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ay bro just went through the same thing like two weeks ago. Idk what your situation is but what helps me is to look back at our texts and remember what a cunt she is and then i dont feel so bad.

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>>678911911
Well I have pretty bad trust issues and she was getting really mad about it. Like I have a reason to have trust issues and I look back at my texts and all it is, is me trying to fix it and her ignoring me

>>678911625

> reddit tier thread

I have been really good friends with this girl for about a year ago, and things got a lot closer a few months ago and even further in the last few weeks.

First of all, we grabbed a burger together about a fortnight ago. Then, at a party on saturday, she went around hugging people (she often does), but when it came to me she kissed me on the neck. Later on, when she went home, she kissed me on the cheek and hugged me.

However, at the party, she didnt really talk to me all that much. However, i noticed she was staring daggers at me when I was talking to this other girl. She also said that she doesnt want a boyfriend. My instinct is telling me to ask her out desu.

Trouble is, I am so fucked from what has happened to me before I cant tell. Help me /b/ros.

>>678911625
Yo anon it's all gonna be alright, ok.

Gf broke up w me more than a year ago. Still kinda have feels now and again. But it's all gonna pass.

What happened anyways?

How do I get her back /b/, her sister says she wants me back but she keeps pushing me away. What do I do?

>>678912247
Help you with what? You wanna gf her up? Well too fucking bad.

>>678912542
Plot with her sister then. She seems to be on your side.

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>>678912478
I honestly don't know. I have pretty bad trust issues and I thought everything was going good but then one day she comes out saying "We have to talk less, I need to focus on other things". So I'm like yeh, thats cool. But she was just talking to other guys so I asked why and she got mad at me. Ever since she's just been mad at me for no reason and last night she just said "I can't do this" So yeh. But she still wants to be friends for some reason

>>678912671
I just cant tell if she wants me or not. I mean, i know she likes me, but im always second guessing myself

>>678912754
She is, but I don't even know if I can do anything at this point

dont die

>>678912778
Almost exactly what I went through. Told me she can't do this anymore, she need to "find herself", she needed to be alone for now, and that she really still wants to be friends. So, ok fine, we broke up. But I was faggot af so I still look for her, we still kiss and shit but we're not in a relationship (wtf idk). Then, I left town. She still texts me like every month saying "hi how are you" shit like that. Then late last year, texts stopped. Found out she had a new bf in Jan.

Man shit was tough. I fuckin gave it my all but now lookin back, that was pretty fuckin stupid. But whatever, she ain't good enough to be in my future, just my past. So I let her be. fuck it. But I know what you're going through, seems the same as what I went through. So there's that.

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A priest giving a soldier last rights. I will keep finding depressing stuff as long as i can

>>678912867
She told you she ain't want no bf, no?

It has been almost a year since my fiance and I broke up. Every single day I think about it even though I would give everything to just forget and let go but she was the only source of happiness I had. It is really amazing how just one act can completely shatter someones soul.

>>678912895
Whatever you do, don't push it. Don't wanna come off as desperate.

>>678912542
Cowboy up, take her panties off, and go find something fucking productive to do.

The number one way to see exactly what is left of a relationship is to preoccupy yourself and stop being a pathetic air-horn huffing excuse of a worthless twatwaffle. Go do something, build something, or learn to run long distances.

Women, if you have their interest, will begin wondering exactly what you're up to. They just fucking have to know because they're all fucking insane like that. If you have the slightest shot, she's gotta realize for herself that she wants your company. Then, and only then, will she come crawling back.

If you have actual testicles, and I mean real stones, you'll look at this activity and realize there are thousands of worthless cunts to replace this pathetic one who tried to walk tall and insist she didn't need you...and you'll put her in her place.

But....you're a bitch, and likely won't be able to walk away long enough for her to wonder about you. An hero OP. It'll be easier.

>>678913613
Yes, but I am not convinced. She treats me differently when we are alone than in a group, and she said that in a group chat.

Also, why would she show affection like that if she didnt like me?

Op is a fucking faggot

Ciggarettes and alcohol are the only things that make me happy anymore /b/ros, why's it so hard to be genuinely happy?

>>678913662
It's okay, anon. Just let yourself grieve. With time, it heals. Trust me I know. Doesn't go away completely, but it gets better. You just won't get much affected by it anymore.

>>678911625
>having something to prove

>>678912778
I'm feeling for you anon, breaking up is a shitty thing. From the sounds of it though she just wasn't the right girl for you, no matter how much you liked her. No decent partner would ever say "we have to talk less". The way I see it, you're out of an imminently toxic relationship. Stay strong /b/ro.

>>678913915
Well, test the waters, then. Next time she kisses you, kiss her back. Fuckin make jokes about how you'd prefer it to be on your lips or something. just fuckin man up and try things man.

>>678912778

"I can't do this."

Be like, "Okay, have a good life. :)"
Then don't text her again. If she gives you more attention, still ignore her, but this just means you won in the end.

>>678914161
>imminently toxic relationship
Can confirm from experience.

>>678914002
I got fucking betrayed so hard, she fucking moved out saying she wanted to be near her family more when they were 60 miles away a month and half later we broke up then one month after that she is in Missouri living with my best friend. I got cucked. Worse thing is I still love her. I fucking hate that.

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>>678912124
yea man thats the same situation i as in i did not trust that girl with anything because I know what can happen, just playing the devils advocate. Eventually We just got sick of eachother and she was the first to bring it up so i thought, "you know what, if this whore doesnt want to do this then I dont" and that was that. you just gotta realize that it wasnt meant to be mang

>>678913509
I want to leave her behind, but I can't. She was my first real love I guess. It just hurts too much to even consider it. Like her family is more a family to me then my real one was. I honestly can't deal with it anymore.

>>678913765
What should I do then?

>>678913829
So pretty much find something to do and ignore her until she wants to talk to me?

>>678911625
>tfw just messaged ex saying I miss 'it'
>tfw she replied being oblivious
Why am I even bothering to post on here, not like anyone'll read.

It sounds like you have some personal problems that you need to work out on your own. No matter what she can't take those negative thoughts out of your head. You have to be comfortable being alone, being comfortable with yourself. I have trust issues too, so I kind of know what your talking about.but if you want to keep this girl you better stop that shit, stop worrying so much, have fun!

