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Tutor guy here. I posted my problem a few days ago and got quite
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Tutor guy here. I posted my problem a few days ago and got quite a lot of responses. Now more shit happened friday night and yesterday and it's getting really weird. Here is the original post

Okay /b/, usually I'm all right for guessing human interactions, but this one leaves me puzzled, and I can't really speak about it for some reasons.

>Be math and science tutor
>Have been tutoring this girl for two years
>She is 16
>I'm 22

Tutoring has been great. She significantly improved, is more motivated. She is a perfect student and we have a lot of fun while tutor sessions.

>I don't normally see her outside of tutoring sessions
>We text often, about boring stuff + questions she has about maths and science
>She came to my Uni for a campus tour (her parents idea)
>Met her up
>Gave her a tour myself
>Went with her to meet some of the professors
>Went for coffee + grab a bite with her afterward
>Had a nice time
>Notice she is wearing my sweater (she borrowed it a while ago because it would "wish her luck" for her exams, whatever)
>Bought her some university clothes she told me looked good
>We both returned home, end of the story

Now yesterday night I got a text from one of her friend telling me to fuck myself. Apparently she got incredibly drunk at a party, broke up with her boyfriend and kept talking about me and telling silly stuff about me to her friends. Now, I know she had a little crush on me last summer (the same friend told me that) but I thought it was only rumors.

I'm a little lost as to what to do.

>picture not related, porn always attracts /b/

(End of the original post, what just happened will follow)
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>>679937436
depends what the age of consent is in the state your in.
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Now, she went to an other party friday night.

>get text from same friend that my student isn't well
>She got really drunk and is now really sick
>she is crying and begging for me apparently
>wellfuck.jpg
>told her she should call her parents
>"no anon, she is scared her parents are gonna be mad if they learn it"
>"she needs you anon"
>"fine, I'm coming"

So I get there. It's a pretty big house party. Her friend greet me at the door, takes me to her. She hasn't been sick for the last 15 min or so but she isn't feeling too good either. When she sees me she gets to me and gives me the longest hug. I sit there awkwardly for 5 seconds before I reciprocate. I hear some of the girls there giggle. Just before we leave she is sick again.

>start driving toward her house
>"no anon, I don't want my parents to see me like that
>she is really pale
>I can see she is stressed out about being sick and drunk in front of them
>stress + drinking too much...
>fine, you can sleep at my place
>whathaveIdone.gif
>We get to my apartment.
>At that point she looks like she is barely awake.
>I just grab her and lift her to my bed.
>I hear her whisper "thank you"
>Put trashcan next to her
>I go sleep in my sofa-bed

My room is closer to the bathroom than the living room, so it seemed like an optimal choice.

>Morning
>wake up
>prepare her an ice cold glass of orange juice
>make some breakfast
>dat hangover she must have
>go to my room check if she is awake
>her pants, shirt and bra (I think) are on the floor
>she is wearing one of my hoodie
>I knock a little on the side of the door
>"good morning"
>"mmm anon... good morning"
>"I got some breakfast...

So we had breakfast together. Her wearing my hoodie. She didn't eat a lot (obviously) but I made sure she drank enough water. I tried to speak about everything but what happened yesterday.
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Depends if you even like her or not. If you're just into it because you like the youngling thrill its not worth it. If you fuck her and bounce she can ruin your life.
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(too long)

After that I got her to her house. Haven't spoken to her since yesterday.

What the fuck /b/. I was a little lost when this whole thing started but now I'm just what the fuck. I really don't know what to do.

>>679937774

I don't really plan on doing anything with her...
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>>679938091
then whats the problem?
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>>679938004

Well I like her... as a student I guess ?

>>679938167

I'm her tutor. Don't you see the problem ?
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>>679938091
JUST FUCK HER AND GET IT OVER WITH
FUCKING BETA CUCK GO KYS
SMH
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>>679938435
the only problem is u haven't fucked her yet
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>>679937840
>You 22, she 16
>I don't want my parents to see me like that
>you can sleep at my place

You dun got goofed, and I haven't even finished reading. Thanks for the story time, tho'
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You need to set boundaries. Like now.
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>>679938435
>>679938091
Tell her its "inappropriate" and all that shit. You don't need unnecessary drama in your life OP and that's all teenage girls are. If you don't want to fuck her or have a relationship with this girl you better put her down calm and safely because if she slips and tells her parents a little lie you're screwed.
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I'm unsure what the problem is.

You did everything correctly
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Just fuck her, it's not like you're her teacher
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>>679938435
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Either you're going to fuck her or you're going to spend the next 20 years jerking off and fantasizing about it, so you might as well do it.
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>>679939042
this. get her to such your dick at least
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two important questions

1. are you still actively tutoring her?
2. what's age of consent in your state
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>>679938091
Well, I think you're too old for her and just tell her you're only a tutor I guess, kek. If she gets drunk and calls for your help, it may be because she likes you a lot, but you don't seem to enjoy that. You even said you were lost, just tell her you're confused about what's happening.
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OP you can tell her you need time to think about this
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>>679938091
marry her.
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>>679938491
>>679938581

Not going to happen. Really, she isn't old enough.

>>679938616

I know. Now I need to get out of this mess.

>>679938635
But how. It clearly didn't work the first time I tried after the first drunk texts...

>>679938656
I know she won't lie to her parents about me...

But I want to be gentle with her. Not crush her.
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>>679937436
Stupid fuckwit, just tell her parents exactly what's been going on before you find yourself facing charges.
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>>679939530
Op calm down and tell us the age of concent and we can work from there
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>>679939530
>she isn't old enough.
she is plenty old enough
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>>679939042
>>679939165

It's just weird to think about it. I've known her since she was like 14. I see her as a child more than anything else.

>>679939223
Age of consent is irrelevant since I am still tutoring her, so even if she was my age, any relationship would be somewhat illegal.

>>679939233
To be honest, I was happy she called me.
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Little do we know, this is the last time we'll ever hear from OP.
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>>679939933
Not perse illigal, is it directly via school or did her parents hire you to teach her
Its a world of diffrence
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>>679939530
The fact that you're tripping balls says in your mind you want her. If you had clear boundaries drawn within yourself you wouldn't be having this conflict. You need to think long and hard of you want to fuck her or not and if you're willing to accept the consequences of that answer being a solid yes or no. Quit being a bitch and make up your mind
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>>679939503
Isn't it a little extreme ?

>>679939659
The thing is... I'm not sure her parents would be super happy to know she got drunk.

>>679939773
I don't see her that way.

I was really happy when she had a real boyfriend.
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>>679939933
"you see her as a child" not shit detective,she is a child.
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why aren't you nuts deep in that tight minge right now, faggot?
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>>679940144
Leave the part out she was drunk?
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OP you're fucking retarded.

You don't want to fuck her
You're leading her on
You can't really trust a teenage girl


What the fuck do you want from this?
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>>679939933
checked, but I would tell her parents. If you just let it slip, she will just continue on doing some bullshit around involving you.
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>>679939530

First off, here's a reality check. Not trying to be a jerk or anything but you haven't been good with boundaries either. Meeting up with her at college to help her around was ok, but buying her stuff was a bit excessive. And her breaking up with her boyfriend at one party and getting drunk the next are red flags. You coming to help her when she was drunk was also a big violation of boundaries. Yeah you're being a good guy but also it's setting up expectations for her, next time she gets wasted she's gonna expect you to be there. Sit her down, tell her you're concerned about her, asking her what's up and let the conversation flow from there.
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>>679940434
yeah, your feelings are so mixed around this issue, that the ultimate decision becomes faded and unachievable
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>>679940144
Who gives a fuck if her parent's don't like the fact their child got drunk.Shes a child and she shouldn't be getting drunk period.You need to be the responsible adult and explain everything to the parent's.Unless ofcourse you want them to find out the hard way ie:creepy pedo tutor seduces student. Enjoy your sex offender status.
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>>679938435
>I'm her tutor. Don't you see the problem ?
To be honest, i don't understand why would you consider that as a problem.
You are not her teacher, just a friend who helps her out in her studies.
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>>679940095
Directly hired.

