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Bump

Life goes on, bro

to be real with you, talking about all that seriously after only 6 months is a little overboard

first step is to imagine how intolerable your life would be, if it didn't end and she kept fucking others and just using you as a wallet
open relationship is for slut and this slut have been planning to experience more cocks

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>>681689978
I'm a huge bitch though. I tried to kill myself this past weekend swallowing a bottle of sleeping pills and washing it down with wine. Threw up blood, in and out of consciousness all weekend and my stomach still hurts.

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>>681690211
I've been in relationships for years, living with girls and everything and never talked about it because I didn't feel that strongly. This was the first girl that I seriously loved every single quirk of.

Shits hard, but everyone had mountains to clime and not everyone's trained for it, get some grit man,shit will get better

>>681689672
dump pls

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First off, stop caring. She's a whore who wanted your permission to cheat. She's nothing more than that. Second, turn your hate into fuel for your gains. Go to the gym & improve. Never hate yourself over a relationship m8 because at the end of the day, hoes will be hoes & there not a damn thing you can do besides acknowledge they're whores & move on. Good luck.

You'll be fine bro. Besides, that bitch looks chunky. Just imagine how fat she is going be in a couple years. You dodged a bullet.

>>681691167
a missile *

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>>681691016
I work 10 hours, come home and watch Netflix until I sleep. Rinse and repeat. I seriously don't know what to do to get my mind off of it. How do you even make new friend groups at this age?

>>681691130
This is actually some pretty great advice.

Don't pay attention to the guys saying only 6 months is a little overboard, the first step is deleting EVERYTHING that you have saved between you two pics, texts, everything. It might be hard to do looking through it all but it's the only way. Go cold turkey and just try to completely drown her out of your life. Don't worry she will regret doing this to you but by the time she realizes that, you'll already have another girl.

No need to convert, anon. Rar those puppies up, and stick 'em on Mega.

I turned 27 today and was "alone" for 6 years. Never was together with someone i thought i could marry...
Don't lose you hope. You can do it! Do sport and other hobbies. You will get over here.
I just met my girlfriend through swing dancing.

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She was really short and had Wide hips and thin waist. She was putting on weight since high school, but I love little alternative girls that aren't too boney

>>681690444
No slag is worth killing yourself over, get your head straight.

>>681690444
You tried to kill yourself over this? You really are a bitch. Go on, let natural selextion do its work.

>>681692052
Chubby girls are kinda my thing. I had an ex like that that I still also think about from time to time, but Im pretty sure its because of the sex.

I do advise what a previous anon said and delete those pictures. Like I know those look pretty great but it will fuck with you if you constantly pay attention to it

>>681689672
She's fat, she's clearly a totally mentally inept consumer whore. I'm laughing at you for being this upset over such a worthless person. Rethink your life and what you want to be.
I find it ironic that my capcha was "select all the pies."

>>681689672
- Go to the gym and spend time browsing the Internet in order to know more about lifting, exercising and eating well.
- Create a strong group of friends, a pack you can rely on and can spend time with.
- Tell yourself that it can't be worse now that you've tried to an hero. Consider yourself on a reprieve. This is your bonus stage, you are already dead, so now enjoy life and give the least fucks you can.

I experienced something similar after almost 3 years of relationship. It was a year and a half ago and although it resurfaces sometimes I am much better now than I was right after the breakup.

>>681692052
Sorry to hear, but I'd like more if you can.

>>681692052
Post vids

>>681691016
Clime

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>>681692133
Thank you for the support anon

>>681692133
selextion

You'll be fine man, we've all gone through it. I'm just getting out of the same shitty feeling for the same shitty problem and in the end it makes you who you are.

We are men, we grow up more and more every day, eventually we will be old men that know so much shit and we'll be grumpy but fuck yeah we'll have had sick lives and banged way more bitches than we would've if we were married before we were 30.

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>>681692458
I don't know how to make friends at this age.

>>681692458

Oh and as >>681691614 said, delete everything you have about her. It's like a bandaid, you do it quickly and it'll easier after that

>>681689672
>6 months
>planning to propose
kek

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>>681693116
Yeah I've been with a girl for 3 years and never even brought it up. Grieved for about a week and I was over her. Time isn't that big of a factor anon.

>>681692133
>talks about natural selection
>spells it natural selextion

>>681693058
Well I'm actually younger than you so I guess I can't really relate to that but try playing a collective sport or joining a club for something you like. Don't you have friends at your job or at least people you appreciate?

