>>680713260
Your dad refers to himself as daddy? Kinky

just call him
if he wouldn't love you he wouldn't keep texting you

I haven't spoken to my dad in a year.
He lives 5 minutes away.
Better than I am.

>>680713497
I don't feel much towards him. Whenever he calls it just annoys me because he talks toi much. Am I just a fuckhead?

>>680713498
Does he try to talk to you?

You're not a bad son your mom just cares way too much about you. If you don't want her to text you every day just talk to her and tell her that she should stop.

>>680713802
>way
I think that would break his heart.

>>680713802
Thought it was your mom. Your dad's weird dude

>>680713773
He gave up a few months ago

>>680714076
And you never see him by chance considering you live 5 mins away?

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>>680713260

You're a fucking faggot just for even making this thread. Talk to your dad, actually make some time to hangout with him. You'll regret it when he passes. Dickhead piece of shit

>>680714170
Nope

>>680713260
Seeing shit like this tears me apart. My dad recently got back into my life, but we will never have a normal father son relation ship due to the years he missed of my life. He feels like a stranger and I would do anything to not have it like that.

Call your dad's you fuck heads.

>>680713260
Talk to him. Don't bullshit a conversation, actually have one. Take it from me, you'll regret ignoring him once you can't anymore.

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>>680714247
The thing is, I don't miss him. The last time I saw him was mid last year and I was dreading it.

>>680714447
Story?

>>680714522
It's killing me. CALL HIM. DO YOU NOT UNDERSTAND HOW BADLY HE JUST WANTS TO HEAR YOUR VOICE?

>>680714522
My son daddy wants to hold you tight again and kiss behind your tinder ear

>>680713260
>>680713498
my dad died when i was 12. i hope your fathers drop down dead unexpectedly and you're left with a lifetime of regret. you obviously care or you wouldn't be posting on /b/ seeking attention.
just grow up.

My son, who is out of university for two years and in a very good career, calls me almost daily.

We talk of all sorts of things.

It is better than anything.

>>680714382
My father died before I was born. Tore my mother's heart out, and even now -- 26 years later -- you can still feel the pain.

I grew up in a similar situation, OP. Dad became increasingly annoying because, in retrospect, I was only replying when he got too annoying to ignore.

If you don't give a shit about him personally and don't care for his company, it comes down to this:

>does he have money
>if I play nice will he give that money to me

If no to either then continue to ignore.

Id bash your fucking skull if i could. Guy loves you, my grandma annoys the living shit out of me, but i still talk to her when she calls.

>>680713260
>>680714522
Grow up you piece of shit, once he's gone you're going to fucking regret never hanging out with him. He seems like a real bro you fucking betacuck

>>680713656
you will regret this the day he dies, hes just a fucking human anon

>>680714522
youre a fucking sociopath, get help.

>>680715246
he will regret it. what's pathetic is that he is using it to cry for attention on /b/ instead of spend this time talking to his father. what a baby

>>680713260
Given that you're male and he uses daddy instead of "I' coupled with "does not live with us," it's obvious you're pretty young.

Unless he's wronged you in some way, there's no reason to ignore him. If he messages you once a week or less than just reply when you receive it. If it's more often than that and you're uncomfortable with it, just reply once a week still, unless it's time sensitive. He should understand.

dude you're a fucking bitch
Call him, cherish the moments and shit man. My dad died two years ago and there's so much I wish I could have done with him.

>>680715182
there are dads out there who could not give one fuck about the spawn they leave in this world ever think that your the last thing keeping him on the earth. At least just tell him that you can talk but only for a certain length of time.

>>680714738
I feel a slight sense of regret considering he always texts me and I never reply. So yes I guess I do care. Slightly.

>>680714605
It'll be a long one
>be me, just born
>have a brother who's 6 years older than me
>both parents love us, pretty well off financially
>Fast-forward, I'm 7 years old
>Money has been tight, despite my dad going to "work" a lot
>Find a needle in the basement
>My mom bursts into tears and just hugs me
>wtfishappening.jpg
>Fast-forward 2 years
>Dad rarely in the house, when he is he's either passed out on the couch with a lit cigarette or "having alone time" in the basement
Cont?

Thank you for making this thread. Gonna go call my Dad and chat for a while.

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>mfw me and my pops bbq and drink every other weekend

>>680714320
anon lives in or near ohio like pennsylvania or west by god virginia hahahaha fuck you don't talk to your dad see if I care faggot

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>>680715452
Good deductions. I'm 18 and a first year in University. He calls himself daddy because *assumingly* he still wants to retain the memories of when he was still with our family. I also have 4+ siblings btw. And he only texts me.
There is a reason that he isn't living with us, but that has more to do with my mother.

Show your convo with daddy

>>680715808
I'm jealous as fuck. Don't take it for granted

>>680713260
>hi my son
>daddy
>my son
>my son
>my son

Literally nobody talks like this and I don't believe this to be real

>>680715637
Yes please.

ITT: faggots

>>680713260
My father raised me when he's had dialysis for half his life... I take care of him now, I'm single cause I don't think any woman would be willing to put up with the situation. He's told me he feels like he's got maybe two or three years left in him, at best. I'd regret it the rest of my life if I dont spend that time with him. I have a distant relationship with my mother but I know I have to work on that also. Make an effort or just do yourself the favor and don't have kids... chances are you'll still be like that or you'll be in the same situation your father is now.

