Girlfriend of nearly 2 years and I broke up today. Could use a feels thread.
Ive only got 1 more to share hopefully others join
I feel you anon, much love brother
>>681738996
Reading things like this at least makes me feel better about my situation in comparison. Thanks anon
>>681740290
Np My ex and I broke up after 10 years in October, it gets better. Just put yourself out there and smash anything thatll give u the light of day. just make sure to pull out and be safe
>>681738001
Feel like sharing the story?
Bump
How's everyone doing tonight?
https://youtu.be/7gV3g9LCvPc
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>>681742319
I can already tell this won't end well
What's her name?
>>681741782
Haha 4:20 seconds XD
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>>681742510
Almost as gay as op
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>>681742182
Been a long time since I've seen this l. Reminds me of old times.
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As a kissless virgin... what are the most common reasons people break up? I always hear cheating and "fighting too much". What things does a couple fight over?
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1621 http://filenurse.com/download/3f3f51b50639deec3cdc1c90e6ae7a68.html
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Sorry bro. That happened to me last year and it sucked a lot.
Just find someone new to take your mind off her.
>>681743026
As a touchless virgin I also wonder what would a couple fight about?
>>681743164
Nigga we ain't clicking that shit
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>>681743299
Anything, people just lose the feeling its apart of life.
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All done, for anyone lurking. Like someone else said I got this a while back and haven't seen it posted in a long time.
>>681743558
moar, need 15\15
>>681743164
>.scr
Come on really? Posting a virus in a feels thread? People in this thread are ready to kill themselves at a moments notice and you post shit like this? Just fuck off
I am a senior in highschool who is getting ready to lose everyone I care about because of college. I don't think I can handle being all alone again.
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>>681743299
The same shit everyone fights over.
>>681743867
Been lurking these for a while and never saw this. Unexpected happy end.
>>681743026
There was a disagreement, our first real argument, that we had a few months ago. Since then she became more and more distant. When I asked about her distancing herself recently she said she hasn't felt the same since that argument.
>>681743026
Stupid things, usually because one lacks a feeling from the other
>>681738996
Damn anon, damn
>>681744134
This can't be any more true
>>681744169
What do you feel like you are going to lose?
>>681744358
This is arguments are sometimes healthy in a relationship
>>681744169
University can be pretty shitty for that reason.
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>>681743477
i need some sob music b
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zXbSfl0O3qU
>>681743867
Thank god for the happy end.
I don't think my soul can handle another "She died" ending.
>>681744682
Its more than that. These people saved me from being an hero the day before my 18th. They don't know, and probably never will. Without them, I'm going rignt back to where I used to be.
>>681744744
>https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gIuotFZnBtk
When not being overused as a meme, it really is a beautifully sad song
>>681743867
Got any more of these comics?
I feel your pain brother. Gf of two years cheated on me, kicked me out of our apartment and started dating the guy she slept with.
It's been almost two months and it fucking hurts to wake up in the morning (she's usually my first thought)
But we're all gonna make it.
>>681745080
I'll go ahead and post another, its a different style and all but I haven't seen it posted in a while either. 1/6
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>>681741699
This. Literally gets me every time.
>>681745087
Same thing happened to me, she always came home and told me how much she hated her co-worker. He's the guy she cheated on me with and he moved in with her when I left...
It's been 2 years and I still think of her when I wake up.
>>681744663
Yeah arguments can be healthy. Unfortunately this one wasn't. I wanted to make things work, I thought we could. But she just seemed to try in our relationship less and less. And when we met today to talk, she it was clear didn't want to try anymore.
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>>681745426
Tanks anon.
>>681745018
I know how it goes man. I pretty much had the same best friends from preschool through high school. It can be hard to meet new friends outside of your comfort zone, but you can do it. Lots of people have social problems when they are in high school, it doesn't mean they won't get Bette.
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>>681745087
My ex fucked some other dude and gave me an STI. Fucking crazy bitch.
The key is to have enough self respect to permanently cut them out of your life, advice I probably should have taken.
I remember suffering for months missing her.
You still in contact with her?
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Most days I end up fantasizing about being successful because deep down I can't stand what a miserable failure I've turned out to be.
At this point I've probably created at least a hundred alternate timelines to my life.
It's very lonely inside my head.