>>679940135
I don't want to fuck her. It's just... I'm starting to think she maybe has feelings for me ? And I don't want her to just.... get hurt.

Especially not by me.
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20 here, I'd be careful, she's 16 and very prone to rash decisions, believe me, I spent the best years of my life (15-18) dating a girl (14-17), things started to change when she got older, she didn't care about me as much or what happened to me, long story short, in the end she fucked me over because she got older and realized she didn't need me, now this is what could happen with your student, if you "let her down easy" or "set boundaries", what makes you think she might not put you in an awkward situation? Telling her friends and family about you, how she likes you and how you "picked her up" drunk from a party? These little girls have a tendency to not shut the fuck up and understand the things the say can have an affect on other peoples lives, anon if you know whats good for you, play along and stay the same way you are now, do not reciprocate feelings or tell her anything, if she asks if you like her or anything near that subject, tell her you're not in the right time of your life or you just aren't emotionally stable to answer that question, eventually distance yourself after you tutor her and never speak to her again.
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>>679940708
The fact that you don't know and are asking for advice is a dead giveaway that your internal boundaries aren't set you pleb. Man up and fuck her or dont.
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>>679940794
>I don't want to fuck her
is she ugly?
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>>679940144
>I'm not sure her parents would be super happy to know she got drunk.

Who gives a fuck? You're 22. You're supposed to be an adult. If this girl has a problem with getting really drunk, that's probably something her parents should know about. They're probably going to find out anyway.

Alternatively, just tell her that if this keeps happening you'll need to go to her parents about this.
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>>679940794
I'll play the role of the irresponsible friend and say you should go ahead and slip her the bone
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Just claim you're her guardian or some shit in a legal case, you haven't engaged her sexually, so you've got that going for you. Should be good is she doesn't blab like a bitch
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>>679940794
She's a little twat that has a crush on you. As if it matters if you break her heart. She's a fucking child and youre so beta it hurts. Act your age and man the fuck up.
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>>679940794
Via school hmm
Tell her to wait for you till shes off school? Like what 2-3 years? Solves your problem of underage girl and teaching problem

Otherwise we see ya in the news if you bang her before that
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>>679940794
>And I don't want her to just.... get hurt.
you obviously have some feelings for her.
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First of all, you come here for advices?

Attention whore, really

Second of all, you didnt take her tô her home because she saud that her parebts would kill her and yadda yadda? And you took her tô YOUR place?

I have some hope that this story is fake, because the ONLY way that you would bring her tô YOUR home would be to fuck her silly.

"I was trying tô help" my ass.
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OP, the spastic math tutor 1+1= inappropriately touching children
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>>679940794
You pussy. You're using that as an excuse to continue flirting with her. Don't make fucking excuses. If a man is only as good as his word you need to figure out what the fuck your word is you pleb.
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You should tell her parents. Let them know that you've been made aware that their daughter has a crush on you and that you want to remain professional with her but you wanted to check with them. They will either say "don't worry, keep tutoring her" or they'll find someone else. Don't *NOT* tell them because god forbid a rumour starts circulating that you're dating they're teenage daughter.
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>>679939933

I bet you've fantasized about it a few times already, OP
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>>679941103
keked so hard
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>>679941234
Exactly. Op is using the situation to feel good about bring flirted.

You're grown up man, you know that she will get sad either way with YOUR response. Stop being such an idiot and just tell her your intentions, you pathetic loser
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>>679941056
dude stfu about this alpha/beta nonsense. OP would be in a world of legal trouble if a rumor started circulating that he was involved with an underage girl
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>>679937436
Op, honestly it's not that bad dating a girl that age. I should know since I'm a 24yo dating a 16yo. they're moody yes but if you just let her do what she wants she'll always be happy with you. I'm saying this as reassurance if you feel anything towards her at all. and as far as the parents thing goes, it depends. my parents and her parents are both fine with what we have (Mostly since we're legal in my state), but I wouldn't know what her parents are like.
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>>679941516
This. Op needs to make up his damn mind and stop being such a pussy
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>>679940174

Exactly

>>679940378
Then they are going to question it even more. I'm sure her parents would have been happy to know she was safe with me rather than passed out sleeping on a couch there...

>>679940434
What do you mean I'm leading her on ? Honestly I don't get it.

>>679940546
I'm scared of what she could do next.

Also, I'm thinking.... is it crazy to think she maybe ... planned what would happen ?

>>679940649
>but buying her stuff was a bit excessive

She just said she liked the clothes she saw... Since she enjoys my sweater so much I thought she would like something that matches. Wasn't really expensive either.

>And her breaking up with her boyfriend at one party and getting drunk the next are red flags

But it could be unrelated to me ... right ??

>next time she gets wasted she's gonna expect you to be there

I somewhat... I was happy she asked me to help her. It's like... she trusts me. I'd rather have her with me than alone passed out with some 16 years old driving drunk...

thanks for the advice

>>679940756
Well I'm getting paid for that...
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dude you faggot I remembered OP you didn't listen to any of the solid advice in that thread and you just ended up fucking it up and making it stupid. . .

it's kind of funny for your situation, but no I don't feel sorry for your situation since your clearly an idiot, and cannot be reasoned with, and anyone who tries to give advice will probably be wasting time.
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>>679941566
lol wow dude. wow.
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>>679941529
Reread faggot. I didn't say shit about fucking her. I'm telling OP to stop being a pussy about hurting her feelings.
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>>679939503
>>679940144


This, OP. Marry her. Girls in love with you. You snag her now she'll be yours forever. Her parents would probably be down. You tutor kids. You're like the best kind of man they could hope for. do you watch football with her dad? I bet you do, Mr. Right.

get her a promise ring then take that teenage pussy for a spin.

Bill demands it
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>>679938656
Everyone says it's not going to happen until she gets a little too hot headed and does.
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Her parents made her do it. It's all an elaborate trap. You dun goofed anon.
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>>679940144

You're fucked.
She slept over at your house. As far as the law is concerned, you already had sex if she or her parents say so. Getting out is not an option because she's all into you. If you try to duck out, she'll narc you out on the slumber party to her parents or friends, who will involve the police.
Prepare your anus for prison, dipshit.

I actually work in a jail. Once a car decides to paper check you, you're hosed. PC up and enjoy Ad Seg for the next several years. the shit you hear about what they do to Chesters in prisons is all true.
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>>679938167
>>679938435

If he's the tutor, that puts him afoul of those lovely laws dealing with "position of authority".
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i dono. id steer clear until shes of age. way to plant the seed bro. ur gonna be eating that 18yo pussy apl day on her birthday.
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>>679941738
you're either
>a literal faggot
>retarded
>the world's biggest autistic man child

this has to be a troll
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The bitterest truth is better than the sweetest lie.

Just be honest and stop leading her on you fucking autistic, faggot-dicked fuckwit. Damn, it's not that fucking hard.
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>>679941738
man I really don't think she planned it out. That must have meant that she definitely had feelings for you and the morning she woke up she maybe would have tried to seduce you.
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>>679940794
They're called "Crushes" for a reason.

