OP you here?

>>679625486
yes

>>679625591

do you have skype?
its 330 where i am and im about to pass out but i saw your thread and I like to attempt at helping people. I'll talk at you tomorrow if you like

fire_cfb01

>>679624975
i feel they same way. When im drunk its easier. Then i can stand my friends and sometimes even strangers.

>>679625701
i would really appreciate that, ill add you. thanks

>>679624975
I know that feeling...
But it's not so heavy for me.
Try to talk with a psychologist.

>>679625723
if im high or drunk i act even more strange, idk why

>>679625809
kool might be the day after but we'll see i will talk to you

>>679625873
thanks, just added u

>>679624975
Take three deep breaths and tell yourself you don't give a fuck.

If you stop caring what people think of you you'll become more comfortable with interacting with people, just try to keep it normal

>>679626034
i do try that but its hard to explain. i can't control it. Im not even that awkward either, it will just hit me out of nowhere when im around people. I study peoples reactions so intently to see if they're watching me, and in result i've become the person i fear the most, someone who's only watching other people's actions

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You people have mental illness. I used to be similar, though not nearly as bad.

Socializing is not something you are judged on or should consider something you need to do to get better. Like anything, it's just part of a healthy lifestyle. It's also been shown time and time again to be a pre-requisite to good mental health.

Stop doing it for others and start doing it for yourself and your bullshit "I feel bad about being a burden or about being shit at socializing" is no longer an issue.

The biggest key to finding relationships (social and romantic) that people in these threads will never tell you (instead they'll talk about cheap tricks and how to manipulate people and things to "be liked" which are always fucking ridiculous) is that you should develop skills and interests. Something as simple as juggling can take a few days to learn and is something you can now talk about, partake in, demonstrate and more. You've just created a point of interest. Repeat ad infinitum and you'll slowly become a more interesting, valuable and fun human being to be around.

The rest is simply social practice. Good luck faggots.

>>679626428
this is helpful...thank you

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>>679626428
wow. Thanks mate

>>679626428
i don't wanna sound like a faggot here because i already replied but your words are really sinking in. Not focusing on improving social skills but just improving in general and learning right, the rest will come naturally

Fuck off back to tumblr you normiefags

>>679626874
find another thread then, just looking for advice man

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>>679626860
Boom. Hobbies are the best way to get into it because you meet lots of interesting new local people who have grouped around doing X.

So photography for example, you're learning a skill, doing something you can share and talk about with people outside the group, socializing and hanging out inside the group, etc.

>>679626428
>/b/'s advice on social anxiety
>Take up juggling

>side are in orbit

>>679627279
hey it's a conversation starter. imagine being at a party and some kid just starts juggling beer cans

>>679627279
>I'm too cool to partake in things with other people and learn new skills

>sides are in sorbitol

Op here. dubs decides what my new hobby is to overcome anxiety

>>679627523
masturbation

>>679627523
Photography
Landscaping
Football
Distance Running
Board Games
Other random shit

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>>679624975
Go to a doctor and ask if they've got a drug that can help you... If you're already at a low point, the chance of it being beneficial is high.

>>679626428
thanks much anon

>>679627715
just went recently and was prescribed lexapro. been a month and nothings really changed in my head. I know im partly to blame for that but fuck they could at least make me smile every now and then

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>>679627491
>>679627367
The faggot has social anxiety and you want him to go to social events looking like pic very fucking related.

>that'll help
>don't stop this is hilarious my sides are past pluto

>>679625840
When I'm high I feel really awkward idk why

>>679624975
Yo bro, have he same probleme at another level.

First do you somke week if not it's good if yes stop now it's increasing your anxiety

Seconde advice start mindfullness meditation like 15minute each day. It will make you feel less stressed and also after some time like 4 to 6 week of praticing you will truly beggin to understand that it's your fear an nothing else but to to totaly go above your axiety you must go outside the more often becaus it's only with the habit to see and talk with people that your fear will disapear


Good luck bro and do not give up

>>679627875
Kek

>>679627884
i smoke weed daily. thats probably a big part of it

>>679627883
yeah i'll just space out and not speak. Ill even pretend im sleeping so to avoid conversation, its crazy

>>679627875
Op here, i would obviously dress up in normal clothes? i wouldnt be juggling sparkle balls, bet your life

>>679624975
There's no fix, try intoxicating yourself when acceptable or grow a big pair of balls. I mean, we're civilized when we don't have the internet mask on, just keep going forward and see where that leaves you. Only the crazy people bite man
Lovejoy

>>679627367
Imagine a beer can that's been tossed one too many times explodes and a wet unhappy crowd is hatefully staring at that kid. Then imagine word spreads about his horrible fuckup and everyone mocks and ridicules him on sight.

