>>681853955
it's fine. regrets, no.

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No problems. Been married 6 years

>>681853955
sauce or whos her?

18 year old here, would any of you recommend marriage? Ive given it thought and it really dosnt sound that appealing.

Fine on my end so far.

>>681855588
if you two get along and the sex is good, go for it

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Tbh I got married because she was pregnant, and that's what you do, right? But I lucked out and she's great, I'm glad I did. A little vanilla in the bedroom but I get mine on the side anyway so it works out. Pic related

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Five years. It has it's ups and downs. She's become an sjw in the last year though and it's really driving a wedge between us.

>>681855588
Yes, get married, but don't have kids unless you are prepared and really want to

>>681856094
The only reason i would get married is if i was having kids, there no way i would get married if i was completely sure i didn't want kids.

>>681856094
>>681855588

Or just get kid when you want to

Marriage is absolutely not necessary.

>>681855588
Just make sure you really know the person really well and can trust them. Live together for a year or two b4 getting married. I am happy with my marriege.

Regret it every day. It's like having another mom telling you what you can and cannot do. But only worse.

>>681853955
sauce pls

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>>681853955
Only every single day. Feels bad man

>>681856021
Sorry to hear that. Hopefully you don't lose everything when she goes for the throat in the divorce she'll file.

Found out my ex-wife cheated on me for years pretty much a month after we got engaged.
So yeah theres a fair amount of regret

Yes.

>>681853955
Considering the divorce rate is slightly more than 50% (at least in the US) and out of those that stay married another 50% are unhappy then you figure you've got roughly a 25% chance of being happy in a marriage. Not good odds.

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>>681855588
It sucks. its hard work, and if your spouse doesnt want to work and make things better its hell. Im finally getting a divorce and its the best thing to happen to me in years! enjoy your life! dont get tied down, FUCK Marriage.

>>681855588
Get married twice. The first is so you know how shitty it can be and what not to look for the second time.

>>681857367
this. You are completely dependent on the other person wanting to make things work otherwise none of your efforts will mean anything.

>>681855460
>>681856793
Kyla Cole

No benefit to getting married
None.
Kids is up to you.

>>681853955
Over, thank fucking god.

Given how often this thread comes up, it's borderline banana/trap/fb/dubs cancer.
But at least anons share their experiences

My opinion: marriage is a trap (and not the welcome kind) for men
It serves no purpose
The challenge is fighting the Marriage Industrial Complex which continues to brainwash women into believing it is right/good/normal/natural. Younger women are more taken by the bait. Older women know enough in some cases to recognize it is hopelessly outdated and irrelevant.

Plus, you don't need marriage to breed. Don't make that mistake, anon

>>681853955
33yo been married 10 years and very happy, found the best woman in the world for me so I decided to lock that shit up!

Life is good!

Married, but now we act like we're a 80 year old married couple.

Our sex life instantly died.

We jumped from horny 20 somethings to content boring sexless 70 year old mature adults with in 2 years.

>>681858456
I am happy for you, anon
But I would like to point out that marriage doesn't mean it is more stable or likely to last. The paper doesn't make the relationship.

Married life is the best. Hot dinner on the table every night. Sex is still hot, she's more willing to so stuff now than when we were dating 10 years ago. Being a parent is the most fulfilling thing I've ever done. Only negative is that the wife has gained some weight.

>>681858821
Actually it does help a little bit, easier to just work out any problems we have like adults then get a divorce, and a lot less paperwork.

My marriage is OK... As in I wish I didn't marry her, but she's what I deserve.
Small problem is there is a woman at work that I fell in love with and she seems to have done the same with me. We've gotten really close, and it's almost gotten physical a few times...

Mine didn't pan out so well. It ended about a year ago.

So, I was with this girl about six years, we got married at 18. She was a lesbian when I met her, never been with a guy. So we got together and got married eventually. After 3 years of marriage, decide I can't hide the fact of me being a tranny faggot anymore or I'm going to kill myself. One night after a week of binge drinking and contemplating suicide, I came out to her. She was fully supportive and happy for me, except for the fact that she came out to me at that point. Wanted to be a guy, she was just never gonna tell me until then. So basically we switched roles. Then I figured out that I'm really not into masculine appearing people, and I told him I wanted an open relationship. Our sex life had been massively suffering since a couple years anyway, and it was driving me away from him. Then almost immediately I met an mtf porn star at this trans support group, fell in love with her and left my husband for her. Now I live with her and he's still trying to win me back on a daily basis. I feel awful about it but I can't help being attracted to who I'm attracted to.

So that's the gist of it.

So to answer your question, yes, I regret marriage. Especially getting married before I was a little older and really got to know myself.

>inb4 faggot
>inb4 she
>inb4 he

>>681853955
If you're having issues OP post her nudes and that should fix things

>>681855588
Marriage is literally the most retarded thing a man can do. Are you willing to bet half your shit, all your friends, and the possibility of paying alimony on the whims of a woman?

I'm not.

>feels time
>spent whole life being a kinky bastard
>fetish/BDSM clubs, black leather, bondage, domination, humiliation, foot fetishism, orgasm control/denial, the whole nine
>became jaded and tired, never being able to find that one thing missing to really satisfy me
>11 years ago met totally untouched "good girl' on a dating website
>her innocence and being devoid of emotional baggage with me being her very first actual relationship was fascinating and appealing to me in a way I couldn't describe
>her attempts at being "kinky for me" were just adorable at best, what she saw as kinky was really just using an occasional sex toy or letting me tie her to the bed/use a blindfold
>she never judged me for being a kinky perv and even the stuff she wasn't willing to try she still just considered another aspect that made me unique but nothing to be ashamed of
>fell madly in love with her, got married 5 years ago and now have a beautiful 2 year old daughter
>still tend to fap to kinky fetish porn but its just a minor itch I need to scratch sometimes; I'm honestly more than satisfied with our sex life especially since after we had a kid she suddenly turned into a total hornball

>>681859815
hope this is bait m8

>>681857523
That actually sounds like solid advice. You want to buy a nice cheap car, drive it, then buy a new, nicer car.