>>680716032
kek

>>680716032
plot twist: it's not his actual father but his gay lover

I'm going to guess OP is Asian

>>680716218
seems more realistic.... He blocked out his name, wouldnt it just be called dad?

Havnt talked to my dad in three years.

fuck him

>>680715637
Cont

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>>680713260
I don't even have a Dad. Cherish what you have anon

>>680713656
You're being a massive cunt. He's your dad give him some love.

>>680716435
unless he decided not to save the number then it'll come up with his number you retard

>>680715965
care to share the story anon? maybe your current actions are justifiable

>>680715965
By your texts it sounded like you were in college, but the whole daddy thing made me think you were even younger, but that's actually a good point to make things better for you.

Have a chat with your dad and tell him that you're old enough for him to let go of the daddy thing in a mature manner and he'll probably take the hint to let up a little and give you some space. But it would still be good to have a real chat every 2-3 times a month over the phone to keep in touch. Just something you'll regret if you don't.

Rolling
Send dick pick

>>680714707

/thread

>>680716435
Nope. I don't have his number saved on ny phone. This is because he keeps changing numbers and I can't be fucked just altering it every week or so. That's why there's a + symbol in th e front.

>>680716624
Fuck, you wanna hug or something?

>>680716070
Not pre-typed so it'll take a bit.
>My brother and I had a piggy bank since I was born, so for about 9 years
>shit is almost full, about 2-3 ft tall
>One day it topples over and breaks, dad is the only one home
>"I'll take care of it, go play outside"
>He took every coin except for the pennies
>Every coin
>Screaming match ensues between my parents, my (15yr) brother trying to jump in whenever he can
>whatsgoingon.gif
>Screaming matches continue for about 2 years, I just binge Xbox on high volume
>Now 11, Dad moved upstairs (I lived in a duplex)
>Mom couldn't straight up kick him out, much to my brother's dismay
>Occasionally play card games/poker with him on late nights
>He went sober a couple months after getting booted to the upstairs
>Obviously miserable, only friend is another addict (alcoholic)
>Brother feels nothing but hate towards him
>I only pity him

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>>680713260
Damn son

OP here. Anyone want to know the story of why he's not with us?

>>680716885
Na it's cool. Can't really miss what was never there

>>680713260
Feels bad man. I've felt disconnect with my father for a number of years (maybe?) now. And now that we don't live together I am afraid I'll never be able to regain that connection we once had.

>>680713260

My father treated my mother badly, she died as a result. I treat my father badly, by just plain ignoring him. We live in different parts of the country and I didn't invite him to my wedding when I got married. I hope it kills him.

>>680717099
Alright then Anon, have a good one /b/ro

>>680713656
imagine one day ur with a bitch u cant stand and have kids with her.. and for whatever reason u cant live with the bitch. wouldnt u want to talk to ur kids at least?

>>680717034
I'll bite

>>680717130
Go paintballing with him anon, it's a bonding experience.

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>>680714813

i need to talk to my dad more

he's my hero and i hardly ever see him except at work (both work at costco) but its always just "hey bud" "hey dad"

ive just always felt awkward talking to either of my parent about real things because when i was younger they made it really fucking awkward

fuck i even talk to my mom about more real shit than my dad and i have little to no respect for her as a human

i guess i just dont want to disappoint him

>>680713656
hes gonna die soon and you're all he has to feel secure in moving on in life.... Just do it

The fact hes even talking to you shows he cares about you.

I would gove up everything to spend a single day with my dad.

Call your damn dad. Odds are your mom is a fucking douchebag two faced whore. Be lucky your dad is trying to get ahold of you op

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>mom leaves dad
>moves in with another guy
>dad gets to see us every other weekend
>he does fun stuff when we see him
>baseball games, theme parks, action movies rated beyond our age, etc
>mom talks mad shit about him to us saying he's a bad father for doing this stuff instead of making us do homework
>we get good grades despite this
>any time we say something negative about mom to dad, he tells us that she's our mother, and we only have one, so we better respect her
>after a while we start hating dad because mom talks shit about how he's a terrible father and we're young and impressionable
>mfw I became an adult and realized mom cheated on my dad, moved in with the guy and brain washed us into thinking he was the one who fucked up

He eventually married a woman 15/years younger than him who inherited a family farm that she sold to real estate developers for millions. Mom was mad when she found this out.

>>680713656
Your a fucking ungrateful cunt

>>680714382
I haven't seen my dad since I was 3 and I am 19 almost 20 now and he reached out to my mom saying he wants to see me but I don't know if I want to. I feel like it'd be what you said how you have no real connection and just feel like strangers even though I have his blood.

>>680714985

youre a piece of shit

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>>680717218
you too mate

>>680713656
Yeah grade A cunt behavior anon

>>680717458
Same shit happened to me anoneven with the last part.

My dad found another woman who had like 1.6 million from her uncle, and when she died he bought a house for us and all.

>>680714522
you should definitely reply to him. there are NIGGERS who would give anything to have a father figure in their life

plus, he'll die one day and when that happens you'll severely regret no talking to him

"Hey dad I'm on my way to uni thought I'd give you a call"
Then when you get bored of the convo
"I just pulled up I have to hurry to class, it was nice talking to you"

Oldfag here. I have a bunch of kids. Sometimes they need space. No probs- I still love them.