>>679627835
>lexapro
an Anti depressant.

If you feel bad because of your anxiety, you want something for anxiety, not depression.

>>679628377
I mean, are you gonna behave or be brave?

a big part of holding conversation for me is the fact that i was born with a tumor in my left eye and now im blind in it so i feel like people are always staring at it when im talking to them

>>679628415
its an ssr1 prescribed fro depression and anxiety, but i suppose youre right because anxiety is the root of it

>>679624975
I get that too but i just keep walking. I remind myself im not made of crystal and can hadle a few vapid douchebags staring at me

>>679628395
Well, those fuckwads don't deserve to get drunk off that can of beer. Motherfuckers are being picky as a swedish princess and that doesn't fit them, for they are street dogs. Fuck them and all they represent.

>>679627875
My word your comprehension skills are retard low.
Maybe his advice won't work just for your dumbass.
>Meanwhile were all gonna take up juggling and be swimmin in da pussi boiiiiiiiii

>>679628710
ok guys one problem at a time here, i mean it doesnt have to be beer cans. can just grab peoples phones so at least ik they wont be distracted during my performance

>>679628788
If it's phones were talking about don't grab any iPhones, they're brittle as ancient cristal. Anything else should be fine

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>>679628634
Thanks dude. This helped me a lot

>>679624975
kill yourself, but make it look like an accident.

>>679628530
The juggling will help draw attention away from that.

>>679628067
Literally yes, and in my experience, xanax and alcohol have the polar opposite effect.
It really slices through all your mental fears and leaves you as your unrestrained self. At least for me.

>>679628954
...you think i wont perfect my craft before performing?

>>679624975
Haters gonna hate, keep rolling rolando, you excellent mofo

>>679628596
xanax sounds more suitable

Guys I really appreciate the help. Im fucking juggling right now, its not that hard. i might pursue this

>>679627875
lmao fuck man my sides are gone from your comments.

>>679629092
how do u ask for xanax from a doctor without coming across as a druggie

>>679624975

are you me OP?

>>679629215
Lol the golden question

Sometimes, when I'm nervous I slap myself really hard in the face then drink my go go juice (ginger beer, peanut butter and sugar). It really makes me feel retarted so then I trick myself into thinking that I don't have anything to lose. Because I'm already retarted.

>>679629243
maybe, whats your social security? :)

>>679629272
do you actually do this?

Anyone got driving anxiety?

>>679629272
And when you feel fully retarded, is that when you start juggling?

>>679629272

do you huff airhorn gas too?

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>>679624975
I got you OP! Add me on kik dude, I'll talk with you haha

>>679624975
Went through this. Biggest thing I took was; when you do leave, how many people do you remember passing? Less than you can count on one hand I bet. Same goes for people who 'see' you. Chances are, they're 'seeing', not observing or acknowledging.

>>679624975
>OP: Guize, I have really bad social anxiety, help!
>Some faggot on /b/: lel xD bruh, let me help. What's your skype lad
>OP: xD ill add u lad, thanks

What the fuck. Yeah, nah. Try staying inside so long that your bones start to warp from vitamin d decency. Or having panic attacks so severe you call an ambulance (multiple times.) Or the countless times you tried to an hero. But I'm guessing OP is just shy or some shit. Probably could do with some normie advice in that case:

Just be yourself OP! Everyone is too busy worrying about themselves in a conversation to notice you so just be yourself lad!

Does that help you bunch of faggots? I hope it does

came onto /b/ looking for answers and i get juggling.

>>679629503
you got skype lol?

>>679624975

Get high as fuck. I started smoking weed and not giving a fuck. Started going to the gym, started talking to random ppl,...Lost all bunch of weight, made all kinds of gainzs and friends.

