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Ask a guy with a paralyzed gf anything
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Do you love her? Or are you only with her out of guilt of leaving her.
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>>601595285
what's the price of gas in your town?
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>>601595415
Kek
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>>601595402
Yes I love her very much. I wouldn't be with her otherwise.

>>601595415
$2.25/gal give or take
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>>601595285
Do you live together? If not, do you have plans to move in together?
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Does her crotch stink
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Can she feel sex?
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>>601595285
hows fucking
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How does tge sex work? Does she lwt you do anal because she can't feel anything?
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>>601595285
When was the last time that you cooked a dessert?
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>>601595285
how good is Sex? does she like it? do u have to like wrestle the stumps? do u get rape-drug fantasies when... you know...
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>>601595547
No not at the moment. Yes we do but right now Im on the top floor of an apartment without elevators so that poses some issues.

>>601595566
To be totally honest, alittle but it depends on the day. Her hygiene since the accident has fallen off some.

>>601595615
No she can't

>>601595662
>>601595679
Not great honestly. She hasn't had much desire for sex and takes antidepressants that kill her sex drive. She basically only puts up with it to please me.

>>601595689
Chocolate covered strawberries a few days before valentines lol. they were supposed to be for valentines but we ate them all.
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>>601595966
That sucks about the sex, bro. Do you prefer Pepsi or Coke? Or even an off-brand cola?
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>>601596187
I dont really drink soda but root beeer over all
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>>601595966
how'd it happen?
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>>601596275
What brand of root beer?
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>>601595285
Can she feel sex?

If not, have you ever fucked her ass and told her it was in her pussy?
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>>601596287
Car accident

>>601596327
Any will do. A&W if youre going to make me choose
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Is there any hope of her ever walking or doing other stuff again? Does she do physical therapy to try and regain whatever function she can?

I can understand how she'd be on antidepressants. If I wasn't depressed before, I sure would be after something like that.
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>>601596519
Does she have an automated wheelchair? Also, what video games are you into?
>captcha epeen
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>>601595285
Got nudes? Retards turn me on
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How paralyzed is she? Waist down? Neck Down?
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>>601596519
How long did you know her before the car accident? whos fault was said accident? what exactly happend? how fast can she run?
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>>601595966
A few days before valentines, you didn't even think to get her more.
>>601595402
"Yes I love her very much"

OP has a rape fetish
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>>601596519
was she wearing a seatbelt?
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You're a good dude OP. Don't worry they're working on ways to restore function for paralyzed people. give it another 5-15 years max and she 'll be good.
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>>601595966
Have her try Cymablta. Nearly everyone I know who has taken it calls it a wonder drug. Admittedly I take it as well...has kept me from blowing my brains out.
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hows the blow jobs.

So ur telling me U can't make her scream in ecstasy anymore *:s
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Honest question OP. Is the whole wheelchair thing a turn on for you? I imagine youre more in control and can be more sexually dominant in bed.
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>>601595285
How is the sex? Does it fulfill a fetish? Do you feel like you are protecting her?
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can she do tricks?
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>>601596971
this is a good question. if not, you should teach her some tricks
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When will you post nudes?
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OP, just want to say my heart goes out to both of you. You both have a difficult road ahead. I hope for the best for you both.
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>>601595285
I always wanted a disabled gf
we could snuggle on the couch
she would be shy and not talk much
but that wouldn't matter since we'd be together
I'd gently fuck her for the first time nd it'd be great

i want one so bad

ur a lucky man
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>>601596616
>Is there any hope of her ever walking or doing other stuff again?
No she suffered a complete break, not a compression fracture like many paraplegics.
>Does she do physical therapy to try and regain whatever function she can?
Yeah, went to PT 3 times a week, now once. Mostly to learn how to do shit and build upper body strength.

>>601596695
No, manual chair. I dont really play vidya

>>601596720
Shes t8 level, so mid back down.

>>601596739
>How long did you know her before the car accident?
2 years
>whos fault was said accident?
Hers kinda
>what exactly happend?
She skidded on some ice and plowed into a tree

>>601596774
No she was not

>>601596841
She's never been into giving head. Trying to change that though.

>>601596896
No it doesn't. I just wish she would magically become normal again but I love her so it is what it is.

>>601596928
I already said its not that great

>>601596971
Like in her wheelchair ? no
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>>601597509
how did you two meet?
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Since she's paralyzed from the mid back down, that means she cant control her poopy and pee, do you clean this for her?
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>>601597509
OP, honestly, is the wheelchair a turnoff? I ask because Im pretty sure if that happened thered be no way I could stay with someone whos in a chair.
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>>601597830
>her poopy and pee
You sound like a diaper fetishist or a wet & messy fetishist
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Have you been to any theme parks with her yet?
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>>601598018
newfag
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>>601598018
Lol, fair from it, just wanted to use some silly words
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>>601595285
will she ever have an orgasm again? when was the last one?
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>>601597509
Do you ever just lay there at night and think to yourself "what have I gotten myself into"?
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>>601595285
Tits or gtfo
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>>601597509
I do believe she made a post either earlier today or yesterday.....

