>>681412251
40 year olds are on 4chan...? You're pretty much twice my age.

That's what the kid's are for

>>681412443
>i get nervous when a 13 year old posts
>w-what are they doing here?
>if my brother found out about this place, i would be disapointed

>>681412251
Do you still consider yourself desirable? Keep in shape, take care of yourself and all that?

she's busy fucking other dudes that's why

>>681412826
I mean, I'm 23, myself. If my little brother found this place, it'd probably disappoint me too.

>>681412251
when was the last time u fucked her?

>>681412251
It's okay. When I'm dead nobody will call you, vice versa. I don't know where I'm going with this. Fuck. I'm ready to die for nothing man, absolutely nothing.

Teach your kids to fish or something, who cares. Fuck you I'm ready.

>>681412773
Top kek

>>681412251
Let me tell ya the 40's is a womans prime for fucking so uf she isnt fuckin you she is fuckin someone else is she still good looking or fat ugly bitch

>>681412443
You have no idea how many of us are on here

I'm almost there dude. Married with kids is rough.

>>681412251
then cheat, or tell her before you cheat that your going to cheat. force her to do something to change or you leave her behind

>>681414520
Sure don't. Is this not a safe place for youngins?

>>681412251
Probably not attracted to you anymore. If pic related and 40 years old, you probably have a killer beer gut by now.

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>>681412443
This place is our only escape. Save yourself.

>>681414764
>>681414313
Spectacular advice, m8s.

i'm 43 and married over 15 yrs. sex has slowed from 2x per day when we were first dating to 1-2x per week, but that's fine cause that's all i really want these days anyway.

if she's not fucking u that's a prob. about half my friends that got married over the years are now divorced and pretty much all of them told me many months before that she stopped having sex.

2 things:
1) she's becoming very disinterested in u and the relationship
2) there's a distinct chance she's fucking someone else

>>681412251
Kill her. Kill her and the kids. Kill them. Kill them. Kill them.

>>681412251
Don't marry boring girls. Easy as that.

>>681413227

>do you consider yourself desirable

I'm 40, it's fuckin over bruv. What, you want me to start crossfit or something? Go fuck yourself.

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>>681415122
neat!

>>681415337

How many kids

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>>681412251
You got married and let kids step on your dreams

That's what happened.

>>681415954
well theres your answer, thats why she wont fuck you. and you spend time on 4chan to boot

/thread

>>681415122
that was fucking dope

>>681416625

So you don't understand how aging works

>>681416134
zero. never really wanted any. we both make very good money, travel a lot, lots of hobbies (fish, hunt, golf, dive, etc). i know it's kinda selfish but both of us felt we didn't want to fuck it up by having kids. i have 5 brothers and sisters, she has 3, almost all have multiple kids, plenty of nieces and nephews to go around. maybe later in life when we're old we'll feel different but for now we're very happy.

>>681412251
Lol you sound like the guy whose wife I'm fucking currently. Kys.

>>681412443
Welcome. First time here?

>>681417104
im not saying get jacked or anything but just be active and be in shape, i know plenty of 40+ y/o's who are very active and are in fantastic shape, so dont pull the "im old i cant exercise card"

it also does wonders for your mental health, which i think matters more than anything in terms of attractiveness to other people

>>681418068
you sir are an asshole

I know how much you think she;s your snowflake and real-life rules dont apply to you. But mark my fucking words she is sleeping with someone else. Women get hit on all the time, if she's not getting it from you then she's horny and getting hit on all the time. Do the math. Too bad it's too late for you, please spread your message so young men don't get tricked into this shit either.

>>681418515
Truth

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>>681412443

I just want to punch my wife in the fucking neck now.
Stupid whore. Fat bitch is probably stepping out. Coming home late and shit. Comes home and acts like shit is all cool, but it isn't cool.
It's not cool at all man.

>>681419320
its sad when you have to mock a 20 year old for coming to 4chan while you, the 40 year old, should be the one to be made fun of

>>681419321
spit in her meals

>>681419321
The only reasonable solution is to pop a glock in in her mouth and make a brain slushie.

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>>681418606
I'm an asshole that's fucking your wife the way you can't.

Just go get some strange and then you just won't care anymore OP.
I am 39, married 10+ years, two kids, wife stopped putting out a couple years ago and now I just fuck bitches on the side. Last night I fucked my 29 ur old side piece in the ass, her exact text to me was "Come over. I want you in my ass tonight!"
Thank fuck I never let myself go.

>>681415122
hes beautiful

>>681419943
Hey hey hey calm down.

Nobody here is fucking anybody and we all know it.

denial of sex is grounds for divorce
talk to her

>>681412251
>>681412251
Listen here, if She don't want to fuck it's because you don't hit it right no more . I guarantee you she finger doodles herself when you're not around.