>>681689672
Sluts will be sluts. Bitches will be bitches. Sit back and look at things objectively. Look at it from an outsider's perspective. Look at this as if she did this to someone else you know. She's a slut and she was using you. There is no reason you should care about a person like her. If anything, wish the worst upon her and go about your life. If you're too soft, just wish her the best and leave it behind you as a mistake. Go improve yourself and your own life and go fuck bitches if you want. Just don't catch feelings until a person earns them.

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>>681693682
All my friends have moved out of state. I literally talk to one other person still and he lives with his girlfriend in California. I live in Missouri. All my coworkers are racist white trash ten years older than me.

I'm 25 turning 26 in two weeks. Have had lots of friends and they're just dormant now in my working life. Meeting people? Idk I've had flings recently after I broke up with my crazy af ex in October. I'm mostly just glad I didn't get her preggo. She insisted never use condoms and was wishy washy: "oh yeah I support abortion if I was preggo" "oh wow I wonder if I am preggo that'd be awesome!" Shit like that. Be glad for what you got its not as bad as it could be bud. That's fucked about the pills tho you're pretty retarded for doing that, who knows how much of your life it shaved off.

OP these seemingly-alpha mofos are just compensating for their own anxieties when they tell you to "let her go dude pft." They're being strong despite the fact that they're young teens who don't understand how life works. Idealists who think it's so damn easy to get over it and move on, because she was clearly a hoe. They don't know because they've never had what you have.

So, I won't tell you what to do. You're going to see this as a loss until you see it as a gain, you'll feel it rough before you feel it smooth. You can't force friendship; so don't try. That's how friendship is made: not doing.

Wu-wei is your philosophy here. Don't do anything, just let life happen, because it will whether you want it to or not.

Vids plz :)

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>>681694308
Does it matter?

>>681694792
Don't tell em OP

There is no magic fix. Just old fashion time. It will probably suck. There will be moments where you're probably ready to end it all. But eventually one day you'll wake up and it'll hurt a little less.

Get the fuck out of Missouri.

Also, get a haircut&shave.

Start a new, better life somewhere else.

and for fucks sake, don't post pictures with your own face in them while dumping an ex's nudes.

First of all, killing yourself is the most fucking cowardly thing possible. You are not only setting yourself up for failure, you are also shitting all over the people who ACTUALLY love you. So stop with all that nonsense. Secondly, LIFE actually does go on, if you have a great job, go see the world, backpack, explore, live the life you were supposed to. I've been in and out of relationships, and hell, they have been fun and great learning experiences. Am I bummed that I haven't met my soulmate yet? No, because that allows for more of an adventurous lifestyle. All in all mate, you'll be fine, go to the bar, go clubbing ffs. Use social media like Tinder and Bumble or w/e the fuck if a relationship is that important to you. All I can tell you is, the next one is ALWAYS better than the first and such a great and open new experience. Seriously, don't fuck with yourself, it only puts you down with shitty thoughts like that. Anyway, Toronto fag here, if you want a beer hmu.

>>681694091
Break the loop, you must have a dream. Shoot for it nothings holding you down.

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>>681694901
Yeah I didn't really plan on it thankfully

>Missouri
KC or STL?
You have a job. You have a life. You are under 30. You have limitless potential and are clueless about it.

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My advice: Continue to think of the new guy that gets to fuck your ex girlfriend. Looks like you don't have another girl for the rest of your life. Sucks to be you. She prefers someone else, just took her a while to figure it out. No matter what, you couldn't provide for her. Enjoy your bitter loneliness.

I'm sorry OP, I sincerely hope that things get better for you, it has been a year since I had my heart broken and I truly feel for you. I never thought I'd pull myself together but all it took was time. And while I don't feel I am ready to enter another relationship, or even have a casual fling, I do feel better. Misery fades.
Content > misery.

Hey man, fuck the bullshit, u got a sweet ass mustache

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>>681695179
Ah, I'm about 3 hours north of you

Ok. You have a job and you're 26.

Just get tinder and start swiping right, the easy part.

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>>681695700
I know my facial hair is shit, she liked it so I never cut it.

>>681691575
Bar conversations.

>>681691580
indeed

>>681691575
> How do you even make new friend groups at this age?

you dont, go acquire a skill and get paid bro, life is stupid.

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So basically work out, go to bars to meet people and pop on tinder on the side.

Vids

Dude, i've been through the same shit, one year later after my break up.....and I still feel the same way, it's shit, and you'll probably miss her for the rest of your life, you just gotta decide now if you want to live like this for 50 + more years, me? I'm too much of a pussy to kill myself.