And get a prenup on those cars guys.

>>681860429
It's really not m8.

It's been a very eventful year since all of that happened. I think more has happened in that time period that my whole life combined. What with coming out to my family, them finding out I was married to someone who wanted to be a man, them finding out I'm with a tranny. Getting divorced. Starting hormones. Etc

The problem with marriage is that most guys end up marrying the first humorless cunt that will fuck them twice. Don't settle. Find someone you have shit in common with and actually want to be around after you're done fucking.

>>681853955
Never for one second.
Wife is great, even hotter than ten years ago, kids are easy to live, and crazy sexlife, with ffm threesomes for me or gangbangs for her once in a while

>>681853955
Married and loving it. I have an awesome wife who is smart and fun. We got married as horny teens, had kids (who are now adults), and got old together. We're coming up on 30 years together.

We still hold hands, love each other dearly, and - yes, we still hump like rabbits. I don't know why so many people are so down on marriage; I wouldn't have it any other way.

>>681855280
if this is your wife, then you are a fucking lucky guy!!!

>>681858746
Why does this happen?
4th year married not had sex in months
I got married to bang my wife all the time now she's a prude or cheating on me

>>681861332
Women are illogical and deep down they know they're easily replaceable. So once they realize that... they begin to accept it, slowly distancing themselves until the man they serve is stroking his balls off in a younger tighter hole. Some divorce, some silent just accept it.

>>681859176
Are you me?

>>681853955
i'm married for more than 10 years and i just don't suck my wife's pussy or fuck her more times per day because she doesn't allow me to.

>>681860726
I'm happy for you.

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wednesday would have been 6 years. been divorced like 4. feels pretty bad, tfw no gf.

>>681861730
i swear, i could fuck her at least 5 times a day and suck her pussy for 1 hour per day... a rough total of 2 to 3 hours of sex every single day

>>681861148
Welcome friend

>>681861982
as a matter of fact my dick is hard right now only thinking about her sleeping all wet right next to me... god help me!

>>681861982
Pics?

Also, doesn't it get old sometimes? Do you ever take a day off?

I think sex is better if you have less of it.

Married for 6 years, 3 kids. Some good some bad. Right now it is bad; no sex in 3 months, she got fat, has health problems, eating problems, and can't get healthy.

I don't respect her, I barely care, and I want out sobad.

I can't let my kids go through a divorce, but if we didn't have kids I would divorce. It's not bad enough to put our kids through that crap.

I find myself trying to self-destruct my marriage by flirting with a bad girl... so far I care too much about using my experience to tag one. A mistress would be just what the doctor ordered - I would feel like a scum bag if it went through with it. #playingwithfire

Most of my friends are unhappily married, some don't even hide it. Two of them are completely delusional while their wives are very obviously unhappy. I'm hoping I'll get to fuck one of them eventually.

>>681860822
The thing is that the humorless cunts are the ones who want to get married. The fun ones want to "collect experiences" (to the point where they're not wife material anymore).

Married 16 years, still in the honeymoon phase. I have twin 4 year-old boys and the wife (13 years younger than me) is hotter now than when we wed.

Oh yeah, she's Russian and a real woman, not a fucked up American gold-digger/SJW.

Go east young man, Slavs are the best.

been married 5 yers, she started her first job tonight at a diner. weird being her by my self...

>>681861776
Thanks, anon.

I'm happy now too. Wish the divorce didn't have to happen, but it is what it is. Can only grow from here

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>>681853955

Marriage ended in 2004. I'm working 2 jobs, this bitch comes in and sits on the bed while I'm trying to sleep and get ready for Shitty Job #1 again.

Three boys. All she has to do is take care of the kids and clean the house. Can't do either of those things worth a fuck.

Sits there and tells me that she's done. She's going to home to her mom and she's taking the kids.

Break down into tears, beg her not to leave. Nope.

Takes the next bus with the boys.

Have a nervous break down for a few days.

Week after she gets there, her mom kicks her out for getting drunk. Kicks the kids out too, because she's a bitch of a bitch.

Retarded exwife now living in a homeless shelter. My brother goes to get the kids, tells her to fuck off.

She's hooked up with some retard six months after she leaves me.

Brother and me raise the kids. Last we hear from her, she's roaming across country as a trucker's methhead fucktoy.

Got a good career now, kids are doing good, no one ever asks about where Mom is.

Fuck her.

>>681862212
can't share pics... i don't know what happens to me, every time i'm next to her, i feel her smell and my dick gets hard in a couple of seconds, literally... sometimes it's kinda depressing because she doesn't allow me to fuck her all the time, but what can i do, right? i would say 10 times per day at least my dick gets a full erection because of her...

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>>681855955
noice, moar?

>>681862790
God, Allah and L. Ron Hubbard bless your brother for helping you like this.

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>>681855280
>>681861148

this is a photoshop of panda-chan

newfags get out REEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

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>>681853955
just had our third kid three weeks ago. married 9 years this year. together for 11.
we're still very much in love.

can't have sex right now cause babies tear that shit up on the way out but we're 3 weeks out from the doctor's appointment and then it's back to banging. (probably with a condom)
Anyway, marriage has been great for me.

>>681855588
checked

also, not at 18, no I wouldn't recommend it.

>>681862249
Most kids that suffered through awful parents wish their shit parents had gotten a divorce instead of force them to live through a house of hate.