Either you own up and tell her to stop being a bother, or you own up, whip out your dick, and fuck her during your lessons.

Simple as that. Not much middle ground here.
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>>679940144
You need to control the narrstive... or let the doe-eyed teenager with emotional instabilities do it. Tell her parents asap. No, they won't be happy but they will appreciate the honesty.


Plus, a super downside is that if she decides at some point you raepd her, there's added penalties for being in a position of authority, like a teacher... or tutor.
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>>679940144
There's a couple of things you need to realise. even if you don't want to crush her, that isn't your problem. you need to know that other peoples problems AREN'T your problems, even if you somewhat care about them. you are fucking both yourself and her over if you don't set the boundaries, be gentle if you want, but 100% clear that nothing will happen and why.
Maybe even talk to her parents (dont have to tell her the drunk things) or quit being her tutor all together. Tell her it makes you uncomfortable and the situation it puts you in as a person in power. Also make sure that your rejection is somewhat in writing in case her or her parents try to do anything to bite you in the butthole.
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>>679942100
I'm going with all three
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>>679941897
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>>679937840
>tutor
>retarded
I call bullshit
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>>679940981
>a problem with being really drunk
Have you ever been 16 or had fun?
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>>679937436
OP. I remember you from a week ago. We gave you advice and as I can see, you are a fucking idiot. There is no advice I can give you, you already dug your own grave. I wish I could say good luck, but your idiocy nullifies that. Instead, I will lurk this thread and laugh at the shit you put yourself through.

If this is bait, 10/10 got me good.
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>>679941738
>>And her breaking up with her boyfriend at one party and getting drunk the next are red flags
>But it could be unrelated to me ... right ??
The way you said it, I thought she left her boyfriend because she got drunk and kept talking about you... shit hit the fan and he dumped her
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>>679942292
this
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>>679942139
OP probably was an ugly scrawny dude growing up, nerdy, didn't date girls, etc. and now he's got this cute 16 y.o. chick interested in him (cause 16 y.o. always are interested in older college dudes... trust me, i was 16 y.o. girl once.) so now he has this attention he has never experienced before and doesn't know what to do. lmfao. grow a pair op
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OP, seriously, quit being a pussy! Be a responsible adult and weigh out your options.
You don't want to "hurt" her but are obviously worried about the future (I would hope it is the possible legal repercussions that you are worried about)

If I were in your position, this is what I would do (btw, I'm also 22 and also tutor girls in Math, they are 8th graders but I know they have their little girl crushes on me):
you need to have a recording device on you and record having a conversation where you clearly establish in the open the events ESPECIALLY the ones of you bringing her to your apartment and not fucking her. Once you have your proof that you haven't done anything sexual with her ( you should be legally in the clear) you should either talk to her as a grownup about yalls relationship as tutor and student ONLY or grow some balls and inform the parents.

seriously man, don't be the fucking idiot that winds up in prison for 20 years because you pissed off an unstable teenage girl and she got payback on you.

good luck OP (think smart)
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>>679941897
"you tutor your kid's"
Please read >>679941103
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>>679942292
continued.
She is a teenager girl, idk if you remember this but those bitches are FUCKING crazy and manipulative. 10/10 she is trying something on, and you need to set those clear boundaries and/or break all contact with her immediately and be clear as to WHY you are breaking contact.

TL;DR: don't let shit carry on, take control of the situation, and teenage girls are crazy.
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>>679941738

>>679942515

Just OP trying to justify why he's not in the wrong here
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>>679942672
KEK HAHAH I bet you're right
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>>679940921

Well... I've never been a 16 years old girl. So how am-I supposed to understand her ?

>>679940963
No ! I guess for a guy her age she would be hot. She's like 5'1 and is quite fit (she does competitive cheerleading).

>>679940981
>Alternatively, just tell her that if this keeps happening you'll need to go to her parents about this.

Yeah... that would mine her trust.

>>679941056
>She's a little twat that has a crush on you. As if it matters if you break her heart

She isn't a twat. She's much more than that. Trust me, she seems erratic, but she is truly great. And I don't want her to feel bad.

>>679941069
Well, she's just a friend. It's weird to say it. On campus, when I gave her a tour, it really felt like we were two friends hanging out.

>>679941079
>First of all, you come here for advices?

Yeah. Can't really talk about it to anyone. Furthermore, I am no good when it comes to dating and all that stuff.

>>679941234
She never did flirt... as I said it could be totally unrelated to me.

>>679941339
Not really.

>>679941566

Her mother joked about us being together. Her father... wouldn't know. He doesn't talk much.
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>>679941738
Alright dude, you want to know what you need to do about boundaries? You have to firmly establish the relationship between you and her, which is not only educationally as teacher and student, but emotionally and physically as adult and teenager. You are a role model in this girl's life, and obviously a good one if she likes you to this degree. This is NORMAL, but in no way something you should reciprocate. You need to sit down with this girl and fucking tell her how stupid and irresponsibly she was acting by getting so drunk she needed you to come rescue her. You have given her a second chance, but make her realize that this was a one-time thing, and for her safety next time, you'll have to talk to her parents. Feel free to talk about safe choices and precautions she can take. This isn't about her and you having anything, this is her poor choice leading to a poor situation that is only her doing, not by any intention of yours.

There is a thin line between being a teen's friend, and being their mentor. Redraw it so she can get back to her life, and you to yours.
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>>679938091
Go kill yourself. I read through that entire life of a beta fucking story and nowhere in it did you fuck this bitch, get a blowjob, jerk off on her tits while she slept in your bed, or anything. Why are you even on here acting like a little bitch boi wanting /b to solve a problem that doesn't exist. Fuck you OP.
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>>679937436
Who the fuck cares what she and her dumbass boyfriend do? That shit is unrelated.
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>>679937436
Pick one. We've already said all we can say at this point. We're all waiting.
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You're infuriatingly dense OP. Can't you see how massively ducked you're going to be if you keep letting her do this? Tell her parents on your own terms while you still can. Or at least grow a spine and set the boundaries
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>>679942871
This. Don't be a fuckwit OP
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>>679942828
So.. Are you really an autist?

Her wearing your clothes is the biggest sign she wants your D.

Her talking about you while drunk an dbreaking up is the same thing

ffs stop. I'm out. You're a damned retard.
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>>679937840
Totally get that you wanna be her friend and arent preying on her, but you have to explain to her taht she cant be putting you in these situations until shes 18. its not gonna work otherwise.
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Is she fat
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Op you dumbass. Nip this in butt. Shut her down hard but gentle.
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>>679942828
the father is probably the biggest reason I'd say think twice. My girlfriends father is some junkie in texas so he's not in her life and her mother loves me, we went skiing last weekend.
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>>679942871
I totally agree with this. It may sound brutal at first, but I think it's the best choice in the long run
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>>679942988
you are the same breed of retard that bitches about men being prosecuted for sleeping with underage girls
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>>679937840
Beta as fuck Man.
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I'm all for telling her parents. Problem is you picked her up drunk from a party.

