>>686022294

lol. you got married too soon. you fucked up son.

also buying a ring for 4.4k. Youre fucking retarded. You deserve it

You're still a child. Why the fuck did you get married?

>>686022294
This was total randomness. Just solid out of the blue. Never hinted at being unhappy she just texted me at work and asked what I was thinking because we had a fight and I I said nothing irrational and I said you're not are you
>idk what to say
One fight shouldn't ruin our marriage
>this isn't just about one day.
I poured out my soul to her told her I'd quit drinking and be a better man.
I have been stressed we moved across the country 2 months ago.

>>686022294
What does your wife do for a living?
Also, tits

>>686022526
Because love also military.
>>686022494
Thanks guy.

>>686022294
your wife is cheating, and wants the other guy

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>>686022705
Nursing school
Pic unrelated of course

>>686022866
She isn't. But I've obviously thought of that

>Getting married at 20

Ya dun goofed

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>>686022866
Confirmed. I'm the other guy.

>>686023033
We were literally best friends dude. And have been this whole time up until today like what the fuck it was so out of the blue.

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3QmIX1Ye3Bo

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>marriage

>>686022711
Damn, at least she stuck with it for 6 months after stealing your benefits

Well I have said it before and I'll say it again. If I do lose this woman I will 100% an hero.
Give me some sites to post it

>>686023516
Dude I love being married. She's my bestie and we've had the best times together.
Just because you're gross and can't even get laid doesn't mean marriage is a joke

>>686023190
It was a fight, you guys are young and both of you are blowing it out of proportion. This is a typical young adult response. It will be fine...... For now, u did get married way to young so the chances of this working out long term are slim

>>686023590
first thing I learned from my CO, immediatly when you leave for deployment sepperate your girlfriends account from your own. keep all your shit and her shit separate, don't name her on a single damn thing you sign. You went and gave her all your shit for life son. Legit hope you don't get cucked op

10 bucks that she's fucking another dude

>>686022294
>I'm twenty
>Got married six months ago

You fucking retard. You got married WAAAYYYY too young.

>>686023975
Make that 20.

One thing I've always heard in believed is that you should never move in with your best friend. Making a best friend or roommate will ruin the friendship.

Same thing for marrying a best friend.

You fucked up OP - You are now going to lose your best friend in a very very very expensive way

>>686022914
Hmm yeah she's fucking someone

>>686023742
Dude, you have no fucking clue what you're talking about. You're still a child. We've delayed maturity in this country for about ten years. That means you have the mental capacity of a 10 year old. I'm 38, skinny/fit, and get ass from girls in their 20's. Being married is fucking stupid, and you'll remember this when she leaves you and takes half your shit.

That's cuz your wife wants to cuck you

>>686022294
Divorce her now delete her number before you get roped down with Tyrones kid.

Rolling that OP should become his wife cuck.

>>686022294
I dunno if i'll ever get married
Im 25 and im probably too immature/bad with money for a marriage

>>686023869
Idk I hope you're right anon she's never seemed so low hearted to me. I know this woman front to back.
>>686023964
I think my attitude is fucking it up. I'm kind of a dick to her. I always have the mentality that she's always going to be there. Obviously the wrong approach.
The alcohol doesn't help- the relationship. It helps me tho.

>>686022711
Well at least bad things are happening to a retarded babykiller.

>>686024639
Not going to happen
>>686024609
She's more racist than I am.
>>686024340
She literally isn't
>>686024691
I'm excellent with money. She knows this. It's not about money or maturity I think she's just realizing we fucked up by getting married even tho I don't feel that way.

>>686022294
you either grow together or you grow apart.
if it's not over (and that means both of you need to want it to work) then you must:
actively look for fun and exiting things to do together --it's okay if one of you likes whatever you're doing more, just make sure over all it's balanced
no insults, no name-calling, deliberately hurtful actions or words are right out -- if she hates being called cute -- you don't ever call her cute, even to get a reaction.

simple, but not easy.
I got married at 20, in 2 months it will be our 20th anniversary. I know what I'm talking about

>>686022294
>>tfw her ring cost me $4,400.
There was your first clue something was amiss unless you have money to burn.
If she's not willing to try let her go before you do get children involved only to have them missing a parent in the future due to divorce or worse.