>>681863368
is panda chan the one with the panda phone cover?
got her real name friendo?

>>681853955
i married my high school sweetheart. we fuck like animals after a decade, no mushrooms on my dick, no hiv, i can fuck without a condom everyday and suck her without worrying about having a throat cancer down the road... am i missing what's so terrible about it?

>>681863626
Bollocks, if the parents did get a divorce, kids would have wished they didn't. Situations like these are a lose/lose.

Best thing I've done was getting married to a friend.

Monogamic hetero normative couple ftw

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>>681863857

Yep

I married for money. So, learn from me. If you are going to get married, do it because you can't live without the other person. I made a cold, hard decision and regret it. There's a void in my life and I attempt to fill it with material possessions and other pussy. I feel like a total piece of shit and am unhappy as fuck. No one knows, as I keep it bottled up and play pretend. We have 2 kids, otherwise I'd be long fucking gone.

>>681864867
how much?

>>681859815
pics of mtf tranny.

I've got a question for people who got married in their 20s after dating for less than 5 years.
Why?
You haven't even been with her for a quarter of your short life and you expect that you'll be the same people perfect for each other forever? You thought you'd never meet anyone even slightly interesting later in life?
I'm just trying to understand the thoughts behind these actions, because they seem absolutely crazy to me, I'm not insulting you, just genuinely curious about why.

>>681853955
Had a vasectomy 3 years ago because I didn't want to bring a child into this fucked up world, and my wife is 4 months pregnant. Hired a PI, the father is a married career man who can't afford the publicity of a divorce, so he can't be more than just an affair for my wife ever.

Boy, will she be surprised when I force her to sign the divorce papers on the fucking hospital bed minutes after she gave birth, canceling the prenup and making her penniless! I won't rest until she remembers that bastard's birthday as the most miserable day of her life.

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>>681865245
does that answer your question?

>>681864867
This is why 4chan is good, where else does someone get this kind of honest insight?

>>681865245
Dude, realistically all it takes is a year and a half of living together. 5 years is just fucking crazy.

>>681859815

What a fucking mess. Jesus christ.

Advice : there's no need to marry te be with the same person on a long period, have kids, have sex every day (and better than on the debut), etc. And it's more simple when it's time to have different paths.

Here, 12yo couple, have a kid, we are on the way to separate, but no big conflict. And we continue to fuck roughly, for the moment (after years, she loves it rough, being choked, titslapped, facefucked, etc).

>>681853955
All the fucking time. When we dated, it was all about how much she wanted us to travel on vacations to countries she'd never been to, and go to concerts, and that was what we'd be doing with our savings and our marriage.

Instead, I found myself taking out a second mortgage to build extra bedrooms and bathrooms onto the house... and she's frigid, and now we're learning, needs a radical hysterectomy. No kids, ever. And now, if I divorce her, I'll be divorcing the cancer victim.

And she doesn't suck dick or do anal anymore.

>>681865436
Keep telling yourself that

>>681863626
It's a happy loving home. No abuse or shut the kids would notice. Believe me, if I could justify our home as a toxic environment I would end it.

Also, divorce is a serious shitpile for all parties involved when you are talking about custody.

>>681863794
Lisa Laffenhaimer

>>681865819
so you think it's a conspiracy? please make darwin proud! kek

married half a year in shes lost a job got a new one freak as fuck in bed meets my kink needs and then some...

wouldn't have had it any other way married lifes a peach with this one

>>681862300
They don't just come in those flavors of humorless cunt and town bicycle. Guys go to bars and clubs and all this shit to find a chick. What kind of girl do you really expect to find there? Fuck 'em, sure, but don't marry that shit, c'mon. Most dudes stop searching the minute they find a willing vagina and that is a problem.

>>681860273
my nigga

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>>681865984
thank you

You might think I'm trolling but her sexual drive is killing me. We are 30yo and I always thought I was very horny but she is like, ten times worst. And she is like loyal as fuck, doesn't masturbate or use any toy, just me and I'm dying.

You wish you had more sex until you get it. Believe me.

>>681866716
>>681865984
did I just get bamboozled

>>681853955
I regret all my marriages.

You will too, one day.

>>681866987
>where do you think you are.exe?

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>>681867231
>mfw I get shamflamdoozled

>>681865736
underrated, yes

let the story goes it way : if you stay a long time with the other one, good for you, and if not, no problem, there's no "one way" to be happy
no need to fix this on a paper

and also, yes, it's good when sex become rougher through the years :)

>>681855955
>I got married because she was pregnant
>I get mine on the side

Certified, bona fide, corn-filled piece of shit ITT

I don married 10 years, two awesome kids and we have great fun. My wife is my best friend and we go well together.

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Here's her tits, not really the thread for this stuff though

Was great, then sex dropped off.
Having more sex than I've ever had, just not with her.

>>681853955
Well now that you posted this pic... Yes.

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Married 16 years, wife is hotter than ever. No complaints even after 3 kids.

It's like everything else in life. If you take the first thing you're offered, you're going to fail. If you don't work at it, it's going to suck.

>>681867808
Whoops, meant for you
>>681865223

actually yes, chatting to her best friend.. probably going to cheat but she is expecting a kid.. im such an asshole but her friend is so hot.. and into me

Married over 15 years, she 100% acceptes me as I am, she is till hot, we travel the world together, I look forward to hanging out with her still, have two kids that I actually like

Feels good man

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She's gained 80+ pounds since we got married. I supported her Masters Degree because she wasn't happy with her job. Graduates, gets new job, hates new job too. Petty and focused on material possessions. Constantly on Facebook and always sleeping. Has steadily progressed from fun to bitchy to full cunt.

Mistakes were made.

