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So, my best friend just found out today that I've been fooling
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So, my best friend just found out today that I've been fooling around behind my girlfriend's back
Seen better days

AMA
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If he's your best friend, how many times did he high five you?

>never be friends with white knights
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>>681195686
He hasn't told her yet
He said he's debating what to do still
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>>681195374
>>681195884
WTF type of best friend would say anything?

My best friend told me that a while back. Was proud of him, his GF was a fucking SJW hambeast. Smart man left her eventually.
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>>681196136
Problem is he's a good guy, very caring
He might think it'd be the best course of action to take in order for me to learn since it's not my first mistake

It would most definitely disconnect me from all of my friends though
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>>681195374
Basically, if he tells on you that means he's in love with you. He's wondering if he should make you single to make sweet, sweet love to your mcnuggets.
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Thats shitty of you to cheat on your girlfriend.

As punishment post more Samus.
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>>681197328
You think you just made a joke, but he has confessed that he'd want to before
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>>681196789
Stop being friends with people who want to teach you a lesson. Like wtf type of friend does that.

Good guy or not, he should be looking out for your interests not your GF's. Unless he's her best friend too, in which case he's already tapping that so don't worry.

Fucking cuck.

Probably just worried because you were actually getting fucked by Tyrone when your friend walked in and was like "wtf mate".
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>>681197423
Forgive me father
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why the fuck do you think it's ok to cheat you fuckwit
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>>681197492
Actually no I don't. Real friends these days wouldn't say shit, faggots would to get with you. Final question is: are you a faggot or not?
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>>681197791
I'm a girl, buddy

I wasn't getting fucked by a Tyrone, it was pet/master play

I don't think he'll really go through with telling anyone
As I said he's actually a really good friend and I kinda fucked up
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>>681197962
I don't think it's okay, never said so
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>>681198253
so then why would you do it
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>>681198155
Everyone is a bit of a faggot
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>>681198171
he likes you, and secretly hopes by ending this relationship that you might
"see the light" and go out with him, and even if that wont happen he'll continue
to try to control the direction of your life as if he did have some stronger significance
in your life.
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>>681198332
It fueled my selfhatred

inb4 ow the edge
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>>681198520
I strongly doubt that
He might have hopes pf getting with me, but he knows it's never gonna happen if he sabotages me like that
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>>681195884
If he has to think about what to do, he isn't your best friend.
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>>681198691
well... he might not ?

I don't want to ruin your image of men but we're willing to go to great and terrible lengths
to get with someone that we think we really want to be with. unfortunately i'm guilty of doing
something similar to get with someone I liked and have even done so to others just to keep them free
if my current relationship didn't work out. to be entirely honest I didn't have their best interest at heart,
i'd never do that to someone I unconditionally cared for.
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>>681199503
Best friend or not, he's still a decent human being with morals, so he would have reason to do it
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Even if I was morally opposed to it I would just let my best friend do him. Anyone who would do anything more isn't your friend and probably wants to move in on your bitch while she's vulnerable.
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>>681199647
I do understand how humans work and that some will do a lot of things for their own personal goals
But just because one will, doesn't mean the other will aswell
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>>681200067
She's not interested in him whatsoever
She even expressed once or twice that I might wanna distance myself at least a bit more from him because he's too caring
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>>681200005
Ooooh... moral high-ground. Come off it you fucking sod.
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>>681198691
>>681199647
cont... he could also be after your girlfriend, not you.

>>681200005
that would be a real lame best friend. a best friend should have YOUR best interest
in mind , not the other party. if they are more worried about the other person getting
hurt then clearly they don't care about you as much as you thought they did.
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>>681200672
Some people take it seriously

Though as I said, he'll prolly put me on a higher level than his morals
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>>681195374
He gay?

My best friend has like slept with 8 girls, I don't tell her shit, albeit she is my friend too.
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>>681200921
He's never said anything about her in that regard
And we're usually extremely honest with eachother, so I don't think he's after her
Also, even if he was, she wouldn't want him
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>>681201272
He not gay
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>>681200583
>he's too caring

And you seriously think he isn't trying to sabotage your relationship in order to increase his odds? Let me be real with you OP, dudes want to bang their lady friends, at least a little. This dude is going to continue to try to tell you how to live your life in the hopes that he can subtly steer you to him. No doubt you'll ignore this inconvenient truth, but in a few years when he's either A) autistically poured out his heart to you or B) become such a moralistic creep that you stop being homies you'll know I was right.
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>>681198171
Wait, is your GF giving you play, or are you having to sneak to get it at all?