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>>681745851
Story of my life.
>>681745851
Why do you feel like a failure anon?
>>681744656
The only people who care about my existence. The only people who care that I haven't smiled in a week. The people who notice when I'm yawning all day because I've been here until 3 A.M.
>>681745984
Your service is much appreciated.
>>681746093
At least you still have those people in your life
>>681744484
This. More or less she just didn't feel the same way being with me anymore. I've felt it coming for a little while now, but it still sucks.
>>681741699
Its 7am and I just finished my shift at the factory. I'm tired and laying down on my bed unable to sleep in my lonely 1 room flat. Like always I guess
>>681745675
No. My friends from elementry were my tormenters in middleschool. These are the few people I became friends with in junior and senior year. I have been alone, and I don't know if I can do it again.
>>681745851
i do the same. also with girls.
thing is all those fantasies arent far outside reality and i know i could do them. just made bad choices. mostly having to do with drugs
>>681738001
I don't know why you feel sad, didn't you know love isn't real before you got into the relationship?
Dumping a few more random older ones
>>681746056
A lot of reasons, really. I had potential when young but the desire to fit in caused me to turn to drugs, where I pretty much pissed the last five years of my life away. Now I'm twenty-three, only have a year and half of college under my belt, about to work a menial job for minimum wage, and moved back in with my parents after heroin started to tear my life up.
Family has abnormally high expectations for me too, and I feel like I'll never live up to them.
Plus socially I'm pretty alienated and retarded, and see it as pathetic that I'm still struggling with what most of my peers mastered in their teens.
The worst thing is, in the end, it's your fault. You didn't try hard enough, you weren't there enough, you didn't try enough; you weren't enough. The reserve of self-loathing gets tapped and the thoughts of what if overwhelm the mind despite any other reason. The fault lies on your doorstep and it's hard to continue after. And the worst thing is your next relationship will be plagued by the old, and happiness recedes into duty of self-preservation. Need transitions to want, and want shadowed by need. Though you have become less happy in conquest than pursuit.
Just broke up with my ex of 4 years recently, 2 years in she left me and fucked some guy 3 days later, she was a slut the whole summer then wanted me back at the end, my advice is don't ever take. Them back, respect yourself enough to leave it, I suffered for another 2 years before the end, I'm still recovering cause it's recent but she's a scum bag and I hate what she did, we'll all pull through together guys.
>>681746093
Wah wah, don't be a little pussy. You'll probably make some of the best friends of your life in college, statistically speaking. If you move after college, THAT's when you should start worrying.
>>681745725
She's out. Took me a while to delete them both from Facebook (he was a "friend" of mine too) but that's because I don't go on often.
Last message she sent me was a rant on how the other guy is better than me in every way, blah blah blah, because I refused to give her rent money she said I "owed" her for the second half of the month (I was kicked out halfway through).
The emotional part of me is in constant pain but logically I know I'm better off. She was abusive and controlling. She cheated on me. He's ugly as fuck and a liar and a deceiver.
I may not be on cloud nine now, but one day I will be, and I'll be back on top.
"The hell with circumstances, I create opportunities" -Bruce Lee
That's something I'm going to take to heart over everything else for the rest of my life.
>rejected from: Walmart, PestSmart, McDonald's, Big Lots, and Chipotle.
If I don't find a job by my 20th birthday, I'm joining Scientology.
>>681742435
Colleen
>>681746574
If you go into it thinking you won't make new friends, that's what is going to happen. Don't get too reliant on your current friends. People change, you will change. One day you will realize that someone you used to be close with has become a stranger. You've got to learn to rely on yourself, and to be able to form new relationships. The worlds full of good people, you just have to put yourself out there.
>>681746843
fuck man, i watched ed edd n eddie my entire childhood. that shit feels
>>681746584
Same. I just get lucky with some hot ones who I see as way out of my league, but I try not to go for them anymore because I end up turning into a lunatic.
>>681746971
kek
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>>681746585
I believe in it. I think love is real. I think I have experienced it and I'm greatful for that. However, it is an extremely difficult thing to hold onto. Both sides have to keep putting in the effort to make love work. Neither can give up. As soon as one side starts to falter love easily starts to slip away. And it sucks being helpless when you're on the side that still cares, and you watch the love fade away.