>>681867808
post more, anon

>>681865202
When you ask "how much", I'm assuming you're asking about a monetary value. She does pretty well, given the cost of living where I am is extremely low on a national average. I'll divulge that she is doctor and makes in the high six figures and her parents are retired scientists from the CDC and her dad inherited a shit ton of money from his father who was a major steel worker's union guy with ties to the mob.

Don't take it the wrong way. I'm self employed and own a decent business that makes money, but I just go through the motions.

All-in-all, we stand to be millionaires at some point on a long enough time line & I can dick around and not have to worry about retirement.

I'm not bragging at all because I'm not happy with my situation at all whatsoever. It's just the reality of things. Plus, we're not rich by any stretch of the imagination. I get that. However, we are very comfortable, financially.

In a country where over 80% of the population lives paycheck to paycheck, we are pretty damn well off.

If I could trade it all in for someone whom I really love, would do anything for and feel like she was put on earth just for me- I'd do it in a heartbeat.

>>681853955
Yes, I do.

marriage is good, i got a girl i know was a good choice.

so many people either settle or just stick with someone they should have broken up with. marriage isn't the problem it's the poor decisions people make in life.

also it's hard work and you can't be selfish so that rules out 30% of the population right away.

>>681863794
>>681865984
>>681866716
>>681866987
>>681867231
>>681867397
danni meow

>>681864867
Similar situation for me. And I second your advice.

yeah i kind of do. married for 13 years now started of great. had our ups and downs. about 2 years ago we got seperated and she started sleeping around with a few different guys. i heard about it since its a small town. so i started sleeping around too. we eventually got back together because of the kids which we both love but i know she will cheat on me first chance she gets and i will do the same so its just an open marriage that we dont say nothing about.

>>681853955
My marriage is going good.
>8 years
>3 kids

I still find her beautiful, and fun to be around. She makes me smile, and when im in a bad mood leaves me alone. She knows how to push the right buttons, and lets be fair, the wrong ones too. But shes my wife and i wouldnt change her for anything.

>>681868298
Nah, maybe someday in another thread

>>681853955
>like shit
>yes

>>681869010
you promise?

>>681855588
It's ok, you have someone around that knows everything about you and still fucks your shit up, so you'll always be humble. 20yrs in

>>681855955
Billy you dick, we still getting lunch Monday?

>>681863857
>am i missing what's so terrible about it?
The majority of men ITT married people they didn't get along with because they were thinking with their dicks or blinded by infatuation.

>>681856094
There's no butS, just don't have kids

It's easier that way

>>681857367
Yep. This guy gets it. It doesn't have to be this way, but that's how it happened with me. Also, once the divorce starts prepare to have her and all her friends and family hate you. They will try to make themselves believe you are the biggest piece of shit ever because it's easier to hate you than to be mature and deal with awkward situations.

>>681869208
No, lol.
I just don't want /b/ fucking with her social media accounts and stuff. Ya know?

>>681856468
I lived together for 5, 2 would have been plenty

>>681867976

you got any ounce of foresight to see the absolute guilt and ruining of your relationship? well at least when you are putting the gun in your mouth you can only blame yourself.

The first one sucked. she developed schizophrenia around 22 ( married at 20). Waited another 8 years and loving this one. coulsnt be happier.

>>681853955
Going great. Had a rough patch last year, but got through it. I took anti-depressants and went to therapy. If you blame your wife for your unhappiness, I urge you to do the same.

>>681869340
It's not bad

>>681855588
Not until you are older. Fuck more people.

>>681853955
5 years into it. going better than ever.
That being said, I didn't marry a spoiled money spending princess.

>>681859815
This seems so surreal that I have to believe its true.

>>681868211
>Has steadily progressed from fun to bitchy to full cunt
What was she like when she was fun?

>>681857367
Your wife has a nice ass. Did she ever let you fuck it?

>>681860383
I have the same shit dude! I can totally relatie. Not as far as you tho..

>>681869814

you wonder why there are such high rates of divorce look at the people who get married before 25

>>681861332
mammals lower their interest in sex if there is no variation in partners. Biology 101.
Marrying for sex is stupid. Marriage is supposed to be a lifelong partnership in everything.
However, you have to spice things up if you want your sex life back.

married 5 years. Met her after a period of 10 years of gigs, drugs and sex with guys and girls. Now its dull but I still sneak stuff on the side and secretly use meth. Also alcoholic but somehow manage to hold a good job, own home and will shortly buy a holiday house. Somehow I feel something will blow up and I'll get caught out.

I'm 27, been married for 2 years, dated for 6 before that. Still really happy, still love my wife. Trying to figure out if kids are for us or not.

>>681869491
Two tips:

a) flip images horizontally, google image search wont give people who only search once any results (really smart anons sometimes flip the image back to try)
b) do some post processing
c) crop the image slightly, or add black bars in certain locations to throw off image search


good luck

>>681861332

she has a different sex drive than you do, so you fucked up considering this and money are huge drivers for divorce.

or you know she don't find you attractive anymore.

>>681868211
> I supported her Masters Degree because she wasn't happy with her job. Graduates, gets new job, hates new job too

Never met a Woman that didn't sook to the ends of the earth about their job, there just may have been a reason they'd been relegated to childbearers.

>>681870018
Yeah... It's been weird.

I feel really sorry for both of me and my ex husbands parents. When we came out to them together, they thought we were telling them we got pregnant, not that we were both basically switching genders. They were kind of shocked. His parents are happy now though cause he doesn't have ulcers and stomach pain from all the internal stress of hating himself anymore, and mine are happy because I don't hide in my house and think about killing myself all day.

been married 16 years but have a girlfriend too, we've been together for 2 years. Wife doesn't know. I'm a much happier person with both to be honest. It's nice cause my girlfriend is married too, we both have kids and mortgages, etc. so its not like she's ever going to rat me out or make me leave my family. It works out pretty well honestly.

