>>607740819
I didn't, really - we split up in 1997, and I decided to stop trying after that

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shameless self bump.

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>>607741155
Come on, story time, I want to know details /b/rother!

>>607740819

I fucked up and told her I liked an old ex of mine who she became friends with, lasted another 2 years after that, split, hooked up with a few people after a while, old ex still liked me after years as well but didn't want to because of recent ex friend, she then moved to Australia nearly a month ago...

tl;dr, hook up with other people or suffer (if it was long enough to develop something...I didn't except it...)

>>607742114
Set link?

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>>607742115
mm interesting.

Its so strange how each story is unique in its own way.

Any other /b/ros out there?

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Don't waste away thinking you're not good enough. Improve yourself until the bitch comes back, then you have the satisfaction of either rejecting her or taking her back. If she doesn't come back, fuck her you're an alpha go find someone else that appreciates you.
Some motivation in pic related you sad, sad faggot.

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>>607742316
Don't have a link, but I am happy to post what I have.

Tell a story while you wait.

>>607742340

I got over my last ex of 4 years in a couple of months and as retarded as it sounds, I'm still not over my old ex from when I was 16, 6 years ago and no idea why...but the feelings are mutual but now she's on the other side of the world...

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>>607742459
I was dumped myself, I was sad for about three days no I don't really feel anything.

Already working on myself, she is texting me everyday only replied once.

Don't think I would take her back if I was honest.

Time and distance are the only things that work.

You also need to not think about her when you jerk off.

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>>607742762
Your first love, how cute. You never know maybe you'll end up together again.

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>>607743038
Is it bad that I'm thinking about her best friend?

>>607740819
Lmao you know dam well Bianca wasn't one of your exs.

comment

>>607743276
>Is it bad that I'm thinking about her best friend?

No. That's fine.

Captcha: ExWhy

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that was the last one of that particular girl. Does /b/ prefer gifs or pics?

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>>607743323
Who is bianca? You think I would be silly enough to post a pic of my ex on this glorious website?

>>607743465
Excellent.

Drank frequently and text them. Got angry at them. Threatened suicide. Cut off all contact.

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>>607743820
and how are you doing now sir?

>>607743323

not OP, but you are such a goddamn faggot. OP never claimed that the picture was his ex, and in fact given the posts it's obvious he understands that it is not

i fucking hate worthless pieces of shit like you that call out useless shit on a website: you are not the authority on anything, not one goddamn thing in your life

I sulked in my room for two months in the dark cutting myself and jerking off to the thought of her getting fucked. Then i went full alpha mode and charmed the fucking sexiest leader of the popular asian chicks in the world right after she broke up with her bf, she got back with her ex, then i found myself another girl and settled down with her and here i am

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>>607744426
Yeezus mate. Calm, we are all /b/ros here.

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>>607744250

Best i've ever been.

>>607743870
thank you for sharing this pic bro, it changed me a little.. i think i'm gonna give more importance at the moments i spent with my girl

thank you again

>getting dumped
step up your game.

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>>607744793
Its nice to hear that all is well now /b/ro. Good for you

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>>607745049
Like, actually? Best supporting pic I have seen for a while haha.

>>607745127
It was more mutual than anything, but shit happens.

>>607740819
I got over my ex wife after a few months. Then I dated a girl 14 years younger than me and I think I might have really fallen for her. It's been two years and I might just be getting over that one.

>>607745401

Yeah. Drink less, heavily cut back smoking, been seeing somebody for about 2 and a half months, which beats my previous maximum record of "a week".. things are actually pretty nice right now.

inb4 fuck off nobody cares

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Posted her saggy fucked up tits in here, /b/ros helped me see the light.

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>>607745563
Damn!

Feel free to dump your story here, I would love to read it.

>>607740819
Never been dumped... ben with one girls since i was 15 and i'm now 22

>>607740819
she lied to me so it was easy to get over. even though we'd been together for 10 years, once I fond out she was telling lies, I was only sad for a couple of months.

