>>677386362
single. being independent is one of the greatest feelings in the world, some people just can't handle the loneliness that can come with that

>>677386362

Married person here.

STAY THE FUCK SINGLE. I'll go as far as to say that being a loveless virgin is better than to be married with children.

>>677386362
Single lets you get more shit done and feels great.

Being in a relationship is shitty if the other person depends on you too much or is too independent. Too dependent ones are psycopaths while independent ones are usually cheating whores.

Its good to find a mix, even so. Women are just as stupid and bound for cheating as men.

Its easy not to get heartbroken when you don't invest any hearts in the risky lottery known as love. But then again you never win nothing either.

>>677386362
This obviously varies for each person? You can only answer this question. If you have specific questions that could help you weigh your decision, then I would ask those instead.

Be married, have a girlfriend or two on the side.

That way you can still have sex, because at least one grill will be receptive to you,
unless they're all living together, and that'll suck worse because their cycles will all be in sync

>>677387406
I'm Single, and all I can think about is getting married and having children....I'm 26.

You guys must be doing something wrong, surely.

If I was fortunate enough to be in your guys' positions, I'd be as happy as a pig in shit.

Deep question my man, deep question. I would say be very cautious of getting married unless the chick brings something to the table you just can't pass up. I married a 10/10 and she was perfect for procreation. Younger, taller, and better looking. And yes, we have 2 strapping boys because of it. I wasn't going to bring niggers into the world. Now, all that shit kinda drags you down if you like freedom. I would say fuck as many chicks as possible and fall in love with extreme prejudice.

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Stay single. I'm married with two kids and not a day goes by where I don't consider going into my closet, taking the loaded .357 from its spot on the shelf above the clothes rack, placing it in my mouth and savoring the sweet taste of gun oil before splattering my brain on the wall behind me.

>>677386362
Marriage is to be shrewdly exploited for it's benefits, learn up. Same as being single.

>>677388260
.....Just curious as I'm this guy:>>677387881

do you happen to have a dead-end job with no degree and live paycheck-to-paycheck?

I can't understand married with children being this miserable.

>>677386362
it depends on what you want I life.

>>677386362
I want her

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>>677386362
Its nice coming home to somebody who cares about you more than you do yourself. Then you make love. Then you wake up to see the same person.

Eventually she'll get more saggy, thats why you get the petite ones so their tits don't sag by their forties.

And over time she'll shit with the door open, and do gross women things and leave tampons in your garbage. And the bleeding out of the lower orfice... OH GOD ITS HORRIBLE
Not only is there blood everyfucken where but it turns her into a bitch or a moapy 12 year old emo.

But then theres kids... You get to take what you love about another person and combine yourself with her.

But then you gotta deal with the pregnancy and her inability to do shit partnered with desires for rare foods which you cannot make at home. And after 9 months of horrible destruction... you get a pissing shitting puking brat that will grow up to lie, steal all your shit and probably put you in a nursing home. Plus they usually do damage to your wife in the vajayjay and leave stretchmarks and permanently break her metabolism or make her lazy as fuck.

Thats another thing unless she takes care of herself she gun get fayut.

Damn son.

But yeah if you can avoid all the problems of it... congrats your in the 2% of all couples who have a flawless relationship.

>Fuck.

>>677386362
Sauce?

>>677388257
>This
And don't marry out of your "race", unless you want to be a pawn of social science. Reread this many times, sleep, eat, go out, reread this many times. Rinse and repeat.

stay single, it's more fun. marriage is boring.

>>677386362

Single

single. more time for porn.

been married for 7 years. i didn't love her when we married, but grew to love her later when i saw her give birth to 2 daughters. My bond to her now is intense, possibly biological. I dont know that my experience is typical, but I have zero regrets despite being very open eyed about the obvious downsides to marriage. I guess fatherhood gave me a deeper purpose, and loving the mother of my children with all my heart flowed from that.....or i could just be both drunk and stoned. Which I am.

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>>677386362
here ya go op

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>>677390216
>April fools was yesterday?
Drowning in a variety of pussy I see Anon.

Just fucked my wife balls deep. Put her ass to sleep. In the morning we will get some breakfast at a nice restaurant and then maybe a movie before more sex. What do you think op?

>>677390216
Whoa. This. I've been married 8 years. I love her more after watching the birth. But she don't like sex. It's more of a function for her. I'm a very sexual person.

>>677390786
You are me. 100%

>>677390761
Have kids?

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>>677390414
this is the funniest thing i've ever read on this site.

>>677390916
Yea

>>677390761
I'm single and fuck a new girl every week, pussy

>>677391169
>STDs feels good man

>>677391272
Haha rekt

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I turned into a fag (literally) from porn

depends who you're married to

I recommend cheating as often as possible!

>>677390414
dont save her
she dont wanna be saved

>>677386362
If society wasn't soo fucked up and skewed towards the advantage of women, I'd actually be a huge supporter of marriage, no there's nothing wrong about wanting to settle down. I would actually encourage it and what most men would dream of.

Sadly in the state of affairs for 2016. It's unrealistic and huge ass risk for a male to get married. She literally will get half of what is urs even if she makes more money then you. She can cheat on you and with out evidence can literally take everything away from you. She can even use the he didn't show me enough attention as justifications to steal everything you have worked for.