>>679627875
God damn I am laughing hard. Normie advice just reached a new low. It's actually so bad that it hurts

>>679629510
Ive got very distinctive features as it were. Long story short. i get noticed. Trust

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>>679629550
Hai giuse i are juggler we friends nao?

>>679629529
its hard to be yourself when you dont know who you are

>>679625840
youre too self conscious
other people just will you recognize as funny if you do ridicuolis shit when you drunk
in fact most people dont care what you do
theyre busy with themselfs
but confidence has to be build slowly in a long process but when its done youll ask yourself: why i ever was like this
and youll probably never go back to that state of mind

>>679629529
You are the reason spartans threw away defective babies

>>679629787
I agree anon, and it's also hard to be yourself when you're concentrating on juggling.

>>679629755
this clown stuff is making me laugh and feel like shit at the same time. did i just waste 10 minutes on a skill that ill be made fun of for doing?

>>679629824
I fail to see the contradiction. OP says he gets social anxiety and responds by saying he'll add someone on Skype where presumably the two hypocritical and fake normalcunts can talk on microphone - something no real person with anxiety could ever do. There's people with this condition that would be having panic attacks even posting threads on /b/ because they would be worrying about what others think of them. Yet, here are these two, glorious, but misguided faggots completely contradicting the needs for anything.

If it were up to me I'd kill everyone in this thread with giant dildos before shitting over myself.

>>679629590
Nah haha, I'll make one though. What's your skype name b/ruh?

>>679629806
>other people just will you recognize as funny if you do

Wat?

>>679624975

you are just a lazy fuck.

you don't wanna work and you are comfortable in being uncomfortable that you use it as an excuse not to work and help out your family.

if you are serious about not being a bum you wouldn't be on b bitching about it. you would be at work right now washing dishes or pushing carts and/or making money.

quit using " social anxiety " as an excuse for your laziness you lazy fuck.

>>679627523
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>>679629945
in all honesty ill probably never talk to him on skype. i asked for help and he responded, was just being polite

>>679627367

>"Hey Anon you can juggle! That's really cool."
>"Th-thanks... Heh..."
>end of conversation

>>679629927
No keep juggling. No matter the situation never stop. Juggle yourself to a healthy social life anon.

>>679630069
How big is your dick OP?

>>679624975
I had some anxiety, but what helped me was developing my own taste in music and doing art. The better I became at drawing the more confident I became. I would suggest you find a hobbie you can get good at which will lead to a higher self confidence

>>679624975
meds

>>679630026
people will set your chest hair on fire if you do so

>>679627523
Campaigning against gender inequality

>>679630038
you know, fuck you. Im not using anxiety as an "excuse" you think i like waking up every morning knowing that im a burden or that im not fulfilling my potential? you act like im making up a mental illness.

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>>679630113
>so erm.........

>>679630123
about 7 inches hard, why?

>>679627523
Tatot readings.
Great with those dumb superstitious bitches.

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>>679629945
>anyone who has it better than me is not allowed to be sad
Do you realise there are degrees to anxiety? You clearly fall on the severe side of the spectrum and op has a more benign kind.
>we're all autists here

>>679627883
Yea I used to get this as a novice stoner, I would over-analyse people's facial expressions and tone.

>>679630250
Calm down OP, juggling can turn a man bitter and angry. It's a hard hobby to master.

>>679630250

of course you are you fuck.

you are fucking lazy. it hurts doesn't it? deep inside you know you are just one lazy motherfucker and you use being " social anxious" as a crutch and you want people to feel sorry for you.

go get a job you fucking LAZY FUCK.

>>679626428
examples?

>>679630333
Checked.

You can get a degree in anxiety? B.A I suppose.

>>679630427
And wtf do you do that's so great for a living? Professional juggler?

>>679628067
tray at less to stop smoke weed during a long periode of time to see the real impact that she had on you

I smoked weed during 4 years and it's send me to hell because weed is a psycedelic drug adn for some people it's increse their mental illiness.
You can continue to smoke occasionnaly after a long break. The break will show you your true nature about social interaction(don't forget to meditate) and if you don't restart daily you can have both

>>679630427
Ive had 3 jobs in the past year. I dont lose these jobs because im lazy, i would literally have panic attacks and vomit before walking into my workplace. I dont want people to feel sorry eaither, that wasnt the purpose of this thread. i wanted advice, because im trying to fix this. You're entitled to your own beliefs

>>679624975

anon, same boat here...