>>686022294
Your wife wants another man's sex pee in her vagoo

>>686023190
bro it dosent matter, I've been with my bestfriend for over 5 years, im 21, proper highschool sweetheart stuff, but i wont be marrying her anytime soon. I might never. Why did you get married? whats the advantage

>>686022294
>20 years of age
>married
theire is where you went wrong

It's better that she did this now than for 5 years.

>>686025323
>theire is where you went wrong
Depends on the people.

>>686025470
Whats so good about it?

>>686025470
think about it, people who get divorsed are mostly maried + children b4 the age of 26

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>>686022914
>Nursing school
I'm not even trolling bro. More than likely she has another lined up that knows he is next or is already fucking him
Military wives are the worst bro 99% sluts

>>686025114
I'm capping this
Thanks anon, honestly.
>>686025133
She picked it out
>I have money to burn
>>686025150
False, generic 4chin user
>>686025322
Cuz of the military and benefits and shit
>>686025323
Read damnit read

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This is either a bad troll or OP is one of t he most stupid mother fuckers on the planet. If this is a true story just kill yourself.

>twenty
>married
>$4400 on ring
>Military leeches
>Nursing school
>Serious doubt after on fight
>Discussing serious shit over text
>No confidence in self or marriage but wife is LITERALLY NOT CHEATING

Just die in a fire. You're a faggot.

>>686022294
She wants other dicks, ifnyou dont let her have them she will do it behind your back and probably have kids with the other guy (s) just wait till she mentiins an open relationship but soon as you touch anothwr woman she will break it off and take all your stuff

Open relationships are one sided, the woman wants all the sicks while you provide for her, you are her security and her provider but she will get her cunt wet elsewhere till shes bored of you and move on with the kids

P.S dont have kids go get yourself cut and keep the records so if she claims later the kid is yours tell her to fuck off

>>686023742
>She's my bestie
She is fucking another dude if she said she is unhappy more than likely
What's done is done now she probably feels bad and is trying to confess/end it.

>>686025718
What if I reversed it.
I'm actually a loan officer and she's in the military. I live in the city she lives on base.

>>686022294
You're having a dumb fight. You should just get over it and move on but since it's TWENTY SIX TEEN she'll probably cheat on you and dump you without feeling a shred of guilt or remorse and in fact will be continuously validated in her every destructive decision by a steady stream of authority figures, peers, and horny dudes with bigger dicks than yours.

I'm sorry. This isn't the world you made, but it's the one you live in.

>>686025759
So are you reaping the benefits? was it worth it? fuck that shit marry for love not money bro u fucked up

>>686022294

>I'm twenty
>Got married six months ago

Ayyyyy lmaoooooo
There's your problem, son

>>686025972

Instead of a 99% chance she is fucking someone better than you it's a 100% chance because LOL DUDE NURSE.

>>686025036
>She literally isn't
Like you know


You sound dumb

>>686022294

Married way too young. Probably cheated on you.

>>686022294

>We met 10 years ago
>Was about to marry
>$15 monthly incoming (nothing special too)
>GF told me she was tired of waiting
>Also told me she rather wait for another dude...
>Heart broken
>New happy life without a girl that doesn't love me

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>>686022294
Sorry to hear about this man, you sound like a good guy.

I had this happen to me. Was completely out of the blue too, 6 years of being together, completely happy, barely even a fight, literally about to propose to her in the next couple of weeks, then all of a sudden out of no where, its "I don't think I love you anymore and I have to leave". She was gone within days, never spoke to me again, got married and had a kid to an old rich guy within 2 years.

Crushed me, still not completely over it. Now I'm socially awkward, haven't been laid in 4 years, pretty much hate life. Each women I meet just disappoints me and reminds me of her in some way. Not sure if there's a truly mature women on this fucking planet.

Here's a few notes for you:
(Most) Bitches don't know what they want.
Life is hard.
A bitch who doesn't know what she wants will gravitate towards the easiest possible life she can get. Rich fags can do this for them. There so retarded they don't even understand that this behavior is whats causes them to fall in 'love' with people.


All I can really give you is advice I found myself after being in such a dark place for so long. Don't give in. Don't an hero. You weren't born on this world to please a fucking women. Fuck her. You were great before her, you can be great again. You just have to figure out what to live for, and DON'T let it be another women.

When you do find the next women, great.
Until then, put it at the back of your mind, move forward and try to make your life as awesome as possible. For you. You deserve it.