>>678914405
Sad as it may seem, I think almost all of us will go through that "I still love her" shit at least once in our life. And as shit as it may sound, we just gotta plough through it.

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Are you ready /b/ros?

>>678914161
As much as I don't want that to be true, I guess I can understand that.

>>678914344
I tried that, she kept saying "Don't go, I can't deal with you leaving forever"

>>678914410
I mean it wasn't just with her, I have trust issues in general. When I was like 6 years old my Pa tried to steal me and he locked me in his car, ever since then I just cannot trust people. But after finding out she was talking to those guys I guess it just hurt me alot. Sorry about what happened to you though man

>>678914223
Well, I said I wouldnt mind seeing her les out and that didnt put her off. It feels like any day now

>>678914727
What'd she respond with?

>>678911625
That sucks anon,

Just today i found out the girl ive been wanting to date is low key dating my best friend. Im not mad at him or anything just sad i couldnt have gotten her

PROTIP

Bitches ain't shit, anons. From today on, live for thyself.

Here's a vid to help:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k7X7sZzSXYs

>>678915263
She doesn't understand what I mean with that
>inb4 it's you
It better not be you-I know my ex used to lurk here, dunno if it's still the case

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>>678915371
Ah man, I'm sorry.

>>678915575
Nah, I'm a dude. Did you tell her what you meant?

>>678914265
I first saw this years ago in the 6th grade, I think. It was in an English textbook; whether it was mine or not I can no longer remember. What I can remember is being so haunted that I stared into his eyes for long time. I didn't realize that for most of that time I had been crying. My brother had just attempted suicide and I saw the same look in my father's eyes. Even to this day, many years later, I have not forgotten that moment; I have not forgotten this image.
I doubt I ever will.

>>678915883
Shit man im sorry

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>>678915880
I just said I miss it. I implied both her and the relationship. I thought I made it clear, maybe it wasn't that clear.
Fuck, mang.
I read and didn't reply, don't know what to say.

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>>678916349
Damn man, I'm really sorry. Maybe try to reiterate what you said? Like tell her what exactly you miss?

>>678916866
Been almost two years
Doubt she cares mang-we've only exchanged a couple messages in that time period as I was blocked most of the time.

>>678913829

1) Yes - lack of contact with her will cause her to wonder why. Ever wonder why bitches randomly contact you on a Thursday? Because they don't know what you're doing. They can't deal with the idea of not knowing. I can't say I get it either. There's no justification for it...it just "is"

2) Taking the attitude off of this - Relationships, at their core, are trust. Plain and simple. You trust the other person you're engaging top refrain from wronging, hurting, and soaking the genitals of another individual.... physically, emotionally, or otherwise. You admitted to having a trust issue. If you can't trust her to go out and do her own thing, on her own time, with her own people, and be around some dude she had a thing for back in the day.... you don't have trust. If you don't have trust, you don't have a relationship. It's simple. Any meandering and "but what if...." statements are simple justification to adhere to an ideal you hold or the idea of the person you're seeing - NOT the person as she is. You didn't have a relationship - you had a physical manifestation of a happy thought.

Let her go. Occupy yourself. If she comes back? You have a decision to make. If not? You're fucking doing something else and have better things to tend to.....like building physical skill sets to build emotional self confidence.

2) Taking off the

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>>678917244
Why would she block you? Maybe as hard as it is you have to let her go, she isn't giving you the time of day. I mean my gf has turned around like 4 times in the past day, wanting me then not wanting me. I'm honestly so confused

>>678912247
Just fuck her you faggot

>>678916953
>tears have been shed

>>678917567
I'm not him, but I know how this feels. I broke up with my last GF because I couldn't handle the expectations she had - I was barely out of high school, she was still in it, and she wanted to get married and have kids within the year. I couldn't stomach it but I'd made stupid promises, so I just sort of ran away. She used to text me periodically, but I haven't responded since I hung up after breaking up with her, because I doubt I could stop myself from going back to her. Now she's in another relationship (with an extremely creepy friend zoned dude who I could tell had a creepy fedora crush on her when we dated), and I don't know if I should text her so she knows I'm not mad at her (a friend of hers told me she thought I hated her) or just move on and let her forget about me.

>>678916349
Gotta man up bro. I'm going through the same shit right now. Girl said she needed space to find herself. Tried giving it to her. She was still in my life though and we'd hang out, get dinner, fuck, etc. Shit started getting sketchy when I found out she was seeing some other dude. After being a bitch for about a week, I told her to work on our 4 year relationship and drop the other faggots. She declined. So i said goodbye and that's that.

You didn't make the mistake anon, she did. So she has to fix it. I know my girl will be back someday. And when she does she's gonna have to work her ass off. Until then, i'm gonna do some fun shit.

>>678917567
>>678918292
Fuck mang
Shit's hard, to talk to someone like that

>>678916301
It's good to remember. How quick our memories fade. I can't pretend that it didn't happen, and I should never forget. But if I think about it in the isolation of my mind, at night when only darkness prowls, I can leave it there and keep it from the day. But oh, how quickly we forget. How quickly we judge. I thank you, Anon. For in the right place and time, it's good to remember.

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>>678918292
Me and my ex were exactly the same, we've made these promises to eachother, like having kids in university. I mean I'd be fine with it to be honest because I thought she was the one. I think she's doing the same thing to me, pushing me away because she can't. I'm sorry though man.

>>678918926
It's hard but for some reason I still want her, I just can't give her up. I couldn't stand her being with anyone else

>>678918292
Clear the air with her.

She's opted to go a different route and find someone who caters to her specific needs. This is a simple case of "your xxxxxxx isn't sized properly for my yyyyyyyyy".

Don't be a puss, text her - say you want to talk. Provide address of location you'll be along with time (make it reasonable, and don't revamp it to her first suggestion - make sure it's your suggestion if she can't make the first one).

Assuming she accepts:
Treat it like a coffee date. Clear the air. Tell her you think things ended poorly. Don't devolve into a bitch - state your piece. Ask if she's got anything. Ask how she's doing...give her 5-10 minutes to talk. When she finishes her piece, say it was nice to hear from her again. Smile. Turn and walk away. If she's still interested, she'll stay in contact.

If she refuses - vanish. You know how much of a candle she still holds for you. No puss to be sniffed out here.