Was chatting to her in that thread
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Has she asked you to kill her yet OP?
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>>601597664
We worked together.

>>601597830
She can handle cleanup on her own.

>>601597919
Honestly it kind of is. I love her to death but if I'm being totally candid here, I still feel a bit embarrassed if we're in public together and I see a guy with an attractive able bodied girl. I just really wish this never happened.

>>601598188
She can still kinda orgasm but she says its not very satisfying and leaves her more wound up than releived.

>>601598196
Not really. When its just the two of us sometimes I forget she's paralyzed. I still love to cuddle with her but sometimes we'll be on the couch and I'll move over and go to lay down and then she has to drag herself over and it just makes me really sad and feel like shit.
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>>601598131
Enlighten me then, how do diaper fetishists talk? You sound like you know a lot more about it than I ever will.
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Does she feel it when you nibble a nipple?
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>>601598608
>sometimes I forget she's paralyzed. I still love to cuddle with her but sometimes we'll be on the couch and I'll move over and go to lay down and then she has to drag herself over and it just makes me really sad and feel like shit.

Jesus. this is the most depressing thing Ive read in a while.
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OP, I know im not in the situation, but I feel like if it happened to my girl, I'd stick around and still be happy and proud. Is this how you felt prior to any accident?
>>601598608
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>>601598608
>Not really. When its just the two of us sometimes I forget she's paralyzed. I still love to cuddle with her but sometimes we'll be on the couch and I'll move over and go to lay down and then she has to drag herself over and it just makes me really sad and feel like shit.

Thats fucked. I probably wouldnt be able to stand that shit. Oh well, youre a stronger man that I, OP.
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>>601598608
>When its just the two of us sometimes I forget she's paralyzed. I still love to cuddle with her but sometimes we'll be on the couch and I'll move over and go to lay down and then she has to drag herself over and it just makes me really sad and feel like shit.

My heart
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Does she still feel good from fucking or fapping?
If not, is she still feeling to do it from time to time?
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>>601598817
Yeah she can still feel her breasts and chest area.

>>601598901
I had never really given it thought beforehand.
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who crys more you or her?
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>>601595285
without trying to sell me some bullshit answer like "oh I just really love her":
1.) why would go willingly stay in that relationship? 2.) Is she rich?
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I feel like if I stayed with her, I'd fucking grab her tits and stuff all the time, and bound her arms and nut on her. Do you ever rape her? Have you ever raped her? Have you ever just forced her into anything sexual? Or have you thought about it? Be honest and candid. Remember, we will never know who you are.
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>>601595285
OP you guys going to have kids?
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Do you stick to fapping now or ask her to relieve your sexual desire by requesting head or titfuck?
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>>601599344
thats a little harsh

>>601599412
please go to church this sunday
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>>601598608
>Not really. When its just the two of us sometimes I forget she's paralyzed. I still love to cuddle with her but sometimes we'll be on the couch and I'll move over and go to lay down and then she has to drag herself over and it just makes me really sad and feel like shit.

When that happens to a dog(mans best friend) we know the right decision is to be put down because the total loss of freedom and complete dependency on others kills the dogs soul. Why do you think differently about a human in the exact same situation? You said it yourself that there can be no sexual intimacy and thats a huge thing in a relationship for both sides. Seriously. Take a step back and watch her day-to-day activities and see how much of a cruel and pale shadow they are compared to how she used to be. Theres a reason shes on anti-depressants and what are you gonna do when those stop working? And they will stop working cause the body adjusts. Go to the next pill that works? Should she live her entire life in a drugged state of mind?
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>>601598882
Feels forsure,

better never leave her man!
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If it came to the point where you wanted to break up with her (also including reasons not related to her disability) could you?
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>>601599516
If this is OP, I am dissapointed with the response.
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>>601599872
Why
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DO U LIKE DOGS
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Do you have any pets OP? If not you should consider getting one, they always seem to cheer people up who are down.
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>>601595937
Thi . Now
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>>601599946
OP has no doubt thought about or actually forced something sexual upon gf
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>>601599279
Her by a long shot

>>601599344
No shes not rich

>>601599438
Maybe. I dont know. She can still bear children so thats good.

>>601599468
Yeah, I fap alot more. I have been getting more frequent head since it happened but she still hates doing it.

>>601599602
First off, shes a person. A person I love. Not a fucking dog.

She's more dependent than she was before, but not completely useless.

I didnt say there was no sexual intimacy, just that its not as good as it used to be.

The antidepressants, I'm hoping at least, are just to help her in the transitional period. Even if she needs them forever. who fucking cares. If they work and keep her regulated mentally thats fine by me.

>>601599814
Yeah, if she were a bitch or cheated I'd leave her no questions. Same rules for any relationship. Im not going to treat her differently and out up with shit just because of her situation.

>>601599965
I do

>>601600092
No pets. Ive been talking to her about getting a dog. She says she doesnt want to take care of one but I think a service animal would be great and in turn would be doing more caretaking of her.