Shouldn't we be stoning bitches that don't put out?
You know, as a society.

>>681412251
How are your wife's sons?

>>681412443
We came here first, fag!

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TFW, at least you have a loyal wife. My bitch is too busy eye humping niggers and sand-niggers.

>>681418068
When you say this All I can imagine is a 19 year old kid on a laptop smirking as he types this utter horse shit. If you aren't lying which the probability of is slim, you're just a scummy cunt.

>>681419611
The opposite actually. In my twenties I was fucking women, travelling, going out and living life; what is your excuse?

>>681419943
i'm not op, just a guy informing u that you're an asshole lol

>>681412251
You got fat is what happened.

This makes me sad for my future. So much I wont have time to do if I get a family. But if I decide to do what I want first by the end of it ill be too old to have a family.

>>681412251
have you ever sat down and talked to her about it?

>>681420610
You don't need a family. Just do your fucking shit until you die.

>>681420108
yeah no its not

Op you should connect with your family more. You decided to have 3 kids. Ask your wife why she wont fuck you. Make sure you arent just trying to fuck every day. Dont expect to walk in and say "hey wife lets fuck" she probably still wants to be romanced.

>>681420761
But what If I want a family. And you csnt do anything without money. To get that I need a job. With a job I cant do the things I want. If I have a job I might as well have a family to go home to.

>>681420845
t. virgin

>>681419321
op, 43 y/o guy here.

listen homeboy, don't get physical or abusive or put any crazy shit out on fb or anything like that. if u are headed for divorce (and like i said i personally know several dudes that went through this in the last several yrs) any and all of that shit will likely be used against u by her attorney. i know it's shitty to think of but it's the truth. play it cool, get things in order and remain levelheaded. if u want to do something somewhat beneficial and you're pretty sure she's cheating try and catch her somehow digitally (phone/laptop). that will do 2 things...first it can show judge she quit on the marriage (sometimes doesn't mean anything but worth trying), and second you'll have some proof after the marriage that she's the piece of shit and not u. because u can bet your ass that she will be telling everyone that the marriage dissolved because you (fill in the blank).

2 questions:

1) r u in shape and r u somewhat attractive?
2) do u make decent money?

i realize u have kids but if u answered yes to those 2 questions you'll have NO PROBLEM getting good looking pussy 10 yrs younger than u. if u answered no to both of them it's prolly not going to be easy to fuck anything too fine. yes those are shallow indicators but they are the primary factors women are interested in.

>>681420466
Well I agree. Not my fault op is a beta lol

>>681420262
Because grounds for sex is when one person wants it. Not both. She'd be fucking you to not get killed not because she wanted to.

>>681420097
Oh no. I am most definitely fucking someone's wife. He's about 40 with 3 kids and she's like 28. Could be op who knows lol

>>681421203
Nah. Keep the money and lose the family.
Fuck, better yet, try it. Go ahead.

Go ahead and get trapped.

>>681412251
wife? thats were you fucked up..

Op you tell me what happened. Because I dont know your life.

>>681412251
Op I'm 38 feel you bro. Some days I get tired of her shit. Fuck these kids. I got 4 kids and a dog. Ready to drop her ass.

>>681420359
Possibly. Been here since 2010 or so.

>>681418515
>it also does wonders for your mental health

When exactly does this kick in? I've been slaving away working out 4 days a week for about five months and still feel like complete shit everyday.

Yea I have visible abs and my arms are a little bigger, but so fucking what? I only do it because my shrink says exercize will help, but I hate every painful second of it and only my self loathing keeps me going. Does it actually get better?

>>681421671
And do what with the money? Already working 9 to 5 everyday.

>>681421435
indeed. he's got to have some balls and start making some moves. can't just sit and take that shit.

and btw several yrs ago i was an asshole too lol. i was 22 and she was 10 yrs older and absolutely stellar. today i wouldn't do it but holy fuck that was fun.

>>681412251
Time to trade her in, or do what I did and get her to suggest a younger woman move in to take over the duties she wont

>>681421780
What about the kids anon? Don't they bring any satisfaction/joy to your life?

>>681412251
i beat my wife to it.. i quit fucking her in my 30's. idk what happened... all the sudden i woke up one day and quit thinking with my dick.. shits been good for me ever since. am i afraid of her cheating... to be honest i dont think i care...

>>681414313
Some women roll right, some roll left.

>>681421920
Why does life and love have to be about who will fuck you. How about instead you learn some self control.

>>681412251
I have had sex with a horny 38 year old that had a husband trust me she is getting it boss probably from really young men

>>681421873
I don't understand what you mean.
You can do anything and everything with the money. It's your money.

It won't be your wife's money, or the money your wife wanted you to do some bullshit with, or the money your wife conned you into spending on her.