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>>678918926
It's rough, but you do what you have to.
>>678919037
Yeah. I thought she was the one then, but now I doubt it. She was just so clingy and needy all the time and would whine like a 4 year old when she didn't get her way, and I knew that I wouldn't be able to hold my ground against her if push came to shove with things like marriage and kids. I knew my only way out of my promises was to leave. Otherwise I'd have wound up a whipped betafag, and possibly a cuck (she didn't have the greatest track record for loyalty, though to my knowledge she never cheated on me).

>>678918913
>>678919251
I fucking miss her though guys
Every relationship I've tried since then I've gotten super rekt.
And sorry for the slow responses but we're talking right now...

>>678920587
So don't get rekt anymore. Stay strong. Put yourself first. At the end of the day, you're what's left of you.

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>>678920801
mfw I take forever to reply to her cause gotta brainstorm hardcore
How doesn't she get it, fug

My ex broke up with me about a month ago. I came home, she was gone and left me a fucking note. I was more angry about that than anything. Best thing you can do is cut off all contact and push through the shit. Learn to enjoy being single again.

>>678920482
Yeh I agree, I dunno I don't think we would've ended up like that though. We both did alot for eachother it wasn't a one way thing

>>678920587
I miss my ex right now and we were talking this morning and told me it was for the best. But her sister says she still wants me. I want her back but dont know how. I don't see anyone else the way I saw her. She was the first person I genuinely loved

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I just learned that my Military application was shut down due to medical disqualification today. My test scores, interview, etc. were top of the line, and I was well on my way to getting a full paid scholarship to become an Air Force pilot, and I've been working towards this for years. Now, i;s all gone, and my future with it.

>>678921234
I dunno man, I want to do that but it just hurts too much thinking about not being with her

>>678912124
it's your fault she broke up with you, you paranoid fuck

>>678921666
Nice Satan Trips
I'm sorry man.

>>678921917
Fuck off, I have a reason to be paranoid. But she was pushing me away long before my paranoia

>>678912247
girl obviously had feelings for you at first but has since subsided or has since grown minor feelings for you
waiting too long on a girl makes them lose interest in you so she's definitely not as fully in to you as she could be
it's all or nothing motherfucker, ask her out or don't

>>678920587
The problem with the idea that you miss her, is that you're operating within your own head. It's fine to be selfish, but it's not okay to expect others to embrace it.

It's probably hard to hear, but for every bit you miss her, she's thinking of someone that is anyone but you. Your needs aren't hers. Your wants aren't hers. Unless you're Apple, you're going to have a bitch of a time convincing her she needs something she doesn't want.

Unfortunately - this is a 2 way street, and she's not traveling alongside you...she's thinking of someone else.

>>678921234
Sucks dooder. This can't be easy, but you'll get through it. The next 10 bitches you bring home and lay waste to will feel a bit empty, but you'll be better for it. At least you won't first experience loss at 45, with an established career looking towards a brighter future you're building with someone else...and for the first time, realize the rug can come out from you at their whimsy.

She said her feelings for me are fading. What do /b/?

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>>678922104
Thanks man.

>>678922404
Move on, I suppose.

>>678922404
Say "Alright then. I'm getting tired. Goodnight"

Hang up. Take a long hot shower. See what you come back to.

>>678921829
So you think about other shit. Get up in the morning. Give yourself a list of shit to do. Doesn't have to be a difficult list. It can be as mundane as doing fucking laundry.

If she texts you, you tell that cunt that you're fucking busy.

This is an opportunity for you to work on yourself. Make yourself a better man. It's not even for revenge. You're not doing shit to make her jealous. You do shit for you and you only. Find something you enjoy doing. Spoil yourself occasionally. At the end of the day, all you've got is yourself so you've got to make each day worth a damn and thinking about her? No way man. She's just dragging you down.

>>678922246
and this reason is??? probably not a good enough reason if it fucked your relationship up

>>678922404
how in to her are you bro?

>>678921666
Fuck man, that sucks.

I had a friend who spent his whole life planning for the marine corps, and then was DQ'd for being genetically predisposed to some rare, non-contagious skin disease. He was pissed and kinda lost for a few years. I wish I could say it got better for him, but it really didn't.

>>678922300

This is me
>>678921234

I'm actually doing good about it. She found some redneck faggot 3 days later. I know a downgrade when I see it. And it's funny to me because I know she'll pull that same shit to that guy. Every now and then, I get that shitty feeling, but I get by.

>>678922647
Thank you. Other AdviceFag here. It seems I've grown soft.

This man speaks truth.

The other bit to add - is if you EVER feel inclined to respond to a text "now now now now now!!!!" .... fucking put the phone down and go do something else. It's never a good idea to reply to a message immediately if it evokes that much emotion.

>>678922597
I've been trying but it hurts too much

>>678922610
I tried that but hen she came back she was like "Hello?" like 10 times.

>>678922647
I mean I would agree, but I want to spend my life with her and if theres any chance she still feels the same I wanna take it

>>678923171
So much this.

>>678922811
Nah I have trust issues with everyone. My fucking grandpa stole me and locked me in his car for a day. So ever since then I've had problems with people.

>>678923017
Extremely

>>678923366
Great - wonderful. Approval seeking behavior. See what happens when she doesn't know what you're doing - and you're not acting the way she wants you to?

Ignore it until the next day. Reply when it's convenient for you to do so. Don't make it a priority. Remember - if it's that important, she can call you.

Honestly - she sounds like a manipulative twatwaffle. She wants your attention, but wants to make you jealous. PUA refer to it as a shit test, though I tend to think this is just how women desire to hold your attention.... like the "not quite nude but suggestive" pics they send you...just to see how you react.

Anon, go take that shower, put your phone on airplane, and come back to it tomorrow. You'll be more clear headed...and you likely will ahve about 50 messages that'll flood your phone displaying the full-on crazy this bitch is.

>>678923366
You only think you want to spend the rest of your life with her because you're still in that heartbroken phase. Go masturbate and then see if you feel the same way. That sounds ridiculous but give it a try. You won't be feeling that way I assure you.

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See this? This helped me a lot dealing with bitches and hoes. It's the real guide on how to be a true player. Fucking 3 women because of this right now, none of them suspect anything. This guy knows his stuff, a true game changer.

Love between individuals outside of family is fucking pointless.