My advice: Talk to girls. Here me out...sounds counter intuitive... but it works

'dealing socially' is a consumable resource (at least for me it is), and you need to replenish your self confidence from time to time, especially if you are cooped up in the house all the time.

Go up to a random girl (or someone that you are sure to spill spaghetti all over), and just throw it away. You will fuck up, but it is okay. You have one goal and one goal only, and that is to talk to them and 'try' to get their number, and have absolutely no want nor need to talk with them ever again. That last bit is important - your only focus should be on getting that number and bouncing, you can't sweat any other thing. They are a means to your ends, they are meaningless to your life's story, and if they say no or they tell you to fuck off, then go to the next one and try again. Don't do it to try and get into their pants or anything more than to just get their number and to never call them.... it is just that simple. Learn to say: 'fuck em' and 'fuck what they think', especially if/when they tell you to fuck off - and they might.

The first few times you do this, you will fail harder than you have ever failed at anything before, but sure enough, you will get better each time you do it, don't get discouraged it gets easier. You will fail, but it will be a controlled fail, with a random qt3.14 that you will never meet again. When you get that number (and you will, most women at the end of the day are complete whores and are starved for attention), toss it.

There is nothing more nerve racking than cold calling bitches, so if you can do that there is nothing you can't do.

God speed anon!

>>679624975
smoooooookeeeee weeeeeeeeeeeed

>>679630647

lol. how fucking lazy are you that you need to use "vomitting" as an excuse.
you must be 300 lbs atleast.

stop eating EVERYTHING in your parents' house and get a job you LAZY FUCK

>>679630618
yeah im gonna try this. thanks

>>679630464
There are different meanings to the word degree. I meant the one synonymous with "type". Read a fucking book retard

>>679624975
Take a large amount of LSD in a calming and safe environment.
Reboot your brain.

>>679624975
As a professional. Not 4chan.

>>679630731
wow i really offended you. relax man it's not that big of a deal

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>>679624975
I felt the same way and I just transitioned, saved me lots of heart ache

>>679630333
That's the thing though. In practice mental disorders are only diagnosed if they significantly impair a persons ability to function in society, maintain relationships, etc. So people are woefully mistaken by claiming they have a particular disorder while doing things that completely contradict what that disorder means in a medical context (and this is the majority of people who mention it on the Internet.)

I'm not saying OP falls into this category but the majority of people do so it's likely OP does too. The truth is, normalcunts are much more vocal about their problems than the mentally ill so when someone says they're anxious or depressed, society (and normally their doctor) thinks they have a boo-boo (because that's what they're complaining about.) Consequently, misinformation is spread about what it means to have a mental illness and people who legitimately have the condition aren't treated seriously. All because of some Chad complaining about their "social anxiety" while texting from the club.

Do you see why this pisses me off?

>>679630289

>"Haha I love all that weird makeup your put on and your funny red nose! Bet you're really wild and funny and random!"
>"Haha... yeah. Lol."
>tries to say something funny and random
>cringe

>>679630868

yeah you did.

now get up and get a job. you LAZY FUCK.

>>679630877
op here. transitioned, like into what?

>>679629215
Just juggle for him and he'll be so hypnotized by your skills he'll give you whatever you want

>>679630911
fuck i guess i should

>>679630993

good girl

>>679630699
>Social anxiety
>Just go talk to girls bruh! Works for me

I'm guessing you don't know what the fuck you're talking about? Your suggestions are even less useful than juggling, bruh. At least OP would have had fun doing that.

>>679631032
you know sometimes telling hard truths can be the most important thing someone needs to hear. I do need to start working again

>>679630959
m t female duh

>>679630877
would kiss

>>679631055
cool story wasn't talking to you though shit head

>>679631102

atta girl.

>>679631055
i just juggled for like 10 minutes straight and broke a light bulb in my ceiling fan, its not worth

>>679631142
Bruh, I wasn't talking to you shit head! Cool story though bruh!