>>680715965
My dad doesn't give a flying fuck about me or my sibling. Walked away when we were ~5 years old. Live in separate Countries now and the only real communication we have is in the form of Birthday cards. Me and my sibling are both struggling financially and working our asses off in college while he drinks himself into an early grave with no remorse or paternal instincts.
On the off chance he might drink himself into empathy and send me a facebook message from a secondary account (he keeps his distance). When I respond he invariably ignores it.

You may not have a "traditional" family but at least he is trying. Seeing this type of shit is physically painful, at least feign an interest, you have something that many people don't; a father that cares. Sort your shit out before it's too late and life humbles you instead. He wont live forever.

>>680713260
Dude please call him, you're going to regret it so much if you don't. Trust me, if he got hit by a bus tomorrow, you'd feel dead inside

>>680714522

You are not obligated to love your parents. But you must honor them.

Do you consider him a parent?

>>680717863
Well said.

Thanks anon, for reminding me of how much my dad means to me.

Your dad might not mean much to you, but you obviously mean something to him. Give him a chance before he's gone.

>>680716321

that or middle eastern

>>680713260
TALK TO YOUR DAD

sometimes i have dreams where i get a message from my dad only to wake up and remember hes been dead for 18 months. we didnt have a good relationship but who knows, we could of repaired it in 10 - 20 years. no chance now :(

>>680716933
>Dad walking outside the house towards a known addict-den, brother confronts him
>Arguing and shouting
>My brother punches him in the face, knocks him to the ground
>He's about to go all out but the 6'4 black man down the street stops him
>I didn't see him for a bit after that
>My mother, brother and I move to a different house
>My dad is now living with two of his old buddies down the street from a beautiful basilica
>He finds god, has been sober for about 2 years now
>My brother still hates him with a passion, but attempts to be civil
>I feel nothing towards him
>Begs me to go to church with him, reluctantly agree
>After I get my first communion (at about 12 yrs) I stop going to church with him except on christmas
>The only thing he ever asks for from my brother and I is the chance to spend time together, usually through steaks or church
>Brother lost faith in God, I never really believed
>Fast-forward 4 years, I'm 15, brother is 21
>Dad asks us to go to church with him one christmas, brother tells him he isn't religious and refuses to go
>I go not because he's my dad but because all I see is a sad broken man who knows he fucked up major
>Slowly forming a real bond with my dad
>No longer just tolerating dad, now I'm actually talking to him
>Brother and dad are now civil, but it's obvious the contempt my brother still holds

I have been looking for a relationship for over 10 years. I am 25 and my friends keep telling me I am still young. Yet, if they really wanted to help me, they would search with me, look in to their own social networks, except that they don't care enough to, always telling me that they don't know anyone. Most of them have over 10 times as many friends as I do.

>>680715965
that is literally all you have to say once in awhile im sure he appreciates any reply

>>680713260
Let him die, he made mistakes now he should take the consequences.
I didnt grow up with a dad, i made many mistakes but they made me stronger.
A father is overrated, you can look up to someone else.

>>680713656
who cares

>>680714522
>My son
>reply to daddy

Press [X] to reply to daddy and [B] to ignore

>>680718284
because your a fucking weird cunt

>>680713260
Yeah it does.
I do the same thing though. I never really bonded like my siblings did. Parents divorced when I was five, first two years I didn't see him because he developed a major drug problem from my mom leaving then went to rehab. After that I saw him every other weekend until 15 when both my grandparents on my mom side died, then it was every weekend until 18.Then I started to isolate myself from my family. He used to call everyday, haven't heard from him in about two years and that was only when I took him to meet my newborn daughter because he's unable to walk very well. I'm 25 now. I want to have a relationship but every time I go to talk to him it's awkward ass shit.

>>680716147
You wold probably be better off not using your father as an excuse as to why you're single. Shitty situation not denying that, but people overlook those situations as well and often offer support. Plus I'm sure your father feels some sort of guilt or responsibility for it and would likely be happier if he knew he wasn't holding you back

>>680718459

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>>680718632

[Daddy will remember that]

>>680713656
He just wants to fucking talk to his child. What the fuck is wrong with you? Sometimes my Dad annoys me too but he's my fucking dad and I love him. Poor bastard probably doesn't ever talk to anybody. Just comes home and watches TV every day hoping that the phone will ring and it'll be you

Because of this thread, I'm going to see my parents....

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im not sure if anyone on /b/ will know this feel but

>tfw you really like her but you're just her booty call

>>680713260
you're a scumbag op I would cry if I did that

>>680713260
He deserves it. A grown man using "R" instead of "are" is not worthy of respect or love.

seeing stuff like this makes me appreciate my dad. sure we have our disagreements but he's always supportive and if i need advice or help with something he will take time aside to help me. i love you dad

>>680713260
Say hi to him at least. He might die suddenly and you'll regret it forever.

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>>680718816
I know your feels /b/ro

>>680713260
>>680714522
>>680715182
>>680715965

Tbh your "daddy" sounds absolutely fucked and I don't blame you for ignoring him. You should tell him to stop being a faggot and call you by your name, and to stop calling himself daddy. He sounds like your male stripper who is roleplaying or some shit

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>>680715182
why do you talk in broken English?

is this how motherfuckers text these days?

i saw this thread and called my dad

>>680713260
Yes. You are. It's fine if you're busy but make some time to call him. I still call my mom every Sunday. That feel when she's starting to forget the things I tell her.