Every relationship comes to an end because of stupid shit, so why even get involved?

>>678919273
For some reason I didn't realize this was directed at me, sorry. I hope you're still watching the thread.

I'd love to do that, but she's across the country from me. The best I could do would be a phone call, which doesn't feel right. But I'll almost certainly do something like this when I'm back in the state.

>>678924500
3edgy5me

>>678921642
Get help from her sister perhaps...
>>678922300
Fuck, guys

My female friend is trying hardcore to convince me to tell ex I love her
It's like I literally can't though
And even if I could, I know it won't end well

>>678924500
nice dubs emofag

>>678924500
Never had a girlfriend before anon? Well let me tell you something.

It's fucking awesome.

Unfortunately, shit happens. Some women are cunts. But when you find a good one, and I mean a damn good one, you feel fucking invincible. Worth all the goddamn trouble and pain the rest of them put you through.

Stay edgy, faggot.

>>678924099
Alright, I see your point. I'll try it then. Thanks man.

>>678924160
Lol alright, I'll go do that

>>678925035
Yeh, I've been trying to but it's hard

Thanks for all the advice guys, it means alot

Forget it anon, it's broken and you can't fix it. When someone let you down the harm is already done, it'll never be the same thing. Your life with this other person will never work the way your heart once desired. Everybody at some point had this dream that life would be beautiful and everything would be alright in the end, maybe that's true. But when someone fell numb, alone, sad and with a sorrow that can make us drown in our tears that we never could even cry to someone who cares. I must ask: who cares about the end? Life is broken now, despair is in everything, there isn't an ideal place or job for everyone, we ain't unique and love isn't real.

>>678925381
I really don't want to think about it like that. I understand that in the end nothing really does matter but even if it's for a bit, she made everything worth it. Made me feel happy about being here. She's the only one whose been able to do that. I can't let her go

>>678924553
Still here. Went back and read your initial post. Across the country, worried about a woman dating a fedora tipper, and she thinks you hate her?

Cut contact with all of her friends. The easiest way for someone to fish up info is social media. The second of which is through 2nd hand information. Information of any sort is only valuable if someone else doesn't have it.

I mean, I get it. I've loved, I've lost, and I've loved and lost with the girl living over 100mi away from me. It's unsettling to say the absolute least. Really, the only thing you can do to keep going sometimes is remember that your sig. other can duck out of the game, but you can't stop playing it. They ADD to your life...but shouldn't BE your life.

There's nothing wrong with clearing air, making sure everyone ends on even and non "i didn't like this about you" or accusatory terms. Just be sure not to let it devolve into a shit slinging contest.

Just remember, at the end of the day, she's hired another dude to take the spot you held. What is important to you, might not be important to her.

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Guys. I'm not ok. I'm not. I think about killing myself almost every other day for the past few months.
Tl;dr
>gf of 2 years broke up with me 4th of july.
>find out she had cheated on me
>still chased her, then after 2 months quit giving a fuck
>came back to me, nah bitch
>she get raped on halloween, get back with her to support her
>she dumps me for a guy 10 years older than me that gets drunk every day at a bar that she works at
>"I still want to be friends with you", nah bitch

I had given her everything. I mean everything. She manipulated me, used me, stepped all over me and my friends saw it too and commented about it.
She put me on anti-depressants over the summer, but I need a higher dosage I think.
I've been going to therapy/ counseling every week since she left me, and my parents don't know about it.
I cut everything off from her immediately and its been hard but I don't think of her that much.
What gets me is I am so alone. My roommate moved out on me for a new apartment when he starts his job after graduating in a month.
So, I am in a shitty college apartment. By myself, every day.
It's so hard for me to even get out of bed every morning or find motivation to do anything I used to like doing.
I go out drinking with my friends, but every time I drink I black out and I can't stop it. I've done it almost every weekend for the past few months.
The bad part about it is, I act like I am fine. I'm not going to lie, I am really fit, fairly attractive and somewhat funny and very outgoing.
But I still feel worthless, and feel I won't ever be worth it to a woman nor anyone else.
I'm in a bad place /b/...

>>678913982
Hapiness is a state of mind. You can be happy right now if you want to, but there's something deep inside of your being that stops you. You can try to search for the reason and love yourself into your own existence or you can just ignore this urge and keep going, listening to yourself and find a real purpose in this life.

>>678926097
Oh yeah, I know what you mean. I'm not nearly as broken up about it as others are. I get lonely sometimes like we all do, and then I miss her, but I know that I can live without her and I know that I'm better off without her in the end. I just feel bad for being such a dick about breaking up and cutting ties with her, even though it was necessary.

>>678926476
Jeezus fucking christ man, are you alright? She sounded toxic as fuck man. You'll find someone better, You'll find someone who'll make you want to get out of bed instead of staying in it.

>>678925997
Have to point this out

>>She's the only one whose been able to do that.

Has been able to? Or that you've let do that? What about all the others pining for your attention while this one held your penis like a leash? While I know it's not what you want to hear, and I know you think this is a special situation or special case, there will be more.

Nobody will replace her, but someone else can fill that void...just differently. You'd have to be an irrational faggot to think that you found the 1 in 7.2 billion... or 1 in 315million in the US that holds that sole set of characteristics.

It's easy to look at life in the rear-view and see what we've had and what we've experienced, chalking it up to the only way something can exist. It's difficult to look into the unknown and identify positivism.

Don't worry Anon, someone will put your balls in her mouth and suck on em...and it might, just might, be better than the way your ex did.

I once had a dream /b/
>be me
>back in highschool
>finally grow the balls to talk to the girl of my dreams
>small chat in the halls everytime we see eachother
>asked her if she wanted to hang out today
>she said sure
>was really happy and excited
>I picked her up from her house
>hung out all day
>happiest day of my life

wake up

>realized it was just a dream
>go back to the depressed boring life I have
>passed her up walking to class that day
>realize that I'll never have the balls to go and talk to her
>realize that we will never be together
>realize that I will never be as happy as I was in my dream

I really wish she was mine /b/

>>678927329
for fucks sake.....what's the absolute worst she can do? Say "no please?".

Grow a fucking pair, stop being a neck beard, embarrass yourself, get this out of your system, and get on with your life.

