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Probably going to leave my long term gf. Is it possible to still get a good looking woman with no kids at 31?
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Yes, a 20-ish years old one
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>>675428758
easily.
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Yeah when I was 32 I hooked up with a 23 year old. Was a good couple of years.
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>>675428758
How much cash you got? Own a house yet? Girls need to be pretty, men need to be successful. In your 30s you should have achieved something.
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Why are you leaving your gf, OP?
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>>675428758
>good looking
>woman with
>no kids
>at 31?
not really, maybe if they're seeking a masters or doctorate in something. Shoot for younger women, they still have hopes and dreams for you to corrupt.
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You too? I've considered leaving mine >>675428758
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>>675429399

this
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>>675429399
Like not being in jail or sick.Not having killed yourself yet.
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>>675429399
ive got a house and 2 cars
>>675429442
cos shes an angry person with nothing to offer anymore
>>675429895
its hard decision to make
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>>675430257
>cos shes an angry person with nothing to offer anymore
That doesn't sound like a really good reason.
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>>675428758
>No. Hook ups yes. Long term, hellllllllllllll no. I'm sorry dude but your officially on the wrong side of 30.
Women that will be interested in long term:
-Over 30
-the "settling down" type
-gold diggers (your in the perfect storm of stable and not too old here)
-young moms
-professional women (your perfect on paper and not necessary socially)
This is where you are now. It's not as open of a pool but quintessentially more experienced than the pool you were in before. Take it from experience, not bad, just different.
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>>675430257
Very hard decision especially since a child is involved
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>>675430257
Then yeah you'll probably be fine if you're established. If you're not fat, ugly, or a deadbeat get yourself a good dating app and they'll pretty much come to you.
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>>675428758
Good luck. Not easy. You need to live near some colleges OR in a large metro area with young professionals.
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>>675430366
meh. i bring everything to the table. plus im moderately attractive. she piled on the kg and just bought her first car. the fact that shes angry all the t ime at everything makes it hard for me to love her anymore. a reason is a reason.

>>675430418
yeah luckily I dont have that issue and probably want to go before it inevitably happens

>>675430383
im totally ok with a 'settle down' type around 25-30 age. im not exactly a party boy
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>>675430766
yeah i'll need the luck ..
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>>675430803
How long you been with her me 12 years I'm 30
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I'm 33 and got divorced last year. I've met a few women around my age (oldest was 35), had a few dates with a 22 year old.

The best bet is 27-30 year olds in my experience. They're mature enough that they're not annoying but young enough that they're still hot.
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>>675428758
lol if you are a male and have your shit together, things are easy af.

men are worth more when they are older. women get worth less.

before you jump back into the pool though, how you gonna make sure she doesnt take the skin off your back when she leaves?
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>>675430912
almost 8 years
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if you have some money, you can start getting MAD bitches in your 30s even if you're not that good looking.

seriously, the game changes.

however they will all want to settle down after a few years.
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>>675430970
its been discussed before and worked out how much she wants. but of course she could go legal route and get more. but I doubt that with this one. just a feeling.
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>>675430418
Take it from someone who never had a dad, suck it up, or prepare for the greatest balancing act a human can accomplish . You can, easily, fuck up that child. I'm fucked up, my mom is fucked up, my paternal uncles Fine. Difference? Had a consistent childhood.
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>>675431043
if you trap a person in a corner, they will do anything to escape.

cut off all her options before then.
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>>675431083
I'm a fan of Crash Bandicoot and that pic is amusing, thanks.
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>>675430803
>>675430383
You're gonna be good then, just try not to be one of those creepy guys always hitting on the youngest girl at the bar. Also you get to pick up chicks at weird places like the supermarket, and your local library. A couple of my friends told me recently that they have gotten numbers from places like this before but I would have never even thought to look when I was younger. Might be helpful.
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>>675431043
You worried about palimony or something?

Don't tell me you had joint bank accounts and all that.
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>>675428758
Blackdragon blog.
Eat it up. Live your life
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>>675431694
defacto partnerships are entitled to half after living together for 3 years in my country
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>>675431758
wot cuntry? I thought only Ausfailia had retarded laws like that
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>>675430975
Been married 9 years and have been together 12. It's not that anything is boring or losing anything we have a girl friend together and fool around with other women it's that we have been fighting more and more and it's not normal I'm beginning to be concerned.
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>>675428758
Ill assume youve been out of the game for 5-7 years, pick up some 18-20 year old piece of ass, treat her to some "grown up" life (ie you have your own place and money and a job) fuck her till she annoys you rinse repeat. Young bitches arent used up yet, thier drama is simple and you can get them to do pretty much anything (ie use them as cum dumpsters)
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>>675432074
yeah no idea mate..
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im in exact same situation, just want to do it for myself and improve etc. should have no trouble getting women but not going to make it my priority.
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im 30 and also single now so followig this thread with intrest.

i have to get back to shape and have my shit together before entering the markets. Im ok now, but when the summer comes, i know its going to be hard if i dont get pussy
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>>675430383
>quintessentially

That word doesn't mean what you think it means.
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>>675428758

I misread your post.