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>>681689672
Listen to me anon

Leave all of that behind, your gf, your old life, everything and join the army

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>>681696658
That... Is ducking terrifying anon why would you tell me that

>>681694091
Start a profile on fetlife. Look for girl with shared kinks. Go out for hobbies, you look like the type who plays MTG. Hit up your local game shop. Hit up the gym with that hate fuel.

Not to be a prick, but she looks like the type to age horribly. Piggy face

>>681696061
Naw man, the hair u got is fine, u should change it anyway though, she shouldn't get anything back, even if it's the way she likes ur hair

Send her a thank you card. Waking up with you now instead of 5 years from now is the best gift you ever received. Figure out what you like to do and then find people that also like to do that. I like to shoot pool

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>>681696886
I'm 26, I'm too old to join

>>681696344
Don't do the bar or tinder thing. At your age you need to find your women at lunchrooms, parks, venues. You are only going to find entitled and money-costing-problem-bringing whores in bars and on tinder. You are not going to grow into a lifestyle together. So you either find someone that is willing to change a bit for your, or already has the same interests.
Just think more before you act OP.

>>681697073
No you're not, did you finish high school? Uni?

Kill yourself

>>681697073
Not really, recruitment requirements are lax as fuck right now.

>>681697066
*Breaking up

Voice recognition fail

>>681697073
Lol Just graduated AIT with a dudes thats 32. Basic was the best time of my life

Where the fuck are these videos

>>681697314
I dont think that's true, their is weight requirement, and if you've ever had a diagnosis of mental illness, you can't join.

>>681691130
My life didn't truely start until I dropped some acid and lifted some fucking weights dude. That's real shit.

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>>681697179
Dropped out of community college at 20

>>681690694
Still feels rushed. How you define yourself shouldn't include anyone else. It seems like the only thing that matter in your life was her.

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>>681697608
Then I'm fucked. Been in mental hospitals.

>>681689672

Get you fagget ass in the gym and lift some faggot ass weights every day. Meet a faggtard girl that stays late just like you. Mingle with her. Then ask to get a faggot ass, no taste havin ass cup of coffee...
....feg

>>681697751
You just dont tell MEPS any of that shit theyll let you in

OP put the vids in a dropbox

>>681689672
split from my wife of 4 years (8 year relationship) a little more than a year ago. I know it's beyond cliche, but eventually you will get over it and her. I was an absolute wreck, but slowly you just get over it.

>>681697648
You can still join the army, just do it.
Time to become a man

>>681697751

aye, so am I.

It sucks, because that is the only way I see my life getting better, and I am barred from it. It's really bad.

My advice to you, get another.

Simple. You are focusing on her, instead of on the whole. She is just a part of your life, not your whole life.

>>681698007
They don't check? Well, fuck. My position is so fucking bad, that im willing to lie about my past to try and change my future, even if I get caught, what are they going to do? make things worse? Wrong, at least in jail (If they press charges), I will get 3 hots and a cot.

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>>681698035
Ok I'll get on my computer in a second. What's the biggest file size uploaded? These are all shot with my iPhone so the quality and size is huge

>>681697630
Yesss this exactly. Drugs & lifting turned me into a different person seemingly overnight

>>681689672
You dodged a bullet. Things will get better with time. You will meet new people. Just don't take her skank ass back no matter what she says. She was holding you back from finding a true partner.

Lifting will make you love yourself again. As gay as that sounds lulz

>>681689672
My gf broke up with me last weekend after 2 years, already has been sleeping with other guys

>>681697073

Nah dog, you can join. The cut off age is 35. And its a fucking joke how easy it is.

>>681689672
It's OK op.. Soon she'll be sucking someone else's dick. And laughing at your small cock with her new black boyfriends...

>>681697751

But have you ever been diagnosed? Thats the real question. If youve never been actually diagnosed it doesnt mean shit.

>>681689672
>after 6 months l
thats not even that long, surely you have dated girls before her an dwill continue to do so after her

>>681689672

>"itll only work in an open relationship"
>*breaks up* "you're holding me back from experiencing life"

I hate to break it to you bud but she found someone she wanted to fuck more than she wanted your relationship

shitty but that's the way it is. Happened to me in college

>>681697446

Ha, boot bitch

I bet youre MotorT

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>>681698981
Yeah. Bipolar, borderline, and depression.

>>681689672
OP how to get friends.... same way you lvlup in a game just in real life. start approaching randoms and keep the convo and dont expect to get friends instantly just because you talked to 19 persons more like 500

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>>681689672
If she wanted an open relationship you should have dumped her

If you live in Ontario I'll be your friend

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take up a hobby, meet someone there, find male and female friends.

