It's break and my parents want to go on a family vacation while I'm still home. They asked me about places I want to go, and my number one choice is Japan since I have friends there, as well as weebshit. Thing is, I don't think I would be comfortable going with parents. Last year when I went to Japan alone, I really enjoyed not being dragged around to places I didn't want to go, and not having relatives look through my purchases. My parents and I don't share the same interests and I feel that if we were to take a vacation to Japan, it wouldn't be an enjoyable experience for anyone.
>>17363015
then go somewhere you think you would enjoy as a family.
protip: if ur answer is 'I DONT THINK ID ENJOY ANY VACATION WITH MY FAMILY'
then you are spoiled fucking shit who cant see anything beyond himself.
>>17363015
pick another destination?
But go with your parents in any case, unless you really find something worth doing with someone else. You won't have much more chances to travel with them, and you will regret not goint on a family vacation in a few years time.
At least it's me, 10 years later now I regret staying home while my parents travelled...
Plan some places that you all want to go to together ahead of time, and propose that you spend some parts of the trip split up to do your own things.
> I really enjoy not having relatives look through my purchases
Can you explain why that is? I know that I have a relative that is a bit more frugal than me and gets on my case about spending too much money on pretty much everything that I don't get the best deal on. Is it like that? Or do you just not want you're family seeing you buy weeb souvenirs and call you childish? Or are some of your purchases possible to interpret as perverted in nature? Is it your own money you'll be spending, or theirs? If it's your money, can't you just tell them to mind their own business or are you worried about their judgement anyway?
>>17363036
I guess it's the same situation. I have a bunch of weeb souvenirs from last time that they know about, as well as my figure collection. I don't think I would buy any porn or anything perverted since I could just download the former, and I think the latter is distasteful. My mom is neutral about my anime-related purchases, and my dad thinks it's a waste of money, but they accept it either way. I feel as if they would take offense if I told them explicitly to mind their own business.