High school is 4 years long. After that 4 years...you'll lose contact with >90% of your graduating class. Within teh 4 years that follow, you'll lose 80% of the 10% remaining... by 30, you might have 3-5 friends from back then...if that many.

Take chances. Make Mistakes. Get Messy. Every single question you don't ask results in an implied "no". Next time you see that bitch, say "Hi"...and ask her a question.

>>678927110
I'd like to think so.
Yes, she was very toxic but I put blinders on thinking things would be better the second time around. Hell, even the very end of our first relationship.
The ironic thing is, that when I first started dating her, I was very closed off and she broke my walls down because "she cared about me so much."

>>678927329
I hope this is a joke.

If it's not, holy fuck man, I did that shit in middle school. Man up and either talk to her or move on. Crushes on women you don't even know are utterly retarded.

>>678927239
To be completely honest she was the type who wouldn't tell me anything about jealousy. Like I could be talking to a girl then she would just ignore me. I know it'll sound really faggy but I only want her, I can't imagine anyone else filling that void. I don't want anyone else to.
Thanks though man

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>>Meet a girl living in a shithole with her abusive fucking whore golddigger of a mother. She is gorgeous, inside and out.
>>Start dating her, everything is going well. She actually lives 2 hours away, so I drive to see her 2-3 times a week.
>>I go to give her a high-five over something and she flinches HARD. Turns out her Mother beats the shit out of her.
>>Nope.jpg
>>Tell her to pack her things tonight, she's moving in with me in the morning. She's overjoyed.
>>We live together for a year, everything good. She's pretty lazy and I'm having to do 75% of everything, but I keep trying to help her improve her life.
>>Her dream since she was 10 was to be a flight attendant (Don't ask me why)
>>I write her resume and tell her to send it to airlines.
>>She gets interview, but has to go to their HQ out of state and has no money to pay for it, so I pay.
>>She gets the job, I take her to fancy expensive dinner to celebrate.
>>She has to go to HQ for training for a month.
>>Two weeks into her training she fucks some dude and lies to me about it.
>>She tells me about it when she comes back from training and wants to still be together.
>>FuckyouandeverythingIdidforyou.jpg

>>678927776

I know this place. It's not a good one. While there's no easy way to get through the bullshit, you do have to get through it.

The only way out of this mess is to realize that you're in "life" for yourself. People are inherently lazy, and nobody is going to provide you an ounce of worth you're not willing to provide yourself.

....find said worth. Find a new hobby. Force yourself to shower daily, and go to some college activity fair or something. Meet people, go out, realize what fun is again.

again - nobody is going to provide you "worth". You have to provide "worth" to yourself.

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>>678911911
Allah hu ackbar!!

>>678924765
I'll admit that there was a little bit too much fedora tipping in that post but it's the truth.

If you aren't a 10/10 male with cash falling out of your pockets at all times, nobody is every interested.

If you happen to be that lucky and "fall in love" some stupid shit always happens.

If you happen to be average and "fall in love" it's that much more likely that something is going to fuck up.

I don't give a fuck how perfect you think your relationship is. The chances are in 6 months time, the shit will be over.

>>678927776
I'm in the exact same position. I was never really social but after meeting my ex I was actually getting out there. I just never wanted it to end. I'm really sorry anon

>>678928225
I can still sense fedora tipping.

Dude, there are awesome women and awful women. 9 times out of 10, it won't work out, but it's absolutely worth it for that 1/10 times.

And no, you don't have to be rich or a 10/10. I'm like a 4/10 and poor and I haven't done awful. You just have to find a woman you have something in common with and go for it.

The main reason I don't have a gf now is that I just don't know any women I'm actually interested in who live nearby. I mean there's no guarantee that would work out, but I'm not even trying.

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I know you aren't going to see this.
I know this is going to be a pointless message.

But I'm happy I met you. You changed my life for the best. You've made me realize so many amazing, yet horrible, things.. I know our past was weird, I know I've fucked up by leaving. I know I should have done so many things better.. I know I shouldn't be convincing myself that we could actually have something now, because you're different a person from I.. There was one point where I thought we could be so amazing together, but I now realize we were so perfect for eachother.. Yet I messed that up. I completely fucked any chances of 'us' up and I'm just now realizing this after 2 damn years.. I don't know why I'm a wreck over you at this point, I know I shouldn't care but I do care. I care so much and it just hurts because I can't let you know.. Because nothing good would come of it. The best thing I can even do at this point is hope we remain friends after lastnight, because lastnight was the most amazing time I've had in the longest.

I'm done. I miss you. I wish you the best. Whatever happens, happens.

>>678911625
the hug part is faggotry

>>678928054
Jeez man, you alright? You did so much for her and she just does that shit to you? She didn't deserve you. Good luck with everything though man, you'll find the one eventually

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>>678928846
Twingo for your soul?

>>678911625
I get dumped like I was nothing for her. But I still think it was worth. It never hurt like this but i've never been this happy. So, worth it.

>>678927898

Just remember man... any time you're driving down the street and you see a squirrel sprinting across the road...and you tap your brakes...often times he chooses to run the longer route back to the tree he knows exists.
...I tend to see a lot of dead squirrels on the road. If only they'd kept going.

and - fuck me...I guess I'll say something...because "feels":

The person I spend time with when we're alone or in the company of complete strangers is who I'm chasing after. The girl not afraid to live in the moment and cares not of what those around her think. The one who can incidentally make a complete ass of herself and laugh about it. My inner child wants her as his playmate. That's the person I've been chasing after. This other person you become when you're around the people you surround yourself with is a materialistic, self serving, and self-image driven see-you-next-Tuesday. She's someone who I don't want to spend a single additional moment with. I hate that you can't see the person you are among strangers through my eyes, but I thank you for making my decision easy. ...I do sincerely hope you find someone who cared as much as I did, who is willing to accept your duality. I hope you find happiness, and I wish you the best.

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>>678929644
Twingos always bring happiness, thank you fam.

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>life is meaningless
>18
>lifelong underachiever
>nothing feels real or meaningful
>girls don't really give a shit about me, female friends always talking about what guys they'd fuck
>still kinda struggling with multiple personality stuff
>I just feel kinda empty inside, like a ghost, like if I was gone nobody would miss me
>even on feels threads my posts never get replied to

what do, /b/?