>>681691575
OK, so
1) shes pretty fat, you can do better
2) cut your hair ffs
3) go to /r/malefashionadvice and get out of a tshirt
4) yes gym it up, yes that shit sucks to hear, sorry get over it
5) you meet new friends through REAL HOBBIES aka something besides vidya or shit you do at home. Even board game nights at coffee shops are better than nothing. Figure it out

Good luck bud, you can do it. This girl is not your be all end all

>>681698282
So far they have checked for me or anyone I know just make sure not to tell them medical history or like if you have allergies or something then theyll request like a million waivers from doctors

>>681698981
Do they check those records?

Im sure they have access, but do they check or is it more of a "If something happens..." then check

>>681689672
you can DEFINITELY do better than her

>>681690694
I was in the same exact boat with my last girl, anon. It took me a year and a half to get over her, and I still think about her and sometimes have dreams. I think the ones like that don't ever leave your mind.

>>681699457
>>681698282
Havent I mean

Block her on everything you have her on, do other anons agree. otherwise you'll end up stalking her and seeing stuff she does/posts?

>>681699503
Its on a if something happens basis

>>681699457
oh shit, and my heart murmur seems to have went away. Not op, but Ima try it.

What do I need to know going in?

I haven't been to a doctors in years, and have never had a job (over the table job), GED.

Do you think they would accept me?

Stop giving shitty advice. Just because you can't get over a broad doesn't mean he shouldn't kick himself in the ass and realize she's just a bitch. 1/1000000000

Honestly. If she wants to be indecisive about what she likes and can't put the energy or effort in making it work, fuck her. Plus getting attached just because you fucked her doesn't make them an automatic keeper.
You're better off without her

>>681690951
tits look huge in this pic, more

>>681691575
Nigga that's why she left you, you got a baby dick

>>681689672
I dint often say this but: man the fuck up. 6 month is nothing. You are an idiot if you thought you should get married. Obviously she has some great pussy game. She would have cheated on you. Now you are free to fuck other sluts. You are living the dream

>>681696926
Don't listen to this beta fag, take control of your life and do/find other things that make you happy.

>>681689672
>6 months
>getting married
>a wreck
She dumped you because you're a pussy. Act like a fucking man!

Your girlfriend was a whore and the thought of being tied down scared her. Just go out there and talk to other girls, ones who arent whores.

>>681699769
Yeah they run basic checks like if you have scars theyll ask where you got them but just tell them from sports or some shit.

Theyll drug test you no spine taps though make sure you can see and hear...

My roommate's got a GED so thats no problem if you do alright on the ASVAB well really just even qualifying for the 11 or 91 series would work 35 or high average on the test

>>681689672
>6 months

Just get over her. It won't take long unless you're a total faggot. Try not to smother the next one with future-planning. Also she sounds like she's fucking other people already - don't date whores any more and you'll be fine.

Can we get an ETA on those vids?

>>681700153
I have my life in control, everybody loves me, I have money, I am successful, I have nice things, and I have a new girl, but it doesn't stop me from thinking about the one true girl I loved more than anything, I don't think about her constantly but their are those nights I can't forget her... I miss her, it hurts so much and the pain never goes away, but no one would know this unless I told them. You obviously have never been in love so you won't understand. It doesn't matter how many things you throw at yourself to distract yourself or as you call it, "other things that make you happy" you will always think of her.

>>681700611
I'm not OP btw, I was the guy who explained you'll never get over the one that got away.

someone setup a vola for the vids

>>681700611
Codependancy is not healthy in any way. Are you gonna do that when your parents die? No. Because you're experiencing infatuation , which grows exponentially when you're the one getting left and are the one getting denied. Juvenile behavior couched in "but I'm in love"
Fio

Seriously just give us a general idea of when those vids are coming or if they're coming at all

>>681700969
>>681700611
If you can't get over this, you're basically a fucking retard. There are at any given time, like 10000 girls on earth with her same exact personality and figure. She wasn't unique or special, you're just being a bitch

>>681691130
+1 for u anon

>>681701244
What the fuck are you talking about? how is that in relation to what I said? Again I'm not OP, I should have said that in >>681700611
I'm not dependent on anyone but myself.

>>681701302
that's a rather bold statement anon

>>681701302
nah man, you really don't get it, it's the memories, it's us, it's what we did, we were together for almost 10 years, we would hold each other for hours. It was love in it's purest form. Again you just don't understand. Maybe one day you will know this pain.

>>681689672
>6 months
Kys

>>681689672
she was a hoe, take this as an improvement.