It's like literally giving a women a key to your heart with zero repercussions for her and begging her to not break it. for a select few at the age of 40 this can work out. Sadly for most it will not.

>>677391750
This.

Real men have atleast 2-3 side bitches. (Remember, women are only holes for your dick)

>>677391750
How? What if the other partner isn't into it?

>>677391369
Enjoy your wicked status. I hope the demons don't drive you to rape or suicide.

>>677392362
the point is you don't tell them.

I sucked tons of dick while married.

>>677392465
getting raped sounds hot.

>>677392557
HAIL SATAN

>>677392498
Who's cock did you suck, whore

>>677392627
sounds fun to me. he have a big dick?

>>677392355
>>677391750
>>677391169
This is exactly what I plan on doing once I'm married even when ill have kids

"working extra hours" and "going to meet friends"
chances are she'll probably be cheating too at some point

>>677392498
oh, so you're just a garbage person.

>>677390414
>3 kids
>5 different dads

Fucking whore.

>>677392350
What is a prenup?

>>677392498
T R A S H
R
A
S
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Depends on who you marry really. A bad match is a lifetime of misery. Being single forever is awesome imo.

>>677392857
yep! i have no shame. seriously.

>>677393123
i embrace it <3 im a nasty whore for real

>>677386362
Sauce now, please

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>Be 33
>Married
>Two sons (one just born)

I love it. Sure, I'm often more tired than when I was souly focused on myself. But now, with the boys particuarly we enjoy seeing them get older and more skilled.

Wife and I both work, we make pretty good money all being said. Which helps.

>>677390634
i never imagined i'd be around so much pussy. When you have 2 daughters, all your friends suddenly have 2 daughters, I went to a fucking birthday party today where i'd say it was a 10-1 ratio. I cherish interaction with men. It's like a pure, mountain stream. i have bromances with my wife's friends husbands. I come here just to remind myself i have balls still. but overall life is pretty good. great sex twice a week. I'm take care of. I am constantly castigated, but sometimes worshipped. It's worth the cost. no regrets.

>>677388902
Because people like time and money, and kids are the opposite of that, it's not complicated. A lot of parents just have stockholm syndrome because they cant admit having kids is generally shit. It's like an incredibly high-maintenance dog that siphons money off of you. Being single is only shit if you're shit. Basically, if you're an unhappy single person, having kids isnt going to fix you and you're not suited for parenthood, but if you're an unhappy parent, you could potentially have been happy as a single person, although it isnt guaranteed

>>677390919
Sauce pls anon

>>677395384
finally a god damn man on 4chan

I'm married with kids and its pretty alright.

>>677393909
>embrace it

Then let the poor guy know, whore.

>>677390414
lmao why would you wife a whore?

dont tell me that every woman/man is a whore too, cause i bet some of you virgins haven't spoken to a girl in the last 8months

I'd say married. There's a lot of benefits especially emotional and financial to having a partner that make you a better person and in a better position overall.

Getting ready to take the plunge myself. I know it may get to a point where both get tired and may want to fuck other people. But we could probably open things up while maintaining the aspect of having a solid partner

If you're a male and seriously considering marriage in this day and age there is something wrong with you.

I'm married at 29, four kids, and its great. It takes compromise though, you can't get married and still spend all day watching anime, or have kids and still expect to play games until 4am. You lose a lot of free time, but it can be worth it. Just don't marry the wrong person.

People who get married and have children are fucking retarded.

>>677398243
that explains a lot

>>677397128

Has anyone here done this? As far getting married but basically having it agreed both of you can fuck other people if needed?

>>677397763
Can't believe you ended your life while still in your 20s. Prayers out to you

>>677386804
/thread

when you're single you wish you had a girl and when you're married/LTR you wish you were single.

>>677398591
It doesn't work unless you're both sociopaths.

>>677388260
Do you happen to have a career-loving wife? Are you and/or your wife materialistic?

>>677388791
This man knows what's up.

All you unhappy cuckold sucker bitches are just bad at life. Don't blame being married for your problems. I feel sorry for your kids.

I'm married (since 2009) and it's fucking righteous. Life gets exponentially better and easier when you're partnered up. Unless you marry a nutjob or a piece of shit. In which case, better you than me.

I'm 21 with a 4 year old son. I love him once you have the kid all that being scared goes out the window. I wished his mom would have had a miscarriage but he's the best thing that's ever happened to me

>>677387881

I'm also married. You don't want to be married. You can date, fuck, or move in together but for the love of god, don't get married. Don't fucking do it.

p.s. you don't need to be married to have kids. Hell, you can get snipped and still have a kid. Adopt. That's what I would have done differently.

Find someone who will love you no matter what. Avoid materialistic women. Remember, looks fade away. It's all fun and games until you're old and alone. It gets lonely.

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Got .aried in my 20's even tho I said I would never do it some times I regret sometimew I fell like luckyest guy on earth in t mostly regret

People change anon sometimes you won't like how they turn out better to not be comited to them for life

>>677399802
You're fucking retarded.