>>681870378
I don't understand why you got married if you effectively wanted to continue living your past lifestyle.

>>681860273
my wife is from a better family and makes more money than i ever could

I have an imaginary relationship with a webcam model... and now she's doing boy/girl stuff. Fuck!! My platonic love cheats on me :(

>>681853955
22 years marriage, regrets yes

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>>681870791
You'd fit in well with the polygamist sand niggers in Saudi Arabia.

>>681870801
reasonable comment. I thought at the time I would be happy to give it up but that wasn't the case

>>681870025
Interested and interesting. Up for a weekend trip and sexually adventurous. We did it in a public laundry room once. Able to engage in conversation with anyone about anything. Just "on" and bright.
To be honest, sometimes I think I drained all the life out of her like a vampire.

>>681871058
agreed, those mufuckers got shit figured out let me tell yah

Married 11 years
2 kids
We've both gotten a little soggy
I work, she's a stay at home mom
Warm food, warm bed, clean clothes, healthy kids
We don't want for much
It's a good relationship

>>681871238
>We've both gotten a little soggy
Heh, so true, a good life is fucking bad for that

>>681870791

damn dude don't you have any guilt about disrespecting your wife like that? or do you only care about yourself?

>>681871238

i think life is easier when you only want simple shit

>>681858189
Got it all wrong nigger. Marriage is a social construct built by men because we know these bitches are gonna take off as soon as they find another cock with more money. So men thought I know I'll make that bitch sign a god damn contract that says she can't service other cocks. The success of this institution has been amazing because the bitches took over the institution and flipped the entire concept of marriage to make men subservient to the pussy. We just need to get control of our bitches again.

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Is it weird that I've been with my missus for 16 years and we aren't married? We've talked about it, almost got married at one point but neither of us have really felt the desperate urge too and blowing heaps of money on it seems abhorrent when you're raising kids and buying a house.

>>681856021
>She's become an sjw in the last year though
FIX IT NOW. If you don't, it WILL kill your marriage.

>>681871458
>or do you only care about yourself?
Clearly
>inb4 some justification like I'm a better man when I cheat blah blah

>>681858189

its easier to shit on something rather than admit you are horrible at it, right anon?

>>681871619
Nah, I make a lot of money. We have our toys. When I said we don't want for much It's because we buy the shit we want when we want it.

Is the dude with the asian wife who got fat after having kids here? Im still waiting for a picture or at least give me the weight and height. no face, i wanna see what the hell you were talking about belly flaps.

Derik, its george here, thread ended last night, never got your reply.

>>681860273
That's what prenups are for faggot. You have yourself to blame if you are going to "gamble" on it when laws and systems exist to stop you from getting fucked.

>>681871458
i don't consider it disrespect. i consider it actually helping my marriage. if i didn't have my gf, i'd probably divorce my wife and leave my kids so i could be on my own and date other chicks, as it stands i provide for my family, she doesn't have to work, i make 6 figures, she drives a beemer and gets her hair and nails done whenever she wants, i just bought her some diamond earrings today... she's all good, i'd bet she be alright with it if i came clean, she just wouldn't want the neighbors or her parents to know, lol

I'm making my wife fatter by spiking her food,smoothie etc with boost plus calories

>>681871144
>sometimes I think I drained all the life out of her like a vampire
Yeah, there a fair chance that you two aren't emotionally compatible from what you've said.

But judging by the fact that she's dissatisfied with her career, gained weight, and constantly sleeps, it also sounds like she's depressed. This could be because you two aren't right for each other emotionally, but it could also have nothing to do with that.

Now, you know the situation better than me. So, if you think it's appropriate and you think she'd be open to the idea, I'd say you should suggest to her that she sees a psychologist.

>>681872174

lol then you are the opposite of what that means you dingus. not wanting for much means you don't go out and buy everything you want

>>681871349
Yeah, it's true. Good food, good beer, good living = increased waist size.

>>681872234
>he has faith in prenups
you havent lived son.

>>681853955
This picture is so disgusting

>>681872242

thats some fucked up reasoning for making your wife look like a fool. enjoy the drama when this inevitably blows up in your face.

also if your gf is already cheating what makes you think there isn't more people involved?

>>681860383
Thats a nice story anon. Hope i can find a sweet girl like that

>>681872242
You should really divorce her, live for yourself not your wife. Then you could have even more girlfriends.

>>681872427
>>>>/lgbt/

I miss the freedom of being able to do what I want. When I want. Have a kid as well. Also miss being able to blow my money on shit I want and not get bitches at. On the plus side, never lonely, always have a friend there for me, and I can do anything I want to get sexually and she's cool with it. I don't regret it. Marry your best friend, even if y'all niggas gay. It's the key to being happy. If y'all so t laughing most of the time while you're together or at least talking. I wouldn't stay with them.

>>681853955
Married a pornstar pretty black girl, makes 120k a year. Made me eat her out one night she was ESP wet, turned on a video and tells me she fucked someone that day. Made me watch a video of it as I ate her out. Was pissed at first but she gave me some amazing head as I watched the video. She said she was going to keep doing it, and she makes most of the money... She would get really good angles and make videos most times, and I like it now. Once she let me hide in the bedroom and watch. She only cheats on me maybe once every couple months tops, but its fun now. I don't regret marrying her.

