>>681242463
I have 0 confidence even though I have 0 reason to not be confident.

>>681242816
same. some people have told me i'm attractive a few times, but still end up having 0 confidence. If I'm honest another reason is because i'm too much of a pussy to go up to a girl and ask her out.

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I think I have this guys curse. I don't think I look bad but it doesn't matter anyway.

>>681243284
God damn I miss that guy

I guess I'm just waiting for the right person
I've had girls that had want to before but I just wasn't interested

>>681243150
That would come back to the confidence issue.

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>go to mcdonalds because bro is buying
>some new worker pretty cute
>she tries so hard to not mess up my world
>we get our food
>go back because she forgot my bros milkshake
>she sees me near the cash register
>she suddenly approaches me asking whats wrong
>FALL IN LOVE
>start the mumble "m-m-muh milkshake"
>she didnt hear me asks again
>say "milkshake"
>oh right anon i forgot
>she confirmed me as a beta male

GOD DAMNIT JUST END MY SUFFERING

>>681242463
because i dont get anything out of it.

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>>681242463
I'm a 24 year old virgin. I spend all my free time on playing video games and on those rare occasions when I go out with one of my few remaining friends I stay with the group and don't make any effort to make new friends. You can't do something if you don't try.

Don't you like girls?

>>681244290
Are you me?

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>>681243915
I get that feeling too much as well. Last Sunday I sat between two women. One on my right kept looking my direction and I poker faced towards the pastor.

The pastor did ye' old phrase " tell your neighbor that grace comes through faith". I didn't even say a word to her. Fucking beta.

My last job a coworker and me worked along for 8 hours. She got a call from her mom that her close cousin was falling further I'll from cancer and it is end stage. She got off the phone in terrible sobs and I did not know what the fuck to do. I just slipped in an earbud to listen to music and continued on until she stopped sobbing.

Beta
E
T
A

I'm a pretty big loser and even I lost my virginity at 17. I was special ed and everything. Behavior disorder program.

>>681244292
liking girls and doing all that stuff necessary to get one are two different things

Because I haven't had sex, duh

>>681242463
i'm not tho

Cuz im only 10 xD

>>681245322
bait

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>>681243599
Girls aren't scary faggot

>>681245433
No shit Sherlock

>>681243513
Stop waiting for the right person and start being them. Selfish nigger

ugly, overweight, etc

but the underlying reason is that I am completely devoid of any self-confidence

>>681244290
How do you not get bored of video games? I just randomly stopped enjoying them one day...just so repetitive.

>>681242816
Your grammar is a good reason

Because I never had sex

>>681242463
Why not? I can't think of a single reason to bother myself with seeking out sex.

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Lol, please. Being a girl makes it easy sure, but as long as you're not a fat, ugly faggot NEET you should have at least had opportunity.

>>681245914
Same, its like the flame goes out all of a sudden.
Thousands of dollars on steam and now I have to get motivated to play anything.

every day is hell at this point lol

i don't want to hate myself anymore

>>681246809
how old are you tho

Ex missed, fell on me threw up in my hair and fell asleep.
Don't have drunk sex.

>>681246427
Tbf the fat ugly faggot NEET's just find other Fugly NEET fags to fuck.

The ongoing virginity thing seems more choice, low libido perhaps?

>>681245914
>>681246601
I'm near that point but too so far I haven't found a better alternative so I have nothing better to do besides shitposting

>>681242463
I'm afraid of people

>>681247359
life dude.

How can there be this many adult virgins who want to have sex? You've at least had a blow job, right? Maybe fingered a girl?

>>681247435
I tried people, they're nothing but oppressive despots and completely think their actions are acceptable. I was harassed at my last job because shit got leaked, everyone found out my actual life and literally fucked with me for a whole month. Told supervisors and just fucking left because there was no way stopping that horror.

Fuck normie gossip.

>>681247638
Fuck life :P
I prefer to bury my head in the sand and live in a fanatasy world thus avoiding any impending shit-storm.

because I'm ugly. it really sucks being ugly.

>>681242463
>inb4 tl;dr
I usually have trouble connecting with girls emotionally. I'll hear the words they're saying, almost always try to relate it to my own experiences. Then, usually end up disregarding their point in bringing it up to begin with. I can't force myself to care about the little things they're concerned with. I can act like it, but the "mask" usually fades over a matter of hours and they see it means nothing to me. Most days, I truly think I may be a "self_aware" sociopath.
>I don't watch TV (for my own reasons) leaving me out of touch with what's "relavent."
>I'm impatient
> I've had a lot of time to figure out how I think the world works. (I'm always right, in my own head and can't be told otherwise)
>lack of topics for conversation.
I think that's it.