>>601600215
I'll admit I'm a bit more suggestive now when it comes to getting head, but never forceful.
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Which one of you is smarter and to what extent?
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Why dont you forcefully push over her wheel chair, like dump her out, but with a little cushion where she would land, and she begin fucking her. like fore warn her, tell her it'll make you happy. and tell her to be weary of mattresses in front of her. Like make fun out of it dude. I know shes paralyzed and still getting use to it. but now you guys can do shit other couples cant.
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>>601600730
I'd say me. Shes not dumb, but very naive and sheltered. She was homeschooled her whole life, so if you've ever met someone like that, you know what I'm talking about.
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>>601595285
does she have orgasms?
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>>601595285
white and gold or blue and black?
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>>601595285
tell us about the accident, was it a hit and run or what?
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>>601601374
blue and black

>>601601449
I already said, she skidded on some ice and plowed onto a tree. She wasnt wearing her seatbelt.
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>>601595285
>paralyzed
>practically veggie
Op, you must take her to the grocery store.
>pick up gf
>set with carrots
>"you're with your people now"
>run like hell
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>>601598608
>Not really. When its just the two of us sometimes I forget she's paralyzed. I still love to cuddle with her but sometimes we'll be on the couch and I'll move over and go to lay down and then she has to drag herself over and it just makes me really sad and feel like shit.
Jesus Christ
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>>601598608
>When its just the two of us sometimes I forget she's paralyzed
>sometimes we'll be on the couch and I'll move over and go to lay down and then she has to drag herself over
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>>601600379
What i'm getting at is we know that its cruel to keep an animal that most people consider an emotionless animal alive when its been hurt in such a way. Now look at what most people consider an animal with a soul and emotions and why wouldn't the mental and cruelty of the situation and how could it not be worse in cruelty and not a greater act of mercy. She'll be surrendered every day by other people you included as a reminder on how fucked up her body is. Also you'd just let her sit there feeling like shit and never truly happy for the rest of her life but let pills keep her just above the mental suicide line? Seriously its cruel as hell.
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>>601601818
youre one seriously fucked up faggot anon
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Who's your favourite spice girl?
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>>601602083
lol I dont even know all of them. I guess posh because shes the one Im most familiar with.
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>>601601980
She's gonna have hard time doing literally anything. Hell, even shit a kid could do easily she'll sttuggle with. Can she even have kids? If so, should she? What kind of mom will she be depressed and handicapped?
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>>601595285
>>601595285
So how does it work???? Can u still pleasure each other??? Are u like Stephen Hawking's wife, but a man????
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>>601600379

Yeah dude, stand up for yourself.
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Do you snigger at jokes about paralyzed people?
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>>601595285
im not gonna say that you are a good person because you stick with her, im gonna say that you are a true men that loves his woman everyday of the week
do u plan to get married?
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>>601601677
That made my laugh and made me feel guilty about laughing
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>>601602241
>>601595285
Sorry for asking about sex again. I'm an insensitive bastard.

U must be a super nice and empathetic guy. How do u be soo nice and kind?????? Are u constantly on cocaine????
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What was the funniest thing or moment you felt bad at laughing at involving her?
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>>601601677
>>601595285
Goddamn it dude!!!! Where's ur humanity????? Have u no soul???? (I'm not op).
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What would you do for a Klondike bar?
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Life can throw us the good and the bad. Enjoy the good, roll with the bad. As technology moves forward it will change.

TC
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>>601602238
She wants to live. Is there a problem with that? What kind of coward do you take OP's girlfriend to be?
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>>601602238
>She's gonna have hard time doing literally anything. Hell, even shit a kid could do easily she'll sttuggle with.

Oh yeah ? like what faggot ?

Shes pretty sufficient. Ill give you the depression angle because shes working through that but what kid stuff cant she do ? Why wouldnt she be a good mother ?


And yes, I already said she can still have kids. Good to see your actually reading the thread and not just shitposting. Oh wait....

>>601602448
No. I never really found them too funny, but now they really rub me the wrong way. Still, I know jokes are jokes and Im not going to go all white knight on someone for making joke unless they're intentionally trying to hurt my baby.

>>601602472
I dont know about marriage. We hadnt been on planning on it before so Im not just going to rush into it now.

>>601602592
I don't know. Ive always been considered a nice guy I guess. I just try to stay positive.

>>601602700
I guess there's two times.
Just the other day she was trying to reach something out of the back of the freezer that was beyond her reach and not ask for help. She didn't realize I could see her and she just kept reaching for about a minute before she looked over at me. We both started laughing.

Then there was a time when she was hotrodding doing donuts in her chair and tipped over. We both had a good laugh there too lol

>>601602929
Not much more than go to the store and buy one
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>>601602892
I'm a ginger, of fucking course I don't have a soul, I have a Klondike bar though.
>what would you do for a Klondike bar?
>set my veggie girlfriend in carrots lel
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>even crippled girls would rather let themselves get pumped and dumped by chads than date someone on their league
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>>601603545
Read the thread. All the best op for you and your girlfriend ! By the way: Is their any finanical support in america ?
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The OP has touched me deeply his commitment to stay and love someone even after she has suffered from such an injury.

