Does this make me a lesbian?
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22-year-old female. Sexually, I feel almost exclusively attracted to women. I can be turned on by looking at most of the women who are my age. Also, I feel attracted emotionally to women (crushes etc.)
I sometimes feel emotionally attracted to men too (in the form of crushes sometimes). However, my sexual attraction to men is very low/virtually non-existent. I can feel very faintly sexually attracted to men. Sex with men can be tolerable, but definitely not fulfilling (I find it hard to get really turned on and I could never be in a monogamous long-term relationship with a man). I could only be in a long-term relationship in a man if I didn't have to sleep with him often and if I could cheat on him with other women.
Does this make me a lesbian?
>>17367347
bamp
need response
>>17367347
You sound like a 4 on the kinsey scale. Sexuality can get confusing as people age because over time they can get completely turned off by certain genders.
>muh sexual fluidity
>>17367347
Sexuality isn't a binary thing, if you're still somehow sexually attracted to men, even if minimal, you're definitely not a full lez.
Sorry if it's a stupid question, but how does it even matter? If you feel more attracted to girls, hook up with girls. What meaning has it to assign names like lesbian or hetero to it?