You could take some bitches for food, or buy some useless shit that people will say you wasted your money on.

Buy a house. A Car. Another car.

>>681422227
>femanon detected

tits or gtfo you know the rules

>>681417337

How is not having kids selfish? Gotta be a generational thing.

>>681412251
30, 1 kid, wife rarely puts out. Might be my work scheduled paying so she can be a stay at home mom so our kid isn't raises by other people.

2 mistresses helps me not give a fuck.

>>681422227
>22227
you tried

>>681422622
>femanon detected

Nigger your femanon detector must be broke. It's clearly a male virgin.

>>681422227
An hero and stream it.

>>681421865

it's not a panacea

>>why not just look up some titties from the vast array online?

>>681422517
None of the things I want to do has anything to do with cars or houses. I want to climb moutains and learn languages and meet new people every day. This takes a shit ton of money and a shit ton of time. And I know most people want this too. 3/4th of the people I know all wanted to travel around the world. None of them did because they got jobs. Families. Its sad.

>>681412251
women always say they want more affection and love from their husband. do something nice for her get her flowers or some shit and a massage. start putting you moves on her after youve massaged her for a bit. kiss the back of her neck a few time. take it slow. move your hands up her sides and grab her tits a little. then just gently touch all over her body. take of her clothes and then yours. grab her ass tits and pussy while you kiss. then roll her on her back or bend her over. proceed to intercourse. if you did it right and got her all warmed up she should cum fairly easily, the bonus to that is she'll probably leave you alone afterward.

>>681415122
WHY THE FUCK IS IT SO EASY FOR OTHER ANIMALS?

IT DOESN'T COME OUT LIKE THAT FOR A HUMAN LOL

Why don't humans have this easy of a time that literally came out like a shit when we need doctors otherwise a large chance of fatality even for the baby

like wtf?

>>681422875

>Nigger your femanon detector must be broke. It's clearly a male virgin.

What's the difference?

>>681422643
There is a difference between caring about yourself and only caring about yourself. Only the latter is selfish. Not having kids isnt selfish.

>>681423092
Well there you go. You want those things, then don't get a family.

>>681422227
If you don't wanna get laid a lot, then don't.

I like it. I am in control of me, and that's all I have any control over.

You do you.

>>681422372
In addition find proof of adultery phone laptop Facebook Snapchat Twitter tumblr I don't give a shit when the divorce papers come (and they will) save money for a lawyer present evidence to the divorce court judge of adultery and you won't lose everything happens to too many good men. Don't lose your lively hodd keep a calm head and when and if you have proof of adultery initiate the divorce ASAP. Don't pussyfoot about it be a man and keep your kids close.

>>681423484
Now I need money so how do I get that without spending my life working?

>>681423193
Because we are mamals

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>>681421865
theres your problem

youre a faggot

>>681423675
Get a better job and save money until you can afford what you really want to do.

The goal is to have more income than it cost for you to live daily.

im 30 with a pregnant g/f who won't fuck me anymore but i aint mad though because she magnum fat, i dont even know what im gonna do now, probably just try to take care of the kid and not worry about myself, we aren't married, but we may as well be now

>>681422643
i guess it's a little selfish because my parents invested a lot in raising me and it would be nice to give them a grandkid or two to keep the family going. after all, i'm only here because they made that same sacrifice (if u want to call it that).

honestly i would have never thought that way that 20 yrs ago but as u get older perceptions sometimes change.

is it really selfish? i don't know, prolly not, but it just feels a little that way to me.

David you need to stop posting

I'm close to 40. Life sure as hell ain't over. I feel like I'm in my prime. First, don't have kids or get married. I didn't. Doesn't mean I wont. Just not pretending my biological clock is tied to a woman's. I will have kids later in life. Prob without a woman. I am in 8/10 shape. Good job. Currently dating 3 women. 2 in their mid 20's. One in her early 30's. I come here for the keks/kill time on the shitter.

Advice. Talk with your wife about it. If she doesn't want to spice up the sex life, says deal with it, talk about seeing others. If she wont do that, leave her. You may get fucked financially but I've never met someone who regretted getting away from a shitty marriage. You got at least another 30-40 good years ahead of you. Use them wisely. AMA if you want.

>>681424064
Might as well be cause she's gonna hit you with that child support the second your foot touches the welcome mat.

>>681424031
Im supposed to spend years doing nothing but work my ass off with nothing to come home to but a gimpse of a better future? Id probably kill myself before I got enough money.

>>681412251
Pretty typical dude.

Same situation here

>>681424259
>I will have kids later in life. Prob without a woman.

???

>>681422227
Learning self control is important. But most people who will learn it in their life, already did so bey their 40s.
Excersising self control is also important, when it is nescesarry.
Not having a healthy regular sex life is not self control. Its self deprivation, and source to all kinds of mental issues.
I do not know what OP would like. But is having sex really that effin hard If you love someone?

