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Question time:
Every time I have sex with my gf she gets a painfull burning feeling after about ten minutes. Every time we try to have sex it just ends up with both of us being sad and it is really ruining the relation.

Note: I am circumcised if this matters

Any tips ?

I'll post some random pics to keep the thread going.

INB4 I am a cutfag
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>>669450813
She is allergic to you
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You or her have aids. Get tested
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>>669451113
Wouldn't we notice that by just kissing ?
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She probably has a moisture issue. Try lube.
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>>669451149
Yeah right...
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Its probably a UTI she should get tested, they are very common for women to get after sex and a good way to avoid them is peeing after sex (I know thats weird but I know from experience)
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>>669450813

Girlfriend might have IBS. Check the symptoms and see if its worth a trip to the docs. Quite common I believe
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thrush
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She might have sperm allergy, my ex-girlfriend had the same symptoms. Just ask her to get it tested.
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>>669450813
Sounds like a friction problem. Either keep her aroused or reapply lube
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>>669451374
We did and indeed it does help quite a bit. But lubing up every time really breaks the romance it takes away the moment.
Also, her pussy seems to drink the lube, it just vanishes (we use durex play)
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Dont stick it in her urethra
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>>669450813
She's probably allergic to jew, too bad the covenant cannot be undone.
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Niggers gave you AIDS and now she gave you AIDS and I'm so sorry you have AIDS, but hey, least you got your dick wet.

With AIDS.
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>>669451398

She never has pain when she pees so ?
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>>669451550
tell here to go to the gyno dude.
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>>669451550
Get the Pur brand, much better, doesn't dry out.
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>>669451550
yeah you need a better lube, try liquid silk, that'll fix you Right
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You're fucking her piss hole. You have a small dick and are bad at sex is all.
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>>669451149
>>669451667
>>669451689
samefag
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could just be a latex allergy if you use condoms, same thing happened to me and my girlfriend until we figured it out.
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vulvodynia
op you're fucked for good
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my gf used to have that too.
its prob a problem with her bladder. she just needs to drink alot of tea for a while and then piss alot and it will go away (not kidding)
Or it is because she does not clean her vagina properly (stop cumming inside of her for a while)
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OP...There is a very rare affliction where females are allergic to the males semen. This could be the case. Perhaps, like some allergies, it just took more time for the resistance to degrade before side effects start taking place.
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>>669451784
Yeah she did recently to place a spiral, but she didn't dare to ask it. She will have to go back soon to get it checked.
I hope she will have the nerve by than...

>fuckmylife
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>>669450813
Allergic to semen, consult a doctor.
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>>669451912
The only fag I see here is you.
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>>669450813
The solution is simple: buttsechs
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She's a post op dude. Just look at the signs
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>>669451550
Coconut oil /b/ro. Great lube and great for vaginal health
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>>669452167
does she have an iud? they can cause problems for awile. my wife had issues up to a year later
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You're probably just bad at satisfying her, lol.
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>>669451821
>>669451855
Thanks, we were already thinking about buying another brand. Thanks for the confirmation.
>>669451986
Not using condoms, she got a spiral recently
>>669452062
>fuck
>>669452120
Hmm it might indeed be the case that she doesn't drink enough. Any specific tea in mind ?
>CantRememberLastTimeICameInHer
>>669452151
Seems legit, but it hurts long before I cum so can't be the problem can it ?

>thanksForTheHelp!
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>>669450813
Fuck her harder and come in less than 10
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>>669452683
She had one placed a few months ago, but we did this because we hoped that not using condoms would fix the problem...
What I try to say is, the problem was there before the IUD.
But thanks anyway, perhaps we just have to wait for the dust to settle.
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>>669452738
Oh and about the vulvodynia, my ex had it. It won't actually get better just worse. Has she had a urinary tract infection ever?
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>>669453113
Serious dude ? Fuck this.
And she had one once.
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>>669450813
my gf has this its called Vestibulodynia get her to go to the dr's explain what the issue is to them they will start off by giving you a selection of lubes for super sensitivity mostly silicone based if that doesnt work go back and they will give you something with a local anesthetic, eventually you will be able to use the lubes less and less (or have to keep using them) till she's better alot of the time it can be caused by sexual trauma like a really painful first time so its often just a waiting game till it fixes itself, if all else fails sexual exercises will be taught to her to practice to help he learn to relax the muscles in her vulva herself and as a last resort surgery is possible but this has a 50% chance of making it worse
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>>669453366
I am very serious, atleast that was the case for me in an almost 5 year relationship. Urinary tract infection is what triggered it for my ex. After that she would always get these burning feelings and it wasn't too uncommon for her urinary tract infection to renew. O ye and she was diagnosed with vulvodynia.
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>>669451113
>She is allergic to you
This is actually a thing and definitely a possibility.