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>>686022711
>military
>>686022914
>wont show pic of wife

DEPENDAPOTAMUS

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>>686025036
>She's more racist than I am.

Guaranteed to be taking the nigger dick.

>>686026095
Dude the nigger benefits are not that great.
I married this twat cuz she was going to basic then moving across the country.
>I want you to go but I don't want to make you
I said I won't go unless we get married
>ring
>marriage
>boot
>move
Here we are 7 weeks later and she is acting distant.
However she lives with women only and I pay my bills she pays hers.
Maybe she's sad because we don't hang out
Maybe she her nigger friend at the female base are in her head
Idk wtf
Was looking for person experience
Fuck me

>>686026439
LOL sorry... I ment $150 monthly

>>686025972
She's probably fucking Captain America, or (if she's what passes for an honorable woman) wants to.

>>686022914
You moved and now she's in nursing school. There is someone there that she wants to fuck. Nobody around knows her so it wouldn't matter if she just gets rid of you now that you served your purpose in getting her this far. Her idea was always to dump you for a doctor anyway.

>>686025972
Girls in the military get down more shafts than an elevator repair man

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>>686025972
Glad you asked bro.
I'm in the military and I can honestly say. Every chick I met on base is a secret slut.that's pretty common knowledge from what I know.

My Co and I have fucked the same sluts

>>686026322
Dubs of truth

>>686022294
>I'm twenty
>Got married six months ago
All I need to read. If this is true, you are a huge tool and your Father did not raise you right.

>>686026459
>Don't give in. Don't an hero. You weren't born on this world to please a fucking women. Fuck her. You were great before her, you can be great again.


Thanks anon. This heart ruin will make good for writing this record.

>>686026549
>>686026439
Hahahaha damn........

I ment... $1,500/Month!!!

Damn... I hate money translation from other countries

>>686026955
Is that how much you spent on crack?

>>686026525
Dosent sound like u love her, u fucked it man

>>686025114
>>686025759 --I hope it helps
If ya'll read the non-BS marriage consoling books, or go to a real therapist -- it all boils down to people fuckup by thinking marriage doesn't need maintenance.
It needs just as much as dating they keep you interest, you keep theirs
another way of looking at it, is dating is a Mcjob, easy come easy go, doesn't pay well. comparatively, marriage is a career -- awesome rewards, benefits -- but you can still be fired if you fuck-off too much

good luck OP, I hope you are able to share advice 20 years from now.

>>686027087
I probably did. i probably fucking did.

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>>686026525
>nigger benefits
>>686026525
>nigger friend
Okay bro call us niggers
Bet you gonna invent new word when you find out she taking black cock daily while you stare out the window in the rain! Lololololo

>>686026525
>Nigger friend

>>686025036
>Racist

Sounds like your army slut is bipolar

>>686027195
Dude this makes so much fucking sense

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>>686022294
AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

that's what you get for marrying at 20 faggot

>>686027294
thats actually pretty funny, decent post, not good but close

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>>686022294
I got married at 20. High school gf since 16. No college pregnant gf. Worst possible situation. I'm now 32, still married, 4 kids, college degree (took me like 6 years tho cuz kids, work etc) wife finishing degree this year. Great job and awesome kids and amazing marriage. No joke, I'm happier now than ever in all my twenties. There's hope anon. You get what you put in and if you keep things from each other, you're doomed already. Communication openess and honesty are the essentials

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>>686025036
>She's more racist than I am
She knows how to twerk for a reason and the reason ain't you!

>>686023516
>Marri egg e

>>686027651
wat does that bitch look like after 4 fucking kids?

>>686027833
Doesn't matter

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>>686027294
>Bet you gonna invent new word when you find out she taking black cock daily while you stare out the window in the rain! Lololololo
Hahaha I spit my water out. So true, racist are super insecure.

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>>686025322
she probably pressured him into it, and now she's getting alimony and OP is getting rekt.

Faggot shouldn't have married at 20.

Listen up teenagers (yes, I know you're here) Don't marry before 25.

>>686022294

>spent 4,400 on jewelry, for someone else no less

stopped reading there, dumbass

>>686027918
The fuck it doesn't

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>>686022294
Leave before it's too late.

>>686025470
No, 20-year olds aren't full adults yet (brains keep developing until ~25-27).