>>681701560
no it's not, it's probability and statistics. You're obsessing over this woman for absolutely no reason, and now you're regretting settling for anything that wasn't her, when, most likely, the one you're with right now is by all metrics better than the "one who got away". Grow the fuck up

>>681701808
just obsession. grow up

>>681702119
We are not talking about OP, we are talking about>>681700611

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atleast you actually had a gf for awhile, we dont want to hear it fag, welcome to the rest of us

>>681702284
yeah, I know

>>681702434
Ha

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>>681701808
Looking at the pics I absolutely hate her guts, just work-out that's the best way to move on from anything, better yourself dirtbag.

>>681702253
Don't tell someone who is probably 20 years older than you to grow up. You will suffer one day like you never knew you could and we'll have to comfort you too, so for karma's sake please shut the fuck up.

>>681702541
Wrong guy

>>681702119
"probability and statistics"
i doubt the odds of two people being completely the same are even possible. The closest you could get are twins and even then if you have ever met a pair of twins they aren't the same

>>681689672
Study. Visit courses. Become a fucking Genius with what you're interested in. You will meet People who share your interests and you will become REALLY succesful. You're gonna be a fucking leader! Don't let yourself down. The Best will be: When you Made it, she will try to get you back! And when you're able to reject her, it will be the Best feeling ever!

Vidsplz.

>>681702551
lol, age has nothing to do with your tendency towards childish obsession, and thus I reiterate: Grow up

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>>681702551
>implying us foreveralonefags dont suffer every single day of our lives while disgusting normies that have had multiple gf's complain about losing one

>>681702685
Bumping for the fucking vids

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>>681702615
Shit, well, op's ex is gross bottom line.. but the working out thing goes for you too, fucking slob.

>>681699303
this.
i went thru a bad break up a year and a half ago from someone who i dated all thru highschool and college etc.
it took a long ass time to move on. but im way happier now. you have to learn to love yourself and be happy on your own.
happiness begets happiness. if youre a happy person then people will want to be around you because happiness is infectious.
the best thing is to work on yourself. once you feel like youre able to move forward in life, you wont feel so stuck and hopeless. the best thing is probably to work out and get fit, but it can be anything.
always hate how your room is dirty? set a personal goal to keep it clean(er)
Guilty about slacking at work? give it fucking 110% of your REAL effort, the best job you can do. not only will it feel good to finally take pride in work, but people will notice and like you for it.
really do anything that you know you could work harder in. give yourself something to be proud of and maintain, and itll help a lot.
you cant just do the same thing anymore and expect to be happy.
ive always felt the principle "an object in motion stays in motion, an object at rest stays at rest..." applies to people as well. you just gotta give yourself a little push to start moving foward, and itll start to seep into all aspects of your self, and youll be happier.
how you do anything is how you do everything.

and you look like a decent looking guy, theres not much holding you back but yourself.
I hope this helps

>>681689672
My ex left me in october. I spent 4 months thinking to be an hero, depressed as fuck, zero motivation, stopped to do sports and to study (i fucked up a session at uni). Now she probably is with someone else and im alone as fuck, i mean i have a lot of friends but few skill with girls, so im single. Im 24, 25 in september. I really hope my ex will get cancer soon, tbh i hate her so much, i wont forget the pain of those 4 months, i wont forget her. Fortunatly i switched depression in angry, so if i will see her i will split on her slut face or probably i'll pass over.

>>681689672
You are a whiney emotional bitch who was going to propose to a slut after fucking her for a few months. You tried to kill yourself over her. You're a big ol bitch. No wonder she left you. Grow the fuck up, man up, and get on with your pathetic life.

eww. crying over a landwhale. Why would you want to marry that?

>>681689672
Can't make a hoe a houswife bruh. 26 aint that old. Stop being a little bitch. Sack up, you have a job and a place, two requirements fulfilled that most broads want. You're better off than 95% of the neckbeards on here.

Clubs and organizations are your best bet. I've gotten my one adult friend from a biking club, it's impossible to make friends in the 25 and beyond age group, buy if you keep exploring you'll find one

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>>681703133
very similar situation

>>681702835
Dude shut the up, I don't necessarily agree with him, but don't pull the age doesn't matter card, that is the most ignorant thing you can say hurr durr grow up faggot.

>>681694328
Got anal pics?

>>681690694
except you didn't love every quirk because you didn't want an open relationship. She hit you with a dealbreaker and the deal broke. This shit is on her. It's warm, the sun is shining, pick up a hobby college chicks are into like kayaking or some shit and join a new social circle. The only constant in your life is you, start treating yourself better.