>>678930227
hero you faggot

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I don't know if this is a feel any of you can relate too but i have a shit friend. It's this girl who showed interest in me when we first started working together, we talked, chilled, smoked some weed it was cool for like a week, I wasn't even trying to get in her pants i just wanted a friend. Now she treats me like some beta orbiter and i take non of that shit so she just ignores what i say now. I feel good knowing i'm not being a cuck and letting her get away with shit, like she teases me (rubs my back and sides and shit) and then asks me for money or weed or something she currently wants and i say no, and she gets all pissy about it. Are all women like this? Just trying to gather as many betas as you can seems like a goal for women my age and it's fucking bullshit. I just wanted a friend to chill with.

>>678930227
Same boat except no friends

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>>678930227
Add one year to that, and you're me.. I'm not sure what to do either.

At this point I'm just kinda here during life, hoping for the best but realizing the worst is always to come.
I'm here for you bro, even when nobody else is.

I love you.

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>>678911625
broke up w/ baby mama bout a yr ago. was with her for 10 fucking years. she was cheating, got prego with dude bout 3 weeks before i broke up with her. paying her rent, dude lives with her. we still fuck every once in a while. she wants me back, aint gonna happen... ow, my feels. hard to get a new gf cuz im broke all the time cuz i pay her bills. so i just hit on the chick that makes my coffee b4 work. nice smile is enuf for me

>>678930227
Keep on doing your thing, whatever that is. One of these days you'll find a form of happiness. I know the whole "never give up" thing seems like bullshit, but given a lifetime of opportunities it kinda works, even if it comes easier for some people than it does for others

>>678930436
This seems like a girl who learned that she can use an idea to get what she wants from people who wouldn't mind having sex with her.

Guessing 14-19 age range? What seems to happen is they play this card, get in too deep, and get burned by it.

Girls is bad news, poster. Worse yet, when she finally gets burned by some betafag who doesn't get his dick wet after giving her a dimebag, she'll come crawling back to you.

If you're not okay with the exchanges taking place....find someone else.

>>678929966
Yeh I feel exactly the same

>>678929980
Thanks man, that made me feel a bit better

>>678930620
Jeez man, you alright?

Serious deal here. I've never been in a real relationship. Sure ive dated some girls but ive never really loved them. Ive also grown up in a really irritating situation. One where i know once i finish college Ill be gone for a really long time. I met a girl in my organic chem lab and she was damn awesome. Pretty, doesnt mind jokes, always looked at me like im worth something. I didnt feel that way at the time but a month or so later i certainly feel it. Problem is tho that i know ill be gone for who knows how long when i graduate (military) and i certainly dont ever want to put someone through that. Even if they love me. So ive been constantly pushing people away.
Even my best friends, people i call family, tell me i need to go out and live a little. Theyre also concerned that id be gone for a while. But its something that i have to do.

What the fuck do i do guys..

>>678930911
The thing is I also didn't even went angry at her. And the fact I'm still nothing piss me off more everyday. What did you do ?

>>678928787
>It's absolutely worth it for the 1/10 times

Yeah nah.

We're in similar positions. Almost exact similar positions and I can't see what the point is of going out of the way to land a stable relationship that will end over time anyways.

I know that not all females are shitty. I'm not going to kid you in that I think that a lot are. But it still isn't worth the time and effort.

Put effort in to something that is worth it not something that'll end up fucking the neighbor and taking 60% of your assets with her.

>>678930957
You totally can't see her after this ? If you can't do anything, that just sucks. Maybe in few years if you find nothing else you can maybe get back together, but low chances.

>>678930436
Looks like shes just fucking with you to get shit
In her mind: sex = shit she wants
Watch your step anon women can be extremely cruel and unforgiving

>>678930620
So.... recap
>>Cheated on
>>Lives in your place w/ baby-daddy
>>fucks you occasionally
>>??
>>You pay her bills

....ummm.... stop paying her bills, use money to break lease...???.....profit?

You're paying so baby daddy and sugartits can fuck in a space you pay for, and use sex toys you're paying to power. If it comes to it, the paternity test should rid you of any other obligations you have.

... turn 360, and walk out of this situation.

>>678931253
I honestly don't know man. I'm still in the process of dealing with it. I'm just trying to do other things. Right now I'm just feeling full on depressed, like I lost my world

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>>678929573

I'm fine. It sucks, but it's not the first time something like that's happened to me. BUT it's a feels thread, so here's what she gave me before she left with the flowers I bought her the week before on her birthday. It's a portrait of me.

>>678931285
Your shit went too far man. Still worth for many, me into that.

>>678930957

Couple dates. Can't spend time with her because of an eventual inopportune situation?

Live today... don't commit to anything, and enjoy the time you get to spend with her. Maybe you'll even get your dick wet.

First time relationship seekers walk into things like they're making the only choice they'll ever make in life. If I could go back to that point in time.....I'd be passing out my number on fucking business cards and taking anything I could get.

It's 4 years. You won't talk to >90% of them ever again. Take chances...get messy...and maybe she'll even have your throat babies. Won't know unless you try.

>>678931440
Didn't say anything ? Damn. I tought I was kinda a good man to do this. Maybe I'll ask why, but I don't know when. yet.

>>678931421
instead of child support i pay her rent. dude works as a line cook, cant support himself let alone his kid. like to be the bigger man. make too much $ to pay the state to pay her... pretty sure its better this way. we're still cool, best friends, she admitted she is wrong, now she has to live with the douche, they dont get along from what i understand. told him id take his kid if he fucks up

>>678931444
I'm glad you're feeling fine, it'll all look up eventually

>>678931802
I did, I'm still trying. She's at work for another 5 hours so I can't really do anything yet. I'm gonna keep trying though

>>678911625
I recently had this happen to me also op. It's a tough break of relative luck, and a role of the dice since the start of the universe for you to have been, let alone been with another.

Break ups are significant and insignificant in that way. In one way, they represent something that was being so probably impossible in the scope of existence, and then on the other hand, you have observational everything such as the universe to make you realize how silly it is to fret a seven billion person rate race on earth.

Be gracious by doing gracious things. Think in terms of massive and minuscule when considering your position in the world now.

What helps me most is thinking, "I hope she's happy, and I will do better for myself". That is what love of both yourself and her would look like in a real-love ending scenario.

