>>674800941
same here

BUMP

Op here. Virging* typingerror i out driking ...

hey girl you wanna suck my dick?

the best way if you are shy af is to do stuff. Get involved in projects, get a hobby, become part of the school council (I assume you still go to school).

By doing stuff you will be forced to interact to at least a basic level. From then on it comes naturally after some time to spend time together outside of work, or whatever it is that you'lll be doing.

>>674800941
Dont be disgusting, dont aim to high.

>>674801827
Op here. What if im a antisosian, not fat but a bit overweight, shy dude. Im not in school (wellfare) and no experience talking to girla what so ever. Anny tips

Sorry for vad eglich if anny not my strongest language

>be me
>be a living stereotype
>gamer
>white, skinny male
>spend everyday infront of my computer
>never had a gf
>not sure if I want one

... we're in the same boat I guess

>>674803519
Nigga u me?

>>674803519
Yup we are in the same boat. But i am shoure i want a gf.
Considerig to start using dating sites online. To find a girl

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>>674803262
his advice still applies

>>674800941
I have no fucking idea...
Im 18, had 2 gfs. Both of them started talking to me for some fucked up reason. Just totally random.
The only advice i can give you from my experience is the cheesy "The right one will come eventually"... it kinda happened to me both those times :P
One of them lasted 6 months, the other one didnt even last a months...
Go social anxiety and being a lonely fucker!

Well i will try what you told me. If sucsesfull i will post updat if not. Il just go home, jerkoff to porn as usual. And go to bed rying to forget what i fuckd up tonight

Firsts things first, go to your doctor and tell him you have anxiety about your sexual performance and have difficulty keeping erections in bed, tell him you have no trouble when you jerk off to porn, so you know it's all mental but it's effecting your relationship (make up relationship)

He will give you some stuff about talking to a psych-dr and that's not a bad idea either .. He should issue you Viagria or Cialias (Viagria is better). If he does not go to another Dr. And repeat. He will sense the desperation in you and prescribe it.

Go and get the pulls and cut them into quarters (you're young and healthy you barely need any). Try out a 1/4 or 1/2 and see how it affects you. Once you see how it turns you into a fucking battering ram the anxiety around sex greatly reduces. As long as your dick is hard you can do good work even if poorly skilled.

This is not permenant, you will quickly be able to stop taking them once you get the confidence of making girls cum.

Like the other guys said, work out, look good, and remember that you are ageing into a fine bottle of scotch and women are ageing and becoming saggier and uglier and desperate.. So you're good man, relax, have some meaningless sex with girls you don't really care about and then find a girls who's mind you like and actually want to be around, you will be OK on bed by that point. And if she likes you, all you need to be is OK.. As long as she comes youre goood bro

Confidence! Don't be a dick, but there is nothing wrong with being a bit full of yourself. If you are shy, have a drink or 2, but don't get completely sloshed, that's not sexy. If you are shy, meet women older then you. If they are interested, they'll make the move for you. Women are weird, don't try to figure them out, I am one and I don't get them either, just make them happy, but don't go too crazy with the compliments or you'll come off as a creeper. Good luck!

>>674804922
it'll take time. if we were in the same area i could give some bitches as long as you don't fall in love or no shit like that.
>once made a virgin fuck my cousin and he started calling acting like they were in a relationship. It was cringe-worthy

Download tinder
Find local cumbucket
"I'm not on here like the other guys are"
Take it slow
Be polite but flirty
Result

You get a girl that's a freak in the bedroom and will do whatever you want because she's been mistreated by guys before

Start practicing a sport. With a sport come friends, with friends come clubbing or whatever form of social events, in said social events you'll have wingmen and chicks. Also you'd be in shape cause of practicing said sport.

I myself am introverted. Only way I found is to throw yourself into something, possibly something you're good at.
You can't expect the perfect suggestion from this thread, we don't know your life.

Invent a solution by combining what you can do (or can learn to do) and an obligation to social interaction.

