>>674527028

You live a sad life if you keep fucking that girl.

Cut off, date a hotter girl or fuck a hotter girl. You're single now bro. Don't get sucked back in.

>>674527207
You know, I saw this coming. Yeah, I get it. It doesn't sound good on paper.

It's different when you listen to them cry for 3 or 4 hours straight and have them tell you how they feel like shit and how you deserve better.. etc etc.

Reminder: She's only 17 with ADHD. She's an idiot. Mistakes happen. I'm not banking on anything though.

>>674527802
are you always going to let her use her mental illnesses as an excuse to try to date other men when you become complacent?

Are you really that big of a push over?

Her age doesn't even fucking matter.

Never pound again.

>>674528745
>No.
>Yes, probably.
>Her maturity level may change.
>Why not though?

>>674529280

Because there's something called pride. I've honestly slept with 6 women, not much for being 21. But right now if my gf came to me and admitted she was shitty and loved another man, NOPE. She has always said we'd be fuck buddies after a break up but there's no way in hell that I'd ever do that.

I'm not gonna share some cum dumpster and then get tied down again when that bitch has nobody

There's so many chicks out there. Just go find one and plow her.

If you totalled your car in a wreck and it was undriveable would you tell the mechanic to see if they could reassemble it enough so you could drive it one more time?

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>>674529713
She's still single though. Technically, so she hasn't really cheated on me.

If you can talk me out of it though, do it.

>>674530050
She's a loser man, the guy she likes doesn't even want her.

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>>674530208
Except that he does want her.

She might be a loser but it's hard when you're slightly depressed and you devoted so much time (about 2 and half years) to your first relationship and it got fucked over by something stupid.

>>674530741

Okay here's a greentext you stubborn fuck.

>dating gf
>year goes by
>gf is mean as fuck
>goes on school trip
>comes back
>"i dont want to be with you anymore anon"
>"wtf no"
>go total beta
>earn her love by doing so much for her
>80/20 relationship
>never getting anything
>she treats me like shit
>fast forward
>still dating but have an altercation and she dumps me
>I go on a bender same night and bang girl who used to have a thing for me
>get back to college and a girl in rez starts developing feelings for me
>holy fuck I actually have a penis still
>get a notif on my phone after sleeping with girl from college
>"will you come visit me"
>tell my friends
>"don't do it anon, don't you like being single? If you go you won't be single, if you go she'll make you date her again"
>against their judgement I go.
>we've now been dating for 6 years.
>relationship got better but always wonder what could've been.
>think about both girls I slept with while broken up with gf from time to time.
>they would've been a lot better.

>>674531267
forgot to say message was from ex obviously.

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>>674531402
She was never mean to me. She was nice. She was a good girlfriend in most ways.

Isn't it a pain to find new people though? And dating and waiting to see if it works out... Obviously my relationship didn't work out that well either. But maybe it could work out well. I think i'd be the opposite in that I would always wonder if maybe it was just a really hard time and maybe it could have been perfect.
>inb4 beta

>>674527028
Just dont bro ive been there more then once and i can tell you now its over she may love you as a person but shes willing to look for someone else now shes always going to question if she wants to be with you just ride it out meet new people with her gone and later down the road when she asked to come back then you can think about it but if shes already going after someone else you're only gonna get back together for her to want someone else again

>>674531402
I'm probably just depressed though. There really could be someone better.. it's just sad to let go.But for some reason I liked taking care of her. Not dealing with relationship issues.. but helping her live through an abusive step father and other shit.

You really think I should just leave and never look back, huh?

>>674532262
Nah not hard at all.

Depends on the environment.

If you find a bud who's a dog then you can also hit on the same girls and not be a dog, you'll usually pick up the more sensible/hotter ones.

If you have no buds you have to play the odds.

Like applying for a job.

Put out your resumes.

In highschool I think I was facebook chatting with 15-20 girls at a time. Nothing creepy just about interests and stuff.

Then you meet more girls in person.

Being dynamic is important, being outgoing, different, fun. Before college I was a lone wolf. I had one friend but we ended up having sex, she was pretty cute. There was a huge fallout because of that and I started just messaging girls all the time instead. At school I'd just continue driving on through.

You'll figure it out. My way might not even work for you. And I made an ass of myself probably. For instance this one girl told me that her grade was frequently having conversations about me, one girl would say "I don't even know why girls like him" and then another would say "he's really funny and outgoing!". So I mean it can go bad. Too much publicity.

Still not a bad idea to try. It's how I had a lot of sex.

>>674532523
oh fuck yeah, those are all red flags. Stage 1 clingers.

>>674532842
Yeah I gotta go back to college this summer. Haven't paid tuition yet so I can't enroll and I'm getting my student loans figured out.

I have friends but it's still a smaller town of about 10K people. I have a job, thinking about quitting. I can't help the elderly my college life.

Also introverted, so it's gonna take work.

>>674532896
I was pretty clingy/needy myself. Probably why it's so hard.

Just one question: assuming she goes months without actually dating this guy and wants me back, is it even worth it if I happen to be single? This is all so confusing. I guess it's good i can talk to oldfags with experience.

>>674531267
Daaaaamn, that's sounds depressing bro

>>674533570
>>674533591

Man I don't think it's worth it. I really don't. There's so many fish in the sea and you're gonna look back one day and think "that was my out".

Blondes, brunettes, redheads, short girls, tall girls, bitchy girls, dumb girls. It's gonna be good bro, it'll all work out.

It's like you said just work on your introvertedness, you need to become at least slightly extroverted. We've all had chicks talk to us. Just the other day I was sitting at my college and a girl asked me to watch her things, I agreed and when she came back she thanked me and then kept looking at me. The opportunity is there.

It blows to be in a small town where you don't necessarily get out. If you have family in the city you should crash with them one night and hit the town. Had some crazy experiences at the bar myself.

If you're too young for that bro, you need to be hitting parties. And you need to be the life of that party.

And yes it is very depressing having to see a girl everyday who isn't really compatible with you, has never really understood you. But you love because you've been with for so long.

>>674527028
almost the same exact thing happened to me OP. but she fucked the guy eventually.
don't be a beta. don't get cucked.

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>>674534144
I hope so. I don't know why I can't seem to let her go right now though. That's why I convinced her for just a break. Hell, she even said I could take her to prom when it comes, single or not.

Like... fuck.

I don't drink much. I don't really want too much drinking in my life either. Good luck finding girls for that. Friends are ok, but in a girlfriend i'd really prefer a non-drinker and smoker. It's just easier on my mind. And i'm 19, so bars are out.

>>674534395
You know, my biggest issue is just letting go. I don't want to. I really don't. It took a good friend to convince me to change my lock screen background. I'm still texting her though. I feel like shit everyday, wondering about how I could have changed this, or how maybe if I didn't fuck up, she wouldn't have felt anything for someone else.

Thx for the help /b/ros. 4chan really isn't the same from when I first visited years ago.

>>674534977

Kudo's to you for living the lifestyle you want to live son.

I've always been a heavy drinker.