>>681702624
I have 'clones' in my hometown. Many of them.

I have one of myself too! There are a significant amount of people who look EXACTLY the same. Some celebs are afflicted with this - The guy from numbers, and the other guy who looks exactly like him, that I thought was him, until I found out they are two different people.

Happens, but I honestly was getting paranoid with it, it happens so much where I live that I definitely had paranoia, and still do about it. The chances of people looking so much alike, but not being the same person, and not related, in a smaller town, is suspicious. It makes me think none of it is real. Almost a Truman Show type vibe, but I'm not the star, I don't think. Sometimes me and my buddy will crack jokes back and forth, or toss an idea around, then lol about it, but then we see them in the movies within a year. Like I am part of a populous being monitored for their ideas.

>>681702875
I bench 280, how about you? Guys I'm not obsessed over the one I lost, what I'm telling you underage faggots is just the truth, you never forget her. look I'm in my late 30s with my own business, 6 figures a year, I should be happy but I'm not, I'm content. And before anyone say why are you on 4 chan, well I've been here since the early 2000's and I didn't get successful until 2012.

>>681704056
Well, first, it doesn't matter when it comes to the mentality of obsession. Second you have no idea how old I am, so it was demonstrably and by definition more ignorant of you to even bring age up. Third, based on the usage of "dude", "hurr durr", and "faggot", I once again reiterate: grow up.

WHERE ARE THESE FUCKING VIDS OP

>>681704574
I'm not the guy you were arguing with dumbass!!

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>>681704292
Even though she was really in to it, we never recorded it

>>681704574
tbh fam if you're on /b/ you need to grow up

>>681704446
or even better pick up some easy classes at a cheap college and meet some people.

>>681704698
but you're just as stupid

>>681704447
sounds like your hometown is full of inbreds

>>681704517
Why does your happiness rely on her?


> smells like codependency

>>681704725
lol, point taken

>>681704447
I'm also implying the same personality and same figure statement.

>>681704905
that's not codependency faggot, he lost something extremely valuable. Love is not codependency

Here's the best advice anyone can give you. Quit being a whiney little Faggot. 6 months is a fucking joke. You're disgusting and will most likely die alone if you this much of a fucking bitch. I would of left you too. Man up Faggot.

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>>681704517
I was just trolling you bench & make more than me, congrats anon. You're still a faggot.

Come on man I wana go to bed are you dumping the load or not

>>681705246
how can you even claim that, maybe this bitch was terrible for him. You don't know the quality of the relationship, all we know is that this guy is obsessed with her, which is not healthy

>>681704884
Nah dude, that's the thing.

It's why I'm so fucking paranoid about it.

It's by an old abandoned air force base as well. (Well, I think it's abandoned - after the cold war)

My current theory is one hell of a coincidence, or some experiment of sorts.


>>681705205
I tend to find that people with similar features speak similarly, at least on a soundwise scale, then personality wise, for exact maneurisms, probably not, but they fall into categories, dominant personality traits, and those could be the same.

>>681689672
Just do what successful single men do... Golf!

Also, to make new friends find a bar/restaurant near you that you like. Start hanging out there 3+ times a week. You'll start to make new friends quick and probably bang on of the waitresses. I move around a lot, and this is how I do it.

>>681704905
You just can't comprehend can you dude? You think I'm a sad sack all day thinking about her? Fuck it's like talking to a brick wall. There is a difference between general happiness and what I'm talking about, and stop using the word codependency you fuck tard if you don't know what it means.

>>681689672
OP, go here, post vids. They better have sound

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>>681693058
Damn anon she looks exactly like the ex it took me hella long to get over. I was with her for three years and we broke up baaaad after I caught her cheating A SECOND FUCKING TIME after I already forgave her once. After we broke up I felt fucking dead inside. But time heals man. You'll start to realize that personality types reside in all sorts of people and a big part of why it felt so bad was because of your physical level of attraction matching or exceeding you emotional level IE: the perfect girl for you. But there no such thing as the perfect girl for anyone there's no such thing as a perfect person. Bear your pain while its there and he brave. Move foreword and let the wound heal naturally

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>>681698357
please explain???
i want to know

She was my wife, I lost her because some drunk driver hit her. Please don't call her a bitch ever.

>>681689672
Where you at op I'll be your friend.

Literally the only advice here is move on with your life. Only time will heal those wounds completely. Nothing you do will magically fill that gut-wrenching feeling at start, but you can at least lighten it. It's a long process, but after a while you can accept it and move on. Don't let yourself get fucked up, suicide is a very selfish thing to do. If you leave even just one person behind that cares about you that will take the blame, you're an asshole.