>>681247842
Everyone around my age in this family of 65 members have had several relationships while I am still trying to get one. I dated last year and failed like a loser. I think I have a serious question, where do people who want to date for the first time got to? I am way behind in that category.

>>681247842
Yeah, this is beyond me m8

I'm apathetic.

>>681248103
I believe ugly is a bullshit reason. I see fat, short, hairy, funny looking, all types of guys getting it. I think I have a hex over me. I don't think I look ugly, but my looks are completely irrelevant to the women I fear when I walk or be around....dignity fucking shot.

>>681242463
Was a virgin yesterday, but just got laid. I am 16 and I just fucked a girl that has been flirting the fuck out of me the past couple days.

>>681242463
because the idea of putting anything in someone else's body is repulsive to me.

who knows where they have been, and what they are carrying.

also the emotional bullshit that happens with it (that people deny) is a turnoff to me as well.

i'm not fond enough of other people to even go there.

>>681248311
Where? Well what city are you in? Here in kc if you have a lot of money you go to the American. If you are poor BBS lawnside. From there, bed. Alternatively cinetopia is nice

>>681248311
>Be me, 17 y/o
>Meet girl at work
>Event in local town, she asks if i'm going
>Say I have no-one to go with
>Says we could go together
=DATE

There's no set formula to these things, no idiots guide to getting laid short of paying a hooker or roofies

To be honest dude your making it complicated.

>>681248714
And you just lost privileges here for two years as well.

My life is the constant struggle in-between finding facts and spreading them futilly.
I am a broken person, unbeknownst to emotion, whilst still retaining heterosexuality.
There is no sadness, no anger, no fear, even less physical pain.
The only thing that makes me feel anything is spreading the undeniable truths of this world.
Only spreading proven facts (contraversial or not) is what I do, it's a trade.
Constantly grasping new information, but at age 19 I understand the fine points of culture and literature.
When will I stop developing my own postulates during brain development? I have no idea, but when I do, I will fade into adequecy.
Being normal is my greatest nemesis.
I have an IQ of 127, but I have never done well in school. I was born into poverty.
There is one goal behind my very existence.
My being is dedicated to leaving a mark on this orb of debris we call Earth.
Nobody ever expected anything great from me, I am the epitome of average.
I fit in perfectly, like a jigsaw piece. Nobody even noticed I was alive in highschool.
White, straight, 5'9, fairly attractive, thin and socially adept. I couldn't design a more generic human if I tried.
My only flaw other than normalcy would be my drug habits. I dealed quite a bit of pot back when I was younger.
I still smoke the shit, but a friend and I grow it ourselves in a heavily secluded area.
Already feeling the effects of burnout. People can't notice, but my attention drifts constantly.
Living with parents, due to lack of interest in jobs and the current adjustment to the world after highschool.
I am almost robotic in my reactions and state of being. I am not just a robot, but a lazy one.
That's me. Can't dig feels threads, but felt like getting that shit off my chest.

>>681248714
MODS

>>681248854
Oh my bad. You mean where do you pick a girl up? The internet or a bar.

>>681242463
No idea. Probably too horrible to think about, though.

Look, my stepson is 6' 5 and 370 pounds. Has his hair a quarter inch long. He has nothing to his name and leeches off his mother and I.

And he has had 3 different girls sleep with him in 5 days. No, they were not at all attractive or cute. But they had vaginas and gave him access to them.

If you can't get laid kill yourself. All you have to do.is ask. Ask 75 girls. One of them will fuck you. Just ask.

>>681242463
18 kissless virgin here. There honestly is no excuses. I have had opportunities but never took them. I was genuinely scared and never took the leap forward. Massive beta but I definitely don't look like one.

>>681249373
And get arrested. You can't just go ask random girls . it's creepy, Pops.

>>681249373
This

>>681249289
Nah, I'd do neither, those women would probably wreck my dignity. I'm trying to go to meetup.com or a furry convention and hope for the best. Even though they're outcasts anyone can be an asshole so I hope I run into the chill kind.