It sounds like your best friend and your GF may both be unhealthy relationships.
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>>681201345
He's a delusional drama queen that either wants to fuck her or you.
That you keep backing him up makes it sound like you'd be fine with both.
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>>681201552
He already did pour his heart out once, when I got together with my gf
He was very open about it and said he'll get over it, though it may take time
It's been a while since then

And honestly, I have dealt with assholes before, he's not one of them
He's flawed like every other person, but he's not gonna sabotage anything
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>>681201748
She and I do have a sex life, so no, I don't have to sneak
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>>681201552
>dudes want to bang their lady friends
this
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>>681201862
I don't plan to fuck him and neither do I plan on letting him fuck her, though that's not gonna happen anyway
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>>681202207
Stop the presses
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>>681200268
true, we all have our own ways of dealing with things and how far we are willing to take things but just ask yourself this question

Why doesn't he just walk away ? If he can't stand cheaters like yourself he should
just abandon the friendship, that way no one gets hurt and eventually you'll get yours
from what's transpired here.

No, he wants to tell your partner and see this relationship end. He wants to save your
partner from suffering, while ignoring what kind of damage this could do to you.
Like someone else said earlier, you shouldn't be friends with people who are out
to teach you a "lesson"

>>681201345
unfortunately we don't always have to reveal all the details in our plan.

based on the other posts its not likely that he likes her, but lemme tell you something
for sure, a guy usually has to learn the hard way when a girl he likes doesn't like her back,
especially if you guys are young, which I bet you are.
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>>681201927
OP you're a stupid cunt. You wanted our advice but you don't like the truth. Now show us your tits or gtfo
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>>681195374
Why would you see better days? Your homeboy doesn't have your back?
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>>681201927
>already did pour his heart out once
>he was very open about it
>said he'll get over it
>said he'll get over it
>said he'll get over it
>he'll get over it
>get over it
>over it
>it

Yeah he's not over it. Everything he said to you when he poured his heart out and even what he said when you got together with your girlfriend was in hopes of you changing your mind for him.

Mystery solved. Stay away from him. He doesn't have your best interest in mind, he's only after his selfish desires.

Best of luck.
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>>681195374
lol what. If he tells her he's not your best bro simple as that. If he wants to talk it out with you taht's one thing. Otherwise w hat you do in your relationship your own fucking business.
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>>681202484
We're early 20s, yea

He doesn't like cheaters, but he does understand the shit I do most of the time, that's why he's my best friend
He prolly gets why I did what I did and I don't blame him for being unsure about that situation, especially since I did lie to him about it several times, which I usually don't
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>>681202603
You show your dick first
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>>681203052
>being this new
>implying I have a dick
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>>681202875
Hey I'm not saying he's over it for sure
But I still don't think he's the kind of person to pull backstabbing shit like that
Not ever once has he let anything like that on and not ever once has he done anything that he knows would harm someone
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>>681203343
I don't care what you have, but you better get working on growing one then
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>>681202965
It's not his fucking business. It doesn't matter if you lied to him. It's not his fucking business. You obviously know he likes you and that this motivates his actions, but you like having your beta orbiters.

Nothing new under the sun
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>>681202965
he just doesn't understand that we're hunters yet. good for you man don't let society keep y ou down. If you were really content with just your girl you wouldn't have gone out and done that other girl. If it's wrong why is it wrong? It's not wrong just because it's wrong. If you agreed to be monogamous why? Because she wanted to? You sure as hell dont want to.
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>>681203655
"beta orbiters"
I'm not Queen Bee
He's free to stop talking to me whenever, I won't stop him
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>>681203980
I'm a girl and did it with another guy because he fueled my abuse fantasies, which my girlfriend doesn't want to do
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>>681202965

>shit i do most of the time

so I'm gonna guess you're some sort of a loose cannon yet he's the one
person who admires you and all your abnormalities no matter how
strange or dangerous it may be .

that alone is a scenario where he likes you.

but if he understands the "shit you do" why doesn't he understand your
need to commit adultery ? people who tend to involve themselves in crazy
shit usually aren't above cheating on others. I don't know any tame people
who've cheated on their lovers and I don't know any crazy off the hook
people who haven't cheated on their lovers.
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>>681203497
>>681203497
He doesn't perceive it as backstabbing. No doubt he thinks it's in your best interest which is why he wants to hold you accountable for something that doesn't actually affect him. Story time, lived with my buddy for a while, his gf is cool and a babe. He still cheated on her all the time. I never said shit. It ain't my business, my loyalty was to him exclusively, his gf was incidental to that.