From my point of view you could do the following:

You are leaving out the information about her being drunk at a party. Just telling them she just broke up with her boyfriend therefore having her friend call you because she was under exceptional emotional circumstances and you are kind of a person of trust for her that is not her parents. So you picked her up and she stayed the night, you sleeping on the couch and whatever. In the end there are things teenagers don't want to talk to about their parents and she didn't want to get asked stupid questions when she stands in the doorway and her parents see her all teary faced and stuff. At least this seems like a plausible explanation i would buy as father of a teenage girl but i would be a little bit suspicious depending on my relationship to the tutor. Then again she could ruin everything when she is being confronted by her parents when you are not around. Just breaking down telling the truth. Bad: she tells them you picked her up when she was shitfaced, worse: she tells them she has a crush on you AND you picked her up while her being wrecked.

So to prevent this, talk to her on your next session. The prerequisition is: Either she is being picked up by her parents afterwards or you bring her home (assuming she is not at home for tutoring sessions), or have her parents be home while having the session. Just talk to her that you have a bad feeling about that whole situation and tell her that you would like to tell the story to her parents BUT you would leave out the part of her being drunk. If she is reasonable she would go for it. If shes not: burn bridges tell parents what happened, go full truth, admit it was not the right thing to do to pick up a drunk teenager. Then play the guilt card and go for something like: But what wouldve happened if i didnt pick her up.
>cont.
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>>679942871
This is the only reasonable advice in this post. OP if you don't listen to this advice you are a fucking retard
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>>679938091
Then don't do shit nigga it's really not that complicated
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>>679942871
Best answer. This for sure.
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>>679941738
You are pretty awesome op. Shes lucky to have a responsible adult like yourself. Possibly bring up some concern to her about what her friend said but otherwise, not much can be done.
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Honestly OP you are already way fucked dude. Just think about the day and age we're in. The world is social justice. I would say run for the hill, quit being the chick's tutor and just cut all ties but that could lead to a false rape allegation. In which case you're screwed. If you make boundaries and she doesn't like it, that could be a false rape allegation. In which case you're screwed. If you do something she doesn't like, that could be a false rape allegation, in which case you're screwed.

See where I'm going with this?
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>>679942871
This fag has been the only one with some sense and non-pedI tendencies. You better listen up, OP. Advocate for yourself. Otherwise it's straight to ass rape prison for your border line sex offender behaviour
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You make me cringe so hard OP. How are you a tutor and this fucking dumb? If she is legal to you in age of consent, fuck her. You obviously want to, so don't act like you don't. If she's not, tell her parents the whole truth like a man, and if she makes some shit up you raped her, yeah it's gonna suck for your reputation, but the investigators are pretty good at figuring out who is lying in those situations. If her parents can afford personal tutoring chances are she was raised in a somewhat healthy environment and will realize that crying wolf could ruin her life with a criminal record. Tell her that too if she even mentions anything false that is leading towards a kidnapping or rape accusation.
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>>679942871
This op. Follow this.
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>>679938091
If I'm being real honest only take it as far as she wants and within the limits of the law in your country/state
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>>679942828
Also it doesn't matter how cool or how much of a friend you see her as, she is a teenage girl.
A manipulative teenage girl. You'll probably realise this in 5-10 years (or 6 mths idk) but you can't be friends with a teenage girl as a 22 year old man, it will not end well.
You will both be dragged through shit and worse off for it.
Unless you are trying to just fuck her (which i wouldnt suggest either) you need to be strict about boundaries, or stop tutoring, because this shit happens and you clearly aren't dealing with it properly. at the moment.
OP might be a nice guy who's good at maths and doesn't afraid of anything, but you are acting socially retarded.
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>>679942828
I cant believe youre this retarded. YES SHE HAS A CRUSH ON YOU GET THAT THROUGH YOUR SKULL. Now you just have to figure out where to go from there.
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>>679943588
agreed
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OP is either a soft-minded beta who will never get it or massively talented troll. Either way I'm out.
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Tell her parents

Simple. Fucking oath
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>>679943691
>Otherwise it's straight to ass rape prison for your border line sex offender behaviour
Calm the fuck down kek.
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>>679943445
good thing the age of consent is 16 in my state, if OP lived in my state he could fuck her, cum on her face and face absolutely no consequences.
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>>679939530
>>679939530
>Not going to happen. Really, she isn't old enough.

>But I want to be gentle with her. Not crush her.

Don't say shit.

then in a couple years, you have some guaranteed pussy on the side.
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>>679942871
Exactly. She is young and self destructive. A POS would take advantage, but its your responsibility to remind her that she's being an idiot. Be a mentor.
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>>679939530
Holy fuck you dumbass faggot there is no mess wtf you're over thinking this shit too much it's a 16 year old girl for fucks sake, get a grip, goddamned pussies man
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>>679941738
>Well I'm getting paid for that...
ooh... well then...
your only reasonable option is to talk to her parents about everything before she does.
damage control...
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>>679941745
>dude you faggot I remembered OP you didn't listen to any of the solid advice in that thread and you just ended up fucking it up and making it stupid. . .

Well I wanted to talk to her but she really looked uncomfortable and switched subject right away. I felt maybe I shouldn't push it.

>>679941897
We aren't fans of the same teams.

>>679942002
I don't think she would actually lie and say we did anything. Honestly, she isn't like that.

>>679942057
>position of authority

Exactly. I don't feel like it, but technically I am in a position of authority.

>>679942100
I'm not retarded. I'm not into men, but honestly I've never dated that much.

>>679942139
MIB 3. Loved that movie.

>>679942204
Poor girl... the morning she had the worst headache and was so dehydrated.

>>679942238
>They're called "Crushes" for a reason.

But I'm not supposed to be the one teaching her that.

>>679942243
>with emotional instabilities

What do you mean ?

>>679942515
I have no idea what happened at the party to be honest. I don't have the exact details.

>>679942672
hummmm.... Well I was (still am) a nerd and yeah... dating was pretty non-existent for me.

I don't like the attention honestly.

>>679942707
>you need to have a recording device on you and record having a conversation where you clearly establish in the open the events ESPECIALLY the ones of you bringing her to your apartment and not fucking her. Once you have your proof that you haven't done anything sexual with her ( you should be legally in the clear) you should either talk to her as a grownup about yalls relationship as tutor and student ONLY or grow some balls and inform the parents.

I'm starting to know her a little. She wouldn't lie about such a thing.
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>>679942672
Kek
>Female
>On 4chan
>On /b / of all possible boards
If you get off to acting like a girl, then you have a mental disorder, just end it now.
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>>679938091
Nigga then wtf is the issue? If you come to us it means you wanna fuck her and your nervous cuz she is young but if you ain't gunna smash then who gives a fuck? Girls have crushes all the time if you just wanna be her tutor keep her in the friend zone and soon another guy will catch her eye man 16 year old girls don't know shit about shit
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>>679944160
This
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>>679943998
tf you on man? must be some desperate autist if you have to wait years for some girl cause you can't even score chick your own age
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>>679943580

Her friend called me because she was uncontrollably drunk and going through an emotional rollercoaster. She didn't want to be picked up by you, this leaves us with the following outcomes: She stays at the party and comtinues doing unreasonable things (you were called by her friend because of this in the first place). Or worse: she is going home with someone she/you/her parents don't know and "God knows what happens". I mean in the end you are a person of trust for her and for her parents. If she goes all like "Anon why you doin this to me i luvz you ". Tell her parents that this is what is bothering you and this is why you talked to them. Play the morally uptight teacher and tell them you can't tutor her while she has her emotions not separated from work because it will lead to trouble in the end and noone would benefit. Be as professional as you can. In the end you could propose to tutor her again when she has her emotions set.