>>679631159
>tfw no qt juggling gf to juggle and fuck at night

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>>679630877

>>679630647 been there the struggle is real

alright guys im actually gonna try job hunting today, not sure if its a good idea on a Saturday but fuck it. I appreciate everyone's advice and ill definitely try some of these things (not juggling) gotta bounce though

>>679626428
Only smart person on /b/ run before you get converted to another average /b/ moron.

RUN YOU FOOL!

>>679631055
Ok as someone with social anxiety what would happen to you if you spaghettied on a stranger i.e. a hot girl? Would you die?

>>679631366
get guys
>gotta bounce
fuck im lonely, ciya faggots

>>679627875
Best post I've seen in a while. Thank you.

>>679630742
another advice dont' smoke weed before going out. Smoke when you are arrived to your destination and you have make you "place" or after the middle of the "party"

>>679626195
i can feel you on all level brother
i actually even want to talk to a psychologist but i have to go to my house doc ( is there an english word for it if you know what im taking about?) and this place is pretty full all the time and sitting in a room with more than 2-3 strangers for more than 30 minute is just unbearable for me

if you want to write (i think you can maybe feel me there ) with someone add me on skype

would maybe also help me.

>>679631811
I think I'm gonna just stay away from weed for a while. It enables me to feel ok with being a lazy fuck

>>679631823
Skype name?

>>679630959
A dude with tits

>>679626428
i really thank you for those words anon

i think todays problem is most parents dont tell you this anymore at least noone told me :(

>>679632116
Well that's a whole different issue, definitely b8

>>679631997
sorry forggot ayyyyylmao it is i think
not useing skype that much

>>679632204
I hear it's easier when you juggle

>>679624975
Hello OP, social anxiety happens with everyone on differents levels, everyone has even if they don't know it.

The key to resolve it, or any other problem, is by understanding it, how, when and why it happens. You don't fight it, you bypass it.

Like our good fellow >>679626428 said, don't believe in nasty tricks to manipulate people. But believe or not, there is such thing as "social skill". Like a muscle, you have to exercise it and keep trying until you become "good" or "normal". Do not believe that one day you will magically start having good conversations.

Discover what you like, what is important for you. 'To Socialize' normally isn't the goal, but the road to reach your objetive. EG. You want to find someplace and you ask a stranger
The best thing is that you already discovered that this lack of skill is becoming a real problem in your life and you are trying to fix it, it is halfway to get there.

One thing that is working great to overcome my depression is to put everything on paper. I have a small and very gay black notebook that I can talk to myself and try to resolve my problems. Its strange, but I write in second person ("you are... ") a lot of bad things about myself and why I am a fucking loser. And then when I read, it feel so strange and ridiculous that I feel I need to do something. Like you, the only reason that I have not killed myself its because it would destroy my family.

Some people said that you shouldn't do nothing for the others, but I am trying a different aproach. I am living because of the others. I feel that I am a "unleashed potencial" and everytime I regain some courage to try do learn and do something for the world, to help others and see that it really makes a difference, it makes more clear that the only thing that we, those "don't know why I don't kill myself" guys, can do is to try to make the others life better.

Sorry to overtalk, I was really needing to write something, it feels like someone is talking it to me.

>>679631929
yes but for afterward

>>679632352
Yeah i guess it won't be easy at first, I have to begin pushing myself out into the world no matter how stressful it is in the beginning. I know this 4chan and there are assholes in every thread but this is actually helping me, knowing that there are others experiencing the same feelings.

>>679632782

Hell yeah that isn't going to be easy, but there must be like 1 months that I don't cry alone for no fucking reason while sitting on the floor of the bathroom showering, so I think its a progress and we keep going we will overcome it with time.

>>679633211
Someday I'll beat this, I know I will that's what kills me. The way i feel everyday and the way I behave isn't normal, and I'm aware of this. I'm just stuck here right now but I just need to put myself on the right path and eventually I can fix this. I wasn't always like this. It's something that has developed over the years

OP, what's your Skype? We can talk if you want

>>679631929
Try stimulants, they get you motivated to do shit.

>>679624975
live in a forest , fuck civilization

>>679633800
tyler-garvin

>>679633953
yo, that's crossed my mind before

Ketogenic diet

>>679633953
Ayy lmao Leopard Man

>>679634136
I don't have seizures, I have anxiety

Is normal, fight it.