I am good at audio editing, I fucking record all the lessons, edit em and upload em.
Result? Everyone in my course knows who I am and how well I work.
Subsequent result? People come to me for being less tech tard than them and voilà.
One girl clearly like me, will have coffee soon with another one and I have had practice tlking by helping another fix her pc.

The anxiety gradually decreases with practice.

Invent you strategy, combine what you're good at and a way to show whoever is in your social circle what you do.

If you don't have any, and were drinking in that bar alone, follow what >>674805333 and >>674805487 said.

Pill dude again, 29 now, GF is 25. Took me till 19 to lose virgnity, and those were three bad experiences with three separate girls .. Confidence was shattered till 21.. Did the Viagria shit on the advice of a buddy it worked, key being I was able to relax! Relax and enjoy my time with women.

Had some OK relationships since, some bad, with a great girl now, I work out but she is more fit then me, she's a nurse, I'm a paramedic we have common interests and the sex is fun.. That took till 27 man, we live together and will prob stay that way... Relax man, keep trying shit, it will come

>>674800941
Well if you want to become good at something what do you do?
You practice, practice, practice.

You arent going to go anywhere asking /b. You need to get out there and fucking try to talk to them.

YOU ARE GOING TO FAIL MISERABLY and a lot. I am 36 and I get rejected at least once a week. At this point I almost want to get rejected. If they make fun of you or laugh at you, make fun of them back. You are probably never going to see them again. SO who gives a fuck.

Remember its a numbers game.

Alright... so here's the deal. Fairly skinny white guy but do construction so I'm in shape for a skinny guy, got a car, make a decent amount of money. Pretty jacked teeth but alright looking otherwise I guess.

Total fucking homebody, like to game quite a bit but not totally glued to the computer, drink and smoke but don't enjoy partying at all. Can't stand groups of people, hard to talk to people I don't know so I avoid talking to new people most of the time.

Girls flirt with me every once and a while but I don't usually pick up on it until I've already left the store or wherever I happened to be and don't generally return because I wouldn't know how to handle the situation anyway. Can hold a conversation but only once I've gotten to know the person fairly well which almost never happens because of previously mentioned people problems.

Just want a girl with the same hobbies as me, PC gamer, smokes weed and drinks whiskey, a little crazy because I feel more comfortable around crazies or generally fucked up people. Homebody that would rather watch Netflix and eat takeout than go out to a restaurant or the movies.

That's about it... I work a fucking lot though so I don't have any idea of where to even begin to look for a girl that would mesh with my personality.... help me /b/?

Oh and I'm not a virgin if that matters. Just socially inept I guess.

>>674805813

Pill guy, what this guy says, choose a sport.. And there are lots of great co-ed recreational leagues out there, soccer, volly ball, ect

Or crossfit gyms, co-ed and the cult atmosphere means they hang out together as well

Op here again.
Have one seious question.
Is it true that girls lika badboys more than goodguys? I am defenitly on of. The goodguys, i obønly want the girl if or when i find her, to be happy. I dont realy care about me. But the girl i hopfully find, and all the girls i know as friend i only want them to be happe even if i need the be misreble/ " hate " my one fife to do it.

>>674800941
i sit at my computer shit posting and fucking around on steam all day and even i manged to get laid at least once, come on buddy keep that stick on the ice.

>>674806978
Start caring aboutnyourself, then other people would start caring about you too.

Go get a haircut and some new shoes and fuck around on the streets. You'll meet friends and girlfriends

>>674803262
Cultivate good habits.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B3SGX-TTnNI

>>674806660
The next time you pick up on a girl crushing on and you already left GO BACK and ask her out, fuck the awkwardness of it.

>>674806660
Man I wish I could help you but I'm in the same situation.
I am literally exactly the same as you described.
The only difference is I don't work construction. I am also in reasonably good shape and constantly busy with work though.

Idk what we're supposed to do lol

>>674806978

You don't have to be a dick..

