Found out yesterday that my mom and dad are separating and that
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Found out yesterday that my mom and dad are separating and that my dad is going to England to spend the weekend with some woman. I asked my mom if this means dad has been cheating on her, and she said I should ask him, which I take as a yes.
This all happened after they had a big fight yesterday where my mom was sobbing and moving all her things into another room and my dad wasn't saying much at all. Then I got the "dad doesn't love mom anymore" and was told they're taking a break.
I'm furious at my dad but I don't really know how to deal with this situation.
>>17369091
First of all, how old are you?
>>17369102
20, and I'm half moved out - custody isn't an issue
>>17369108
How long until you're living on your own? Also, what exactly is your problem here?
>>17369091
Your parents are people.
Their marriage failed. It happens often.
As long as they are nice to you and both of them have been good people to you, it shouldn't be your concern.
It is probably painful for both of them.
Probably it's not something they decided today - maybe they have been problems you weren't aware of for ages.
If your dad cheated, it's unfair of him for sure. But you shouldn't be the furious one.