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Why am I sad? >feels
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Why am I sad?

>feels
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Maybe depression if there's no obvious reasons to be sad.
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Because of this (pic) ?
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Feels...
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>>679530298
Because you need comfort
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RScZrvTebeA
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bump for feels
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>>679530728
Nailed it. Go get comfort from family or friends. If none, find comfort in donating time to a charity, where you will make friends and find strength
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>>679530298
Because you are spending your Friday afternoon on a website full of loners.
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I'm more than exhausted of this life, /b/...
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>>679531714
:( i love this dog
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>me
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today i achieved something i worked for years
i was happy for an hour..
sad again... so sad i have noone to share my happiness with..
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>>679532431
I'm usually only two of those
feels bad man
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>>679530298
Most people are sad because they dwell on the negative.
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>>679533296
im sad bcoz im lonely
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>>679533454
No, you're sad because you dwell on the fact you're alone. I love being alone.
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>>679533296
Op here..
Why can't I stop dwelling? Not even pills are a solution
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Try creating something or helping someone.

Or opium
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>>679534377
Because in a lot of ways being sad is an addiction.

We get into that telling ourselves hurtful things in order to feel bad so we can then feel sorry for ourselves.

The way I got out of it was I found a career to pursue. I set myself a goal and worked hard towards it. Eventually the addiction just went away to the point where I started to get more positive and actually wanted to be nothing but positive. Now I'm pretty good at ignoring the negative stuff that comes into my head.
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>>679532431
Or maybe they work a night shift
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>Today is my birthday
>Nobody remembers as usual, don't care
>Check my phone
>Message from a forgotten friend
>Hey, happy birthday
>Have a good time
>Wish you the best
>I forgot him
>He didn't forgot me
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>>679534973
happy birthday
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>>679534973
Happy birthday anon
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>>679534973
Happy birthday, anon.
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In today's world there is a lot of pressure to be social, to socialize, and to have a lot of friends.
Feeling lonely is just stupid tbh. Once you accept that being alone is perfectly fine you'll become happy and free.
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>>679534973
I got your birthday present right here anon:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L_jWHffIx5E
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also people crave for attention thinking it will help them, well it doesn't. It makes things worse. You're making things bigger then they actually are.
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>>679535393
Not really.

As humans we need social interaction to function. If we stay inside all the time never seeing another face we go mad.
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>>679535393
its not that easy to accept for some people
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>>679534973
Happy birthday anon.
Hey, at least yours isn't as shit as mine was last year.
>Le Royal Wedding.
>All the family care about some stupid royals being wedded than my birthday
>Spent my birthday all alone in my room listening to depressing vocaloid songs like some tryhard-weeb
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>>679535393
I agree that it's fine being alone but it's impossible to keep up forever. We evolved as a social species, we go insane in isolation. I've been on my own for the last 2 years and I'm sick of it. I can't stand it any more.
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>>679535894
Seriously though fuck the royals. Everyone cares about some rich cunts whose ancestors had power for no reason other than their meaningless titles.

You may be a try-hard weeb anon, but at least you aren't a twat.
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>>679535760
I'm not saying you need to stay inside and completely shut yourself off from the entire world..
Just be happy with what you have, be yourself, don't give to much fucks.
Besides, most people tend to have some sort of image in their head in which situation they would be happy, whether it be with a girlfriend, or just with people which love them. This by itself creates negativity. Focus on the things you've already got, in a positive way.
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>>679536274
Couldn't agree more anon.

Appreciate the compliment by the way.
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>>679536138
go find a job, do a team sport, force yourself to do something. Its good for you
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i got a few feels
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>depressed because I'm alone
>can't meet a girl because I'm too depressed
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>>679536376
>Just be happy with what you have
Society wants you to literally be near-enough perfect. It's almost as if they'd rather have androids do all of our work because they're "more efficient" due to not needing to be "paid", only being repaired.
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>>679536439
np bro
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>>679535783
I know, it took me like 10 years of loneliness (though this is a personal view)
I was so focused on being lonely and thinking I didn't have anyone that I got stuck in it. I even got anti-depressive meds, but that just made things worse in the end.
I accepted that the IDEAL image in my head was just a dream and I would never be able to obtain that. People which are lonely think that BEING LOVED solves everything. Well let me tell you; it fucking doesn't. Its not just about having friends or being loved.
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>>679536978
Being loved would probably help though
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>>679536744
Its still your own choice to do as you please.
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>>679535894
Op here again..
Sorry for 1-upping you :(