>>679624975
We should form a kik group where we give updates about our respective progress to keep ourselves motivated.

>>679630755
Is that a thing?

>>679634515
Sounds a little gay but I'm down

you are defenetly lifeless autistic son of a bitch

>>679626195
I know how you feel, sometimes i can be walking past a group of people, and i'll suddenly feel self conscious about the way i walk, which will cause me to tense and actually walk odd, funny really when you think about it.

>>679634934
Yeah "defenetly" the autistic one

>>679635039
Wow I do that too. If I'm walking somewhere and a car passes me I'll just feel like I'm taking weird steps

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Ugly op here

>>679624975
exposure

>>679635982
Yeah I think that's really the only way to fix it

>>679634515

worst idea ever. You all are just gonna end up playing video games and stare at your phones every five seconds.
very counter productive.

>>679636304
This is very true

>>679635785
i hope youre tolling, you are not ugly. im not gay but you are above average.

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>>679631997
did you ad me ?
please no hate only because im a meme lord

>>679636588
Kek I'm not trolling, I appreciate that though

>>679636707
Name?

>>679636707
Just added you I think

>>679627632
roll

Good luck, try physical activities, that flood your body with serotonin and other nice stuff that decrease anxiety an stress, because that is all about that, anti depressant are an effective option

>>679637449
Yeah was prescribed lexapro to increase serotonin about a month ago, hopefully it stars working :/

>>679636707
>>679632209
>>679636773
>>679637156
nothign yet
try Ayy Lmao
i really dont know how skype works gezz

>>679628963
Rolling for this

>>679638173
Alright just sent it

>>679630384
r u me?

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>>679624975
I'm about to pass some stuff around that might help you or others:
#1 If I'm at a new place , wandering around town late at night or whatever - there's a very slim chance I'll bump into the same people and even a lesser of a chance they'll recognize me. Say someone dares me to get a girls phone number - I'll never pass on it since: a) If I do get it - cool, and b) if I don't - neither she nor I will remember each other and that's if we bump into each other. People pay no attention to others - everyone's too concerned about themselves and the impressions they make.
#2 If they remember you, what difference does it make? Do you really care? "Hey! that's the guy, who approached that one girl that one time and got rejected because he.. wanted to make new friends.. and was social.. fuck"
Hope this helped :/

>>679624975
Alcohol, and focus on solitary things in life. You'll never be adequate enough. You'll come close a few times but in the end you'll be alone. Save yourself some pain, anon.

Realize u are a coward anf shame yourself oout of the behavior. Get asense of humor nd laugj at ur fuckups. What are you going to be beheaded for not beong smooth to the queen at court? So weak. Noone should help u. Die alone and or gay and have your double recessive faggot gene pass oit the popl. We staying alpha for the imminent alien invasion

>>679638604
also this will help you out pretty much in any situation
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DJ02zPLrbc0

>>679627169
Yeah. That's great for you people. What do you advise someone who has no interest in anything but sex and a good conversation?

>>679639025
Daygame

>>679638604
This did help a lot. I'm actually gonna try this. I mean even if I get a mean response who cares I'll be right in the same place I was. This could build my confidence back up. Creating steps or hurdles so that casual social moments are a breeze. Thanks anon

>>679638893
I mean, you're not wrong I guess

>>679639246
NP, just a heads up - rejections suck. At first it'll feel like getting splashed with cold water but you'll quickly learn how insignificant that is in the long run, trust me on that.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pk69Qko6_lc

>>679624975
you need to focus on finding a job and holding it. use the money to move out and save up for school. even community college. get an associates degree in something, even just a random business degree so you can be a car salesman or something and make more money. screw people, get a dog and a gym membership. You'll meet people there and feel better about yourself the harder you work.

>>679624975
How fat are you op?

>>679639728
>>679635785
That's me, not fat just meh

>>679639596
Yeah ik I need to do these things. It's just holding a job that's hard

>>679627523
Airsoft/paintball :)))

>>679627523
Lifting. Check em

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>>679635785
You're not ugly op, I would even say you're above average, no homo.