Here's a test. Next time he brings up this cheating business, no doubt he's guilt tripping you, ask him if he still wants your slob on his knob.
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It's none of his business. There's a reason I don't hang out with drama queens, is because they always bring fucking trouble and dumb shit with them.
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>>681204417
>did it with another guy

Mystery solved. This is why he salty. You're so fucking stupid it's a little unbelievable. Is this top shelf b8?
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>>681204457
I'm not a maverick
This is the first time I fucked up that bad, he's just always been the one that tries to wrap his head around why I did what I did
He does tell me when I mess up still
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>>681204775
I'm not leaving the possibility of him being pissed about that fully out of the equation
Maybe I'm stupid, but not blind
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>>681195374
Hope he tells her. Either be open about it or don't do it.
>inb4 pic related.
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>>681203497

He's not backstabbing you, not necessarily . You've committed
a social crime against someone else and he has the grounds
to tell that person , but is that something your best friend would do
to you ? to see your relationship end after snitching when you
most likely begged him not to ? when youre crying after your girlfriend
left you for being the cheater you are is your best friend, the one
who revealed the secret in the first place going to be the first
one you call for a shoulder to cry on ?

You know and he knows how badly his decision is going to damage your relationships and yet you sit here and defend him while he's most likely
going to tell.

It's like we've all said, he either likes you or your friend, it's most likely you
and if he really was your friend he would let you do your own thing.

Take care.
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>>681204571
He sees himself as a bit of a helping hand sometimes
And I mean he's not bad at it, even though sometimes he should stay out of it
But in this case it does involve him a bit
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>>681205349
I don't care anymore. KYS
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>>681205303
Hey I do regret it and am thinking about if I can tell her
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>>681205464
cool
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>>681205343
I do acknowledge these suggestions
But I don't think he'll tell her if I ask him not to
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So why'd you cheat on her?

If he didn't tell on you do you think you'd 100% stop or just get bored a while down the track and do it again?
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>>681205632
Ice cold
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>>681198171
Nicole?
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>>681205706
I have a fetish for abuse and found a guy that was willing to do that for me, take me as a pet and stuff
Gf refused to do any of the sort

And I already stopped it a little bit ago on my own accord, and I wouldn'T do it again
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How about, listen to me on this one, you fucking kill yourself for cheating on your understanding boyfriend, you fucking scum. Waste of oxygen.
2/10 you made me reply.
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>>681205931
Nuh uh
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>>681195374
>AMA

Why don't you go back to plebbit you fucking cancerous piece of shit?
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>>681206088
>boyfriend

I'm sorry noone taught you to read, Jamal
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>>681206088
Get the facts right then be mad, ya dingus. But yeah shes slightly retarded.
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>>681206238
I'm sorry I offended you by using an abbreviation for something that isn't uncommon to say
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>>681205958

If the sex means that much to you then I'd break it off with her, you're just going to crave it further down the road (which is ok) and since she doesn't want to do any of it it's not worth wasting your or her time.
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>>681206301
Girlfriend, I apologize. Now anhero on camera please, or let your girlfriend get cucked on camera to make it even.
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>>681206508
Unfortunately I'm too inept to tie a noose
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>>681195374
Why are you unfaithful nigger? People like you are worse than scum.
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>>681206439
This.
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Ok ok, sorry, really question. I apologize for the previous hostilities.
Why haven't you killed yourself yet.
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>>681206439
I don't think I'll do it again
I felt terrible after and it wasn't worth it at all
I don't think I really need that shit anymore
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>>681206778

You sound cranky anon
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>>681206425
It was uncommon before you cunts moved in, you're like a nigger in the white only bathroom. You just shit up the place.
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>>681206661
I'm aware
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>>681206778
lern tu engrish faggot
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>>681206899