Maximum feels on this day.
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>>601603545
Like climbing stairs. Or after the kids a teen reach shit on shelves. Baby tables would be slightly below headheight and a problem. Or will you buy stuff purely for her disability and make that another constant reminder? Cooking or being left alone with a baby will be much more challenging and a child could have an easier time of it. I also like how i make a emotionally challenging statement and you just call it shitposting. I'm looking for a legitimate statement as proof that she'll ever truely be happy or any other paraplegic.
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>>601604056
Its not as bad here as people want to make it out to be. Shes dirt poor but qualifies for medicaid and gets monthly disability checks now. Things would be better if she had better insurance but they could also be a lot worse.
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Hey OP i had a depressive Girlfriend once, she had borderline and depression ( dont know if thats the same or shit im not a fucking doctor)

But it was a really harsh time for me, she cried often and didnt want to see me, then wanted to see me so bad.. I couldnt stay long with her, it was too hard for me, she cried because everything, i bet you know the struggle..

Did you ever plan to break up because she is depressiv or do you ever think "Fuck thats so stupid, that she cries because of everything?"
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>>601602288

Yeah cos she aint gonna do it
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>>601599412
Legally I guess I have raped her a few times. In that I didn't ask for consent.

What I mean is that when she's sleeping and I'm messing around on the internet, I will fuck her. It's not as hot as you'd think. First it's always dry down there, I have to put a lot of lube on myself and in her. The fact that I am almost 100% sure she won't wake up is also kind of depressing.

WHat's worse is sometimes I think she might actually wake up and know I'm doing it and just try to go back to sleep during the act rather than confront me.

It's honestly a very tiny better than masturbating
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>>601604955
Woa man your sex life is pretty fucked up.

Do you considered going to a hooker?
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>>601604955

She's ok with that?
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>>601605200
She doesn't admit to knowing it happens. She might not even know. Either way is depressing.
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>>601605198
Or get an actual girlfriend.
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>>601605268
Dude first you sounded like a happy gentile man but as the threag is going further, you sound more and more depressed
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>>601604484
>Like climbing stairs.
What are lifts ?
> Or after the kids a teen reach shit on shelves.
She's already run into this obstacle and jwe just had ot rearrange things to be lower. Problem solved
>Baby tables would be slightly below headheight and a problem.
Seriously ?/ Now you're just reaching

> Or will you buy stuff purely for her disability and make that another constant reminder?
Well she cant walk or stand, so I don't see the issue. You're really making this into a bigger deal than it is.

>Cooking or being left alone with a baby will be much more challenging and a child could have an easier time of it.
She can still cook. No a child could not. She's an adult with properly developed cognitive thinking processes. COmparing her to a child is absurd.

>I also like how i make a emotionally challenging statement and you just call it shitposting.
It is shitposting. You're obviously less satisfied with your life than my gf is with hers. You're a miserable prick clinging onto everything negative and trying to bring others down so you can to justify your worthless existence.

> I'm looking for a legitimate statement as proof that she'll ever truely be happy or any other paraplegic.

Just because someone is paralyzed doesn't mean the rest of their life is condemned to be complete shit like you so desperately want to believe, or at least convince me of. She has a loving bf, family and shes in a transition period getting used to her situation. It's expected that she'll be emotional but that doesn't render her life not worth living.

>>601604955
>>601605268

^ This is not Me. I would never do that to her.
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Do you see yourself breaking up with her some time in the future?

Would she be prone to suicide if you did?

How did she cope at first, was there a depressive period where it seemed as though she had given up on life completely?
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>>601605544

Thank god. For a second there my view of everything in this thread shattered.

>>601604955
>>601605268
Ya got me anon. Good one.
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>>601595415
double kek'd
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Do you think that she loves you or just is enjoying having a free carer/ a patsy who is going to put up with this?
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how has no one asked for a timestamp
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>>601605793
next to wheelchair or something
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>>601605655
>Do you see yourself breaking up with her some time in the future?
no
>Would she be prone to suicide if you did?
I don't know. I highly doubt it. She's very afraid of death.
>How did she cope at first, was there a depressive period where it seemed as though she had given up on life completely?
Shes still a bit depressed but working through it. Initially she cried ALL the time. I mean constantly. We couldn't even go out to try do something together and cheer her up because she was just bawling nearly all day.

>>601605698
I know she loves me.

>>601605793
>>601605835
We don't live together. I'm at my apartment and shes at her parents.
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>>601605793
this, i wanna see cripple mong tits too
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>>601602592
no hes on /b/, if this was another board and he timestamped, maybe id believe him.
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>>601606030
Do you play any video games?
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>>601596519
you should get some 1919 root beer from minnesota...top notch
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>>601606177
he already said that he doesn't
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>>601606030
k another pic then, but in a frame or something, if your as empathetic as youre trying to sound u should have something like that laying around, and u can timestamp next to it
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>>601606177
No, not really a gamer.