Be interesting and slightly reserves (mystery)

I'm an Afghan vet and when she would ask I told my GF there were some experiences I did not want to talk to her about and a side of me "I saw come out once" that she did not want to see

It's total BS, but she feels that there is still a side of me to explore.

But seriously being interesting is better .. Learn some cool skills or hobbies and get good. Women like to see their man doing the thing he loves to do, and doing it well

>>674806481
Not OP here. I read this a lot ("number game"...) and THIS is the nightmare. I tried when I was in high school : fail everytime, want to kill myself everytime, promise myself to not retry it... I give up since (I try tinder tho : no match after one day, feel like my profil is absolute cringe, want to kill myself again, delete my account forever...)
Now I'm 31 yo, not even too bad looking, but still wizard, and hate the the world for this "number game"
I just dont understand how people accept rejection and humiliation. Dont you die inside every time ?

Tldr : OP, you are fucked

>>674807684
It sucks man. I think it wouldn't be so bad if I could just find some likeminded girls but I have a feeling that the type of girl that I'd like most is probably in the same kind of situation we are.

>>674806978
>Is it true that girls lika badboys more than goodguys?

BIG FAT YES!

start reading Chateau Heartiste if you want to cultivate a bad boy attitude but don't forget to practice what you learn.

>>674807463

What this guy's says, 100% and some other abon talking about a numbers game. I used to think it was not humanly possible for me to actually get a number, but I did, and now many times .. Truth is that only the beginning, you gotta have some texting game now, and actually get a date.. (Girls flake.. It's a sad fact). So you gotta keep trying. When you're 30 you won't even remember all the girls you tried to talk to

>>674800941
21 year old virgin here, I don't know.

2nd time I had the chance to say I'm 21...

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I don't think so.
You see, there are different kinds of people (read about myers brig test, pic related) and each kind goes along well with a couple others.
these kinds have different characteristics, which may make you perceive them as douches or accultured people, depending on your own perception as well.

I think it's just a matter of quantity, but it's not like "girl like badasses". Girls at most like confidence, and most socially succesfull types have it. Also, the socially succesfull types are most of the population. Thus a matter of quantity.

In any case you should aim for quality. Find a girl that is special to you, not a fuckdoll or a trophy wife.

>>674808690
Meant to talk about this: >>674808390

>>674804278
You sound completely retarded.

>>674808129
Mate, watch the video I posted above. The idea is to start small and to do it EVERY day for at least 30 days. So instead of flirting with girls just say hi and ask them for directions. Pretend you are lost and leave it at that until you get comfortable.

The whole niceguy-badboy distiction is off. What most people call nice guys aren't nice at all. They're weak guys trying to get a girl by kiss girls' ass. Nobody likes a suck up, even if you do that to other men they won't have respect for you. Be comfortable in your own skin. I am never a dick, in fact i'm on the quiet side and it's usually the girl that starts flirting with me.

I've been where you are OP. You're over thinking this. Getting women isn't your problem. It's unsocial behaviour. Was a virgin till 24. Having sex didn't make me a better man at all but it's fun.

>>674808129
Mate, get a throw-away email address and I will help you though it. I promise you will get a girlfriend.

>>674808129
High school is a joke and Tinder/online dating is a smash or pass. If you aren't overly attractive you aren't going to get what you want on there. The rejection I just don't give a flying shit about it. Sometimes if they give an attitude I give one right the fuck back.

You respect them to much remember you are trying to take them home fuck them up the ass on your couch and cum on their face. They aren't worthy of the respect you are giving them

>>674800941
You don't.

I'm a skinny white guy same age.

I literally just posted an add on craigslist on my body and saying I wanted a dom and she literally took my ass over.
>mfw i'm still a virgin and that woman has got me locked in a chastity cage 24/7 and fucks my ass bi-daily for her own amusement

This is the life.

>>674805333

Pill guy once more, reff my own shit .. Then im out.

Just try this. What do you have to lose?

