I immediately become uninterested after I ejaculate
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This has been going on for a while, every time I cum I have this uninterested mindset. I wouldn't call it boredom, it's this weird thing where If I'm masturbating to something I find really hot, the moment I cum there's this thing in the back of my head telling me that it's not all that hot. How can I change this? I'll elaborate if you need more info.
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This sounds like porn induced erectile dysfunction. Despite the name it mainly affects the brain. Google to learn more about it but there is a good chance you have it.
In a nutshell: Cut the porn, gradually cut out the masturbation, and find a way to keep your mind off it.
>>17331794
Funny coincidence. I jack it about 5 times a week or so, not twice a day. Is that my problem? I didn't think I jerked off that much.
>>17331813
This.
Public service announcement: if you can't cum without looking at porn, you're doing something wrong.
>>17331813
Damn, how the hell do I avoid porn in 2016??
>>17331884
Well. The way i did it:
1) Delete all porn from your PC. ALL. Even that fucking amazing HD video with that blonde girl that would bent her lower back 90 deegres when getting fucked doggy style.
2) Don't try to cut out masturbation right away. Cut all porn but masturbate every now and then using either memories from past hookups or your imagination.
3) Minimize the triggers. Avoid porn sites and when you get the urge simply do something else. Personally, i downloaded a ton of PDFs to read whenever i had free time because the urges came mainly on my free time while i was surfing the net.
I've been having a similar issue lately. Usually after I cum I think in my head that I'm disgusting, that I'm a male stereotype and that I'm even worse than that because I can't get off to anything vanilla anymore. I wish I could talk to someone in person about it but that's just so embarrassing. This thread helps though, at least I know other people are having similar issues.
This just sounds like the usual guilt kids just discovering masturbation feel.