>>601606201
Ill check it out.
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>>601595285
how is she paralyzed? neck down?
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>>601606857
read the thread
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>>601600379

Why are you talking about getting a dog. I thought you guys didn't live together?

I SMELL BULLSHIT
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>>601604667
Lold
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OP here, Holy shit ! Surprised to see this still up even with maintenance.

>>601606253
Here faggot

>>601606857
no

>>601607820
I was trying to talk her into getting a service animal for herself.
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>>601608595
Good god op delivered
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>>601608595
Dat ass. Mod here, i want a picture of her face for personal reasons or i delete thread
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>>601608595
so realistically how often does she shit her pants and how does she react?
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>>601609562
>Dat ass

Looks like she's wearing a diaper
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>>601610182
Used to be daily, but now thats shes got a better grasp of when to eat its every few days or so.

How do you think she reacts ? Its totally embarrassing for her.
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>>601610462
Greentext poop story
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>>601610279
No thats just t0p shelf ass. Niggas call it lava ass, or melting butt, and sometimes even gravitational poon
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>>601611226
>lava ass
>melting butt


LMAO at the fact OPs gf shits her pants and these terms describe her nasty shitty bom perfect
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more pics
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>>601595285


Can you cum inside here without her knowing?
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>>601595285

How's the anal?
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>>601596807


REALLY!??!!

Fu fuckimg SEX ROBOTS?

What a fucked up future.
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This gimmick is overused
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OP is truly a good man
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Does she feel her farts?
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>>601595966
>She basically only puts up with it to please me

Oh that hurts, sorry bro :(
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>>601608595
Will she be able to go back to work at her old job and is that something she's even considered at this point?
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if you became so sexually frustrated, would she let you seek sex outside of the relationship if it were just sex? Would you consider it?
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>>601611427
I'll be here all week
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>>601595285
So op, theres a girl in my class that is in a similar situation as your gf. Shes cute, 8/10, would you recommend pursuing a relationship with someone bound to a wheelchair based off your own experiences?

TLDR: would you have started dating her if she was ALREADY in a wheelchair?
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>>601595285
Do you wipe her after #2?
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Op is her poosay rekt?
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>>601595285
Are you scared that if you leave her, they will invent bionic legs and she will hunt you down with her excessive upper body strength and new terminator legs and shove things up your butt?
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>>601611668
I'm sure I could, but would't for multiple reasons.

>>601611820
She still won't do anal.

>>601612141
no

>>601612175
She hasn't considered it yet.

>>601612220
I don't know. I won't rule it out, but only if he was OK with it. and i doubt she would be.

>>601612234
>would you recommend pursuing a relationship with someone bound to a wheelchair based off your own experiences?
No I would not recommend it.

>TLDR: would you have started dating her if she was ALREADY in a wheelchair?
Honestly, probably not.

>>601612287
No. I only did when she was still stuck in a back and neck brace following the accident.
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>>601606030
How come she drives without a seatbelt IF she's afraid of death?

Is she retarded too?
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Post nudes faggot
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>>601595285
Does she give you a ride on her wheelchair sometimes?
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>>601612826
Kek
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>>601606030
OP check this out http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/23561833

tl;dr
6 patients with complete cervical spine injuries after neurosurgery are able to walk
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>>601612729
Man I don't even have an answer for this. She never wore it. I always gave her shit about it too. She said they were uncomfortable and the usual excuses.

>>601612826
lol not really rides, but I'll sit on her lap sometimes.

>>601612986
Fucking awesome. Thanks anon.
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>>601612729
I'm gonna guess she was under the influence but if it's true and OP is smart he won't say because it'll completely derail the thread.
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>>601595285
Hey you've posted her situation here before. Did she started to take any yoga/pilates classes I suggested you? Where she anyhow improved?
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>>601612703
Wouldn't having children be slightly easier for her? By no mean easy, but not to the degree of hurting
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Did you just move in and fuck her because she can't resist?
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Does it make you depressed? Any dreams unfulfilled together because of it?
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This really makes me wonder if it's ok for me to be depressed when there's so much worse shit in the world
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>>601595566
>Dubs
>No one noticed
>this isn't my /b
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>>601604667

kekd
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>>601595285
Do you have to bath her, clean her up after bath room, shave her and such?

Does she suffer from additional complication?
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>>601595285
Do you consider marrying her?
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>>601613366
>nice double dubs
Not everyone is into your numerology cult.
>>>/s4s/
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>>601613149
No not yet. I have a very hard time getting her out of her house in general.

>>601613247
I really don't know. Of course it wouldn't hurt but I think she may meed a c sec.

>>601613287
It makes me depressed that shes depressed. No thoughts of unfulfilled dreams. Shes still capable of most anything she just needs to get over the mental blocks.

>>601613526
No. We shower together sometimes, but she can still take pretty good care of herself.

