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Help me stop from ruining my life

>with my most recent ex (8 years ago mind you) I was jealous
>did not trust her at all
>we constantly fought over who else she was texting or talking to
>I was always upset about our relationship in general it was very tumultuous

Now with my current wife
>not jealous in the slightest
>trust my wife 100% because I honestly dont think she would fuck me over
>perfect relationship
>toying with the idea of getting cucked

I doubt she would even be down with the idea, but outside of that I know its completely fucked up and beta to even want to be cucked. I have no idea where the urge came from and I am also positive that if I ever went through with it, it would just turn me into a jealous person again. I just dont know where the idea came from, a few months ago it randomly popped into my head and now I think about her fucking other dudes constantly. Although I havent told her any of this.

>wat do /b/?
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dont risk it
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>>684846969
I dont want to, but literally the urge is there daily. Sometimes I will even think about it while fucking her. The other day I saw a guy hit on her (and she instantly pointed in my direction and told him I was married) and it literally made me hard thinking about him fucking her.
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>>684846848
kys
Problem solved.
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It's because you are comfortable
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>>684847822
Thats kind of what I was thinking, its almost like I need something constantly going on to keep me interested.
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you realize women, and men for the most part are all savage right?

you'll think it's a game, a fun experience. she'll think it's a real. and you can never go back. you'll always be seen as the weaker lesser man, and eventually she'll find someone more alpha than go.

I'm assuming you dont have a vanilla sex life, because that could be what's leading you to these conclusions. Try some new dynamics for a while.
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How the fuck do people get into this.
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>>684846848
dont do it.
jus chil
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>>684848308
It is vanilla by my standards, however compared to most people I know I have a pretty interesting sex life. I get anal, light bondage, and she wants to fuck at least 4 nights a week. Its just I am bored with it all I guess.
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>>684848383
Because seeing someone you love enjoying themselves is cool. Kind of like giving a gift.
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Do what you want but she won't respect you anymore, whether she takes you up on the offer or doesn't.
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>>684848653
that's a start.

Still, try actual dynamics. 24/7 bdsm styled lives.

I've done DDLg for years. I'm also a pro-rigger though and teach at/frequent the local kink scene. Never stop educating yourself when it comes to sex. I've taught people in their 50's how to tie. Really ignites the connection in a relationship. Gotta keep her in headspace/littlespace as long as possible.
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You should fuck less instead of passing her off onto another man, but since you've already entertained the idea you're basically a cuck lord at this point.

I'll fuck her on the other 3 nights you're not.
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Some online whore.
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hahaha it's gonna be so funny when you end up letting it happen, watching her enjoy someone more than she ever has with you and then thinking about it every single time you do absolutely anything sexual with her and feel compltely inadequate in the knowledge that she's thinking about a bigger dick and a better fuck that she will totally go after behind your back
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>>684846848
Let's see more of that anus
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>>684849630
Thats what I am also aware of. The second I say I want to see another man fuck you, regardless if she agrees, she will not only see me as less of a man but also assume I dont "really love her".

>>684849640
The thing is BDSM really isnt my thing, I am mostly into gangbang, random encounters, bestiality, gloryholes. I ran the BDSM idea by her just to see if she was into it and she said "I dont really get anything out of it but if you are cool with it I am willing to do it a little". So I dont really fuck with it much since it isnt a turn on for either of us
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have you ever seen her enter subspace? I guarantee yours and her perception of it will chance after that point, but alright.
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>>684850162
see
>>684850411
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>>684846848
just tell her and let her leave you beta cuck or live the nigger low life with her :^)
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>>684850411
>>684850514
I dont know if that would work for OP since he literally says neither are into BDSM
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>>684850162
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>>684851325
yea. it does help if there is at least an interest, even a slight one.

hope he finds a cb6000 comfy
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>>684851815
>>684851815
I dont think a cb6000 would be an option. She wants to fuck way to much for me to be locked in a cage. Which is another reason I dont want to even mention cucking, because it may end up with her on a cock carousel every night as much as she loves to fuck.
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>>684852073
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>>684846848
More of this girl op?
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Your natural state is that of jealousy and mistrust; so since she's not providing that for you, you're creating a reason for it. Probably some abandonment issues. Accept some level of sexual predictability if you want a life long monogamous relationship. Or not, whatevs.
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>>684852392
i really dont think it would stem from abandonment issues since I have an excellent relationship with my parents (they never divorced or any of that new age bullshit).
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>>684846848
Pretty similar situation here
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I will honestly never get guys like you.

I'm sitting here, thinking how cool it would be if I had some pussy lying next to me. The last time I was laid was 2 years ago and it was a lucky encounter because the bitch was drunk as fuck.

I wish I had a girl to fuck, to watch movies with etc.

You have it all and you are willingly ready to throw it away just for some sick pleasure of watching your wife getting fucked by another man?

You kinda disgust me. It's like you are making fun out of ugly fucks like me who probably will end up dying alone
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>>684853448
I am not making fun man, I honestly hate I even have these fucking ideas which is why I came here wanting to discuss them to hopefully get them out of my head.
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>>684852073
you seem pretty indecisive man :\

If you're going to be on top in your relationship, and to keep things interesting. You need to make up your mind and do it now. Be as alpha as you can. maybe check testosterone levels. Not even memeing.
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>>684854506
Maybe wife sharing would be a more appropriate term then? I just want to watch her fuck other people and join in if I feel like it.
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>>684854772
Huge difference
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>>684854281

I think the only way to appreciate a wife in your life and NEVER EVER get retarded ideas again (like getting cucked or shit like that) is to experience the same solitude and loneliness I experience.