>2 birthdays ago
>second year of college
>turning 21, yippee I can drink
>girlfriend dumps me at 6 in the morning
>couple hours pass, learn I got kicked out of track and field, the only thing that really made the suffering better was running
>went to my apartment
>friends in apartment did not care I was curled up in my bed crying
>only things I did for 3 weeks was sleep in bed, cry in bed, eat, sleep.
>I was kicked out of the apartment for losing my job from never showing up
>I'm so lonely right now
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>>679537362
Is it? Is it really?
Society has smashed what it wants into our brains; hell even into our consciences. It takes a heck of a lot to break that will, unless you know, shit background and such where nobody really gave a fuck about you. For those "more fortunate", you get this idea of "right and wrong".
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>>679530298
Do wheelies to forget your feelies
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can I have a hug, please?
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>>679537539
Shit man, that's rough.
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>>679537539
Damn you had a rough time. Hope everything goes well anon.
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>>679537627
In a way I don't believe in right or wrong in the first place.
It doesn't matter what society tries to force upon us, unless they lock you down in a box where you literally have no choice.
If I wanted to kill someone tomorrow, I could. Its like that with everything. We just have to face the consequences for our actions.
>>679538036
heres a big virtual hug for you pal
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>>679538036
I'll give you a hug, anon.
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>>679537539
-/b/rother hug-
Sameanon here. Not really 1-upping me man; just telling me your experiences. I guess mine isn't as bad but.. I suppose I could relate a little.

>2 years ago
>with girlfriend, happiest guy ever.
>Went everywhere together, everyone thought we were like perfect for each other.
>She lived down south, I live up north, kinda a bitch to see her but still made the effort of around £50 to see her every time.
>One time I see her phone
>"Oh anon! I'm.. going to NCS!"
>"Nice" says me

>Turns out, she'd met a guy down South who went to NCS, kissed him and then proceeded to dump me, then got with him on my birthday (All on the same day)

>This shit really got to me.
>Started making really dark poetry that can even surpass corpse party gore.
>Almost got kicked out of college because of these gore-poems.
>Parents say that "they have no son" anymore after reading poetry
>Then two months later, grandfather dies.

>Now currently failing all my exams, parents couldn't care less anymore, and just generally couldn't care if I dropped dead whilst replying to you.
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Anyone who fixates on the bad things in life continuously is doomed to be sad forever
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>>679538036
physicaly holding my arms out right now

<3
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>>679532431
Jesus fuck...
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>>679533783
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>>679538036
>MMXVI
>Doesn't have a body pillow to hug at all times
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>>679532431
The truth
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>>679532431
or just bored and want to help other sad anons because social works background
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>>679538938
this
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>>679538938
good one.saved it. thanks anon
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>>679538789
What are you? Fucking gay?
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>>679538534
Same again. I'm so sorry about that man :( one thing that helped with grades for me was to set a routine. Before I dropped out of course. But my grades were fairly high at that point. I'd hate every second of studying, but there can be times where it would be fun too
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even though it sounds mean as fuck, I feel much better after reading shit of people having a worse life then me.
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>>679530298
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>>679532431
Or studying for an exam they will never pass
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>>679537831
holy fuck.
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Could we get some feel music going?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBumgq5yVrA
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>>679539370
Yea my life isn't bad at all but I enjoy being here to feel with people since I have almost always been alone
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>>679534857
It's the step in between that I (and many others apparently) can't do. I don't have the mental strenght to do anything because I'm devastated inside. How do you break this loop?
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>>679535165
>>679535188
>>679535242
>>679535507
>>679535894
Oh thanks, much appreciated
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>>679538288
old but true
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>>679539563
https://youtu.be/SLJllk-0o6c
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>>679531714
Fishbro <\3
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>worked out with dad today
>we trained arms and did curls with supersets of other curls
>we went to his job because he had to refill some robot station with materials
>he warmed up the job sauna
>we sit there and sweat with one cold beer each