>>681242463
Because I am 32 years old, 295 pounds, I have no college education, I have no job, I am for the first time in 12 years living with a parent again, and I have a disease that could require the complete removal of my bowels and me being stuck with a colostomy bag, though at the moment it only makes me shit 7 times a day.

So, I'm a virgin because I have absolutely nothing to offer, and being with me requires overcoming hurdles any sane women would have no reason to consider jumping.

Oh, I'm also beta as fuck, have a strong "thinking" based mental type so I have little tolerance for emotional bullshit, and am conservative politically, which most women seem turned off by.

>>681249708
He was speaking metaphorically.

>>681249737
What?

>>681249708
Always worked for me. I'd get 10 no's to 1 yes. Fucked 4 girls in one night at the beach once.

>>681249911
I feel you, except the conservative shit.
>"thinking" based mental type
>supports a party run by religious and greedy policies
>Literally supporting the opposites of thinking people, greed and religion.

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>>681249911
Implying you need to actually be in a relationship to get laid?

>>681250071
I dunno. I'm told bars and the Internet are way over my league. I wanna try stuff with similar interests and looked at meetup.com a couple of times. Maybe on my next five days off I'll pull the trigger and attend.

>>681250223
Ah the oldschool methods classic,

>>681250360
not everyone and everything right of center is the religious authoritarian right, just like not everything left of center is SJW progressive nonsense.
and the left is just as greedy, and the far left is just as dogmatic, as the right and far right.

look at policies, not stereotypes.
Conservatism is about maintaining a status quo that works. The status quo moderate conservatives seek to maintain is actually classical liberalism.

>>681250370
you don't need to, but I don't want to have sex outside a relationship. this is a personal choice on my end. despite not being an overly emotional person, I do feel emotions, and I would want to be in love with someone.

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>>681250373
Out of your league?
In what sense?

Are you a shit ugly retard?

I'm a schizoid with sociopathic tendencies. I'm totally apathetic towards females, have shit social skills, and aren't in the top 20% of alpha men that women want to fuck

>>681242463
36 year old virgin here.

No one would believe it if I ever told them. Great shape, confident, well off.

Been turning women down since I was 15.

I just can't stand being touched. By anyone. I can tolerate a hug from a parent but even then I cringe on the inside. I loathe contact with other people and the thought of getting someone's fluids on me is disgusting.

Kissing was the worst experience ever. I felt like I had a fire hose full of germs blasted into my mouth.

So I avoid dating and use the "I do not have time for dating with my career in full swing." excuse.

>>681250863
Interesting, I am an independent, and I can agree on the left wing greed thing. It definitely exists in both parties. I just dislike the entire idea of American supremacy most conservatives preach. They assume that socialist policies would ruin the "perfect" system, even seeing that countries such as Sweden or Denmark thrive off of them. Moderation in all things is key. Cutting out socialist policies in the US is parallel to us modern liberals completely removing the free market. Both must live on in order to keep us truly successful.

>>681249144
sounds like you need to find a new city where you don't fit in

I lived in Portland, OR for a while. It's cheap as hell and there are many sales jobs. Being a salesman will teach you a lot about who you are and how people see you.

>>681248980
Meant 26 m8. I have a shitty small keyboard

>>681250913
Once again, I seen all kinds of men get women with looks that would make you question, "why him"?

I don't feel ugly, yet at the same time doesn't matter. I just feel that there is a stigma for guys like me in society and women can sense it from a mile.

>>681250913
Implying someone like that can't get laid.

>>681252235
Well with the internet you can woo them from miles away.

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Almost 40 year old wizard here. At first I was a virgin because girls would have nothing to do with me because I was to anxious.

Now I stay away from women my age because they have too much baggage to deal with

Just for you guys I'm going to wake my girlfriend up and have sex with her.

>>681242463
I'm not

>>681252570
So date a younger one.

>>681252670
Post pics anon.

>>681252779
Unless rich or very handsome, most women aren't going to go for significantly older guys

>>681252805
She's fat. So fair warning.

>>681252907
Sure they will. It's called daddy issues.

>>681252570
Yeah, "THEY" have to much baggage

ITT: excuse making dolts

>>681253050
>most

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>>681252779

Because the idea of going out with younger women makes me feel like a pedophile.

>>681252235
women's brains are wired differently. It doesn't matter how many guys, even guys whose opinions matter to you, tell you female X is attractive. If you aren't into her, she isn't attractive to you. Their opinions don't count.

Women run differently. The more women consider a single guy attractive, the more likely their friend will also find him attractive, if she hadn't before she was exposed to their influence.