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>>681747752
This is why I'm scared of marriage.
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>>681746644
It's never too late to turn shit around. I wasted 7 years of my life on meth and heroin. I went from a full ride scholarship to one of the best colleges in the country to jail within a year. Looking back on it all, I was afraid. Afraid of not being good enough, afraid of trying my hardest and failing. So I didn't try, I took the easy way out with the drugs. What are you afraid of?
>>681747352
right, like at first they like me but then i do something that reveals im a little off center.
>>681738001
been there OP
also been down myself I recently wrote my memoirs but since i am just generally so vile mst people dont want to read it / i am embarrassed that it is so ugly and so am i, also ate some edibles so im flying rite now, im retarded
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>>681746657
If it's your fault, then you can change it. All you have to do is try, no more excuses, no more half assed attempts, but a real attempt using everything you've got. We both know you can do it.
>>681738001
Man, at least all of y'all have experienced love. I have no idea what it feels like and I feel like I'm missing out on a big part of the human experience.
>>681748159
Failing, or I was. I've grown used to it, and usually study the subjects I find interesting without being in an academic setting.
I honestly don't have a better reason than that.
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>>681748159
are.. are you guys me?
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>>681748425
I've tried to overcome that by analyzing their instability, social anxiety too. Sometimes it's a little mean but it helps recognizing that you're not the only one.
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>>681748708
I think there are a lot of us here that feel the same way. I just wish that made it easier.
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>>681748844
1/40?
Kek, that's loooong.
>>681747752
Right, what I should really say is that long lasting, life-long love doesn't exist in humans. We are a polygamous species. If you look at the divorce rate, its something like 50% of marriages that end in divorce. After my first relationship, I realized this and with every relationship so far I've gone into knowing full well that it will probably end. I think you should do the same. That way when it's over you won't really be surprised or sad.
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>>681748958
Oh god, not partner activities.
>all of these pictures from all these different eras
I'd almost forgotten what true sadness feels like. Thank you anons, its been a while since I've felt anything at all.
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Remember to smile anon.
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>>681748694
Getting used to failure isn't a place you want to be. If you no longer have a fear of failure than the issue is probably some deepset self-hatred. If you want to improve yourself, you have to overcome it.
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>>681738001
Are you this guy?
https://youtu.be/P5a75_ZUAkw
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>>681748956
If it was easy, it wouldn't be worth it. The easy choice is to keep letting yourself down by making the same mistakes and excuses again.
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>>681741699
Wanna off myself but hey
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>>681750157
Why do you feel this way anon?
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>>681743026
What's your name
>>681749640
I used to be mercilessly self-critical, and that usually stemmed from being a faggot online. I genuinely began to believe I was worthless and couldn't even accept any positivity in my life. I've gotten better though, which is very strange for me to admit, so a part of me is slightly hopeful of the future and what I can really do with myself.
>>681750157
What's been bothering you?
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>>681750544
Just being an emo.
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>>681750596
Well this was unexpected
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>>681750347
Just getting ignored too much.
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>>681750386
Any signs of improvement is good. Keep trying brother, you'll get there before you know it. If you had told me a year ago that I'd be doing as well as I am, I wouldn't have believed it.
>>681750753
By who?
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>>681750673
Top kek.
Well then....
>>681750924
Everyone but you I'd say.
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>>681750962
Well that escalated quickly.
>>681738001
Not going to read this thread...
OP, did you post on 9gag that you were going to propose, but she broke up with you because she didn't know how she felt, then fucked 3 different guys?
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>>681751014
Not everyone. What's going on?
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>>681750889
Thanks for the kind words man. I really appreciate that. All the best.
>>681751214
Wanna talk with a certain person I guess.