Protip: hit the gym, people always say this in cases like these, but that advice is actually genuinely great

>>681705527
She might have been a bitch indeed and it *is* possible that he's better off alone. But he was obviously in love and being in love makes you blind about a lot of things. It also kinda makes you obsessed, by default.
That being told. I do believe that 6 months is too little time.

>>681705246
The inability to achieve a desired state without a person, is codependency. If he cannot be happy without that one single person he's obviously been dropping the 280lb weight and bar on his head. "Extremely valuable" Lul romantic love isn't a necessity. I would argue love is. But not romanticized love you inbred. This man clearly isn't putting himself above ALL else, which is why he can't love himself enough to realize it's time to let go and grow Tf up. Don't @ me

>>681705755
shit I meant go here OP: znl6si

>>681705920
6 months? This guy>>681701808
said 10 years! fucking OP left the thread a long time ago. who are we even talking about now?

>>681696344
What the fuck man? For this fucking ugly dipshit? I mean, really dude? There are so much better bitches out there.. every filthy prostitute looks better than this hoe. Wtf.

>>681699931
lmao sure bud

>>681705845
Drugs chill out old worries, bring new worries.

Don't do them, I'd rather be drug free and uptight, then what I currently am.

Basically drugs take all your superficial worries, takes them, throws them into the trash, then brings your deep worries out to play, some that it may very well have caused, the worries that put stress on people 24/7. The type of worry that is better left in the dark.

Loveless, jobless, wasting money on drugs, no family.

By the time you get to my point in addiction and loveless-style life, you won't wonder if you should kill youself, you will know it is the right thing to do, and it just comes down to balls. Got em? Then kill self. No balls? Sit on 4chin.

>>681705969
Call it as you may, there are people that are (or seem) irreplaceable in some peoples' lives. He will get over it eventually, he doesn't have a choice really. Also, you don't get to define what is a necessity and what is not for others.

>>681706286
Post the vids

>>681705969
Well excuse me if I got a little co-dependant on my wife that I knew for 10 years and planned the rest of my life with, I guess by your logic I should thank the drunk driver who hit her so I could learn to be happy without this one single person and love myself instead, guess it's time for me to grow the tf up, huh faggot?!

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>>681706145
I'm still here. Her parents just called me. Been talking to them.

>>681706481
I disagree, do LSD. No worries on LSD

>>681706145
Sorry my mistake. got lost a bit, joined the thread late. What I said was true for you

>>681706622
then go here: znl6si
and post the vids

listen the fuck anon because I'm about the drop some knowledge.

Man the fuck up. Do lions loose sleep over the thoughts of sheep? Fuck no. You make you future. What you do today you will never have a chance to repeat for the rest of your life. Once today ends its gone. Make the most of it.

Forget the girl. NEVER marry someone who you love more than they love you. NEVER. /b/ taught me that and I lived it, now happily married. My wife knows exactly what would happen if she wanted to sleep with another man, I'd leave her.

As far as you, turn your guilt, sadness, depression, etc, into motivation. You need to work out. You need to make money. Your life will be epic, when you make it epic.

>>681706622
Dump em to the vola room

Dont know what we are talking about her, bitch is ugly as fuck, obviously has a shitty personality too, you will find better OP, just gotta man up and get your shit straight.

Oh and who the fuck talks about marriage after a 6 months relationship? I did that with 17, but only cause i wanted to fuck the girls lol

>>681706767
>Do lions loose sleep over the thoughts of sheep?
Wow dude, thats fucking cringeworthy

>>681706622
Videos mann

>>681706980
>this

>>681705969
You're a monster, I bet you're that one guy every girl automatically hates because they can just sense you're a creep and sociopath.

>>681706827
Not OP but a clear new fag. What's vola?

OP
GO TO THIS VOLA AND DUMP THE VIDS
znl6si

>>681706986

Why is that? English is not my first language, its a saying that means the strong don't care what the weak think.

>>681689672
OMG, somebody broke up with you? Why wasn't this in the news? Why aren't Merkel and Obama stating they are shocked?

ermagerd

>>681706622
Time stamp plox

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>>681706481
i meant more what type of drug and how it helped you. i did acid as a stupid kid long ago and have recently done research on it and got ahold of some and am respecting the drug for its power of almost picking ans choosing a nee personality almost. I have been practicing deep meditation.

One of the things i was hoping is giving me more motivation in life, i need a perspective shift.
One of them was going to the gym and getting serious about it

>>681691575
Im exactly the same and im 19. I'm gonna die alone and sad and no one will care.