Guys seek affirmation that the girl they want is desirable. Girls seek consensus as to whether a guy is desirable or not. Totally different mindsets.

And if a guy is a virgin, especially past a certain age, girls assume "no other woman wanted him before, and so, because none wanted him before, I don't want him either."

This is why women cheat with married men, and say shit like "all the good ones are taken." Because a man is taken, he has value because he is desired. If he is not taken, he must not be wanted, and so his inherent desirability is lower. And if he is a virgin, that means NO ONE wanted him, and so, unless he brings A LOT to the table, she assumes the worst and has no interest in him. They take his virginity as a warning from all girls who ever considered him before as a neon sign that says "NOT THIS GUY!!!"

>>681253123
Most have them. That's why they are always calling us daddy in bed.

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tfw the girl who I lost my virginity to can never know it

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Haven't tried much not to be really.

>>681253186
If she's 25 she's hardly a child.

>>681253394
Story.

>>681242463
Rape, rope and transgender. I'm a far cry from being a virgin.

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>>681253394
Wut

>>681253536
Elaborate.

>>681248752
Fucking neckbeard pussy

Genuine assburger

>>681253636
>Elaborate.
Covers plenty does it not?

39 year old Virgin.


Because I lost my foot in a motorcycle accident in 1996

I hear wizchan.org gives great advice for wizards. Try asking for advice in lounge. Together we will beat this virginity thing.

>>681253241
there is a way to get around this: pursue YOUNG women. Virgins themselves. The type that are shy, and a little awkward, so guys their age were never interested in them, but that guys can look at and see there is youth, attractiveness, and something desirable there.

She craves the attention, the affirmation that she is desirable, finds your maturity alluring, is taken in by your independence (home, car, job, etc) and doesn't pick up on the "signals" women your age pick up on that say "NOT HIM!"

The problem, of course, is even assuming she is entirely legal, her friends and family won't approve, your friends and family won't approve, you face social ostracism, and women your age now feel like they see open evidence of why you deserve to be left alone: you're a creep who targets young girls, now, in their eyes.

>>681253437

Sadly, at the end of the day me staying a virgin is my choice. After all, there are options: fat chicks, drunk chicks and roofies.

>>681253923
No.

>>681253943

samefag here

one girl blew me but I couldn't get hard they called me limping limpy

i've had a lot of oral sex but I am anxiety given flesh and I'm also over-weight so either there's some physiological stuff going on or i'm a bitch so i've never been able to cum. I've made lots of dudes and ladies cum but both sexes either couldn't keep me hard or I couldn't cum, and it wasn't for lack of arousal or over-fapping

>>681253534
>>681253623
Well she's my girlfriend, but when we first met I told her I wasn't a virgin. If I came clean, she'd explode all over me about lying and shit. She's done it before over simple white lies, so I'd be completely fucked if she knew about this.

>>681254105
Maybe i put it in the wrong order, Rope, rape and now transgender.

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>>681253708
says anon who doesn't know me.

/fileintogarbage_1

>>681254257
She's going to figure it out. Also she sounds wretched. So no big loss.

>>681254833
Nah, she won't

>>681242463
Sex is for faggots

>>681254972
Yes, she will. They always do.

>>681255144
nah

>>681249911
>Oh, I'm also beta as fuck, have a strong "thinking" based mental type so I have little tolerance for emotional bullshit
If this is so, then how come you haven't stepped out of your own way and made the strides you need to do to achieve your goals?

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>>681247842
Fuck you, I'm not social

>>681254981
Then call me Liberace.

I am ugly and i don't talk to people .

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Seth Rogen is having sex right now. Look at him. Look at her.

>>681249144
Sounds like your parents need to kick you out.

>>681255354
Get social.

>>681255215

im gonna tell her

>>681253837
samefag here.

I dont look forward to talking to people. I cant see where i could meet someone in london. I love music but hate live music. I find alcohol disgusting. I get bored extremely fast when im in crowded places like a bar, I always think theres something better to do but dont see what. Almost never talk, Im not interested in what people say either

>>681242463
b/c I'm scrawny manlet nigger

When teenager, was scrawny, got beat up a lot, had bad acne, and I've been stuck with that mindset since. Can barely make eye contact with a female.
Additionally, have a tiny dick. Am terrified any girl who sees it will go laughing to her friends.