I guess you will lose your student in about 90% of cases. But you want to stay clean, at least it is how i understand it, so this should be the correct way to handle things.
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>>679940794
You are such a faggot OP
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You must imagine her sucking your Dick with all those thumbnails you've been using...
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I demand OP posts pic of girl in question before we advise any further.
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>>679943701
Also if she is legal to fuck at this point and you choose to do so, since you've been tutoring her since 14 get her to confess somehow via text that nothing romantic or sexual has happened between you guys prior to this moment. In all reality though, if this isn't bait, you're pretty fucking dumb, so you will probably screw up anything besides taking the ethical route of telling her parents and ensuring she makes up nothing by explaining to her/her parents how bad lying about that can fuck up her life, if things starts heading down that path of fiction.
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>>679944160
I am a chick but I'll admit I'm a pretty sick bitch (you have to be to be on /b/....)
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>>679944490
This
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>>679942828
this seriously has to be made up. I am 30 y/o teacher who has slept with countless students once they were 18. If you have regrets being 22 and her being 16 and seeing her a child....And yet, you still continue in talking plus what seems like to lead her on and not do a thing, you are a super fucking beta or have no clue on how women work.......
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>>679944490
Seconded
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>>679944490
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>>679944642
also a tutor is not a teacher, the only illegal thing would be age not using authority to influence a minor.
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>>679944642
"I'm a 14 y.o. virgin with no clue about what women are like, please believe my bullshit story"
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>>679944767
Yeh what country op
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>>679944642
Fuck... I hope to be you someday. I wouldn't want to have to be a teacher though
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>>679937840
If you had made her eggs all would have been well.
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>>679944124
Dude she wasnt even that fucked up. She wants you to play captqin save a hoe. She thinks she's being crazy and grown up by sleeping at your place and having a hangover. 16 yo girls are weird as fuck l. You have no idea how crazy they plan shit. You would probably shit your oants if you heard her and her friends talking when they think nobody is around.
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>>679944826
all posts on this site are fiction lol
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>>679944628
Okay that's great your still doing the pretend thing.
>TITS OR GTFO
If you don't prove your a girl your advice and argument are completely invalid I could tell you I'm a fucking wizard
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>>679940144
Says she's a chip and he's an adult but wont report "child" for drinking underage.

You're already guilty of corruption of minors in every state.

You don't see her that way but "I'm happy she called me"...

Oh and her sleeping in ur bed is totally appropriate.

Op fuck her you might as well get something for the trouble.

Also if you fucked her prior to the drinking part at least id respect u more.
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>>679942672
/thread
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>>679944862
well i eventually got caught but luckily the charge was a sexually charged convo over facebook, working on my PharmD at the moment, fuck education
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Wait til she's 18 then engage in consensual sexual relations. Marry her. She clearly loves you.

Make her happy.
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>>679944855
im not OP but my stories are based on the west coast of US.
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2 weeks top before OP is arrested on false rape charges. Cause this mother fucker doesn't listen.
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>>679944984
But it's not illegal, they were 18?
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>>679942828
OP confirmed for a literal dumbass
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>>679939933
> see her as a child more than anything else.

Trust me OP, fucking do it. I had a student and was in almost the same situation. I thought it was weird and never ended up hitting it, and now I fucking regret that shit so much.

Thing is, they don't stay kids forever. They grow up, and once they do, you'll be thinking "fuck. Why did I not hit that when she was young and into me"

Learn from my mistakes and HIT THAT.
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>>679944925
>You)

yea except women exist and wizards don't you fucking retard. learn the difference between you're and your
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>>679943181
Honestly bro you can tell OP has never had this amount of attention from a female before
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>>679945093
apparently one was a minor, didn't know because she graduated. No idea on who it is, currently being investigated by department of ed, but my criminal attorney stated i wouldn't be worried since they have to contact multiple levels of the judicial system to then contact facebook. And since the crime was not solicitation, child porn, or another thing I forgot, they will likely throw it out. It has been 5 months now, I am on paid leave in my district.
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>>679942871
>You are a role model in this girl's life, and obviously a good one if she likes you to this degree

I'd like to be a good model for her.

She has done quite a lot for me too.

>There is a thin line between being a teen's friend, and being their mentor. Redraw it so she can get back to her life, and you to yours.

Thanks.

>>679942988
>fuck this bitch

get out

>>679943181
>So.. Are you really an autist?
No !

>>679943181
>Her wearing your clothes is the biggest sign she wants your D.

Wowowow.... calm down. She just said she liked it because it was huge for her and comfortable. All girls today wear oversized sweaters.

>>679943255
No. She's quite fit.

>>679943389
I suspect her father is a workaholic

>>679943783
>If I'm being real honest only take it as far as she wants and within the limits of the law in your country/state

I'm sure it's just a crush. I was surprised she liked getting coffee on campus because honestly I'm usually super boring.

>>679943839
Is there any ways I could un-crush her ? Get her a boyfriend her age ?
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>>679944628
probably not the bad, the worst girls ive seen on here are the maggot girl, the German necrophile and that fat bitch with dead animals.
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>>679945252
DOESNT EVEN KNOW THE TERM WIZARD KEK
They are very real your just to much of a fucking newfag to even get the joke. Kys you fucking cancer
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>>679943588
You're a fucking faggot he doesn't have to do shit but tell the bitch no I'm not interested bye.
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>>679938091
Talk to her parents, tell them this is getting unhealthy and you can't fuck with the crazy bitch no more.

Jesus you don't gotta break up with someone you aren't dating
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>>679945344
for further clarification, this girl added me on facebook and we started chatting. I thought she was 18, otherwise I wouldn't be in this shit mess.
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>>679945558
kek, im a newfag and I know what a wizard is.
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Tell her your gay and you have never told any one and don't want any one to find out.
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>>679945252
And for the record your shit tier language isn't even my first language so fuck you stupid grammar nazi bitch
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>>679945362

Hi OP, undergraduate TA and volunteer tutor here. At my university there's a huge rule on relationships between students and TAs (or professors). Small stuff like giving rides and small gifts are acceptable, but some things cross the line.

I understand your want to watch out for her, as all people with a mentor-like position do. I would say keep it up, but make sure you know where to draw the line so that you don't get into trouble.

TL;DR: Help her out, but watch out for yourself too
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Fuck her in the ass. Solves everything.
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She had a bf, so is probably not a virgin.
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>>679945362
Confirmed OP is masterful troll.
No fucking way any one is this Beta.
Well played OP, well played.
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>>679945558

literally don't understand half the shit you just said cause i'm not a 4chan autist, sorry. but really whatever, there is no point in this lmao
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>>679939041
Underrated post
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>>679945362
OP. Its quite obvious that she is into you. Girls that age are generally attracted to older guys. And given the fact that you see her quite often and are in uni, she probably thinks you're a catch. The fact of the matter is she sees you as a possibility for a future. Take away the possibility, take away her attachment. Plus, if she is wearing your hoodie or clothes, should cut that out. It'll make her think that you don't mind sharing stuff with her. Which only fuels the whole 'i'm just her tutor' movement.
Best of luck OP.
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>>679945700
It's not hard really, all I ask is all these new fucks sit back and pay attention for a bit before opening there cock warmers. Also nice digits
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>>679937436
answer is simple though it will hurt your pocketbook.
you quit tutoring her and tell her parents that she has inappropriate feelings for you that you are concerned about thus your need to resign before it goes further.
for that matter how did you let it go this far? are you too autist to see this problem as it developed?
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OP POST PICS OF HER. For science.
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>>679939530

This is 4chan. Everyone is gonna recommend that you give her the D.

I recommend that you give her the D.