Marriage is for adults

>>686028013
Not to me. I'm not that concerned. She looks amazing after 4 kids tho.

>>686027294
Right! I'm the nigger and his bitch ass online trying to figure how much pipe his bitch taking on base. I also hear army girls are hoes.

>>686028191
You sound like a good dude man respect

>>686022294
Military = low IQ

You're fucked for life either way.

>>686025759
If you have money to burn, there's no need for military benefits.

You're an idiot, and now you have to reap what you sow. Have fun divorcing twice again before you're 30.

>>686027918
truth -- after 20 years, it doesn't matter what she looks like, baby has PhD's in what rings my bells, and I can make her nearly come from across the room -- experience counts

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>>686028191
>She looks amazing after 4 kids tho.
Cuck confirmed

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>>686025826
seconded.
Be an hero anon

>>686022711
u got married to get out of the barracks. she got married for that COLA.. and tricare, and ur PL

>>686028517
Exactly. I fuckin love it. You hit a certain point when you dont get turned on by looks but by skills and the willingness to please.

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>>686028517
>can make her nearly come from across the room -- experience counts
Aren't you the guy staring out the window in the rain while your wife drops more balls then kobe?

>>686028581
How is that a cuck thing?

>>686028936
It isn't
We're on /b
98% of this shit is just trying to pull strings.

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>>686028868
>dont get turned on by looks
No shit the bitch had 4 kids. That shits out of there!

>>686022294
youre 20 you fucking idiot who the fuck gets married at 20 anymore its not like you need a dozen kids to help you plow the fields anymore.

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>>686027195
He'll be able to share one advice: don't fucking marry at 20

>>686022294
>married before 25
>two months salary for the ring

You done fucked up son.
You have my sympathy.

>>686022711
is your name jonah?

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>>686023602
>an hero

Do it faggot, but do it on the base, at least you'll make the news then.

>>686028872
I'm guy who's wife brings home hot bi-chicks for us to play with -- she knows what I'm about

>>686029110
That's what i thought. I figured impregnating a chick 4 times was pretty anti cuck.

>>686022294
Don't an hero you lowly swine. Rob a bank with me. You are the kind of sorry ass nothing to lose type of guy I need in my crew. The wildcard if you will.

>>686029752
Willing to bet your life she doesn't feel entitled to get dick on the side? With or without your say?

>>686029638
If it is, you fucked up in marrying that girl man, she's a brain dead loser and even her best friend knew that before she moved anyway.
She got kicked out of the military because she was a whiny bitch, no one wants her, why should you?
Shes literally a dumb whore who can't make up her mind, and you should've never left.

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>>686028402
>Military = low IQ

That's not necessarily true, depends on what branch/rank..

OP is definitely an idiot tho

>>686022294
It doesn't get any better. Spilt now before you knock her up.

>>686022914
is your wife named Ciara?

>>686022294
bartek?

>>686030788
No she isn't a nigger
>>686030694
I want to knock her up, eventually.
If shit gets better

>>686030293
I've already bet 20 years of it.
if she wanted other dick, we'd go find a stunt cock for her.
I rock her world like no one else

>>686030975
No wtf who is named bartek and doesn't change that shit at 18

>>686031292
Faggot
Your woman us your trophy if she wants a different hunter let her.
Don't be a cuck

>>686025972
shes fucking someone else anon. If she hasn't, shes going to. Shes not going to stop either. Dude you're 20 years old. Single and 17 bucks an hour means you can have a pretty kick ass single life. It's nottoo late to live. I know you can't imagine life w/o her but trust me it will be fun

>>686031614
Dude I dated this girl one age 12 to age 18 had a 3 day break and together everyday since. She isn't fucking someone else

>>686031936
From age 12-18

>>686026503

lol

> get called to base apartment for domestic incident
> arrive at the door hear what i believe 2 men arguing in the place
> make contact
> sailor tells me him and his WIFE had been arguing
> THIS MASSIVE HAM PLANET EMERGES FROM THE SECOND FLOOR
> IT WAS THE WIFES VOICE which I thought was that of a grown man

WEW

>>686031365
same retard as op, having shitty sallary, and marrying at his twenties

>>686031133
>gas on the fire

>>686031535
sorry, I don't speak mongoloid appalachian.
what concept were you trying, and failing to communicate?