>>681707220
How do I get there. Not OP. Just don't know anything about vola

>>681706568
rekt

>>681689672
Well, you sad sack of shit you should have deleted her pics instead of posting them. She didn't fuck a nigger behind your back, she just decided she wanted something else out of life. Where's the harm in that? Delete everything. Wish her the best for the future. Smile. Walk away. Then hit the gym hard, buy some new clothes, get a hair cut, make some friends, update your jewbook in a few months showing yourself having a good time laughing and smiling and being outdoors riding a bike or running. It's probably because you're a weak beta she wants to get away from you and your boring life. .

Ask yourself, when was the last time you took her on a date to the beach or to the park or a concert or a meal. Sitting in your basement fucking isn't a relationship.

>>681707349
she was killed by a drunk driver dingus

>>681702434
>>681702871
/thread

>>681689672
Do you want her back OP? I can make that happen for you. It's going to cost you 500.00 USD though. Link me your facebook and we will discuss the details, if you are interested.

SOMEONE LINK THAT VOLA ROOM

>>681708470
>>681707220
It's been posted. Waiting for op to get off the phone and dump

>>681691130
aaaaagreed.

Kill her

>>681691575
She's fucking ugly
You actually aren't and I bet if you took care of yourself a little more you'd be even better

>>681692052
love a fat puffy pussy. i had a fwb that had the fattest pussy ever. it would take 2 1/2 fingers sideways to get to the clit it was great

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>>681709038
I thought she was the cutest thing ever. I know I look like shot in my pics. Typical hipster man bun Faggot. Her parents want to talk with me tomorrow. Pic related, op's Faggot self

>>681697608
not true either, my dad had bipolar depression and they let him join

OP, join vola room: znl6si

>>681689672
Best advice i can give is just pour yourself into something,like >>681691130 says. If fitness isn't your thing, pick up a musical instrument or something. Women are just whores nowadays. After my last girlfriend and noticing what i just said in pretty much most of the girls i've seen, it's been severe comfort for me to just focus on video games.

Thinking about women is honestly just gonna get you down, man. Rise above it. Get fit. change yourself. become cold to it, and there's your solution.

http://pictureswap.org/

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>>681709768
OP is in this room. I'll start dumping in order that they're in.

>>681709500

Mac?

>>681709666
If you guys are oldfags - oldfags had it easier for joining. in 2016 is much different than when your dad joined. Especially sinnce the whole troops committing suicide scandal back in 08 or '10.

>>681710105
Everything alright op? Site not working?

cmon OP, deliver plz

>>681709500
i think you look better than she does. no homo. thing with guys is the single ones that don't have kids catch tons of women as their clock starts ticking. but you need to step your game up now so when you hit 30 you are turning down the pussy. also in the future anytime you hear those or similar words come from a woman say "I'm so glad you said that I was thinking the samething but didnt know how to say it" dont elaborate just walk off.

also both need to get more into shampooing your hair

>>681704056
Your weak ass brought up the age card in your post.
>huurrrr I'm 20 years older than you
Age does count for experience. IF you learn from it. Which it doesn't look like you did. Enjoy the journey, reminisce about memories and move on. Find new memories and someone better.

Drink faggot. Go out to bars and drink. Once you are drunk enough talk to chicks or play a game with them or something. Like, just go out to clubs and bars and drink.

It's that simple, like shit just fucking happens dawg. I'm fucking untalkative as fuck. Once I get tipsy I just say stupid shit like "Oh hey badass this song again am I right haha" or "Hey do you and your boyfriends want to play beer pong real quick or something". Drink and shit happens. Go out and shit happens.

>>681702871
I am not alone.

>>681711170
Or go kill that drunk driver's spouse/kid.

Whatever.

>>681710105
You sure?

>>681709500
Shampoo/conditioner twice a day. Get that proactive skin shit and some exercise you'd be getting some nice ass. No homo.

She was a 2/10. You cleaned up are about a 7.5.

Turn your life around OP. Work out, cut your hair, shave. Anything that will change your appearance drastically so you can feel like a different person. Start attending church or get involved in your community so you can meet new people and start hanging out with them.

WHERE DO I GET THE VIDS

I LOVE chunky nerdy girls like this, fucking hell I want this shit bad

OP i was in the same situation as you. You even look like me before i cut my hair. Im not over her completely but deleting all the pictures of her helped, lingering thoughts can only hurt you now. I was with my girl for 2 years. i know how hard it gets man. no advice on how to get friends though. my girl took almost all of mine. Good luck OP