then i went home, it was a pretty good friday evening.
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>be 19 y/o nerd, never had a gf, never had sex, lonely daily, think of suicide
>meet girl online roughly 120km away from me
>after a year she tells me she loves me
>feel loved, was never this happy.
>feel the most sad I have ever felt before because she had a boyfriend and didn't want to break up.
>After a year she breaks up with him, we can finally meet.
>start a relationship 1 month later. (a bit forced by me)
>she starts being annoyed by me 99% of the time, but don't know why.
>still love her
>she breaks up after 3 months
>when shes leaving by train stick my hand between the doors, crying.. shes gone
>get a call 3 months later; she says shes pregnant
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>>679539563
This is probably the most comfy, atmospheric music you'll ever hear

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F9L4q-0Pi4E
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>>679532431
Nah I just don't feel like sleeping.
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>>679534973
Happy birthday, may the harvest be bountiful
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>>679540179
>tell her I don't know what to say..
>tell her that I'll be there for her, and want to keep it (I was still in love with her)
>shes laughing on the phone
>saying shes with friends at mc donalds right now on speaker phone
>telling me shes going to abort that "tumor"
>friends laughing
>get depressed, go to doctor
>get anti depressive meds
>never speak to her again
>start thinking all girls are crazy (no joke)
>developed huge fear of commitment
>feel like I'll be alone forever
>suicide
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>>679540179
Kinda know the feel.
>be me 18 year old kissless beta virgin
>7/10
>finally get a grill
>8.5/10
>she ends up ditching me for some other guy after making me the most happy i have ever been in my entire life
>never felt so bad before
>skipped school for about a week
(where i live skipping school is really fucking serious)
>go back to school very slowly pick up pace of lonely life again
>still am sleepless up untill this day and it was 2 years ago
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Which one do you think is worse
>being lonely
Or
>being in a relationship with someone you once loved, but now am slowly drifting away.
>someone who loved to be with you, to laugh, smile and cuddle.
>now just like everything is fading away.
>she won't talk all that much
>now makes you feel awkward whenever you try to do anything
I can't fucking take this.
I couldn't even believe she choose me in the beginning
And I also realize that no one else would ever want me
Why?
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>>679540901
oh shit man. you shouldn't tbh like she was a bitch and she shouldn't make you feel like you are right now. hang in there buddy
>>679540917
I am this guy with the wolf
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>>679540917
I'm pretty much done with girls man, I completely closed all doors after all the shit that has happened
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>>679540901
holy shit dude what a bitch
but you're better than her anon, if she can get through this so easily then you can too
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>>679540788
Holy shit feel overload
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>>679540901
fuck dude..
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>>679541330
>>679541640
thx guys, this has happened like 2 years ago.. I must say I'm doing quite fine for now, but I just don't want to be in any kind of relationship anymore.
the best of luck to 'yall
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>>679541535
problem is finding the right one. some are the most loyal girls and the best a man could ever get. some are just complete whores like your ex. i wish you the best of luck in your conquest of love anon
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>>679540901
that ain't no human m8, that girl is a demon. fuck that shit
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So I'm 19, a kissless virgin and kind of antisocial. Still I had some hope that I'll find myself a girl. Today I lost it. I was hoping a girl I liked and who also had interest in me would return to town after passing her semester and we will spend the summer together. Wrong, her semester ends in mid August and my next one begins at the beginning of September. Oh well at least there's this cute girl from my uni, she is cool maybe I have a chance with her. Wrong, she has a bf. I know I'll never be in a relationship, let alone have a family of my own. This makes me lose my motivation and I can't study or work properly.
> inb4 do it for yourself
I'm actually quite low maintenance, I don't eat much and my hobbies only require electricity and Internet. I could maintain my life situation without having a good payed job and education, what's the point.
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>>679541535
There is hope on the horizon anon. You got a gf before and so keep doing so untill you fight the right one.