If that's not how you feel, by perhaps it being too soon, or it being so sudden, or it being so callous, or it being so cruel, if that's not how you feel in time than maybe you're hurt for the wrong reasons - not a love that was between you and her as :

Equals in potential, equals in generosity, equals in effort, equals in loyalty, and equals in vulnerability.

Perhaps, the best thing to emulate is gravitas to maintain a functionality. Along with time to grieve the death of a part of your old self, and the opportunistic excitement that waits the building of your new self; as the people in our lives largely play massive contemporary roles and are parts of our lives.

partition some time to taking care of your self and needs bro

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>>678930620
Stop paying her fucking bills you fucking dumb ass, cut all connections and ties with her, buy a new phone and change your number, move to another area, make sure there is no possible way she can contact or remind you of her

And she only says she wants " to get back together" is to keep you around

She doesn't care about you, now pack your shit and leave

Now stop being a cunt and continue with your life.

>>678931381
I mean hell, i could. But the problem is i really dont ever want to make someone suffer because of me being selfish and loving someone. I know she would easily be able to have a happy life with someone else, you know? Im just at a really really shitty cross-roads in my life and my decisions are beating my ass for it.

>>678913662
I'm sorry that sucks man, but it might help to think the opposite. That even the smallest acts of kindness are enough to bring us back from the brink.

>>678932260
im not a callous prick. 10 yrs is a long time to just forget about. plus it involves my kid so theres that....

>>678911625
that's life anon, lots of girls broke me but i regret nothing because i enjoyed it a lot before

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>>678930870
The fucked up part is she is like 22 with 2 kids and she still tries to pull this bullshit. Just fucking today i fucking witnessed it, an old man who has a crush on her walked into the store and the first thing she did was hug him and then convinced him to give her 20$ which she spent on weed (she didn't share). And then she had the nerve to ask me to buy her food. The funny thing is i asked her for a dollar, just a fucking dollar once and she was like "oh no that money is for my kids" she pulls this excuse every time someone asks her for a favor like she's using them as a shield.
>>678931420
Yeah i know this, i don't even want to sleep with her i just wanted a friend, but she tries to manipulate me and i hate it. She literally ignores everything i say too and that's fucking annoying.

>>678932180
Oh, it has been months for me.

>>678931739
Thanks for the advice dude.
Im just too nice is the deal. Lol

Life is great; truly it is, and I believe so. I also happen to think that I'm done with it.

I have some wonderful memories; and I milked it for a good while; had a good run.
Such a lifestyle doesn't come out free; and the consequences of my actions - none of which I can say I regret - are about to fall on me.

I can keep it up for a while longer; I recently had good news and to the very least I have 3 more days. The rope is my backpack and I carry it everywhere I go, though. When shit hits the fan I'm running as fast as I can and find a quiet place.

Wish I had a gun, though.

>>678932206
But if you hope she's happy, you don't dump her like she was nothing more than a condom, right ?

>>678931285
I don't know what your situation is, man, but if ours are almost exactly the same, I don't see how you got that idea. My relationship was pretty good, but we were both too immature for what we were getting into and I grew up a lot faster than she did. That's no reason to swear off dating.

This is going to sound kinda weird on 4chan, but pick up a bible bro. Paul actually said some crazy wise things in 1 Corinthians. In a nutshell, if you can handle being single and it won't drive you crazy, do it. Stay single, you don't need the stress. But if you can't handle being without a woman, there's absolutely nothing wrong with playing the game. You just have to be willing to get burned.

God I'm thinking of the choruses of so many 90s country songs right now.

>>678932101
Good on you, sir.(same faggot who recapped your story). Missed the part about your spawn(or was omitted from initial post) which changes things a bit - but...you're a far more understanding person than I.

I've worn this brown helmet...not in as extreme of a situation, but I felt the need to be noble. In the end, I realized I was enabling a train wreck of a girl that nearly gave me a Standing O, was fucking another guy. The thought of her on her ass upset me...

...at least until I realized that she'd find a way, somehow, to make it all work.

>>678932206
You alright? I agree with it all, but why would the universe give her to me and just take her away? It just doesn't feel fair. I mean the universe isn't fair, but she was the girl of my dreams

You guys are all faggots. You don't need girls. Hookers!!

>>678932763
>i just wanted a friend
>She literally ignores everything i say too and that's fucking annoying

Fuck anon, I'm sorry. Hope things get better for you, but it seems your friendship is about to die and she doesn't want to do anything about it.

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>>678932935
>Wish I had a gun, though
Buy a gun. Black market even. Buy the proper munition, then maybe some snap caps. Learn to respect it, to safely handle it, to oil it, to clean it, to love it. Listen to the clean, crisp clack of each mechanical bit.
Take care of it, anon.
And the gun will take care of you.

>>678932796
Ah jeez man, you feeling any better?

My boyfriend is probably going to break up with me. It hurts more than I ever thought it could.

>>678912895
Get with the sister ?

>>678932900
Too nice...to share a moment with her and show her how awesome of a person you are?

Dating & relationships are like kids clothes. You will, likely, eventually grow out of them (unless you have fucked up genes or dwarf parents).

Show that girl the best date you're capable of providing her. You owe it to yourself.

>>678933414
Why is he going to break up with you?

>>678933469
She's 12 lmao

>>678933414
That is the worst feeling, you know they don't want to be around you but you stay because you hope things will change

>>678932900
No dude, you're afraid, not nice.

Trust me bro, as someone who did this all the way through high school, you will regret not trying. I still regret to this day not asking out a girl I had a huge crush on and who I think may have been interested in me (and if I ever saw her again I'd hope I'd have the balls to give it a shot).

Try man. You have four years or however much longer you have. High school is literally free dating opportunities: you get to know gorgeous girls, befriend them, and risking asking them out doesn't really have any repercussions like it would in the real world.

Go for it. The worst case scenario is a no. And at least be honest with yourself - you're not a "nice guy," you're a coward. Take it from this former high school coward.

>>678932796
It doesn't go off. Funny thing, I met her thanks to 4chan. But I still try to know why. I need to because this was a huge part of my life. Even if I know it can happen again.