>>677398879
How do you figure? It's kind of natural to want to explore sex with others, doesn't mean a marriage has to end because of it

>>677399855
Your not alone you got them doubles

>>677399921
Sounds like someone can't into life already. Do everyone a favour and shoot yourself if you think having a kid is the hardest thing that'd ever going to happen.

>>677399802
>I wished his mom would have had a miscarriage but he's the best thing that's ever happened to me

wut

>>677399958
What's the point of getting married then? Why bother pretending monogamy is necessary at all if you're just going to ditch it when you figure out you made a boring choice?

>>677400331
That's the thing about ts not worth it
At least I know now

>>677400229
>someone stupid enough to become a teenage parent telling people with self control to shoot themselves
How poor were your parents?

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>>677395411
Genetic engineering and social preprogramming. Luckily we havn't bothered. Stay still Anon :)

>>677400237
Meant to put in sometimes I wish. Heh >>677400514
Meh average household. Shit happens and I'm not a god damn nigger I didn't just walk away. Why don't you just focus on finally losing your virginity okay?

>>677398606
Nah its still alright. I went to college for four years and was in residency for three so I still had a lot of me stuff to deal with. Our kids are great, youngest is a newborn though so that has been a bit stressful.

>>677400879
>I'm not a god damn nigger
You were a teenage parent. You definitely are a nigger. Your kid sounds like it'll be a winner too, considering its dad is just a babby who still goes to 4chan himself.

>>677400780
sauce??

>>677401151
You try to hard bruh
>chill out

>>677400331

I'm thinking the stability that comes with having a trusted partner, both financial and emotional stability.

>>677387647
this right here

>>677401325
>to
Nigger confirmed.
>>677401340
>I'm thinking
Doubtful.

>>677400207
I'm not. Planning on eloping.. Unfortunately, both of us are terrible planners, so, it'll just happen one day.

>>677399802
i'd never ever want a child this young. Unless your parents are helping out, I can almost guarantee that your finances are gonna take a hit, and that's gonna delay your first house which imo is the most important asset a person has. are you still studying at uni? have you got a job?

>>677401151
>insulting me because of a mistake I made
>kid is already born and no longer a baby
>shit talks me for being a parent and lurking b
Well good news you'll never worry about that last one considering you're a huge fucking asshole no one is willing to mate with. But oh well it matches your tiny penis

>>677401340
>trusted partner
topkek

>>677401340
yeah but you dont have to be married to achieve this

>>677401816
Thankfully I have a great family. Live in Canada so going to the hospital isn't a death sentence. Also I'm a journeyman welder who makes 36 an hour. That's nothing for a welder but I'm much better off then that faggot taking shit

>>677401991
Why is that funny?

>>677402034

Not necessarily but marriage provides benefits like tax breaks and other things you can't get otherwise

>>677401944
>Well good news you'll never worry about that last one considering you're a huge fucking asshole no one is willing to mate with
Oh, poor me. I won't end up a fuck up like you who threw his life away over some skank and the retarded baby she refused to abort.

>>677401944
dont worry about him. if you're happy now then that's all that matters. just focus on making his childhood as enjoyable as possible

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>2016
>Relegating yourself to one squaw for life

>>677402292
trusted partner comes with an use-by date you don't know, and this is like 99% of the time.

>>677402229
>then
Trash raised by trash raising trash.

>>677402372
>good news for you
>says poor me
Who's the retarded Babby again fam? Fuck out of here

>>677402229
ey you're doing well for yourself

>>677388902
No degree but worked my way up to management in the electrical industry. I clear about 75-85k per year depending on what projects we have going but with two kids and a stay at home wife I'm still barely above paycheck to paycheck.
>>677399411
Somewhat materialistic but wife is stay at home.

The misery comes from knowing that I'm forever trapped by my obligations and the fact that I can't cheat on my wife locks me into one pussy for the rest of my life.

>>677402292
>Getting married for a fucking tax break

You're doing it wrong.

>>677400514
Top kek

>>677402572
>Who's the retarded Babby again fam?
(You)

Happy married people aren't browsing /b/ generally. They're too busy getting pussy every night and being on average more wealthy than a single person in the same demographic

>>677402600
why doesn't your wife work? how do families live off of one income earner whose only making average wage? it blows my fkn mind

>>677402529
You think I give a Fuck about my grammar on the Internet for some underage b&?
I bet you are that one guy who finally got invited to a party then went around being a grammar nazi and got his ass beat or thrown in the pool

>>677387881
Once you're in a committed relationship you pretty much lose all freedom. That's what I miss. After a while the wife and kids feel more like a cage.

>>677402397
Oh I'm not too worried about him. Fuck you should have seen my father in law. Some Internet lurker ain't got shit

>>677402860
My wife has a ged and no real career experience outside of waitressing or administrator assistant and she'd only be working to pay for childcare. We are thrifty and budget well so it's not too bad financially.

>>677402864
>You think I give a Fuck about my grammar on the Internet
Of course you don't. You're trash who was raised by trash. It's cute you're calling someone underage when you're basically a child yourself at 21. No one under the age of 25 is considered an adult by the real grown ups, even if they do shit out some babby who's bound to have a learning disability. But you'll figure that out one day.

