>686131372

This is truth. Waiting accomplishes two things. It lets you cool down and put whatever they did in perspective and at the same time it lets them think about what they did and anticipate the punishment.

Unless you're genuinely abusing your children spanking isn't that big a deal. The anticipation and fear of being spanked is where the real deterrent lays.

Waiting for a spanking is ten times worse than getting one. All these pussies in this thread crying about the children and how spanking is abuse sicken me. The only good thing about them is that they're going to get to raise a bunch of shits who are worse then them. I look forward to laughing at them while they try to control their kids in public.

Only shitty parents have to spank. If you lack the ability to get a child smaller than you with and underdeveloped brain to do what you want without force you've got to be retarded. My mother never spanked me she just reasoned with me. My stepmother spanks my half brother all the time and he's a delinquent. Gets suspended from elementary school and still pees his pants.

>>686131548

>the bullshit is strong with this one

Learn through fear, easy concept, been around for forever. Worked just fine for me, I have a great relationship with my parents, and they beat the fuck out of me.

>>686131548
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>>686131949
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>>686131193
>" Hurr spankings are bad because I was spanked for being a little shit as a kid and didn't learn my lesson since I was so edgy and rebellious."

Damn, this shit is true as fuck. You guys all fell right into it.

>>686126993
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What about punishments like taking away their favorite toy? Or if they spend more time socializing, send them to their room.

I used to work with kids. It seemed that the parents who hit their kids were the ones who could not figure out any other way to control. It really showed them to be unfit parents

>>686132040
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>>686132026
>monsters
>>686131193
>spankings are bad because I was spanked for being a little shit as a kid and didn't learn my lesson since I was so edgy and rebellious."

>>686132030
My parents were DEPORTED from the country. They had to have someone watch their kids, sure we coulda gone to foster care, but being a privileged fuck, they chose a nanny..... Jeez fuckin crucify me

When you tell a child not to touch something, and they touch it while looking at you...you beat their ass raw OP. When a child does wrong because they are confused about right, wrong, popular, what feels good, etc..you sit down and offer support and explanation.

The reason people say hurr durr my parents did it is because they aren't going to take the time to explain themselves to people who can't mind their own fucking business.

CPS KNOWS which children need attention practically before they're born. Nearly all the rest of you are just salty and have terrible children/prodigious vendettas.

>>686132030
Or people who have got divorced/dead crack addict parents. just saying