>>601613663
its crossed my mind.
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>>601595285
Easy upgrade
>fuck her brains out until kill
>make her cast guardian force Phoenix b4hand
>take feather and shove in her dead pooper
Enjoy fully functional sex slave rinoa as reviving compensation
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>>601595966
>Not great honestly. She hasn't had much desire for sex and takes antidepressants that kill her sex drive. She basically only puts up with it to please me.

Dem feels. I currently bang a good friend's girl (I'm closer with her, knew her longer) because he had cancer, recovered, but the treatment killed his ability to get hard/ejaculate.

I have this huge, heartfelt note from her about how important he is to her, and how happy she is that she's found me because she doesn't want to lose him for one simple part of their relationship, but a part that causes serious idiocy if it's not fulfilled often.

No he doesn't know. I mean, she hot, so I think he has an idea, but he def doesn't think it's me.
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>>601601677
kek
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>>601613366
shiiiiiiiiiiit you wottttttttttttt
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In a fight between a bear and a shark, who would win?
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>>601595285
Does she have those cool lever things to drive her car with?
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>>601613705
>No not yet. I have a very hard time getting her out of her house in general.

I guess private yoga/pilates courses would be very expensive where you are, however online guides by expertise on youtube should be a great alternative for the time being.
Watch what this guy was able to do to a paraplegic patient.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qX9FSZJu448
While he was in a totally different situation, he has his life vastly improved.
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Post pic before accident
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>>601602892
Do you know where you are?
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>>601595285
will she walk in those powered walking assistance exo-skeleton anytime soon?
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>>601603545
>No. I never really found them too funny, but now they really rub me the wrong way. Still, I know jokes are jokes and Im not going to go all white knight on someone for making joke unless they're intentionally trying to hurt my baby.
And do you ever laguh to other dark humor? Holocaus jokes and stuff?
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>>601596971
>>601597165
what
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>>601611820
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>>601613734
Damn thats intense. Dont know how I feel about that.

>>601613948
Shark in water bear on land

>>601613984
No she hasnt started driving again yet.

>>601614062
Thanks man.

>>601614095
here


>>601614166
Too expensive man

>>601614223
It really depends on the joke. Tell me a good cripple or nazi joke and I might laugh, but most of that 'dark humor" is just edgy tryhard bullshit.
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>>601614166
I know it's retarded to want a disability, but

>yfw your gf gets power armor b4 you do and lives your dream of being a cyborg
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>>601603545
He's not a faggot, he is right.

A baby needs the stimulation of a moving mother for it's own development. Only because her uterus is still fine to carry a baby doesn't mean she should do it, because your risk is much higher to get a disabled kid when the mother can't walk.

You also clearly never cared for small kids, they are bundles of energy, Enough healthy women struggle, yours will be done before noon...
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>>601595533
Those sound like jersey prices is maybe Philly
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>>601595285
Nice fantasy waifu potential, I guess all those years of battling and chocobo riding took their toll after FFVIII
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>>601613734
what the fuck
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Has she gained weight?
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>>601595285
God op, you are really an awesome man. I wish I was half the man you are. I am in fact a scum bag though. I really hope medicine gives your girl back what that accident took away.

Also, I hope you both wear your fucking seat belts at all times now.
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>>601598608
What was the first thing that you thought after you heard she'd be paralyzed for life?
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Op you are a good man I too have a gf that has a similar life changing condition. Seriously you are stronger than you know god bless.
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>>601613734
Good lord thats awful. Really dont blame you though especially since she is seems almost dependent on you thats hard to turn down
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>>601597509
>Not wearing a seatbelt

Stupid bitch deserved it. Dump her op, she did this to herself
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>>601614890
I don't think that was OP
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>>601595285
Does she have a big ass
[spoiler] i don't want to sound insensitive but guys paralyzed from the waist down usually don't have working shit so does her pussy work?[/spoiler]
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>>601597509
>I just wish she would magically become normal again
Now I'm sad. Sorry for both of you.
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>>601614396
>>601614396
How does it make you feel that this is all your gfs fault. IF she had just worn a fucking seat belt she and you wouldn't be in this position.
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>>601613366
Then get out.. What's the fucking point in caring about a stupid post number. This is an interesting thread where people care more about the thread than some stupid post numbers.

And yes i did see you dubs. And no, I don't fucking care.

OP, this has been interesting. I wish you and you girlfriend all the best.
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>>601595285
Where the fuck do you find a paralyzed gf, going hunt around highways and wait for an accident to drag your prize off the wrekcage and haul it back to your place?
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>>601614396
I just had met a guy who was a paraplegic. Never had any kind of real disabled friend before so I was not sure what it would be like to be around him. One of the most brilliant people I have ever met and I am not saying that out of pity not on /b/. Religion really seems to give him positivity would you ever consider trying to encourage her to find spiritual guidance?
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>>601615353
This so much. Why the fuck would you not wear a seatbelt? And while driving on ICE? Dumb cunt
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>>601614744
Yeah, she hasnt gotten fat, but much doughier around the hips and stomach.

>>601614780
I was just concerned for her. Also the typical thought of whats sex going to be like now lol.