>>677403001
i wouldn't say you lose all freedom. my father still goes out to the pub/has drinks with his colleagues every week and he's a pretty busy man making a lot of many. I think there is a point where if your household earns a certain amount of many, you can pretty much buy the freedom you want. Unless you are talking about fucking bitches other than his wife, then yeah he has no freedom at all

>>677402743
>Tfw wife isn't in the mood for it because she gave birth three days ago.
Feels bad man.

>>677402600
Haven't you heard? Anything below 150k is the new poor.
Shit, there are places where the state is subsidizing housing for those who earn less than 250k... You are fucked beyond your worst nightmares friend.

>>677403221
>childcare
ok that's alright then. you've got time to save up for highschool and whatever.

>>677403245
Oh I guess you've never made a mistake. Only my mistake that I thought I once made now is my whole life. I highly doubt you even have a gf you cuck let alone having a kid if you are bashing me for having one. Not like I'm a bad father just because I'm young.

>>677403404
i meant to say money, not many

>>677387647
im 30 and single
I almost get married and at the end I called it off and I dont regret it
After several painful relationships I can conclude being single is best for me, I'd end up divorced paying alimony otherwise

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Negatives:
- You lose your freedom as a man
- What's yours is hers..
- Everything is your fault
- StopPlayingThatStupidGame.jpg
- Pointless arguments she can start because 'period'
- Less sex and it get used as a weapon against you to control or punish you
- If she cheats, courts will give her half your shit.
- If you cheat, courts will give her ALL of your shit
- Now the deal is sealed, she'll watch Ellen everyday, eat pies and and stop washing her vag

Positives:
+ She might cook, but even ovens can do that themselves these days..

>>677403404
Pretty much this. Can't have free time if you work 80 hours a week to get by.

>>677403716
Or... find a decent girl? Don't go after the first fucking pig that gives you a second look. It's not like anyone here is going to be getting models but holy fuck have some balls if you're life is actually this bad

>>677389278
nice, I pictured myself in that position and thats why in my 30's I decided to remain single as long as possible

>>677403547
Ha! Don't I know it. It's possible to live on it and even sock some away for a rainy day but we've been living beneath our means for the past 5 years and should have enough to invest in a couple of rental properties soon. Residual income from those should allow us to buy more income properties and hopefully break through, but honestly the financial aspect isn't a major point of consternation.

Are you make or female? Is pic related?

>>677403746
he only works 37-40 hours a week. mind you he's passed the financial shitfest that was my private highschool fees, and he's moved up in his job, so he can enjoy the nicer things in life. too bad he's nearing 50 - but i guess that's how life goes nowadays. too little too late

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>>677386362
i see you found the video of me and ur sister.
she'd come over sometimes while her boyfriend was away after school.

once the door would close she'd almost instantly get naked. most times she'd put on her favorite song and start sucking. then she would cry. her tears and makeup would drip down her face onto my dick. its surprising how cold tears are. eventually i finally asked her what was wrong. in between licks she told me that her favorite song was also her bfs favorite song. so even though she loved hearing it and it totally got her pussy wet, it also made her think about the fact that she was cheating on her boyfriend. i dont think i ever came harder down somebodies throat then right after she told me that. she was beautiful. we dont hang out anymore. wanna get lunch?


this was the song:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QSPe8dIJEtw

>>677403404
Yeah, every week. I used to go out and get wasted whenever I wanted. Go to a buddies place and do some blow? Why not. That shit isn't doable once you have a wife. Giving you attitude everytime you want to do anything. It's like you're living with your mom, but a mom you can fuck (once in a blue moon).

>>677386362

Just a reminder 99 percent of the people who say marriage sucks are single neckbeards.
I'd say as long as you get a prenub you should be good.

>>677403597
>>677403597
>I highly doubt you even have a gf you cuck let alone having a kid if you are bashing me for having one.
Yes, stupid. I am in fact bashing you for having a kid and I don't have one. You're a bad father because you're young and stupid. You just don't realize it yet because you haven't finished the job of dooming that kid to a subpar life. You'll get there though.

Don't bother responding again. You're done.

>>677404100
Prenups get thrown out 9/10 times

>>677402743
> getting pussy everynight
Implying you do get to fuck your wife whenever you want

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>>677402864
classy

so what? hookers?

>>677403926
>...
Learning disability detected.

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>>677392177
bitch aint got no role model

>>677404047
can i just that maintaining rental properties is a job in itself. it's tough having one, let a lone two or more. But honestly it is the best way to increase your capital wealth, and pays off more the younger you start investing

>>677402600
Why would you want more pussy? It's just a headache. Fuck a wrong woman and your life is over.

>>677395411
Fair contribution

Dude ever since me and my ex of 3 years broke up. I fucking hate all woman I fuck like 5 of them on the side but I hate them all. I want a wife but i just hate them all. Im just gonna an hero I guess

>>677386362
Depends.

If you don't like the person beyond sex, stay single.

If you truly develop love for that person beyond intimacy then marry them.

There's a lot of bitter people on /b/ because they settled for some girl just because she was hot or she was their only option.

But from someone who's been in love before, I can tell you it is one of the greatest feelings ever.