>>681872487
yah, probably, but i don't really give a fuck, my needs are my needs, she got fat and old and doesn't fuck or blow me any more... who's fault is that?

as far as my gf fucking around, i understand that is a risk, she is the type, but i wrap my junk and cross my fingers... that pussy is too good my friend

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>>681872234
>Believing that pre-nups protect you

>>681872242

if you were smart you'd start stashing away cash right now because you're going to have a nasty divorce in your future.

take out like 5% of your pay check every pay day from bank teller and just keep it hidden. it's hard for any lawyer to prove it wasn't for a purchase or something

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>>681871658
Marriage worked when a strong father was involved. They prevented their daughters from slutting things up and instilled some values into her, and also had some say over who she married so she didn't just pick some smooth-talking tool. That's where the whole 'father gives the bride away thing' came from. Also, in the past, the focus was purely on the wellbeing of the children. That has changed.

Marriage today is a clusterfuck/crapshoot that is dangerous for men and wonderful for women. It has become an effective way to drain men of their resources, and the only entities that benefit are the government and women. Consider most divorce payouts and alimony: the courts almost always award the maximum that they can. Why, because she needs it? No, because throughout the US, in almost every jurisdiction, the court receives a percentage of the award.

I would strongly recommend against getting married. There are social pressures against a woman staying married, even in a positive relationship with a good man. Women spend years hearing from the media that men MUST do all of these things to keep her, and most have swallowed it and truly believe that they do not have to do anything for their men, and the legal and civil codes are on her side if she wants out.

>>681872945
post pics of the wife. crop her head.

>>681862790
>Brother and me raise the kids
you should marry your brother

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>>681865223
There's a hot tranny

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>>681872885

Divorced 2 years ago after my baby was born. This was one of those surprise I'm pregnant type things and so me thinking like the 1950s i married her before my child is born.

During the pregnancy she was a fucking bitch. I mean hardcore bitch. I stuck through it because of my child. Keot saying hormones were making her nuts. I asked doc and he said no.. Doc wanted to give her pills. I think Xanax while pregnant but said she was too late in stage of pregnancy.

Skip, baby is born. I fell in love when i first saw her. I will do anythjng for her. 2 months when she was born. I bought a 2 bedroom condo with loft and worked my ass off. All i wanted was a family. I tried, worked and came home. Spent time with them. But when i was at work. The bitch would text me bullshit and we would fight. First it was every week. We had 1 car and i would take it to work. So i said fuck it. I went and bought 2 cars. She still wasnt satisfied. Then i found out about her and her facebook bullshit. Talking to some guy she fucked in florida. I read the convos. Fuck that. Went to divorce lawyer and through a grand at him. She found the papers in my work bag. Next day she fucking left. Took my baby and left and went to some fucking nigger shelter. Then they were ready to kick her out and she lied on paper saying i hit her for a TRO. Lies up the asshole. Thanksgiving comes around and she is trying to call me. Fuck that, i was fucking around with so many woman after i got my lawyer. So i had the girl i was fucking when i met her pick up phone and say Hello? She immediately hangs up, she leaves a VM. I went to cops and cops said nothing they can do for her contacting me. But if i pocket dial that bitch, i get locked up. What great fucking retarded laws we have in the fucking states.

My divorce story gets better. Let me know who is interested and ill continue. This is 100 percent fucking true. I hate that fucking cunt.

>>681873318
Had something similar. Do continue...

>>681873001
Not planning on getting married at all, I agree with you on most things, I think we as men just need to wake up to the reality women are different and the concept of love as it is preached to us, does not exist for women.

>>681873318

damn anon that sucks. fathers who get into that situation always have to fight uphill because everyone will believe the poor sad woman before a man

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>>681872234
>laws and systems exist to stop you from getting fucked
You do not know what you are talking about. The laws and systems favor women. Prenups are routinely thrown out, and there is no way to prevent this.

>>681873001
Heh, looking at your picture, when my parents divorced my old man was living in a trailer for a few years, thankfully he's re-married now with a house and business and they're both happier. Divorce is a pretty fucked afair.

>>681872994
already on top of that one good sir

i know this is going to go south eventually

>>681871144
>To be honest, sometimes I think I drained all the life out of her like a vampire
You treated her like an equal. You have to lead her.

>>681873318
Go to a pharmacy and get a DNA test, get some saliva from the baby and from you, send it off with $120 check. Make sure that that child is yours before you get in deeper than you are.

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>>681853955
My marriage is coming up on its 10th anniversary. I love her veey much.

Was with my ex for 7 years. We were supposed to get married, but once she fucked around on me the trust was gone.

Super glad I didn't get married when she wanted too, or i'd be paying that stupid whore money every month.

29 and pretty sure I'll never marry

Too many horrible women I've known in my life to ever trust one with something like marriage

>>681873107
oh i'm more careful than that anon, who do you think i've kept this going for so long without getting caught?

>>681873318
Moar of this tragic tale.
Sorry, you didn't escape with shit cleaner than I did.

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>>681874171

see man i was like this too but then i met someone and it was like no other fucking thing i've ever gone through. married and having a kid now, don't give up anon.

you actually need to know what a shitty relationship is like before you know what a good one is

>>681855955
You sir are a cunt!

>>681874276
damn you anon, peaking my interest and then dissapointing me...

regret being married? yes. Regret having a wonderful daughter? not at all.

>>681874306
if true, that is simply amazing. they cant be mad at him because she's the one who cheated.

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>>681873894
We met online. We're watching stargate sg1 right now. Gonna fuck later.

My mother-in-law is making my life hell. She is verbally abusive, irrational, manipulative, and has raised my wife and her brother on a system of guilt to get them to see her way in everything. She has a fucked up way of making herself be the victim and deflects everything onto whoever she's upset with at that moment. She has no friends because of her shitty, forceful personality, but has an irrational fear of being alone. More than once she's attacked my father-in-law during arguments, then cries about how nobody cares about her and how she's alone. She's been in a marriage that she's hated for over thirty years, and resents her husband immensely for it. She can't not micromanage affairs that she has no business being a part of. She has the worst definition of "family" that I've ever seen, since she's disowned one daughter and can't stop dictating how my wife should live her life, even though my wife is thirty, hasn't lived with her mother in ten years and is successful in her own right.