Are you 31 or that's what you are looking for?

I'm 30 and have dated a lot of different ladies. The sad thing I am finding is that (for women) after 29 if they are still single there is a reason why. Woman over 29 that are single, hot, and normal are about as rare as Donald Trump giving a speech on muslim tolerance.
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I'm 30 and broke up with my girlfriend if five years back six months ago. Surprisingly it hasn't been hard too hook up with young attractive girls, but finding a decent woman who will take me seriously has been difficult.

It's a harsh median, as girls in their early 20 can't be taken seriously by me, but it seems women in their mid to late 30s don't want or have given up on the idea of having a family. I feel like I'm in limbo and pretty lost. Maybe I'll find someone again eventually... But I do feel my own sense of "desperation" now that I'm getting older.
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>>675429774

kek'd me up pretty good with this one
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>>675429895

Do it.

If you have considered it, you def don't love her.

And if you don't love her, you need to move on immediately. You are wasting her time too.
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>>675434276
im 31 man. old as fuck
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>>675430366

What are you retarded?

That's more than enough reason for OP.
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>>675428758
These tits though..
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>>675434427

Dude that's not old at all.

Assuming you take care of yourself, the body doesn't even start really slowing down and hurting until 50.

But anyway, sounds like you are making the right move. If you have a house and money, finding a nice lady should be no problem.

I dated a selfish woman for 2 years. Once I broke up with her it was like a weight was lifted. I wouldn't even get back with her if someone paid me to do it.
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>>675428758
If 16 is legal where you are, go for 16. It is, without a doubt, the best age for females... they're up for anything.
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>>675434802
I'm 31, dating this selfish woman who just drains me financially and mentally. You words hit home hard, thinking of jumping ship.. feel so much time has been wasted already with her.
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>>675428758
of course it is you fucking tard. i'm 36 and dating a 20 year old.
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>>675434907
ive sat on this decision for like two years now. doing it is fucking difficult.
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>>675434907

It's identical to drug addiction.

You gotta flush it all out of your life and run. That's the only way you will escape.

The woman is gonna hate you, but that is the way it HAS to be. There is no alternative. Don't be soft. This is YOUR life. And even more so you are waisting her time as well, by staying in a loveless relationship.
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I'm in Australia and this is the funnies shit I've seen all week hahaha!
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>>675435216
it's difficult as hell.. I've supporting her visa, helped build a business together so she can support herself and yet I get little to no appreciation for all that I do for her. It's ridiculous that I've even let it go this far.

I'm successful in my job, have a quarter million dollar apartment, look after myself, semi good looking.. I'd rather be dating 20 year olds and giving them hopes and dreams than deal with this BS on a daily basis.
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>>675435474
dude i'd totally buy you a beer if this wasnt 4chan. could talk about how our lives are similarly retarded
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>>675435474
dude id buy you a beer if this wasnt 4chan. we could drink to our lives being similarly retarded.
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>>675435600
I'm pretty confident that our situations aren't unique.. I've got nobody to blame but myself for the situation I'm in though. I let it go this far, like someone else mentioned, it's like a drug addiction.

Looking back on the choices Ive made regarding her, I should have never done it. I put myself financially at risk for her, for what? To speak down to me and disrespect me with no apology ever.
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>>675435783
Show her this thread?

If not leave. If your saying this now the relationship is done. Your wasting her time too
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>>675436084
Yeah, I've told her all this already, she'll twist and manipulate the words to make it look like it's my fault she acts that way. Poison, I know. I'm in a place right now where I've come to the realization that there is nothing anymore and she's using the situation to her advantage. I'm going to get my name out of anything that is tied to her and kick her ass out of my life.

I appreciate the feedback anon, just needed to hear it from a bunch of guys on the Internet.
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>>675436338
Doesn't everyone? I'm 18. First year of college. With a girl who I know I'm going to end up breaking up with when I transfer universities...but the pussy is tight and she is kind. So fuckit.
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