Confide in me you beautifull motherfuckers <3
i will try to help the best i can and you can ask me anything
Bumping
I'm a virgin.
You wanna help me solve my problem? ;)
You can help me by killing yourself, you enormous faggot
>>677973520
>>677973322
How often should you give water to orchids?
>>677973322
check'd
how do I deal with constant sexual frustration when flirting gives me massive amounts of anxiety and I sincerely doubt I'm in a position to solicit any friends
>>677973548
so edgy :3
>>677973587
Tits or gtfo
>>677973637
depends, just gotta check how moist the the ground around the orchid is with a pencil or something
>>677973651
>back to tumblr with you
>>677973322
can you give me free money, because, really, how hard is it to keep proving for another decade that all my problems are the lack of money or employment for said acquiring of wealth
>>677973638
try to take it easy on flirting and practice makes perfect, there is nothing to be afraid of honestly because even if you make a fool out of yourself the shame will be gone but if it works you might just get yourself a girlfriend :3
>>677973638
Not OP.
Relax dude. If it matters that much to you to get laid, just jerk off before you go to flirt with someone.
Seriously though, just be a chill dude. You're more likely to get a date with someone that you hang around a lot. Propinquity increases as you are around them and are just yourself.
>>677973986
just cut back on things you dont need.. buy food at the grocery story try using a bike instead of car when possible etc there are alot of ways to save money
>>677973798
How new are you? It's like you just spout things you've seen other fags say.
>>677973798
Our problems should be shared !
>>677974196
i meant cheaper food :o
>>677973322
How do I stop being lazy? I just can't do anything lately, maybe I'm depressed. My days just go by and nothing happens. I need a routine but I don't know how to start. I don't know how to interact with other people and I don't know how to dress, I've tried to learn things but I just don't understand anything
>>677973322
I find women who seem to have there life together and are happy massively intimidating. Also i am anxious, a chronic over-thinker and i'm scared of being hurt again.
How the fuck am i going to find love?
Bumping with some porn in hopes of the thread not dying.
>>677974743
hmm tough one, maybe try getting something that you have to do something for like a dog, you'll have a nice companion and you Have to walk him so you get a routine aswell. For dressing just go with what you like and what you feel comfertable in !!
>>677974237
Been here for 3 days now xD xD xD lol :)
So I screwed up and took too much this semester and then had to drop a class. I have two options, I can either finish with a BA in math instead of a BS or I can come back for an extra semester for basically one class at a personal cost to me. What should I do?
>>677974763
Before you find love you have to love yourself first, and have your own life together if that makes any sense. that way they will probably be less intimidating, i think they are for you know because there are things you dont have together yet.
>>677974083
Propinquity fucking A-class word. Thanks for making me learn a new thing anon
>>677975247
it depends, what personal cost? your education is import you might atm think like fuck school and things but it is really really important your future depends on it for a big part
>>677974743
I'm in a similar situation with being depressed.
Some days are better than others. The best advice I can give you is to take things one step at a time. Small, achievable goals. Make a list of things you want to start doing, preferably with paper not the computer as tangible is better for this.
Start with small things. Clean around the house a few things every day, nothing more than that. A few days later, add something else like walking outside for 30 minutes once a week. Add one day to that every week. Then once you're comfortable with that, start doing something else like working out.
Keep it small.
>>677974763
I know it's easier said than done, but chill. Just relax. What is the very worst that can happen? Maybe you get slapped if you super offend those women or something. The best case scenario is that it all works out. Just relax and do your best, deep breaths and all that. If it's love you're after and not sex, it'll come naturally. Just hang around the person during daily encounters, not for dates. Make it feel natural.
>>677975385
No problem, /b/ro.
>>677975549
I know how important it is. The personal cost is that after this semester I don't have scholarship money anymore so everything is coming out of pocket. It's roughly 25-30k a semester
>>677974743
I've had the same man. Have you always been this way or is it something new? Did something happen that fucked you up? Like a relative dying or something?
>>677975549
Also I have a BS in EE that I'll also be completing so how much does it matter if I have the BA in Math vs BS?