I've been trying to come up with the best way of keeping my wife and our eventual family away from her mother, because I cannot stand to have this woman in my life for any longer than absolutely necessary. The worst part about all of this is everyone in the family, my wife included, knows my mother-in-law is a fucking horrible person but says nothing, because "that's just how she is."

It is going well. I regret nothing. To be honest, she's out of my league but she has a large burn on her upper arm that I think knocked her self esteem down far enough to go for me.

>>681874445
I had a 2+ year relationship in high school. We got along for the most part, had a lot of sex, fought occasionally, but ended the relationship on great terms. She's had a long-term boyfriend for like 8-9 years now and IMO it's best to just let her be happy with him.

Honestly I do fantasize sometimes about getting a cute 8/10 wife, having some kids and raising them, but then I just think about how so many women in my life who I thought were great turned into know-it-all cunts.

You try and use logic and reason and the only counterargument you get is "NO IM RIGHT BECAUSE I SAY SO" and I really just think I'm happier smoking pot and playing FIFA

>>68183318
Continue..
After that bitch leaves VM, i listen and she starts saying how much i am a POS and how i dont want to pick up or see my duaghter for thanksgiving. I get so fuckin mad. I then immediately start fucking the girl i was with just so i could calm down. I am in shape and i hit the gym everyday. So it wasnt hard for me to get woman.. that bitches leaves and i go to anothet bitches house. No fucks given. Didnt even shower. I dont care.. judge me. Anyway.. my birthday was coming uo on the 4th of dec. Dec 3rd she dropped the fucking TRO and we were able to speak. Once i got the OK from my lawyer i scolded that cunt and played the baby i miss you card when all i wanted to do was see my daughter. 2 months i havent seen her and all that was going through my mnd was this fuckin bitch having my daughter call another man daddy. That is some fucking nigger shit. Let me tell you.. i got her to say she lied just so she can stay at that fucking nigger shelter. They were going to send her to another shelter. I sent that text over to my lawyer. Told him here is the proof. My court date was a week beforw christmas. They tried postponing it. I through 5g at my lawyer and told him and his kike nose to start working or in going to rup your fucking jew balls off and feed them to a pack of starving niglets. Nah i didnt do that but i did throw a chair and broke his wall and called him a kike. He went to the judges chambers. I got to get my daughter for christmas. I also get her 1 day every weekend. This was a temp order. I said fuck it i want my duaghter. Christmas comes and i pick her up at the police precinct. I dont trust that bitch anymore. She starts crying and boo hooing like a cunt. I get mt duaghter and put her in my car and take her home with me. She had no idea who i fucking was. That is what upset me. I was so fuckin upset just because of that. So i made it my mission to make my baby girl know who i was. I am about 6k in with my lawyer so far.

Continue?

>>681873318
Moar
I've been done the crazy was bitch and have kids with them bro. I ended up with them So life's good

>>681871619
not when other shit gets in the way

Just turned 24, have been together for almost 4 years, no kids.

Every goddamn day this bitch keeps bringing up marriage. She wants a damn ring and the whole wedding shit soon. That shit is just not a priority for me right now because I want to buy a goddamn house, not a fucking ring and a wedding.

Fuck I don't even see the point in getting married anyways. We're already married in the legal sense. Fuck society for beating this irrelevant expensive Disney-tier symbolism bullshit in our women's brains.

not looking for advice, just venting

>>681874887
families are complicated. ive witnessed similar problematic people like your mother in law as you describe. in short, you can't fix it. you can't do anything about it. you are going to have to either be with being told how to live your life or you'll be the bad guy, and you will always end up as being the bad guy regardless of how fucked it the demands are.

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>>681874878
As far as OPs question goes, if you communicate and choose wisely, there's no reason to regret a good marriage.

>>681862317
I keep hearing this, and if any other anons can give input, I would appreciate it. Are Eastern Europeans really that much better spouse material?

>>681875251
she knows that if you get married before you buy the house, then its half hers. if you marry after you buy the house, its not half hers. thats why she's pressuring you dude.

>>681875251
Don't do it, man. Save yourself for another woman. She's just trying to get half of the house.

>>681855588

Leave marraige for your 30s.

>>681875134
So i am 6k in with my lawyer. Working my ass off and going on tinder and match and POF and OKcupid. I just wanted to fuck in the brand new bed i bought when i moved into my condo. Everything was fucking new. Everything. This dumb cunt threw it out. After Christmas. I drop off my daughter to the precinct again. She then says she loves me and misses me and i say yea well fuck off.. i walk back to my car and drive home. I then immediately call a bitch to come over so i can fuck. Then i get a text message after i juat busted my nut all over this bitches ass crack and its from my ex and she is fingering her vagina. I was like what the fuck. No i wont post any pictures of my life here so dont ask. Its for mt daughters safety. Anyway, she then says she wants me to come over and fuck. I didnt respond. I just lay next to this blonde bitch with a hot face and mediocre body. Who the fuck doesnt shave anymore. Makes the pussy potent.. she falls asleep and i contemplate all night and think with my cock. I could use that cunt as a fuck buddy if i played my cards right. So i said fuck it. Blonde bitch ledt at 5am. I went to gym then work.

Continue?

>>681875251

dude i was in the same boat but convinced her to look at houses just for fun. the moment she saw our current house the wedding was out the fucking window

>>681875944
Have you done a DNA test yet?