>>686026503
dependapotamus is real....

their natural habitat is the couch.

>>686032463
Don't let people fuck your woman anon
Duh

>>686031936
It's ok dude I wouldn't believe it either. Hell I didn't believe it when it happened to me. It took a lot before I accepted it. But most people end up getting their hearts broken at some time. I know you love her and you aren't going to believe that until you literally catch her and thats ok. I will say anon, if I'm wrong, then you're still probably about to end up heart broken. She's made up her mind, thats how women are. You still have some learning to do since she's the only one you've dealt with

>>686027918
i was just fuckin with you dude, it's all good, good on you for taking care of your family

>>686022294
Don't know if you're still here op, but almost this exact same thing happened to me, it didn't end well.

> dated girl for 3 years
> married for almost 4
> walks in and said she wants divorce
> middle middle middle
> she had a girlfriend

If I could give you ANY advise, conduct yourself from here on out, NO MATTER HOW IT GOES, in a manner that you will be happy with. For me that ment trying literally everything to save my marriage so if we did get a divorce, I KNEW it was because she was a cunt, cheated, and didn't want to be married anymore.

Also, this is a marriage, not a high school relationship. Things like reading her emails are totally game.

Feel free to ask questions.

Sadly must agree you got married too early and typicaly speaking, the odds are against your marriage. Your'e young and dumb it happens ( married at 19 divorced at 21) sadly this is the point in life you find out who you are. She may also feel lonely with you working 40 hours a week. She is young, wants attention. Maybe take an early day off work suprise her with a date. Show you care. Fights can be daunting just deep breathes talk to her. Girls are emotional and need to vent. If she has any girl friends treat her to a girl day. Just thoughts. Also please for the love of god tell me you got a prenuptial agreement so if she cheats you keep everything. If not, congrats on learning the hardest lesson, never trust someone, espesially those you love

>>686024433
double quads speak the absolute truth my brother

>>686033882
Not gunna say thats why she left you but bro, there is no relationship if there is no trust. Reading text and emails only hurt you. If they are cheating, yeah it hurts, if they arent, you have to deal with that guilt knowing you were wrong and betrayed their trust

>>686033523
I'm gonna be right back to you

>>686033882
I don't think she's a dyke like we're so good together. Am I blind because it's only me that sees this? She has her life and goals and were only in this state for 2 more months then I'm joining the police avademy. I didn't here because the pay is shit. She's military and seems to like it but we just got here and she's going to school for it. This was so random, I think other anon is right where her mind is made up but I can't believe that yet. It was just a dumb fight... Right guys... Right...

>>686033523
Dude
For the last time there is no cheating.
I will be broken I assume this but just because she doesn't love me anymore it's no one else.

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>>686034449
if shes being shady as fuck steal that bitches phone and see if shes talking to chad you fucking cuck

Bail nigga

At least no kids. DON'T GET HER PREGNANT. Who's idea was it to get married? Does she work? No, didn't read thread.

>>686034986
I am a fucking chad you nigger 6'5 200lbs great hair and a goatee

>>686035143
She's military I'm banking no kids but we always talk about them

>>686034827
If you can't already tell you're in denial about her being fucked in the hospital after shes gotten some good dick from another man then you truly are lost sir. Your first mistake was investing yourself into this woman by such a substantial margin meaning that you forgo all of your friends and family back home just for this one other person. Theres love and then theres stupidity

>>686035155
fuck you chad

>>686035546
Yeah she loves my dick.
In fucking fact we can only fuck for like 15 minutes and she has to stop because it hurts her.

>>686034449
>betrayed their trust
that shit bothers you?

>>686034827
ok anon, we'll roll with no cheating, like I said thats fine. I've never meant anyone who thought that could be a possibility with someone they truly loved. Ever. but if she told you she isn't happy that means she hasn't been happy for awhile now and shes been waiting for you to do something about it. I know it doesn't appear that way but that shits the truth. If shes worth fighting for than give it hell anon thats all I can really say but I fear that her mind truly is made up.

>>686027651
why are you here?

>>686034449
Lol that was the first and only time I ever went through her shit.

That was not why she left, she left because she thinks she can only be happy moving away, partying until 4am, and not having any restriction on anything, including the gender she can fuck.

Even if I did creep her email on the reg, you seem to be missing the point that there are no secrets in a marriage, so going through her shit IS going through my shit.