Say bye-bye to not being on the sex offender list, though. No matter. YOLO. (you only loli once)
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>>679937436
You're gonna get accused of rape
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Honestly, disregarding everything that has happened, the fact remains that you are employed by this girl's parents to help improve her academics. Your only direct responsibility is her education, and when her parents trust you to chaperone her, they expect you to be a substitute of themselves.

Beyond your tutoring and you giving her a tour of the university you attend, you have no business being a part of her social life. To involve yourself puts you in a bad position, as it blurs the boundaries established by simply being her tutor. It is not your place to rescue her drunk ass from a party, nor are you doing the right thing by keeping her 'safe' at your place and keeping secrets from your employers - her parents. What you have done will be taken poorly when it comes out, so you'd best admit that made a dumb move and cut this shit out.

You wanting to help her and protect her no doubt confuses you given that she crushes on you and you've known her for years. I'd say you're having a toss up between paternal instincts and romantic feelings. I can see why you want to 'do the right thing' with her safety and wellbeing, because you're proud of her and in a way you've watched her grow, but again, you are not her father figure, so you cannot take that title for yourself. Moreover, she doesn't see you that way, she sees you as someone she wants to date. Dating her is also out of the question. Even if she was older, her parents would feel betrayed unless you got lucky and were also forthcoming with them. But taking her to your place has already fucked that up.

Look, you're attached to her because you've nurtured her, and now a part of you sees her as a young woman in a romantic sense. However, she's still too young, and you cannot make her wait until she is older. You will hurt her that way, and giving in to her now would fuck up your tutoring rep at the least, and get you on a sex offender list at the worst. Go back to your role as her tutor and forget whats happened.
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>>679944984
>leaving a papertrail
you done goofed, my dad was an army ranger in vietnam and after he got injured he became a high school teachers, he only got caught once but just bribed the parents.
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>>679940794

All of your pics so far are porn. Most of it teen porn.

I'm gonna go out on a limb here and guess that you've thought about banging that tight little teenage ass more than once. Mostly while jerking off. Sinner.
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>>679945252
You're (you are) as in "you are already"

You failed.
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>>679945362
Well my advice is to watch her fathers reaction when her mom makes any sort of joke about you two together. try and read if the thought makes him angry or not. And another thing is that I know the whole beta in high school thing as well, it sucks. but now I feel as confident with ladies as a guy my age should feel.
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>>679946083
yes, i didn't verify her age. I always tell myself to never assume and I broke my rule. Im just a dude wanting the pussy :(

also see my clarification post, happy to answer any questions.

But honestly I am not concerned, dad passed away 3 years ago....trust fund baby, I am working on my PharmD and will be able to have triple income in roughly 3 years. So it worked out semi okay lol.
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>>679945362
>Wowowow.... calm down. She just said she liked it because it was huge for her and comfortable. All girls today wear oversized sweaters.
No, dude, really. Girls love big sweaters blah blah blah, this is true, but how many girls have you dated that have made a point to "borrow" your clothes? They like our sweaters because they can wear them well. Lots of girls like sleeping with guys' clothes because they smell like us (one girl would borrow a new undershirt every few days).

Seriously, if a girl is taking your clothes and wearing them, she's very much interested in you. Not in a purely sexual way, either, mind you.
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OP won't listen because he likes seeing himself in an altruistic white knight fashion. Stop wasting time on his deluded ass.
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>>679945362
I understand you're really concerned about how her having a crush on you is going to affect the relationship you had before and her own relationships going forward. It's probably close to feeling like you need to take on a huge burden in her happiness. I want you to know that, once again, it's normal. She just got out of a relationship, maybe temporary, maybe permanent, and so she made a few bad choices to try to deal with it. That's where you came in, a person she felt that she could rely on, and rightly so. You helped her get back on her feet in a dark point in her life right now, and you should feel proud of yourself for that. But she needs to find her way from here, alone. And as you know, it's something she should be able to manage.

What you want to "uncrush" right now is a positive friendly respect that has developed over the past two years, and that just doesn't seem right to me. She will find other boys her age, she has her other friends to help her out, and since she hasn't even directly told you her feelings, it's probably something more overstated that not. If this is a persistent issue two months later, then another follow-up is needed. But now, just establish the ground rules and relax. I'm glad that people like you are out there to keep an eye out for people like her.
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Jesus Christ, OP, just grow a pair and fuck her brains out.
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>>679946559

He's just spinning out this bullshit will he/won't he narrative to get everyone to give him attention and feed this shitty bait thread.

This is a board full of virgins, pedophiles, and bitter virgin pedophiles. Of COURSE everyone's gonna tell him to bang her.

And of course this is a bullshit bait troll thread story. Any halfway attractive 16 year old girl is gonna realize she has WAY more leverage and bargaining power with some musclehead jock her age rather than a beta autistic tutor unless this girl is really, really fucked up, like her dad molested her when she was little and made her fuck all his friends or something. This story is unbelievable as fuck.
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20 bucks OP marries her when they get older
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>>679945627
>Talk to her parents, tell them this is getting unhealthy and you can't fuck with the crazy bitch no more.
>Jesus you don't gotta break up with someone you aren't dating

She isn't a crazy bitch ! And, it would sort of feel like breaking up with her. I know she would be sad.

>>679945718
Not going to work

>>679945779
I really don't care. It's her life.

>>679945785
I wish this was a troll

>>679945915
>Plus, if she is wearing your hoodie or clothes, should cut that out

I tried getting it back but she had "forgotten it somewhere"...

Then the same night she sent me a good night snap and was clearly wearing it.

For some reasons she really likes it.

>>679946012
No.

>>679946058
There is a strange part of me that wants to see her in like 20 years. I'm curious to see what she'll do.

She is really curious. And so social. She's not completely rationale. She understands people, so much better than I could.

I'll try to make as if nothing happened. You are right, it's the optimal choice.

>>679946109
it's garbage I got of /b/
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>>679947035
Hey op you got a fake email or something i wanna know how this will go in the future because i doubt you will be posting here for months to come
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OP I have some news for you... Even Jesus himself can't save your beta cuck soul because you are the biggest pussy I have ever met...

What the hell happened to your generation? All of you are so soft and freak out about age difference and keep repeating the most autistic shit ever. "16 is a child" how in the hell is 16 a child when in some places she can drive a car, suck a dick and join army?

God damn it OP when I was in your age 18 was a best before date.

If you do not fuck her then don't but somebody else will. In any case stop asking other people what you should do because you should handle your own shit and grow some balls. Make choices and move on!
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>>679947035

OP she likes the hoodie 'cus it smells of you and shit. She probably fingers her puss-puss whilst wearing your jumper.
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>>679945362
Look OP, It's been fun and all but the record is starting to get worn out. Your /b/rothers have made it pretty clear by now the different paths you can take in this situation. However you still seem to be waffling at this point and it's getting pretty ridiculous. You still seem to be caught up in this moral conflict between being her friend and being her teacher. You can't be both things in every situation. I'm beginning to suspect that either there is something you are not admitting to us or you are not admitting to yourself that's keeping you from making this decision. I will respectfully point out that your relationship with this girl started out as a business arrangement and you should adhere to those original boundaries by being professional and preventing this thing from moving forward. You are her teacher and this is something she needs to learn. You have to be the adult in this situation.

tl:dr Don't mix business with pleasure.
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>>679944490
>>679944490
>>679944490

once I opened this ultrabeta thread I expected pics, someone asking pics, "pics or it didn't happen".. but instead no.. I had to scroll down 50 mins of fucking retarded posts to even READ someone demanding pics.