>inb4 learn to eat pussy

>>681256661
Also i collect tons of shit on my computer and i never use it

>>681256835
Date white chicks. They're used to it.

>>681244884
That second part was alpha as fuck

>>681256209
How

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Because I'm weak in every way.

>>681257744
First step is asking a girl out.

>>681251655
Autism

>>681259147
And yet less so than the rest of you virgins. Except stumpy. He just needs to see a shrink.

>>681249144
>My life is the constant struggle in-between finding facts and spreading them futilly.
Those facts do not include proper use of the hyphen or spelling.
>I am a broken person, unbeknownst to emotion, whilst still retaining heterosexuality.
Using words like "unbeknownst" and "whilst" don't certainly doesn't help. Economy of language, look it up.
>There is no sadness, no anger, no fear, even less physical pain.
Angst or clinical depression? My money is on angst
>The only thing that makes me feel anything is spreading the undeniable truths of this world.
Read: "I spend most of my time shitposting"
>Only spreading proven facts (contraversial or not) is what I do, it's a trade.
Seriously though, is "how to spell things" not factual enough for you?
>Constantly grasping new information, but at age 19 I understand the fine points of culture and literature.
"4chan: The finest in culture and literature"
>When will I stop developing my own postulates during brain development? I have no idea, but when I do, I will fade into adequecy.
Somewhere around 25

Cont.

>>681254300
So you raped someone?

When I was in high school I was into the whole "save myself for the right one" so I turned down every girl who I had a chance with thinking "I cant see myself spending my life with her"
21 now and I simply dont know how to flirt, dont pick up on girls flirting, and when they do outright say they would bang me or straight up ask me out I just dont know how to date. I wouldnt know where to go what to do, or what to say. anything of that sort

>>681260181
>Being normal is my greatest nemesis.
Don't worry about it
>I have an IQ of 127, but I have never done well in school.
You're at least 20 IQ points away from where humble bragging about it is appropriate
>I was born into poverty.
There's an 85% chance you were not
>There is one goal behind my very existence.
My being is dedicated to leaving a mark on this orb of debris we call Earth.
Fun fact: The earth is actually an oblate spheroid!
>Nobody ever expected anything great from me, I am the epitome of average.
I fit in perfectly, like a jigsaw piece.
Congratulations!
>Nobody even noticed I was alive in highschool.
"Nobody pays attention to me!"
>White, straight, 5'9, fairly attractive, thin and socially adept. I couldn't design a more generic human if I tried.
Somehow I doubt "socially adept" is applicable here
>My only flaw other than normalcy would be my drug habits. I dealed quite a bit of pot back when I was younger.
"dealt"
>I still smoke the shit, but a friend and I grow it ourselves in a heavily secluded area.
Try www.FarmersOnly.com to find that special someone
>Already feeling the effects of burnout. People can't notice, but my attention drifts constantly.
Switch your drug of choice from marijuana to Ritalin
>Living with parents, due to lack of interest in jobs and the current adjustment to the world after highschool.
Maybe your family wouldn't be in poverty if you got a goddamn job you filthy hippie
>I am almost robotic in my reactions and state of being. I am not just a robot, but a lazy one.
You might just be a lazy human.
>That's me.
"I'm so brooding and introspective, huh guys?"
>Can't dig feels threads, but felt like getting that shit off my chest.
WELL FIND A FUCKING FEELS THREAD NEXT TIME

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>>681257338
Thanks for pointing that out. Maybe I am unintentionally being an ass to women by closing myself up when they seem to lead on to being open? I am very critical about everyone else's thought of me. I don't want to die alone.

I still have the bad memories of dating though. The woman I was talking to was giggling too much when I was talking about myself and my life, immediately felt like a fool.

I need to stop this shit. Already five more years Til I'm 30.

Because I'm a paraplegic with a skinny dick. No girl wants to fuck a dude who can't do anything but missionary and let her ride cowgirl. Fucking sucks. I'll never feel sex so idk why I care about having it. I'll never be the dominant sexual partner in a relationship.

>>681255332
apathy

>>681260617
There is a video guide to this for people with autism.

>>681260927
Everybody is somebody's fetish /b/rother

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>>681247842

>tfw stranded on third base, 2 outs, and the weak kid is up at bat
>tfw you realize existentially are the weak kid

Goddamnit.

>>681260927
You don't need to be the dominant and most cripples can feel it.

>>681260927
Don't discount prostitutes, homie. You should at least get your dick wet before you die.