Well you did do it behind someone's back, imagine if you were single and able to do what you want sexually and try and settle down with someone who interests you mentally and physically?
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>>681206778
Damn emergency services man, they always come too early
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>>681205464
just tell her, it might fuck you up good but its still the best course of action
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>>681206238
Why don't you go with her then, newfag?
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>>681206960
"Moved in"
I barely ever post here
Last time I opened a thread was like, fucking late 2012 or something
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Post more of the cosplayer. I don't give a shit what's being discussed.
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>>681207064
Obviously it'd be great to find someone who fits me absolutely perfectly, but I just don't see that happening
And I know it sounds stupid to hear that from a cheater's mouth, but I do love my gf a lot
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>>681206916
I just hate cheaters. I get the worst feeling in my stomach when I listen to stories of someone fucking someone other than their loved one behind their back. You either confess about being scum, or anhero.
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>>681207304
Lets keep it that way then. You're cancer.
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>>681207304
Thats even fucking worse. You waited almost 4 years to say what you've said.
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>>681207117
Maybe it is, but it's not really a choice I can just make in a heartbeat
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>>681207131
Whatever you say friendo
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>>681207322
Reverse search the pic, find the name and look for it yourself
It's not difficult
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>>681207488

Better to find someone that at least interests you rather than cheat on them down the road.

>I do love my gf

Yeah you might love her but you have to make the choice whether to punish her and yourself when being unsatisfied or man up and try something new with someone else?
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>>681207592
Yes, you can. Tell her. You're an unfaithful cunt, now fess up.
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>>681207501
So how often have you been cheated on?
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>>681207530
That really hurt my feelings
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>>681207585
What
That doesn't even make sense
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>>681207877
Only once, but it was by someone I wasted 2 and half years with, thought I loved her and was going to marry her, fucked my best friend, I found out, broke up with her.
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>>681195686
>Fuckboy detected
If you're going to fuck around why be in a relationship
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>>681207501

I don't like cheaters either but a lot of people make the mistake of searching for something outside their relationship then panicking and asking for advice when they get caught.

The real bad ones are the ones that are fine with doing it and plan to continue on but are always unwilling to want their partner to experience someone else cause 'im selfish'
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>>681207797
I do mean it when I say I don't think I'll fuck her over like this again
And if I get the urge, before doing anything, I'll break up with her beforehand or at least say something about it
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>>681207842
You can keep telling me what I already know but it's not gonna make the choice easier
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>>681208057
You have not posted in 4 years and the thing you post is utter shit. To add to it you say you've been lurking for that long yet you did what you did. Have I cleared that up for you? 8/10 would be mad again.
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>>681208128
Well, sorry to hear
I've been fucked over aswell, so don't think I don't know that what I did is wrong and sucks for the other person
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>>681208244

Then at least tell her what you've done. She deserves to know what you did and decide for herself whether your relationship is worth it.

>I don't think

Yeah anon I'm talking years down the line, it's all well and good a few days or weeks or even months after but if it's really what you want sexually and she's unwilling, you'll no doubt do it again.
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>>681207752
More difficult than you just posting them for me.
Fuck.
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OP here's what you do. You clear your history. You stop fooling around, you get rid of all evidence, you fix up everything and push it to the point where what you did never exsisted. "OH HE SLEPT WITH OTHER GIRLS", really? wheres the evidence. Guy seems like a complete chode to your girlfriend, you peg him out as a squealer while playing it off so it makes him seem desperate. After all, he's come out and poured his heart out. He'd do anything to try and win your girl. He's done for. Fuck him for squealing, fuck him for not being your best friend, paint him as the villain whos there for nothing but personal gain from this. ALPHA AS FUCK.
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>>681208446
I do post, I just never make threads
Read nigga, read
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>>681208596
Well, life is hard
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same chick thicker than snicker
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>>681208571
I'm still thinking about my course of action with her
Of course I know the right thing would be to tell her, but I'm almost sure she'd break up with me
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Suck his dick so he won't tell her
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>>681196136
He could be friends with his girl too
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>>681196789

>Mistake

Oh boy I'm laughing

Mate, mental gymnastics don't help anybody. You didn't accidentally fuck someone behind your girlfriend's back. No one slips and falls into a vagina enough to climax outside of jap fetish porn.