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>>607745783
Ah, yes I too drank a lot. But now I seem to be getting more and more stable by the day,

I am realising that if it was actually meant to be then it would.

Only major change in health is I have lost 5 kilos and I am smoking A LOT MORE

>>607745939
Holy fuck. I hope that never ends /b/rother. If it does I can't imagine how you're going to cope

Girl i used to be with started hanging out with her ex boyfriend, blew me off to spend time with him. When i confronted her she told me she hasn't liked me for weeks. This happened in January i'm still not 100% over her yet but this thread is helping, thanks bros

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>>607746218
> insert "fuck that bitch" here

Yea honestly, I don't know people who are supposedly in a solid relationship can lie to each others faces.


Here's another topic, if you could get back with your ex, would you? and would you change yourself for her?

>>607742459
Literally this. Rebounding helps somewhat but many times it doesnt.

You just have to realize that theres a reason for everything, and a lesson to be learned from every person. I thought Id never get over this piece of shit ex I had and now I wonder why I was ever sad. I got with someone who made me much happier and feel a lot more appreciated.

>>607746275
It'll be rough when it ends, i'mm less scared of the breakup and getting over her than.... well i have no game.... at all, it doesn't take game to pick up a girl at 15 so i never had game haha, so if it ends i'm probably never going to sleep with another woman

>>607743276
i think im in love with the girl in this picture

We broke upp it was mutual then we became fuck buddies a week later when she came to pick upp her stuff.. by the time that ended I was over her both mentally and sexually. We already had a couple off dozen crazy fights and fucked like 200-300 times there was simply nothing left to stay for.

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>>607746447
I thought this might help others.

Time to get over that girl /b/ro. Why would you even think about someone that literally went straight to another?

I sort of wish my ex did that, would make it SO much easier

Never dated anyone so idk

>>607746907
No its not even that its the fact i see her everyday and apparently she was telling me her ex cheated on her or something so im stuck wondering what i did and thats the hardest part

>>607745836
Not much to tell. Married ten years and just wasn't into her. We got along great but I wasn't into her. We mutually split and she didn't take any of my stuff. Then a year later I started dating a girl I worked with who was 14years younger than me and married. It was perfect for me really. Just had to pay attention to her. We got along perfectly. Smoking hot, probably the best I will ever achieve. She ended it out of guilt. She's divorced now and dating someone now. I was seriously destroyed like never before when she ended it. I knew nothing would come of it but we were able to talk about anything without any hangups or jealousy. We still talk here and there but I don't think I feel that comfortable again.

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>>607746636
Thats the thing, I have rebounded twice now but I honestly can't think about cuddling someone in a bed that isn't her, lame right?

>>607746657
When it ends, make sure you hit the gym hard. Also I would start making friends with people other than her. will make everything a lot easier.

>>607746790
HAHAHA she has that look doesn't she?

>>607746820
interesting situation /b/ro, I think it gave you solid closure.

Guys brb just having a cigarette, keep the thread alive won't cha?

>>607746275

>>607746275

I'm greatful that things went differently now, because I realise that I was just looking to be with someone regardless of who it was. I was alone until I was 21, and literally the second person I meet up with we fuck. I did everything for this fucker, but there was no actual attraction; I just wanted what everyone else had because I felt like I was weird or abnormal. So "meant to be" for me never even came into it. I knew from the start it was doomed, for many reasons, but I tried to pretend otherwise.

I got over them by already being used to people dying or otherwise disappearing from my life at a real young age so I haven't ever been really affected in that kind of way by a break up. I honestly don't think I can get attached enough to a person to be particularly upset if they die, much less if we just break up.

Time heals, and the next time it won't be as bad.

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>>607740819
Op do you have sauce on pic?