>>601615353
Im not mad about it. Just sad she didn't listen and use better judgment.


>>601615475
Shes not particularly religious. The rest of her family is though.
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>>601614417
A lot of truth in that. I don't think having kids is an option, no to mention you will need to have a c-section.
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>>601615509
Jesus man i always wear my seatbelt just incase what a dumby.
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can she get pregnant?
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>>601600379
>First off, shes a person. A person I love. Not a fucking dog.
>She's more dependent than she was before, but not completely useless.

That's what YOU feel. Because of that, you'll bind her in a hell-like life?
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>>601615719
what do you tell her when she's crying over not being able to walk?
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>>601615719
What I am asking though is do you think that you would ever encourage a theological approach to try to give her some stress relief and positivity? Not maybe going to church but meditation
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What is her objection to anal? Or does it not go beyond "no"?
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>>601595285
Would you dump her during a zombie apocalypse?
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>>601615869
Who the fuck said she wanted it? Quit shit-posting, anon.
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>>601614682
>Damn thats intense. Dont know how I feel about that

There will come a point in your life where (if you're not being fulfilled as you would like), you'll be challenged with the desire to be fulfilled. This doesn't mean that you're shit as a person, it just means that one instinctual part of you, if left untouched, could >potentially< be a seed of resentment that grows against your partner. In this girls case, she's madly in love with her husband. BUT, she's young, they're both very physically active and happy, decent income, travel the world, and are still sexual (he pleases her), but once in a while she gets so frustrated that she just comes over and takes it out on me.

She just knows herself to know that, if she didn't, she'd likely end up doing something stupid causing drama resulting in losing a relationship that she's 99.9% happy in with that .1% being no fault of his. Both are aggressively trying to fix it though (why they travel internationally, actually) and I believe they will, and when that happens, I'm out.

You'll hit that though. Maybe not with sex, but you'll it that quandry in some way. You just have to have the forethought to handle it in a way that doesn't result in damaging your image of her, as I'm certain she'd rather fulfill all your needs.


>>601614890
>Good lord thats awful. Really dont blame you though especially since she is seems almost dependent on you thats hard to turn down

Not even a little. I'm literally a no drama kinky action freak. The three of us still hang out together, and now that it's been a few years, she doesn't feel so bad anymore.

>>601615383
>This is an interesting thread where people care more about the thread than some stupid post numbers.

That's why I posted it anon. I found exactly that, funny.
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>>601603545
>Then there was a time when she was hotrodding doing donuts in her chair and tipped over.

As somebody who has spent a lot of his life in a wheelchair, this give me the feels. At least she laughed about it.
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>>601615864
yes

>>601615966
I just say its going to be ok and youll get through it. I dont really say much though. Just huge her and be there for her.

>>601616079
It's not a bad idea, but I don't know how to influence that decision. Its all up to her.

>>601616154
Thats degrading and "gross". the Usual excuses

>>601616214
Well if we're talking absurd hypotheticals. I'd equip her chair with rocket launchers and tank treads.
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>>601615869
(Not OP) He is her boyfriend not her fucking Dad you nigger lover. And hell like life is pretty fucking subjective if your view of life is so narrow that you think you cant find fulfillment without legs I am sorry
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>>601597509
have you looked into stem cells op?
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OP what are your thoughts on the movie: The Intouchables?
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>>601616324
I rather my girl fucking someone I did not know then someone who is my good friend. I personally like to think I could say no to one of my good friends girl in a situation like that. I would want her to just tell him, and if they are as in love and happy as you say they are, he would understand... Going behind his back makes it look bad. And who is to say she wont start to develop feelings from the sex? Almost always happens. I feel bad for you Anon, but I am curious.. How is the sex? Does she just bang and leave or does she lay around and pillow talk? Does she just show up and immediately get down to business? How long have you been doing this with her and how many times have you fucked? How often do you fuck her?
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>>601616775
OP, don't lisssten to thiss anon, exo-skeleton is way cooler.
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>>601616324
Tell how it all came about? About the first time you fucked her? How did it happen?
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>>601612599
kek
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>>601616853
I never even looked at my friend's gals like that, however some of them ended up fucking mine when my back was turned, even had a few steal from me. Filthy fucks, all of them. I'd rather my gal break it off with me than fuck around behind my back, no matter the situation. If she can't show any control or restraint, then I have no need being with her.
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>>601616324
When all three of you are around you don't feel any kind of guilt? I think I might just simply not understand the situation it would be easy to stand on moral high ground but I cant even begin to imagine putting myself in her shoes.
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>>601616775
Of course.