<3
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this is true friendship...
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>>679542053
aww you're so kind
Secretly I hope to still find love at some point in life
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>>679534973
>He was there when no one else was
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>>679539563
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p943gvkLEkU
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>>679542206
My life so far is very relatable anon. (just a year younger) thought there was this girl who liked me and who i liked a LOT. Asked her if she liked me and she refused me. This happened twice. I was honestly quite happy I got that off my chest and now I have a clear vision of who might like me without them in the way. Hang in there anon
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Feeling quite ok after months being down and depressed. Maybe this is anons.. As long as ill keep this hobby up Im happy. At least i know what to do during the day except shitpost and sleep.
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>>679542328
man, I love you guys, even though I don't really know any of you <3
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>>679531714

Damn it man what the fuck that really got to me for some reason
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>>679542654
I hope to do so aswell one day.

<3
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Is it selfish to repost your story? I catch most of these threads but i don't know the etiquette
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I love everyone here
nohomo (or am I)
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I don't have any issues talking to girls, getting phone numbers, or going on dates, but after the first or second date everything always goes to shit. They break it off without fail. I have no idea why. It's made me question whether my personality is likeable or not.
I've gone on two dates with a girl now and I keep trying to get a third but she seems hesitant. I'm worried the same thing is going to happen.
I can't imagine myself ever being romantically involved with a girl again.
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Very sad and relatable song.

https://youtu.be/1hxonfpfuTY
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>>679543297
No man this is a feels thread. Post anything feel related.
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9d8SzG4FPyM
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Can we get more like >pic related
No words, just feels
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>>679543358
you got more of those pics? I find them very soothing for some reason
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>>679543834
ehh you mean cuddly guyXguy?
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>>679530827
>stay up til 4am on /b/
>sleep in til 2pm can't get out of bed
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>>679543993
I guess.. though it feels weird asking since I'm not even gay
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I'm gonna get some sleep. I hope all of you have a great day or night.

<3
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>>679543704
are gifs cheating
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>>679544177
can't deny lucky 7's
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>>679544275
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I tend to over-romanticize things and create 'perfect' scenarios in my head
then when things don't go that way in real life, I get real depressed
How do I stop doing this
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>>679544365
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>>679532431
Real shit
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I don't have that many though.. and I don't wanna post all these in a feel thread
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>>679544387
i feel you man
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>>679544491
thats alright, I'll just google around
thx anon <3
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>21 yr old kissless virgin, drifting on omegle
>meet qt asian girl, lives in another country
>she falls in love
>waited this long for a girlfriend and can't even hold her hand
>depression
>fail classes
>fuck this gay earth
>can't afford plane ticket until I get a job & my shit together
>can't suicide because of the pain it would cause her
can't wake up
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>>679544491
actually I find these soothing as well, because I don't picture myself even getting a girlfriend getting a hug from a bro seems much more practical. In a non gay way.
Its strange how a hug can cause so many emotions, even if not intended.
I fucking love hugs
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>>679545197
not that I ever get one QQ
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>>679530298
I did it last night (actually 2 this morning). I cried. I had a good, strong cry. I hadn't cried like that in years. It was painful, gut-wrenching...I felt physically weak and was in the fetal position in my bed while quietly wailing to myself. I cried about everything that had gone wrong in my life from about 2008 up until now. Even later on (earlier today), I nearly cried just thinking about it. I feel so brittle...if I even talk to someone else, I may just break down right then and there.

I should stay in my dorm tonight. I took a lot of caffeine in order to work out today (caffeine pill + red bull), but I still had a hard time calling my mom.
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>>679536668
I swear I cried on this one
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>>679536668
shit man
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>>679545280
heres a hugg m8
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Few days ago I was out with some people, socializing because sometimes I do that. Met a girl. Shared common interests, like Doctor Who and vidya
She called me subhuman because I have no feelings
And then she made me a sandwich w/o butter