My father died three years ago. You don't know how lucky you are OP. My dad would text me every once in a while when I was at uni to check on me and I appreciated every single one of them. So text your dad back. Don't do it for your sake, do it for his, and all of the others who'd die to be in your position right now. You'l feel much better about yourself.

>>680719137
them feels

I know them

>>680719087
Man my mom came over to my place and took me out for supper yesterday completely on a whim, it was pretty fuckin cool

>>680717458
Holy fuck dude, that is messed up. Is your Dad still alive?

>>680719087
I know the feel. Dementia is a bitch.

>>680713260
I haven't talked to my dad in 15 years. He still sends letters at least twice a year, but I never open them. Strait to the trash they go. He's in his 70s, I'm 32, btw.

>>680713260
>>680714522
legit what the fuck is wrong with you

I didn't have a close relationship with my dad but this shit is fucked man

>>680713260
yo talk to your dad dude, youll need him as a friend as you get older and older. plus the dude is reaching out too you. its a real pleasure to be able to drink a beer with your dad, cliche but very true

>>680718249
>I begin working with my dad (he's a carpenter) over weekends/breaks/summer
>Gets routine, we work for a bit, take lunch (some bomb ass sandwiches), then finish up
>One day we're having lunch, conversing
>Note:I'd been depressed for about 3 years
>So we're talking about depression and how it fucking sucks
>He says that all the years he used he felt he was just self-medicating his depression
>Tells me anti-depressants were the best thing to ever happen to him
>A couple months later we're working again
>Installing/painting a metal door, pretty routine
>Recently in a group therapy session I had mentioned suicidal thoughts
>He tells me something that still shakes me, and makes me hate all of the pedophile loli/shota fucks on here
>He was raped when he was 7 years old
>He only told 2 people, his best friend and myself
>I can't get it out of my head for weeks
>What would our lives been if that didn't happen
>He wouldn't have used
>I would have had a real father growing up
>My brother wouldn't be so cynical
>Stuck in between hating my dad for his heroin use, pitying him because of his incredibly shitty life, and loving him because we're actually pretty similar
Cont?

>>680719333
trips COMFIRM

>>680718564
You're right anon, I don't put myself out there as much. When I do this is always something that weighs on the decision.

>>680719417
No, don't continue.

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My mom is an alcoholic, and my dad has anger issues. It's making life extremely hard for me at home, not to mention, I often get picked on at school. Oh how I love life. This was also taken when my parents were pushing for divorce and my dog had died because it was attacked by my cousin's dog. I never did forgive them.

>>680717264
OP here.
>be my dad
>druggo and drunk from my early ages
>used to hit my mum
>i never knew about it because i was young
>older sister hates him bc of his actions and i never realised why
>fast forward to about when I'm 16
>have 5 siblings, 4 younger than me
>we all know he does drugs
>over the years he became more paranoid
>however his violence reduces (assumingly because of the kids)
>note he has never hit any of us before besides my mum
>every week parents would get into a fight
>yelling arguing all day. eventually dad would apologise to mum and she would accept
>eldest sister goes batshit insane everytime and tells her to leave him
>one day they start arguing again. This time my sister intervenes and calls him out
>my sister decides to call the police because she don't give a fuck anymore
>dad swings at her and my mum, sister and dad are brawling
>me being the bitch i am at 16 does nothing and just telling them to stop
>eventually police come and take him away
>he is forced to stay away from my mum
>he moves away and everyone is relieved
>even my siblings (my youngest sister is 5) are happy
>
Tldr dad took drugs and was abusive verbally (previously physically) to my mum and had hundreds of accusations about my mum cheating without proof

>>680719472
gotcha, time to fap to guro vore hyper-transgender furry porn.

>>680719305
why

>>680719299
Third family member going through it. It's the most infuriating thing anyone can endure. I'm sorry you have to go through it too, Anon.

>>680718816
Tell her how you feel and if she doesn't like it then break it off. Seriously anon, do it. It'll be painful if she's not into you but it's not worth stringing yourself along. Take it from someone who has made plenty of mistakes. Don't repeat them

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>>680719333
>333

>>680714076
congratulations. you're a faggot!

>>680713656
Fuck you dickhead. My mom poisoned me against my father, basically telling me all the usual bitch lies that women tell against the father of their children (he was abusive even though he wasn't) and I hated him until he died. Call him back while you can .

>>680719680
TITE
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>>680719259
Nice! Funny how the relationship changes so much over the years eh?

>>680719293
Ya man. Hes in late 50s. Still works part time as a tradesman because he's based as fuck and we (my siblings, me and him) are tight.

>>680719021
Proper lad

Didnt bother reading everyone's replies, but let me share where i am in life. My wife and i are now divorced a year. She joined this fucked up church and married some old dude and left me out in the cold. I only get my kids 4 days a month. They constantly call me pops, their name for her new old fart of a husband, and id hurts me everytime, knowing some asshole is spending more time with my kids than i am. And it loterally scares me to death to think that one day my son or my 2 daughters will be that aloof about talking or spending time with me.
So anon, if he's reaching out, you should talk to him about why. Or at the very least get both sides of the story of why he wasnt there before you decide. I lay awake alot just thinking about what horrible things that bitch is telling the kids about me.