I dont really care either way I just think the language is retarded here
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>>681208643
I appreciate your contribution but, friendo, you shouldn't just skim over the details if you wanna actually put forth something worthwhile
He poured his heart out to me, I'm not a guy
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>>681208995

You probably deserve to be broken up with, you went behind her back for your own selfish reasons. Leave it up to her, she might keep you, she might not.
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>>681208997
Considered
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>>681209204

nvm thought you were a guy, still you get the point.
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>>681209204
You can make a mistake without it being an accident
Otherwise it'd be called...well, an accident
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>>681209313
You don't need to tell me about what I deserve, I know that very well
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>>681209629

So then tell her?
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Brake up with her. You obviously aren't in a point in your life where a relationship is a good idea. Be alone for a while, trip on shrooms and dmt a few times and move on.
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>>681209766
Loss isn't my forte, so I'd rather think about that long and hard first
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>>681209836

This. I feel like so many people get into relationships because they think it's the right thing to do, fuck them up in one way or another than aren't comfortable with fessing up to it and possibly being alone for a while.
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>>681209836
I'm not a fan of injecting whole marijuanas
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>>681209836
You aren't a bad person op, you sound nice. You just need to figure this shit out and grow up. I don't mean that as an insult, just advice.
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Fuck that faggot, he just wants to fuck your girlfriend. Tell him to shut his fucking mouth, why do people keep friends like this
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>>681210224
It's appreciated
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>>681209950

In the hopes that you'll eventually deal with the guilt internally rather than own up to it and see how she really feels?

damn that's one selfish form of 'love' you got there
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>>681210254
I'm pretty sure he doesn't
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>>681210095
I just recommend everyone try shrooms and dmt at least once. You'll learn a lot and feel happier and more whole.
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>>681205107
He sounds beta as fuck. Hope you get rekt, can I see your pussy?
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>>681210369
I've never claimed to be an angel
One of the main reasons why I'm still opposed to not telling is that it's most definitely gonna fuck up my relationships because she knows all my friends and has also been friends with them, with some even longer than me
She might not be one to slander me after, but it'll still have a negative effect
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>>681210513
I have one or two druggie friends, I'll pass
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>>681210779

You really should have thought of that before you went ahead and did it.
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>>681210762
I don't know, CAN you?
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>>681210988
Once again, I'm aware that was a stupid move, probably the dumbest thing I've ever done
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>>681211129

Own up to it then. You made your bed now sleep in it.
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>>681210989
Wouldn't you like to know. Show body parts slut!
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>>681211396
If it were that simple I would've done it already
From your viewpoint I get that it's the right thing to do and you think I should do it
But to me it's a bit more than just "Do it and it'll be over"
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>>681211415
Lucky for you I like being called names
Buuut that's still not gonna get you anywhere
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>>681209232
Not the guy you replied to, but for fucks sake, you daft cunt. Lemme pan things out for you:
You cover your tracks
Your loser friend will rat you out
There will be no evidence, his word versus yours
You deny, obviously
In order to convince your girlfriend, you suggest that your loser friend isnt over you, and this is his petty attempt at breaking you too up
You save your relationship, you lose an unreliable friend.
Win-win. Story over, move on with your life.
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>>681198171
emily?
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>>681211799
I wouldn't let YOU get anywhere with how snug I'd tie you to a radiator and face fuck you till you pass out. I love dirty fucking freaks like you. To bad your to fucking clingy. Go get fucked and enjoy it, fuck the innocent
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>>681211665

You don't want to do it because you know you'll be in the shit. That's why people don't do it. If you don't tell her you'll eventually reason that 'what she doesn't know won't her her'. That's how proper cheaters live with themselves.
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>>681208136
Because they don't actually care about the people they're in a relationship with.
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>>681212217
I understand the plan
But it don't even have access to all the evidence, so yea
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>>681212338
Random name
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>>681212388
You're trying too hard, come on now
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>>681212217
*two
Plus, as you said, this will probably ruin your relationships with all of your other friends.
So its more like: keep your clingy loser friend, lose everyone else including your gf
Or lose the loser friend and continue as usual.
He's putting you in a spot (inadvertently but still) where you have to chose him or everyone else. Dont make the stupid choice.
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>>681212406
Well I'll never not feel bad about it, no matter how much I reason with myself
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>>681198542
You really are a terrible person.
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>>681212809
I'm still pretty sure he won't tell her if I ask him not to
But it's still gonna be there even if it stays secret
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>>681212814

Give it a while, time heals all wounds and you'll eventually be able to get over your guilt and no doubt you'll hurt her again.