Biologically speaking, Marriage works in the woman's favor due to the fact men are supposed to be fucking women from the cold depths of the Atlantic all the way to the sweaty kingdom of Africa. Of course, marriage is an alright way to control population so there's that

>>686034502
If you're going to be an LEO, your hours are only going to get more fucked. Sorry man.

>>686035780
sounds like she doesn't like it to me
>gtfo of me already

>>686022294
marriage is a barrel of horseshit. it's a fucking lie to enslave men financially. don't marry, don't give them money, don't help them. SAVE your money, make yourself great, they will come begging. Fuck bitches.

>>686035780
If you have to take a rest after 15 minutes then obviously your dick isnt that great

your dick might be massive or some internet chad shit but shes obviously not enjoying herself if shes only getting a 15 minute pump
faggot

>be me
>18
>first bf
>getting married in 2 months

t-this thread is a very n-nice one..

>>686036302
yea his chad logic has him thinking huge cock and painful = great sex. His hearts about to be ripped the fuck out

>>686036907
YOU'RE FUCKING RETARDED BITCH

GET FUCKED 6 MONTHS TO YEAR LOL

>>686036907
18, kids playing adult...lmao... you should spend time building up your life and skills before you go off and start making babies.

>>686037321
fuck em fam

we're gonna have to pay the taxes in order to support her dumb life choices

>>686036907
Jesus Christ wait! Why in the fuck do you NEED to get married? You've got literally your whole lives to spend together, just wait another couple years.

Fuck me, watching people make the same mistake I did hurts

>>686036104
>>686036084
>>686035966
>>686035958
>>686036302
Literally committing suicide
>brb

>>686037528
Military do you read

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>>686035780
>15 minutes and she has to stop because it hurts her.
That's not doing it right faggot. You probably have sex on tuesdays yeah? No spontaneity or passion there.

>>686037546
you wont
pussy

>>686037321
I'm living on my own w/ a stable job
>>686037528
>marriage visas from sweden to here so we can be together

>>686037954
a job that requires no college education is not a stable job u fucking halfwit

>>686022294
Fuck it dude. Let's go bowling.

>>686038119
b-but im getting promoted soon

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>>686036907
>18
>married in 2 months

BWAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA you retarded faggot

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I love threads where op has no friends so he comes to /b/ with a problem, then gets blown the fuck out for being a retard and spends the next 300 posts sperging out

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oh shit that's my side hoe

>>686038457
awesome lmao

>>686038290
tits or GTFO

>>686038818
im a dude tho :s

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>>686038457
OP you my nigga. but she my bitch

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>>686037954
You don't have a stable job at 18

Also, Swedish? Dude, Swedish women are insane. Like, feminist+ insane.

That's a green card marriage if I ever saw one.

>>686038290
to what? Junior assistant to the co-chief of fry cooks?

>>686022294
>I love my wife but I don't think she loves me anymore.
>$17 an hour nothing special

You married her before she became socialized. She is slowly starting to realize that she could have a much better provision drone if she had waited a few years to get married.
>https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y6b7TluEqKY

>>686039240
im gay sir

and it kinda is stable unless my mom dies :3c

>>686038955
DICK OR GTFO

>>686022294
>Wife told me she isn't happy.
Mine comes up with this once per year, sometimes more often. 14 years in marriage now.

They do this when they get bored. What you need to do in a situation like this is to think of doing something exciting and move out of the every day norm so she can "fall in love with you again".

>>686022294

I'm kind abrasive OP, but just know it's all from the heart.

Why the fuck did you get married at 20 years old? That's insane. To a girl you were with for three years?

OP, this isn't the 50s anymore where girls will find that one man and try to be happy with that. Every girl needs her whore period and you were dating her while that should've been happening, then wife'd her up right afterwards.

If you stay with an unhappy woman, she is either going to cheat on you or move on later when you are waaay more invested. Be glad this happened now an not when you have kids and a house to be worried about it.

You are too young to be giving a fuck though IMO. At twenty, you still have a good ten years of fucking up before you should settle down.

I say fuck it, move on if you really don't think she loves you. Billions of woman out there, thinking this first one you run into HAS TO BE THE ONEE!!! is naïve.

If you want to make it work, maybe you just need to add a little excitement. Maybe party every now and again, maybe pick up another girl and bring her home while you're out. Vacation? Maybe just spice things up a little bit.