>not posting her pics here

OP is always a fag, but what the fuck happen to you, /b/ros?

you ruined my day.
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>>679946344

I never really noticed how her father he reacted. I think he just chuckled. She however was severely blushing...

>>679946449
>but how many girls have you dated that have made a point to "borrow" your clothes?

One. Also the only girl I dated.

>Lots of girls like sleeping with guys' clothes because they smell like us (one girl would borrow a new undershirt every few days).

So she really... keeps it in bed ? Not sure I want it back.... It would be really strange to wear it after.

>>679946572
Well I was told, kinda indirectly, that she had a crush on me like a year ago. I thought it was all over. But you are right, I'm probably over-analysing everything. She'll be back to normal in like a week. Thanks !

>>679946864
>And of course this is a bullshit bait troll thread story. Any halfway attractive 16 year old girl is gonna realize she has WAY more leverage and bargaining power with some musclehead jock her age rather than a beta autistic tutor unless this girl is really, really fucked up, like her dad molested her when she was little and made her fuck all his friends or something. This story is unbelievable as fuck.

You have a anger problem dude...

>>679946888
It's funny to imagine.

She already told me where she wanted to go on her honeymoon.
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>>679947035
I am impressed at your masterful evasion of actually addressing any of our suggestions by pretending you're the most inept oblivious human in existence. You have successfully trolled me, sir. If you are going to be an attention whore at least listen to our advice, god damn dude, I am so angry
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>>679944406
>>679946117

So she is your last student and you are emotionally attached to her being "your work" and "having raised her" for a part of her life.
So there is obviously no problem here if you lose her as a student, except for your emotional attachment.

Girls that age (and boys too) want to be treated as adults. Treat her as an adult. No "but i dont want to push her too hard". Plain and simple ask her if she wants to be treated as an adult or better tell her that you want to talk to her as adults. Then tell her what is bothering you. Confront her with her feelings and tell her nothing is going to happen between you. Do what all the other anons say. SET FUCKING BOUNDARIES. Explain her the world. Like what Problems this could cause for you and your reputation as a professional not only as a tutor. Treat her as one of your peers, but one that hasnt faced reality yet. If she was mentored by you for 2 years - she should comprehend i mean at least you taught her math and if she didn't pick up on a little of logical thinking all is lost. Say you will continue tutoring her----- but for as long as she has not come clean with her emotions you would prefer not being alone with her while tutoring. (only use this last bit as a last resort if you really dont want to lose her as a student because this might as well kill every bit of reason inside her).
But to avoid every accusation of misdemeanor i would play safe and keep the option to talk to her parents right after you talked to her.

America seems crazy with this rape accusation stuff...

>Tl;DR
>talk to her as an adult
>tell her about the dilemma she put you in
>keep option to talk to her parents before she blows everything up.
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You're already fucked, no matter what you do. Drunk, Underage girl sleeps at your house. All it takes is for a rumour to come out, because only you and her will really know what happened that night, but rumours will be fueled by the fact ALL HER FRIENDS saw you leave together. Someone will let something slip, and everything you say and do well be taken out of context and used against. Teenage girls are lying, narcissistic psychopaths. I give it 1 month before you're facing a statutory rape charge. despite alleged good intentions, any female juror is going to take one brief look at your case and write "hang the cunt" next to the box that says "guilty"
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>>679947524
>Don't mix business with pleasure

This
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>>679947229
>because i doubt you will be posting here for months to come

Why ?

>>679947356
>She probably fingers her puss-puss whilst wearing your jumper.

That's just... inappropriate. It really makes me feel uncomfortable.

>>679947524
>You can't be both things in every situation.

But I'd like it.
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>>679946559
Answer this, OP
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>>679947943

wont happen, even though the case could lead to accusation of rape, it's hear say
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Done with this shit. Stop feeding OPs attention whoring. We gave him suggestions, now pick one and move on faggot. Bait, hook line and sinker.

Night.
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>>679947759
Well that could go either way if her father does that. but that's really cute if she's blushing over the thought of you like that.
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>>679939933
>Age of consent is irrelevant since I am still tutoring her, so even if she was my age, any relationship would be somewhat illegal.
That's not true anon. My gf started out as my tutor. She's 3 years older than me. Do the deed. Maybe just tell her to wait til she's 18
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OP you seriously have some sort of mental problem. You give me the creeps.
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>>679945362
17 y/o fem. p much was in the same situation as u but reversed.

just like make it clear that u dont like her that way?? ur probs not gonna be able to avoid hurting her feelings or w/e so just do it. dont be an idiot and let her start liking u more. the longer u let it go on the worse itll get.

in case ur curious i ended up getting over it bc i realized how gross it was for me to like him and how fucked up it would be if he actually liked me back.
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>>679939530
>>679940794
>>679941738
>>679942828
>>679947035


sauce this shit please
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Fake, fuck you op.
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>>679948305
Mfw unless your gonna have a routine day and time your gonna post how will i know when you post what has happened
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>>679947928
>you are emotionally attached to her being "your work"

To be fair, all she needed was a nudge in the right direction.

>Then tell her what is bothering you. Confront her with her feelings and tell her nothing is going to happen between you. Do what all the other anons say. SET FUCKING BOUNDARIES

I guess it could work. But at the same time.... after the break-up "incident" I told her I really didn't want to know about that part of her life, the partying and all ... and not even a week after she called me drunk and I did everything she wanted.

The more I think about it the more it seems like she is playing me.

>>679947943
Didn't think about it...
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>>679948305
>>679948597
dont be her friend or dont be a close one. think abt this rationally and not with that "but i want to" bullshit. the closer u get to her the more shell like u
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>>679948305
Look you're being very dense she's obviously very very into you, there is two options here.
You be firm with her but not harsh and tell her to stop that shit and that you need to be professional.
or you take a chance with her, how do you do that is up to you..

Look at it this way on your deathbed what you're going to regret most are the missed opportunities.
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>>679948310

Well getting her out of that party was a little white knight and not wanting to hurt her is she has feeling too I guess.

>>679948453
Well maybe she was embarrassed.

>>679948504
How old were you ?

>>679948597
>just like make it clear that u dont like her that way?? ur probs not gonna be able to avoid hurting her feelings or w/e so just do it. dont be an idiot and let her start liking u more. the longer u let it go on the worse itll get.

How would you have liked to get the news ?

>>679948570
What ? Why ?
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>>679949004
Like he said, with the rumors that will absolutely be coming, you are already fucked. Just fuck her, you actually care about her so it will be good for both parties. My buddy did a hostess when he was your age and she was 16 and kept going until the parents found out, and the dad just said to stay away or he will call the cops. And he's an idiot OP who gets caught doing everything. But then again, you are a faggot, so who knows, you'll probably end up in jail. Actually, you probably live in a state where age of consent is 16, but you're probably a virgin, and she probably has had as many dicks in her mouth as you have.
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>>679937436
WAIT UNTIL SHE'S 18
This little bitch will ruin your life if you hurt her
Look at what's come of it already
Her friend, another little whore, is shaming you for no reason
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This is a copy pasta you twats. I've read this same story many times.
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>>679949754
lol damn, i am not surprised
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>>679949320

Is it weird that the more I post on this thread the more I wish she was like 20.
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>>679949565
Whether she was embarrassed or not is the key I guess. I just hope for your sake she's not pulling your strings.
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>>679949708
Pretty much this OP. Don't fuck up. I repeat, don't FUCK UP.
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>>679949004
In every instance of you responding to someone saying shit like "record her saying you didnt fuck" you've said "oh but she wouldn't lie, she just ain't like that".