>>677975624
>>677975326
Thanks, this has actually given me some clarity
>>677973322
Fuck that shit is creepy. If I was in the fucking woods and a bitch with blue hair came out of fucking nowhere and said the shit in your image I would fucking run before the curse fully set in.
>>677975722
thats alot of money.. is it worth it tho? how badly do you need that class? and if you take another semester cant you take more classes and get higher up?
>>677974976
Jesus. If you are a lazy faggot and can't bring yourself to do anything for you, the last thing you should do is get a dog. It's not a fucking accessory, it's a responsibility. If you are depressed and unmotivated, most likely you will neglect the animal and feel even shitter about yourself because of that.
>>677974743
You may be depressed or have an anxiety issue. Go see a doctor.
>>677975960
Our problems should be shared anon remember that, goodluck <3
>>677976048
Idk man, it's a real analysis course. I don't think I'm going to grad school solely for math, so I don't know how much it really matters. I just really wanted to complete the goals I set out to complete, but is it responsible of me to take 30k more in loans for this?
>>677975996
>>677976077
i know its a responsibility and its a living being thats exactly why i said it, who the fuck would neglect a dog because he is lazy? it gives him a companion that can bring comfort and give him a daily routine
>>677976292
30k for 1 class is.. alot, it really depends on how much you need it, isn't there anything your school can do for you? did you ask them about it?
>>677974791
Sauce?
>>677976077
also it whas just a suggestion.. not saying he should go get one right now but that it could help
>>677976425
I got a dog for this exact same reason. It's dead now :(
>>677975801
Not really, I wasn't like this before. Maybe my parents getting divorced (almost 15 years ago) and losing all my high school friends (9 years ago). I've been trying to figure out what my problem is, but after some time of doing some thinking I just tell myself what I want to hear. How did you fix it?
>>677976123
I will
>>677975624
I'll try that
>>677976758
awh what happend? :(
>>677976537
Yeah I did, so far no luck in finding any grant or scholarship money and most people I've talked to (at least my advisors) have all told me that I should just take the BA because at the end of the day for me it will be the same degree minus one class and I didn't take the easy way out meaning I didn't take easy classes the whole way through.
>>677976542
the girl is Davinia from the website Puta Locura
>>677973322
im sorry, but you can help me.
i was born with bilateral club feet. i was molested by my uncle for the better part of a decade. i learned of who my father was at 13, for whom i have little love for. i have been beaten for being different. passed up in relationships because i limp. and the pain from all the an over taxed left knee and the hardware in my right foot, warps my sense of self-worth. it chips at my mind too. i live in my room if im not at work or at school. i have very few friends. some of whom have issues of their own that make them hard to be around. i am alone, and i shall die alone.
TLDR: i am a sad sight to behold.
>>677976872
i would follow their advice, failing 1 class shouldnt be that big of a deal if you took alot of classes that you did finish with good grades
>>677976867
Well, I was really depressed and lethargic, so I couldn't be bothered to feed it, and it starved to death.
some days I really, really want to say fuck it and go full manipulative/dark side. It's usually when I'm down or depressed.
Today is one of those days.
>>677977362
you cant be so depressed that you let your own dog starve, that has nothing to do with depression but with you as a person
>>677977258
I didn't fail it, just had to drop it (it doesn't affect my GPA). But yeah I just wanted to get another opinion
>>677973322
My ex is dying of cancer. She has a tumour the size of my fist on her spine and has less than a year to live. I want to be there for her, I want to be her friend and help her through this but she won't let me. She's only interested in getting back with me because she's still in love with me. We broke up years ago, I have a girlfriend, and I just don't have romantic feelings for her any more. She said the only reason she would get surgery to remove the tumour is so she could be happy with me again. I still care about her, she was my whole world for years. I don't know what to do. I can't get her to talk to me, but I'm not going to leave my girlfriend or cheat on her.
I guess I just needed to vent but if anyone has any advice that would be good too.
>>677977038
Just know that you are a wonderful person, with lots to offer the world. If people pass you up for your outward appearance, they are not worth being around. Love yourself, raise your self esteem, be confident, and the kind of people you deserve will be drawn to you like a magnet. It always starts with loving the self. Without that, anyone can become lost.