Hopefully she'll cheat on you down the road.
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>>681212854
Yup
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I had a really bad childhood, I use to get beat by my dad, he got me through that, I guess he just wants the best for me
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>>681213017
She's not as bad as me
I'm aware I don't deserve her, but after this, I plan to give better myself to be at least as close to a proper girlfriend as I can be
No more underhanded bullshit
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>>681208743
I despise you
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>>681213060
So you deserve what you get.
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>>681206899
>>681208571
>>681209313

>tfw GF did same thing with my except online for first 2 months of relationship

Came to live with her for 4 months. Helped her open a new blank page for her life and she's improved to the point i can trust her. Leaving in two weeks. I hope if she goes back to that stupid online S&M shit she'll tell me and i can dump her ass.

She's too thirsty for me at this point as i know everything about her so i don't think she will now.

>tfw
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>>681213335

>close to a proper girlfriend

Wait you're a lesbian who cheated on her with a man? Oh that's even funnier.
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>>681213470
You're not the first
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>>681213011
True, i guess theres that. Put a bandaid over it for now. If you really want to make sure he doesnt tell, maybe you can try insinuating to him that you think he wants to break the two of you up. And that there is no future (romantic or otherwise) if he ruins it for you. Some nice emotional blackmail?
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>>681213483
Maybe
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>>681212688
I don't really care, all I was saying is if you like sex, go have sex. Why the fuck stay with people who don't compliment your desires? Or don't you believe in living life to the fullest? Tell you what slut, come to Milwaukee and let me give you this dick. Then maybe you will get some clairvoyance into the situation once you realize that its sissy grade school drama compared to no obligation damn good fucking
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>>681213484

Did she confess or did you catch her?
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>>681213484
Sorry to hear
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>>681213504
If you only get that now, you haven't been paying attention
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>>681213625
He'd be absolutely retarded to think I'd just up and jump into his arms if he tells her
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>>681213858

You crave the dick no wonder you're afraid to tell her.
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>>681213641
I do get sex from my girlfriend
Just not THAT rough
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>>681213632
No maybe. You have in to your selfish desires and betrayed the person you entered into a relationship with. You admitted guilt to the betrayal, and are worried that your friend will betray your trespass. And you deserve it. You do selfish things that hurt others, and you deserve whatever punishment comes your way.
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>>681214068
I don't discriminate amongst genitals and she does know that
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>>681213980
Well, hes got to be absolutely retarded to think that he'll be doing you a favor by ruining all of your relationships and turning you into a social outcast, so i wouldnt rule it out.
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>>681214301
Fair enough
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>>681214301

>inb4

You don't need to tell me, I know anon... but I'm not going to tell her
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>>681213728
Confessed early on in relationship that she had problems. Before i met her. Met her then came back to my home land. She relapsed into self harm 2 weeks into and admitted to cheating. Said she would stay faithful. I smelt bullshit but i still care about her. Knew that it was going to be a shit show for next 2 months until i came.

I always accused her. Came over and snooped through her skype. Saw a convo. Turns out i was right. That's when i proved it. Didn't trust her for months after. Now i do.

She has now figured its better to have one guys attention who knows her better than anybody instead of a bunch of random fuckies attention.
Let's see how this pans out.
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>>681214366

Meh. Honestly it's up to you. From the sounds of it you're not going to tell her and it's all going to be up to your friend.

Hopefully you get your shit together but if you're with a chick and you crave the dick it's only a matter of time before you repeat.
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>>681214301
What's his business is his. What's worse, hearing it from somebody else, or the person your in a relationship with?
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>>681214424
He's not stupid, he wouldn't just do that willynilly
He has stated though that he will do whatever it takes to put me on the right path, even if that means I'll hate him
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>>681214462
Don't worry, word will get out. You'll get yours, in the end. And I doubt you'll see it coming.
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>>681214530

Best of luck to you anon, you sound like you're on top of things.
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>>681214856

Hopefully she will.
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>>681214856
Someone's butt hurt from a recent relationship
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>>681214665
It's not about that I cheated with a guy
It could've just as well have been a girl, as long as she was into the same stuff

And trust me, I would prefer to tell her, and I know it's selfish if I don't, but as I said, it's not that easy for me
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>>681214706
It doesn't matter how she finds out. She will. And I won't speak as to which way would be better, that depends on the receiver of the news.
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>>681214881
Thanks anon. Being with a crazy and helping her rehabilitate has taught me a lot about people/girls/women.
It's tough as nails process. I don't think i'll do it again.
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>>681214756
True, you know him better. But i cant imagine being friends with a cunt like that in the first place. I guess he has redeemable qualities then. Best of luck though.
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>>681215094
Nah, I've just learned throughout my life, far before thoughts of relationships, that the truth will come out. Someway, somehow, it always does, and most of the time it'll blindside you when it does happen, right when you think you're in the clear. I'm just informing her of the realities of life.
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>>681215507
Thanks
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>>681215254
You speak of doing the right thing for anons gf, but say it doesn't matter who tells her. Having someone not involved in the relationship tell you something like that blows the situation way out of proportion.
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>>681215216