When you go to the dr you will feel embarrassed and pulse will get jacked .. And when you bring the prescription to the pharamacy you will be so embarrassed ... But once youre home you will feel a power and confidence that nothing can stop you ..

Just try it man, if you come on here with proof you did I'll send you bitcoin to cover 1/3 the cost... I'll check next Sat. Between 1800-2000 central time

I've been there, I wanna help you out man

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basil never fuck lady he is fox

>>674800941
Start from the bottom, lower your standards, fuck an ugly fat chick with acne..

>>674809126
[email protected]

>>674809053
>They're weak guys trying to get a girl by kiss girls' ass.

This is exactly why you should cultivate a "bad boy" attitude. It sends the signal that you are comfortable in your own skin and therefore are good reproductive material and therefore sexy.

>>674809564
Don't do this. Those cunts will fuck anything and suck any dick. Anyone who fucks a lot of people will eventually come down with something.

http://www.promptfile.com/l/07E4686360-7E5FDB56F0

This is a good movie. Might help.

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>>674800941
Start with changing your bodylanguage slash start paying attention to your breath. Deep inhales.

When you walk outside shoulders slightely down and back head and eyes forward. only look down quick if walking over or thru something.

When you sit in a car/bus/train, pay attention to your hands, lets them be flat on your lap, relax as much as u can. practice body language and breath and you selfesteem and confidence after around 90 days will be extremely higher, trust me.

Eat things that gives u vitamines and energy like oranges, eggs, tuna, broccoli, potatoes etc. its fine to eat pizzas and burgers and chips now and then, but it should be a 1 or 2 thing every week.

Take cold showers. This will make you more comfortable in uncomfortable situations. Go shopping when you are tired, Do homework instead of watching that movie. Call a friend instead of watching those "motivational videos"

-be more social. visit family or friends more often or get them to visit you. Dont think that partying every weekend will up your chances to meet "that girl", focus on these things instead and focus on being relaxed in your body in different situations, small situations also.

When you are partying, dont drink too much before going outside, begin to feel like you can go to a party without having to be drunk from the beginning.

I'm 21, i had social anxiety for a long time, these things will change it all trust me. cheers

also practice how u think of yourself, dont be too serious, laugh at yourself sometimes, watch louis CK or something, accept the past and accept that u are u and not that one guy from the "how to kiss girls prank" video

>>674809797
I respectfully disagree. I know what you're trying to say but virgins trying to be bad boys never goes well. It's cringy.

OP needs to get a life. I mean make friends, do stuff. things like that. Improve your social ability.

What I posted earlier:
>if you can't get laid then getting laid is the least of your worries.

>>674809958
Well you don't fuck a lot of them, just enough to build confidence to know it's not that big of a deal and get better looking ones.

20 year old virgin is very, very young. I giggled at kissing during that time and penises made me laugh. Now I would feel like a pedophile if I looked at 20 yea olds. Also, teen boys are not sexy in any way, maybe 1-2 in 10, but the majority is clumsy, awkward, have no sense of style, no money to take care of themselves, have to count cents, have no opinions about the world, haven't travelled enough, etc. They are mostly just children who are learning

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>>674810598
>and the point of this post?

>>674800941
Stop being such an afraid of rejection fag. The worse thing a girl can do is tell you to fuck off, and they usually won't even be rude about it unless your a total fucking creeper. You lose NOTHING from talking to a girl. Next time your out doing something just try being what you think is "really friendly and nice". It doesn't even have to go anywhere, just go out and get practice interacting since obviously you skipped that skip somewhere growing up.

>>674809673
Check your mail.

Anyone else who is genuinely interested in changing their life is also welcome to drop a throw-away address.

>>674811196
why do you need a throw-away email?