>>601616789
Havent seen it. Neither has she. Everyone says we should watch it but shes not into it.
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Do you ever worry about the chance that she will just let herself go and put on a lot of weight? Does she still wear make up and shit to sort of try and look good for you?
> hang in there OP you're stronger than most of us
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Op if you're wondering how to break up with her I have an idea.
Take her to a vegetable store, set her next to carrots.
>"you're with your people now "
Run like hell
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Cuck fag
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Would she agree to you posting nudes of her? If so, please do.
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>>601617262
It's my favorite movie, ur a good man btw! My father was nearly paralyzed after a car hit him from behind at a stoplight. he had a broken back, and almost paralyzed.
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>>601595285
anon, have you tried to make a deal with the devil to get her back on her feet again?
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>>601617209
I respect that, but you didn't answer any of the questions I asked and I am seriously curious.
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>>601616775
>>601616932
>healed gf vs robo gf
You know the right answer op
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>>601617727
Ahh sorry, wrong anon here bud. Just my personal thoughts and experience on the matter.
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>>601616853
> I rather my girl fucking someone I did not know then someone who is my good friend. I personally like to think I could say no to one of my good friends girl in a situation like that

Not to be offensive, but I just see that as archaic thinking. My friends are fucking awesome, and if someone I dated fucked one of them before, during, or after, I'd be a lot more relieved than if it was some unknown quantity.

Don't look at her as a position, but an individual. She's known me. She knows I wont come between them, I wont cause drama, I wont make noise, and that I'll bow out due to intimate knowledge of me prior to this situation.

I know my friends are good people that would never intentionally hurt anyone, and if my girl fucked one of them, I'd totally get it. She's awesome, because I'm dating her, they're awesome because they're my friends, so I totally get the attraction would be there.

Would I want that? No. But I'm human and so are they, it's better and less stressful to both partners to protect individuality and choice. You'll find you're chosen more often simply because of that.

> I would want her to just tell him, and if they are as in love and happy as you say they are, he would understand...

She is working up to that, but that's her deal. I wont rob her of telling him when/how she sees fit.

> Going behind his back makes it look bad.

No argument there, but the thing about "cheating" is it's defined by the accuser and it always looks bad. She's just not interested in what everyone else has to say, just that she can look her self in the mirror. She believes telling him will dampin his desire to work with her to get fixed.
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Do you think that you two will stay together, OP?
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>>601617272
Yeah, I am worried about her gaining weight. Shes already packed on a few lbs.

She still wears makeup but not nearly as regularly. Honestly she's kinda fucked off her appearance to a certain extent.

>>601617587
Absolutely not. She wouldn't let me take nudes when she was able bodies. No way its happening now.

>>601617605
I'd consider watching it and Ive heard good things but I almost always watch movies with her and she doesnt want to see it lol.

She's somewhat of a contrarian and hates the fact everyone tells her to check out that movie. She compares it to telling an asian person to watch some Jackie Chan or a black person 12 years a slave.
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>>601616853
> Does she just bang and leave or does she lay around and pillow talk?

Pillow talk, but it's like the text/phone convos we've had for a decade or so now in front of him. Nothing new and emotional, just how awesome a dude he is. She's gone pretty quick too.

> Does she just show up and immediately get down to business?

Yea. When she sees me, she's about to do something stupid (her words), there's no foreplay except to get me hard and get her needs met pronto.

> How long have you been doing this with her and how many times have you fucked? How often do you fuck her?

Hmmm about a year after the accident (they went from multiple sex a day to 0)? So 3 years? It's getting less, but was at it's height during the depression of the prognosis of never being sexually active again.
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you're a greater man than I OP, good luck and god bless.
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>>601618024
Don't let her gain weight OP
Sneak those nudes
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>>601617209
>I never even looked at my friend's gals like that, however some of them ended up fucking mine when my back was turned, even had a few steal from me. Filthy fucks, all of them. I'd rather my gal break it off with me than fuck around behind my back, no matter the situation. If she can't show any control or restraint, then I have no need being with her.

Your gal is no better at, nor has any responsibility to protect you from your poor choices in friend more than she does the ability to fix a prognosis of a flaccid penis regardless of how bad she'd like to.

All I'm saying is that, you're in more control than you play it (speaking to all anons, not just you so if it doesn't apply ignore). If someone isn't acting to your standards of friends, just don't consider them so. The people I hang out with, and what they do with/to me is my responsibility to fix.

I was always told: "If you take responsibility for something, regardless of being at fault for it, you assume control over it and gain the power to change it."
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>>601618024
In answer to the weight problem. Have you though about the idea of working out like upper body stuff at the gym or is she not ready that many people possibly looking at her?
I think it would be a good way for you both to maintain a bond if you were to train with her, plus it would be a good confidence step for her to go out in public and ignore what people say, as well as it would keep off the pounds for the both of you
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Forgot picture
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>>601618040
>after the accident

You said he had CANCER you FAGGOT

YOU ARE THE CANCER

GTFO BULLSHITTER
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>>601618010
I wish I was more like you Anon, you seem like a really confident guy. I use to be, then I lost it all. Now I am pretty much a loser who doesn't leave my house. Makes me sad thinking about how far I have fallen.
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>>601618420
Yeah accident you said cancer
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>>601618420
I meant to say incident, but was reading op's post where he said "after the accident". I mirrored by accident. My bad. When I read your post, I actually was like "so this dipshit has us confused". LOL.
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