>cheated on girlfriend for the d
>anon no it's not about the d

Wow you can't even be honest about this can you?
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>>681215319

Yeah it can be a bit of a risk but people do make mistakes, especially doe eyed women caught up in attention you know?
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>>681215845
Are you making a joke or do you actually not get it?
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>>681198171

You know the rule.

Tits or GTFO
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>>681215992
I have never seen this type of calm talk when a guy fucks up. Gender war commence.
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Lol you have a shitty friend.
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>>681216067

I just can't take you seriously and I really doubt you're going to own up to it.
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>>681216112
That rule has been so misused over time it's ridiculous
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>>681215992
I had been with a girl before that had huge issues, bigger than this girls. She taught me you can't save someone that don't want to be saved. She was all sorts of fucked. At 13 had a abusive dad, her older 'brother' was the towns coke dealer, and she'd been raped so many times she wanted to be a prostitute. Good first time though. She knew how to suck a dick.

The girl i'm with showed she wanted to. I did it and now i am in the most satisfying relationship i've ever been with.

>>681216166
Calm talk can be found, just gotta look in the right places.
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>>681216166

Difference being it's online cheating vs OPs actual physical cheating. That being said, dunno the extent anons gf went to, I assume just conversations rather than images.
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>>681216288
Fair
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>>681215713
Ok, let me put it this way. OP should tell her gf. She should own up to her mistakes. Because if she doesnt, then it WILL come out, one way or another, and you're correct, it'll make the situation even worse coming from an outside source. But what'll affect it even more than that is the fact that she tried to hide it, tried to cover it up and pretend it didn't happen. And she'll be in even more trouble. There's no way this will end well, so better to just own up to it, come what will. But know that what will come will not be good.
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>>681208136
fuck the first part of the sentence. why be in a relationship when you can fuck around?
>inb4 virgin detected
>inb4 STDs
>inb4 any other lame ass excuse
check yourself before you wreck yourself
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>>681216514

>can't save someone that doesn't want to be saved

wise true words there
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>>681216608
Nah it was video skype. I don't know the extent of that. Found some videos on her email from year+ ago. Was pretty fucking intense. She wasn't that submissive for me. Almost thought about saying fuck it.
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>>681216879

Damn sorry she went through a whore phase (how old was she) fingers crossed she's changed her ways for good.
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>>681216649

Hopefully one day you'll grow a pair
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>>681216762
You might as well have just written
>inb4 truth or logic
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>>681216762
Because a train of cheap sluts doesnt make me happy. Being in a good relationship does.
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>>681195374
post pic of gf, gfs nudes, or girl ur fucking around with and her nudes or gtfo my board ree
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>>681217464
I fucked around with a guy
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>>681217044
It was 14 - 15 (turned 16 a month before we met). Had a deo can or something shoved up her cunt while she read out what she wanted him to read. This was a year + ago.
She definitely hasn't done anything since i came over here in Jan. The test will be for the upcoming 2 months we are apart. If not then she can fuck right off. Might keep her on an emotional lead because why throw away a good sub.
Got me into BDSM, taught me what a relationship means, and gave me a wonderful experience for the time i was physically with her. If it ends i've only gained, not lost.
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>>681217279
found the beta cuck
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>>681217591
pics pls u know the drill
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>>681217701
Leading her on would be absolutely disgusting
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>>681217701

Yeah when they're that age they get caught up in the idea that men actually want them and they just love the attention so I can somewhat excuse it/accept that she'd be able to change with your help.

>she can fuck right off

Damn straight, stick to your guns, good luck
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>>681217937
If you're so desperate for tits, google "naked ladies"
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OP how old are you and your girlfriend?

How long you been together?

Ever cheated before or been cheated on?
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>>681217267
>truth or logic
there is nothing logical about monogamy.
I am not, nor have I ever been comfortable with cheating on any one of my partners. But i don't condemn those who do.
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>>681217972
It would. If she wants to be a disgusting whore she can be treated like on.