>>677402743
I'm happily married and browsing /b/ and get pussy 8/10 times I go for it.

Agree 100% on the income situation. I'm making ~3x more than if I was single.

>>677402860
See, here's the problem. Decent women should stay at home and take care of the family while the husband works. Give more power to women and we all go nuts. A huge percent of divorce is by women because they're independent. No more compromising..no more talking because both of you are busy with your career. Children growing up with nannies or daycares.

>>677398591
My friends parent's are swingers. The father is literally the most arrogant, narcissistic, idiotic miserable man I've ever met though. But that's just because he believed money would buy him happiness. Just a taste of his logic, his son was establishing a valid argument against an outrageous claim his dad made in regards to a guy getting shot, his dad responded, you don't know shit, you can't make any opinions unless you pay taxes (even though my friend had a job delivering pizza for dominos at the time). I know it's not entirely outrageous, but that is the dude's attempt at logic on a consistent basis.

>>677404517
Yeah I wish I had started much earlier (35 now). I hope to have 4 or 5 by 45 and we have a good property management company run by a close friend.
>>677404521
I understand the risks which is why I don't act on the desire to bang something strange but want new pussy is a natural craving

>>677404753
>taking advice from someone who can't construct a paragraph
xD

>>677405102
How old are you again? Don't worry, when you reach mid 40, your dick will say enough and would just sleep constantly.

i want to be a cuck and share my gf, how do i start?

>>677405139
>paragraph form for informal advice
Really? Autism to the max.

>xD
Fuck off newfag.

>>677405385
Start with chaturbate. Watch her be a slut online first. If you really like it, then, take it to the next level.

>>677405315
Never thought I'd look forward to erectile dysfunction.

>>677404211
>because you're young and stupid
Uhhh isn't that the job of a young person? And my idea of a bit stupid isn't harmful or anything to my kid. I have lots of family help me with my son so no need to worry
Have a nice life :^)

>>677405102
im planning on buying a rental property when i graduate from uni, and then pretty much build my portfolio to about 4 or 5 houses like yourself. should be fun... and rewarding

>>677405486
>b-b-but muh niggerish excuses

>>677386362
>>677386362
I'm 28, married for 8 years, together for 11. Together we make solid six figures, good insurance, comfortable life, own a house. We have 4 great kids. We fuck pretty much every night. My wife is cool as fuck, literally my best friend in the world. We play video games, chill out, whatever the hell we want to do.

I know I'm the exception, not the rule. Find your own path, but find a friend first and foremost.

choice C: non marriage but strong relationship

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>>677386362
Single > Married
but
Love-making > random sex

>>677405619
>Depends. If you don't like the person beyond sex, stay single. If you truly develop love for that person beyond intimacy then marry them. There's a lot of bitter people on /b/ because they settled for some girl just because she was hot or she was their only option. But from someone who's been in love before, I can tell you it is one of the greatest feelings ever.

Happy autismo? Enjoy your (You).

any bros wanna give me some advice?

I usually don't date long term but found a diamond of a girl I've been with for past few years that's made me change my ways recently.

Problem is she can't live here long term since she's from another country. The only thing I can do is marry her if i want her around in my country because i hate her country and probably couldn't live their anyway. She's ready to move with me after graduating, and of course she's happy to get married and completely start a fresh life with me.

Now I do want her around. I've had my share of fucking around on the side. I've lived with her for months straight for a year, practically glued to each other. sex is good and constant I can actually chill with her without wanting to poke my eyes out with a rusty spoon unlike most other chicks.

everyone says marriage = game over on the sex life department and she'll eventually cheat and get fat and stop caring. I don't really care if she puts on a few pounds, she makes up for it in plenty of other ways and i know the honeymoon period has to end. But neither of us wants kids for a while so we shouldn't be too boring too quickly, we'll be the same as before

How fucked would i be if i marry her? It's the only option I see if I want her in my life.
obviously, i'd be getting a prenup. Her idea since I've told her im not interested in marriage previously.

>>677405603
All the research I've done points to it being the way to go. If you can do it as a full time job you make more but a property management company will let you work while you build a larger portfolio. Also keep enough capital for repairs.

>>677405571
My bf is 13 years older than me. Sometimes he gets hard, sometimes he doesn't. He brought up the idea of Viagra the other day. I said no. The idea of a him having a heart attack is too much for me. We don't need to fuck like rabbits.

I dont like kids. I dont like talking. I would like to have girl though (sex, physical closeness). Dont know how to get girl though.

>>677405573
The job of being a young person is to stop being stupid. What you consider harmful is irrelevant because some of us know better than you. That family who you're relying on produced someone capable of getting into the foolish situation you're currently in. Not really the type of people I put a lot of faith in, Jamal.

>>677395411
>Being single is only shit if you're shit.
id say this goes for prenting as well
>source
>HAPPY SINGLE NEVER MARRIED DAD

>>677405921
Money.