>>680719623
Shit I had to call the cops on my step dad about 5-6 months ago, the same amount of time that I've been living on my own because of what happened. My mom left him, fortunately

>>680719724
It's always nice to relate to other people going through the same shit. Thanks.

>>680719417
Yes, stop asking to cont. and just do it

>>680719584
I forgot to mention the fact that I have one of the shittiest jobs around, and often do I see some people from school, and often do they pick on me right there in the store. Also, I've yet to have a girlfriend, or even a kiss, or even a hug. I'm starting to become filled with hate, and that's becoming the only thing I love anymore. Hate. I love my hate and I hate my love.

>>680719929
Heh, it's true. We never talked when I still lived with her, we never did anything except argue. She'd always just nag at me and yell at me. Ever since I moved out we've had a great relationship and we spend more time together than we ever did when I lived at home. SHe's also helped me out soooo much with my apartment and shit, it's fucking great

>>680719018
It's obvious. I just want to type as fast as I can and get it over with.

>>680713656
Call your father.

>>680717756
Nice man. My dad wont give us shit financially. Probably because he's old school but I'll inherit a bunch, I'm sure. He just doesn't want us to rely on it and not be leeches

>>680720215
Man you sound like me and my mom when I was 20 lol

>>680720146
Idk who's got it or how far along it is but music helps a lot. Put together a playlist of music they listened to in their formative years for them. The results are incredible.

>>680713656
Ungrateful bastard, kill yourself.
One less edgy faggot to slither on the earth like the maggot he is.

>>680713656
Have pacience AND give some of your time to him! He loves you!!

>>680713260
So did he fucked you or did you fucked him?

>>680719623
Context, faggot use it.

You should've disclosed that from the beginning. Furthermore he's making en effort to right his wrongs. You're young so you don't see your parents for people that have fucked up. Yes what your father did was shitty but he's trying to fix it. Eventually you'll fuck up so bad with someone you care about that you'll do anything to fix it, I hope your father is still around when you realize it so you can fix it.

>>680719708
Long story, but if he didn't go schizophrenic, he wouldn't have lost/sold 100s of acres of land worth ALOT for pennies on the dollar, to buy an 18 wheeler, just to crash it weeks later, DUI, Causing me to live in the inner city, getting my chicken nuggets stolen off my lunch plate by theving niggers. TRUE STORIES.

>>680713260
I had a similar problem, but much more widespread. I keep a schedule, and dedicate a couple of hours every sunday getting in touch with friends and family members that I don't see on a regular basis. Some I call, some I text, and some I know prefer e-mail.

I do this because I find it difficult to be emotionally connected to almost anyone, but I'm also afraid of losing touch with anyone who might have ever cared about me and then being alone.

>>680720361
Hahaha, nice. I'm turning 20 this May, on the 9th. So in just a few weeks

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>knows father is painstakingly missing him
>knows father is constantly reaching out to him
>posts on 4chan "am i a fuckhole /b/?"
>99% verdict is yes
>still wont call dad

OP is confirmed faggot

>>680713656
Yes! Holy shit. Stop being a self absorbed shithead. How the fuck old are you anyway?

>>680720693
SO FUCK MY DAD, AND HIS DUMB SHIT.

This thread made me call my dad to tell him how much I love him. Feels good.

>>680719584
maybe you should try to be do better in school, and be a better son. you're clearly a shitson thats trying to put the blame on his parents.

>>680714247
This!!!

>>680713260
OP and everyone else that does not communicate with their parents.. Fuck you! They are crushed and surely depressed, you will all fucking regret it when they are gone. I lost my dad a few years ago and eventho we were close like a normal family i never really got the chance to really tell the old man how much i actually fucking loved him. Point is speak what is on your fucking mind and respekt your parents.

Go talk to them once in a while.

Kindve makes me wish my dad talked to me lel. 3 years now. Fuck you OP

>>680719969
Glad to hear you were able to figure that out before that happened

>>680720541
My great aunt has it and my great uncles takes care of her. They've been married for 50+ years and she's been deteriorating. He has to remind her who he is every morning and hide his guns every night.

Thanks, I'll pass that info along.

>>680719584
>18
>daddys truck
>school
you deserve to be removed

>talk to my dad

Or

>talk to 4chan about talking to my dad
Hes not an exgirlfriend who cheated on you faggot


God damnit


Fuck you so much op

Faggots like you are the worst kind of faggot

>>680719623
>im a butthurt babby

>>680719623
Whoa. Was your dad a feminist?

>>680718922
He loves you. But he's a man and he handles his emotions accordingly

>>680713260
Unless he pumped you butt full of cum, yeah you're a piece of shit.

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>he came from college just the other day
>so much like a man i just had to say
>son i'm proud of you can you sit for a while
>he shook his head and he said with a smile
>what i'd really like dad is to shitpost on /b/
>see you later stop talking to me

>>680721177
I was born 2 weeks after the cutoff date. Senior right now. Also, the truck was purchased with the income from my job.

>>680713260
fuck you OP at least you have a dad.

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Newfag btw
When do threads 404?