I have no fuckin idea what is going on in my social life, and I got to talk to people everyday for at least 4 more years. This makes me uncomfortable as fuck.
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>>679530298
Because tits
http://1312484.igenapps.com/go-figure#0
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>>679534973
Hey, what a coincidence, my best friend has his birthday today as well. Happy birthday, anon. I hope you get all you wish for.
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>>679545305
Yeah I cried like that on the 30 of December last year when everyone I invited over for new years eve suddenly had something to do and all my preparations were gonna be for nothing. I just layed in my bed and realized I don't mean jackshit to anyone. Surprisingly 2 of my friends actually decided to come and we ended up just browsing /b/, watching samurai jack and eating pizza.
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>You will never do anything with your life that makes you as proud and happy as the employees in this video

https://youtu.be/ANv5UfZsvZQ?t=1m54s
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>>679534973
Happy birthday anon
I swear that if you live in milan I'd grab a cab to say it in person
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>>679545993
>ended up just browsing /b/, watching samurai jack and eating pizza

sounds like a pretty cool night
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>>679530945
Sauce on that anime?
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>>679536668
Omg someone saved my post. Thank you so much im crying right now.
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>>679546308
I feel you
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>>679545993
>I don't mean jackshit to anyone
That was part of my cry-session, too. I had been thinking about it for a while, but it hit me like a bag of bricks while I was crying last night/this morning. Seriously, I hadn't felt so powerless and helpless in years. I was very much like a baby having an existential crisis.

I can't wait for the day my so-called 'family' tries cornering me and asking why I don't bother keeping in contact with them (while they themselves don't even have the courtesy to see how I'm doing in life).
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>>679530945
Yes man sauce
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>>679530298
I will tell you how to solve all your problems

Face your fears and actually let yourself be sad

Whatever is telling you terrible things will happen, like you'll be consumed by the abyss or whatever, those ideas are your worst enemy. It's all lies

Dealing with your emotions and actually experiencing them is your only salvation. You will be surprised what you can make it through, but it will only happen if you have the guts to face it
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you guys seriously need some science in your lives.
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>>679543505
>be me
>be 10
>athletic, outgoing, plenty of friends
>at buddy's place up the street
>dive into his dinky little backyard pool
>can't move
>parents warned me about this
>get rushed to a level 1 trauma center
>but I'm so sleepy, can't i just rest?
>turns out I shattered my c4-5 vertebrae
>spend the next 4 months moving from hospital to hospital
>fastforward to now
>18
>still crippled
>fat, introverted, no friends, no life, no skills, kissless virgin
>no job, sit in bed all day doing nothing, burden on my entire family
>they say that I shouldn't worry, they love me
>can't help but feel that i'm ruin their lives and they hate me
>nothing interests me anymore
>everyone around me is better at everything than i am
>can't get better at anything no matter how much i practice
>my life has been over for 8 years
>think about killing myself every day
>if not for me, then for my family

The thing i hate the most is that i never had a childhood. I want to write more but i dont even know what else to say. My life could've been great. It was great. Taken in a split second because of a stupid, stupid fucking mistake.
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>>679536668
>>679546308
I just wanted to say thank you 4chan. People may think everyone here is an edgy asshole but you guys have given me more comfort than anyone else in a long time.
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>>679536138
That is unless you have Schizoid Personality Disorder
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I need to cry tonight /b/ I haven't in months. Can someone actually make me feel please? I want to feel something
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Anyone want to help me out? I guess I know what I have to do, but I don't know why I can't do something that I have done quite a few times in the past.
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>>679547016
Ever thought of learning how to program/stay anything that doesn't require body skills?
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>>679547324
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>>679547370
What is it anon?
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My mom died in my arms today.
I heard her take her last breath.
I cried and yelled to the 911 operator to help me but it was done.
My 9yo sister was in the other room crying hysterically.
The doctor at the hospital said it was a heart attack.