>>681875284
>>families are complicated
I've lived in a complicated family. My parents divorced when I was 7, but my father stayed around to be the disciplinarian when my siblings and I fucked up, and I never appreciated that until I grew up and moved out of my mother's house. I bounced back and forth between my parents' houses--once almost moving out of the state--and had to live with an environment where two people who barely tolerate each other have to try and hide that from their kids, and still be completely unable to do that. I learned what "family" was from people who felt sorry for what my family was actually like. But now, looking back at what my parents did for their kids despite their resentment and anger towards each other, I realize that my broken family is still loads better than what my wife had, because she was effectively living a controlled lie until she moved out.

My biggest fear is not that my wife will cheat on me, or take me to court for divorce and obnoxious child support payments; it's that she'll chose to listen to her mother over me in all our important, life-changing decisions, because her mother will try and convince her that I'm worthless if she doesn't. That's how controlling this woman is, and while I trust my wife immensely--and fuck what you assholes think you know about trust--I don't know if she'll have my back against her mother's demands in the future. And that is an incredibly shitty feeling.

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>>681875944
>>681875944
>>681875944
just stop. you sound retarded.

>>681875251

Are you me?

I can either do the wedding shit, travel the world, buy a house or try and make a startup.
Girlfriend is trying to get me to do all 4 but thats not how this works!

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>>681853955
>my marriage

I've been married 10yrs together 15. 2 kids. Im FUCKING BORED. Been toying with the idea of banging some new pussy just to get something fresh.

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>>681876396
And you sound like a woman or a cuck.

>>681875251
>no kids

you have a get out of jail free card, I'd suggest using it

>>681875685

she doesn't get half the house unless the guy cheats or abuses her or divorces for no reason. also if no kids are involved or the girl made no obvious career sacrifice then she's got zero chance of getting any money. judges don't hand out half a persons salary like candy

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>>681875944
>mfw telling daughter yea well fuck off
>mfw it took me a minute to follow your poor sentence structure and realize ypu meant your wife
>mfw doot

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>>681859815

pic related. pic related so fucking much.

>>681876620
come back when you're writing skills are better.

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>>681867985

Now with 39 year old MILF OC (shows partly why I am still happy)

check this
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oEfhUJvn5rM

>>681875944
2 days later after i got myself so brokendown and tired and cant stop thinking od my duaghters face, i get a text from this cunt. She is now naked and has a dildo in her vagina. I said fuck it. I go over and fuck her. Then i told her i am selling the condo. I want to move. She doesnt believe it. No idea why? She then tells me she loves me and how she fucked up. But in my mind her ship has sailed and now.my trust issues with woman are so bad. I have a wall up and behind that is a army and more walls. I then left. Kept getting my daughter weekend after weekend and she knows its me. I am so happy. So then this bitch found out i fucked one of her friends and then she texts me and tells me she fucked her ex mike around the same time she supposedly was pregnant. I briught this to my lawyers attentiom. He went to judge and i was told to get a dna test. Got dna test.. court postponed. Another 3k gone just for that. Fuckig kike lawyer. She is mine. That cunt doeant know.i got one. So she continues to hit mew ith the whole ex thing. No fucks given in my end.

Fast foward.. i am in court.. finally. This is about my child now and about child support. I even through in there she is not fit to be a mother and had over 900 text messages. My lawyer told the judge she lied to get a TRO. Judges exact words were.. yes i saw that.. i sat there in disbelief. Thats it.. thats all you can fucking say?

Continue?

Pretty shitty. She hardly cleans. Doesn't cook. We don't have sex since she doesn't want to have sex with me. No blow jobs. Pretty sure she wants other dick. Regret it very much.

>>681876744
Sorry i am typing in my phone..my daughter is sick and so i am going back and forth.

Been married twice. Once at 22 for 6 years and then again at 31. I'm 34 now.

It's all whatever. You only live once. It's not hard to split up or do the shared custody thing.

Leaf on the wind. All we are is dust in the wind.

I signed up for tinder 3 days ago and get a match per day, even though I am honestly a 5 or 6 in looks.

Why regret things that you can stop?

>>681876850
Come back when you know the difference between your and you're.

>>681876334
> she'll chose to listen to her mother over me in all our important, life-changing decisions, because her mother will try and convince her that I'm worthless if she doesn't.

thing is you know that it is exactly what is going to happen, she may not cheat I wasn't even referring to that. if you dont have kids yet dont, you are already married so there isnt much you can do. you may trust her but you already know in the back of your mind what the possibilities are, that isn't as bad as it being a shock, all i can say is i hope things go ok for you. Id be insulating the situation as best i could, start yourself a cash nest in a safe place. you may need it.

>>681873598
wow @ pic

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>>681857523
>Get married twice. The first is so you know how shitty it can be and what not to look for the second time.
This is some motherfucking TRUTH right here!

You learn, guys, you learn.

I'm five years into my second wife and could only slightly be happier.

Reward good behavior, punish bad.
Go out of your way often to be nice and she will do the same.
Own her.

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>>681877112
>Continue?
why the fuck do you keep asking?
I told you stop and yet you're still posting.
shut up already.
>>681877292
still doesn't change my argument

>>681876690
I know a guy who owned his own house married a woman owned her own house. 7 years later no kids together and either she got half the house or he had to pay her. So he's paying her now. Until it was all official he paid her car payment insurance and was told of he didn't the judge would even be harder on him.

>>681870734
>>681859815

Screen cap this boys, this is what happens when you stay on tumblr for too long seriously cant wait for islam now.

>>681876690
in the usa there is this thing called no fault divorce, she can sleep with the entire football team in the middle of the stadium, she gets half the house.

>>681876917
Very nice!

just married (2 months ago)
1.5yrs together overall
she 6 months preg

in a few years when we iron out our differences and our individual mental blockages we might have a good thing going. for now it's kinda tough.

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>>681877786
Just don't have any more kids.

>>681877786
Kids ruin everything bro. Trust me. Don't have more than one.