After a rejection of a bitch I used to love I kinda gave up myself. It's hard for me to talk with women now as I don't want to experience this kind of pain again. I'm waiting for a woman to chose me as her husband. Maybe you lacked such an experience in life?

Just blew my load over another fat bitch in the chubby thread. Shit is sad.

One can't appreciate the things he has if he never missed them in his life.
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Like our page on facebook Bullshit Farm or farmers will come and rape and kill your family, have a nice day :)
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>>684847203
imagine the guy cucking your wife is a smug asshole, staring at you as he fucks her, whispers condescending things about you and calls you a pussy or some other beta shit because you let him cuck you wife. Imagine the way you're wife will try to bring up wanting to be fucked again by another random dude who will probably treat you like shit too during/after he's done fucking her. Do you really want that to happen? To be treated with disrespect and to have you wife crave other people? If so go for it, if not steer clear.
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>>684855837
You are exactly right, in fantasy it sounds neat/hot but in reality it would suck ass. The problem is forcing myself to accept it is a shitty idea and stop thinking about it without trying it.
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>>684855520
Partly this. And to also realize the negatives of a idea/situation (being cucked) because the positives seem amazing until you realize all of the emotional and physical things that would happen afterwards between you two.
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>>684846848
Are you me OP? Besides the cucking thing im not into that but my story is exactly the same
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>>684856327
What are you into? And like I said >>684854772 maybe wife sharing is more appropriate for me to use rather than cucking
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>>684850411
Not OP but what is subspace? State of mind?
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>>684846848
have you tried telling her to fuck herself?
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>>684846848
>wife sharing
Cool, you get to bang new bitches
>getting cuckold
Omega tier faggotry

Get your shit together.
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>>684856161
I know how you feel dude, was just recently obsessing over the idea of hiring an escort because i want sex so badly after a recent 3.5 year breakup. I obsessed over the idea of getting what I want and feeling that connection with someone again, until I realized that I would be extremely lucky to find a cheap (under $200) escort who would actually enjoy the sex, make me happy, or try to give me an emotional connection. In all reality and from stories I've read/reviews of people, its a job for most of them. They either can't/won't be able to feel connected to you because they barely know you and 30 minutes is not enough time to know you and have sex, plus I realized that if I pay the $150 fee or whatever I would crave that interaction again (if it turned out well) or hate it and have wasted $150 for what--boring ass sex? Just think about the negatives as well as the positives.
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DON'T DO IT.
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>>684856991
Plus also think, there has got to be tons of other fun things you can do sexually together besides cucking, like anal, new positions, some food stuff, bondage/roleplay whatever suits your boat man
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OP is a gigantic faggot

this place has ruined you, filter and hide all cuck threads
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>>684856971
At the end of the day, even sharing my wife is letting another man fuck her which is basically the same thing as cucking, without the over the top antics.
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>>684848653
>anal
>bondage
>has a sex drive

Pretty God damn vanilla. Make her do ass to mouth, get a dildo and double stuff that bitch, if you've got a weird dress up scenario, get it done. Also if she's into girls get her to show you.
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>>684856730
Well I'm generally willing to try anything, but I guess my "kink" would be dominating. I have a pretty dominating/narcsistic persona in general, I think thats why.

With my current gf I havent really done anything like that more than hair pulling and bending in weird positions and ofcourse deep throating. I think the main reason is because I dont wanna "hurt" her in my mind.
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>>684856991
Yeah dude, I think like this when I'm not in a relationship.

I think, "I'll go get myself a hooker, i really want to fuck". But then I remember how I feel when I am in a relationship- sure, the sex can be great, but after a while it's just daily routine. Then I have a wank and think sweet, I just saved £100+
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>>684857409
You must not be married. Most people i know who are married (ages 25-30) complain that their wife only wants to fuck once every few weeks. The fact that I essentially get ass whenever I want is pretty amazing in the marriage game. I am not saying everyone is like that, but most married couples seem to have less sex than unmarried.
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>>684846848
Don't get cucked faggot, just do a 3 some, eiffel tower your wife with a friend or some shit, good luck not making it awkward
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>>684857681
10/10 made me laugh, "sweet I just saved $100"
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>>684857384
>sharing
You have a awesome car and you let your friend drive it.
>cuckold
You have an awesome care that only other people drive

Honestly sharing can be fun and you'll run into some bad pussy game. It'll make you appricate what you have. Monogamy is litterly an insane concept, you will always crave new experiance.
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>>684857521
Also forgot, OP you also said you were from a good family, I'm the same.

The thing is I think you would get jelous again after the fact (since you were with your ex) so I would advice you not to do it. I know I would.
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>>684857797
I get 100% what you are saying, it does seem like DPing my wife would be awesome. But at the end of the day from her stand point how is it any different than cucking?

>hey anonnete I want to see you fuck other guys
>Hey anonnete I want to fuck you with other guys

Either way she will surely think less of me for wanting to let other men fuck her.
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>>684858387
Sharing is caring
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>>684846848
you're either an idiot or a shill. either way, you're damned unless you wake up.
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>>684858033
>Monogamy is literally an insance concept

It really is isn't it?
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