GET FUCKING REAL BRO

She's 16, and is partying and getting drunk. I think it's safe to say that if she doesn't get her way in this situation, having a relationship with you, she will blow that damn rape whistle as hard as she can.

I think you should record a conversation with her in which you have her explicitly say you didn't have sexual relations, and then go to her parents with the full story and ask to no longer be her tutor, and DON'T PICK HER UP FROM ANYMORE PARTIES YOU DUMBSHIT. If they don't believe you didn't fuck her, show them the recording. That, to me, is the most professional thing you can do at this point. Remain her friend or whatever the fuck if you want, and fuck her when she turns 18, or whatever the age of consent is in your state.
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>>679949565
you picked the wrong website to ask for advice my friend
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>>679950006
so close to quads
>feelsbadman.jpg
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>>679949573
>Like he said, with the rumors that will absolutely be coming, you are already fucked.

Yeah. I'm just not that sure they'll talk about it so much since they where basically all underage and drinking.

>>679949708
She isn't a little bitch. And I don't see what her friend did that could have "shamed" me.
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>>679949565
i mean i wouldve been sad abt it but i wouldve gotten over it. there are other people that r my age that i can date
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>>679949565

this >>679950006
she's already lying to her parents about the partying and drinking
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>>679940915
Im in a similar relationship, but im trying to set her up so she doesnt need me. More trying to help her in a transitional period. Really hope the best.
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>>679949931
I think you've answered your own question here.
she's not going to be 16 forever
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>>679949941

Pulling my strings ?

>>679950006
>She's 16, and is partying and getting drunk. I think it's safe to say that if she doesn't get her way in this situation, having a relationship with you, she will blow that damn rape whistle as hard as she can.

I don't think she'll blow it because... I'm feeling she isn't even thinking about it. I think having sex is like a far away thing in her mind.
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>>679949931
yes? its disgusting tbh
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>>679949004

Yeah, you need to nudge her with your dick man.
you have to do it or you will break her tiny teenage heart and she will be damagedfor ljfe.
You need to show her what a real man can give her, not what some pimpled 16 year old beta fag with a toothpick dick can nudge...
Come on man, this is the only way out of this mess.

Hit it and leave it.
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>>679950629
Put up boundaries faggot.
Get some 20 something pussy.
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>>679950225

I guess you are right. Will she stay mad at me ?

>>679950318
I supposed. I did the same thing. Don't we all do it ?

>>679950609
I'll be long gone by then.
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>>679950629
>I think having sex is like a far away thing in her mind.
she fucking stripped off her clothes to wear your hoodie.
that is very much a tactile and physical thing.
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>>679942828
Stopped here. No way this is real.
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>>679950734
>Hit it and leave it.

That would be the absolute worst thing to do.
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>>679950629
>I don't think she'll blow it because... I'm feeling she isn't even thinking about it. I think having sex is like a far away thing in her mind.

I don't understand how you can be this naive man...I just don't get it. You bought her clothes, she's wearing YOUR clothes, SHE BROKE UP WITH HER BOYFRIEND, she asked for you when she needed to be picked up from a party, AND SHE UNDRESSED AND PUT ON YOUR CLOTHES IN YOUR FUCKING BED. I DON'T GET HOW YOU CAN'T UNDERSTAND THAT SHE WANTS TO FUCK YOU. IT. IS. SO. CLEAR.
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>>679950629
I mean messing with you and all that, making you think she likes you for some other motive. I wouldn't know what she's really thinking with what you've provided since you'd spin it in a way that makes you feel good about it (Don't worry everyone does)
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Troll/10, there is absolutely no way that you can be this blind man.
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>>679950629
16 yr old girl drinking and partying

Not thinking about sex.
I am sorry OP i really thought you were just a little overwhelmed. But you are just plain ignorant. And i am starting to feel you are on the same emotional level as her. With the difference of you having some responsibilities and morals somewhere in the back of your head. All i read in the last posts was you bitching about indexisive of what to do, not wanting to make a decision at all and boohoo i wish she was older. Grow up, make a decision show us you are not biologically 22 but mentally 14
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>>679947035
OP you should honestly should wait until she's 18. You two sound like a cute couple, and you both like each-other anyways. Stop cucking yourself by saying "I'd like to be her friend when I'm done tutoring her." If you have trouble with dating, and it's practically non-existent, then why not just wait to date her?
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From all this, you need to talk to her parents. Act as the adult here. Just say something (like you said) along the lines of preventing her from getting in a drunk driving accident. Taking her back to your place was a mistake for sure. Even if she will be pissed about her parents finding out she got drunk, the girls gotta learn someday, might as well be now.
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>>679950884

I guess she didn't want to feel constrained while sleeping... It's physical but maybe not that intimate ? No ?
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>>679951041
Dude, lol, she got fucking black-out drunk and had a wicked hangover. Her clothes were probably something awful to wear that morning. Just because she said some stupid shit when she was drunk and her friends texted him doesn't mean that she's dtf 24/7. Even if she did crush him a tiny bit, I doubt then was a good time.
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>>679939530
Gentle never works. Honest truth is painful but always the best in the end.
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>>679938435
is there some law about "tutors?" The whole point of being a tutor is to shape a young mind
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>>679951680

Yes he shaped her young mind if you know what i mean.
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>>679951448
To add to this, you could also say something like "I wanted to prevent her from getting in trouble with other people at the party, or drugs." Breaking up with her BF is on her, not you. You need to act responsibly, by-pass her and go to her parents. Don't follow her antic's.
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>>679951566
Man, I didn't mean to say that she was at that exact point in time wanting to fuck him, nor did I say she was DTF 24/7.

What I meant was, if she feels so comfortable with him that she can strip and wear his shit without him offering, ON TOP OF ALL THE OTHER SHIT, then I'd say it's a safe bet that she wants to fuck him.
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This story is bs, but for the rest of you /b/tards, never EVER give a hoodie or any kind of top that you have worn to a girl that may have feelings for you. Your clothing will smell like you, so you are basically giving her a "trophy" and a reason to go Glenn Close on your ass.
It happened to me in coellge. It was not pretty.
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>>679951074
You think maybe she's trying to know how far she can go ? Like to see if she can get me to like her ? Sort if like looking for validation ?

>>679951041
>I don't understand how you can be this naive man...I just don't get it. You bought her clothes, she's wearing YOUR clothes, SHE BROKE UP WITH HER BOYFRIEND, she asked for you when she needed to be picked up from a party, AND SHE UNDRESSED AND PUT ON YOUR CLOTHES IN YOUR FUCKING BED. I DON'T GET HOW YOU CAN'T UNDERSTAND THAT SHE WANTS TO FUCK YOU. IT. IS. SO. CLEAR.

Sleeping with my clothes seems to be an habit she has now. To fuck really ? Isn't that a little extreme.... I mean, it's far from a little crush.

>>679951370
>16 yr old girl drinking and partying
>Not thinking about sex.

She could be ... right ?

>>679951397
>OP you should honestly should wait until she's 18. You two sound like a cute couple, and you both like each-other anyways. Stop cucking yourself by saying "I'd like to be her friend when I'm done tutoring her." If you have trouble with dating, and it's practically non-existent, then why not just wait to date her?

Even if I wanted, I'll be so far away in less than a year.

Cute couple ? lol. Not sure she would see herself long term with a guy like me.

>>679951448
You think they are going to be that pissed that it was to my place ?
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