How do I become social... socially accepted... get friends... I can't handle
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How do I become social... socially accepted... get friends...
I can't handle another day or weekend without going out with somebody
I feel like a fucking loser because nobody texts me nor do I ever... EVER hang out with anybody
Can anyone help? Also general feels thread
You'll always have us, OP.
>>684539802
Fuck you
>>684539430
Find people that have similar hobbies to you. If flurries can find friends, you can too op.
I also have a tendency to be boring...
>>684540144
*Furries
>>684540144
I dont play any video games and I just browse 4chan
Theres not much to connect on
>>684539430
Go to a bar and grow a fucking personality you sack of dog shit
Help i cant talk to girls
I sperg out when im with them and their girlfriends
>>684539430
Hey OP where do you live? If you're okay with going out with me and a few friends, listening to music and taking pictures then come on.
>>684539430
what's youre cell? I'll text you brah
>>684540350
buy a motorcycle
you'll either make friends or die, but at least while you're crying about it the wind will wipe away the tears
>>684540687
Fuck you
California
Learn to play the piano
Not even joking
>>684540863
What the hell will that achieve
>>684541003
Gurls
>>684540350
What >>684540527
said op. The reason you don't have anything is cause you don't experience nothing. Find a hobby and go from there.
>>684540857
>mfw don't live in CA anymore
If you're SoCal, I'd definitely hang. Other side of the country now, sadly.
>>684541127
Wtf man
>>684541127
No, it won't It really won't.
>>684540863
So true!
>>684541290
Worked for me
>>684540527
>>684541172
Fuck you theres nothing to experience
Ask anybody whats their hobby and theyll say some shit like the internet or listening to music or watching netflix
Like what the fuck else can you do
Theres no such thing as a fucking hobby
Instant confidence booster
along with all his other albums
Just fake being kanye untill you really are him
>>684541193
Yep im in socal
Whyd you move
>>684540835
>at least while you're crying about it the wind will wipe away the tears
Not if youre wearing a CSA approved helmet. Dress for the slide, not the ride brah
>>684541786
Just needed a change of pace. I'm in Florida right now.
>>684541509
Nigga theres hordes of people that do the stupidest shit for hobbies including the shit you listed. I refuse to believe that you think this and are instead just afraid to socially interact with people
>>684539430
Stop watching animes about other relationships.
You make friends out of people you a spend time with
>in college, study with people outside of class, then start hanging out together outside of study group
>outside college, hang out with workers who aren't cunts
Over time you get a network of people going on so that when you're an actual adult with responsibilities and income, you can hopefully hang out whenever you're in town or they're in town.
Don't force it too hard tho.
>>684539430
Do what i do. Waste away. Enjoy the little things until you die.
>>684541509
Buy an RC car. Go to RC car meets.
>>684539430
Just want to bitch, so sorry if this annoys anyone.
I have severe OCD.
Like, the kind that keeps me up until six to eight in the morning every single night.
I have to perform this same fucking ritual every day .
Even simple things, the most basic of human functions, are hellish.
Just taking a shower takes about an hour and is mental torture.
Can't touch any walls in the house.
Can't touch anything in the house at all.
Can't eat during the day, sometimes even skipping breakfast because it makes the aforementioned shower even more difficult to do due to possible food residue that sets the OCD off even worse.
Outside of this, I have depression.
I'm constantly sad, empty, lonely, and generally dead inside.
I haven't had any real friends for two years.
I haven't just had anyone to shoot the shit with outside of my parents for two fucking years.
There are very few things that can keep my mind off things, and even those aren't working anymore.
My whole mind is just entrenched in this hell of repetition.
The worst part is, I don't even have any major goals or aspirations anymore.
I'm only nineteen. I should be full of hope, I should want everything in the world, but I don't.
I don't care about money.
I don't care about fame.
I don't care about sex.
I just wish I was normal.
I just wish I was functional.
But instead, I want to die more and more by the fucking day.
>>684540857
Oh shit nigger
I'm in California too
>>684539430
Zozzle ur a bitch
>>684541786
I'm in SoCal. Dude, just pick a beach and go hang.
>>684542389
>stupid shit
Why would i want to fucking do that
AND I CANT GO OUT WITH ANYONE BECAUSE PEOPLE DONT EVEN FUCKIN TALK TO ME OR DONT EVEN LIKE ME WHEN THEY DO KNOW ME
>>684542699
Fuck you faggot
>>684541509
Buy kayak, talk with kayak fags about kayak shit
>>684542964
I had some mild stuff like that when I was younger. Everything had to be done in evens and even-evens so 2's, 4's, 16's. Can only hit the ground while walking a certain way, can only eat a certain way, had to mumble a certain way.
When I got older it went away, but I actively just let the feeling go, so idk if it's getting older that fixed it or me refusing to indulge it. But when I did and do indulge it, it will affect me for hours so my advice is to try and just forget about it. Let the feeling go.
>>684541509
Hobby suggestions
>Hiking and biking
If you do the same route frequently you'll meet people
>RC boats or cars
You'll meet a ton of 30-60 year old men. No females
>Gym
Again, if you're there frequently enough you'll meet people
>Library
If you find a checkout girl you like pick out a good selection of books/movies and see if anything clicks
>Shooting
I don't do it but my buddy met a ton of people through gun shows
>Fishing
Same as above. Ice fishing is a big event, ton of beer and barbecue, you'll get to know all the other men near you on the lake
>Sailing
Pricy but if you're on a small enough lake you'll meet a ton of people, especially if you offer to let them go for a ride
>Church/volunteer groups
Varies based on religion but if you show up enough you'll meet people, can be dangerous though if you're not overly religious
>Horse racetrack
Nasty hobby, but you meet a ton of people. Buy drinks for younger women, and if you know the sport well they'll really take interest. I met an Orthodox Jew there who is a great guy. I always play his picks and usually end up 2:1.
>>684541509
Anything is a hobby if you do it enough
Except Netflix, masturbating, and browsing image boards
>>684543820
I wish I could.
It's hard to explain, but it's tied to even my own body.
>>684541509
Nigga I play D&D and magic the gathering.
I'm a fucking geek, so no excuses
>>684539430
Start smoking pot, but buy from a dealer if in a legal state. Unless you buy from some ghetto nigger. You'll chill for a bit and eventually meet people.
>>684540527
Bars are just awful. Would rather be anywhere else
>>684543486
try being a FRIENDLY CUNT. you stupid fuck just act like a normal human being. fake it til you make it, dipshit.
>>684539430
When you get older it's gay to have friends.
>>684544156
Worked for me.
Hell, that's how you get a job in most cases.
>>684543911
This is exactly how you meet people when you have to start from square one. Listen to this anon, op
>>684539430
I love not having friends, but I have a wife to keep me company and work like 60 hour weeks. I guess I have one friend in addition to my wife though.
>>684544024
Have you tried acid or shrooms? Maybe that'd help.
I heard from a professor in eastern europen they do a freezing based lobotomy specifically for ocd that apparently helps when all else fails
>>684541509
Graffiti, marijuana, bitches and bikes