>>674810879
the point is get the fuck over yourself faggot

yeah, you are right. Most interesting guys are actually very nice people most of times because they have to communicate with others. But they all have very strong interests which make them unique and because they don't pay attention to others but are fully immersed in their activities, they get this bad boy (or girl) vibe. Not following the rules, not doing something half assed, to please someone or to look interesting. But if you have something to say and they have time, they are usually very nice, not judgmental, open to the world, otherwise they could''t achive what they have

I talk to girls the same way I'd talk to anyone. No difference bruh. Well there kind of is. But pretend there isn't much and that you aren't totally interested or else you'll come out as a creeper. don't sound like your socially awkward either. Also it helps if you aren't ugly. Also you could try this as an ice breaker. Just carry around a packet of sugar. And if you find a chick you like. Throw that shit down at them and be like "dropped your name tag" but make sure this is at like your college or something lol they couldn't really read it if it's at their feet.

I'm super freaking high so read this as though you are too.

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>>674811561
wow you are really stupid aren't you? You saying when you were young you were nervous. saying you're not attracted to teenage boys--well, i hope not cause that would make you a fem-pedo. and this means get over myself?

>>674811435
You are welcome to give your regular email adress but

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>>674811561
not OP here

I fucking cringe when i see faggots like you. You are most likely just a spoiled faggot that havent ever been in deep trouble that your mom couldnt handle for you, GTFO if u dont have anything good to say to this kid

Your problem is that you actually care about what they say and let their view of you drive your view of you. It's your movie, they're just extras in it. If a girl says no to Brad Pitt, is he suddenly not attractive? Doesn't matter what you say as long as you feel you're adding value to their lives.

that was a reply to this

>>674811887
of course im not gonna do that

do u have kik, u can tell me more about what its about.
I'm male 20

>>674800941
Try not being the sort of autist who saves and likes pictures like you posted?

Probably sell your computer and go outside? Spend the money on a backpacking trip and fuck slutty europoor girls.

>>674811887
... I don't want your email address being collected by spammers.

>>674803262

Pro tips:

- if you're going to go after English speaking girls, improve your English, or at least grammar / spell check all your communications.

- Hygiene is non-optional.

- Start dressing decently. I don't mean suits. Just look at what people who look decently well dressed in your area tend to wear, and replicate that, if it works for your body type.

- If you can't fake confidence, that's okay. I've gotten plenty of girls because they liked the shy, quiet type, as long as I said something interesting once in a while.

- Write down some conversation starters. I don't mean cheesy pickup lines. Just ways to introduce yourself, or ways to introduce a conversation topic, or ways to just say 'hi'. Then when you're in a situation where there's a girl you want to talk to, you already have a list of things you could possibly say, so you'll be less anxious.

>>674812017
No mate, sorry. Only email.

>>674800941
just be yourself

>>674808331
>>674807684

OkCupid. If you're in a reasonable sized city, you'll find plenty of girls similar to you on there.

>>674810598
how old are you femanon?

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>>674812370
>only email


aaaaand a red alarm is going off

>>674812735
Tits or GTFO.

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>>674800941
Treat them just as they are human, and they'll respond favorably usually.
(You) walk up to femanon.
>Hi femanon, nice weather today huh?
>yeah, today is a beautiful day.
>I really like your (article of clothing) you're wearing today, femanon.
>Do you really? Thanks!
>you're welcome, femanon. Would you like to hangout and get coffee or something?
If she says no here, don't freak out. Just say something like Alright, maybe some other time then. The more you try to force it, the more she will withdrawal. Act like it isn't a big deal to you and she will like the fact you didn't pressure her. They're not mysterious magical creatures, they're just humans. Be kind, make them laugh and compliment them or something they're wearing and you're golden.

>>674812924
If you don't want help then you can piss right off.

>>674803262
If you're on welfare, it's pointless. Any decent girl wants a team mate, not a liability.

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>>674813107
'can i get help thread'
>yes i want to help you just give me your email
'why do u need email adress only'

>if you dont want help you can piss right off

that escalated quickly

aaand another fucking big ass red alarm is going off

http://www.doctornerdlove.com/2012/03/conquer-approach-anxiety/all/1/