For the love of god, don't try to put a baby in her to try and make things work. Too many retarded fuckheads do this, regret it and then you have an angry heroin addict kid 17 years later with deep seeded daddy issues.

>>686039402
>gay

U getting a Swedish man, so most likely a cuck.

You'll be fine then.

You work for your mother? Bad idea, never want to give your parents too much control over your life.

>>686039750
unless she dies :3c

>>686024433
>I'm 38, skinny/fit, and get ass from girls in their 20's.
you give me hope

>>686039750
he's not a cuck. so i just only need to worry about my job?

>>686039392
>You married her before she became socialized.

That's the only way to get a good one. A socialized girl is a emotionally calloused, unpaid prostitute who is no longer worthy of marriage.
Marry them before they hit the bar scene and then keep them pregnant and at home away from other girls their age or don't even bother getting married.

>>686022294
did you ask her why she's unhappy and what you can do about it?

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>>686022294

>>686040180
No dude, marrying at any age under 25 is a bad idea regardless of who you're marrying to. Especially to a foreigner, because there's the added risk of them just doing it to get a greencard.

Live life a bit first, you can be in stable relationships, but don't move in before your 22 and don't marry before 25

Living together unmarried first is also a great way to see if the marriage could work, with a relatively easy way out if it doesn;t.

Also, keep in mind that, since your the main moneymaker, in case of a divorce, you'll most likely end up paying alimony.

>>686025901
In most states, if a matried woman has a child it is legally the husband's even if he had a vasectomy. Only way to make it not yours to to seek a declaration of non-paternity asap upon birth if you're married to the mother.

Src: lawyer

>>$17 an hour nothing special

Femanon here. This is your problem.
As a man, your role in your marriage is that of a provider and she was too young to realize you're not a very good one when she agreed to marry you.
She was bound to grow up eventually.

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>>686040275
Yeah, it's basically choosing between someone who's been a skank, or someone who's likely going to become one.

>>686040885
What is a woman's role in a marriage?

>>686040885
tits or gtfo

>>686022294
>been married for six months
Well you can't take the ring back. Go to couples counseling. You might as well try your best to make the marriage work.

>>686040850
and even getting that declaration can be increadibly tricky. The system is rigged against you mate.

>>686041032
traditionally house keeping and child rearing.

These are evolutionary behaviours which have been consistent since prehistoric times, and which have proven to be the most efficient.

>>686041032
We don't have any. We can do whatever we want.
We have the pussy. We make the rules. If you think that this is unfair, then you're just a silly little boy who needs to quit whining and man up.

>>686040843
idk like i was about to kill myself before, so if i do get cucked for the card ill just go head with plan a

and someone benefits from my life

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>>686022294
>Wife told me she isn't happy.
That's your wife admitting to cheating on you (probably with a big nigger).
Don't let her cuck you.

>>686022294
See how it plays out anon

>>686041280
This isn't the real world anymore. The women's movement has freed us from this fate.

You're going to die a very lonely man.

>>686022294
>20 and already married
wtf nigger, do you have an education?
you couldn't wait to see if she was worth it
it's not 1956 anymore, wake the fuck up, nobody needs to get married that young

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>>686041351
BAAAD IDEA

If your self-worth and will to live is dependent on one person, it's not going to be a healthy relationship. If you depend on him that much, you'll be living in perpetual fear of disappointing or angering him. Arguments will go through the roof and unless he's very patient, the relationship will fail.

Seek help and work on yourself first. There's truth in the cliché of "If you don't love yourself you can't love anybody else".

>>686041147
True, but if you have access to the child you can get the DNA test on the DL. Getting a court-ordered DNA test is much harder. With DNA proof plus early app (within 6 months) you'll usually succeed.

>>686041032
sucking our dick for free

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>>686041506
I have the good fortune of having married someone who shares my views.

So I'm good :)

>>686041811
i dont hate myself i just cant be bothered w/ working for a living :^)

>>686042077
So you're a lazy piece of shit then?

That's not a good quality in a relationship. Marriage is hard work, and you're gonna have to compromise. A lot.

>17 an hour
>nothing special
>doesn't have any real friends

You sound like a real catch. I can't imagine what her problem is. Clearly, she's being unreasonable.