Looks like a girl I know

Pic related

>>607747299
What in the fuck did you expect from someone who was cheating on their husband with you? Did you really think she'd stick around for long? People like that are terrible long term parterns, but great short term ones.

>>607747686
I am the exact opposite. My dad died when I was 16 and I have an insanely hard time with separation. To the point where I don't want to date again

>>607740819
avoid all contact for at least 1 to 2 years
like remove them from all social media and delete everything about them

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>>607747033
well this will help you prepare for a break up

>>607747299
Hard story /b/ro.

>>607747616
I feel like I was the same. She was always THERE. Ready to go out, ready to do something. I always knew it wasn't forever but I held on for some reason.

>>607747686
Its all about past experience it seems.

>>607747917
No mate sorry.

>>607748142
It still can't beleive how people can be so different, and how things from there past literally can dictate who they are now. I hope you get past that /b/ro.

I buried myself in work, got promotions, made lots of money bought a nice house while still single just to piss her off.

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>>607748026
Neither of us expected to connect the way we did though. I knew nothing would happen with us. She still calls me every once in awhile and we end up talking almost all day and 90% of the conversation is us laughing. If she wasn't so loose she would have been perfect wife material. OCD about cleaning and she's a great cook. It's just all the extra creampies that would end up killing me.

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>>607748431
See, this is where you might find me as a bit of a strange person.

About a year into dating the girl put her facebook into my computer. My laptop saves all passwords and links them to my finger print.

I have literally all her social media, from blogs to insta to facebook.

It has shown me how much she is actually stalking my profiles which is kinda weird.

Whats your opinions on this /b/ros?

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>>607749213
YES love these stories. Work has really taken my mind off all of this drama.

But the long weekend is here so I am worried about my mind going crazy. But its not, so I seem to be doing well.

>>607749311
Maybe be friends?

>>607747488
>lame right?

Not at all. People on here can scream at you to be alpha all they want, but you cant fight chemical reactions in your brain.
Be sad about it, OP. Give yourself a few days to a week to piss and moan about it and to wallow in self pity. Talk to your friends about it and post it on /b/ more. Lay around and eat junk food. Then, stop. Stop thinking about her. Cut contact if you havent already (this is also the most difficult part) Any time you do, force yourself to think about something else. Find a hobby or start doing something you like or something that improves yourself. I like to run, but its subjective. Many people turn to lifting, and hey, if you dont want to do it forever thats cool too. Start hanging out with people, talking to people. All these women you rebound with and pass on the street every day could offer you something better than what your ex did. She LEFT you. Somewhere inside her she felt like you werent it and left. Why want someone like that?

Improve yourself. Take better care of yourself and do great with your grades/workplace whatever. You have to make yourself wanted. You are wanted by someone who can make you feel like a king. Prosper, OP. You seem like a great guy.

>>607749311
>would have been
If she wasn't a cheating whore. That's exactly what makes her terrible wife material. It has more to do with circumstance allowing you to see that facet of her character that you like than her being particularly special.

You can create a relationship as good as that with someone who isn't a cheating whore. Then you can marry her.

Never marry a cheating whore. It won't last.

>>607749745
Yeah we pretty much are. She's just so dam hot. It's gotten much easier the last few months for some reason. I guess I am just finally giving up.

Fuck some dirty slut to get over ex... it helps

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>>607749984
I know this, and I feel like the self pity party is over.

The thing I hate most about the relationship is the realisation of how many friends I actually lost!

Then I felt even worse when I reached out to them and they were still there for me.

I am working to make myself a better person, my life was almost put on hold because of this girl. But now I am free and freedom can be frightening.

But whatever, you live and you learn and things like this are just another lesson.

>>607747216
Stop comparing yourself to her ex. If he cheated on her and she left you even though you never did, then that speaks volumes about her and not necessarily you.
Some people get scared after that shit. They question themselves constantly. She may not be ready for something functional after that. Think about how this effects her. While youre wondering what you did wrong shes also wondering the same thing about her and her ex. It can fuck you up for a long time.