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>>681738001
I broke up with mine a few days ago. I would have gone to the ends of the earth for her. When she told me she was raped, I cried, Not tears of sadness, but of anger, I hugged her, it lasted almost 2 hours, just us hugging in a car, we both almost fell asleep in that parking lot. I held her when she was down, made her laugh when she was going to cry, told her the world wasn't going to end. She was the first person to take me out on my birthday, no one had ever done that before. I was turning 21 and she took me Bowling, but we got there too late and could only bowl one game, we then sat at a Dennys for 4 hours just talking. It was the best birthday I ever had. I dropped an "I love you" way to early in our relationship, but she didn't care and said it back. I gave her a two page letter shoved into a card on valentines day, because it wouldn't all fit on the card, in return she gave me my first kiss. We went to the zoo, she listened to every weird animal fact I knew, and laughed when I made bad puns, I walked around in her jacket, which was too small for me, all day because I was too macho to wear a coat in 50 degree weather. I dealt with her anxiety, how she was never on time for anything, because it was hard for her to leave the house. I helped her get better, helped her work out her issues, she was becoming the girl everyone used to know again.
How did she repay me?
She lied to my face, slept with 4 different guys, and is currently at a flophouse where she hasn't answered me or anyone she was close with in almost 3 weeks, not even the message I sent saying it was over. She abused me, used me as a crutch, a comfort blanket. Even after all that, I still love her, I still want her back more than anything, but she's not coming back, and she never will. I just pray every night that she's ok
I love you Victoria, I'll never stop loving you.
>>681751014
Like other anon says, not everyone. What is happening in your life?
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>>681751142
go back to 9gag fag
underage b&
>>681751372
No problem. Hope you feel better.
>>681751420
You will get over her, as empty as those words sound. Don't feed your feelings, it will make them last.
>>681751375
Potential love interest?
>>681751755
Something like that
>>681751507
oh sod off. I began here in the age of jewpons. the only thing underage here is OP. So i like to browse 4chan, 9gag, AND reddit. Im the trifecta of faggotry.
>>681751420
Gotta move on bro. I know it seems impossible, but you can do it. Once you've met someone like, someone who can make it all make sense, it's hard to move on. She clearly wasn't the one though, there are plenty of good girls out there, you just have to keep looking.
>>681751755
I just feel like I could have done more, I tried to do everything right, and it still wasn't enough
>>681751963
Do it. Nothing is worse than looking back thinking "what if". If things go bad, we'll be here for you.
>>681752192
Put the pussy on a pedestal and got dropped, good job OP, that's what you get when you let a bitch have that much emotional control over you
>>681751963
What's the story? Have you talked to them?
>>681752192
Live and learn brother. If your goal is to have everything work out a certain way, it's not going to happen. You will have conflicts, you will fail, things will fall apart, it's all a part of life.
>>681747278
agh why did that make me cry
>>681751420
Anon i once loved a victoria although she a nickname but i remember she told something like about being taken advantage of at a party i was never with her though used me as a inbetween kinda guy for when she was single and when i read that last line i felt an old feel
>>681753207
Ducky?
>>681753388
No it was tori, to me she was like the one that got away despite ho bad she was for me but i sorta moved on i still remember a lot cut her off better now.. the memories fuck em
i miss you pop, i love you, im sorry i wasn't there when you took your last breath, i should of been, i feel so guilty
>>681753693
Yeah, mine was called ducky, because she loved ducks so much, I know it's childish, but it was kinda cute.
I'm trying my best to move on, everyone says find someone new, but it took 4 years to find this one. She wasn't just my gf, she was my best friend in the world, and it sucks losing both at once, especially when you really don't have anyone else
>>681751420
Keep going my good man, just went through something similar but in comparison it was nothing, i can only imagine what you´re going through and i know this doesn´t mean anithing to you but, you will get over it and even find someone that will reciprocate your feelings, just look for it.
>>681754262
It's the best thing you can do seriously hope you best but, you have to better yourself a little months from now it'll seem very different and you'll know then
>>681754011
Shits rough.
Spend time with your loved ones when you've got the chance. Once you've missed it, you never wish you had spent less time with them.
>>681749069
I'll drop a song aswell
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4OjiOn5s8s8
It's my birthday today /b/ros, everyone forgot again.
>>681754750
Kek, happy birthday man.
>>681754750
Happy birthday anon
What does it matter if they didnt remember obviously you need some better people to surround yourself with
>>681754750
Happy birthday bro, hope you have a good one.
>>681754623
i was with him for the last week, day in day out i was there beside him but on the Friday we got a call at 2:30 in the morning telling us to come in, my mum woke me up and told me and said anon please stay so i did, he past 6:30 in the morning, i wish i was there, just to say my final goodbyes.