>>678933157
thnx anon. i like holding embers lol. like those guys that whip themselves and put rocks in their shoes. she is the rock in my shoe. if i dont feel pain ifeel nothing at all. women suck, i live for my kid. still like having a reminder of how really retarded i can /b/

>>678911625
Unsolicited science based advice:

Humans pair bond with a number of chemicals as addictive as heroine.
Relationships are literally drug addiction.
Breakup pain is literally drug withdrawal.

Ease symptoms using:

Advil
Hanging with friends.
Hugs from friends (m or f) sounds panzy but seriously.
Physical activity like jogging and sports.
Time
Avoiding any and all contact with your ex.

>>678933355
Also true. Buy a gun, learn to use and maintain it.

No one has ever been sad after a day at the range, to my knowledge.

Works the same with Jeeps, by the way, though that's a more expensive and arguably more dangerous hobby.

>>678933355
Not an American. Guns are harder to find than you'd think; I would know. You need to know the right people, and I sort of lack in that department. They also require money; and believe me, I don't have it. Also, when you have a few days, maybe weeks to live tops, wasting effort on getting something you don't really, really need seems like a waste of time.
I'm fine with killing myself with my trusty rope. Gun would be an incredible luxury; but not a must have.

>>678933840
>>678933357
I did the wrong quote

I need a hug.

>>678933325
Iv;e pretty much accepted this, finding new friends is so hard i wish life was easier. For some reason i attract toxic people though i don't know why.

>>678933543
Giggity

>>678934014
>Not an American
Now that's fucking depressing.

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>>678933414
Try not to be fat like a tub of soft serve ice cream then

>>678933543
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Never mind then I was wrong to suggest that

>>678933960
I guess I could go work out but I just can't stop thinking about her. It hurts too much. I can't eat anything or do anything. What do I do?

>>678934014
The point was to give you something to live for man.

Find something you can pour your heart and soul into. You have a hole in your heart. Fill it man. I do that with guns and Jeeps. You might have to do it with exercise or woodworking or leather tooling.

Just learn something to do with your hands and do it. Life gets better.

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>>678934055
come'ere!

>>678934253
Lmao, all good. Thanks for the suggestion though

>>678934353
Go watch Fight Club

Read "Modern Romance: Aziz Ansari"

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>>678934409
Thank you.

>>678934523
I've seen Fight Club is there anything else I can do? Can't read right now either

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>>678933508
He has a personality quirk so he doesn't say, he makes me guess. But I'm doing nothing with my life, mostly
; pic related, it's my life. I can't even afford to live on my own most of the time.

But I'm also too fat (I've rarely ever lost weight) & I (obviously) still live at home. I'm trying to get low cost housing with or without state aid, though.


>>678933508 (cont)
>>678933677
I'm so desperate to be with him that I offered to pay his way when I go to Europe next (traveling is something I love to do). It won't keep us together, it won't even prolong things, I just don't want to lose him.

I was even going to ask him to marry me while we were over there.

My fiance is laying in bed upstairs right now. We've been together for 5 years and got engaged about six months ago. A month ago she stopped wearing her ring and started coming home late. We hardly talk anymore. I'm sitting in the dark drinking beer and watching porn because I have nothing else to do...

>>678934434
Yes as long as not pedophilia revenge fucking can be a glorious thing

I'm loosing a friend right now.
She lost her boyfriend and idk what to do.
Even I can't get her happy or be there for her

>>678934613
Watch it again?

Consider the interaction of different characters. While admittedly a bit extreme, Tyler and ...chucklefuck...we'll go with that... are trying to feel like people and not bathwater washed individuals. Watch the way Pitt deals with Tits McGee and how that varies from the way chucklefuck does.

It's a great psychology book of a movie if you watch it as anything but entertainment.

>>678934613
Buy a $300 craigslist car.
Fix it
Take care of it
Make it your hobby
You'll realize yourself going out to wrench on it when feels like these suddenly happen.

Atleast that's what I've been doing for 3 years.. That car has kept me right on the brink of sanity, and I love it to death.

>>678934929
The most you can do is to make sure she knows you're there.
Sometimes, that's all it takes.

>>678934898
Get your own place, separate your finances, & anything else you should do to protect yourself from a bad break-up. I know it's not what you want to hear, but it's what you need to do.

>>678935074
I know. But now she get's pissed of when I say something like that.
I'm gonna meet her in a month or so, I hope it will help when I'm in person for her

>>678935149
Second

Guys I need some advice
I really want to start talking to my ex to just be friends with her again because i miss her girl next door personality. The thing is though, is that we broke up due to no time and shit fell apart connection was severed worse than an argument would destroy a relationship. Ive had a few conversations with her, but they were all small talk. Any ideas?

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I fell in love with this girl in a beg thread a few days ago and she posted nudes and shit and I didn't save them, and now I want them and i can't find them anywhere.

>brb gonna kms

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>it's a quarter to 1
>having a beer and listening to Roxette's Must Have Been Love on repeat
>down because I failed to acquire the next stage of my drivers license twice
And here I realize with you guys how normal people like you can be there for absolute strangers.
fuck the >faggot posters, this truly is a palce with heart

>>678934785
Awwwww, are you alright?

>>678934903
Eh, her sister always used to talk to me and she was really helpful. Don't think I could do that anyway lmao

>>678934986
Alright, I'll watch it then, Thanks man c:

>>678935383
Find a new girl next door personality provider.

This one isn't special and is more effort than its worth.

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>>678935149
She's obviously cheating, I know that much. I could leave. I have a place to go and we already use separate bank accounts but I want to know. I want to catch her. I know it's stupid and won't help but I want to catch her in the act.

>>678935037
I would but I'm starting college soon. I don't really have enough time right now, any other suggestions though?

>>678916953
this one fuckin killed me dude

>>678934353
Everything I just said. The hurt is where the advil comes in. It specifically counteracts the physiological occurrences that are causing you pain.

That's advil. Not tylenol.

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>>678913964
oowwh yu so edgery...

>>678935844
Whats Advil? I'm an Ausfag

>>678935703
Any sort of hobby, whether expensive of inexpensive. As long as it's something to distract you from the negative thoughts. I've found that to work best for myself.

>>678935535
She is special, pretty much a unicorn on the craziness to hot level, and as far as i know right now is redpilled to the point of supporting trump. Plus im not social, its hard for me to find new people without being forced to talk to them for a little

Guys, I feel terrible. Girl I liked just said I was weird and to stay away from her. How should I react?