>>677403245
>no one under... 25 is considered an adult by real grown ups...
That's only because you, along with many others have a very narrow point of view. I guarantee if you met a 25 year old that's cognitive ability transcends your own comprehension, you would be too blind to even acknowledgment. I've met plenty of 25 year olds that are absolutely brilliant. If anything, those in their late 40s-50s are the one's that are incapable of critical thought and essentially develop their opinion about someone based on their assumptions on one's political affiliations. Fucking people man.

>>677405921
>Dont know how to get girl though.
have you looked on the internet? you can buy pretty much anything on the internets

>>677405853
If you think you need a prenup don't even bother. A prenup is a foundation for a marriage without love. It doesn't sound you this is a political or financial reason, so I assume genuine feelings would be the reason why you'd want to marry, correct? If you think she'll cheat, or slack off, will steal your money in 5 years then obviously she isn't the one. When you do find the one, there isn't a doubt in your mind.

>>677405525
should i get a nigger to fuck her?

>>677390414
That is a lot of autism in one picture.

>>677406034
I got some. What do you mean? Hookers? Because normal girls needs talking too.

>>677406186
Buy what?

>>677390919
OMG SAUCE ME

>>677404223
Why is that?

>>677405663
>>677405663
>>677405663
same boat here. Nice to meet another exception! :-)

>>677406403
>Buy what?
a girl

>>677406193
See, that's the thing.. If you're rich, a lot of women will love you. Everyone's nice to you. It's hard to trust someone if you're rich. A lot of women are vindictive. Even if they have money, they would fuck you up anyway they could if you got a crazy one.

I'm almost 30, never really had a relationship. Have been with around 20 women or so but only "dated" one for a few months. I see all my friends who are getting married or have been married for a few years now and all they have time for is yelling at their kids or wives. Everything revolves around that - which I guess I can understand - but I've never had gotten the feeling to ever have kids or get married. I'm not that type of person. I imagine someday I'll meet a girl I might like but far as kids go - fuck that.

>>677406069
Being wordy does not make you intelligent.

>>677406667
Then don't flaunt your wealth. When meeting girls pretend you're financially average.

>>677406588
hookers are quite expensive

>>677406730
i agree - as Mark Twain said "clear as a window pane". or something like that

>>677406791
they're cheaper than kids

>>677406764
And then what? Not bring your gf to your place? You'll only know a person if you live with them.. Or sometimes you don't.

>>677406791
>hookers are quite expensive
i was more reffering to something like a russian/japanese/etc girl from over seas

>>677406069
Sure thing, little kid. You keep thinking you're intelligent while I point out that under the age of 25 was the threshold while you're talking about a 25yo, within the threshold I set for adulthood. Next time, try thinking before pressing submit. Got it, kid?

>>677407027
but if you want to meet few times a week thats still huge amount of cash that could be spend on something 'better'

>>677407085
If you're wealthy enough to have a place that's obviously rich, you should be wealthy enough to have a place that's average. A place that's not renting yet, perhaps?

>>677404676
no you don't

>>677407337
So what? Live a double life? Good luck with that. Not practical and just a pain in the ass. If she really loves you, she'd understand why you need a prenup. If the relationship lasts for more than 20 or 30 years, then, no more prenup.

>>677407320
i agree

Only marry young girls who you go to while they were young and impressionable, their minds will be flooded with hormones and will only think of you. They will truly love unconditionally. I had one once, got her while she was barely 16. As soon as I broke up with her she became bitchy and conceded.

>>677407836
That works too. A prenup that expires. Actually that sounds much more practical.

>>677386362
Fag

>>677407836
idk what the other guy was suggesting about buying two houses are something, but you just gotta be picky with your girl, especially if you are wealthy. you need to know she's the one

Ive been with same girl for 6 years, someday we will probably get married. She has a 9yo kid from previous relationship, me and her have a 4yo. marriage isnt a want/need/priority for us at this time. being single when younger was the way to go, been there done that.

>>677405853
dude just marry her and make her sign a prenatal contract, then if it doesn't work out just get a divorce, no biggy

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>>677395384

Married. Have 2 awesome kids and get to fuck my wife twice a day. Can't complain.

>>677392498
People like you are the people I hate the most. Kill yourself, you fucking whore

>>677407995
Exactly

>>677408095
Being picky is very hard when you're rich. Like I said, everyone is nice to you when you have money. A lot of women are master manipulators. Especially nowadays. A lot of people have become more materialistic.

my dad dated a prostitute after him and my mom broke up, thoughts? he said it was more of an emotional thing, and he didn't pay for her company, she would come over to his house and just talk.

>>677408341
pics of wife
>>677408145
"...my wife's son.."
the meme is real

>>677406193

Thanks for the advice.

It is feelings. I love her a lot and she loves me too.However there is not a chance in hell I would sign a contract to let anyone have a cent of my earnings or single one of my possessions should we split. Especially when the law is so favored towards women. We are two seperate people, what's hers is hers and whats mine is mine and she or me are not entitled to anything. this is the view we both share. I'ts more of a moral opposition to the concept than me beleiving us splitting is a likelihood. The argument if you don't split then there's no problems ever i don't think holds much water because it's the principle the obligation is keeping the marriage stable. So absolutely I would do a prenup.