What did you fags do today?
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>>679547324
>be you
>lie down on bed in dark room
>put on some sad music
>think about every decision you've ever made
>think about how you could have done things better/differently
>realize that future is bleak, dim, and unsure
>have no one to really talk to about any of your problems other than /b/
>tell yourself, "it's okay...go ahead."
>let go
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>>679547433
Didn't make me cry but thanks for trying, I love dogs and I have a little puppy of my own. She's currently the only thing stopping me from offing myself
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https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Q4HVY5-yqKU
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>>679547643
This is literally what I'm doing right now, I just have my puppy lying on me asleep though.
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>>679547584
Wow only pic in thread that made me shed a tear. Just one though.
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>>679538374
Delicious feels Anon
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>>679530678
what movie is that picture from?
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>>679540157
Finally, some good feels. Why do we necessarily have to post sad feels all the time?
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>>679547508
There's a girl I have feelings for. Her bestfriend is a good friend of mine, and we talk frenquently. We would have a small chat at school (we're in the same class) for 2 weeks,and one day she told me that she wanted to say something to me but she ended up saying something non-sense, and I was then sure that something was going on. Unfortunately after departing for a 3-day trip, during which I was hoping that something would happen, and I pursued that something to happen with no success, due to fuck-ups by external factos (i.e. a random fucking moron) she would stop talking to me in school/complete ignore me, for no reason.
Anyway, this afternoon I went to buy something to eat, and I passed from the building that (apparently) she does some gymnastics. I didn't notice her, but as I was about to cross the street, she came out to wave me. I don't know what going on really. I had my experiences, I look after my self, often more than neccessary, but I still hesitate to ask her out, because if she refuses, shit is going to be really akward between us for the next 2 years.
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>>679547643
>My best friend complained about how "I was using her as a therapist".
>Here I am on /b, feels thread, alone in a dark room, listening to depressing vocaloid songs.

>Give me reasons to live, /b.
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>>679548615
You're on fucking /b/. Sadness is probably the only thing we can still feel.
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You know, i used to be like you, i gradually started to be happy, I'm ok being alone, I'm ok being a 20 yo virgin with no gf, I'm ok with my life, it just happened, the only sad thing is that i try to give this happiness to sad people, but i have no idea how, i try to explain them my philosophy, i was suicidal too but now I'm just ok with my life, I wish i could really help you guys, but i am the living proof that you, yes you can be happy by yourself, you need no one.
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>>679548816
>You know, i used to be like you
Anon did you take a feels to the knee.
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>>679548693
There is none. Death is delivrance
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>>679547016
Fuck dude.. Why I'm not dead yet ?
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https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=GHBXIldhTDk
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>>679548816
The complete opposide happened to me. i was actually seeking loneliness, but then at the age of 25 i suddenly started feeling lonely af. Wat do?
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>>679548816
>you need no one
that's what i keep telling myself
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>>679546188
Dubs don't lie.
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>>679548931
Well shit.

>Trips decide how I kill myself.
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>>679530298
Depression, particularly in men is usually due to a repression of anger. From a young age we are told that anger and its reactions are inappropriate so we internalize them and this repression slowly becomes depression.
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>>679548970
Well, i just don't think about it, when i feel lonely i somewhat manage to "delete" the feel and going on with my day, i know it's hard, finding something to distract yourself can help. You just need to realize that all those feelings are some chemical shit on your brain and you never asked for it.
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>>679547016
Keep living, man. As long as you're still alive you can get better. Gradually, maybe slowly, but you will get better. Keep going.
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>>679549695
>logic
THE PATRIARCHY!
dude shush with yo bs logic.
>obligatory spaceman
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>>679549858
Spaceman is love
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>>679547589
Felt like a loser who can't do shit, whether we're talking video games, or academics. My condolences, anon. You're the first person who asked me how my day went, for a while now.
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I need some help and outside opinions

I'm not really a loner but I don't have a huge social circle.

I sit with the same group of people everyday for lunch at school. we talk there and in the halls and stuff. But other than that I feel like they're not my friends at all. I don't get invited to go hang out with the or to go to places. I'm not ugly but I'm definitely not a 10. My humor is offensive and dark but people still laugh at. As far as my personality goes, It's alright.

I'm not sure what it is but I also don't like being around people. I like being around nature (as corny as it sounds). I like being by myself. When I tell people most just say that it's not that true and you just like to be alone sometimes. But I like being alone a lot. I keep my "friends" at arm's length. For the first time in my life I'm doubting if My friends are real or not.