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>>686042077
>kill myself
>can't be bothered to work for a living

...

>>686022294
Nobody gets married anymore, you idiot. It's 2016. I bet you still believe in God. There's online porn. Have a different woman every day, it will desensitize you to the idea of love, relationships, etc. I made 2 kids after I was 32. I feel bad for you son. You dun goofed. Women ain't shit. You pussified mofo. Never married BTW, and successful, and most important, happy without a woman flapping her lips around me nonstop.

>>686022627
>>>686022294 (OP)
>I poured out my soul to her told her I'd quit drinking and be a better man.
>>686022627

Not saying she is in the right by any means, but this statement alone tells me there's more to the story.

Alcoholic?

>>686042023
You married an immature idiot who had a fucked up paradigm stuffed inside of her by the patriarchal traditions of her backward ass family like a turkey on Thanksgiving and it's only a matter of time before she realizes that she can live a much better lifestyle by divorcing you and then making you pay for it. All it will take is one good woman to enter her life as her new best friend who will verbally plant the seeds of discontent to help guide her out of her mental prison.

>soon

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>>686042916
XD

gr8 b8 m8

>>686042616
How's that degree in liberal arts working out for you Berniecuck?

OP, go see a lawyer.

Tell the lawyer you want to get your marriage annulled because she would never have sex with you.

THIS IS THE ONLY WAY

Then go home, secretly gather whatever it is you can't live without, get everything you need, paperwork, whatever, then get out. Best to do this when she's not around. Take the day off work. Disappear and never return. Don't take her calls. Block her on FB. Make your FB private to everyone. Don't talk to anyone about this. NO ONE.

The next contact she has with you is annulment papers. If she won't sign, litigate it to hell.

THIS IS THE ONLY WAY

>>686038365
/thread

>>686042916
>might actually be a woman

>>686043239
That is a legally insufficient reason for annulment. Any lawyer will tell him that, though.

>>686028073
sauce?

>>686043584

Depends on the state. Physical incapacitation to consummate.

>>686042916
This is too real. This thread isn't fun anymore.

just repeating, but you got married too young to someone you don't know inside and out.. you got married for the wrong reasons... face that fact (and you spent WAYY too much on that ring......)

moving forward? Analyze your situation.. you are still VERY young and have your WHOLE life ahead of you... Do you REALLY want to stay with her? Do you think you'll be happy? For ALL the good times an bad? something tells you you're not sure........

take time and reflect (something I wish I had done more before i got married myself....) and put your happiness first (when considering your future) because it sounds like she's checked out or is insulating herself from pain she's expecting (either from you or to drop on you...)

good luch!

>>686022294
i feel ya op

>married high school gf
>everything is great
>good job, nice house and cars
>vacations to hawaii
>american dream
>one day at work, guy comes up to me
>says, hey can we talk?
>says, don't shoot me, i'm just the messenger
>now i'm freaked
>pulls out his phone
>shows me some screenshots
>camwhore that looks like my wife
>deny that it's her
>but recognize our bedroom
>still have 7 hours before i can go home
>did absolutely nothing, but suffer the longest 7 hours of my life
>get home confront wife
>at first she denies
>then lets slip that it is impossible
>she had her feed geo-restricted
>obviously never heard of VPN
>perhaps not surprisingly, she gets pissed at me
>expensive divorce, i had to pay for both sets of lawyers
>but she got done by the IRS for tax evasion
>and she only got a one time payment far less than half of our assets

>>686044195
You divorced your wife because she was cam whoring? Why not take a cut? Lots of guys would love it if their woman could bring in some real income.

>>686022294
this is why i will never get married, women are selfish gold-digging cunts that are never happy with anything and will stab you in the back when it benefits them.

>>686024433
31 here can confirm. Post 30 unmarried is the life you dream of when you're 15 and want to fuck every girl you see. At this age you actually can. So happy i got out of an engagement 3 years ago. Chicks come after you now.

>>686022294
do you know her love language anon?

>>686044999
true, but nobody would actively seek to marry one of these camwhores. camwhores exist for pleasure, not for building a life around.

>>686022294
Poor bastard, you're 20. A 20 year old female from the 50's was bred for marriage and family, the modern 20 year old doesn't know what the fuck she is. You're as good as divorced. Prenups should be made ironclad if you get married. Poor guy.

https://youtu.be/84ya7v5bPLk