I know she's the one, because I would of *never* considered marriage with anyone else I've been with prior.I don't need to settle down, but I know at least as far as I can tell now I'd be happy to spend the rest of my life with her

She's got a great quality of life in her country and would be sacrificing it all to come and start fresh with me. She doesn't even really like my country but said she is willing to move wherever I am in the world.

I don't believe in marriage one bit. Neither does she. She thinks it's just a certificate and said I could divorce her shortly after marriage if i really wanted to, in fact she was even considering a lesbian partnership with a friend of mine because i was opposed to the idea of marriage so much, but it looks like it won't work, so the only option for us to live together is marriage.

>>677405890
Fuck off and die bitch give the guy viagra and fuck him fuck

I met a couple of men when I had an okcupid account. First guy I met was an unemployed musician. The other guy was a bus driver. Bus driver has money because his family's rich. I picked the unemployed musician because we connected mentally and emotionally. We're engaged now. We've decided that since we're both poor, we're not gonna stay in one apartment. I'll find a place close to him. I told him that a man has to have a mancave so he won't lose his mind. Since we can't afford a house, he keeps his bachelor for him and his equipments. It's more practical that way.

>>677389278
I really love huge, saggy, flopping titties. So I think I'm good with that part.

I'm not cool with shitting with the door open. I assume I can tell her not to do that shit...ever. We can always get a bio-disposal bin for tampons. And I've learned that there are drugs that help women with their pms symptoms (evening primrose), if you can get the little bitches to take their pills.

I happen to think pregnant chics are kinda hot. But I have no experience with kids. I don't mind stretch marks, and I think I can even deal with a blown out vag if it got blown out while birthing my offspring. God knows I've dealt with vag's that were blown out by other men's kids (not dealing with that ever again).

Overall, I think I could handle it.

>>677409217
No. Life is short. I want to spend as much time with him. Nevermind sex.

>>677405853
Prenups may or may not hold up. So whomever makes the least amount, live on that times 2.So if she does get half then you only payed for half. She makes 500 a week. You make 1000 a week. You both only live on 1000 a week and put your extra money in a trust or give it to family member you trust. Trust funds are usually untouchable even in divorce court.

I am 17 and still single
>send help

>>677409941
1000 a week = 500 per person x 2

I've been cheated on by every girl i've date, 7, and my mom cheated on my dad after 10 years of being together. How do i trust a woman to not do the same. I feel like maybe i'm looking for love in the wrong girls but even a girl who was A student and super sweet turned out to be a snake who fucked around with her ex.

>>677410257
You won't know. It's hard to tell because he first three months of the relationship is the infatuation stage. After that, the real colour of the person will start to show.

>>677409497
sweetie every girl and her dog has dated an unemployed musician at some point. It doesn't make you not materialistic because its such a cliche. Maybe dating an unemployed trash collector might work.

>>677386362
for the love of god stay single. I'm only with my girl because i eventually want kids. Looking back i didn't realize how much freedom and independence i had and wish i could appreciate now

>>677410477
Explain materialistic

>>677398243

For real. A very true statement for this board.

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>>677392177
fuckin lost

>>677392498
>implying this isn't b8
>shiggy diggy

>>677386362
HALF of EVERYTHING YOU own
figure it out son

>>677392695
>>677392857
>>677393123
>>677408476
So please explain to me why we can have side chicks but women can't suck cocks.

>>677410257
sex isn't the part you have to worry about. a quickie only lasts 5-10 minutes. cheating starts way before that. it's in their interactions with each other. spend time with her. watch her with her friends/coworkers. you'll spot that she has the intention to cheat long before it happens. partners who are overly/openly flirtatious, more than just professionally friendly, codependent friendships with the opposite sex...these are the things to watch for.

>>677386362
It depends, anonkun. I've been single for a little bit more than a year and it feels great but I'm planning to date a beautiful girl I met at the place I work at so I don't know.. If you really really love the other person and that person loves you back, then it's fucking awesome. If not, then stay single and fuck shitloads of womyn

>>677410257
man I met an A student too who was super sweet. you'd think butter wouldn't melt and she cheated too. They really are all snakes

Mine cried about how she just wants someone to love her and how she knows how bad it hurts to get cheated on because her ex cheated on her. Well turns out that sloot was getting dicked down by him whilst talking to me.. I didn't split with her like everyone said, I got her to fall hard and turn introvert, got her nice and tubby with short hair, during which time i slept with any chick with a pulse during the time I was with her and had her for threesomes. She only found out after she found pics of 1 girl sucking my dick. She forgave me bc she was co-dependent by this stage and I dumped her later.Still feel like I got took for an idiot though even though I cheated way more..it's just that I trusted someone for once and it turned out she was a liar like all the others. Fuck women.

I honestly don't think you can find perfectly loyal gf out there. Maybe someone who's not a student for starters though because 90% of women whore themselves out in college in their sexual discovery stage and say they were just looking for comfort if you ever find out their true number or catch them in the act.

>>677411079
Lmao you sound like a creepy fucking psychopath faggot

>>677410979
i'm not the op, but i've always felt it's worse when women cheat. in general, men cheat for physical/biological reasons, and women cheat for emotional/mental reasons. again, this is a generalization, but guys who cheat don't want to leave their wives/gf's. while women who cheat have one foot out the door. in that light, a woman's cheating is much more serious.