I should also add that I do have anxiety disorder so It could be that fucking with me and making me paranoid
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Hey /b/ i met a girl recently through a friend that moved away. we speak online alot and she is amazing. We connect on every level, but she is depressed. when we video skype she laughs and seems happy but once the camera is off and we are texting all she talks about is how she wants to die. She just got out of a rough abusive relationship and it seems like nothing i tell her matters. She dosn't trust me and hates her therapy. I honestly don't know what to do anymore. any advice /b/?
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>>679549833
>Disagree, most likely they aren't. if you have mental illness like schizophrenia probably it's true, but more often than not it's a psychological problem. Shit that happened to you, that forced the brain to act in a specific (harmful) way. Distractions don't help because as soon as I stop doing the distraction I feel like shit as always. I can't be "distracted" 24/7.
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>>679550208
I can't tell you whether or not they're pretending, i will just tell you, find something that wont.
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>>679534973
happy /b/ day anon
:) take it from me my birthday was in jan. no really cares about me, mostly i play agario or watch cringe utubers [i know im a faggot but meh...]my own family cares about my sis more
daily im told that i am alone and that no one will ever love me and its true ...i think ,i want to help a sad anon like you at least you had a friend that txted you most of my ''friends '' hate me even though they dont say it ...sorrybi gotta go get a tissue im tearing up lol but hope u get a cake and a big one too:)
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>>679550294
Why the hell did I grentext? Cause I'm drunk, that's why.
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>>679549467
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>>679550208
You should accept that you are an introvert but you should not be afraid of being sincere, vulnerable, and intimate with people. Freinds are people you can be intimate and personal with. It doesnt sound like you have that sort of connections with those people.
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>>679550264
Sometimes as much as you want to, you cant fix a person. If she reaches out, help where you can but dont go putting your own happiness on the line for her.
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>>679533296
most people are sad because there is little to nothing to be positive about
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>>679538374
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>>679548777
Hey, whatever keeps us alive, whether that is pain or joy. Maybe, just maybe, one day we'll feel happiness as well. Maybe not. I'll be waiting for the day that we can feel happiness.
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>>679534973
fuck go hang out with him
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>>679548634
How much do you like that girl?
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>>679550449
thanks guys
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>>679530543
Well, I'm not overeating. So I guess that's something, right?
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>>679551111
Quads of mystic truth NEVER lie
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>one day we'll feel happiness as well
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>>679551111
>Quads followed by dubs
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>>679550526
Fair point.

Fuck it then, might as well do what I've wanted to do in a long time.
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>>679550958
Well yea. I think happiness is a choice tho. We can choose to be unhappy with life cause..it does suck. Or we can choose to not give a fuck and live the rest of our meager lives in active rebellion against our suffering. It takes energy but its worth it.
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>>679548777
Trips is wise
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But i love her anon. ive never felt this way about a person but we connect on every level she is smart good at games, and enjoys the same songs as me. i want her to be happy but she dosnt believe me when i tell her i love her she just shrugs it off as "i've heard that before"
i want help from /b/ to help me make her happy.
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>>679551511
you have a problem, you are trying to be happy by making someone happy and that dude, that doesn't work, didn't work and will not work
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>>679551511
You can either DEMONSTRATE it or do a tactical retreat before you lose your head
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>>679551511
Im telling you, dont look for happiness or salvation in another person. Do try and help her but keep a reasonable distance and work on yourself
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>>679551327
>>679551367
i guess today wasnt so bad, i got quads. quads makes everything better
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But i feel if i back off she will kill herself because people close to her have backed off and even cut her out of their lives, if i could back out without worrying about her death i would.
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>>679534973
Happy birthday anon
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>>679551511
Forget about mine >>679551780 listen to him >>679551758 I tried to be someone else for 6 yeras and maybe still trying for that girl that never gave me anything but desperation
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>>679552005
its not your problem man. dont make it your problem.
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>>679547759
thats awful,, thats the worst thing is seen on here,, you see all the awful shit but you never see how it effects everybody around them..
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This song gets me every time.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hu0xlyLwK7Q
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>get rejected by Target after two interviews
>the job I was applying for was as a minimum wage cart pusher

I'm almost 20 and have never had a job. All I want is a job.
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>>679552282
Keep trying and watch one punch man
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>>679548453
Oldboy
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>>679552005
I have been in situation and it nearly took me apart trying to help my girl. Be there for her when she needs it but don't coddle her.
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>>679551377
happiness is not a choice, you cant force yourself to be happy but i guess i get what your saying you can put yourself in situations where your more likey to become happy. or we can just drink ourselves in blissful stupidity like i do
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>>679552282
staff agency, its a gurantee job and you will usually start in a week after applying
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