>>680719417
>I have an actual relationship with my dad, while my brother can only hate him
>All my dad wants is to see us become good people
>My brother doesn't think he's deserving
>Maybe he isn't
>One day, working on an art project with dad
>He's in and out of the bathroom
>He comes back and says he needs to go to the hospital, there's blood in his shit
>He gets screened
>Stage IVB colon cancer, 6-8 months to live
>He has no friends, all of his old ones are addicts
>No family, his mom is an alcoholic and only met his dad once
>No money to pay for treatment
>My dad is dying
>There's nothing I could do
>I had just started loving him again, why did this have to happen now?
>I call my brother and tell him the news
>He doesn't respond, promptly hangs up
>I find out a couple weeks later he ended up getting incredibly wasted that night
>I try to spend as much time with my dad as possible, brother goes over with increased regularity but max 2 times a month
>His health is clearly in decline, it starts getting hard to look at him
>His last words to me I will never forget
>"Thank you anon, you made me feel like all those years were worth it just to talk with you for these last 8. I love you. You're going to do great things"
>I'm bawling like a fucking child
>My brother is just looking down
>I see a tear drop
>Even my dad is surprised

>>680720824
>mynigga.jpg

>>680721526
and the cats in the cradle witha silver spoon

>>680721726
300 replies they stop bumping

>>680713260
You are an idiot. He obviously cares for you.. Replying with a 'I'm good dad, will talk over the weekend' will not kill you but will makes his day 10 times better.

>>680720824
kek. well done.

>>680721526
it was a sad, lonely kind of kek

>>680721726
dang man, thats a terrible question. youre gonna get alot of hate for that. you shoulda just lurked and discovered the 180/20/91/4 numbers at the bottom right

>>680721726
Reply you ungrateful fucking faggot of a son

You're a fucking piece of shit and you should feel like one OP.

Golly gee! I've seen many types of creatures on 4chan, some not so faggy, some very faggy. But this is the most faggiest op I've ever seen! Good think I screenshotted this! The Internet is going to love me for seeing a faggot like this!

>>680713656
>>680713260
You ungrateful, spoiled little shit. I bet you neve have truly lost someone this close. Because when you do, faggot, shit like this is what will haunt you.

Grow the fuck up you shithead.

>>680719725
thank you. ill try

>>680713498

Why?

Dad feels thread? Okay...

>Be me, 4 years old with single dad (who is in a wheel chair)
>We are poor as fuck, but I don't know that
>So poor we are squatting in a trailer
>Breakfast time, eating eggs, bread, bacon
>Dad eats nothing
>Lunch time, eat a sandwich, fruit, some green beans
>Dad eats ramen noodles
>Dinner time, eat chicken, carrots and broccoli, and a potato
>Dad eats ramen noodles
>Finally ask, "Dad, why do I never see you eat anything but noodles?"
>He looks at me and smiles, "Its my favorite thing to eat, and being an adult I get to eat what I want."
>Look at him like he is crazy, think Ramen is okay but nowhere near as good as other stuff.
>Not until I realize years later, we were too poor to both eat real food, so for the better part of 2 years I literally saw my dad eat nothing but ramen.

>>680720824
See OP, even with his 19% charge he still finds the time to text his dad and show that he cares; learn a thing or two yeah?

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>>680714717
fucking kek

>>680721730
>My brother starts off mumbling but increasing to full shouting
>"You never did anything for us... I hate you. Why did you have ruin our lives? Why couldn't you be a real father? Why do I feel bad?! Why am I crying?"
>My brother is now collapsed on my dad, sobbing
>"I'm sorry Anonsbro, I'm sorry you got stuck with a guy like me"
>Both my brother and I tell him to shut up
>We sit there for a while in complete silence

>>680721730
anymore? muh feels have just been struke... really sorry for this Anon, I really am

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My dad just died from massive heart attack
he was retired green beret
I wish I had not taken advantage of him like I did
I miss him every day
don't ignore when u never know when he will die... All I can say.... feelin it

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thread reminds me of coffee dad

>>680722064
You're right. I haven't. I've been thinking that if I lost my Mum I would want to kill myself. But I wasn't sure about my dad.

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>>680720693 Damn dude, your dad is sure an asshole for having a mental disorder and screwing over your entitlement. Good thing you didn't take it in stride or learn any lessons about letting go of material desires and instead chose to cut him out of your life entirely.

>Itt: Op is a colossal immature faggot.

>>680722214
It's like one of those fucking commercials man

God damn. Fuck this shit. Now I have to go try to make up to my dad for all the shit I put him through and go along with some of his bullshit. Making me feel bad. Love you padre.

>>680722214
Same Dad


>Older now, 10 year old and moving into the first house that is just ours (dad & me)
>Join a little league team
>Dad gets home from work, looks over my homework then we go out and practice baseball
>It's tough for him because I'm bad, always throwing the ball far away and he has to chase it since he is in a wheelchair
>Anyways, after like 30-40 minutes he is usually pretty exhausted and we call it.
>Being young I just wanted to keep playing.
>I was a little disappointed that my dad was "broken" and in a wheelchair

Like 6 months later my dad is going into the hospital for a back surgery, will be there for like 2 weeks so I get to stay with my best friend who is on my little league team
>Go to his house, super excited, we get home from school and do homework and play baseball together
>I get a little confused when his dad gets home, walks into the house grabs a beer and sits and watches TV until dinner, eats, then drinks then watches TV until bed
>This happens every day & on the weekend his dad gets up, drinks and watches sports all day
>Finally I ask my friend...."When does your dad help you with homework? Or with baseball?
>Friend looks at me...never
>What? Why not?
>Friend just shrugs
>Later that night I cry because I thought my dad was the broken one

>>680721730
you just took a shotty to my heart man, fuck im gonna go call my dad. i wish you could yours

your a fucking cunt anon appreciate your dad you're only got one wish i had a dad i could appreciate you dick

>>680719584
F in math and English? How can you get an F in the ONLY language you know you stupid fuck. Try to study its not even hard

>>680722271
Aaw man, fucking hell kids can be so fucking harsh.