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>>677410838
>lost hard

>>677410590
in this context someone who cares about their mans income or status more than they care about an emotional connection

basically I'm saying almost every chick has dated a musician in their young phase. Musicians historically aren't loaded, but women love to think they're living the rock n roll lifestyle eating ramen, drinking jack, fucking like crazy, going to gigs chainsmoking and doin drugs.

then they grow up a bit, if the bands successfull its good for a while then they get jealous because groupies, if it's not they realise they need more security and move on from the wild stage to a man with more stability.

>>677411470
no, just very, very experienced with women and relationships. women are naturally in touch with their emotions. this makes them great liars. it's difficult to catch a woman cheating if you don't know how to read them.

>>677411715
We're not teenagers. I like him because he's redpilled. At the end of the day, I need someone who I can talk to.

>>677411513
For sure

women are like monkeys when it comes to cheating
they'll grab onto the next branch before they let go of yours. When they know the next branch can support them they'll jump. But they'll test the waters first.

Also their bullshit reasons. You will never hear a man go out and cheat for pussy and then blame it on the fact he felt neglected, or wasn't getting enough attention. He just wanted some fuk.

This is a beautiful thread!

>>677393095
Lol. Good luck getting the court to actually enforce it.

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>>677386362
its better to live separately at the very least. men and women just do not cohabit very easily.

>>677411992
Fair enough. I mean dating a musician from OKcupid doesn't sound like the best recipe for success but what do I know about you or him. I met my gf here on /b/.. hope you last longer than a few years like most musician flings. Interestingly I notice guys in bands are one of the few people who tend to cheat more than the gf, especially on tour women just throw themselves at bandmembers because theres something about them. so good luck

>>677401340
Lol financial stability. For her, anyway. Not so much for you.
> he doesn't spend enough time with me
> you must now pay half your money and a third of your salary for 20 years

>>677412053
true. i don't want to woman-bash, but i've met a lot of women who try to blame outside forces for their actions (ie being neglected/not getting attention), when they could have just as easily talked about their feelings, or left the relationship without cheating. i think this is due to society not putting pressure on women to own up to their bullshit. men don't get that privilege.

>>677404421
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=imgYGfH2yNM

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>>677410979
>So please explain to me why we can have side chicks but women can't suck cocks.

Biologically men need to have sex regularly and with different women as nature intended or we go crazy/angry/violent/depressed.

Nature only gives women that urge once a month during her cycle.

Anything else is just her being a whore which she has control over.

>>677412524
He's a bit of an autist, I think. He doesn't get a gig because he procrastinate.. A lot. He's not a rock and roll type of guy. He browse /pol/ once in a while. Admitted to fap on some stuff here on /b/. I think, he's awesome. Thanks. by the way.

>>677412814
yo, that's complete bullshit. you make men look bad. i'm guessing this is a female trying to bait and prove herself right. pls gtfo my /b/.

>>677411309
no. it doesnt. be fucking single........ im telling u......

>>677386362
married if you're religious and that's your thing, otherwise don't bother.

>>677392498
Every second post is
>cheat
>cheat often
>don't forget to cheat

Anon baits from female perspective and there is outcry
Gotta love b double standards

Marriage is fucking great, anon. I've never regretted it.

But spend at least 5 years dating before you commit. I reccomend living together the last few years. The difference between when my wife and I being married and living together is a piece of paper labeled, "Commonwealth of Pennsylvania Marriage License"

>>677410979
If you're serious I can give you some reasons

1) its easy as fuck to find a cock to suck or fuck. You've heard the old analogy about the master lock and key surely. Basically men have to work to get laid, women don't. So when you get a GF you've put in work. as the gf you don't have to do much to keep your BF around. He can pay for shit, give you a place to live and let you coast along. So the moment you spread your legs it's more insulting. Because you have things made and you went out for some easy dick to feed your attentionwhore complex.

2) half the time you're not honest. And you'r predictable. "I was feeling neglected" "He was just comforting me" "He's just a friend". Just say you wanted some new cock all up in your snatch, don't beat around the bush and dress it up as your partners fault.

3) from my experience a girl is MORE likely to be into you if you have other girls sniffing round because she wants to show you off like an accessory on her arm and rub it into all the other chicks that "he's mine" you can't have him. She doesn't care about your side chick if she can be your main girl and rub it in her face, ESPECIALLY if she started off as a side chick getting off to the fact you're cheating on the gf. which is funny because in reality you're pretty much guaranteed to be the sort of guy that'll cheat on her again

>>677413609
my mom is pretty religious, when me and my gf stay there, like for holidays and such, she makes us sleep in different rooms. we are in our 20's...lol

>>677413021
my gf pretty much banned me from /b/ becuase there's "too many hotter, skinnier girls than her" here

That didn't turn out too well. So don't ask your bf to not fap to anything here cause he won't listen and he'll just respect you less for making such a dumb request.

Also i guess he seems alright. Hope you two make it work and beat the odds.

>>677403482

ofc she wont be in the mood when her vagina got stretched up to 10 times normally 3 days ago, fucking retard.

>>677414229
i agree. this is all true.