>>685973301
That explains EEEEEEEEEEVERYTHING. Thanks, anon. :^)

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>>685973199
only failures ask this
life is all about survival of the fittest and passing on our genes

>>685973199
I'm with ya on this OP but I am 32.
If you are under 30 you have problems or your a faggot.
I fucked everything when I was younger, it's fun.
Now... fuck women. I'm better of mentally and financially.

>>685973580
No it's not you cunt, it's about having fun.

1. sex is fun
2. sex is a matter of social position, you're popular => you get more, that's part of why guys like to brag about it

>>685973652
that too, but sex doesn't necessary mean fun for everyone (asexuals)

>>685973199
who the fuck pays 100s of dollars to get laid? when i was single i just actually talked to girls and never really had a problem getting laid

>>685973831
Asexuals don't have sex. Moot point.

>>685973580
>only failures ask this
Source?

>>685973589
I'm 20 and couldn't care less about it. I feel sorta lucky for it because of how much effort I see other people putting into getting laid but I still wonder WHY they would go through all that effort. I get it being fun but why would people feel like shit for it

>>685973795
See previous response and I get the social position thing I guess. I understand people bragging about it but when people put down others for not having sex, it comes off as pretty fucking stupid. It shouldn't be a thing that you should be drowning in to be successful or popular.

>>685973199
pretty sure this is b8, but fuck it I'm bored.
it feels good.
don't knock it until you try it.

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>>685973941
>Pic related

>>685973999
>This opinion differs from mine. It's probably bait
Are you American? Also I'm not knocking it, I'm just wondering why people sought after it so much if it's only for the fun. A lot of shit's fun

>>685973990
who the fuck said getting laid takes any effort i guess you re not the best at conversing with people you want to sleep with

thats like saying why do people like going golfing or swimming, its just alot of fun and way better than fucking yourself to pixels on the internet

>>685974190
calm down susan. anyone who asks "/b/ why does sex matter to people so much?" is bound to be accused to being full of shit, a virgin, or both.
seriously, have sex. you'll find out WHY it's so important to a lot of people.

>>685974351
>i guess you re not the best at conversing with people you want to sleep with
Again, I couldn't care less and haven't tried to get laid.

>who the fuck said getting laid takes any effort
Woah watch out, guys. This guy drowns in pussy. This guy gets laid with the snap of his fingers. Also
>comparing sex to golf
Golf has 1 purpose and that's for fun. Competition is still for fun. That retarded point is moot.

>>685974657
I mean more people who haven't had sex who are like "oh man I'm still a virgin" "Man I'm like 30 and still a virgin". Who the fuck cares? Why do they care so much

>>685973199
I'm going to state many obvious things but that's what happens when you ask a question like this.
Assuming we're going down the "traditional" route:
>Most people are attracted to other people romantically and sexually.
>Assuming you are attracted to someone and they're attracted to you, you get into a relationship unless one of you screws it up
>Once you've known eachother for however long both of you need to know eachother to feel safe doing it, people tend to have sex because the positives outweigh the now nonexistant negatives.
>Therefore having sex became this kind of litmus test of sorts in the minds of the western majority to see if you're someone that people feel attracted to, because the chance of you having sex with someone ("through the "traditional" route") while not being attractive to people is extremely unlikely (you found that 1 in a million who does see you attractive)
Assuming we're going down the "clubbing" route
>Most people are attracted to other people sexually
>If you had sex without any other bonds with a person (one night stand), then we know you're attractive enough for somebody to fuck you without knowing you. Once again, you could've found the only person on the planet who believes this, but it's significantly more likely that you didn't.

Either way having sex is something most people do by the age 14-22 depending on the country, so not having had sex in that age usually means you are somehow less attractive both romantically and sexually than your peers because you had both options and fucked up in both.

If you're asking for "why do people have such a strong desire to have sex", it could be that
A) You just have a lower than average desire
B) Other people are plebs and have difficulties in finding entertainment in anything else than primal needs (I know this is a fedora-sounding statement but you know what I mean)

>>685975051
>traditional
Alright I get all that but why has having sex once you get deep enough into a relationship become the norm? If they don't do it after so many months, they don't love you, etc.
>Clubbing
I mean I've had friends get wasted and fuck some random guy at a bar for the sake of it. A lot of them regretted it for one reason or another. Mainly looks.

I was on a feels thread and saw some post about how rapists and shit have been laid and you haven't and blah blah blah and people replied with "This hit too close" and "too true" and shit

>>685975707
>why has having sex once you get deep enough into a relationship become the norm? If they don't do it after so many months, they don't love you, etc.

See the first point:
>Most people are attracted to other people romantically and sexually.

This attraction isn't something small. People weigh this in before going into a relationship because usually you only have sex with your partner unless otherwise agreed and/or you're a literal cuck.

Most people want to have sex, and it isn't a small want. Chances are you don't want it nearly as much if it's this hard to understand.