>>677977038
you shouldnt care about what people say about you, just love yourself /b/ro its all that matter and when you love yourself it is easier for other people to love you. i'm really sorry about everything that happend to you, you deserve better :(
>>677977620
Yes you're right, it's not my fault. Thanks for that anon. It really gave me some clarity. I feel much better now.
i love all of you :')
>>677978061
thats not what i said..
How much is 2+5
>>677979081
Too old
>>677979155
kek
>>677973322
Lost my credit card and started playing runescape again all in one night. Am I fucked?
>>677979081
$5,000USD each per day.
>>677973322
my main problem is probably i dont want to accept help becouse of my ego or pride.
no i idea i had any of those things left, pretty neat.
>>677973322
Virginfag here, girl coming over to my place on sunday she is definitely into me but i am scared as fuck as to what im going to do. She has had one sex partner before and im oretty sure he was shitty, any tips for not being nervous?
>>677979473
if you can fix your own problems thats fine.. but if you need help with something you have to swallow your pride and get some. asking for help is not a weakness its a strong thing to do
>>677973322
I haven't had a friend, or someone I've felt comfortable with, in my life since the third grade. I am 21 years old now. I still try my best at everything I do, but I get depressed or angry with myself very quickly. Please help, I'm desperate.
>>677979552
just be yourself, being nervous around a girl you like is normal and it will become less as you spend more time with her
>>677979804
pull it together /b/ro, why dont you feel comfortable with other people?
>>677979984
I had two brothers and two sisters. They were out of the house by the time I was 10. My parents we're mid 40's when they had me. We moved around a lot, so I couldn't make lastingly relationships. Besides being the new kid I was chubby to boot, which also made people not want associate with me. I did my best to create friendships in events and groups I attended which never worked.
Steps I've made to become likable:
>I was broke now I have money
>I was fat now I am /fit/
>I was lame, now I can make jokes and make people smile
>I am working on developing my talents
Still no one is in my life or willing to just reach out to me. It feels like I'm drowning and my chest is so tight.
>>677979984
Also thank you for responding
>>677980662
could it be because you push people away without knowing? maybe they feel intimidated around you and want you to reach out to them instead. sorry if that makes no sense
>>677979984
To better answer your question; I've done better at being myself, but I still feel like everyone I talk to finds me annoying. In all of the relationships I have had girls have disregarded every word I said, don't spend time with me, but they can't wait to put their hands on me at the end of the night.
>>677973322
I was molested when I was 8 and I find it hard to form relationships. And when I do my distorted sexual needs seem to ruin it
>>677981389
You are on to something, I do now have a hard time being buddy buddy with people because no one has ever stuck around. People also come off as desperate when trying to make plans with me (this happens once in a blue moon though). I know I am a man. I know I am supposed to be strong. I need some compassion though.
>it plagues me throughout the day how little my family bothered to interact with me
>I'm constantly reminded by my loneliness of the attempts I have made to make friends
>>677981746
just find someone thats 8, or black
>>677981975
but you cant live in the past or change what happend, you can make the future better tho. thats why You should be the one setting the first steps into friendship with people or let people in who want to be your friend You are being strong by asking help instead of taking the easy way out
>>677973322 I dont have any talents.I'm mediocore at everything. Some are good at maths,some are good at videogames,some are good at people,some are good with sports. I'm with nothing and I feel that wont get me anywhere in life
>>677982467
I'm not a pedo I just have a high sex drive that dosnt go away
>>677982996
that can be really good actually, if you are mediocre at everything you dont really have any weaknesses
>>677982753
Thank you for your advice. I am holding on to a childhood that never happened. I bought a gun to kill myself with at the beginning of the year. I'll hold tight and hope things get better, and try to remember what you said.
>>677983308
I dont see it that way. I mean I guess there will always be somebody worse than me at something,but not beeing especially good at anything just makes me really sad to be honest
>>677983364
only you can better your own life, you should make the best of it and live in the present not the past. you will overcome this <3