>>681218017
Thanks anon. Usually i get 'jump the boat' type of responses. Good to see someone here with sense of people.
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>>681218116
I'm 21, she's 20
I've been screwed over when I was 17
We've been together for around 5 to 6 months
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>>681208876
who is she
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>>681218115
actually this is /b/, the birthplace of all tit images

so post tits

or gtfo
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>>681218265
You could just try not indulging that side of her, you know
Since it makes you a disgusting person aswell
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>>681218298

>when I was 17

How'd that make you feel? Did the person confess to you or did you find out? Would you rather they'd have just told you?

>5 to 6 months

Sounds like you've fucked yourself with her being friends with your friends, half a year isn't that long but you seem more afraid of fucking up your social life rather than actually hurting her.
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all you fucking reddit faggots and your attempt at making your opinion count when nobody really cares... you're just spewing a bunch of crap that won't exist on the internet for more than half an hour. Post something interesting; like OC nudes
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>>681218402
That rule was invented for attention whores, genius
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>>681218402

Why would the tits or gtfo rule apply here?
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>>681218516
Well, the person only got in a relationship with me in order to then cheat, they thought it was funny, so they told me on their own accord afterwards
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>>681218554
OC nudes are boring you fuck face.

The only time there is something interesting is when
EXAMPLE OF MUSTARD KIND
>was on extreme pain meds
>roll thread
>he was a self harmer, made cuts down his legs
>got on cam and cut open his testis
>put testi out of sack into mouth
>smeared mustard all aroud his cut open sack and cuts
>put jar of mustard in ass
>last roll was to go to hospital

Now THAT was interesting.
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>>681218455
Are you OP?
You seem very boring/safe.
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>>681218756

So with that experience why'd you cheat on your girlfriend?
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>>681208876
Who's that?
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>>681218946
I am
At least I know what I did is absolutely shitty and I'll never do it again
I won't defend that I did it
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>>681217854
Lol ok friend. You must be the "if I never try i'll never fail" kind of guy, too afraid of being a "cuck" to actually take a risk and commit to someone. Seems like the only risk you take is the risk of waking up with a different std every morning, or having one of your floozys steal some of your shit.
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>>681219017
Strong libido combined with finding someone that was willing to indulge what I wanted abuse-wise
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Op you are a fucking cunt and you should kill yourself.
Fuck cheating lying pricks like you.
I was literally dissapointed finding out that my best mate was flirting with other girls behind his girlfriends back. Shes a good girl and has been living with him for 2 years straight in college. She doesn't deserve that shit. She cooks and cleans for his fucking arrogant ass.


He's fucking lucky i didn't tell her. And i have no interest in that girl, she barely even speaks english. I've just been lied to many times throughout my life and have come t despise cheaters and liars. Before any faggot says "aw you just wanted to bang her bro." Fuck no! Morals are fucking morals. And fuck dat "bro mentality" bullshit honestly. It's not "bro" to lie to people and be a cunt.
Even if i may have no remorse sometimes and have no empathy towards most people, i still respect a relationship i have with a person or my girlfriend. Honesty, truth, and trustworthiness go a looooooooong way.

So fuck you, i hope you get caught, and i hope you are revealed for the horrible sick cunt you are.
I love how you are also trying to justify it as a "pet/master type of thing" as if it's totally normal to cheat on somebody dude. Shame on you.
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>>681219205
Should find a partner to do your S&M with.
We both have the kink and enjoy it healthily.
You enjoy it and your girlfriend doesn't.
Don't be jealous. I know it's a natural trait of yours.
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>>681219364

So you just couldn't keep your legs shut?
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wow ur a faggot
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>>681219454
Not once did I try and justify it
I gave the reasons why I did it
I am fully aware it was shitty of me and I'm thinking about how to approach her and tell her
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>>681219454
Go home white knight this isn't the place for you.
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>>681195374
>I've been fooling around behind my girlfriend's back
Like you could get A gf let alone one and another to cheat bro. What happened? Did one magazine fall on top of another?
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>>681219463
I'm not jealous, trust me
If you can live out your fantasy with someone that shares it and it makes both aprties happy, more power to you
But don't exploit someone else's needs
That's really shitty
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>>681219795
you're reasons were simply craving dick? fuck you honestyl
you could be open about it and tell her in her face yu lying scumbag. i hope you dont sleep tonight.
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>>681219577
If that's how you want to word it
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