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>>685976166
I couldn't care less for it. Perfectly fine dying a virgin. Just had questions I needed answering. Cheers for the answers :^)

>>685974657
After having sex I became less interested in it. It feels pretty good I guess, but beyond that its nothing special. Its pure hedonistic pleasure that leaves you unrewarded and unfulfilled in the end. The whole "sex is about intimacy and love" is just bullshit, and without that its about as wonderful as any other hedonistic activity (which is to say pleasurable, but insignificant).

>>685973795
(not OP) I am very popular but still never have sex. I am a straight skinny male and always manage to make people laugh. I'd give myself a solid 7 for looks. I have my own place and a nice job. And still no sexual activity except for 3 times 2 years ago.

Sex is for fucking normies . As long as I have anime girls to jackoff too I'm fine .

>>685973580
What if I don't want to share my superior genes with the world? Let the world have its Trumps and niggers and redditors. The idiocracy is already well underway, and whether or not I make a kid is not going to have any impact on that fact.

>>685977063
This guy gets it

>>685973199
Some people, especially men, treat sex as a competition. Also, when someone has low self-esteem (even if on the outside it seems that he has high self-esteem) sex can be a measure of how much is he worth or how much of a man he is.

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>>685973580
>life is all about survival of the fittest and passing on our genes

Why? Who cares if your genes are passed on? Everything will be destroyed in the end so why not make the most of our existence while we have it? We won't live to see our great great great great grandchildren so who gives a fuck? There's a world of experience out there and not a lot of time to experience it. That, to me, is the purpose of life: to experience as much of this rock as possible while I can.

Sex is just the default activity humans strive for, and because normies are shallow as fuck they're usually unable to pursue anything better and have to just stick to their biological instincts

>>685973199
I ask myself this. But maybe that becuse other faggots seems to be mentally ill than me, I aint got time for that shit.

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>>685973580
You dropped this friend.

>>685976976
>The whole "sex is about intimacy and love" is just bullshit
Confirmed for never having sex with someone you love or care about. That's one of the coolest parts of the human experience.. The combination of the two people's emotions and physical body is like this transcendental spiritual experience. Idk man, tell me it's just body chemicals reacting and physically affecting my brain but damn it's one of the most amazing experiences you can have. Sex with a stranger is not really comparable though

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BECAUSE LITERALLY EVERYTHING IS TODAYS SOCIETY TELLS YOU THAT YOU SHOULD KILL YOURSELF IF YOU DONT HAVE / CANT HAVE IT

>>685973990
Either you are castrated or lying.

>>685979557
Only on 4chan

>>685979557
Why care about what society thinks?

>>685979392
While it's defiantly true that sex with someone you love and care about is one of the best feelings, it feels pretty awful when you're the only one who's doing it for love, and your partner is only in it for physical pleasure.

>>685979837
>IT IS LITERALLY PHYSICALLY IMPOSSIBLE FOR YOU TO BE LIKE THIS UNLESS YOU'RE CASTRATED OR LYING. IMPOSSIBLE. I CALL BS

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>>685979968
This. I fuck society in the ass. Couldnt be happier.

>>685980112
>Defiantly

>>685980174
4chan logic.

>>685980350
Fucking seriously.

>>685980174
Impossible? of course not. Very highly improbable? Yeah.
All life exists to reproduce. That's how evolution works. Sex drive isn't primarily a conscious process, it's an instinctive one. Ergo, you are either somehow damaged, or lying.

>>685980589
Or, you assume that you have no chances to reproduce either way, and give up.

>>685973580
>survival of the fittest
>anime
ok

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=veSLdNos7q8

Elliot Rodger is that you?

>>685980912
Difference between jealous about it and curious about it. Go nuts. I don't care. Just wondering why people think it's so important

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>>685973199
Sex boosts your immune system by givif u fresh dna. Even when you have cocks en yo mouf OP.

you know what i like? jerking off in my pants to zoo porn then smoking some undeserved weed. mmmmmmffuck having fun.
always be sad,its the way to shaitan...

>>685980112
Well yeah the love has to be mutual for what I'm talking about. Guess I shouldve made that more clear

>>685981095
>fuck having fun
>sex is the only thing you find fun
I feel so sorry for you, anon.

>>685973941
>who the fuck pays 100s of dollars to get laid? when i was single i just actually talked to girls and never really had a problem getting laid

Not OP, but I've fucked 39 prostitutes and 4 ordinary women. I'm 27, if I didn't pay for sex I would literally have sex once every two years or so. I'm not ugly, just shy and lack self-confidence around women.

>>685980725
More an edgy 13 year old fedoralover.

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>>685981605
That is just sad.

>>685977063
>Sex is for fucking normies . As long as I have anime girls to jackoff too I'm fine .
>jackoff too
>too

You're not normal, you're subnormal . . . in the IQ department. Kek.

>>685981849
>That is just sad.

Yeah, well, better whores than nothing. Lost my virginity to a whore, didn't have sex with a non-whore until I was 24 . . . I'm used to it.

>>685982334
Get some confident and talk to them. Im too wierd to get laid that often but sometimes it work.

>>685982682
confidence*

>>685973199
because people are not as intelligent as they like to think they are.

>>685982019
Normalfag GET OUT REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

>>685973199
also we live in the age of decadence, everyone only cares for instant gratification.