>>681754750
happy birthday /b/ro
>>681754999
Glad you got to spend some time with him before he went. I bet he would be happy that you care, and not worried about you not being there.
>>681754750
Why did they forget anon? What happened?
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>>681755090
Thanks /b/ros, at least I get to feel with you guys before I hero.
>>681754750
Happy b day man
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>>681754011
Some feels music
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ml0Mtgw0mQk
>>681755732
What's got you thinking that way man? You can tell us.
>>681755320
it wasn't enough, when my dad wasn't around he was the man i could look up to
>>681755576
Family just tossed me aside like I'm nobody. My mom was the only that cheered me up, but I lost her to a car accident 2 years ago.
>>681738001
I'm sorry OP it'll be okay
>>681756018
Sorry to here that, you got anyone else in your life? Or anyone you would like to be in your life?
>>681740601
Why did you break up?
>>681738001
Really, people can tell you things to help you feel better but that can only take you so far.
My suggestion is to delete all of her messages, hide her pictures away, remove anything in your life that may remind you of them. Unless they bought you expensive clothing or something. Keep wearing it, shouldn't be a problem.
Trust me, it's the best way, the sooner the better. My GF and I broke up about a month and a half ago and I feel great.
>>681756351
Yea, there is one. She's the only light in my day and I love her to death, but she'll never feel the same.
>>681755990
Can't bring him back now, all you can do is remember everything he taught you. And do what you think would have made him proud.
I'm here to listen. I can give out my Steam and Skype if anyone is interested.
>>681747752
Agreed and well said. Nothing sucks worse than knowing someone doesn't love you anymore when your efforts haven't stopped.
>>681755989
Shit, lots of it. My Dad was really abusive when I was young. My mom is long gone, and my siblings just outright hate me. I have no friends, or anyone there. Just me, myself, and I.
>>681756646
Have you tried to get closer to her? What happened?
>>681752583
I have. We both like each other and all that (I guess) we just never talk.
>>681757327
How do you know that if you never talk? What's stopping you?
>>681757539
The lack of replies.
>>681754750
Happy Birthday anon
>>681754750
Happy birthday brother
>>681754750
Happy Birthday /b/ro. Hope your birthday goes far better than mine.
>>681738001
well anon, youre gonna find that no woman will ever return the love that u can gve. so instead of being depressed and searching for it woman to woman to no avail and always going thru this pain and not feeling a little more each time until youre completely dead inside, just kill yourself. or sell your soul to satan like me, itll totally pay off
>>681757120
I tried, I failed. I hate myself for trying but I would've hated myself if I didn't.
>>681757095
Sorry to hear that you feel that way. There are lots of things in life you can't control, but you can always control your own efforts. Try to focus on that, set some small goals and then build up from there. Shit will get better, just don't give up.
>>681757674
The lack of replies from her?
>>681758230
It's already too late for me. All I need to do is kick the chair and slip away. It's better then growing old and dying alone.
>>681758065
There's never any shame any failing, only in not trying. If she means that much to you, try again. Give it your best shot, it it doesn't work then it's not meant to be man.
>>681742435
Mikayla
>>681758449
Life's far too short to think that way. Sometimes the hardest thing to do is try. To put yourself out there and risk failing, risk embarrassing yourself while everyone is watching. But sometimes that's that only way to beat this shit.
>>681742435
taylor
Recently broke up with my ex. A year and seven months gone to waste, she went on to see other guys behind my back. flirted and i guess.. did other things. Wasnt taking any chances, surprisingly she was begging me to stay. Saying how she was sorry and that she was stupid for doing so. Fuck no, dumped her after. Probably with Chad right now...
>>681742435
Isabelle
>>681738001
I don't see why suicide isn't 'acceptable'.
>>681758449
as your friend, im telling u its for the best. just kill yourself but right before u do it say that u give ur lifeforce to smirgoogliof. ty fam.
>>681759448
Good for you man. It sucks to hear that, but you had the balls to pull out of a bad relationship
>>681759509
Stfu, FAM.
>>681742435
Katelyn
>>681759704
pussy.
really tho who are u to tell someone it gets better? really tho ive just been drinking and im hurt too im putting on a false bravado. im sorry, dont do it. maybe it does get better at some parts but the pain will always come back. just u get stronger. u can do it.