Dem feels.

OP here. Well I'm glad I got some people to remind their dad that they still love him.
Should I still post more screenshots?

>>680722914
no just reply to your dad and show him some love for the love of god

>>680722914
we get enough feels around here, go talk to your fucking dad ass

>>680722914
Yes you broken condom

You're a piece of trash imagine how lonely he is. Seriously, put yourself in his shoes.
>A son he loves
>Partner he loved left him
>took kids
>Alone now
>Son can't even reply

>>680722271
>Suddenly my brother gets up, tells my dad that he's sorry and that he loves him
>I tell my dad I love him
>We're all crying
>"I'm proud of you boys. I don't deserve what you've given me."
>I tell him the idea of people deserving anything is bullshit
>He smiles and closes his eyes
>"Thank you boys, I'll see you at the golden gates"
>He flatlines
>My brother freaks out and screams for nurses to "Do their goddamn fucking job"
>There's nothing they can do
>May 9th, 2014, 11:52 pm
>My dad is dead

>>680722914
Text him I love you right now and screenshot it faggot

>>680722214
>>680722776
Same Dad, only a couple more because these things really get to me...

>In high school now, Im really good at math, taking Trig in 10th grade, Pre-calc in 11th grade, etc. This happened in 11th grade
>Dad used to joke that I must of gotten my math skills from my mom because its his worst subject
>He says he barely passed Algebra
>Even so, everyday he still asks if I need help with my homework, I just kind of smile and say I'm good
>One night I wake up in the middle of the night
>Go out to get a drink, my dad has his head down on the table sleeping
>As I walk by I notice my backpack is on the table, my mathbook is open
>I walk over to the table and pickup a notebook that isn't mine
>WTF is this....
>My dad has been teaching himself pre-calc from my mathbook so he can try to help me if I need it
>flip through the notebook, he has done every lesson in the book and done nearly every odd math problem, checking his answers in the back of the book, even redoing the ones he got wrong
>he is actually a chapter ahead of where I am in school

My dad died when I was younger, I'd give anything to text him.

>>680723062
Actually, "left him" is an exaggeration. He left her. By abusing her and being taken away.

>>680723171
roll fucking do it you degenerate fuck tard

>>680714985
Really dude youre a terrible person.
>>680713260
OP, You only get one dad. My dad was in prison for most of my life. Only these past few years have we really gotten to see eachother. My parents are separated. It is a heavy burden on your father for you to ignore him.
You have friends, and other siblings and maybe even a girlfriend. He probably only has you man.

>>680714522
Well you are just going to be a beta cuck just like all the other faggots raised by single moms. You have the option of being with your dad who cares about you and not an abusive piece of shit, he deserses a better son than you faggot

At least you have a dad that wants to talk to you. I can't remember the last time my dad wanted to talk about anything besides work. I have kids of my own and he acts like nothing matters besides hard work. Legitimately never had felt nothing more than an important slave then a son. I'll never know what he really wants. He has tons of houses and money. He has a favorite son and treats us all like shit. But you. You OP has a dad that actually cares about how you are doing. To me, that is one of the most alien feeling. He only said he loves his son once, and that was to his favorite.

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>>680723171
Hm. That might be feigning a bit. I might text him that I'll call him.

>>680722914
No, just answer your fucking dad asshole

>>680723196
Dude...

Your father sounds like a fucking beast.


Stabbed with feels.

>>680721088
Before what happened? Are you a psychic? Is something bad gunna happen to me?

>>680723171
Be useful for once and do it OP you lazy shit

>>680722914
Just fucking text him, right now. You don't have to fucking talk to him if that is too much of a god damn hassle for you.

It doesn't cost you a fucking feels in the world, but it would mean the world to the man who ONLY WANTS TO TALK TO HIS UNGRATEFUL PICE OF SHIT SON.

All my fucking rage. Fuck you op, I hope you drown in a pool of aids infested puke and cum.

>>680723196
Dad MVP here man. Parents give alot for us little shitballs that are nothing but selfish. We must not mourn our selfishness, we MUST make steps to change it, or life is going to leave us all very empty.

As you can see I DO say good morning first. If that means anything

>>680723122
God damn. At least you and your brother were able to give him the peaceful death he wanted. Still sad as fuck though

>>680722776
What was your dads job?

Just curious cause of the whole...wheelchair thing.

>>680723122
On behalf of everyone in this Dad feels thread, I am so so sorry that this happened to you. I am eternally grateful that you and your brother were able to make amends before he passed away. You made his life worth living those last few years of his life, and I am so proud of you for doing so.

>>680723709
>This.

>>680723513
So you don't love him? You're fucking hopeless.