>>607747216
Same person, i just hope maybe one of you bros can give me some closure so i can move forward

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>>607750256
giving up is probably the wrong phrase to use but I am glad you're getting over her.

Try not to visualise her looks when you think about her. I feel like that would just make it worse.

>>607750726
Done, didn't really help but made me feel wanted again, I have to say.

My fiancée dumped me out of the blue back in 2010. I pretty much gave up on life after that. Will never date again.

>>607750108
I agree anon. It would never work. But I have no interest in getting married again anyway. It was just nice to have someone you get along with and legitimately cared for me but would go home at the end of the night. And I didn't have to buy her shit to win her over. All I had to do was listen to her and occasionally make dinner. We just have the same sick sense of humor. But yeah the whore stuff is not worth it

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>>607751219
No one can give you closure but yourself /b/ro.

You have to realise by yourself that its just "you" now, not a "us" or a "we".

So own that shit, work hard to be the best "you" you can be!

Stop think about what YOU did, what the point?

>>607743870
Wow this picture, thank you anon

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Just move on to the next one. there is too many out there to get caught up on just one

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>>607751249
You just gave up because of someone else. Worst mate.

I feel like you have literally dug yourself 6 feet under and are just sitting there, even though you have the tools all around you to get yourself out.

She dumped you out of the blue, so why does that affect what you do NOW?

>>607751241
Thanks for listening. I have no one I can tell this to

>>607740819
You need to have sex with someone else as soon as possible. Otherwise you will imagine her fucking other guys and feel horrible and worthless. This will take over your personality, destroy your confidence and any ability to pull a girl. You need to casually fuck someone ASAP.

>>607751667
best advice i've gotten, ever as a matter of fact thanks bro im changing everything starting new tonight

>>607751249
I thought I was there with you. Then I dated the girl 14 years younger than me

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Just go out there and get you some

>>607742114
holy shit those are the smallest nipples ive ever seen

In a bulldozer.

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>>607752185
Already done /b/ro. I have too much confidence to even care what she is doing if I am honest.

>>607752142
Don't be silly, we are family here, you guys have always pulled me out of dark places so why can't I repay the favour?

>>607752241
Hey, I am not here to make life decisions for you, you have to do that on your own. Change what you like but don't thanking me.

>>607752321
If only life was a simple as getting laid haha

>>607740819
By getting into a different anime

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>>607752560
I don't know why this made me laugh so hard.

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>>607753072
I started One Piece. But then I realised that it would just waste time when I should be out doing something!

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God I love this gif.

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ttps://mega.co.nz/#F!yoJmjShC!1pCnf__KiY_6pEqRlToLwg

i dumped him so i didn't need to get over Lol. my girls know how to encourage me and help me find another man anyway..guys however just cry with eachother all day. talk about the weaker sex..

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>>607754230
Hahaha hey now be nice.

Its kinda hard to get over someone ripping out your heart. Put yourself in his shoes for a second.

Wanna tell a story?

>>607750835
Then youre a step ahead of me OP. I think in time youre gonna be just fine. Your friends sound great, id keep them around.

Try and occupy yourself with your freedom, OP. Let them come to you.

>>607752951
not about life decisions im just going out and making something of my life, you just gave me the confidence to be myself again

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>>607754717
I dunno man,

It just hit me one day, whats the point of being upset? But we'll see if it lasts.

>>607754806
Sounds good /b/ro. Best of luck to you.

>>607740819
find something else to occupy your time. I had a really bad break up and started doing martial arts. Never had the urge to contact her and overall I felt it turned into a positive because I train at a great school with good people.

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>>607755688
I never understood these kinds of changes. But whatever works for you /b/ro. I'm glad youre doing OK.

>>607740819
I just got the fuck over it. I can switch that shit on and off like a light.

>>607754495
Wow you seem like a really cool guy. People should be more like you.