>>669451311
>Wouldn't we notice that by just kissing ?
No. She might be allergic to your (pre)cum.

Go see a doc. Problem solved.
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>>669452738
precum could be enough to trigger the alergic reaction i guess
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>>669451398
UTIs are a potential problem, ofc (my gf gets them unless she pees after sex and takes cranberry supplements), but I doubt that symptoms would start 10 minutes into sex (unless it's psychological: she knows she'll most likely get a UTI and cramp up …)
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>>669453812
>>669453801
>>669453554
Thanks for the serious replies !
I'll try to convince her to see a doc. If she would be able to talk to them like she can with me it would be fine but she just can't...

Is there so much difference in between lubes ?
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>>669453554
And actually now that I think of it, hypersensitivity might really be the case, most of the time she doens't like it when I lick her boobs or pussy expect when I do it ridiculously gently and even than she can't stand it for very long...
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>>669454170
Yeah it's defenitly psychological for a part, she knows it but can't get it out of her head.
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>>669453812
Saw this on tlc, confirmed some bitches are allergic to semen, and it could be JUST yours.
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>>669454190
OP could you add some info.
>Did she always have it with you?
>Has she had sex before without symtpoms?
>When did it start?
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Endometriosis. Diagnosed.
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>>669454506
>thissucks
>be me
>can't fuck my girlfriend
>don't want to dump her because she is great apart from seks
>have this thread, get horny by thinking about seks
>still can't fuck my girlfriend...
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>>669454793
Not always, it started when we were like half a year together.
Didn't have much sex before she met me, like twice or so, wasn't the best, she sais the guy was tiny...
There does not appear to be a reason
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>>669454190
>I'll try to convince her to see a doc.
You need to go too, of course. Not sure if you'll have to wank into a Petri dish or if a blood sample will do.

But perhaps being in this together will help take some pressure off her. Make it about yourself, how embarrassing it is for you, etc. Good luck, anon!

My first gf actually had this weird hangup about diseases, so we went for the whole std panel before our first sex, even though we were both virgins. Definitely awkward, but we could laugh about it after.
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>>669454819
Not worth having a relationship without sex if you need it. Even if she's cool

Regards,
>>669453801
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>>669455032
Did it start shortly after the infection ?
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>>669450813
She probably drys up fast. Lube, and if that's not enough, theu got meds for that shit.
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>>669454819
well, there are these things called "condoms", which keep your spunk out of her vag.

not perfect, sure, but surely better than NO sex, right?
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>>669455052
I offered her to come with her but she didn't want it either.
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>>669455195
I really can't remember sorry
let's assume it did because it would make sense wouldn't it ?
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>>669450813
Do you use condoms? Maybe she's alergic to those like my ex was. Fucking expensive ass non latex condoms.
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>>669452520
This. Me and my gf have a bowl of it by our bed.
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>>669455438
Read thread mate. Condoms didn't help either
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>>669450813
Not that I'm a professional on burning vaginas, but the show on that godawful channel TLC called "Sex Sent Me To The ER" has had a lot of cases of that. Sometimes it was the lube (most times it was this and most couldn't use lube at all) and others were special cases, like the girl being allergic to the guy's semen. Some women would get burning hives inside their vagina.
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>>669455463
how old is she?

she might be an insecure teenager, but if she's not, she might suspect having an std and is afraid of you finding out.
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>>669450813
Learn to nut in 9 min and problem is solved.
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>>669450813
you're not getting her wet
work on your romance skills
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>>669455616
Non latex condoms are a hell of a lot cheaper then a kid though.
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>>669455799
Dubs speaks the truth. Get tested AIDS boy.
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>>669455619
Where do you get this stuff ?
And how can I convince her that it isn't harmfull as it isn't a common lubricant I guess.
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>>669455670
>Read thread mate. Condoms didn't help either
I did, but I have no idea which other posts are yours. You're not OP, are you?

In any case, I don't understand how an allergic reaction to semen couldn't be prevented by the correct use of condoms.
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>>669455598
Aye it would. I'd really suggest you start reading about vulvodynia remedies and get a doc to diagnoze her. What they gave my ex was exactly this anesthetizing lube that people keep mentioning but it didn't help much.
After like 10-15 mins she would always tell me to stop because she was hurting so bad. This "disease" paired with her low libido rly fucked my sexlife up for a good 2-3 years
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