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>>680714522

>The thing is, I don't miss him. The last time I saw him was mid last year and I was dreading it.

and? suck it up you fucking ass hole.. think of others before yourself. think about how much he misses you and just wants to talk to his child.. you know they say that parents love their children more than children will ever love their parents... it is 100% true trust me.. i have seen countless times in my life where dads were trying to connect with their child and the child was just some faggot ass hole that thought he/she had the it right when they didnt.

if your dad isnt abusive or a horrible in any kind of way then you are just being a complete and total dickhead

>>680723122
>A surprising amount of people show up to the funeral
>I don't think my brother and I seperated at all during the entire funeral
>I give a short speech on how despite all of the bad things my father did, I still loved him for who he really was: A kind-hearted man who got dealt a shitty hand
>My brother gives a similar speech but emphasized a lot more on the bad. He was still bitter
>He says he wished he knew him better
>He said he wished he acted more like me
>"I grew up hating my dad for not being a real father, when I couldn't even be his son"
>Silence in the hall
>"He loved me and Anon with all his heart, and I wish I spent the time to love him back"

Rest in peace Dad. I still love you. I hope you don't see me crying right now

>>680723196
>dad has been teaching himself pre-calc from my mathbook so he can try to help me if I need it
Did you mention this part on /b/ before, maybe in another feels thread? I swear this sounds familiar from somewhere

>>680723934
I don't know. Love would mean I would miss him. But I don't.

>>680724018
He probably does anon, but he likes it because it shows you care about him.

>>680723709
Holy fucking shit man preach

>>680723513
>11:07 AM Saturday
Where the fuck are you from? China?

When this thread 404's I might make another if I do end up calling him or tell him that I want to talk. Legit the only convo we ever have are "good morning how are you good night" via text.
This "im not a robot" captcha is fucking annoying too.

>>680723543
>>680723709
Yeah and its so shitty being young and not fully realizing and understanding it until sometimes its to late. I'm glad that I had a moment when I was 10 to realize what he did was not what everyone elses dad did.

>>680723769
Alot of odd jobs, he did some dispatching jobs for security companies and police for awhile. He also. Did some work for a organization that helped people in wheelchairs. Eventually though he got into advertising and took to it like a fish in water. That is really the job that pulled us out of poverty/near homelessness.

>>680723583
Before your Dad died...

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Just adding to the pile with my own.

First text reads: "I'm sorry. Take care of yourself. Dad."

Second text reads: "Happy birthday. Dad and Mom."

My reply is: "Thank you."

I haven't spoken to him since this.

>>680713260
>Click here
yes. you are.

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>Be 5, 2003
>Parents relationship deteriorating
>Mom is a violent alcoholic who shot herself in the head at 16 while she was drunk, lost both of her
eyes
>Dad is a pretty decent man, works alot but gets pushed over the edge when she hit him
>Parents divorce, we move father North with alcoholic mom
>Dad keeps okay relationship with Mom, visiting every weekend
>He fights like hell to get custody
>Judge usually favor the mothers in those types of cases, he loses

Ffw 4 years later
>Mom gets in fight with 13 year old half sister(different father) while my younger sister is there
>Sister calls cops, CPS shows up at my friend's house where I was

Cont?

>>680724108
Yeah I am pretty sure i've posted it before, I don't have them specifically copied so it might be a little different

>>680724440
That's a fucking tragedy.

>>680724440
Youre also a raging faggot

>>680724018
>feelsincoming.jpg

Is anyone screenshotting this thread?

i have never understood why people take their father for granted. I am a computer programmer who is married now, 28 years old, and I only met my father once, I tracked him down when i was 25 and getting out of the military, and met him for the first time. he told me a little about my siblings, i met my sister, and then when she went to use the restroom, he pulled my aside, and asked me to leave, he told me I was interrupting his life and had no place in it. so I left him alone.


I wish i had a dad to bbq with growing up, or to show my video games too, or to show the success I had made.

>>680714522
seriously you should consider killing yourself. Like strongly consider it.
>I don't feel anything
Yea well he does fuckwad. You're staring a man who cares in the face and saying meh. I hope one day your child does this to you, and then when you're on your deathbed, this will be the last thing you think of.

Guys pls help.
Not faggot op. My dad does the same thing, except I respond with like one or two word msgs.

He s always been there parents are together. Problem is I feel super awkward trying to get close to him

Watdo

>>680722214
>>680722776
>>680723196
Same dad, last one

>Dad is in the hospital, pressure sore that got infected
>I am graduating high school and doing my 'walk' in a week
>He tells me that he wants to be there
>Doc tells him he can't leave the hospital and that he won't be out in time
>I tell him not to worry about it
>Like 20 minutes before the graduation ceremony starts
>My dad wheels into the place
>Dressed in a hospital gown
>Still connected to the IV, he is wheeling the IVpole with him
>Just smiles and says he took a cab and that it was more important to be here, then at the hospital.

4 years later, im graduating college, once again he is in the hospital, this time its much worse, he has been on dialysis for the last 3 months, doc says he can't qualify for kidney transplant because of all the medicine (pain killers mostly) from being a paraplegic
>He tells me that he is so proud i'm graduating and that he will be there
>Once again I tell him to just focus on getting better
>He just smiles and says not to worry about him
>He says it will be just like last time
>He dies 3 days before graduation