>>681424540
And suddenly you realize you're a part of the working middle class.

Wife just hitting the dirty thirties. Best time of my life.

>>681423317
Shit, that's not a bad point actually.

>>681423092

This...

So much, this...

>>681424741
I'll pick someone to carry it, but not raise it. I'll do that myself.
I used to think I didn't want kids. I recently realized I don't want to have someone who will use the kid to control what I do with my life. In other words, I want a kid without a bloody parole officer of a partner.

>>681424929
Life sucks dick.

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>>681413227

desirable for what? another marriage and more kids?

lol damn your a fucking moron

>>681423092
I travel 3x a year, climb mountains all winter. Travel my ass off. Have friends on multiple continents. Again, no family, no wife. Life is an opportunity for experiential richness. I'm not deferring my happiness and experiences when I'm an old crusty fuck and can't do any of that stuff. I'll have a kid then.

>>681425145
Yeah but is there any way to change that. Life isnt about what you want to do. Your life is about your job and your family. It sucks but you cant do much about it.

>>681421435
>I'm so alpha I fuck women twice my age

Its almost as funny as twenty somethings going to high school parties, you're pathetic.

>>681425920
Where do you work?

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>>681425299
Sorry you had to find out so late.

>>681426127
Anything can change. I beleive that applies to how most people live their lives today.

>>681417337
There is no 'later in life'. When she's past 36 having kids becomes increasingly difficult.

>>681426032
I guess that's key. I made sure I got a job where I control a lot about my hours. It's highly specialized. I spent a lot of my 20's in a flophouse studying my ass off while my friends chased a traditional path. Can't really tell you more than that.

>>681426485
Look at the bright side, if she does have one, there's a high chance she'll die in child birth.

>>681426626
You could tell me what job you have. I am still but a child. All I know are traditional jobs

>>681415697
4 chan is like the the little voice inside your head.

>>681426885
KFC Manager

>>681426485
sorry i wasn't clear. what i was saying that we made the decision to never have kids, but we realize it's possible that maybe later in life we might regret having made that decision.

There's a lot of advice on here but really at your age and level of desperation, there is but one solution: cheat often. She doesn't want to fuck you and that's unlikely to change. Cheating on her will actually do you both a favor. You'll get gratification and she'll get you leaving her alone about sex. She might even begin to worry when you stop asking for sex and you'll get sex from her too. For fuck's sake OP.....cheat on her!

What sucks is that people ask me what I want to do in life. They ask me what my intrests are. They tell me to pick a job in that feild. But my interest its nothing. Not I dont like anything. But what I do like to do is nothing. But there isnt a job where you get paid for being lazy.

>>681427090
God I hope thats a lie. I do not want to amount to kfc manager in life.

>>681426885
Yeah not that even. All I say is be valuable enough to your employer where it doesn't matter where you are, or when you are where, just as long as you're loyal, reliable and can deliver.

Many companies are moving away from this idiotic industrial model of work. 9-5 bullshit that is more about a work regime that aligns with antiquated notions of what work should be.

I don't work in this industry but Netflix comes to mind as one new kind of company that is blowing up what it means to work for a company by not giving a shit about how well you roll call, and more about how you perform with an exceptional amount of freedom and responsibility. I think many innovative companies of the future will have to adapt this way. Worth the read.
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2015/02/27/netflix-culture-deck-success_n_6763716.html

Fuck hookers. Be discreet. Use protection. Don't feel guilt. Problem solved.

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Threads like these make my future very uncertain. I've always wanted to get married and have a kid - hopefully a son. My dad was the only son and I am as well. So I feel compelled to carry on the family name. But, with marriages seemingly failing over 50 percent of the time and constant stories of women's general cuntiness, I'm just rethinking my plans at all times. I know if I do get married it'll definitely be accompanied by a prenuptial agreement, but, damn things are truly bleak judging by the current state of things. I'm sorry you're going through a shit time OP....

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>>681427462

i'm starting to think op is fos. prolly some 16 yo that hasn't gotten laid yet.

>>681428813
Yah ending up being OP is literally the itchy nightmare that exists in the back of my mind scratching a motivation that has always pushed me to take a different life path.

Just ate pussy and fuck my wife in the ass, I'm 35 no kids, and will continue ass fucking until I die. Kid or no kid

>>681412443
Baby Boomer on board
>almost 52

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>>681429137

Yeah, I'll be 30 in a little over two years so I was hoping to move to a more populated area and start setting up a family. But, I'm just so discouraged after hearing these horror stories. Currently, I have it pretty nice living in a house all by myself and doing what I want.

>>681421865
>abs
>arms a bit bigger

Sounds like you dont know what you are doing in the gym. Do SS+GOMAD