One way I kinda got over social anxiety was working out and getting in better shape. It really helped boost my self confidence. So maybe look into getting some workout equipment for cheap, or just do basic stuff in your own house (like push ups, sit ups, etc. Not really a /fit/ guy, so maybe ask them for advice) If self confidence is an issue, this will help, and I think it helps just to have a routine and follow it.

Also, if you have a friend you can tell all of this to without them judging you, try that and ask them to go out and do things with. And when you make plans, always do your best to go through, no matter how anxious you get. Good luck op, hope you can get over this. It's possible, just keep trying

>>679640484
this

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You should start with drugs, lighten upp your mind

>>679640660
Was always under the impression that I was ugly, Internet standards could be different. Thanks for the advice anon

>>679641190

you look alright. you're probably just a LAZY FUCK!

>>679641190
I always thought I was ugly too, but I'm starting to see why girls think I'm attractive. Just don't look at your flaws, look at what makes you good looking.

>>679641451
Oh for fucks sake you're still here

>>679641527

yeah. took my dogs out for a walk. go get a job you fucking bum. such a lazy fuck you are

>>679627523
drugs

>>679641714
I'm on way to get a haircut bitch. I'm going mobile, ever heard of it

>>679641830

whatever fatty. instead of making money, you are out there wasting it. get a job you mooch

>>679624975
Kill yourself not near your family. Problem solved

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>>679641961
next time you take your dogs for a walk, I'm bringing mine so she can fuck yours up

>>679628067
can confirm, stop smoking weed daily

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>>679627279
>>679627875

>missing the point completely

Damn, it must suck to have Autism.

>>679639180
What the fuck is daygame? Or even night game? You fuckin people..

>>679642140

you mean when your parents walk their dog. It isnt yours. your parents pay for its vaccination, food and housing. you are kinda like that dog by the way. mooches.

>>679642384
Honestly they're not missing the point, they're just being faggots thinking they're witty

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>>679627835
>just went recently and was prescribed lexapro. been a month and nothings really changed in my head.

That's only half of the problem. You need to see a professional counselor/psychologist and talk about your issues and get to the core root of your problems. Then you need to make significant changes in your life to address those issues. Taking antidepressants by itself and doing nothing else isn't going to automatically fix your brain by itself and give you instant social skills. You have to be ready to step out of your comfort zone.

>>679642556
Fuck out of here with your negative vibes, I'm trying to change things. You probably do the same shit that's why you're so defensive

>>679642673

lol. damn. that hit the spot didn't it? You are just a LAZY motherfucker.
fucking mooch. 20 years old and still acting like an 11 years old.
go find some work you LAZY FUCK.

learn how to yoyo

>>679642864
I think the problem is that your in the same situation but probably 30 instead of 20. You see me as an intelligent younger more attractive version of yourself. Making sure I don't follow you down your own dark path won't make you feel any better faggot

>>679643106

yeah no. problem is you are one LAZY FUCK. looking for sympathy and using "anxiety" as an excuse to not work. no wonder your parents are ashamed of you.
they know you're lazy and they are so sick of your excuses that they just go "meh" now and let you be.

>>679643328
You're so much better, antagonizing someone on 4chan on a Saturday

>>679643540

if you get offended by being called a LAZY FUCK then the problem is you and not the people calling you a LAZY FUCK. they are just being observant.
motivated people prove other people wrong. you on the other hand make excuses.

>>679643721
>observant
You know nothing about me man but you clearly have your own issues you need to work out. Just something I've observed in our lovely conversation

>>679643995

I do know that you make excuses and you are LAZY

>>679644143
I think you're starting to like me

>>679644652

wow. no wonder your family loathes you. they see you and they roll their eyes and you still think that that's okay and that they like you.

get a JOB you LAZY FUCK.

>>679645036
My job is to rid the streets of scum like you

>>679624975
Need to study Buddhism

>>679645482
Why?

>>679645259

that's cool then.

>>679624975
learn to hate people. I used to be like this then I became observant. started looking at the people I'm surrounded by and realized I hardly care for any of them. most are degenerates. I could never care for them. you have to realize you are the monster.

>>679624975
Hi OP add me too
Skype: randomfag1

>>679645823
Kek

>>679645898
Just added you